jumpatomic Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Men are not and should not be responsible for a woman's safety I disagree but you're within your rights to feel that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 07:48 PM
1	Men are not and should not be responsible for a woman's safety No. Why would I?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 06:26 PM
4	What are your biggest hypocrisies in modern dating? Men cry about how simps are mentally vulnerable and therefore the women taking their money are amoral; then they turn around and jerk off to porn where they claim women are choosing to fuck on camera with no impairment at all, only full clarity of their actions and the impact it will have on their future career and relationship prospects. Then they take their porn addiction into their relationships claiming it's a natural part of their sexuality, even at the expense of full intimacy with their p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 05:10 PM
2	How often have you had a serious relationship end for what you thought were minor issues? Relationships are hard and people are complex, I acknowledge that there are two sides to this coin. I'm just relating my experience, but I know there are decent men, or at least men doing their best, who are suffering too	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 05:15 AM
1	How often have you had a serious relationship end for what you thought were minor issues? I'm glad you realize that, a lot of men don't	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 04:59 AM
4	How often have you had a serious relationship end for what you thought were minor issues? They would if their girlfriends were choosing to play video games and masturbate to porn every waking moment instead of spending time and having sex with them. Women do not experience video game and porn addiction like men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 04:56 AM
1	How often have you had a serious relationship end for what you thought were minor issues? Context matters. Messy in parentheses was to explain how the situation night be dismissed from the outside - he was extremely unhygienic and filthy, but someone who isn't living in it could write it off as "he's messy, all men are." It happens often. I would never call him messy because he is not messy. The situation is infinitely worse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 04:51 AM
1	N-Count Megathread I'm aware. I don't imagine I'll date again, if I did I'd prefer a man with a low n-count - and right back to it, I'll probably never date again. Regardless of n-counts STD testing still exists in the event a person may date a formerly promiscuous partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 04:38 AM
40	Men are not and should not be responsible for a woman's safety No, clothing doesn't make me feel unsafe. Loud noises may disturb me at night but I don't think anyone should be making loud noises at night as a matter of consideration for others/the people in their neighborhood trying to sleep	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 04:32 AM
142	Men are not and should not be responsible for a woman's safety I don't expect men to protect me but I do expect them not to attack, beat or rape me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 04:15 AM
10	I don't understand the men that infiltrate this group Self-inflicted as well	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/21 03:35 AM
1	N-Count Megathread It counts in the same way that women have many fwb but can't land the relationships they want. I'll pass on dick that's been in countless diseased strange.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 02:26 AM
5	Q4W: When evaluating a man for candidacy as a sexual partner, do you consider the relative desirability of his previous partners (to the degree that you are able)? I've only dated one man in a very long term relationship. If I ever date again it won't be with someone who uses social media regularly	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 01:59 AM
5	Q4W: When evaluating a man for candidacy as a sexual partner, do you consider the relative desirability of his previous partners (to the degree that you are able)? No. I would be interested in the length of his former relationships and the number of long term relationships he's had and why they failed. Desirability can mean anything from hot to marriageable to thin or fat or blond or rich or poor or dependent or independent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 01:53 AM
5	[META] If you answered in the 'worst fear' thread, what can us men do to alleviate your fears? You can play games all you want. I certainly won't bitch at you, but I've learned my lesson - video game addicts are not viable dating material. I don't see what you're taking issue with because I'm not saying what men should do, only what they shouldn't do - they shouldn't be violent and shouldn't neglect their partner or their own health in favor of escapism. Same goes for women, except women aren't as likely to be addicted to video games, porn, etc - most of their activities take place in the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 01:36 AM
6	[META] If you answered in the 'worst fear' thread, what can us men do to alleviate your fears? I wasn't asking a question	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 10:00 PM
12	[META] If you answered in the 'worst fear' thread, what can us men do to alleviate your fears? There's always hope, just not for men who need to be told any of that	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 09:56 PM
15	[META] If you answered in the 'worst fear' thread, what can us men do to alleviate your fears? There's nothing a man can really do to prove he doesn't have unhealthy addictions or violent tendencies. Vetting takes time and if women have to lay it out that their boyfriends shouldn't be violent, unclean, or unable to pull themselves away from their screens or video games to spend time with them - there's really no hope	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 09:25 PM
2	Q4Women: How would you react if your partner asked you to roleplay losing your virginity? It's a red flag for arrested development. Absolutely creepy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 09:18 PM
1	Is there anything you are consciously doing to increase your attractiveness, or are you just hoping someone will randomly find you attractive for who you naturally are? In regards to physical attractiveness I only care about what I can change, in that case weight/body definition. I'm already thin. I have no interest in cosmetic surgery, makeup other than mascara/eyeliner or flattering fancy clothing - it only needs to be clean and fit well. I have the same expectations for men: have basic hygiene and don't be fat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 08:40 PM
20	If all men struggling with dating were to turn gay, most would have their dating problems vanish, doesn’t that suggest dating is hard cause of women ? So are you talking about sex or dating? You say men struggling with dating women will have it easier if they're gay, and then use a hook-up app as your argument?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 08:28 PM
2	How often have you had a serious relationship end for what you thought were minor issues? I never said or assumed being messy or other annoying behaviors are precursors to physical abuse. I did say his extreme forms of both self-neglect and neglect towards me ended up in physical abuse. Many men will be degenerates without resorting to violence, though in my case he did become violent. I also don't see the point in minimizing the behaviors I mentioned as "messy" or "annoying" - not cleaning after yourself ever is more than messiness, and playing video games every waking moment, even …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 08:22 PM
5	How often have you had a serious relationship end for what you thought were minor issues? Can't put down the cell phone or video game controller, can't look away from the computer if not on his phone or playing video games.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 08:05 PM
3	Do men generally prefer women with sexual experience or those who save themselves? Some sexual women have a vetting process, some don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 07:58 PM
1	Women, what is your worst fear in a relationship? Physical abuse. I don't think I'll be in a relationship again though	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 07:51 PM
12	How often have you had a serious relationship end for what you thought were minor issues? Men are conditioned to think their laziness and tech addictions are normal modern hobbies women should be accommodating of	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 07:39 PM
5	How often have you had a serious relationship end for what you thought were minor issues? I'm about to leave a 5+ year relationship due to abuse. It started small, with things I thought I could get over, such as him choosing to spend all his free time with his friends or playing video games (I didn't want to be controlling). Not knowing how to clean after himself (some guys are just messy so it's fine). I stayed far too long thinking video game addiction was a normal modern hobby and I just needed my own hobbies. Eventually he started choking and hitting me when I wanted him to chang…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 07:36 PM