So I approached this 9/10 yesterday

vickmasters · 2019-08-21T10:24:28+00:00

That's awesome man. Most guys don't realize that they are genetically designed to respond to the same attraction triggers that less attractive women are.

When you step up to them in a confident way and approach, they feel the same attraction as a less attractive woman would. Except in a 9/10s case it happens less to her since most guys are insecure and so it has a bigger impact :)

Kylemoa1 · 2019-08-21T07:45:58+00:00

You’ll find a lot of interactions will go just like that. Nothing sinister. No feelings hurt but they can be enjoyable and often times a good laugh.

kslidz · 2019-08-21T12:56:48+00:00

I just want to say that I saw that you used braincels prior and I'm proud of you for working away from that mindset.

The fact that you recognize her as a person and not an object is also awesome.

Girls are people and like people often times can tell when someone doesn't view them as such. Be real be dope be sexy and be successful.

Jimmy281 · 2019-08-21T14:27:54+00:00

yeah, we have to get it through our head that hot girls eat, sleep, fart, and shit just like us.

hunterrettke · 2019-08-21T07:23:41+00:00

Awesome dude keep up the work!!👍

ias18 · 2019-08-21T15:09:55+00:00

That happened to me couple of days ago. I approached a waitress who was easily in the 8-9 range. I just gathered my courage, went straight to her after I paid my bill, looked into her eyes, told her she is gorgeous and that I want to have her number, so that we can go out anytime soon. She started giggling and blushing. Too bad she told me she had a boyfriend, but again as you have said they are just humans that need not to be placed on a pedestal. That was insightful experience to me too.

BaronBurgers · 2019-08-21T17:11:35+00:00

Hot girls are not any meaner than girls we don’t find hot

itman90 · 2019-08-21T13:52:12+00:00

And that's how you grow game, when you realize they are humans like you aswell

good job

fruithat123 · 2019-08-21T11:41:42+00:00

That's awesome and 5 8 isnt that bad

WFoster88 · 2019-08-21T12:21:49+00:00

It's great you're finally learning how to fly. Now what you want to do, is go approach thirty more women. Take notes on all the approaches, and then write detailed field reports about the most memorable ones.

Often women will say "I have a boyfriend" because you're some random guy approaching them on the street. You want to get the fundamentals down, and then find the women who either aren't taken with boyfriends, or who don't have them, and aren't going to lie about it.

Just saying, one approach is great. But to be a pickup artist, you need to play the numbers game. Go get lots of experience and you'll be getting results in no time.

survivalmaster69 · 2019-08-21T13:01:31+00:00

LPT: whenever a girl says she has BF, take her num anyways and say let me know if you ever break up, chances that she will cheat on him only if you are good looking lol

jabaas · 2019-08-21T15:26:57+00:00

Did you get her name at-least... Never know when you might meet again.

Secrecy_Guaranteed · 2019-08-21T16:28:16+00:00

That's a good experience to have.

HoosierProud · 2019-08-21T17:30:05+00:00

If you're not creepy or akward about it and are nonthreatening, what person, male or female, doesn't like a compliment?

4carps · 2019-08-21T19:48:53+00:00

Looks can be deceiving..

NewtypeJ · 2019-08-21T20:48:08+00:00

OP, advice for you going into the future, game is fun, you are where I was 5 years ago. It gets easier, approach anxiety never goes away, and remember to always have fun with it. Having genuine fun is more important than any 9/10 and you’ll look more attractive that way. If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend, she rarely does. It’s usually a rejection and sometimes a shit test, I’ve seen all three outcomes and I’ve been successful with all of them at least once. Girls with real boyfriends are iffy, I have a conscience so I don’t enjoy doing it but it happens. The other two situations, she’s not being honest. A tip for the future, don’t go up to a girl and compliment her right away. A friend/mentor of mine used to say “Guys want sex and girls want commitment/investment”. You complimenting her out of the blue is you giving up investment easily, which makes you look like a hoe which makes you unattractive. Think about it, if a girl has sex with you and you have never done anything for her, she’s called a slut, it’s the same thing. Guys don’t like sluts and girls don’t fuck time hoes/betas. You are the prize to be won, thus you can reward a girl with investment as she does things you like and in turn “discipline her” (devalue/neg) if she doesn’t. That’s a lot but hopefully this helps you going forward, I’m honestly glad that you are trying to get this down and I hope you stick with it. Honestly, a whole new world opens up when you get there.

RuleBreakerrz · 2019-08-21T16:55:14+00:00

Women don't have super powers bro lol. How old are you?

pman1013000 · 2019-08-21T17:36:13+00:00

There’s no such thing as a 10

TaeKwonPiccolo · 2019-08-21T07:51:04+00:00

Women who are not interested will always say they have a boyfriend...

kyledharvey1 · 2019-08-21T12:13:27+00:00

The whole "boyfriend" excuse sucks. Yes, some, most, even, have boyfriends. Get creative. Next time, how do you get around that? You tell me and I'll tell you if your answer sucks. - Nomad

secrecypuzzle · 2019-08-21T14:29:40+00:00

Shouldn't you have opinion opened her and then negged her and stuff? Otherwise where is the game?

anto_mck · 2019-08-21T14:39:05+00:00

Imagine having such low confidence in yourself

Title	So I approached this 9/10 yesterday
Author	jikol1906
Upvotes	459
Comments	75
Date	August 21, 2019 7:22 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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