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Inner Game jst2postdis/r/seduction30/01/24 08:18 PM
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Inner Game jst2postdis/r/seduction30/04/25 01:15 AM
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Logisticsjst2postdis/r/seduction08/05/24 12:14 AM
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Inner Game jst2postdis/r/seduction11/03/24 12:15 AM
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Fundamentals jst2postdis/r/seduction12/05/24 12:16 AM
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Conversationjst2postdis/r/seduction16/05/21 01:26 AM
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Conversationjst2postdis/r/seduction15/02/24 07:47 PM
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Fundamentals jst2postdis/r/seduction08/11/24 05:20 PM
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Inner Game jst2postdis/r/seduction15/03/25 05:48 AM
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Is she initiating or you initiating the texts? If she is, back off a little with longer respond times/shorter messages then ask her out again. If you’re initiating, stop all together or go for third times the charm
/r/seduction03/08/25 01:35 AM
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Dance floor is the easiest game. You barely need to say anything. If a girl is dancing, I make eye contact smile and just stretch out my hand, if she takes it, we start dancing, if not no biggie, keep smiling and having fun. If they’re not dancing, similar. Go up smiling and ask wanna dance, if they’re up for it, easy to start establishing kino by taking their hand and leading them to the dance floor. Once you start dancing, you can start talking. On the other hand I struggle with just randomly …
/r/seduction20/07/25 02:28 PM
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Do it at the beginning of the date. As soon as you meet her, give her a hug and lead it to holding her hands to direct her where you’re headed.
/r/seduction29/06/25 03:57 AM
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But whats your end goal? Keep playing hard to get until she also stops chasing?
/r/seduction09/06/25 05:58 PM
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Talk more about the questions. small talk is boring and trying to tease and banter also doesn’t seem to work, at least in my case.
/r/seduction19/05/25 04:22 PM
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Brother you’ve being seeing each other for a month and spent 3days together on a trip without making a move? She likely thinks you’re inexperienced and is moving on.
/r/seduction08/05/25 05:43 PM
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Stealing this thread because I tend to have the same issue. I don’t mind taking initiative, but when do you know when to cut your loss? I don’t mind taking initiative as long as there is progression, but if I find myself having to double text more than twice, it’s usually game over.
/r/seduction08/05/25 12:06 AM
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Older and just a handful
/r/seduction02/05/25 01:04 AM
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Talk more about the texting game cus that’s something I got to work on.
/r/seduction01/05/25 08:31 PM
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It was nice meeting Tilly and reference a topic you two discussed in a humorous way. No state that you felt the meet was awkward, for all you know, she really enjoyed it.
/r/seduction01/05/25 04:17 PM
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Cus that’s what I want at the moment
/r/seduction30/04/25 09:12 PM
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You hit the nail. I’m apathetic at baseline and don’t fake enthusiasm to please or attract others unless it comes natural. Generally don’t experience “nervousness” when on dates and just focus on self amusing and both parties having a good time, but lack of charisma makes it challenging. It’s funny because the “what does she think of me and lack of self esteem” comes after being ghosted for being myself.
/r/seduction30/04/25 09:09 PM
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I’m not even looking for anything serious, and I understand she was a stranger. My issue is knowing what I’m doing wrong? did I say something wrong? Was I not fun enough? Over analyzing texts and just ruminating. This always happens over a few days after a date goes sideways and I don’t like it. If I had other girls I was talking to and other dates I’m looking forward to, that wouldn’t be but don’t have options like that unfortunate
/r/seduction30/04/25 04:10 AM
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Do you have other plans in the city aside from meeting with her? There is a chance she doesn’t even show up to the hotel. Make other plans and invite her to that instead of the roo, that will get her comfortable so it’s not immediately sexual. Flirt during that time and escalate. Then invite her back to the hotel if you’re enjoying spending time together
/r/seduction28/04/25 08:51 PM
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This. You agree and escalate without seeking her validation.
/r/seduction12/02/25 05:46 PM
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Teach your ways
/r/seduction24/01/25 09:14 PM
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Do not tell her. Most women want experienced men especially if it’s just a hookup. Keep doing what you’ve been doing, relax and escalate when you’re hanging out. The cat is already a way in, pet the cat together grab and smoothly grab her hand, she’ll know what’s happening because women aren’t dumb. If she hold the hand hold go for a kiss and go from there. First time is anxiety provoking but focus on her and take it slow. Good luck
/r/seduction22/01/25 11:42 PM
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Cooking or drinks is the easiest way. “I’m messing with a new recipe and need a taste tester.” Let’s split a bottle of wine or some form of drink at mine. If you have a pet, invite her to see it. Music collection, invite her to listen to it. Basically, invite around some activity at yours.
/r/seduction18/01/25 08:18 PM
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It’s a one time occurrence so best move is to ignore especially if you’re not serious. If she continues to send messages like that, put your foot down and tell her you know you’re not exclusive but you won’t put up with such behavior
/r/seduction05/01/25 07:38 PM
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She has literally mentioned sleeping with you, might as well take her up on it. Invite her over for a movie next, have some drinks, have her seat next to you, if there is ever a moment you two are looking directly into each others eye, kiss her. Either she is forreal and it’ll escalate or you’re truly friendzoned and she’ll push away. If that’s the case, apologize and say you read the tension wrongly.
/r/seduction25/12/24 07:37 PM
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Not just flirting, actual initiative. Flirting is to test the waters which you know she is receptive to. You now need to take it further if you’re actually trying to be with her. Tell her you have some new recipe you’re working on to come try at your place or something
/r/seduction19/12/24 09:07 PM
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Why are you acting like a teenager. You liked a woman, seems like she liked you but you never made a move. This is mostly your fault and the way you are acting will likely kill any attraction she had for you. Sure, her flirting with a younger guy right in your face would hurt, but she is not your woman and she owes you nothing. I’d advise the opposite of your female friend. Stay unbothered about her actions, for all you know she might have been acting to get you jealous and now your emotional ta…
/r/seduction18/12/24 03:23 AM
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Treat her like a human being. Don’t go out of your way to talk to her, but also don’t actively try to ignore her. If you’re in a group talk to her but don’t pay her more attention than others. in fact use the opportunity to meet new women.
/r/seduction24/11/24 10:00 PM
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If you’re still in touch, just gear the convoersation to be more flirty and if she reciprocates, ask her to chill
/r/seduction14/10/24 10:56 PM
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Dude you’re making excuses. From your post, sounds like it was lame because you were in your head and tried using drugs to get out of it. Be comfortable in your skin. When she is over, offer a drink, put on a show, ask her to get closer to you. Make small talk and maintain eye contact when you talk. If she is over, all you have to do is escalate. My first time was similar, felt awkward. Drank, played some board games, watched a show and asked her over to the bedroom to continue watching. We laid…
/r/seduction24/09/24 01:01 AM
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Im not clever, but better not to be direct. . “It’s kind of embarrassing, but I can tell you over a bottle of wine”
/r/seduction24/09/24 12:46 AM
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So you feel you embarrassed yourself, who gives a shit. You don’t owe any apology. Only way to make it up is by doing better.
/r/seduction24/09/24 12:02 AM
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A simple, “you had me nervous there. Would like to meet up again.” You lose nothing.
/r/seduction23/09/24 03:31 PM
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Yes. I was looking for clever responses
/r/seduction20/09/24 03:52 PM
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Texting style is quite similar to PWF which i like. Your texting style should be in line with your personality, this fits a goofy sarcastic individual that doesn’t take things seriously. Anyways, how would you respond to “do you meet a lot of girls off the app?”. I was joking with a girl about her being a catfish and she brought that up after I mentioned I surprisingly haven’t been catfished yet.
/r/seduction20/09/24 01:20 PM
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How did you learn the art of having interesting convos and flirting. I’m logical and only tend to have the boring get to you know you shit. I was at a spot and a girl chatted me up, same scenario and convo died. After a while saw her with another dude and they were cackling and just having an interesting convo I assume.
/r/seduction18/09/24 12:55 AM
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What happened?
/r/seduction15/09/24 12:22 AM
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All it boils down to is finding a girl that’s in line with your values.
/r/seduction13/09/24 09:45 PM
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Why are you letting others dictate who you date? Who gives a shit what they think if you like her. On that note, doesn’t sound like you actually like her that much if you’re straight calling your girl a 6, game over. Sounds like you’re not that attracted to her, just comfortable around her. Don’t lead the girl on
/r/seduction10/09/24 09:20 PM
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Came at a good time. Matched with a girl whose profile was geared towards hooking up. Got number and it’s been an uphill battle trying to set something up. Had to double text twice already and I’m tired. It’s like, you want to hook up (or so you say) and I’m Down, why add 100 additional headaches.
/r/seduction10/09/24 09:04 PM
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Yes.
/r/seduction24/08/24 03:39 PM
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Maybe you should start doing that?
/r/seduction24/08/24 01:59 AM
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Youre overthinking. She hit you for a ONS so she probably didn’t expect you reaching back out to her. If that’s what she is used to, be prepared to be ghosted again. Otherwise play at a fwb sort of thing
/r/seduction11/08/24 01:49 PM
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Maybe 1/10 women have hit me up after giving them my number. Lesson, don’t give them your number, take theirs.
/r/seduction01/08/24 02:22 PM
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If you’re engaging in boring convo, the spark will die out. Best way is to call back to something exciting you two discussed when you met, better if it’s something you can tease her about. Don’t wait long to set concrete plans,
/r/seduction27/07/24 03:21 AM
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Her mentioning the flirtiness and saying nothing is going to happen means she already pictured having sex with you. More than likely if you make moves you could. No girl in a serious and Loyal relationship would hang out alone with another single male. And no, no need to change your flirty personality, that’s basically what having charisma is. Flirt with everyone.
/r/seduction25/07/24 10:45 PM
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Is the talking part I find difficult, aside from generic/platonic stuff, what do you discuss at a bar that leads to asking them home?
/r/seduction03/07/24 01:42 AM
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This. However, if he didnt initially chat her up, this wouldn’t have happened. Goes to say, just socialize.
/r/seduction30/06/24 06:18 PM
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Your mental healthy
/r/seduction15/06/24 04:25 PM
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This. Have her watch your cat and treat her platonically. Do not engage in her relationship drama or put effort into trying to seduce her. Talk to other women, she ain’t it.
/r/seduction08/06/24 03:51 PM
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Years back when I lost my v card. Invited a girl over from the apps for a drink, matched a day or two before. We chilled in the living room for a while talking, put on a show and invited her to my room to continue watching. At some point, she mentions not being able to bend her back due to an injury and I told her to show me, so she got in the doggy position while I was behind her. I still didn’t make a move and I was moving back to the bed and she turned over, she went for it and kissed me. I w…
/r/seduction27/05/24 10:46 PM
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No fake tittied asian cougar took me home but talked to a dude and a girl at a bar, which made it less anxiety provoking. Easier to interact when there is something in the environment like music or a game to distract you too
/r/seduction12/05/24 10:35 AM
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Don’t get my hopes up like that.
/r/seduction12/05/24 12:32 AM
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Man, it’s been 5days. Just start a new convo and ask her how her week is. Don’t bring up meeting up, but hint at it by mentioning her not having a baby sitter. Then see if you can set a new date. If she is flaky again, drop it.
/r/seduction10/05/24 12:37 AM
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Thats where I’m at. I’m not even looking for anything serious so not trying to deal with non compliance.
/r/seduction08/05/24 10:02 PM
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Difference is you’re the one asking them to dinner. I don’t prefer it, but also don’t mind it if it’s a girl I’ve been talking to for a minute and know we’ll get along.
/r/seduction08/05/24 05:17 PM
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Don’t listen to that fool. You might not have lost anything. She may feel just like you do. Just text her when you want, the picture is a good idea. Add a tease to it. You have nothing to lose asking her out again….but fully also be prepared to get “no spark”. If she’s still down and you can cook, ask her over for dinner you’ll cook, or to show her your music collection, or for a nice bottle of wine.
/r/seduction11/03/24 12:36 AM
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If she is receptive to all the dates, just hit her up when YOU want to see her. You get out of it what you want. If casual, hit her to come over to your spot instead of going out. If more serious, keep doing date stuff.
/r/seduction05/03/24 08:14 AM
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Chuck it up as experience points.
/r/seduction15/02/24 09:30 PM
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This. Responding to a story. Get convo moving and segue to asking her out.
/r/seduction11/02/24 01:03 PM
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Also 29M. Late bloomer and minimal dating experience. I’ll say focus on yourself, make sure you’re over your previous relationship. If there is anything you can do to improve your attractiveness, (dressing better, gym, fun hobbies, etc) start working on those. Go out with friends and meet girls there. Nothing wrong with getting on the apps either (you can do well if you’re conventionally attractive)
/r/seduction11/02/24 10:38 AM
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You might be on to something. I was directing the convo towards asking her out and she stopped responding about 2-3 messages prior to it. Are you usually more direct asking out on first messages or do you seed it during the initial interaction?
/r/seduction01/02/24 05:06 PM
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How are you working on being dry? I am too and it’s one of the causes of my approach anxiety. Approaching is not the issue, it’s the what to say and being charismatic while still holding masculine frame that I struggle with.
/r/seduction31/01/24 03:36 PM
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I tend to try to build mild comfort over text and lead the convo towards a date, usually over a day or so. Works at times, but most times feels like I’m dragging with small talk since I’m not witty to have exciting convos. Jumping straight to asking for a date as rarely ever worked for me, but most of this is based off OLD interactions.
/r/seduction31/01/24 02:37 AM
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Didn’t “wait” per se. Work got busy and shitty connection at work.
/r/seduction31/01/24 01:14 AM
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The number isn’t a win to me unless it’s real and she responds. My win was actually making the move since I suffer from analysis paralysis often.
/r/seduction30/01/24 09:11 PM
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you want a rematch and loser buys drinks. Don’t lose
/r/seduction09/09/22 11:17 PM
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Can you give an interaction example of statements/cold reads. I run into the problem of asking interview like questions. Wouldn’t you also want to build some comfort before escalating to sexual topics, which again woul appreciate some examples
/r/seduction30/05/22 03:11 AM
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Emulate your friend. Just do what he did to open and go from there
/r/seduction12/05/22 10:59 PM
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Solid, encouraging write up. My trouble with cold approach is not knowing what to say after initial introduction and feeling like I might be bothering people.
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:01 PM
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What was after “hi”
/r/seduction22/04/22 06:10 PM
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50% of 0 is zero my man.
/r/seduction17/03/22 01:41 AM
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Thanks for the detailed response. Agree with you on the behavior during dates as to going with what works for you that’s socially acceptable.
/r/seduction24/02/22 02:38 PM
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Per your report, you’re not what people will consider top 1% of tinder dudes but you’re still pulling decently. Do you have really good pics? What are your chatup lines, etc
/r/seduction24/02/22 02:14 AM
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What’s your secret on the OLD?
/r/seduction23/02/22 04:03 PM
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Accept it. Sleep it off, wake up with a goal to work on your mental health. Cut off contact for now and date other girls. When you’re ready, and if you’d like, you can reinitiate friendship.
/r/seduction05/02/22 07:09 PM
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That's my problem. I can't keep a convos going because I don't have a passion and have difficulty sharing my experiences. You mentioned the problem, but how does one fix it?
/r/seduction21/05/21 01:50 PM
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