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jrr087/r/Divorce_Men02/04/24 09:26 PM
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jrr087/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 09:17 PM
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Custodyjrr087/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 09:45 PM
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Custodyjrr087/r/Divorce_Men17/01/26 07:42 PM
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Supposed to go back for mediation soon. I'm not backing down on full weekends regardless of my work schedule.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/26 02:40 AM
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I can relate to this 100%
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/26 11:24 PM
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The only official document is my divorce decree.
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/26 10:29 PM
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Her and that guy had an on again/off again thing. Now she's a bitter old turd
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/25 06:57 AM
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I was being figurative, but I see where you're going.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 11:28 PM
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Funny thing about that..I've actually done that many times. They tell me it's a civil issue and they can't get involved. I get a reference number for every call. They've told me as long as I do what my decree says and she doesn't show up then they can get involved.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 10:14 PM
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Gotcha. I'll have to look at how many I've got so far. Funny thing about that..I showed her a calendar of my weekends that I found online. It was just for the standard possession. She called me crazy and wouldn't acknowledge it. She finds a calendar somewhere else with the SAME thing on it and says that my weekends are in fact 1/3/5..make it make sense.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 10:11 PM
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Another little caveat in this hilarious comedy of errors. My daughter is 7 and has a cell phone. The other day her mom blocked my number on it. My daughter prefers video calls and I don't think she blocked me on the app her and I use. There's nothing in my decree about this because when we signed she didn't have a phone, but isn't it a general rule that she can't do that?
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 10:08 PM
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So the lawyer that represented me when I got divorced last year has moved onto a different firm. And I unfortunately can't afford another one right now
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 10:04 PM
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Unfortunately I looked in my decree and it actually did say that, but it may be open to interpretation. This is the first time she's jacked me for a whole weekend, but prior to this she's denied me time in other ways. No right of first refusal, denied certain days, got days she wasn't supposed to, etc. Would all that be enough to do an enforcement?
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 09:58 PM
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If I could give this 100 upvotes I would
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/24 06:52 PM
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He's got 2 of his own apparently. Red flags aplenty.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/24 06:49 PM
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Mine was dating almost immediately after separation, but she met some schmuck 3 months ago and is already moving in with him (with my 6 yr old daughter). Women like that are garbage. Only thing you can do is rise and be better. Keep fighting brother
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/24 04:19 PM
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I'm Norse Pagan. I wear a Mjolnir necklace and my daughter is always wanting to wear it herself. She asks me some questions about some of that stuff, but I don't push it on her. At 6, I feel she's too young to understand. Do I want her raised christian? Not particularly. If she has fun at church I won't get in the way of that. Her mom, however, is the type to say I'm basically wrong for not believing. I'd rather be a wolf than a sheep.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/24 12:53 PM
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We compromised and split it, but she initially asked me why I needed to have my daughter on a Christian holiday when I don't believe in god. Like I'm not supposed to have her or something when it's my weekend.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/24 12:47 PM
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By winter holidays I meant thanks and Xmas. Being an adult doesn't seem to be in her nature.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/24 02:01 AM
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They probably did. I don't have the money to go back either
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/24 01:34 AM
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Mine is the same
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/24 12:30 AM
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As far as what?
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/24 12:07 AM
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The only holidays specifically mentioned in my decree are winter holidays, summer, and spring break. I've never told her how to parent, but I don't trust her with my daughter most of the time.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 11:30 PM
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The only ones it mentions are the winter holidays, summer and spring break
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 10:51 PM
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So new question. Since my daughter is going to be living there for the foreseeable future am i wrong for wanting to meet my ex's new boyfriend? She says he doesn't want to meet me, but I feel like it's the right thing to do. Just to put a name with a face. Fyi I know nothing about this guy. Except that he's older and pays for everything.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 10:10 PM
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Even though compromise and negotiating aren't her forte by any stretch of the imagination we did manage to work something out. For me though it's the principle of it all. Plus as I said in another comment she's not very christ-like herself, but wants to basically call me a heretic. Make it make sense.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 09:56 PM
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Already done. I'm wrong though for calling her out and need to be more respectful. Right? 🙄
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 09:49 PM
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You'd think so. She's more about conflict and flipping the situation in her favor than working together.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 09:48 PM
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1/3/5 weekends and right of first refusal when she can't keep her. Idk how she handled breaking the news to my daughter. She's the type of person who doesn't really care what anyone thinks and just does what she wants. To my knowledge she's known the dude since the end of December and I'm guessing made it official in February. Which as far as I know is when she introduced her to him. So in my eyes it's moving way too fast. But who cares what I think?
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/24 04:34 AM
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Anytime I can get mine I jump on it
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/24 12:11 AM
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I'm only paying child support
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/24 08:41 PM
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I already do most of those things
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/24 12:57 PM
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I can comfortably say I've got 2 of those things done. I will crank up my dgaf meter
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/24 07:22 AM
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1/3/5
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/24 10:00 PM
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1/3/5
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/24 10:00 PM
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Me too. I did literally everything imaginable to keep it all together for my daughter's sake. Now I get her every Monday for a few hrs and 2 weekends a month. A selfish narcissistic woman is what's best for my daughter. Good ol family court.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 03:09 PM
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Mine constantly brags about and flaunts the new stuff her SD/boyfriend showers her with. Idk if the dude is actually a SD or not, but it's the impression I get. She's mentioned moving in with him to me (it's barely been 3 months if even that). Idgaf him nor do i really care for the example my ex is setting for my daughter. I on the other hand have met a wonderful woman and have a great time with her. I've got a feeling once the honeymoon phase wears off I'll be hearing from her about it.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/24 07:20 PM
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Mine is doing something similar. The guy she's with now wasn't an AP, but he's got more money than I do. My ex seems to have her around him all the time and she's even gone as far as sleeping at his place with her. I put a stop to that though. She swears up and down that it's not a thing. Here's my best advice, brother: keep showing up for your kids. No matter what you're their dad. Nobody can change that.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/24 03:52 PM
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Make it make sense.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/24 02:17 AM
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Mine filed a motion for enforcement against me for some money owed in the settlement. Her and I were actually trying to reconcile and when I'd asked her about money on several occasions she said not to worry about it. A month ago she said i owed her 650, but she's over there telling her lawyer I've given her nothing. In the end they're all snakes in the grass brother.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/24 02:15 AM
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I'm in a similar situation. Mine actually wanted to reconcile a couple of months after our divorce was finalized (end of Oct last year). Fast forward 3 months she meets a guy that I suspect is a SD (every drop off she's got new shit, but has no money 🤨) and she's bringing my 6 year old daughter around him and having "sleepovers" at his house and all this other bullshit. My daughter knows who her dad is though. It's rough man. Just keep showing up and being present in your kids' lives. They see m…
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/24 09:01 PM
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I'm paying 675/month for 1 kid in TX. Divorce laws in TX are extremely archaic and just see dads as human ATMs. These other dudes are right though, OP. She ain't your friend. I made that mistake and it's bit me every time. Mine is an absolute snake in the grass.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/24 09:30 AM
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My divorce has been finalized almost 5 months. I wouldn't say it's been totally miserable, but my ex isn't making anything easy. I've met a wonderful woman and I'm quite grateful for that. Posts like these are inspiring and we all really appreciate them. Thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/24 12:16 AM
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Does your job have an employee assistance program? Mine gave me a free consult and a nice discount on my attorney fees, but you have to go through one of theirs, which is the only drawback.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/24 01:53 AM
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I'm officially divorced
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 01:20 AM
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My attorney told me I've only got a year to modify my decree.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 03:38 PM
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I don't care at all. The dynamic is different when she brings my daughter around this stooge and stonewalls me about everything.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 02:46 PM
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So even if I can prove her history of awful judge of character in men and an inability to set boundaries in relationships I'd be wasting my time
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 06:26 AM
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I talked to mine about the same. I'm also in TX. See my ex has a behavioral pattern of attracting some sketchy individuals. Also never sets good boundaries (as noted here). Why do courts typically not grant them?
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 05:39 AM
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Hope she's under it?
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 05:24 AM
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