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Ha! Noted. Splish splash.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/18 12:08 AM
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Gotcha. I wasn’t sure how much I should get into it.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/18 12:07 AM
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Hey OP, you need to teach me. Apparently Reddit won’t allow me to PM you, but I relate to everything you said. I’ve noticed the power of envy. I’ve also noticed taking the wind out of the sails of targets when I mention certain things. Wife is also open to me exploring as long as the other woman doesn’t feel like she has a special, intimate connection with me that the wife doesn’t (her words). That said, how do you do it? How do you get targets on board? Do you involve the wife? What are things …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/18 12:03 AM
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This ^
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/18 03:43 PM
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Hell yea. Thanks man. Should I say "Let's figure something else out because I noticed some around the back door" ? (she gave up the ass to me the other day for her first time lol)
/r/askTRP16/09/15 05:39 PM
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I didn't answer yet, and she just added "and its expensive"
/r/askTRP16/09/15 05:09 PM
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She just said "yea I've done it, hurts like a motherfucker"
/r/askTRP16/09/15 05:05 PM
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Ok just texted her that. I said something else she did that made me happy, then said you know what else would make me happy, is if you get a wax, ever done that?
/r/askTRP16/09/15 05:03 PM
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That's a good idea. I'm just confused if I should take that indirect approach or be more direct about it. As in, who cares what she interprets, I am just voicing my needs.... Not sure how TRP would handle this.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 04:04 PM
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Sociopaths are experts at doing this kind of reality shifting or shaping or transforming, and feel not a shred of remorse about it. Which is why most women are sociopaths.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 06:55 PM
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Absolutely this. Sociopathic.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 06:47 PM
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Could you give an example of how to do this?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 05:38 PM
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I agree completely with Jax. Cyber, it'll come with experience, but yea, you would be surprised how when you're crystal clear with a plate, she will be completely cool with the arrangement and your strong frame will actually lead to her NOT banging other dudes because she's hoping things will work out with you "someday" (this main plate of mine is that exact situation) you just need to keep reminding them of the arrangement so no confusion happens
/r/askTRP01/09/15 07:55 PM
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Thanks Jax. I told her I don't want this trip to change her expectations of me or make her think differently of me, and she says she's looking at it as just a fun experience to have together, like when we go to the casino. (Yes, I spun 6 other plates besides her since last year, the last one I spun being one month ago. So I'm trying my best to keep it real, just a little hard with my work schedule) Oneitis is something I am avoiding like the plague here, even in my own mind
/r/askTRP01/09/15 07:52 PM
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I hope I don't disappoint you, then, when I say I forgot to add: over Labor Day weekend I'm going with her to Arizona. Her sister is going to host us so we can see the Grand Canyon. It's on my bucket list and I don't know when else I'll be able to see it, so I said yes. See, she's not just a plate as in fuck buddy, she's also a good friend to me.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 08:46 PM
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Good rule of thumb. I hope it never comes to that, I always suit up for that reason, etc. Ok so I am to think of this girl as a "main plate" or something like that, and not "LTR"
/r/askTRP31/08/15 05:43 PM
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Gotcha. Yea she never pressures me about anything because 1) I made it clear from day one 2) she's a cool person 3) she knows that would make me hit the road. So if we're saying that making a plate into LTR is having some formal official conversation about making her my "girlfriend" with a label and title, that is NOT what I thought I was asking!!! Sorry, this thread was a dumb question lol I didn't get the definition of the term
/r/askTRP31/08/15 05:42 PM
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True. Ok maybe I'm asking under what circumstances do we (if ever) upgrade a plate to LTR status? Because otherwise things just stay as they are, plate status, forever until I get tired of it? (TRP has gotten me out of a bad breakup and to this current place of power, I am grateful and I'd like to understand what the next level is here in my situation, if there is any...)
/r/askTRP31/08/15 05:11 PM
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hahahaha
/r/askTRP31/08/15 05:09 PM
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Well I like her and I want to keep seeing her, but maybe I'm confused on what the definition of LTR is?
/r/askTRP31/08/15 04:52 PM
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What do you mean urgency? She's not pressuring me at all if that's what you mean...
/r/askTRP31/08/15 04:52 PM
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OP: what you wrote could've been written by me during my recent LTR. The cold attitude. The physical weirdness. The rape. The daddy issues. The power plays. My advice is get out, or demote her to casual plate status. Do not LTR her bro. For your sanity's sake. She will use and abuse you because a woman with that type of serious damage cannot understand a man's worth or value being treated as more than anything but a casual fuck. As soon as you treat her like more than that, she will misinterpret…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 09:13 PM
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Yup, same shit with me and her. Just last night she didn't know who Napoleon was, I explained, and she thanked me after for not talking to her like she was a dumbass for not knowing who he was. Ok she just texted me this: I feel really comfortable with you already, and you said you can see pretty clearly that I like you. I don't want you to be like "ugh give me space" or something, or maybe you want to go on other dates or whatever to see what your options are. I just want you to be happy/comfor…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 07:30 PM
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Ok I read it. I get the discourse on leadership... To come back to your point, though, about her wanting me to comfort her (and thereby lead her).... I've been doing that by reassuring. I'm just concerned (and perhaps this is the shit test element of what she's doing) about starting to sound too comforting, too nice, too supportive and supplicating... As in, she turns me into a dude who's always saying "it's ok honey... You're doing just fine..." And eventually her ego puffs up, she's owned me, …
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 04:26 PM
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I am interested in that. Got any literature to recommend? I spanked her pretty good last night and she loved it. Then I punished her from behind. I agree, bundle of insecurity: she's only had one LTR (4 years) and not too many partners. The LTR was also a LDR, guy sounds like he was somewhat of a loser who turned self-destructive beta, suckering her into the final last year because she felt bad for him. So I don't think the abuse comes from him but rather her mother: she walked out on the family…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 02:39 PM
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Exactly. I can't tell you how many girlfriends, LTRs, and plates I've had (I'm 31) who've said, in one way or another, for one thing or another, how I'm "just like Dad."
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 07:59 PM
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I haven't been answering. She just emailed me this: I wish I knew how you were feeling. I wish I had the right words to say to make everything perfect and exciting again. I feel a little betrayed. Mostly, I feel terrible for lying, because I want your trust. But, in the back of my mind, I'm hurt that you gave up so easily. I told you I was scared. I told you I've never felt like this before. I told you I wanted to get close to you. You said you wanted the same things. You said all the right word…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 07:42 PM
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Yup. Counterintuitive. I'm also practicing the freedom to not respond. Part of me wishes it would work to bring my ex back to me, but whatever.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 07:47 PM
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Yea I'm just not gonna say anything and yup that email was after I said that one thing... Unstable and drama queen for sure. Imagine if I started fucking her! It's too bad because she's hot but the drama and the lying is too much trouble. Abundance mentality. Gonna next her.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 07:13 PM
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Hmmm that's another good point. Should that be my answer to her email (see below)? I would say yes or would it be rewarding the lie?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 06:44 PM
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Ok. Her email shows how the hamster works and validates everything TRP. I wish I could just say "listen bitch, drop the victim game, you're not a victim here, YOU chose to lie and be a slut, no one put a gun to your head and if I don't trust you now it's YOUR fault, it's not something mean I'm doing to you!!!" The old me would've thought that (as I do now) and answered her email with some explanation logically trying to get her to see where things are wrong............... But now I know better.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 06:24 PM
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Ok, here's the email she just sent me, do you guys think I should chalk this up to "he was some guy she fucked before she knew me and she didn't want me to think she was a slut so she downplayed her relationship with him"? Her email: I know you want to ignore me right now, and I'm going to let you, but first I want to explain some things. I'm absolutely crushed. Maybe you don't feel quite the same way about me, but I'm crazy about you. I felt things with you that I've never felt in my whole life…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 04:41 PM
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She told him and told her coworkers about me. We haven't even fucked and she claims she's that crazy about me....
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 04:39 PM
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Yup. I really liked your reasoning through the options so I created my own version of C. Well guess what? She's gone from "oh" to "I can't do this" to "I didn't know you were still hooking up with other girls that breaks my heart...." To the latest one just now: "So that's it? Over just like that?"
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 03:51 AM
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My text above has stopped her flood of confession texts. I don't like how hamsters think guys enjoy being emotional tampons.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 03:31 AM
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Meanwhile she's been texting me non stop saying I'm the only person she admitted it to and that's because she felt guilty because someday she wants me to love her and she doesn't want to lie to me. I answered: Lying is a red flag but why would I be mad about your boss, we're not official and there are women in my life I've been hooking up with. She just said "oh" Hahaha what a hamster
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 03:29 AM
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Boundaries? She lives in another town. Not possible for her to drive here tonight...
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 03:18 AM
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You're right. The only reason anything any woman ever does would upset me ever again would be if I still believed there was a chance I could meet a unicorn and have a loving LTR with her.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 03:16 AM
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As you and the other guys here have noticed, I was hoping to spin her and maybe make her an LTR (months down the road if it went that long and I liked her after we banged a few times). Now I just got confirmation she lies and that throws the LTR chance out the window. So yeah, I'm disappointed. But now she'll just be a plate forever.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 03:10 AM
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So how do I respond? Her last text was are you upset? I'm also wondering if now is a good time to say something like I've still been seeing other people
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 02:50 AM
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Thank you, this is awesome. One question: why are the numbered maxims not in numerical order? I don't see a #1 anywhere for example
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 06:13 PM
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Is there some body of information or blog you're referring to where I can learn about what you're calling Advanced Game? New here a few weeks TRP and haven't seen that term yet or in the sidebar unless I missed it
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 05:01 PM
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Can you share what you put in your profile? You put your height and....
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 02:16 PM
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I like this post. I agree with what you say about the herd mentality via technologies like dating apps. Makes me wonder about the future too. And when it comes to women and all the heaps of validation and ass kissing they get on a daily basis because of social media, it makes me speculate that their inherent narcissism will only shoot through the roof as new social media replace what we see today. If you compare what psychology has to say about narcissism to TRP, it's scary how well narcissism m…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 05:54 PM
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Tinder has definitely changed the dating game in these ways. It has amplified (I say amplified, not "created") the phenomenon discussed here by other OPs about 6s or 7s walking around with egos like they're 9s or 10s.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 12:29 AM
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Dunno about this bud. Last night a girl came over off Tinder to "meet my cat." She looked like a hot blond from her pics. She showed up and was at least 20 pounds heavier than her pics. My instinct said kick her out. I made her a drink, talked for a few minutes, and then said I needed to go to bed so have a good night and thanks for stopping by. She smiled demurely, asked which direction to walk for her car and left without incident. Not to sound like an asshole, but the passing up of definite p…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 12:28 AM
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Interesting. Still new to TRP. Is that what would be considered "hard" dread (as opposed to "soft" dread)?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 10:51 PM
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Yes. Because it's an ideal, like any other hero or mythological figure. Batman is also one of mine.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 10:15 PM
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Don't know how to quote here but this is gold when you say: A good conversation to a woman consists of going over her feelings about her experiences. She'd be confused why anyone would want to explore a philosophical outlook on hypothetical situations that don't involve her. Absolutely 100% true. My ex is living proof. And so is my Dad, one of his disappointments over the years has been sharing knowledge he has with my Mom that she couldn't give 2 damns about. Unconsciously, I internalized this …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 08:44 PM
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Update: I mailed the box of her stuff to her job (don't have her new address and I wasn't about to break my radio silence since she moved out to ask). Her reaction was a few days later to finally change her address with the post office (I got the notification in my mailbox). I'm new to TRP but I'd like some confirmation that I did the right thing by maintaining radio silence (not reacting) because she's playing "tit for tat" and wants me to contact/attack her so her ego can feel better about her…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 01:01 PM
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Ok. I have a list of desirable traits now that I want in a woman, especially after this last debacle. But I wonder if it's too much to ask from today's modern hypergamy narcissistic woman.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 02:32 PM
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For both parties for as long as the man wants. And no I'm not thinking it's possible to be 100% happy all the time..... I just wonder if it's achievable for any of us here, because now that I think of it I've met maybe 2 couples in my life who've been together long term (over 10 years) and the man is alpha while being happy in a loving relationship with a fulfilled, hot, ethical and cool woman who's also happy with him
/r/askTRP04/09/14 07:55 PM
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Ha! I would but I'm not a paying member?
/r/askTRP04/09/14 07:52 PM
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Wow I just copied and pasted this into a Word doc of gold I'm taking off TRP posters. I agree with everything you said. I just honestly did not make this last one my top priority (I knew better, having learned from the other LTR where that was my mistake). So, Looking back on the most recent LTR who moved out on me in June, I resisted her attempts to make me beta but I think I showed low status by 1) arguing back with her 2) trying to "help" her with her depression (she's got on Prozac in the en…
/r/askTRP04/09/14 07:49 PM
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That's another thing he says a lot. The whole "better now than later" concept. I just find it hard to emotionally internalize. I can mentally wrap my head around it but emotionally I feel like the loss of those LTRs were just that: loss. Yes, made me stronger; yes, I've nexted them; yes, thank God no kids were involved.... It just feels like a waste.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 07:44 PM
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You are on a level I don't think I'd ever be able to go. To use female terminology: I don't like to "share." But good for you! And no never heard of that guy.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 05:03 PM
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Right. That's how I feel. I am determined to never be one of those men. Breakups of LTRs have been very hard on me. I tend to internalize a lot of blame and my jealousy runs wild that the woman is off fucking some new guy. So imagine how fucked up I'd be from a divorce. My good friend is 45 and already been through 2 divorces. He's on his third marriage currently. His constant reiteration to me is NEVER GET MARRIED. Thanks for the encouragement, it's good to think I haven't hit my peak yet. Beca…
/r/askTRP04/09/14 05:02 PM
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Thank you! I didn't know this resource existed.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 04:57 PM
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You're right, I don't need to work anything out because she's the one who made the mistake of leaving.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 08:04 PM
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Exactly! Which makes my skin crawl. It's why I also want to take back some control from her by mailing her shit. Although I don't know how much she can check in on me given my door is locked and I live in a second floor apartment
/r/askTRP28/08/14 07:43 PM
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Thanks guys. I am committed to never thinking about this girl again. Mailing the box is the best thing for me. As my good friend who introduced me to TRP says, "it's over!"
/r/askTRP28/08/14 06:48 PM
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Ok. That's my problem: thinking, imagination, etc. I stop them in a variety of ways (I say out loud "delete," or "I can't control what she does so why give a fuck about thinking about her," or more positive stuff like "everyday in every way I'm getting stronger and stronger," I also look over a list I made of all her bad traits/ actions) Regarding turning her into a plate if she tries to meet up, how do I play that? I'm only asking because mailing this box could prompt her to reach out (although…
/r/askTRP28/08/14 06:08 PM
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Oh sorry, I'm asking if things are proceeding in a positive direction towards me and her working things out.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 05:44 PM
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