Can’t “seduce” women

AnAIAteMyBaby · 2024-03-11T00:27:03+00:00

Take a voice recording of yourself next time you go out to meet women. How you talk is so much more important than what you say in setting a sensual vibe. You can be talking about the weather but if you have the right tone to the conversation it can be seductive. So listen back to your recording and see how you sound. If you sound monotonous and boring or if you sound high pitched and supplicating try to correct it.

Another thing is that interactions don't have to be super long, sometimes the more you stay and talk the more likely you are to ruin your chances. So try opening, having a brief conversation (4 or 5 minutes) with good eye contact and vocal tonality and then close. If you can do this with a decent volume you may start to see better results.

ROBYoutube · 2024-03-11T00:21:46+00:00

I'd estimate that 99.9% of the women I don't know that I speak to don't find me attractive and nothing further comes from our communication except we've gone from strangers to acquaintances. That's normal. I've also had more sex with more partners than a lifetime should ever include. Because if you're sociable enough, .1% of 4 billion is still extremely high.

Also, 'seducing' is a fucking stupid concept for 2024. It was fine to describe casual sex in the fucking 1500s, but you don't need to 'seduce' women today. They will just fuck you if you're cool, you make them feel the right things inside, and they find you hot. Shit, sometimes a girl will fuck you if she's bored.

gangweedsavedme · 2024-03-11T08:02:42+00:00

Be playful

Dandys3107 · 2024-03-11T06:53:19+00:00

Well, this is too vague to give you some proper guidance out of it. Describe circumstances, what exact words you use and how your body language looks like.

It kinda looks like the problem with your mindset and gradual escalation. You can't simply talk about anything, girl will assume you don't know what you want or you are afraid or incompetent to get to the thing, which is a big turn-off. You need to know what you want (ask her on a date) and have some plan how to make progress from stranger towards potential partner (getting to know each other a little, triggering positive emotions in her, presenting yourself as attractive male with smile, deep voice, confidence, good social skills and perceptiveness, proper body posture, hygiene, clothes etc.).

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-03-11T01:00:53+00:00

You just need to focus on not exchanging facts or logic like u would with talking to men.

To talk in a way that spikes a girls emotions....you have to be an aloof dumbass, but with control of your tone, tempo, and mannerisms. It's ok because it's fun for both of you. Talk absolute nonsense, make up your own words if you have to, and use lots of adjectives to paint pictures.

Say for example u on a date at a fancy restaurant:

"The escargot here is fantasterastic, I need more to enter my face hole.. It's like salty euphorical sublime slime...by the way did you just make a silent white wine fart?"

Maybe a not a great example but that came straight from my head instantly, that is how u want to flow.

Just be stupid with a smile. Do not talk in ways that YOU think would impress her, and she will have a great time.

TRTGymBro · 2024-03-11T02:00:42+00:00

If you don't think you have "it" then you don't.

Title	Can’t “seduce” women
Author	jst2postdis
Upvotes	22
Comments	19
Date	March 11, 2024 12:15 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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