I'm kind of over it lmao this is why I don't like dating at all and don't go on dates. So I finally took out this girl who I've been texting and talking to on the phone for the past month (she was moving from another state), and when she arrived in my city, we went on a date. I always make sure I'm enjoying myself on dates, and it felt low pressure because we've been talking for a while and she seemed to be pretty cool. I did enjoy talking to her, in all honesty and she was a pretty smart girl.

But idk, I did kind of realize that we don't have the same personality type early on. We would talk on the phone, and our conversations would be kinda whatever. But she was cute, and seemed like the type of girl I could build with (asking me about my 401k and shit lmao) so I went along with it. The date comes, and I'm pretty excited for it.

Came with a nice fit, suggested a great restaurant and all that. But I did notice her body language was kinda off. I would kind of touch her and she would like back away from me. We kissed like three times, but she didn't kiss me back. There was something she didn't like about me.. and it's frustrating whenever I get these texts. Just feels like a waste of time. I will admit, that there wasn't much sexual tension (due to her not letting me touch her at all). Should I ask her why she feels we aren't compatible? I just feel like there's no way we talk on the phone several times and talk everyday and you just now realize we aren't compatible lol but I get that meeting in person is different.

So what do I do to offset these circumstances? I know you guys have a general overview of how I can improve. And I'm certainly open to adding more insight on how this date flowed if necessary.