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I just went out alone, and I talked to a group of guys, who introduced me to their female friends. It worked so easily, but I think the group of guys I met were just really friendly.
/r/seduction22/05/16 07:04 AM
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5/13: talked to friend. Hot men approach her, strike up a conversation, and get her number. I gotta do that with women.
/r/seduction13/05/16 07:36 AM
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5/1: Saw HB9 on train up to the city. Thought about her, and decided to move into the same compartment as her. When the train stopped due to an issue, I asked her what the next stop was. She seemed neutral in her response. Definitely the hottest woman I've talked to yet since starting my journey. Asked lady on bus next to me where the bus was going. Asked two guys how the Ubers worked. Talked to Uber driver after awkward silence, and he was receptive.
/r/seduction02/05/16 06:11 AM
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4/29: Talked to Chinese lady and her daughter. They weren't too receptive, but I didn't feel fazed. Confident Asian guy said, "This is for you." "What's for me?" "This is for you. I'm about to throw up". His confidence was through the roof, and it made me laugh.
/r/seduction29/04/16 05:16 AM
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I finally understand I place pussy on the pedestal. Whenever an ugly woman/guy treats me rudely, I'm not fazed. When a hot girl treats me rudely, I think I'm not worthy of her. I should think of her as just another rude person
/r/seduction25/04/16 04:15 AM
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Asked girl in elevator where to go for good Asian food. She wasn't too interested in talking.
/r/seduction25/04/16 03:13 AM
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talked to girl in subway and walked with her for a bit. found out she's from Japan and here for an internship. I hesitated slightly because I didn't want to game her, but I have to remember, you can get to know someone without gaming them. Also went on a date with a girl through a park. I kept cutting her off when speaking, so I need to work on that.
/r/seduction25/04/16 03:13 AM
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I learned tonight that it doesn't matter if the girl is hot or not. Some ugly girls will be mean to you. Some hot girls will be nice to you. It's all about the person. Not how hot they are.
/r/seduction24/04/16 05:48 AM
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asked two ladies for directions to good restaurant. asked 2 other girls for directions to good restaurant. struck up 2 hour conversation with 2 ladies at a restaurant. Talked to guy on plane and Uber driver. Very social day today.
/r/seduction24/04/16 04:09 AM
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asked lady for directions to restaurant, talked to lady behind counter
/r/seduction18/04/16 07:07 AM
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eye fucked at least 5 cute girls and held eye contact. Complimented guy with tight pants on his outfit. Complimented guy on his shoes. Talked to lady in elevator about pizza. Asked one guy and a group of 3 where the park was. Asked a couple where lululemon was.
/r/seduction17/04/16 02:17 AM
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try memorizing a poem when walking. also, most of these girls have boring lives. remember that, and you'll feel better. they'd be losers if they were guys.
/r/seduction13/04/16 07:45 AM
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adjustments for next time: approach some normal looking women to start, but from then on, only approach women that intimidate you sexually. Also, don't think, just do. It's much more effective than scanning the mall for women to approach. You will scare yourself too much by doing that.
/r/seduction31/03/16 03:03 AM
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3/30: approached 10 more sets of girls asking where the store is. For the last 2, I wanted to approach women I was attracted to or that looked attractive or formidable. Some highlights were approaching a girl with tons of makeup and high heels on, and she was surprisingly nice. Another tall Asian girl, probably in high school, was super sweet. She was also by far the most beautiful of the girls I approached. I saw an Asian woman with red lipstick, probably in her late twenties or early thirties.…
/r/seduction31/03/16 03:01 AM
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whoops, I mean 3/29
/r/seduction30/03/16 10:04 PM
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3/39: went up to individual girls, groups of girls, and couples and asked them where a store was. On Sunday, I got a cold "no, sorry" from a relatively unattractive woman that rattled me. Yesterday, pretty much everyone was responsive and helpful. The most gorgeous girl actually told me very nicely with a smile, and two girls realized they pointed me in the wrong direction and came to help.
/r/seduction30/03/16 10:04 PM
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Today I went strolling through the mall, partly to look for shoes and partly to kill my AA. I approached several people, asking them where several stores where, and most of them answered. The one that really rattled me was one who coldly told me, "I don't know, sorry". In retrospect, it wasn't that bad, but the manner in which she coldly answered shook me up way more than it should have. That just means I need to approach more to progressively desensitize myself.
/r/seduction28/03/16 01:59 AM
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I'm doing all of this now. I give women whom I think are cute eye-contact and a smile with ease. This means it's time to take it up a notch and ask attractive women where a location is.
/r/seduction27/03/16 04:04 PM
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It made approaching girls a bit easier when I finally got the balls to+it was fun coming out of my introvert shell! What was the turning point for getting the balls to approach? Did you take a leap of faith after chatting with various people and escaping your introverted shell?
/r/seduction06/03/16 08:30 AM
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That is amazing advice. It's always nice to hear what it's like from the other side. Thanks for sharing :)
/r/seduction04/03/16 05:23 AM
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That was an inspiring read. I wasn't expecting Shakespeare-esque writing, but it was still riveting. Congrats on having the guts to approach a cute girl :)
/r/seduction03/03/16 07:15 AM
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This is easier said than done, but it seems like you've put her on a pedestal. Remove her from the pedestal mentally. To do this, go out into a crowded area in your town/city where you'll see occasionally/frequently cute women. Imagine that you can be with any of them. Then you'll adopt an abundance mentality that'll help you remove this girl from the pedestal.
/r/seduction03/03/16 07:12 AM
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1) There are plenty of women out there. Just b/c you "failed" with this one doesn't mean your life is over. 2) You might see her again. 3) Channel your regret into something productive. Start saying "hi" to strangers, holding doors open for other people behind you, smiling at those who lock eyes with you. There are plenty of other attractive women out there. Keep your eyes open, and you'll realize that :)
/r/seduction03/03/16 07:07 AM
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Okay, I'll take note of that. Thanks for the advice!
/r/seduction02/03/16 04:34 AM
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interesting idea. I'll try that next time.
/r/seduction02/03/16 04:34 AM
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stalker mentality - noted. To be fair, I was waiting for my friend's text to go to bday party and didn't want to go home and use the computer. In any case, thanks for the reminder. I don't want to be a creep :) cliff analogy - great tip! putting girl on a pedestal - yeah, I need to work on that. Thanks for the feedback!
/r/seduction28/02/16 06:53 PM
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Yes, I learned that last night for sure! Perfect moments don't exist. Thanks for the encouragement.
/r/seduction28/02/16 05:09 PM
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thanks for the advice, PUAgrey! I'll start small and give genuine compliments to people I meet on the street for several days and go from there.
/r/seduction28/02/16 05:08 PM
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