jukutt Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
28	How to make change.	Progress	jukutt	/r/MensRights	15/11/20 08:08 AM
8	current state on the "Gender Pay Gap"?	General	jukutt	/r/MensRights	07/10/20 05:37 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	What's happening to boys in school? This one hits home. I experienced so much ridiculous stuff in school, it marks me until now.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/10/22 02:15 PM
5	What's happening to homeless men in Denver? Damn, thats tragic. I dont know what to feel, but empty and tired.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/09/22 05:43 PM
18	What are your questions about male suicide? Hi Dr. Bennett. Did you receive any backlash or criticism for focusing on men? Why did you decide to research into this area? Why does it interest you and what does the research fulfil for you? What were surprising or astounding findings in the data?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/11/21 03:26 PM
23	An anthropologist at Harvard arguing that "we really need to get rid of males". If the female of the species were as good at violence as men then they would have absolutely committed atrocities like men have. I think its not only that. It is also partly the societal setup males receive. E.g. they have to be the actors, protectors, decision makers. Anything else is shameful and a reason to be shunned. Is it naivety on his part to attribute women with only the most selfless of motivations or is he one of those weird man hating men I see more and more of these days? I assume i…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/10/21 06:04 PM
1	Pardon me if this has been asked and answered, but "reducing inequality" and "advocating for male rights" seem diametrically opposed. Can you explain? So in your opinion men should be held back, because they are outperforming women in the job market on average?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/10/21 09:37 AM
3	Pardon me if this has been asked and answered, but "reducing inequality" and "advocating for male rights" seem diametrically opposed. Can you explain? Men didn't evolve in body and brain to be aggressive, wealth builders or family providers. These seem to be socially constructed behaviours, meaning if you treat men differently in our societies you will see different behaviours. What do you mean by rights? This sub talks mainly about disadvantages men receive nowadays. I don't think that men being driven into suicide or taught to hate their own gender has any use to "society". I treat living things based on their ability to suffer. Not as asset…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/10/21 05:23 PM
10	Crime Has No Gender And Never Will They are abstractions of certain perceptions we have, so while the abstractions themselves are made up, the core they stem from is very real for us.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/09/21 06:03 PM
1	Sabina Nessa Mmmh, sure. I am not experienced with social media, it is hard for me to understand why it would work like that. I would assume if people posting hateful things and others following them mindlessly, there is already something wrong with them in the first place. They would latch onto anything, if not social media they would find other platforms. When someone is sexist, homophobic etc I usually look for certain experiences in their past, teachers, parents, and so on, which created a potential for …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/09/21 08:53 AM
1	Sabina Nessa What I am referring to is people posting shit on social media. I don't think that someone being sexist on twitter will cause more men to be murdered in Mexico. I doubt that preventing people from posting misandrist stuff on social media will help the problems you have mentioned significantly. The source lies somewhere else. I doubt that this social media hate speech results in men getting "beaten, killed, raped...". Again, the source lies somewhere else. Getting upset about it is like a gladiato…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/09/21 06:41 PM
2	Sabina Nessa I never experienced that cohesion between men. If someone would make such generalized superficial statements about men I wouldn't feel attacked, since I am a man too. I dislike generalizations and superficiality, so that would be a point of attack. I never understood many reactions to such things. Why would I care if people on facebook or twitter or other media scream sexist bs? You are going to stand up the next day just as the days before, it doesn't make a difference.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/09/21 02:35 PM
5	Personal experience of social biases against men in academia I swear it has its roots in the family. I am not so sure about that: One thing I didn't mention is that often times men (teachers, professors, research colleagues...) acted that way in my case. I would actually say it is very evenly distributed, only that the men show it differently (more aggressively) while the women show that kind of sexism subtly and passively. For me it is rather a result of social pressures, for example the fact that we inherently view women as something to be protected and…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/09/21 09:04 AM
62	Personal experience of social biases against men in academia Yes, I am from Germany and from school to academia I experienced similar things. Sometimes subtle (e.g. friendly / more friendly demeanour towards women/girls, cold/derogatory towards men/boys, giving women "extra treatment") and sometimes extremely direct (e.g. in the grading process, shutting down men in a hostile way). I am kind of "numb" towards it at this point. Often time it is actually funny in how brazen and ignorantly this sexism is enacted. They are so sure of themselves, but all of it…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/09/21 02:16 PM
2	If we were living in a male-dominated world (with links) lol	/r/MensRights	18/09/21 04:41 PM
30	What is the difference between r/mensrights and this sub? Another thing r/menslib does, is that they take issues women have and try to push them onto men the way a woman would experience them. E.g. body positivity, clothing/appearance, gender/identity stuff, ... They seem just to be an extension of r/feminism, sharing their hurtful views and argumentative behaviour. It almost seems like satire.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/09/21 08:05 AM
60	Feminists and ex-feminists: What info/event made you become an egalitarian? I never believed these issues to be untrue, even when I thought I was a feminist. I thought that I was a feminist, until mostly the Internet taught me that actual feminism is a very different concept. What broke me from that kind of feminism isn't necessarily the things they believe, but the foolish way they act about their believes and what follows from them: insecure to any criticism / perpetuation of an echo chamber, emotional argumentation, close minded, you get the gist.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/08/21 07:21 PM
1	Are women the more empathetic gender? The effects of gender role expectations I think you mixed up empathy and sympathy: An empathic response is when your body copies perceived sensations of another, e.g. you start being sad when you see a sad person. You might not notice what your body is doing (it happens automatically) or you might not agree with it (hostile reaction towards other who caused empathic response). You feel the other person, but you do not necessarily understand why they / you feel like that. Sympathy is the same but switched. You see why someone is feelin…	/r/Male_Studies	15/08/21 07:15 AM
28	The nonsensical striving after equality of outcome of the World Economic Forum - and the laments when it isn't reached. There was a post about a year ago pointing at the bs of the GGGI: it measures equality of outcome it defines equality as women being equal or at a better standing than men => by the GGGI it is impossible for men to be in a worse position, if men were far behind in every category it would consider that as equality but not the reverse case, WTH??? The GGGI is a worldwide statement: "We dont give a fuck about men"	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/08/21 06:10 PM
3	MTGOW finally banned by reddit admins, what do you think of this? Why was it banned, was there a specific trigger?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/08/21 05:18 PM
17	What is your opinion on r/mensrights ? Menslib seem rather like an extension for r/feminism with with the exception that you can have a word as a male and it's less extreme in its ideology.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/07/21 05:31 PM
5	How has feminist shaming/normalized misandry harmed you? Not really, but I don't live in America or India etc.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/07/21 08:15 AM
34	Vaush recently debated a Men's Rights Activist The "debate" is bound to be a loss for the MRA. Even if their points were totally valid (I didn't watch it), Vaush would have simply "intellectually outpaced" them with word salad in combination with some kind of emotional manipulation. While Vaush is very knowledgeable in certain topics, I feel like his experience in debating and his verbal ability have a very strong effect on his ego leading to such behaviour. He literally believes that it is ok to lie, manipulate etc if it is for the greater …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/07/21 08:42 AM
3	Invisible Men, @including_women For making money in media	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/07/21 07:38 AM
1	Feel really burnt out trying to defend MRAs I understand where you come from, I've been there myself. Was the reaction of the menslib mod predictable or did it surprise you? I assume the mod identifies himself with some kind of feminist movement, and due to that won't change his stance even when you face him with many good arguments. It is quite energy consuming to argue with that kind of extremism no matter from which ideology it stems. There are a lot of people on the MR side who do the same; strictly identifying themselves with the ide…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/06/21 08:21 AM
13	Feel really burnt out trying to defend MRAs I see no need in defending the MRA movement. You don't need to be part of a movement to support men, it's more like a mindset. Identifying yourself with a movement seems to have rather negative consequences, since now you have to stand straight for all the shit the movement does. Why do you see a need to?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/06/21 04:47 PM
17	A new study found that male-friendly therapists reject ideological beliefs about the patriarchy, and that such beliefs are harmful to male mental health patients "Male-friendly therapists do not practice views harmful to men" - 2021, thats how far we've come lads	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/06/21 07:12 PM
5	AITA for calling my boyfriend an insecure little boy after his repeated jokes that I "cheated the system" to get to a career that pays more than his? The main point is entertainment. Giving actual helpful advice/feedback is at most secondary.	/r/MensRights	21/05/21 12:55 PM
3	The Perception of Sexual Harassment in Higher Education: Impact of Gender and Attractiveness Both men and women were influenced by perpetrator attractiveness: they perceived an attractive opposite gender perpetrator as less harassing than a same gender attractive perpetrator. Shouldn't it be "Both men and women were influenced by perpetrator gender difference:..." considering that's the variable that is changed according to the second part? I would assume that if you vary attractiveness you will find similar behaviour.	/r/Male_Studies	20/05/21 02:30 PM
1	I have noticed this lately and I think I should share with you In what situations do you experience that?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/05/21 12:55 PM
1	Autism Affects 4X More Boys Than It Does Girls; Here’s Why Thanks!	/r/MensRights	11/05/21 07:30 PM
1	Autism Affects 4X More Boys Than It Does Girls; Here’s Why Do you know good keywords or literature on that?	/r/MensRights	11/05/21 03:38 PM
2	Why are women more “sexist” then men? If I had to guess, I would say that women are biologically disposed to discriminate differently than men. Maybe the sex of a human being is more important for you if you were born a woman, and thusly makes it a more important object of discrimination, if women are actually more sexist, which is too vague of a statement.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/05/21 02:03 PM
3	Leader of the UK Labour Party claims the majority of violent crime is committed against women. I fear for this world	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/03/21 03:25 PM
23	My post history makes me look like a misogynist Feminism is about equal rights. But only for women!	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/03/21 11:13 AM
1	Some feminists are so hypocritical it’s insane Smart!	/r/MensRights	08/03/21 08:53 AM
1	Are gender studies necessary? Fulfilling your interests, allowing people to better judge the problems they try to tackle (in this case that most of them arent valid/correct), show of free speech/ letting the opposing side talk, to name a few	/r/MensRights	16/02/21 11:54 AM
6	We Need To Stop Saying All Men Are Bad A baby step is roughly 0.176 m	/r/MensRights	16/02/21 11:42 AM
2	Are gender studies necessary? What do you mean by necessary? Are video games necessary? There is use in them in terms of recreation, but Im sure they have very little direct use when it comes to finding fulfillment. Same goes for gender study courses: they surely have use in certain contexts, however they are for example problematic in the context of academia/science, since some things they teach there and how they teach it might be pretty unscientific. In a nutshell	/r/MensRights	16/02/21 11:36 AM
1	I have finally joined the ranks of the many that have fallen under the banhammer of r/Feminism Feminism means equality, but only for women. If that answers your question, in case they nuked you.	/r/MensRights	14/02/21 04:02 PM
2	The Patriarchy Paradox Whats an Uncle Tom?	/r/MensRights	06/02/21 11:59 AM
2	Watch: AOC Reveals She Is a Sexual Assault Survivor, Compares Trauma To Capitol Riot You can dismiss that she was raped, but you can not assume that she was not raped and call it a false rape accusation. You don't need some Razor to do that.	/r/MensRights	02/02/21 01:03 PM
8	Watch: AOC Reveals She Is a Sexual Assault Survivor, Compares Trauma To Capitol Riot Where is the proof that it is a false accusation? Right now it is a Schroedingers Sexual Assault, and it was never meant to be anything beyond that judging from the context. If she would call out names it would not be justified to attack said people without any proof. The same counts for the other direction.	/r/MensRights	02/02/21 10:28 AM
1	As a 23 yo man I put immense pressure on myself to be as physically attractive as possible. This leads to very toxic thinking and feeling of competition with other men. Does anyone have some enlightenment on how to change this mindset. Actually I think that men do not experience this beauty competition to the same extent as women do, so it is understandable why most people on this sub will not understand what this woman is on about.	/r/MensRights	02/02/21 10:11 AM
11	The dating gap: why the odds are stacked against female graduates finding a like-minded man \| This is giving me "1 in 4 homeless people are women" energy Tbh, a lot of these women who are affected by this "dating gap" will bring damaging and dangerous beliefs into relationships, since they are affected by this "dating gap". So it is a win for men, as the close minded women filter themself out. The general notion of that article portraying women as victims is of course ridiculous.	/r/MensRights	31/01/21 06:08 AM
16	Misandrist terrorist and psychopath Donna Hylton abhorrently tortured a man for several days, killed him, went to jail for 26 years and gets typically embraced and condoned by feminists absence of ostracism, contempt and disgust and respectlessly letting her be a speaker at a women's march in 2017 Holy moly...	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/01/21 05:59 PM
3	In reality Matriarchy is actually very Redpill and Most Tradcon societies are actually more bluepillish than many Rightwingers think, all in all being sorta alot more equal regarding Genders than what SJWs and other Leftists assume Female and male power and lack of power seems to be widely misunderstood. A woman's biggest strength is her façade of weakness, a man's biggest weakness is his façade of strength. Woman today are taught a mantle of victimhood which blocks them in their development. Men are taught that their obligations are privileges, even though that would look ridiculous if we reverse the sex. That most people think the male populations where the ones with power pre 1900 is another misconception. We weren't sp…	/r/MensRights	30/01/21 01:12 PM
6	0 Tolerance for man hate Wth?	/r/MensRights	29/01/21 05:02 PM
5	0 Tolerance for man hate It depends on what you have, what exactly you are looking for. I will mention several topics and you can ask me more in depth if they meet what you are looking for: Warren Farrells stuff can generally help you out with understanding the powerlessness and power men experience in life and the male situation. Here I stole two statistics from W.F. book "the myth of male power" concerning suicide: A husband whose wife died is about ten times more to commit suicide than a wife whose husband dies ; Sui…	/r/MensRights	29/01/21 08:42 AM
4	Can we discuss the BS claim that "men can walk wherever they want at any time and not worry about their safety ever"? For example another obvious fallacy that plays into the maintenance of the claim is the Empathy gap	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/01/21 09:40 AM
4	Can we discuss the BS claim that "men can walk wherever they want at any time and not worry about their safety ever"? Edit: Btw I am just trying to reason why the claim is so strong in so many people. The below does not represent my own opinion about the topic. I think the best way to successfully deal with people that have such claims is understanding where they are coming from, instead of just calling them stupid. Hmm, I think the thought behind the claim that women have to watch out more where they are going mainly focuses on sexual assault, harassment etc. I would put the fact that men actually get assaul…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/01/21 09:35 AM
12	Feminism and homophobia I am pretty sure that they arent directly homophobic but just hate and dehumanize everyone that isnt 100% on their side.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/01/21 08:29 AM
1	SMH. There is no such thing as toxic masculinity. Well, I gave examples for possible variables that could predict higher chance to behave according to certain toxic cultural norms, so I do not see a contradiction here. E.g. low self esteem leads to someone rather adapting to these behaviours suggested by cultural norms, instead of behaving freely.	/r/MensRights	18/01/21 08:41 AM
1	SMH. There is no such thing as toxic masculinity. It is harmful for men and boys in the way that it is viewed and used currently. The problem here are the people who use the term and not the term in itself.	/r/MensRights	17/01/21 01:09 PM
1	SMH. There is no such thing as toxic masculinity. Several things: Ask yourself and others when you displayed traits of toxic masculinity. Analyse the situations in which you and others displayed toxic masculinity: What where your motivations, wants and needs in that situation? How did you perceive the situation and the other people? What was the reaction to your display of toxic masculine traits? Why do you think you acted the way you did? Look at cases of boys and men who display traits of toxic masculinity on a regular basis. Look at their fa…	/r/MensRights	17/01/21 12:39 PM
1	SMH. There is no such thing as toxic masculinity. \| The concept of toxic masculinity is used in academic and media discussions of masculinity to refer to certain cultural norms that are associated with harm to society and to men themselves We have cultural norms of men that are harmful to society and men themselves, crude superficial intuitive example: Don't show/deal with emotions. Thus toxic masculinity exists. Thus your title is wrong. Checkmate Atheists. The discussion should not be about its existence, but about a way to deal with it. Most…	/r/MensRights	17/01/21 07:50 AM
3	Are there stereotypes about men from feminist that you don't understand? There are a lot of stereotypes I have no understanding for in the sense that I see them as wrong and originating from trivial fallacies. I think however I understand what processes lead to such conclusions, so I understand them. So to answer your question, I cant think of stereotypes I dont understand.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/01/21 11:05 AM
1	Quick Little Survey Men and Women have different "rights" (opportunities).	/r/MensRights	12/01/21 08:08 AM
0	This sub was much more of an echo chamber than I thought. Agree, this sub is flawed in many ways. If you are looking for a more sensible approach you can have a look at Warren Farrells works.	/r/MensRights	12/01/21 08:06 AM
1	Are we allowed to talk about menslib here? Who?	/r/MensRights	08/01/21 09:50 AM
1	Are we allowed to talk about menslib here? Yes, go ahead.	/r/MensRights	08/01/21 09:09 AM
-26	Why is r/againstmensrights even a thing? Well this (r/MensRights) subreddit isn't really filled with people who have well argued beliefs and want to find a solution for the problems men face. It is rather filled with posts of outrage, people who role-reverse the shit that is done in "feminist" subreddits and no understanding of the matter. I think the only up this subreddit has to the "feminist" subreddits is that you don't get banned for speaking your opinion (or for conversing with the enemy and such childish crap). It is actually qu…	/r/MensRights	13/11/20 03:14 PM
2	What's the best counter arguement to "Longer prison sentences, higher suicide rates, higher rates of homelessness, etc." are all issues created by men I think what everyone is missing is that the underlying premise is absolute bs. Let's just assume that longer prison sentences, higher suicide rates, higher rates of homelessness were solely cause by men. So what? Those are still problems that need to be solved. Germans were the cause of the holocaust. But does that mean that we should have let them gas, torture and murder all the German Jews? Or that the German Jews are at fault for their own suffering? Because after all, Germans caused it, rig…	/r/MensRights	08/11/20 06:03 PM
1	Man hangs himself to death after alleging his wife and in laws of mental torture What?	/r/MensRights	03/11/20 01:31 PM
1	reddit post I ultimately agreed to an overnight every Tuesday during the school year as well as having them every other weekend. I still got to keep my 8 weeks of summer visitation. I wanted more custodial time, but that desire was eclipsed by my desperation to get the agreement finalized so I could see them again. At that point, anything was better than the measly 1 weekend visit per month I was forced to become accustomed to when they lived in CO. Once the agreement was finalized and registered in NC, thi…	/r/MensRights	02/11/20 08:07 AM
1	reddit post Here is the post from the google doc: I apologize in advance for offering the lengthy version, but all of the details below are critical to understanding the significance of my present situation. I greatly appreciate anyone who will take the time to read this and give me their honest opinions. My ex-wife and I have been divorced since 2015 and we have two boys, ages 9 and 6. I have worked for the U.S. Dept of State for roughly 12 years and my career has required me to work overseas for 2-3 month…	/r/MensRights	02/11/20 08:07 AM
1	reddit post Holy moly, this sounds fucking awful. I have no experience with anything belonging to the field of marriage, however from a pure psychological standpoint it should be clear that given the chance she will try to destroy your life, and you should act under that assumption. I would seek physical meet ups with others to share your story, these can be found over the Internet. Further, I would consider therapy or things akin to that to learn mechanism (mindfulness, meditation etc) to deal with the ext…	/r/MensRights	02/11/20 08:05 AM
2	New York Times uses Nazi language to describe men. This is why we have r/menkampf replacing the word 'men' with 'Jews' in feminist posts It follows the same principles, yes.	/r/MensRights	01/11/20 08:58 AM
2	New York Times uses Nazi language to describe men. This is why we have r/menkampf replacing the word 'men' with 'Jews' in feminist posts What experiences did you have which make you think that there is no understanding it? What is the main attribute of this 3rd/4th wave 'feminism' that sets you off? Don't you think that there is a development that takes takes a neutral child and creates a man-hater, and that there is a system behind this development, considering the fact that this process happens on a big scale? I see one big reason for why this man-hating came into existence being the extremely high living standards in 1st wor…	/r/MensRights	01/11/20 08:57 AM
113	New York Times uses Nazi language to describe men. This is why we have r/menkampf replacing the word 'men' with 'Jews' in feminist posts It might seem like that these cases are flaws in individuals, a "few" bad appels, however it mainly is an underlying system that creates such people. And it will keep creating them, the only way to stop it is to understand it or wait until it eats itself.	/r/MensRights	31/10/20 06:23 PM
37	What's the male equivalent for "never asking a woman her age"? That would be rape.	/r/MensRights	17/10/20 08:56 PM
2	current state on the "Gender Pay Gap"? How that? I am not American.	/r/MensRights	08/10/20 04:01 PM
2	current state on the "Gender Pay Gap"? I found this website which uses statistics from this website to calculate something they call "controlled gender pay gap" where they somehow take women and men with the same jobs (?) and the same qualifications (?) and compare their payment, resulting in for example women getting payed 0.99$ for every 1$ men get payed in computer/mathematical categories. Problem here is that they don't really say how they calculate that (e.g. how do they define same jobs and same qualifications), and don't say e…	/r/MensRights	08/10/20 08:02 AM
0	What do you think of "The Better Half: On the Genetic Superiority of Women" written by Sharon Moalem? What are the arguments against the idea that "women's biology is superior and better than men's because women live longer, and have a stronger immune system against diseases because of their genes"? Why would it make a difference? Why would I care? Even if women are smarter, stronger, better or whatever: The things that should matter at the end are morality, a world which reduces each's experience of pain and is able to live in harmony. I am aware that this sub is more like an echo chamber where biased people outrage about outlier situations amongst yes sayers, and have no interest in actually solving the problem or making a difference. Similar to how all these "female" subreddits work. But…	/r/MensRights	24/09/20 09:32 AM
3	How can we make a change? Referring to the title: You can do your part by being unbiased and able to distance yourself from the problem. In the same way in which we will never understand paedophiles who rape if we do not try to understand all (their) positions, one will not be able to solve this issue if they are biased to either the woman or men side and are not able to distance themselves from their own individual view point. The only way to solve such issues is being the bigger "man" and do the first step. You can use…	/r/MensRights	16/09/20 07:04 AM
3	That's a weird way of saying "Give up your games and give me attention" We live in a society	/r/MensRights	13/09/20 06:50 AM
-17	People who use the term "small dick" as an insult are a disgrace People who try to create violence and pain over minuscule things are a disgrace. FTFY	/r/MensRights	10/09/20 09:18 AM
1	RANT: Holy crap, this is what's wrong with the world, won't reveal what sub this was from. Just let them be stupid. In the anonymity of the Internet there is not much reason in discussing stuff like this.	/r/MensRights	02/09/20 08:31 AM
3	Suicide rate for men reaches its highest level in two decades with 5,691 deaths in 2019 while number of 10 to 24-year-old women taking their own lives almost doubles since 2012 It still exists the trend that more women are diagnosed with depression, however men are more than two times as likely to kill themselves at least in the US. While the reasons for that may be obvious, does someone know about studies that researched this scientifically?	/r/MensRights	02/09/20 08:27 AM
0	Our emotions matter Yes, stupid people exist. It would be a serious problem if this was not just one outlier you once encountered, but a consistent experience (and this is partly the case).	/r/MensRights	02/09/20 08:15 AM
1	Feminism Enables and is Driven by Female Narcissism If that is the case, then yes, there is a high chance that she has NPD. But there is still the problem of gauging someones motives over the Internet (1), and doing that passively (2). (1) should be clear, (2) simply means that usually to diagnose someone with certain disorders (not all) you have to actively ask them what their motivations & perception in certain situations are. Superficial outer behaviour has not much meaning without knowing the ulterior motives. Maybe you have already done that…	/r/MensRights	30/08/20 06:53 AM
1	Feminism Enables and is Driven by Female Narcissism You are right in that everyone is free to interpret the situation how they want. If I were in the situation I would have interpret it like that - that my wife is distrustful of me or generally, (emotionally) immature and I would have come to the same conclusion that I should distance myself from that person / it makes no sense that we live together. However, I am also stupid for marrying someone without realising that we have that level of trust. Further, I see no gain by strictly standing on th…	/r/MensRights	30/08/20 06:53 AM
2	Feminism Enables and is Driven by Female Narcissism Concerning your first aspect: I do not think that you can reasonably diagnose someone with NPD over the internet. You should give a definition of what you mean with NPD in future posts, since it is - just like other scientific terms - often used wrongly. about97cats gave you an incredibly childish and patronising answer. However you did not respond in any better way that would have allowed more fruitful conversation. 2nd aspect: Man + Woman want baby -> Woman freaks out (known perinatal symptoms…	/r/MensRights	28/08/20 08:31 AM
1	So somehow the feminists have linked incompetence with gender. Such type of studies make me furious. For me it depends on what the study concluded. A correlation is good if you are looking for potential theories, however you can not conclude with it. I would assume that more women in political roles correlates with the wealth of the country, which thusly correlates with the way the country isb able to deal with covid. For example.	/r/MensRights	21/08/20 11:44 AM
0	What can Uber teach us about the Pay Gap? I dont know	/r/MensRights	18/08/20 11:58 AM
9	hey what if it's both? I agree. However in my experience I have more access to ignorant men than women: When I successfully argue against a certain opinion, the men I met would either see that they can not vindicate their position or stop arguing. There are sometimes men who go into insulting or something along these lines, but they are downvoted to hell. My experience was quite the contrary when arguing in "women rights" subreddits: They totally ignore the argument if they can not hold it anymore and just harass you,…	/r/MensRights	12/08/20 12:39 PM
10	hey what if it's both? I reason I do not go into the "womens rights" subreddits (e.g. r/TwoXChromosomes) is because the people there are very hateful and unwise. Most of them want their black and white view of the world validated and are not interested in the least to solve the problem. I do not know what to do there.	/r/MensRights	12/08/20 12:12 PM
47	“We are emotional” we hide it because there is little reward and mostly punishment. On the other hand practising being logical doesn’t hurt anyone. The problem is not being emotional. The problem is that thinking emotions justify your actions and grant you the right to be ignorant towards someone else's problems. Just because you cry more does not mean that you have more severe problems. Just because you cry less does not mean you have more severe problems.	/r/MensRights	12/08/20 12:05 PM
10	hey what if it's both? I mean, both are right. The main reason we still have both of these movements is because the majority of either side does not want to empathise with the other. Instead of being understanding and seeing each other as human beings, they rather shelter hate, ignorance and arrogance. Both men discrimination and female discrimination are serious problems, however we will not advance if we act like five year olds.	/r/MensRights	12/08/20 12:01 PM
1	Men are not creeps for looking at women, they are men Yes, "looking at women" is a very broad term.	/r/MensRights	11/08/20 03:54 PM
1	Men are not creeps for looking at women, they are men I mean I am addressing the point of the post, which makes the argument that any kind of staring with sexual motivations can be excused because biology. The point you make, that women have a problem with the sexuality of ugly men is only partly true: First of all they have to be confronted with it in some way, e.g. they catch someone staring at them for the 2nd time. Secondly, the habit to judge others by outer features is distributed over all of animal kingdom. So there are people who heavily em…	/r/MensRights	11/08/20 03:03 PM
2	Why Has There Been an Explosion In Prison System - drwarrenfarrell Thank you for the video!	/r/MensRights	11/08/20 10:10 AM
10	Men are not creeps for looking at women, they are men It depends on how you do it: While checking someone out secretively, or at least you do not elicit unpleasant feelings should be fine, straight up leering at someone who is visibly uncomfortable with that behaviour is not. Be considerate, biology does not excuse asocial behaviour.	/r/MensRights	11/08/20 10:01 AM
4	“All Men are Trash” You are taking the questionable approach of dehumanising these men who "can go die in a hole, because they do shitty things". However that will not solve the problem of these behaviours still happening in our world. The prudent approach would be trying to understand where this "evil" and "bad" behaviour comes from in the first place, instead just following your primary emotions like a simplistic animal. If you do not understand the bad aspects of our world you will not be able to correct them. I…	/r/MensRights	11/08/20 09:50 AM
1	Two teenage boys drown helping to save a little girl. Is this that toxic masculinity I keep hearing about? The way I understand it, "toxic masculinity" is defining - in a nutshell - a macho, patronising or ignorant behaviour of men towards women. So, considering this definition, your example doesn't mean anything. If you argue that psychopaths are more likely to exhibit manipulative behaviour, me showing you a psychopath that was well socialised does not disprove your point.	/r/MensRights	11/08/20 09:34 AM