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Field Reportjuggle4balls/r/askMRP16/06/16 05:30 PM
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juggle4balls/r/askMRP16/04/18 02:28 PM
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juggle4balls/r/askMRP04/05/17 07:31 PM
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juggle4balls/r/askMRP30/05/17 11:21 PM
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Take control of your relationship. Breastfeeding until 4 years old?! IMO, that is bizarre. Set a date for that to stop. Initiate. Initiate for 10 days straight. Get over yourself and fears of rejection. She may just be waiting for your to take control. Do the work. Become a man, become more attractive.
/r/RPChristians19/09/19 01:51 PM
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No shame bro, set that shit on level 100. Maybe i should rewrite the formula. Electric Shock Therapy + Testicles||Vagina||Breasts = Tingles Easy tingles for everyone!
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/19 06:54 PM
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Electric Shock Therapy + Testicles = Tingles
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/19 06:01 PM
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I just had to make the biggest decision of our families life last week. Through circumstances of life, we lost everything, completely liquid assets and could move anywhere in the U.S.A. Wife wants to move, I do not. I handled it by bringing the teenagers and wife to a family meeting. I gave each 60 seconds, without interruption to speak their mind. Why you do or don't want to move, etc. After that I laid out all the options of where we could move, pros and cons of each. Then each person did anot…
/r/askMRP06/09/19 05:50 PM
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Good idea on a quick shot of work drama. As for women's motives no. I meant killing my ego and self validation.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/18 08:49 PM
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OYS #2 Background: 40 years old. Married 16. 5 kids. Redpill for over a year. Dread Level 5. Physical: 6'. 170lbs. 12% BF. Lifts: Sq: 190, OHP: 105, DL: 240, BP: 155, Row: 110. My back is mostly healed at this point but seriously concerned i have an inguinal hernia. Getting a doctor appt setup to figure this shit out. I don't need another hernia surgery. Reading: Read most of the books in the sidebar. Reading 48 Laws of Power this week. Relationship: I continued my complete withdrawal of physica…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/18 03:26 PM
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I'm not sure I can articulate the sentiment in a handful of words, but i'll stand by it. It's the reason i've been as successful as I've been. I'm not willing to settle for status quo/good enough. I also realize that I generally don't have the time, assets to be the best. Rogan is a great example. That man has a personality that allows him to focus and dedicate more hours to a single activity than the general population has the patience for. That's why he is the best at ... archery, BJJ, comedy,…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/18 06:06 PM
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I am motivated to be the best...and sometimes I'll settle for being almost the best because I'm not willing to put in the hours required to be the best. Because I made the decision to marry my wife, she gets to define 'the best' when it comes to her attraction. I know I'm attractive to other women. I've put in the work to be attractive...but if its not good enough for her, then i want out. Her best is outside my willingness to do more. Is that external validation...i don't think so...but...this …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/18 03:16 PM
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Is this not a covert contract? I don't think so. It's more of a test, to see how she will react. I guess it could be like a reverse CC. I'm not doing something to get something in return - although this is not my motivation. How often do you leave the house? Day job means I'm out of the house from 7am to 7pm. Hit the gym M,W,F from 8:30-10. Weekends is fixing shit around the house or doing something with the family (camping, etc). Doesn't leave much more time to vacate the premises. One thing I'…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/18 02:29 PM
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I've been doing something about it for 16 years.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/18 02:18 PM
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OYS #1 Background: 40 years old. Married 16. 5 kids. Redpill for over a year. Dread Level 5. Physical: 6'. 170lbs. 12% BF. Lifts: Sq: 190, OHP: 105, DL: 240, BP: 155, Row: 110. Hurt my lower back last week. Most likely DL but could have been squats. I'm thinking of abandoning DL and SQ and replacing with something not as likely to reinjure my back. Not being able to walk and play with the kids to lift heavy ass weights is not worth it IMO. Reading: Read most of the books in the sidebar. Starting…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/18 01:51 PM
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Then you went "Rambo" and started issuing orders and making demands. Now she sees a Beta Husband trying to "act" Alpha and thinks these changes are just a phase that she can wait out. This has not happened. I've not issued orders or made demands. In some cases I have made decision to lead the family down a particular road, but demanding/negotiating attraction with her has been off limits since i started this journey. Why not lead her to a place where she appreciates the changes and looks forward…
/r/askMRP17/04/18 02:01 PM
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The attitude should be "I will have sex." She has little or nothing to do with that. She has little or nothing to do with the attitude? Agree. Little or nothing to do with whether we'll have sex? Disagree
/r/askMRP16/04/18 07:15 PM
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algorithmic is certainly true which in retrospect is probably the issue with gaming. I need to think through comfort as well. During our discussion she said, "I hear you tell me I'm beautiful or sexy but I don't believe it. I never have."
/r/askMRP16/04/18 07:13 PM
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I forgot, redpill rambo drops pantys day 1 right.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 07:10 PM
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I only ignore her after multiple initiations. My frame was shattered by her for sure. I didn't lose my shit or vomit all over her. but her asserting the opposite of what i thought was true, sure fucked me up. It hasn't happened in so long I wasn't sure what to do with it.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 07:09 PM
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I remember reading this back in the day. Certainly a good refresher and I can see aspects of this i need to work on. I don't want to insinuate that I'm Chad, but I not a fucking slouch. Redpill: Read 6-7 books on the sidebar. Consistent DL 4-5 for the past year or so. MAP in full effect. Career: New job making legit cash. I'm actively pursuing $500M+ business deals where I run large teams of people to win the deal. I run with the VPs and have their respect and the bonus checks to prove it. My wi…
/r/askMRP16/04/18 07:07 PM
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RP for a year/two didn't mean i got this shit figured out. I understand the principles but struggle everyday to execute. I thought we all played hide the salami?! Isn't that DL4? I've got better things to do then try to get her to be interested. I'm almost to the point where i want to start dropping haymakers and blow some shit up. I just can't figure that out, without looking like a bitch. Her not being attracted to me really irks me. It's much easier for me to hope that isn't true and that it …
/r/askMRP16/04/18 06:49 PM
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In almost all areas I would say i'm well defined. I determine what I want and execute it to the best of my abilities. Sometimes they (wife and kids) come for the ride. Sometimes I go solo. Either is fine with me. In general i'm not affected by her emotional states. Here it got to me because I believed sex was mutual. The fact is this really could have been a shit test and she wanted to see if i would react like I would have a year or two ago. I wish being a fag wasn't so easy.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 06:34 PM
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Get some cigarettes and drive to her workplace. She is totally surprised. I tell her that there are her cigarettes and make ready to leave. I initially thought "make ready to leave" was him nexting her. That would have been a much better ending.
/r/askMRP31/05/17 09:32 PM
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But do so with game theory. I checked the side bar but nothing stuck out as game theory. Any recommended book(s) to read? My guess is, she does not see you as highly as you think she does. Otherwise, she would have played the game. Yep, the problem is I can't ask her how highly she sees me. I have to find out through games like this, albeit in this case, too complicated of a game. I understand your reasoning (first paragraph), and though you may be technically correct, the reality is that your b…
/r/askMRP31/05/17 09:06 PM
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You can't condition your woman to react the way you would your dog. Isn't this contrary to dread game? Specifically level 4? I get your point that I must develop attraction and be attractive, but it seems that dread is all about conditioning. Are you suggesting otherwise?
/r/askMRP31/05/17 03:02 PM
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My current thinking is these are "rewards" for sex I find myself in this cycle where we have sex, then go into this 2 week sex hiatus. During this cycle I continue to initiate but after 2...3...4 times I slowly withdraw my time and commitment. If I game like this at the end of this cycle, then it sends the wrong message. The statement above was meant to convey the message that this type of gaming should be used when the sex is flowing freely and not at the end of a cycle where affection/commitme…
/r/askMRP31/05/17 02:23 PM
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I'm not sure there is a covert contract here, but I want to explain and you call BS if I've got this shit backwards. Yes, I planted a note with the expectation of getting a text message back. But that expectation is not mean its a covert contract. It becomes a contract when I choose to be butthurt by the fact she didn't do what I expected. The fact that she didn't comply tells me what I needed to know about our relationship - obviously i have work to do. If I now stop gaming my wife like this, t…
/r/askMRP31/05/17 02:09 PM
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I read some shit the other day about a technique called the 'frenulum squeeze'. Anyone tried this?
/r/askMRP11/05/17 08:30 PM
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A hard no is likely before bed between 9-11pm with work at 7am. Leaving is just not a good option to me. Sleeping is. i like sleep. If it was the middle of the day, no questions asked. I'm out. I can disappear in a second doing something else without her - without words. Kids jack up sexy time. unlocking sex anytime anywhere is next on my list. i just can't figure out how to unlock sex when i want.
/r/askMRP04/05/17 10:02 PM
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Hrmm....this is interesting...my time around her is not special. I'm not really treating her like my girlfriend - hard to remember that far back honestly. I listen (stopped providing solutions), and still joke around and smack her on the ass. I have way to much shit to do (hard to call them hobbies but i suppose they are). She always asks about me being home and gravitates to where i am, fixing or building whatever it is i'm working on. She always says shit like you're the best, you can fix anyt…
/r/askMRP04/05/17 09:52 PM
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I get it. Words are worthless. After not using words for so long, i thought perhaps they may be a missing ingredient. Days are filled with anything but her at this point. work 7 to 7. rocket the kids around the farm on the atv for an hour when i get home. Then fix all broken shit around the house or get FarmFit.
/r/askMRP04/05/17 09:23 PM
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To date there have been no words. This over the course of months. After 2,3,4 NO's withdrawal of attention starts, then withdrawal of presence. Then 2 weeks later we have sex again. The attention comes back to 100% and she says man you haven't cuddled me in weeks. And so the cycle continues. Perhaps its time for the next level.
/r/askMRP04/05/17 09:10 PM
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I would assert you should not DER. Don't Defend, Don't Excuse, and Don't Rationalize. Explaining, that is where i disagree. A good captain, with a good first mate, is a team. You explaining why you made a BIG decision teaches the first mate how to run the ship in your absence. I'm not saying you have to do that for every decision (and certainly only BIG decisions), but you should do it more often than not. It ultimately earns respect. If you never explain, its a dictatorship. That's not a leader…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/16 02:45 PM
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"Was your ass on fire?!"
/r/askMRP22/08/16 05:33 PM
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I'm not sure why I should accept the default of living in the house if I'd rather sleep elsewhere. Nor is it mutually exclusive with sleeping in If you would rather sleep elsewhere, you should just get divorced now. You are running from a massive problem stemming from your inability to lead in this new world of baby land. Tell wifey that at 8 weeks (or so), the baby moves out of your bedroom and into their own room. Also tell her that the baby doesn't come into the bed - EVER. The only exception…
/r/askMRP21/06/16 02:10 PM
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I believe this is what is known as TRP on hard mode. The best piece of advice that I could give you is take that baby out on Saturday morning by yourself. Show your wife you are capable of taking care of baby and that the baby doesn't need her day in and day out. That is obviously complicated by food - so plan accordingly. The reason you tell her is, "I want some alone time with my son to bond and...looks like you really could use a break." When should I start pushing my wife to go out with me, …
/r/askMRP20/06/16 08:45 PM
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Strategically ramping up dread is an art. I have intentionally stepped it up in microsteps as to not set off alarm bells. This weekend however, i got insight into just how effective it as been. She violated a long standing rule in the house that she asks me before any large decisions are made. She failed to do that on Friday. I called her on it, on the phone from work. An hour later a heart felt text saying she was sorry and asking for forgiveness. An hour later i responded with "K". When she go…
/r/askMRP20/06/16 02:53 PM
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So in the past, i never would have considered this question. However, given the reading around these parts, i've done my due diligence. I am confident this is currently not an issue.
/r/askMRP20/06/16 02:16 PM
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thanks for that swift kick in the balls. Uhg. Knowing is half the battle.
/r/askMRP16/06/16 08:27 PM
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Life is a giant experiment. The last 15 years has been filled with them specifically related to figuring out how to fix this sex problem. TRP has given me another list of experiments to run. I've certainly worked on myself over the last few months. Changes have been intentionally slow as to not cause alarm. but the facts are undeniable - she knows something is different. she doesn't know why, but when you change habits you've had for 5, 10, 20 years she notices. What is cool about TRP is these c…
/r/askMRP16/06/16 07:56 PM
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Your posts are solid gold friend, thanks. Read a bunch of your stuff last week and starting fucking with my wife again. Stupid shit when we're in the kitchen together...stuff she says she hates, but then a month from now asks why i don't do that anymore.
/r/askMRP16/06/16 07:30 PM
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Spent a lot of time yesterday reading through the 1st year post on the rational male yesterday. Certainly good stuff. On to the redpillroom next.
/r/askMRP16/06/16 07:18 PM
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WRT the compliment, i'm trying to pull off some of the thick ass armor wifey has on from the weight loss. Before she lost the 25lbs she was wearing these tank tops under her tshirts to help shape her body. they became her security blanket. As she's lost the weight, i've had made a conscious effort to tell her i've noticed the changes and that she is safe with me and she doesn't need the security blanket any longer. The skirt was only the second comment i've made with respect to tearing off the a…
/r/askMRP16/06/16 07:16 PM
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