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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | I was harassed by a man who stared at me like this: Is this the sociopathic sexual predator stare?I agree, it's very obvious what they are doing... The obvious ones anyways. Some are good at hiding ,(psychopaths) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 05:49 AM |
| 8 | I was harassed by a man who stared at me like this: Is this the sociopathic sexual predator stare?I've heard about that sociopaths and predators have that stare when they are planning on abusing or preying on you. I've recently experienced this by two men who I think were sociopaths that were trying to prey on me. This looks like the stare, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 05:26 AM |
| 5 | Ugh, I am so frustrated that I was groomed by society to think stalking, predator and abusive behavior was normal and romantic!!Oh yes, so true.. the older generation is the worst. Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Needing support: I was sexual harassed on at a Ayahuasca spiritual event by a narcissistic sociopath and I fought back!All the support Is so validating so def better :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Needing support: I was sexual harassed on at a Ayahuasca spiritual event by a narcissistic sociopath and I fought back!Thanks! I am not dating at all as I heal myself personally. Depends on where you are on your healing journey. I have to focus on myself 💯 so I wouldn't be able to give much To a partner which isn't ideal for a healthy relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 09:49 PM |
| 5 | Needing support: I was sexual harassed on at a Ayahuasca spiritual event by a narcissistic sociopath and I fought back!Thank you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 03:33 AM |
| 8 | Needing support: I was sexual harassed on at a Ayahuasca spiritual event by a narcissistic sociopath and I fought back!Thank you so much! Yes, it does make sense predators would flock in this area. Yeah, he def seemed like the kind of guy who used the medicine for fun and had an easy time with it instead of doing the inner work, obviously since he is so abusive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 03:33 AM |
| 7 | Needing support: I was sexual harassed on at a Ayahuasca spiritual event by a narcissistic sociopath and I fought back!Thank you 💟 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 09:56 PM |
| 19 | Needing support: I was sexual harassed on at a Ayahuasca spiritual event by a narcissistic sociopath and I fought back!Thank you and yes you are right!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 09:28 PM |
| -1 | Did I get sexually harassed in ER?Oh ok. Does your breast get flicked or just brushed slightly? Even by women? Thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Did I get sexually harassed in ER?Right thank you, I felt sexual energy from both of the EKG workers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Did I get sexually harassed in ER?Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 09:31 PM |
| 4 | Did I get sexually harassed in ER?Thanks for your feedback. While I'd like to give these men the benefit of the doubt like you have, I not going to. The man who followed me to the bathroom was staring at my butt and when I turned around to show him I saw what he was doing, he made a sound like he was caught red handed and guilty (hard to explain). Also the EKG men didn't just brush against my boob, it was aggressively pushed like on purpose. I'm gonna have to go with my gut here and my years of PTSD from sexual abuse unfortunate… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Are most men creeps that exhibit predatory behavior?!So funny that you say this!! I’ve recently accepted/ realized I am not fully straight and I have been feeling some relief because Of that (I was attracted to a transmasculine person recently). I feel so much safer when I am not around cis-men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 07:51 PM |
| 6 | Are most men creeps that exhibit predatory behavior?!It may be biological to a certain degree but that doesn’t mean they can’t stop or control themselves. Just like the rest of us that have to control harmful actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else feel shame for not being traditionally “feminine” due to your assertiveness, courage and leader qualities?Lol 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 01:56 PM |
| 6 | During this time...Amen sister | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 04:34 PM |
| 2 | So triggering when men minimize the impact of leering... it makes me second guess my reaction. What do you all think about his statement?Omg that is crazy and so deceitful he did that and then she protected him?! Sorry you went through that! He chose her on purpose so he could get away with stuff! Good for you for protecting yourself and getting out if there! Yeah this was actually my first addiction meeting, I had no idea there would be predators! I assumed everyone would be trying to get better and be kind!! But nope, the two leaders of the group had to sexualize me. So glad we have realized we were not to blame for their poor … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 12:26 AM |
| 1 | So triggering when men minimize the impact of leering... it makes me second guess my reaction. What do you all think about his statement?Ew omg! Thanks for shutting him down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | So triggering when men minimize the impact of leering... it makes me second guess my reaction. What do you all think about his statement?Gotcha!! Okay thank you for explanation 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 04:04 PM |
| 2 | So triggering when men minimize the impact of leering... it makes me second guess my reaction. What do you all think about his statement?Ugh! Sorry you had to experience this as well! Apparently there is a term for what we experienced: “13rd stepping” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 03:28 PM |
| 1 | So triggering when men minimize the impact of leering... it makes me second guess my reaction. What do you all think about his statement?Ok thank you! Edit: never mind, I figured out meaning of double down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 03:27 PM |
| 5 | So triggering when men minimize the impact of leering... it makes me second guess my reaction. What do you all think about his statement?Ok, so because this guy who looked at me and was trying not and was embarrassed... it wasn’t leering/sexual harassment? I need some help processing what happened to me (see below): “I was at an addiction meeting and I was passionately agreeing saying “mmhmm” a lot and one man got a boner. He looked like he didn’t want that to happen and was embarrassed. Then when we were leaving the meeting, his hands were shaking as he ran to the door, it looked like he was trying not to look at me. Then he ope… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 12:05 PM |
| 6 | So triggering when men minimize the impact of leering... it makes me second guess my reaction. What do you all think about his statement?Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Who else felt it was your fault you were sexualized because of your bubbly/friendly personality and poor boundaries?Love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Who else felt it was your fault you were sexualized because of your bubbly/friendly personality and poor boundaries?Lol! Good idea, though!!!! I will try that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Who else felt it was your fault you were sexualized because of your bubbly/friendly personality and poor boundaries?True!!! Boundaries are the key here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 09:46 PM |
| 4 | It is hard for me to blame and hold accountable “nice” abusers who tried hard not to sexualize me but “couldn’t help themselves.”So true!! Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Who else felt it was your fault you were sexualized because of your bubbly/friendly personality and poor boundaries?Thank you! Yes, I agree.. we really can’t change others but ourselves. Yes, true..I can change my energy to make them not feel welcome if I feel they are unsafe. I have to remind myself that It doesn’t mean I have to change who I am. I can still be myself around safe people. I just have to make sure I give not welcome vibes and set boundaries around unsafe people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 07:04 PM |
| 17 | Y I K E S, I honestly don’t even know what to say anymore...It’s called traumatic bonding. Toxic relationships become normal, familiar and addicting due to our original abusive relationship with our parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 06:23 PM |
| 10 | Y I K E S, I honestly don’t even know what to say anymore...Sick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 06:18 PM |
| 10 | Success: I reported predators of an organization and they were forced to go through training to stop their behavior!Yes, thank you! Yes I am sure some of the women may have had a hunch this was going on. One of the men said he didn’t have empathy in the group and he came across as a total narcissist!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Who else had to unlearn normalizing and being flattered by men creepily leering and sexualizing you?Yes!!! So relatable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 12:43 PM |
| 42 | Mood.Same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 10:32 PM |
| 5 | Who else had to unlearn normalizing and being flattered by men creepily leering and sexualizing you?Same!!! I’m now looking at old music videos and can’t finish them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 08:54 PM |
| 122 | Mood.Seriously I wish I was a lesbian honestly so I wouldn’t have to be around them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 08:47 PM |
| 39 | Ladies, I think I found a HVMTrue, love bombing is a thing from abusers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else feel like you don’t deserve to report creepers/stalkers due to your own mentally ill/hyper-sexual/creepy past?Thank you 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 01:33 PM |
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