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| 6 | 2 years in the game, my survival guide ;)After 7-8 months and 500-600 approaches, I am now in a relationship as well with an amazing girl. so yeah, this shit takes TIME! | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 06:40 PM |
| 3 | OvercomplicateIn January I approached this cute girl on the street and just told her the basic "Hey, I just had to stop you because I found you really cute." We have now spent two months of corona quarantine together and I can now call her my girlfriend. This shit works. | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Is it bad to get overly sexual through text with a girl you only briefly met once?Jo tak :) | /r/seduction | 04/03/20 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Is it bad to get overly sexual through text with a girl you only briefly met once?Det er nok ikke så smart at daygame i en mindre by nej. Hvis alle kender alle tænker jeg, at man hurtigt kan ende op med at blive kendt som "ham der, der lægger an på alle damerne". Helt klart bedre at gøre det i en af storbyerne :). | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Is it bad to get overly sexual through text with a girl you only briefly met once?Har kun gjort det i indre Kbh ved Nørreport og omegn. Der har jeg haft ok success. Hvor er du fra? | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Is it bad to get overly sexual through text with a girl you only briefly met once?Nej, at hun bliver bange for at gøre noget, der vil få andre til at opfatte hende som en slut. | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Is it bad to get overly sexual through text with a girl you only briefly met once?She looks great. Pretty face with nice full lips and a sexy slim body. | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Is it bad to get overly sexual through text with a girl you only briefly met once?Jamen goddag kære meddansker. | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever just get pissed that you have this deep biological desire for women?I mean, I base attractiveness mostly on facial traits. A 9/10 with long hair will still be a 9/10 with short hair to me. I think I became a bit too needy afterwards and that might have pushed her away. And yeah, she was a great fuck. Could deep throat like a motherfucker. | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Disappointed in myselfI would suggest finding someone experienced to do day gaming with. I would never have been able to start doing it without someone else pushing me. | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 08:15 AM |
| 7 | Disappointed in myselfI find club environments intimidating as well. Day gaming all the way. | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 08:07 AM |
| 1 | How do you stop your feeling of self from being dependent on affirmations?I used to feel like that and still do sometimes. Doing day game approaching helped me because you will experience so much rejection (as well as some success) that your ego will just be completely destroyed in the end. You realize that it is truly just a numbers game and that the majority of women won't ever be attracted to you, but a small percentage will (at least if you're average looking). | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 07:47 AM |
| 1 | The fastest way to get a girl on a date through text is by going SLOW | Texting 101 |I send at most three texts to my cold approaches before asking them out. Works just fine. | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Do you ever just get pissed that you have this deep biological desire for women?Well, beauty is to some degree subjective, but I think she was very beautiful (big prominent cheekbones, full lips, big blue eyes, hour glass figure). She was very alternative/hippe looking with short hair and very loose hanging clothes (Really into these types of girls). I approached her on a shopping street in copenhagen and gave her my number, she then texted me back a week later. On the date I realized that something was a bit off about her. The stuff she said was a bit weird and awkward som… | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 07:12 AM |
| 5 | Dealing with flakey hot girlsI have this 9 that I managed to sleep with twice and then she ghosted me and left my last messages on seen. Would you recommend trying this with a girl you have slept with already? | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Do you ever just get pissed that you have this deep biological desire for women?"Last, you should never find fulfillment in a woman my guy. Never. Fucking. Ever. You can find joy and fulfillment in the activity but never her" I know that, but it is so hard to not feel like that if you've never experienced an abundance of women. It is easy for you to feel like that since you have lots of sexual experiences. I can only count my number of lays on two hands. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 10:07 AM |
| 1 | [THEORY] 80% of your first dates should transition to second datesThanks man, I definitely wasn't aware of that. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 09:03 AM |
| 2 | [THEORY] 80% of your first dates should transition to second datesWell fuck me. Around 30 dates and only 3-4 second dates I can remember. | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 11:19 PM |
| 5 | Should I have kissed her?It just seemed so rushed to try and do it after 15 minutes. | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 02:59 PM |
| 1 | 24 Nonverbal Cues That Scream “I’m Non-Dominant.” Get Rid of Them and Score! - John AlexanderThis is just going to create more confusion than it is going to help. | /r/seduction | 08/01/20 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Fearing for my mental health in my seduction journey.How early have you successfully gone for the kiss? Like how much time passed? | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 01:56 PM |
| 3 | Fearing for my mental health in my seduction journey.Well, I do think that I am trying to escalate. I'll mostly start the date with getting tea/coffee. That is the "interview" part of the date and I'll try to keep it as short as possible. After we have finished our coffee I'll suggest taking a walk and that is where I'll try being more touchy. I'll for example try leading her by putting my hand on her back "Hey let us try walking this way" or doing a comforting rub her back if she told me about something negative that happened to her. I'll try to … | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 06:46 AM |
| 2 | My last couple of dates haven't really gotten anywhere and I'm getting so fucking depressed.Thank you replying. I still never really do any push/pulls on my dates because I find them so tricky and are always too scared of offending the girl, but I am starting to realize that they are necessary to get from a friendly interaction into a more sexual interaction. | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 10:25 PM |
| 4 | My last couple of dates haven't really gotten anywhere and I'm getting so fucking depressed.5 dates with different girls. Sorry, I should have specified that. | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 08:37 PM |
| 6 | Talk to 6, get cold shoulder. Talk to 8 or 9, get a great reaction. WHAT THE HECKSince you were 12? Damn | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 08:57 AM |
| 6 | I swear you never know what is going happen when you cold approach.Disagree. I would never drown her in compliments, but just saying that I find her attractive has worked very well and I almost only get positive reactions from it. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 11:13 PM |
| 40 | I swear you never know what is going happen when you cold approach.I'm glad that is the case since I am average as fuck looking lmao. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 11:12 PM |
| 5 | I swear you never know what is going happen when you cold approach.Thanks man! | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 11:06 PM |
| 16 | I swear you never know what is going happen when you cold approach.You DO have interesting things to say. When you speak to a friend or a family member does your conversation not usually flow naturally? Do you not say interesting stuff and crack jokes all the time? You only think you don't have anything to say because your anxiety is blocking your normal flow of thoughts. The only solution is to just keep approaching every day until you have minimized your anxiety so much that it doesn't affect you anymore. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 10:49 PM |
| 37 | I swear you never know what is going happen when you cold approach.Thanks man, You don't think it is the best way to get lays? It is still the only way I've gotten laid. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 09:58 PM |
| 9 | I swear you never know what is going happen when you cold approach.That is still an issue for me sometimes. If my mind goes completely blank and she doesn't contribute to the conversation, I'll usually just try number closing. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 09:56 PM |
| 1 | I swear you never know what is going happen when you cold approach.I am not bad looking. Very average. On r/truerateme i was rated 5/10. I have some good traits and some bad. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 09:49 PM |
| 35 | I swear you never know what is going happen when you cold approach.Yeah. I think it can work with every type of girl to be honest. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 09:06 PM |
| 8 | I swear you never know what is going happen when you cold approach.I live in Denmark. It took place on one of the bigger shopping streets in Copenhagen. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 09:03 PM |
| 37 | I swear you never know what is going happen when you cold approach.We are both 26 | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 08:56 PM |
| 71 | I swear you never know what is going happen when you cold approach.Lately I've been going with the following: I stop her, then look her straight in the eyes saying "hi, how are you doing?" while having a relaxed tone of voice and a little smirk on my face. It is so random to do, but most of the time she will just smile, play along and say "good, what about you?" Then I'll reply something like "Doing just fine." After that I'll wait for a moment creating some tension making her wonder what the fuck this guy is on about. Then I'll just tell her that I had to stop… | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 08:46 PM |
| 45 | I swear you never know what is going happen when you cold approach.I always open direct. I only plan the opener the rest I try improvising. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 08:33 PM |
| 0 | Is it true that 9s and 10s are typically “lonely?”r/ihavesex | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that 9s and 10s are typically “lonely?”I think 9's and 10's are getting hit on a lot, but that is mostly in club and online dating environments. The 9's and 10's I've cold approached on the street often tell me that it is the first time that it has ever happened to them and are very surprised. Another reason why day gaming is so effective. I am only 5/10 in looks by the way. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Girl got mad that i said she was little/petiteHer head literally turned bright red because she got so angry lmao. | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Make Conversations Flow Much Smoother With This One HACK - Tell Your Story (+Infield)So...did you smash? | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else basically only do day game?"comparison is the root of all unhappiness" I like that one. | /r/seduction | 28/12/19 07:03 PM |
| 2 | I'm having an identity crisis since I discovered this community. Please help.It is your inner “Nice guy” speaking. Women enjoy sex as well. | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 11:40 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the low-energy, slow speaking calm/introvert kind of style Liam Mcrae and James Marshall from the TNL uses? As an introvery myself this kind of style seems very appealing to me.Introvert* | /r/seduction | 21/12/19 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Fuck approach anxietyYep, only done it for 5 months. | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 07:29 AM |
| 1 | When you started out with seduction, how long did it take before you started getting the results you wanted?Will do! | /r/seduction | 11/12/19 08:56 PM |
| 1 | When you started out with seduction, how long did it take before you started getting the results you wanted?I'll try to do it one of the following days. I'll get back to you. | /r/seduction | 11/12/19 08:48 PM |
| 1 | When you started out with seduction, how long did it take before you started getting the results you wanted?I actually tried doing this with a friend, but for some reason I get even more nervous when being recorded and feel a much bigger pressure on performing well. I really like the thought of having you guys analyze one of my approaches though. I'll definitely consider trying again soon. | /r/seduction | 11/12/19 08:42 PM |
| 0 | When you started out with seduction, how long did it take before you started getting the results you wanted?I've been day gaming for around 4 months now. Done like 300-350 approaches and have gotten around 25 dates where five of them ended in a lay. I don't really know if this is good but it still seems like a LOT of approaches for very little outcome. | /r/seduction | 11/12/19 08:26 PM |
| 4 | Even as an attractive guy Tinder is a waste of timeThere are too many guys on this sub that desperately want to humblebrag. | /r/seduction | 05/12/19 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Even as an attractive guy Tinder is a waste of timeI have an attractive friend that has gotten lots of lays from Tinder. He keeps a fucking spreadsheet to remember all of them lmao. | /r/seduction | 05/12/19 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Stylelife Challenge Day 3-30This is really inspiring dude! Making me want to get out there myself. | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 07:51 AM |
| 3 | Picking Up A Hot Girl In Warsaw Poland | Daygame InfieldLMAO right? That is all that matters. | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Picking Up A Hot Girl In Warsaw Poland | Daygame InfieldI have never perceived leg crossing as insecure body language. To me it just looks very relaxed. | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 10:21 PM |
| 0 | I need some good openers. I’m in college and want to do some cold approaches on girls tomorrow. Give me some good ones I can try out. If I use it I’ll let you know how it goes.Can some of this mods ban this guy? | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Does real sex make you tired?r/ihavesex | /r/seduction | 16/11/19 08:48 AM |
| 1 | It's not you, women just don't like to be approached in publicWrong. I have gotten plenty of dates from daytime approaching. | /r/seduction | 15/11/19 11:22 AM |
| 6 | Anyone else simultaneously want to make a deep connection with one girl but..also want to bang many hot girls?Ok. | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 09:32 PM |
| 3 | To the loners/introverts here. No, you don't need a rich social life in order have some success in this (at least that isn't my experience)Sometimes my conversations are more boring interview like, sometimes I am able to be more creative/flirty, doing lots of cold readings and stuff. One doesn't seem to work better than the other. I've noticed my approaches are always much better when my "energy" or nonverbal communication is better. | /r/seduction | 02/11/19 12:59 PM |
| 2 | To the loners/introverts here. No, you don't need a rich social life in order have some success in this (at least that isn't my experience)Thanks man | /r/seduction | 02/11/19 11:01 AM |
| 3 | To the loners/introverts here. No, you don't need a rich social life in order have some success in this (at least that isn't my experience)Denmark | /r/seduction | 02/11/19 08:10 AM |
| 4 | To the loners/introverts here. No, you don't need a rich social life in order have some success in this (at least that isn't my experience)Could be. I also still can get a bit too needy afterwards I think. | /r/seduction | 02/11/19 08:10 AM |
| 5 | To the loners/introverts here. No, you don't need a rich social life in order have some success in this (at least that isn't my experience)Exactly. It is very hard for me to keep the women. They almost always lose interest shortly after. | /r/seduction | 01/11/19 10:44 PM |
| 1 | To the loners/introverts here. No, you don't need a rich social life in order have some success in this (at least that isn't my experience):) | /r/seduction | 01/11/19 10:26 PM |
| 13 | To the loners/introverts here. No, you don't need a rich social life in order have some success in this (at least that isn't my experience)Oh I am sorry. I forgot that you are a complete joke on this sub if you are not slaying straight 9’s | /r/seduction | 01/11/19 10:15 PM |
| 19 | To the loners/introverts here. No, you don't need a rich social life in order have some success in this (at least that isn't my experience)Just being persistent and approaching at least once every day. It is a numbers game. | /r/seduction | 01/11/19 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Never getting second datesI am trying to build an emotional connection and I've really clicked with some of the girls actually. | /r/seduction | 29/10/19 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Wing CopenhagenWe are some guys who do daygaming and some nightgaming in Copenhagen (Close to Nørreport) Send me a pm if you want to join. | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Approach Anxiety.Yep, pretty much. | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Approach Anxiety.I've done about 300 daygame approaches. My approach anxiety is still as high as when I started. | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 08:40 AM |
| 2 | Just had a girl text me (a girl I daygame approached and got an instant date with)Because I want to have sex with her. | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Just had a girl text me (a girl I daygame approached and got an instant date with)Should I just be direct and ask if she is looking for some non-commital fun? | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 01:56 PM |
| 1 | It has been going downhill latelyGenerally I don't mind flakes, but these were really cool girls that I had really great conversations with and yet they end up not being interested for some reason. | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Should I ask for a second date (again) or move on?I'll usually send a text like "Hey, I'd really like to know if you still want to meet again, it is also totally ok if you've changed your mind about this, not everyone are a match for each other :)" Shows lots of non-neediness. | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Got rejected, feel decent!!Girl told me with a very annoyed tone in her voice "was that all?" after I told her that I thought she looked cute. | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 06:14 AM |
| 1 | wing copenhagenHey, we are a group of guys doing daygaming in copenhagen. feel free to pm me | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 08:45 AM |
| 1 | 5 anti ghosting Texts I've successfully used to get girls responding again. Enjoy.You can also try something like "Hey man, it is totally cool if you're not down to meet anyways :) Really, I can handle a rejection just fine" Great display of non-needines. I've successfully used it once. | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Increase Your Attraction To Women By Working Out And Eating Rightsure man, feel free | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Let's get YOU a wingman!Vi er nogle drenge, der går ud og daygamer en gang i mellem ved Nørreport. Skriv hvis du er frisk på at tage med :) | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Increase Your Attraction To Women By Working Out And Eating RightAround a year. | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Increase Your Attraction To Women By Working Out And Eating RightIs low bf% really necessary? I've been bulking for a while and are probably around 18-19% body fat. I don't have that much muscle definition but don't look fat either (stomach still flat). I do however fill out my shirts and jeans a lot more. | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 07:15 PM |
| 1 | The Power Of Abundance--How You Get More Women By Being Okay With Losing WomenExactly. A 8/10 is fucking Victoria's secret model tier. You very rarely see those. | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Any advice for a 22 year old virgin incel?Seriously, people bash escorts here but seeing one once in a while really helps my game as it makes me less desperate/needy. | /r/seduction | 12/09/19 07:47 PM |
| 1 | How on earth do you make the first moveIf we are sitting close together and there is chemistry, I'll usually just say " I think you're really cool *name* and there is something I really want to do" and then just go for it. | /r/seduction | 08/09/19 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.this sub is becoming r/ihavesex | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.500+ approaches and 200 lays? I've dones maybe 150-200 approaches and only 2 lays. Why the fuck am I so bad at this. it really frustrates me that some guys just got this and then there are fucktards like me who fuck it up 99% of the time. | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 07:57 PM |
| 1 | I it common for girls to back out just before sex?Well, my room is a bit messy since I have just moved and don't have a place to put my clothes yet. Could have been that. | /r/seduction | 25/08/19 10:13 AM |
| 2 | I it common for girls to back out just before sex?Gonna remember that one | /r/seduction | 25/08/19 08:55 AM |
| 1 | I it common for girls to back out just before sex?I texted her an hour later saying that it was nice meeting her. | /r/seduction | 25/08/19 08:11 AM |
| 1 | I it common for girls to back out just before sex?Yeah, just like you I definitely don't want to be the guy that tries to force her, but like... did we really go this far for nothing?? | /r/seduction | 25/08/19 08:07 AM |
| 2 | I it common for girls to back out just before sex?Well, she seemed into me. We had been very passionately kissing me where she was almost throat fucking me with her tongue lol. | /r/seduction | 25/08/19 08:03 AM |
| 1 | I it common for girls to back out just before sex?She did say that we could meet again, but she didn't seem like she really meant it. I've tried sending her a text, no response yet. | /r/seduction | 25/08/19 07:59 AM |
| 1 | So I approached this 9/10 yesterdayI have tried not being direct (not starting out by telling her that I think she looks cute). The conversation rarely escalates and we just end up having a friendly chit chat. It is not like I am completely drowning her in compliments. I simply just tell her that I find her attractive and that I want to get to know her. | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 09:13 PM |
| 8 | So I approached this 9/10 yesterdayWow, watch out guys. We have a self proclaimed alpha male over here. | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 05:04 PM |
| 26 | So I approached this 9/10 yesterdayThe point of my post was that she was not this otherworldly being that my mind made her out to be. Not that she wasn't interested. | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 09:04 AM |
| 6 | Anyone else try to write some corny/edgy shit when you feel a girl is losing interest? It sometimes works.Well, whaddaya know. She did ghost me. So lesson learned, don't write cringy shit. | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else try to write some corny/edgy shit when you feel a girl is losing interest? It sometimes works.Then I am assuming that you're an attractive guy. Men with average looks (like me) would never be able to sleep with 43 women from tinder. I have an attractive friend that is cringy as fuck yet still pulls so many women from tinder. It is ridiculous. | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 09:31 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else try to write some corny/edgy shit when you feel a girl is losing interest? It sometimes works.lmao your confidence sounds pretty low (judging from your last post) for a guy who has (supposedly) been with 43 women. | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else try to write some corny/edgy shit when you feel a girl is losing interest? It sometimes works.It was not her respond time. I just felt that she was about to flake since she cancelled our date (it was a same day date from a daygame approach). When I set up the date with her she had very enthusiastically said yes, but suddenly she has other plans that she'd forgotten about. That to me is a sign that her interest is not high enough. | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else try to write some corny/edgy shit when you feel a girl is losing interest? It sometimes works.What? It took me like 30 seconds to write that message so it is not like I am wasting all my time on her, why not just try? I've got nothing to lose. She was about to flake anyways as I said. | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else try to write some corny/edgy shit when you feel a girl is losing interest? It sometimes works.Thank you for your very constructive criticism mr. Morose123 whose last post is about how you're getting rejected all the time. | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else try to write some corny/edgy shit when you feel a girl is losing interest? It sometimes works.It may not be that she is not interested but more that she is just neutral about you. In that case I feel like you should try everything no matter no corny/dumb it is to create a spark again. | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else try to write some corny/edgy shit when you feel a girl is losing interest? It sometimes works.I'll get back. | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else try to write some corny/edgy shit when you feel a girl is losing interest? It sometimes works.She was about to flake anyway 🤷♂️had nothing to lose. | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else try to write some corny/edgy shit when you feel a girl is losing interest? It sometimes works.Was it really that bad? | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 08:03 PM |
| 0 | Anyone else try to write some corny/edgy shit when you feel a girl is losing interest? It sometimes works.Maybe, I think it worked. She replied with "Sounds good :)". But yeah there is no guarantee that she isn't going to flake. | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 06:58 PM |
| 0 | Anyone else try to write some corny/edgy shit when you feel a girl is losing interest? It sometimes works.Even when I am being very obviously sarcastic? | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else try to write some corny/edgy shit when you feel a girl is losing interest? It sometimes works.Thanks man, Yeah I shouldn't have waited a few minutes. | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else try to write some corny/edgy shit when you feel a girl is losing interest? It sometimes works.True! | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else try to write some corny/edgy shit when you feel a girl is losing interest? It sometimes works.Well the thing was that we had a date today which she cancelled and didn't really suggest a new day (which in my book means that she is about to flake) so I felt like I had to be more cocky. | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 04:55 PM |
| -3 | Anyone else try to write some corny/edgy shit when you feel a girl is losing interest? It sometimes works.Really? I didn't think it was. It thought it was kind of a more risky, polarising thing to say. Neediness would be begging her to go out with me. | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 04:54 PM |
| 13 | Everybody sucks before doing 100 approaches. Don't complain, approach.The first one was hard definitely. It took me like 10 minutes of standing there awkwardly before I actually did the approach. Every time I go out to daygame, the first one is always the hardest. After that I gain momentum and the following ones are a lot easier. You will notice that if you dress well, smile (very important), keep eye contact and speak with a laidback attitude of "I am just expressing my interest in you and I don't care about what you think of me" then a lot of girls will be flat… | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 05:18 PM |
| 5 | Everybody sucks before doing 100 approaches. Don't complain, approach.Thanks man. | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 04:38 PM |
| 5 | Everybody sucks before doing 100 approaches. Don't complain, approach.Yes it was daygame. I live in Copenhagen, Denmark | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Everybody sucks before doing 100 approaches. Don't complain, approach.Daygame only :) | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Everybody sucks before doing 100 approaches. Don't complain, approach.like a maybe a 30% chance that they will get very flattered and blush (best case). Others will just act indifferent. | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 03:35 PM |
| 1 | What is the most interesting/original cold approach opener you have used, and how did it turn out?Damn dude haha, that is brilliant. I really want to try one of these crazy openers but I am just afraid of fucking it up completely. | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 08:05 AM |
| 38 | Everybody sucks before doing 100 approaches. Don't complain, approach.During the last one and a half month I've done maybe 120-130 daygame approaches: I mostly use direct "Excuse me, I thought you looked cute and just had to say hi" I am: - 6' - Average looks 5.5/10 (My rating on r/truerateme) - Dress decently. My stats: 8 dates 5 kiss closes 1 fuck close (and one bj from another) Most girls were in 4-6/10 range. Don't know if I should have expected more or less. | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 05:38 AM |
| 2 | Why does it feel so "illegal" to approach a hot girl?My problem as well. I've just missed out on so much. It is so hard to develop that "abundance" mentality when you have never experienced that abundance. | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Why does it feel so "illegal" to approach a hot girl?So true. The interactions I've had where I've been in a bad mood has almost always been terrible and I can't joke with/tease her for shit and also seem too serious. All the fun witty stuff I am usually able to say just doesn't come to me. I really need to work on being the right mindset before approaching. | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Why does it feel so "illegal" to approach a hot girl?Great approaches bro. Your conversations flow so smoothly. I just can't seem to make my cold approach conversations flow as naturally as yours. Mine are always the same "bla bla bla I thought you looked cute". Just the same script I am following every time. | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 12:35 PM |
| 1 | I've set up a date in 7 days with a girl I daygame approached.Got it :) When were talking there was some thunder in the distance and she told me that she was really scared of thunder. I just snapped her asking if she spent the evening crying under her blankets because she was scared. Just some friendly teasing. | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 06:41 PM |
| 1 | First time I ever experienced a shit test from a girl I daygame approached.Ok, I guess I still don't know the difference between shit tests and jokes then. | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 07:51 AM |
| 1 | First time I ever experienced a shit test from a girl I daygame approached.Well. Don't you think that she said with the intention of making me embarrassed or feeling awkward? | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Boys I'm actually making it, from cringe and needy to LIT AS FUCKDamn. I hope to get to where you are some day bro. | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 07:31 PM |
| 2 | First time I ever experienced a shit test from a girl I daygame approached.Man, I wish I'd said something like that tbh. Why doesn't those epic comebacks come to me in the moment? lol | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Guys, what the fuck did I do wrong?IMO right at the start of the date. Just start out very lightly. | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Guys, what the fuck did I do wrong?Light touching. It can be gently touching her on the shoulder whenever she laughs, leading her with a hand on her back, holding her hand. | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Guys, what the fuck did I do wrong?True, but she was the one who invited me to meet her 22 pm in the evening. That indicates sexual interest to me. | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 09:23 AM |
| 2 | Guys, what the fuck did I do wrong?Yea, overall making out is still a win in my book. I just can't help but think what could've happened had I pressed the right buttons. | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Guys, what the fuck did I do wrong?Last time I got laid I had to invite her to my home. They don't always take initiative. | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Guys, what the fuck did I do wrong?Not always. You will have to make a move as well. | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 08:03 AM |
| 2 | Guys, what the fuck did I do wrong?Well, when a girl that is leaving my country tomorrow asks me if I want to meet up at 10pm for a beer. I can't help but think she is interested in something sexual. | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Guys, what the fuck did I do wrong?There just wasn't enough time. She had to get up early tomorrow for her plane. | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 07:17 AM |
| 6 | Guys, what the fuck did I do wrong?Ok she actually just texted that it was nice meeting me as well, and that she will text me if she ever travels to my country again. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 10:15 PM |
| 1 | How are my daygaming stats?Thanks man. Good luck to you too bro. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 07:25 PM |
| 1 | How are my daygaming stats?I like direct because I always feel like I am getting into friendzone territory if I don't make my intentions clear. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 07:14 PM |
| 1 | How are my daygaming stats?Sorry for the late reply I mostly do direct. I really want to experiment with other types of approaches, but direct is just the easiest for me. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 04:33 PM |
| 1 | How are my daygaming stats?Have updated my post. | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 10:39 PM |
| 2 | How are my daygaming stats?Woah. Well, female validation is nice, but it is not like I crave it in order to feel good about myself. I am just a guy that would like to get laid a bit more often, that is all. | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 10:29 PM |
| 10 | Why you should be going HARD on PICK UP NOW and any time period in which you are non-monogamousDude, I also just got out of a long term relationship (5 years) and have been going strong on the cold approaches. First couple of weeks didn't go too well. Got some numbers but all flaked. But recently I actually hooked up and slept with a girl from an approach (witch really improved my confidence) and made out with another girl the following day. I also have two more dates this week. Cold approaches are seriously cheating. How do you approach, do you do direct/indirect? Do you have some usual … | /r/seduction | 31/07/19 03:34 PM |
| 5 | Asked girl out. Said she has a boyfriend, but would still go out for a drink?I mean. If she want to cheat, is it really my fault? | /r/seduction | 31/07/19 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Should I have kept trying?I have, we're gonna meet again in a week. | /r/seduction | 30/07/19 05:26 PM |
| 3 | Should I have kept trying?It was just the teasing manner she said it in. It made me think that she somehow wanted me to work for it rather than just give up. | /r/seduction | 30/07/19 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Should I have kept trying?That sounds pretty plausible actually. Thanks for your perspective. | /r/seduction | 29/07/19 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Alcohol seriously helps so muchApproach Anxiety and Indication of Interest | /r/seduction | 27/07/19 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Alcohol seriously helps so muchI was considering trying weed actually. I think it is also better for my long term health. (In small quantities of course.) | /r/seduction | 27/07/19 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Alcohol seriously helps so muchI think I'm pretty good at appearing sober when I'm only slightly tipsy. | /r/seduction | 27/07/19 01:24 PM |
| 10 | Alcohol seriously helps so muchI really only need very little alcohol. As I said, I only needed one strong beer to get me going. | /r/seduction | 27/07/19 10:50 AM |
| 2 | For those of you that struggled with game for a long time. How did you stay motivated?I've actually considered reading "The power of now" I should do it :) | /r/seduction | 21/07/19 10:00 PM |
| 1 | For those of you that struggled with game for a long time. How did you stay motivated?Thank you for your perspective. | /r/seduction | 21/07/19 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Went way too hard on kino and ended up creeping a girl out.Thank you for the detailed answer, I appreciate it. Yes, I see that putting my hand on her lap was way too aggressive. I will definitely start out with lighter touching next time. | /r/seduction | 21/07/19 07:16 AM |
| 4 | So I approached this girl...I live in Denmark where it is actually pretty rare for strangers to start talking with each other. We are pretty reserved people. I actually believe that this is an advantage since most girls have never been approached before, so they are always very surprised. Several of them have told me that this has never happened to them before. One even asked me if this was like a hidden camera show lol. | /r/seduction | 19/07/19 06:06 AM |
| 1 | So I approached this girl...No. Worst I've gotten is that she just looks very disinterested. Then I just simply say "have a nice day" and leave. | /r/seduction | 19/07/19 05:45 AM |
| 27 | So I approached this girl...Actually english is not my main language. The word I used translates into "excuse me". So I didn't actually say "sorry". | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 03:41 PM |
| 24 | So I approached this girl...Remember that if you dress well, are well groomed, smile, have an open body language and have a laidback attitude of "I'm just expressing my interest in you and I don't care if you are not interested in me". It is almost guaranteed that most girls will be flattered. | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 03:25 PM |
| 6 | So I approached this girl...Thanks man! | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 03:16 PM |
| 14 | So I approached this girl...You'd be surprised over how easy it actually is to do :) | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 03:07 PM |
| 6 | So I approached this girl...Maybe. I definitely felt that she was being completely genuine when she said it. | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 03:06 PM |
| 2 | So I approached this girl...Good to know man. Keep it up! | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 02:43 PM |
| 3 | So I approached this girl...Sorry to hear that. Cold showers worked wonders for me in reducing my urges. Also just staying occupied with something at all times. | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 02:38 PM |
| 135 | So I approached this girl...I know man. I just really have a thing for shy girls that get all giggly when you talk to them. | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 02:35 PM |
| 8 | So I approached this girl...Yeah you should try quitting porn. I think masturbation is ok but porn is definitely fucking us up. | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 02:33 PM |
| 26 | So I approached this girl...Thanks dude. I've started using this little mental trick to conquer my approach anxiety when I see a woman I want to approach. I imagine myself laying on my deathbed thinking back to this exact situation. Thinking about how laughably stupid it was to be afraid of something so harmless as telling a girl that you think she is cute. Approach anxiety really is nothing when you think about the fact that you are going to die some day and that it ultimately it doesn't matter how much you fuck up, becau… | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 02:25 PM |
| 16 | So I approached this girl...Yeah I could have done that, but my experiences tell me that if she says that, she is just not interested and you should just move on. | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 02:17 PM |
| 20 | So I approached this girl...You're right. I should stop saying that. | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 02:15 PM |
| 1 | So I approached this girl...Exactly. if you smile, keep eye contact and have open body language it is guaranteed most girls will respond positively. | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 01:30 PM |
| 1 | So I approached this girl...Thanks bro. Cold approaching is doing wonders for my confidence. I have almost eliminated my fear of rejection now. | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 01:22 PM |
| 1 | So I approached this girl...Saying that I think she looks cute is fine as long as you don't shower her with compliments. It also makes my intentions clear. | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 01:13 PM |
| 1 | So I approached this girl...This is generally the accepted way of approaching girls in here. What are you talking about? | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 01:00 PM |
| 34 | So I approached this girl...Definitely did! | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Asked girl for her number this evening, she then asks if I want to follow her home.The circumstances under which we met was that I just walked up to her and said that I thought she looked cute. Thank you man. I've just recently started cold approaching and I think I give off a slightly nervous vibe when doing it. I guess she picked up on that which turned her off. Or maybe she was just never interested at all and just saw it as a friendly encounter right from the beginning, who knows. On to the next fish in the sea. | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Asked girl for her number this evening, she then asks if I want to follow her home.Yea, I actually really wish I'd done something like this. | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 05:41 AM |
| 2 | Asked girl for her number this evening, she then asks if I want to follow her home.But what should I have said to get inside with her? | /r/seduction | 17/07/19 09:31 PM |
| 1 | A girl I approached today was down to hang out and get a beer. She wants to meet up with her friend and cousin later, though.She couldn't meet afterwards, so I called it off. Would just be a waste of my time. | /r/seduction | 17/07/19 06:34 AM |
| 1 | A girl I approached today was down to hang out and get a beer. She wants to meet up with her friend and cousin later, though.I did this: I said that I would be busy with school tomorrow so I can't meet up early with her (we had planned to take a walk in a park one and a half hour before meeting with the two other). Instead I asked if she wanted to take the walk after we had been with them. | /r/seduction | 16/07/19 07:25 PM |
| 1 | A girl I approached today was down to hang out and get a beer. She wants to meet up with her friend and cousin later, though.Should I straight up ask her if she wants to hang out after we've been with the two other? | /r/seduction | 16/07/19 06:57 PM |
| 1 | A girl I approached today was down to hang out and get a beer. She wants to meet up with her friend and cousin later, though.Well, I am meeting with her an hour and a half before we are supposed to meet up with her cousin and her friend. I don't think there would be any time to bring her home before that. | /r/seduction | 16/07/19 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Is low body fat % better for attraction than high body fat %?Yeah I totally agree with what you are saying. I know confidence/accepting yourself in by far the most important thing you can do with regards to attracting women. I still think that being in great physical shape is a great addition to your game, though. Just something that can make things easier for you. | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 09:23 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck is wrong with meYou are totally right. I am really trying to internalize that exact thing. We are all going to fucking die some day. Is walking up that cute girl and asking for her number really that scary in the face of death? | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 08:19 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck is wrong with meThat is awesome man. How long did it take you to develop that mindset? | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 07:40 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck is wrong with meWhy? What is wrong about staring conversations with random people? We are social creatures, right? | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 07:20 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck is wrong with meThanks man. The thing is, I actually already have done some approaches before, but today I suddenly couldn't find the confidence to do it at all. It is just extremely frustrating because it is such an incredible waste of precious time. My friend is also fucking some chick right now he approached the other day, so that hurts even more lol. | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 07:18 PM |
| 1 | How to get rid of the feeling that I am not worthy of being with women?Sorry, english is not my first language. It was indeed High school. | /r/seduction | 07/07/19 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Worst rejection story?Damn dude. Ok, I guess I know nothing. | /r/seduction | 02/07/19 09:31 AM |
| 295 | This is pathetic as fuck, but I got someone's number tonight and am beyond happy!"I'll read this and realize how retarded and maybe pathetic I am but whatever". Dude, stop with that negative self-talk. You just did something that most guys are too afraid to do. | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 09:38 AM |
| 16 | Flirting*Slow clapping* | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Where did I go wrong with this girl?Thanks bro. Yea, I haven't taken it too personal either. I know rejections are part of the game :) Just gotta move on to the next one. | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Where did I go wrong with this girl?Yeah. I'm still pretty ecstatic over the fact that I did a cold approach (something that seemed scarier to me than having your arm amputated without anaesthesia) and I'm really looking forward to try it again tomorrow. | /r/seduction | 29/06/19 10:15 PM |
| 4 | Where did I go wrong with this girl?Nah It is late in the evening and it is two hours since she saw it. She definitely isn't going to answer. If she wasn't interested I am just amazed she wanted to be together for over an hour. | /r/seduction | 29/06/19 09:40 PM |
| 1 | How much muscle do I need to build in order to look good at 10%?Thanks, I have been looking into that procedure. I will however first try reaching 10% bodyfat. How has intermittent fasting helped you? | /r/BlackPillScience | 25/02/19 07:31 AM |
| 1 | How much muscle do I need to build in order to look good at 10%?Thanks | /r/BlackPillScience | 23/02/19 08:36 PM |
| 6 | How much muscle do I need to build in order to look good at 10%?Sorry. I am 6’ and 178 lbs. Current bf% is probably around 17-18%. | /r/BlackPillScience | 23/02/19 02:02 PM |
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