| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 22 | Field Report: First Time Going Out this Year | Field Report | Radiant-Positive-582 | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 03:29 PM |
| 6 | How do I stop getting the "we're not compatible" texts after first dates? | Inner Game | Radiant-Positive-582 | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Alright guys, I need some help | Inner Game | Radiant-Positive-582 | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 06:15 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | 20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ]Real. | /r/seduction | 28/12/25 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Was I Approached?Always assume interest my man. If a girl is initiating convo, just assume she likes you. You don’t have to go all the way, but I think it’s important to assume she fucks with you so you’re always sharp and charismatic | /r/seduction | 21/11/25 07:58 PM |
| 2 | How to Get Hotter GirlsYou’re very thirsty is what you are lol. No sensible dude is approaching 200. It means you get rejected a LOT. You approach 5 girls, lets say you get 2 numbers. You’ll be content with just that. You approach 10, you get 5 numbers. You’re okay with that. You approach 200 in a week? Yeah, you are def someone that women should keep an eye on. I mean, just look at how you talk lmao. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 05:01 PM |
| 2 | How to Get Hotter GirlsYou just gotta understand some of the advice here is bullshit. No one is actually approaching 200 women in a week lol. Maybe 10 - 15 I can understand | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 06:54 AM |
| 0 | Another App RejectionMan. Delete the apps. They’re a male humiliation ritual. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 06:51 AM |
| 1 | How to handle rejections in dating when they feel crushing and debilitatingSo if I keep getting told we aren’t romantically compatible, then wtf do you do to improve? No feedback, I’m constantly told I’m a solid guy. I have been dating for a month now, and this the constant theme. No second dates. Do you know how crazy that is? If you saw me, you’d be like no fucking way. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 06:40 AM |
| 2 | I’m addicted to female attention.Lol unfortunately, I feel this. Going out in public whether that's the grocery store, or a party.. I like knowing I'm being checked out. That's why I can't get rid of Hinge man, I see a bad chick I want her and they come in waves. I know I'm a top guy. | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Logical man's guide to flirtingSend it to me too fam. Need more examples of the ways to display social and emotional intelligence. | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 07:20 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop getting the "we're not compatible" texts after first dates?Why would someone downvote this lol | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 03:26 PM |
| 0 | How do I stop getting the "we're not compatible" texts after first dates?The projection is insane. I have 3 dates with weekend this three girls in my city. I don’t care about someone else’s perception because it isn’t true LMAOOOO. | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 03:24 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop getting the "we're not compatible" texts after first dates?O -fucking - kay nigga, damn! You’re on a Reddit thread engaging with someone who doesn’t give a shit, shut tf up lmao. | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 03:22 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop getting the "we're not compatible" texts after first dates?I think you’re overcomplicating it but imma let you have your moment lol | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 03:17 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop getting the "we're not compatible" texts after first dates?Well I did it with this other girl who is coming end of this month, and she was receptive to it lmao. Just gotta be smooth | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 03:01 PM |
| 0 | How do I stop getting the "we're not compatible" texts after first dates?Lmao it’s not my fault that girls from dating apps want to set their location to my city before they arrive. I’ve run into that several times and it’s annoying as shit, but the girl is cute so I go along with it. Obviously I’m talking to and hooking up with girls in my city too. | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 03:00 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop getting the "we're not compatible" texts after first dates?Gotta talk sexual in the DMs tbh, this girl never talked sexual with me lmao. | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 02:53 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop getting the "we're not compatible" texts after first dates?Lmao it was her doing, I’m not tryna text a girl about that shit. I agree with talking everyday tho | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 02:53 PM |
| 0 | How do I stop getting the "we're not compatible" texts after first dates?Got another girl pulling up on me this evening who I met in person a couple weeks ago so I won’t be down for too long. Think I’ll delete my dating apps this weekend to avoid shit like this lol | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 02:46 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop getting the "we're not compatible" texts after first dates?Think I’m gonna just stop texting altogether tbh. Women who are genuinely busy and fall off with me but eventually come back on their own when their free >>> I’m gonna move different now, that nice guy shit is out lmao. Her calling me that kinda pissed me off I’m ngl. | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 02:44 PM |
| 0 | How do I stop getting the "we're not compatible" texts after first dates?No shit lol | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 02:33 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop getting the "we're not compatible" texts after first dates?I feel it, she even texted me saying I was a 'nice guy' (the thing women don't want to admit they hate the most). So what do I do about women who I want but they aren't local to me? Because there is another girl who I text everyday who is pretty receptive to me, but she won't be in my city until next month. Should I just ignore her or let her know we can talk when we're closer to her arrival? | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Field Report: First Time Going Out this YearWow, you hit the nail on the head man. I'm def gonna incorporate that more often where I don't look at every interaction as "Oh I should get her number" but more of a "I'll get to know you, but I'm not going to hound you either". I need to get out of the mindset like you mentioned where I'm just trying to collect a number lol. Because now that I think about it, she was actually looking at me while I was talking to the girl and smoking the hookah lmao I coulda came back afterwards about something… | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: First Time Going Out this YearIs there anything I could do about the first girl though? Honestly, she was the cutest to me but could tell she was a little shy or whatever. Def should have gotten her IG so I could find a common ground when it comes to interests a lot easier tho | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: First Time Going Out this YearThank you for this, this is very good. In all honesty, I was confident but not confident enough to just go for it. I usually go on dates and stuff with a fresh haircut, and I didn't have one so I wasn't feeling like a killa. Like to me, approaching the girls to begin with was a big deal so I was kinda content just flirting and letting it be that. The first interaction I had with the girl was like a warmup, and I didn't really say anything bold during it. As the night went on, I would become more… | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Field Report: First Time Going Out this YearLMAOOOO. | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 04:47 PM |
| -1 | Field Report: First Time Going Out this YearMy objective of going out was just to get a few numbers and approach because I haven't done it in a while lmao. I think I'm 'okay' at dealing with women once I have rapport or get them one on one on a date. I'm not going out just to have sex with anything walking. But shit, maybe you're right but the way you give advice sounds condescending like you know everything lmao. Maybe I did just want to chop it up with a couple girls and if anything comes from it, so be it. So now knowing what you know,… | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 04:41 PM |
| 0 | Field Report: First Time Going Out this YearYou're a clown lmao get off my post | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 04:31 PM |
| 0 | Field Report: First Time Going Out this YearThe average dumbass Reddit poster lmao did you see me mention that this was my first time going out all year? I'm not looking for one night stands or things of that nature lmao maybe in Miami I'll be more in that zone but It was 1 AM on a Monday morning. | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Here’s what works for me on Hinge - discussionEh, I think the goal should be to get her as distant from the app as possible lmao if she is investing time into you and the convo when you have her number, she will naturally check the app less. If you are trying to have a convo on the app, you are much more likely to just become another guy I think lol. | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 04:13 PM |
| 9 | Here’s what works for me on Hinge - discussionWhat do we do about women who are hesitant to give their number out? | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 03:11 PM |
| 4 | Can’t “seduce” womenThat shit was terrible lmaooooo. | /r/seduction | 11/03/24 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Subtly approached by girl?Girls who are interested in you will spark a convo and it’s just up to you to progress it along lol. Dealt with that several times in college, and never acted on it.. would lead to regret afterwards. The best mindset is to just stay relaxed but also assume that any girl who talks to you COULD be interested. That way you naturally just turn the charm on. | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Help Neededman chill tf out | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 09:45 PM |
| 6 | If A Woman Thinks You are A Player, Do Not Tell Her OtherwiseDon't agree, just smile and change the topic. | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Question, what’s one or two things you’ve done to massively change your dating game?Def don't download any apps then lol I had that same mindset where I'm not looking for sex, and that's all they wanted me for lol. If I don't make a move, they move to the next guy. My mindset is to now stay emotionally detached until we have sex.. once that happens, the conversations and expectations are different. Nothing can happen until we smash tho. And typically, unless she has expressed beforehand what she'll do for you, you won't see that side of a women where she offers more until you h… | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 04:37 PM |
| 1 | How To Seduce Women When You Are on DateI think you had one bad experience and you're taking it out on OP lol. He's 90% right.. talking too much on dates will kill all attraction and lead you into the friendzone. I am speaking because it has happened to me lol. It's different if a girl has to warm up to you, but if you know the likelihood that you will smash is at like 50 - 60% before the date, just being present and having a good time and ensuring SHE is having a good time, will greatly increase your chances. | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 03:37 PM |
| 3 | Question, what’s one or two things you’ve done to massively change your dating game?I'm in a short term drought rn so maybe my input is kinda worthless, but it's still important to have a certain amount of introspection about what went wrong in the past. So for me, I could get plenty of dates and women would be very receptive to me "being myself". My personality is not the problem at all, it is simply my lack of making a confident move and over talking on dates. Now if you have to carry a convo because a girl is kind of reserved, that's different. I have had women still want to… | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Question, what’s one or two things you’ve done to massively change your dating game?type shit | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 03:12 PM |
| 5 | Question, what’s one or two things you’ve done to massively change your dating game?That last point you made; do you typically do late night dates for that very reason? I think I'm going to nip "during the day" dates out of my arsenal because it hardly leads to them coming back unless we're hanging out all day. | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 03:11 PM |
| 18 | Question, what’s one or two things you’ve done to massively change your dating game?This advice will save your life bro, trust. I've been struggling to find a women to stick around after the first date and I soon realized it was due to me talking entirely too much on first dates. | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 03:04 PM |
| 15 | My advice on how to seduce a women after receiving a bunch of messages asking.What the fuck did you just subject me to read? | /r/seduction | 27/02/24 07:47 PM |
| 1 | I went on 18 first dates in January - here’s the breakdown of my results + my insightsYeah, I liked the style you have where you basically ask what their favorite wine is, and you offer to share a glass at your place. Def adding that to my arsenal. So to me it sounds like I'm doing everything right, but I'm "missing the pull" by not suggesting we head back to my place during the date. Essentially, I'm hanging out too long with no intentions of taking her back to my place. | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 05:37 PM |
| 1 | I went on 18 first dates in January - here’s the breakdown of my results + my insightsI want to say two hours on average. usually around 7 - 8 PM. I mean the conversation is always going well, but like I said I think I need to be more assertive. I've gone on two dates with this girl, and both times went well. We haven't made out yet, but she told me after our second date that she is definitely interested in seeing where things go after I expressed my desire for her. I will try and schedule something chill back at my place (I tried to make the second date at mine, but she wasn't c… | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 05:31 PM |
| 1 | I went on 18 first dates in January - here’s the breakdown of my results + my insightsDamn dude, this is where I'm striving to be. I've probably gone on maybe a fraction of those dates this year (closer to ten) and have yet been able to hookup with my dates (except for one who I hooked up with last summer). I think it's a comfort thing idk but I have also just been flatout ghosted more times than not. I have had plenty of hookups from dating apps, so I know being myself gets me somewhere, but I think I have a hard time reading a situation and reacting. It also comes down to comfo… | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Help! Other Guys bombard every girl I approachLol, sometimes guys like to sit around and wait for another guy to approach as it signals "damn, if he can do it, why can't I?". There's really nothing you can do about it tbh, because it's still the women's decision to choose who she wants to engage with as well. Just don't think about it too much and just have the mindset that you bring the life to the party/club. I'd def party with you though because I'm kinda the same lol way. I wouldn't hop on the girl you're talking to though, that's weird… | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 04:29 PM |
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