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jtriangle/r/MensRights23/01/16 07:04 PM
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DISCUSSIONjtriangle/r/RedPillWives09/10/16 05:31 PM
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Thank you for your input - I don’t mind a blunt response. Good, I'm glad, because I had to rework it because the mods didn't like my frozen reference, which I thought was particularly clever but, they're right inasmuch as it was unnecessary to get my point across. Now I know it’s likely because of what he was doing in the bathroom earlier in the day. Could be, or could be that combined with countless other things, or could be that he's just tired. You can claim to know, but, it's not likely that…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/23 10:16 PM
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We have a great sex life What's your problem exactly then? Because it seems like what you're saying is "my partner is doing something I don't like and it doesn't actually affect me at all" and this is something you should consider further. How bad would it be to have the conversation over FaceTime? Very bad, don't do it. If you feel like doing it, do literally anything else, sort beans if you have to. You're going to nuke your relationship if you do and the stakes are that you'll wind up raising…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/23 09:30 PM
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Super gay in fact, but Andy T said that it's cool to be gay so I still do it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/23 12:49 AM
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If he's running his life in a financially competent way, being unemployed isn't a huge issue. At minimum, temper your expectations back to when you dated college guys, ie, cheap/free dates, cheap gifts, abundant quality time. Once you've sorted that out in your head, which, it's ok if that takes a little doing, go into cheerleader mode, words of affirmation go a long way. They're like salt, they'll enhance your interactions but they shouldn't be the whole of your interactions. Remember that men …
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/23 11:18 PM
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Should I lie? The answer to this question is always "no". If you've already lied, the damage has already been done, coming clean about it and telling the truth will allow for that damage to be repaired. The healing process for that won't usually be fun, but it is worthwhile.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 09:22 PM
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So, let me get this straight... You were broken up at some point and he went out and...met other women, one of which was younger than you, and now you're upset about it? In case it isn't clear to you currently, you need to get over it. Actually, you needed to have been over it, but, since you're clearly not, you need to work on that like right now. You were broken up. You're not now. If you weren't OK with that possibility, you should never have gotten back together. As for what you do now, well…
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 01:54 AM
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It's noble to worry about missing out on marriage. With what you're asking for in your post here, if you ever found it, you would 100% guarantee that you'd miss out on marriage as, sex is a part of marriage. I'd worry about getting better. It's work, but, trauma is not permanent, if you want to recover from it you will recover from it.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 03:36 PM
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You don't need to date, you need therapy. It's ok to be broken, it's not ok to do what you're doing and make brokenness an identity.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 08:58 AM
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How's a guy going to captain your ship if he can't even ask for a phone number in an environment where asking for a phone number is expected and encouraged? You don't want to partner with a man who won't make the first move, you want to partner with a man who by the time you realize he's making a move, he's already made 4.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/23 05:03 AM
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I know what you're talking about firsthand. I did musical theatre in college, on the tech side of things, not under the lights, but, I did wind up quitting because of the rampant degeneracy I was surrounded by. It didn't start that way, it was some combination of edgy and wholesome at first, and over the course of a few years devolved into theatrical child sexual exploitation, not involving minors mind, but depicting them, which was the point where I left, wanting no part in that sort of thing. …
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/22 07:30 PM
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How do I stop feeling like I’m betraying my values? Option 1) Do not care Option 2) Be authentic I suppose the real question is, why do you care what these people think of you? Do you require their support in order to hold your values? If that's the case, you haven't self-actualized yet, and you need to because it'll improve many other aspects of your life and your relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/22 06:38 PM
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any man with options (ie, HV) will eventually cheat on his wife I'd like to touch on this, because you seem to misunderstand what's happening here. SMV/RMV is on both sides of the equation. People typically cheat because they're able to find a better deal. This does not mean that high value men and women will always cheat, nor does it mean that they were always cheat when they're with someone of lower value. It does, however, mean that they're more likely to cheat in situations where the value d…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/22 08:31 PM
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How can I approach this situation more gracefully? You don't. Keep an eye on them for any behavior that may be subverting your relationship, but otherwise, this changes nothing. You've got a wedding to plan, and a marriage in your future, both of which are more important than facebook likes, or even the friends you had previously.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 08:03 PM
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I don't want you to feel like anything is dreadfully wrong with you, that's a common thing to experience and it's a very solvable problem. Here's a link to a site that likely explains why you're experiencing what you're experiencing, it'll help, promise.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/22 06:21 PM
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Which, for the record, is about as hard as you should be cutting. Running a higher deficit can really jack up your metabolism, which will leave you feeling lethargic, being less active on average, and therefore burning fewer calories. In addition to that, if you take it far enough, your body will be come much less eager to burn fat, and much more eager to convert blood sugar into fat, both of which run contrary to the goal of losing weight.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/22 02:14 AM
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Doubling down in the right situation is effective in situations where a poster is half-heartedly following RP ideas, which I would hazard to say is the majority of posters, not overwhelmingly, but, most. I also think that many women who end up here do so simply because the other relationship-centered subreddits are absolute hot garbage, not because they're already an RPW and want to tweak something to improve on what they already have. It's important to catch the newbies and place them on the pa…
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/22 02:48 AM
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I get your point of "don't give yourself to someone who doesn't reciprocate", but, understand that, often in a healthy relationship, people play off one another, and there are certainly times when you need to control how you act in order to receive the outcome you desire. Put in a very simple way, if you run around town in a miniskirt and a bikini top, you'll be treated as someone running around town in a miniskirt and a bikini top. If that is not the outcome that you desire, you must change you…
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/22 01:11 AM
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People saying things and how you comprehend what they say are often different. If you find yourself in a situation like this, where someone you think cares about you says something to you that you find offensive, your number 1 priority is to ask questions and reconcile them caring about you and what you heard. More often than not, you'll find that, with a little clarification, you just didn't understand what someone meant. That's not a fault of anyone involved, it's a very normal and natural thi…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/22 08:04 PM
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Most of your power as a woman is going to be derived from in person interaction. If you have the means to get together in real life, and not just through a screen, that will help immensely. If you're planning on getting him into therapy, that plan needs to be turnkey, as in, all he has to do is say yes. That means you have done the research, know which therapists would be a good fit, know the prices, know the availability, know where the offices are, etc etc. Just telling him "hey I think you sh…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/22 12:46 AM
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cptsd and he doesn't get help for it That doesn't sound like captain material to me, combine that with the distance, and you're with a guy who's ship is taking on water. Sure you can help him bail the water out, and you should to some extent, but if he's doing nothing to repair the holes, that's not a tenable situation to be in. I'm not saying "get out now", that's not a call anyone here can, or should, be making. What I will tell you is that you need to breach the subject with him and strongly …
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/22 10:56 PM
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It's not, and your medical doctor has no business giving you psychiatric or life advice. Keep your activism out of your profession.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/22 02:18 AM
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You're only as sick as your secrets. I wouldn't wear your body count around my neck, but I also wouldn't lie to myself and pretend that I hadn't done damage to my ability to pair bond with someone. The very fact that you feel the need to lie proves that you at least subconsciously have the understanding that there's a problem there. In terms of fixing yourself, the best thing you can do is to really work on yourself and avoid men altogether for awhile. That validation you seek has to come from y…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/22 06:46 PM
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You're not a bad wife, you just haven't built the structure you need to be a great wife. Make yourself a daily/weekly/monthly todo list, check the items off as you complete them. If you want to get tech involved, there are many, many daily planner apps that'll take some of the work out of planning that. I use todoist, and it's wonderful. Daily/Weekly/Monthly tasks for things I'm responsible for, and everything is snooze-able, so, if you're in the middle of something, you can easily be reminded l…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/22 07:50 PM
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I do like him but unfortunately I don’t really see him ever marrying me That's your cue to exit stage left. The reason marriage with children feels distant for you is that your current situation isn't likely to yield that result. It sounds to me like you've done a fair bit of wandering in your life, that's fine, as long as that changes and changes soon. You need to be intentional with yourself, and what you want. Take 6 months, go into nun mode, then get back at it, you've got a little time. Add…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/22 11:45 PM
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Some may call this “aggressively independent,” Yes, and have you considered that, perhaps, they might be right? And further, have you considered how that may limit your access to men you find desirable? if you're not doing anything for your partner This is spoken in terms of "acts of service" which is a very common love language among men, right up there with physical touch. If you're providing no value via acts of service, you will have to compensate via other means if you want to attract a sim…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/21 02:40 AM
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I wouldn’t take on extra household chores. How much extra is it really? If you're already mopping a floor or wiping down a counter or doing laundry for yourself, how much extra energy do you need to expend to include the additional need of another person? You're lying to yourself if you think that it's +100% more work, the reality is, it's not even close. You're also completely discounting the viability of the distribution of labor in a household. The fact is, you're much more efficient at some …
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/21 01:41 AM
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I'd suggest taking care of the odors directly instead of covering them up with chemical perfume. There are many solutions out there for shoe odor, with varying degrees of efficacy. I've had good luck with the blue gold bond foot powder placed in the shoes before and after use. If the odor is really bad and persistent, you'd be good to look into a product called 'friendly foot', which does a good job of addressing that. You have to treat the shoes, then shake out the powder, because it's not supe…
/r/RedPillWives22/03/21 06:52 PM
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Things will get as good as you can stand The gist of that is, you'll only allow someone to love you as much as you love yourself. What you're experiencing is someone who cares for you more than you do, and it's uncomfortable because it creates dissonance with how you see yourself. Sure the folks here warning you about the potential for abuse and manipulation are worth considering, but if you want to armor yourself against that, you have to treat yourself better. When I say "treat yourself better…
/r/RedPillWives20/01/21 10:43 PM
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You shouldn't be in a position with low value men where sex is even potentially on the table. Cures all of that nonsense.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/20 08:03 PM
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Keep the tradition then, surely you have some male authority figure in your life that he can ask that's not an asshole. That, and you reallllllllly need to setup some boundaries with your dad, and enforce them with an iron fist. If you don't, you and your boyfriend aren't going to make it. Remember, you teach people how to treat you. You absolutely cannot let anyone drive a wedge in between your relationships with other people and expect them to survive. Take agency, take responsibility, and do …
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/20 06:28 PM
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Not really. Understanding the opposite gender is the point, what you do with that knowledge is up to you.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 05:05 AM
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It isn't tight to begin with, it's the muscles around it that give a sensation of tightness, and birthing a child can cause a loss of muscle tone because those muscles get stretched and torn during birth. Some women more than others of course, because anatomy differs, and the size of the baby differs. Good news is, you can exercise those muscles back into shape after birth and potentially be tighter than ever. This is a good resource if you want to look into it: https://www.askdrsears.com/topics…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 01:04 AM
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Also, critical information is being left out here. If their sex life is good, and their relationship is healthy, this is a non issue. If they don't have a fulfilling sex life and if their relationship has tension and pain, this is probably a big problem that needs addressing. There's no need for knee jerk reactions to this stuff, and that kind of thing won't ever lead to harmony in a relationship regardless of the issue at hand.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/20 08:43 PM
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Those kinds of questions are ones you're currently ill equipped to get answers for. My guess would be simple relational momentum. He knew her way longer than he knew you. The fact is, a captain who doesn't honor his commitments isn't worth your time. It doesn't matter why he didn't honor them, just that he didn't. You have an opportunity here, to be a better woman. Please take it. I promise you'll end up someplace where you won't even remember how sucky you feel right now.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 09:01 AM
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The main place you went wrong was failing to adequately vet your captain before you committed to him. Don't tear yourself up too much, it's not helpful. Kick into nun mode for awhile, at least a few months, and work on yourself, for yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 08:09 AM
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I'm not terribly worried. Life finds a way, and men and women are designed to be together. It's in our wiring. It's important to realize that there aren't many bonefied incels IRL, and they're massively over-represented in media and online. As far as MGTOW's, they're out in the real world, but they mostly don't participate online, so the real properly redpilled MGTOW's are actually under-represented. Online, MGTOW's are mostly either closeted incels or redpilled men going through their bitternes…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/19 11:49 PM
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I'm saying quite the opposite actually. Go re-read what I've written. It would be logically consistent if someone had a requirement of "zero-porn-ever" to also have a "zero-unnatural-dopamine-ever", which is probably great if you could find it. There are guys who live a very 'low-reward' lifestyle that would be pretty close to that ideal. I think it's unnecessarily restrictive in terms of finding a mate, but it's logically consistent whereas what OP has written is not. And to further that point,…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/19 07:10 PM
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You're mostly right, but you have to understand the perspective many redpill women have. They're trying their absolute hardest to fit into an anthropological roll that is antithetical to what modern society has told them the ideal is, and from their perspective, porn is limiting their chances of finding a mate that's up to snuff when that's already fairly difficult. The science doesn't lie, porn addiction is real like any other addiction. There are people addicted to the dumbest stuff, but addic…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/19 06:08 PM
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It would be helpful for you to have a stronger idea of the clinical definitions you're dealing with: https://online.alvernia.edu/articles/habit-vs-addiction/ It's immediately apparent to me that you're not making a distinction between the two where you should.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 11:44 PM
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I've always liked Walt Whitman's poem, 'The Body Electric', for it's description of women, specifically the fifth stanza: https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/45472/i-sing-the-body-electric
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/19 11:08 PM
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Generally, it should be gentle and come from a place of value. You can't nag your way to success. More specifically, the FAQ is a very good place to start getting into specifics /r/RedPillWomen/wiki/index/tableofcontents
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/19 01:05 AM
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The first rule of fight club is that you don't talk about fight club. You're red pulled, he's not. If you do your job right and apply the theory gracefully, you'll both get what you want. If he doesn't respond well, he's not your captain, or a captain at all. Good news is, there are plenty of eligible skippers out there ready to be your captain if the one you're with won't.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/19 09:38 PM
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No, he saw what you were looking at on reddit, so he knows what's up regardless of what you're saying. Best to just keep doing what you're doing, don't go too fast into it, and hope that he doesn't notice.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 03:58 PM
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The first rule of fight club is that you don't talk about fight club. If he's worth his salt and you implement these ideas gracefully, you'll both get what you want. Because he now knows about fight club, which was your fault, you've made the graceful implementation of those ideas harder. Any questions about a change in you that he perceives should be satiated with "I'm doing these things because I love you/care about you/ect", which should be a true statement. If you're worried about him being …
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 07:54 PM
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Aerie and Agent Provocateur if you want something upline. You also have to consider how you're washing it though, because even expensive AP will fall apart if you're just tossing it in the washer. Ideally, you'd handwash it with something like woolite that's really gentle and then dry it on low/gentle in a bag like this: https://www.amazon.com/Large-Lingerie-Bag-Laundry-Delicates/dp/B0145ZCOT0
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/19 03:25 AM
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Homechef is a little less fancy if you'd like to start a recipe book of stuff you can cook more than once. They usually have deals around black friday which is coming up. It's a really easy way to get into cooking, and start to understand how stuff works together. And outside of that, if you have a mom in your friend group that knows how to cook, she'll be more than happy to take your help and you'll earn a good friend in the process.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/19 03:09 AM
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SEO is 100% bullshit nowadays. You want to rank on google? cool, make quality content and buy ads. You might be able to temporarily game the system, but they're going to catch on to your tricks sooner or later and wipe you from the internet once they do.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/19 11:27 PM
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sensibilities That's being generous.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/19 11:20 PM
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Yeah, it was more for reference.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 02:49 PM
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Nah, it doesn't keep her in line, it just makes her afraid of you because you're making loud noises. Fear leads to resentment, and lowers your value in her eyes because part of your perceived value is the ability for you to keep her safe, ie, not afraid. You can try to do mental origami to get around it, but 10,000 years ago, that was your purpose in her eyes, keep her safe and well fed while she raises your children. Don't think the human experience has wandered far from that reality. Sooner or…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 07:29 AM
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Wait, did he tell you his age online or over the phone, and then turns out that's not his real age? or did you just pull it off his profile and assume that was real and it's not? See, one is deliberate, targeted dishonesty towards you, which is a big red flag. The other, could just be a mistake, could be that he had it set younger or older and forgot about it, could be that if you had asked him he would have been 100% upfront, could be all sorts of things, but nothing specifically tailored to ma…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/19 03:39 AM
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This is a shit test, but it's also the symptom of a larger problem. OP isn't thinking like a high value man, likely because he's not a high value man. Step 1, is back to the basics. Become a high value man again. Stop answering all of her texts. Hit the gym a few times a week. Figure out what clothing attractive men his age are wearing and wear that. Buy a nice watch. Pay more than 10 bucks for a haircut. Go out places where younger, attractive, women hangout after all of the above, so she can r…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/19 05:07 PM
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Healthy boundaries are absolutely critical to red pill theory though, and she could really use some time alone to learn that. I'm very slow to say that someone should leave a marriage, so I don't say it lightly.
/r/RedPillWives01/08/19 05:43 AM
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I couldn't disagree more. Red Pill is for solving problems from within, and doesn't allow for an abusive relationship like the one OP is very clearly in because it teaches one the value of oneself, and how to handle that value in a relationship (spoiler, not like this). What she needs to do is get away from this low self esteem tyrant of a man she's partnered with and go into nun mode for awhile, with the intent of healing the damage this guy has caused. She needs the red pill now, more than eve…
/r/RedPillWives01/08/19 01:24 AM
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This is why whisper has that fancy TRPfounder flair (spoiler, it's because they actually know their shit).
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/19 06:31 AM
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When we get into the car he seems baffled at why I am clearly irritated and claims to have no idea why I have an attitude. he pretended to be oblivious to what he had done. You're assuming that he intentionally did something to slight you. You're not a mind reader, stop pretending like you are. He has never greeted any of his family, friends, or even me in this way. This isn't the first time You've contradicted yourself here. Either he occasionally greets people in this way, or he does not. My g…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/19 08:56 PM
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There are folks who really hate this sub, and periodically downvote everything in a thread. You can rest easy that these people are probably bluepilled as it comes and if they aren't already miserable they will be eventually.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/19 06:54 PM
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Also depends on the age group. Young people tend to flake more often (not just on dates either) whereas late 20's-30's tend to set fairly concrete plans and stick to them unless otherwise notified. I don't personally recall being flakey when I was younger, or other people being flakey in particular, so my guess is that it's a generational thing.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/19 07:22 AM
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the majority of feminine and fashionable women don't remove their arm hair This is false in the US where being hairy is quite the opposite of feminine.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/19 09:32 PM
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Young people with ED tend to have hypertension and the resulting high blood pressure. 2 cups of hibiscus tea per day takes the edge off as well as the meds they'd put him on, but it's worth keeping tabs on regardless.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/19 04:17 PM
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I assure you, people have sex in all kinds of ways you'd find unpleasant and like them just fine.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/19 04:15 PM
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People are uncomfortable when they're treated better than they treat themselves. This is exactly your problem. Learn to treat yourself better, police your thought life, set healthy boundaries with people around you and take time to appreciate yourself. Do that and your problem goes away. As an added bonus, the SMV of a woman who is well grounded and understands who she is will always be higher than one that does not. It's why men shy away from 18 year olds for anything but sexual conquest; they …
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/19 04:04 AM
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This subreddit forum gets brigaded by people who are butt-hurt by our understanding of how the battle of the sexes really plays out in the real world. Don't let it discourage you!
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 10:00 PM
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Our relationship has worked up to this point because I worked the RedPill and part of this included hiding my fetishes with him so I would appear to be a quality woman. Right from the horse's mouth too...
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 05:47 PM
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He lives with his parents because it’s affordable and comfortable I'm really sorry but if you need a bigger red flag than that, you really need to get better at vetting, because you're absolutely terrible at it.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 05:36 PM
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No, you really want this relationship to work because you're codependent and you think that you're somehow broken. There are ways to deal with all that with a therapist. If you're not seeing one, I strongly suggest you do so, 12 step groups are nice, but they're not a substitute for proper 1 on 1 therapy. I wouldn't jump to medication right away, and I wouldn't expect magic results from therapy right away. It takes time to fix people. Speaking of time, you need to spend some time in Nun mode and…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 05:34 PM
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Realistically, that child should not be living with her mother. Babysitting her while her mom is trying to drown herself in safety handle vodka in the other room isn't helping anything, it's just cosigning the mother's piss poor behavior. I do agree though, protect the sister, bring her to live with you, and lose your shitty parent's phone numbers until they get their shit together. There's some legal odds and ends to take care of, sure, but it's totally possible and it's the right thing to do a…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/19 04:59 PM
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Better than that, get an instant pot, specifically the one with bluetooth. You can program it to turn on and cook stuff and hold it at temp until you get home. Well worth the price imho.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/19 04:31 PM
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Wow Thanks! That's a really fascinating read, turns out there's good evidence to suggest tannins mess with iron uptake, so if you have low iron it'll wreck you. Also, getting natural sources of iron is important as the supplements aren't very bioavailable, so it makes sense to protect your body's ability to adsorb the good stuff!
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/19 04:19 AM
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Wait, tannin prevents nutrient adsorption? I've never heard that before, do you have a source of where you read that? I've always assumed chewed food would be pretty adsorbable.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/19 01:15 AM
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Are you looking to support him? or cosign his bad behavior? It's a tough question that you need to answer for yourself, and I'd like to encourage you to be absolutely brutally honest. I don't really care what your answer is, and you don't even have to tell me or anyone but yourself. If you aren't uncomfortable while answering that, you probably aren't being honest enough because this kind of introspection shouldn't be comfortable. About your guy. I'm going to tell you straight here, your guy can…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 07:29 AM
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That is the terrifying truth isn't it. We don't talk about it, but on the whole the average fertility rate is wayy down. Realistically, struggling is normal now.
/r/RedPillWives29/01/19 05:00 AM
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He doesn't feel guilty, he feels like a failure. Objectively, yeah, tough talk, he is. That doesn't mean that subjectively you can't get him feeling otherwise. Trying for a kid is stressful. The timing, the scheduling, the temperature taking, the worrying, all of it is not really what you want out of sex and that's a bummer for a guy especially if he could ever have you at his whim. It's that feeling that I'd start with, try to keep sex more organic, more natural, at least for awhile. Then, when…
/r/RedPillWives29/01/19 04:58 AM
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That and the completely nebulous definition of toxic masculinity. Most of the time it's just a general hate of masculinity in general and trying to frame things as though all/most masculinity is toxic. It's really a valid grievance men have here and playing that game is the real toxicity here.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/19 04:55 AM
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You're wasting your time with him. If you'd like to settle and ensure your children will have an alcoholic father, and you, an alcoholic husband who may or may not get abusive, sure, go right ahead. When this problem started at the end of year 1 you should have left. Now that you've waited, well, you're only getting older.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/18 12:54 AM
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You don't work, you don't eat. That's how it should be but unfortunately our society fosters apathy and even rewards it. Chances are, if he doesn't work for a living, he won't work for anything else that matters. Guys like that should be a hard pass for any self respecting woman, redpilled or not.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/18 02:21 AM
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Remember, with anything like this you're bound to only hear the complaints. People who it's working for have no incentive to talk about it, so they don't.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/18 06:59 AM
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If that's actually a hard requirement you should have left him as soon as you found out, not months later. It's good to have requirements, but you're doing both of you a enormous disservice by selectively applying them when you feel like it.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/18 03:21 AM
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I mean, you really can't tell much as far as maturity goes when they're both 18. If we're being realistic, odds are they're both woefully immature. Frankly, it sounds like OP just wants to sew her wild oats and needs other people to validate her desire to do so. Wanting to and doing so is fine, but needing validation to do so reeks of insecurity. It's a piss poor place to go out and try to find someone decent from.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/18 03:18 AM
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You've made the fatal mistake of expecting him to read your mind and you've wrought the relationship that you deserved. Go into monk mode, that's a good first step. While you're there, figure out what you did to make this fail and own that shit. At that point, you'll be able to fix yourself. If you don't you'll wind up in the same situation over and over.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/18 06:21 AM
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If you have to lie to him so that you can prove to yourself that he's your captain, you've already lost. Dishonesty is absolutely toxic, not just to him, and not just to your relationship, but also to yourself. You're undoubtedly feeling the effects of this already. You also seem to be concerned with providing for him as though it's some kind of huge deal that you get to make food for him and have sex from time to time. If you're getting nothing out of either of those actions, I'd suggest lookin…
/r/RedPillWives05/11/18 12:13 AM
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Because of the implication.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/18 05:33 AM
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My initial impression is that he's just a flat broke starving college kid. That stuff happens, if he's not in any danger of starving to death, I'd say mostly leave him be. It's good for a man to make the connection of "working hard = eating well". If you're looking to date this man, feeding him will probably reel him in like you'd expect, but I don't know if you'd find any value in him once you do if he can't earn enough to feed himself. Also realize if this is an eating disorder that it's not a…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/18 10:49 PM
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The wiki https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/wiki/index has good answers to your questions.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/18 08:41 PM
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No doubt it's a less than ideal situation, but I stand by what I've said. Situations change, nothing is static, and because she's young it's worth a couple more months of careful consideration to find out.
/r/RedPillWives25/08/18 07:47 AM
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He never said that it's non negotiable, and even if he did, everything is negotiable. Situations and feelings change, if you treat them like they're static entities you're setting yourself up for misery.
/r/RedPillWives24/08/18 05:48 AM
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You're two months into this, so about ankle deep. Don't think that you really know him yet or that he really knows you, just that you're getting there and putting in the effort. Be realistic, stick to your game and your laurels and enjoy yourself. As for the ex thing, I'd make sure to mention to him that him comparing you to his ex is not fair to anyone and that you'd like to be measured on your own. I'd start there and see how it goes. If he reacts favorably to that, give it a little while and …
/r/RedPillWives23/08/18 06:18 PM
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a full and thorough STD screening. This is very important. If you want an accurate test, you have to test, then retest in 2 weeks, then retest in 4 weeks. Given this guy's past, there's a much higher chance that he's been exposed. I'd also seriously consider going on PrEP like RIGHT NOW and staying on it until the end of those testing windows /u/Torridtwenty for his sake, don't just dump him At this point, she owes him nothing. She needs to do what is best for her.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/18 10:57 PM
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I agree wholeheartedly with all of the above. Very well reasoned, which clearly comes from experience, anecdotal or personal. I would add one additional thing which is "Being a Fortune Teller". Which while that's an intentionally silly way to put it, let me explain. Much of pop girl culture (Vogue et al) supports the notion that someone can guess what their partner is thinking/feeling/experiencing with any degree of accuracy. I have found this notion to be nothing but toxic to a relationship, pr…
/r/RedPillWives17/08/18 06:19 AM
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Also, I don't think that this sub has a low tolerance for men, I think you have a low tolerance for men. Don't project your own prejudice on the good women of RPW.
/r/RedPillWives15/08/18 07:27 PM
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Looks like the rules state that I must have flair and that it must be accurate, so you're advocating me breaking the rules... As for why I'm here, look at my post history on the sub, should be obvious. Nothing about your OP said this post was exclusively for women only. I also don't see, given it's content, why it should be in the first place. Ideas are ideas, it's not a gendered thing.
/r/RedPillWives15/08/18 07:25 PM
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This explains it better than most could https://discordapp.com/ The sort of it is that it's text and/or voice chat. It was originally conceived for people playing video games, but it works as a general purpose chat room. It also has a desktop app along with IOS/Android apps which makes it usable on your phone.
/r/RedPillWives15/08/18 05:29 PM
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Yes, I've been told multiple times that me being a man isn't relevant to my posts on this sub. It seems that you think differently, being that you've removed all of my posts on this thread... I can tell you're not a lebowski fan. Yes, I'm a dude, so what about that invalidates my opinions on what chat feature would be best? As far as I'm aware, this sub is for women and men are welcome. I've certainly posted here in the past and was welcomed without incident, but perhaps something has changed an…
/r/RedPillWives15/08/18 05:23 PM
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Yes, which is why I recommended discord, because it's easier for new users and the reddit chat isn't ready for prime time, but it's an easy option. I don't know what me being in possession of male genetalia has to do with any of this, and further, the mention of that kind of thing as far as I can tell is discouraged on this sub. That makes me wonder what your motivations for mentioning that are, and honestly I don't think they're exactly pure and noble...
/r/RedPillWives15/08/18 06:28 AM
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Reddit has per sub integrated chat now, so that might be a better option. Personally I'd prefer a discord group, just for ease of use and broad appeal.
/r/RedPillWives15/08/18 05:41 AM
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Ah, so you're just a troll, and a piss poor one at that... GG kid.
/r/MensRights10/06/18 05:36 PM
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You either think all humans have equal rights or you don't. That's the ideology, and assuming you're not a literal nazi you probably share it plenty when it suits you.
/r/MensRights10/06/18 05:29 PM
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I don't assume all women find that phrase that easy to say in heated and complicated situations. No doubt this is at the heart of the issue. It's a lack of education and to a different extent a lack of empowerment. I don't think that Grace, or as I recently found out, Abby (her real name), has a lack of empowerment, but likely a lack of education. Sometimes we learn things the hard way, and I don't think she handled it well in this case. Sure she's getting reamed by a few edditorialists, probabl…
/r/RedPillWives17/01/18 06:35 AM
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I don't care for analogies, especially analogies that try to call my apples some sort of citrus fruit. Also recall that you don't even know what kind of fruit is growing on grace's farm, because she's not a real person, just a pseudonym with a story. If it comes down to character v. character, we can't make a judgement call because we have insufficient data. We can only feel what is right or wrong. God help us if our feelings become our objective measure of truth. not ruining The collective 'you…
/r/RedPillWives17/01/18 05:07 AM
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Recall that you have one side of this story, her side. His side came out today and it was very apologetic and clear that he had no idea she wasn't comfortable until she said something. Nonverbal cues don't count for anything, there's a reason as a society we've developed verbal language. If you're willing to take everything she says as gospel, you also have to take everything he says as gospel (and in this instance there isn't much contradiction). It's bad sex following a bad date. That's par fo…
/r/RedPillWives17/01/18 03:35 AM
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Done. I had no idea it wasn't approved.
/r/RedPillWives03/07/17 01:23 AM
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Certainly, I just feel weird because this is definitely a women's sub and I'm not certain how to add flair on mobile.
/r/RedPillWives03/07/17 01:14 AM
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Does he like rain? See, I love rain, so a rainy picnic sounds endeering if I can stay warm. I also like the inside picnic idea, totally endeering. Steak is easy to cook, but you need to trial run so you're not serving him the first steak you've ever made. Personally, I always use a cook time calculator that takes into account the type of meat, and how many inches thick it is. I haven't messed up a steak in years. Also, melt some organic butter on the steak while you let it rest (10 minutes of re…
/r/RedPillWives02/07/17 07:39 PM
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"Don't taze me bro" -girl probably
/r/PussyPassDenied14/06/17 01:47 AM
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Not to mention the german suplex onto concrete you'd experience once you started resisting arrest like she did.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/06/17 01:38 AM
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Did you even watch the clip?
/r/MensRights05/04/17 10:37 PM
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I could survive off 1m for the rest of my life. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xdfeXqHFmPI You're damn right.
/r/MensRights05/04/17 04:50 PM
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Curiously, they've managed to delete the archived copy. Previously it had the whole text. Here it is below: Thank you to everyone for your continuing support. To everyone who replied to the original announcement or messaged us privately, your words of kindness mean a lot. Unfortunately the situation is not looking good. We've been targeted as a "hate sub" in the past and honestly I don't care, everyone is allowed their point of view no matter how wrong it is. Online threats mean nothing to us, I…
/r/PussyPassDenied10/02/17 05:20 PM
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We can only hope learning has occurred.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/02/17 03:49 AM
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Yes, he certainly would. That said, without proof, we'd just have to take him at is word, which involves trust. Trust that I, and many others, would rather go without. That said, I've been satiated by the modlog screencap, so unless something else happens I'm comfortable saying that this was just a prank.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/02/17 01:43 AM
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Looks legit to me. I've seen plenty of shops before. You can always tell by the pixels.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 10:57 PM
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Fascinating.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 10:17 PM
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Not enough wafu's and m'lil ponys.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 09:55 PM
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Yes, I just saw this and updated the OP. Good news indeed.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 09:54 PM
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Well yes, showing that someone got doxxed would be in itself doxxing them, so that's problematic. At minimum /r/FacebookCleavage was obviously taken over.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 09:53 PM
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It's a mod log, it isn't exactly someone's deepest darkest secrets here. The admins can already see all of this in cleartext, there's little reason why we shouldn't too in this instance. As far as IP is concerned, again, it just identifies mustaka as the same user as he was previously. It's not a home address, or phone number, or mother's maiden name. You could even black out the last couple digits, as the odds of someone who had stolen the account having a very similar IP would be quite small. …
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 09:34 PM
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Agreed, and this probably won't happen.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 09:27 PM
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Maybe even less than that honestly. If you're at a big university you could be one of thousands that uses that IP. If you're on residential cable/dsl you could have your IP recycled daily/weekly/monthly.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 09:27 PM
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If you're implying that an sjw takeover has to be some legbeards kicking in the head mod's door and putting a dildo gun to his head, then no, they weren't taken over. If you mean the head mod suddenly left and other mods shifted the policy to include stuff like "no hate speech" then yeah, that's exactly what's happened. See, passwords get guessed, people get pressured/doxxed, subs that don't have active mods can be claimed in reddit court. All this stuff happens.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 09:23 PM
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I'm not sure. I've looked at a number of his past posts that were around the same length. It seems that most of these are something from the past that he's talking about. Military service, family history, things like that. He tends to start sentences quickly, almost in the middle of a thought. He frequently adds additional details after a sentence as a fragment but without a semicolon, which is likely how his conversational speech is. The announcement message is different from most of his posts …
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 09:08 PM
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Nothing aside from a shift in mod policy.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 09:07 PM
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People are going to cry no matter what, the only question is which people cry. This isn't just one big conglomerate of people, it's multiple groups, some of which are happy/indifferent/sad/angry/etc. What would be adequate proof for me, and likely many others, is an ip log and the mod chat logs. That satisfies the questions as to if this was planned and if the top mod's account is compromised.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 08:59 PM
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Nah, I just don't take things at face value all the time. Perhaps self-entitled skeptic would be a better title.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 08:54 PM
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IP isn't considered PII, because it can be shared with multiple people and doesn't give an accurate geographic location.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 08:53 PM
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Everything with proof. All we can do is gather evidence and make a decision. With this, the initial hearsay means nothing, if this subs stays the same then that's all the proof anyone needs.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 07:43 PM
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More complex than that. It's the tendency to censor more than anything. The idea that "hate speech" is harmful is another issue. There are a few instances of subs being actually shut completely down, but most of them are porn or porn related, I don't know them off the top of my head. The overarching problem is that many of those subs, and reddit as a whole, used to be more of a wild-west kind of feel. Like a classier, smarter, 4chan with less weird porn and more cool stuff. Anything was permissi…
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 07:23 PM
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That, and most of these: https://www.reddit.com/r/Blackout2015/comments/3pme4i/a_list_of_sjwcompromised_subreddits_and_viable/
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 06:56 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/Blackout2015/comments/3pme4i/a_list_of_sjwcompromised_subreddits_and_viable/ is a good place to start. Some of these are kinda iffy, because mods do turnover, and mods can have different views than the previous. So some of these were organic, but most were direct takeover. Also, this is a long running list, so it might be hard to find what these subs were like previously because they've been in their current state for some time.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 06:55 PM
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IP logs would help, as would the mod chat where they allegedly planned this. I'm not looking for proof of doxing or not, I'm looking for proof that mustaka is still in control of that account.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 06:47 PM
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It's /u/Mustaka. And give me a second and I'll do it.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 06:32 PM
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Prove it. Honestly, if his account isn't compromised, prove it. Fact is, we don't trust you. We don't trust you for the same reasons that this sub exists, for the same reason /r/KotakuInAction exists and a number of others. Even if this whole thing is fake, people taking over subs in the name of 'social justice' does exist, and the admin team refuses to address it. Every time it gets brought up you won't even have a dialogue about it.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 06:28 PM
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Original post here: http://web.archive.org/web/20170207132914/https://www.reddit.com/r/pussypassdenied/comments/5rzlpx/update_to_the_doxing_situation/ The internet doesn't forget.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 06:20 PM
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Yes, we're totally down with Christian viewpoints and stuff. Thanks for the other recommendations too, I'll forward them on to her.
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