juicylife7 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Anyone with former fat kid syndrome?		juicylife7	/r/seduction	09/07/19 01:40 PM

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1	Ghosted by every approach. Feeling discouraged This is not a case of gamblers fallacy at all. Gamblers fallacy means you think because you did 100 approaches the next one has a higher chance of not flaking. Numbers game just refers to the fact that if there’s a .01 probability she won’t flake then at some point one will not flake because the probability isn’t 0 whether it’s the next one or the 300th one. But yeah 100 rejections is inconceivable to me. Maybe I’m lucky but at least 1/3 or more work out well for me.	/r/seduction	26/11/19 01:03 AM
1	Increase Your Attraction To Women By Working Out And Eating Right I got not problem with that. As long as you keep yourself healthy and happy. I only replied because your post kept using the pronoun “you” instead of “I” so I assumed you were generalizing to everyone and not just expressing your own feelings. Wish you well brother	/r/seduction	22/09/19 03:20 PM
4	Increase Your Attraction To Women By Working Out And Eating Right I think that’s just you projecting your mentality onto the rest of us. I’d be working out even if I was the only person on earth.	/r/seduction	22/09/19 03:08 PM
1	Is my therapist teasing me or showing signs of attraction? I have had similar experiences. I think she’s not flirting with you just the way she conducts business. A big chunk of Dermatology business caters to young people just looking for aesthetic improvements and the best way to keep that young crowd is for the dermatologist to show off her beauty to her clients. Unprofessional but I’ve seen it happen first hand. Basically you did feel sexual attractions because that’s what she wanted you to feel so you’d come back.	/r/seduction	20/09/19 01:59 PM
1	What's with the obsession with cutting sugar? Because to “eat healthy” in today’s world means cutting out the huge excess of sugar that’s in everything. Basically excess sugar is such a problem that it affects everyone and by cutting sugar people get the general idea of not eating too much candies, soft drinks, cereals, breads etc.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 02:19 PM
1	Suddenly turning attractive Listen here brother. I’m in a similar situation as you. I can tell you right now (after I’ve wasted a few years) the feeing is indescribable like you expect things to change by themselves. You fee things should be improving but you feel stuck/lost. You feel proud of your improvements but they’re not giving you the satisfaction you expected and so you start judging yourself. You haven’t fully accepted yourself so you’re a shy guy stuck in a confident looking body. This is because you’re so focuse…	/r/seduction	12/09/19 04:04 AM
1	Suddenly turning attractive I know where you’re coming from. It’s a hard topic to discuss because it always sounds so egotistical. I look decent but it’s more a case of medium fish small pond. Anyways I too feel uncomfortable with being looked at but one thing I’ve learned is to stop looking at it like a negative confrontation or judgment. Instead be thankful you have the opportunity to connect with people just by sheer luck of your looks. Look people in the eye and take them in. If they stare a quick smile will make their…	/r/seduction	12/09/19 12:41 AM
3	Eye ContCt as a cure for social anxiety Definitely my bad on the spelling. Wish I could change it. I tried to make it very accessible to people in their teens and early 20s. That being said I didn’t make the technique up. It’s one of the most commonly prescribed therapeutic practices for social anxiety. The point of therapy is to take very complex emotions and give the patient a very practicable small action so that they don’t feel like they’ve got some daunting task in front of them to overcome their problems. I came across this spec…	/r/seduction	10/09/19 08:35 PM
2	Cold approaches that actually evolve into something Yeah I think you’re just going to have to accept that not every woman will be into you. Improve your looks and personality as much as you can. Grow as a human and learn to love yourself. Once you’ve done that you will increase your chances. But like I said you have to be bold to not get friendzoned and if that makes her reject you do not push it and just befriend them. Do not hold secret intentions of getting with them in the future. Just having more friends will help you meet girls who actually…	/r/seduction	07/09/19 04:45 AM
2	Cold approaches that actually evolve into something You have to be clearer where the relationship doesn’t move forward. Are you able to meet up with them out of class or are you not even getting that far? Are you getting rejected right away? Are you getting close to her but not becoming sexual? Each one would have its different problem	/r/seduction	07/09/19 02:34 AM
2	Cold approaches that actually evolve into something Approaching in class has to be the easiest pickup of all time. Ask anything about the class and start chatting. Tease a bit but no more than you would with anybody. See the reaction and it’s usually clear whether she likes you or wants to stop talking. What works for me is after you talk walk out of class together and when you have to go your separate ways tell her you like something about her and say “we should meet up I want to get to know you better”. If you’re bold telling her you think she’…	/r/seduction	07/09/19 12:18 AM
15	How would you respond to a woman asking you, “what separates you from all other men” You don’t need to answer seriously. Personally i would’ve responded “distance” and let the humor speak for itself.	/r/seduction	05/09/19 12:17 PM
12	My life is in order but I have no idea how to stop being a virgin loser Imposter syndrome. I’m just recently coming out of a long bout of it. Basically the objective facts of who you are don’t match the mental identity you’ve created for yourself. Just realize your identity is something YOU constructed. You identify as the guy that isn’t worthy or can’t get girls. This is all in your head. To fix it you just gotta “lie” to yourself that you can get any girl, that you can charm any girl, that you are the player everyone wants to be. It will feel like you’re lying to …	/r/seduction	02/09/19 11:41 PM
2	Are my assumptions about women wrong ? Asking the community about their take on women interests. Also having such broad knowledge makes you very good at making connections most people do not. Believe it or not this is the essence of humor, making unexpected connections. You can make the most clever jokes and a woman will appreciate you for that. I don’t want to come off as iamverysmart but the type of jokes you could make are waaay out of reach for most guys. That’s not to say you have to make intellectual jokes but through your reading you should have a great ability for word play. In unde…	/r/seduction	02/09/19 10:51 PM
3	Are my assumptions about women wrong ? Asking the community about their take on women interests. You have to tailor your expectations. I have many of the same interests as you. It’s just a fact that whether male or female it’s a very small subset of the population that will be interested in those topic. An even smaller than can actually hold a conversation about it. An even smaller that are girls. An even smaller that are attractive girls. I mean if you find the one snatch her up but otherwise change your expectations. From personal experience all you need is an intelligent girl. Whether sh…	/r/seduction	02/09/19 07:53 PM
1	Something to remember when overcoming Approach Anxiety Yup it’s a spectrum that extends to both ends bad and good. A rock has no feelings. A worm may have some basic feelings but in not experiencing extreme discomfort it doesn’t experience extreme joy. The gift of extreme joy implies the possibility of extreme discomfort. Both feelings are the same gift.	/r/seduction	29/08/19 10:44 PM
4	Something to remember when overcoming Approach Anxiety Think of it like the day after a really intense workout. You feel sore and even have difficulty walking. You feel pain deep in your muscles and yet you aren’t worried about it. It is a negative sensation that you actually enjoy and take pride in. Now imagine the same pain one day after you didn’t work out. You’d start freaking out thinking your liver was failing or you had a nerve disorder. No feeling is truly negative. It is only how our mind interprets the feelings that matters. With AA I acce…	/r/seduction	29/08/19 12:19 PM
16	Something to remember when overcoming Approach Anxiety This is not the mindset I take at all when I approach. I prefer a more Buddhist mentality of equanimity and accepting emotions and feelings as they come and even appreciating the feeing of anxiety. That being said nobody has commented and I wanted to give you props for your great writing. I was absorbed by your imagery. In other words I think your attempt to inspire was successful	/r/seduction	29/08/19 01:07 AM
1	Anyone with former fat kid syndrome? Yes I agree. I have began working on love towards everyone and everything and has made me much happier.	/r/seduction	10/07/19 12:46 AM
1	Anyone with former fat kid syndrome? Thanks for the reply but this is not it. I feel like a 2/10 and if I’m proud of anything it’s how clever and good humored I am not my looks. It’s more like I see how different girls treat me now and I know that I would’ve had no chance with you if you saw me a year ago. But also it’s a small problem to have for the upsides	/r/seduction	10/07/19 12:45 AM
2	Anyone with former fat kid syndrome? I hope I don’t sound like I’m complaining. My health appearance and career have never been better but despite that my confidence has decreased instead of increased	/r/seduction	09/07/19 01:42 PM