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| 2 | Has anyone here been addicted to porn?Yeah. It messes with your head like drugs do. An orgasm is the most intense natural high you can get--that rush of dopamine that floods your brain is comparable to the effects of narcotics. Do it enough times (especially without having real sex) and you'll be in a hole that's very difficult to get out of. | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 04:52 AM |
| 7 | Ted Mosby SyndromStop letting your mind wander and keep things in perspective. Enjoy the moment, but also recognize that the euphoric, romantic feels you're getting is also, in part, an autonomic response in your brain. It's a necessary part of attraction, but don't get carried away. Acknowledge it for what it is (a good but nevertheless fleeting feeling), and navigate through it. | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 08:31 PM |
| 2 | I don't wanna buy drinks for random girls at bar.I've never done this, and as far as I can tell you don't need to. | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Hitting on a Girl When Other People Are Standing NearbyYeah, just do it. In a situation like that it'll most likely be your only chance to make a lasting impression, so make it count. Go for what you want. I know it's an anxiety inducing situation, but stay focused on what you want and before you know it you'll forget who or what was around you. | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 04:27 PM |
| 1 | How do you usually aproach someone?I walk up to her, turn to her, and say "hey how's it going?" Or make a relevant comment/question about something happening in the moment. The short answer: just do it. | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Why Some Girls Remember Events Differently (Emotional Memory Reframe)And I agree that they aren't mutually exclusive. However, I said that (though it was poorly worded) to assert the point that they aren't necessarily one and the same, but two distinct parts that work together within a larger process (cognition). | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Why Some Girls Remember Events Differently (Emotional Memory Reframe)Well yes, because "thinking" is a process that engages several parts of the brain. But the point still stands that they aren't the same thing, which becomes more clear when a person is prompted to recall a series of memories that conjure up a range of emotions. or when you're dealing with a psychopath. I'm aware that emotions don't just arise out of the amygdala, but it is the structure that's primarily responsible for regulating them. "The thought of something" making you feel a certain way isn… | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Why Some Girls Remember Events Differently (Emotional Memory Reframe)Wrong choice of words there, but thoughts and emotions are in no way one and the same. Emotions may influence your thoughts and vice versa, but they aren't the same thing. Nevertheless, they are both a part of the cognitive process and invoked in different stages. The only thing known for certain is that much of our emotions are processed in the amygdala of the brain. How exactly a thought is generated is still unclear, even if we can observe activity in the brain. | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 02:54 PM |
| 27 | So I approached this 9/10 yesterdayWell at the end of the day, they're all women. Your perception of how attractive one may be has no bearing on who and what she is. | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 01:34 PM |
| -1 | Why Some Girls Remember Events Differently (Emotional Memory Reframe)No, they're not. Emotions are an important part of the cognitive process. Nevertheless, emotions and thoughts are mutually exclusive, the same way any other sense (like touch and smell) and thoughts are. One may trigger another, and emotionally charged experiences are easier to remember, but a thought can be devoid of emotion. Granted, a person who can't or has trouble processing emotions is a psychopath. | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 11:43 AM |
| 3 | Why Some Girls Remember Events Differently (Emotional Memory Reframe)That's why some people, at least those who are a little more self-aware, try to disengage from something they know is getting them emotionally aroused. The more you practice this, the less likely you are to make an emotional decision. In other words, it's putting things in its proper perspective. | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 11:34 AM |
| 2 | Why Some Girls Remember Events Differently (Emotional Memory Reframe)So you're essentially saying girls have some sort of mental disorder? In all seriousness, this sounds like a diagnosis. As for that girl who you dated and sent those nasty texts to you, I don't give a flying fajita what she's experiencing in her head. It would have taken me about two seconds to tell her to cut that shit out. I don't appreciate being accused of bullshit, and no amount of her baggage is gonna change that. | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 11:27 AM |
| 12 | The REAL way to deal with Shit Tests from women, from an actual womanFuck shit tests. | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 11:50 PM |
| 2 | I think I learned the most crucial lesson in pick up. And maybe life.Wisdom for life. Right on man! | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 05:17 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about a girl grabbing a guy's ass while making out?She's ready to smash. You use your glutes to thrust your hips forward, so if she's actively grabbing and pulling your behind forward, I would take that as she's very horny. | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 02:03 PM |
| 1 | How do I pick up a milf if I am only 15?Except raging hormones and a dick that won't go down. | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 01:58 PM |
| 2 | How do I pick up a milf if I am only 15?Lol, at least you're honest. | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 01:55 PM |
| 2 | How to meet women at events?Talk to her about vegan food. "Hi, how are you?" "How are you liking the event? Find any good food?" Smile and enjoy yourself. | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 01:52 PM |
| 3 | How to meet women at events?Don't do this. Like please, this reeks of cringe and desperation. | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 01:45 PM |
| 3 | I feel like most of the advice in here about night game, assumes the girl is on her own, how do you handle big groups?The general concept of approaching remains the same, just tailored differently for multiple girls. For example, last week I was at a club and saw a girl in a group of three that I liked. So I approached and greeted all three of them with the standard "Hi, how are you [ladies] doing tonight?" I noticed one of them was wearing a white dress with a sash so I asked her if she was getting married, which she confirmed, and I congratulated her. Afterward, I indirectly addressed the girl I liked by tell… | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Has my work paid off? 🥺💗I'm afraid you might be in the wrong sub here miss. | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 12:54 PM |
| 1 | I feel like most of the advice in here about night game, assumes the girl is on her own, how do you handle big groups?Not at all man. | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 12:50 PM |
| 2 | I feel like most of the advice in here about night game, assumes the girl is on her own, how do you handle big groups?1) Get used to approaching girls in groups at clubs/bars. Very rarely are they alone, and if one is, she might be gay (being serious). Contrary to what many guys think, you really don't need a wingman for this situation. The strategy here is to essentially recruit her friends to winggirl for you, and trust me, by and large they will happily do it. | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 12:48 PM |
| 13 | It's that I fear approaching, I often don't know what I'm supposed to say or start with at bars and clubs. Any tips?I usually start with the standard "excuse me, hi, how are you?" Depending on the situation I'll tailor the introduction to each girl differently. But be honest and authentic. For example, I remember I was at a club and these two girls started dancing with each other right in front of me, so I say to the one I was eyeing "I see what's happening. You're trying to make me jealous." She laughs and tells me it's her birthday and the other girl is her sister, and right after that we're dancing. I appr… | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 05:16 PM |
| 1 | DGAF attitude well doneIt's amazing what a difference it makes when you almost couldn't careless if a girl accepts your advances or rejects them (because rejection still stings a little) and you're just having fun. | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 05:04 PM |
| 1 | How to know if its the right time to ask someone out or is it better to wait?You don't. Just go for it, but in the right setting of course. | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 05:02 PM |
| 4 | First time I ever experienced a shit test from a girl I daygame approached.Yeah, I think that was a joke more than anything. I would have been like "yeah, sorta, I need to feel good about torturing myself. What about you? You one of those girls that takes 20 pictures of herself at the gym and posts the best ones to IG? I'm not judging. I'll even help you. Gimme your phone." | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Approached a girl today all went well butNo problem. All the best my man. Stay in the moment, be engaged and attentive, and have fun with it. Crack a lighthearted joke when the opportunity presents itself. It's ok to be nervous, embrace it, but always be yourself. Cheers | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Approached a girl today all went well butFind something to compliment her about, like her hair or what she's wearing. Then just talk about what's going on. Ask how her day is going and try to parlay whatever she says into a specific topic of discussion, or a story you want to share. | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Approached a girl today all went well butIntroduce yourself. "Hi, my name is..." | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 03:05 PM |
| 5 | Just an advice I want to give my fellow brothers: "Girls should not be your destination but should be part of the journey." If whatever you're doing is to try and get girls rethink your mindset.I think what the OP is trying to say is that you shouldn't make attracting women the primary goal. Working on yourself, towards better spiritual, mental, and physical health, financial flexibility, etc...are all important things which will, as a side effect, make you more attractive to others in general. That said, you can't make that the primary goal--that would be self-defeating (or self-destructive) and contrary to the point of self-improvement. Be sociable, kind, courteous, and honest (use w… | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Soloing Saturday Night: Working on my confidence, got cockblockedNo, I don't think so. I just wore a t-shirt, jeans, and hi-top blue leather chuck taylors. | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Soloing Saturday Night: Working on my confidence, got cockblockedProbably a solid 7. What's peacocking? | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 07:12 PM |
| 10 | For guys who weren’t having success but now are, what changed?Porn drains you of energy, confuses and rewires your brain into getting pleasure from images on a screen, and makes it tougher to develop meaningful connections and relationships (which take time and effort) because of the instant gratification porn provides. This is just scratching the surface. When you've watched porn for years before having real sex like I have, your brain is essentially fundamentally screwed up. I get almost zero feeling and satisfaction from real sex, and that's very demora… | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 11:03 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]This is helpful. I feel a little bit more confident now. Thanks my man. | /r/seduction | 02/08/19 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Made and posted this on my IG because I was sick of the bullshit blaming all MEN for this abortion shit. I’ve gotten 8 messages calling me sexiest, and a cuntYeah, the whole Supreme Court ruling was based on a lie. The act itself is despicable, but the fact that it took an elaborate lie to make it legal (to an extent) is very telling. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/06/19 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Got em!Engineering Explained if you're into cars--and math, and physics. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/06/19 07:39 PM |
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