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I want this to be upvoted into legendary status. Upvote this into oblivion! This is gold but haters will ignore it and do what they want. Masterful. Thank you from this.
/r/seduction13/03/20 06:10 PM
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She gets to go out and meet tons of people and club with you. It can be a friend who’s vested in you getting this skillset down. It’s not hard. It’s just finding balance and someone who’s comfortable leaving alone
/r/seduction13/03/20 06:06 PM
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You should be winging with and for women. You mentioned social proof so you know this is a much better idea that having a male wing. She doesn't even have to know game! She just has to be there to help you open and pull. Thats is. Find a female wing. Its 100X better than winging with gusy.
/r/seduction13/03/20 04:52 PM
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Yes, why would you not? People will always come up with a reason, excuse to not approach or develop your social skills. The people that are going out are the people that are always going out. The people that are making excuses are the people that have been making excuses.
/r/seduction13/03/20 04:46 PM
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If your doing approaches and networking you will eventually come across a woman who vibes with you but doesn't want anything intimate with you. So you become friends and as long as she is OK with your pursuit of intimate relationships with other women and she supports that, you now have female wing. Typically they will be women who are slightly more aggressive or assertive than most of the other women you will know and that is the key. She cant have anxiety she just needs to love meeting and int…
/r/seduction13/03/20 03:53 PM
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I got you
/r/seduction13/03/20 01:28 PM
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“Providing you do anything that gets you out of the house” Thank you! Now if you could just remind the other 400k people about this, that would be great.
/r/seduction13/03/20 01:27 PM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction13/03/20 01:25 PM
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Meh, it’s cool. What other title would you suggest?
/r/seduction13/03/20 01:24 PM
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That’s a whole lesson on transparency, confidence, and shared interest. In short, find you a wing woman that’s open about her sexuality and understanding you’re trying to get better at meeting women.
/r/seduction13/03/20 08:04 AM
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I could possible do another post in that but I already have so much material that leads up to this point. I wanted to write something in the middle for once. I’ll consider writing the blueprint for it but I’ll need some time. I want to avoid it being the same material that’s out there now in the sub. I honestly believe if you read and applied the material in this sub in 6 months anyone can be doing this if not more.
/r/seduction13/03/20 07:55 AM
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Hmmm... perhaps I should make a note that’s this is intermediate-advanced lvl? Also I skipped that part since there’s more than enough material in the sub to guide you up to and beyond this point if you stick with it.
/r/seduction13/03/20 07:47 AM
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You know the answer
/r/seduction13/03/20 06:31 AM
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this is a small example of why i tell people to avoid getting social media altogether
/r/seduction13/03/20 06:30 AM
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It's as easy or as difficult as you yourself make it. Stop listening to those feelings and exercise the mind to think positively about interactions when they come up. You are right though, women don't do this and wont experience what a lot of men do but of course they have their own side of the journey. Keep at it my friend. Soon you wont even have those thoughts of rejection, fear and anxiety.
/r/seduction12/03/20 05:14 PM
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Never heard of anyone doing something like this before... Interested to see some of the more serious responses.
/r/seduction12/03/20 04:41 PM
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You fucking had it but that ego of yours got in the way. You had it! You heard him out and still made the approach which sounds like it was pretty smooth. You should have taken that W and walk away. You set yourself up for failure when you walked back over and said something to him. He saw you make the approach and have a good time. You should have just taken the W, went home, and in like a week come back and sit with that same girl, look over and invite him to come sit with you like nothing eve…
/r/seduction12/03/20 04:05 PM
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How much time has elapsed since the beginning of this interaction and now? Not even sure what you are asking for help with here. It just sounds like something that happened, you learn from it and you move along. No need to linger here.
/r/seduction12/03/20 03:49 PM
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So talk to them. If its not strange to look at people and smile then it wouldn't be strange to talk to them. It'll feel weird at first but that goes away. You could be passing up some pretty great opportunities so try it out.
/r/seduction12/03/20 03:45 PM
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This one seems legit so make a joke of it, build the interest,maybe even have a phone call or two and rain check the date. You can always just invite her out to bowl with a bunch of friends if you think she isn'tt up for something that feels like a date.
/r/seduction12/03/20 03:43 PM
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why though? If there was no social media what would you do?
/r/seduction12/03/20 02:37 AM
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No. Stay as far away from social media as possible if you’re asking “how to approach” questions you’re probably not ready for social media right now. What happens is that you end up stalking her page and she really has no idea who you are. If you do speak to her and she’s not interested now you just scroll through her pages for weeks on end. So no. If it’s not a number a chance to meet again or a date, don’t take it.
/r/seduction12/03/20 02:34 AM
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It sounds like you have it all planned out. Here's the catch though. Best case: She's falls in love with you immediately it all comes easy and boom, your sending wedding invitations in a few years. Worst Case: You'd be doing what every other guy has done giving her no reason to call or even answer. She is going to probably give you the number so that you will go away and then claim she is busy until you get the hint that she isn't interested. How to avoid the above? Dont rush it. You have a lot …
/r/seduction12/03/20 02:25 AM
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I would suggest you stop caring and just go for it. The next is that there are 1000 places to go and meet people you are just to lazy to go out and find them. Seriously, anywhere, festivals, concerts and so on are all great places to meet people. Don't worry about what people will think since no one will actually care besides you.
/r/seduction11/03/20 10:55 PM
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Short and to the point. Masterful! If we could just pin this to the top of the sub, that would be great. The same reasons guys don't want to approach are the same reasons guys should approach. no one cares or will remember most people are listen to music looking at their phones they are busy doing something are just as much in their own head as you are yours She may have a boyfriend (if shes alone) Shes with a group (that's like 4 birds with 1 stone! Efficient)
/r/seduction11/03/20 02:23 AM
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Good to hear it. Hope you can find some use for the rest of them as well.
/r/seduction10/03/20 03:06 AM
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Thanks
/r/seduction09/03/20 03:53 PM
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I've seen it before where some men have spent money one a dog just so they can avoid approach anxiety using the dog as a conversation starter. It rarely works out in the long run.
/r/seduction09/03/20 07:02 AM
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Ah yes, those magical summer time. I’ve had a few of those in my time. Met a girl in Tokyo. Spent a month together and then poof. A couple years back while in Austin I had the same thing happen. One night in Hong Kong as well. You’ll get things like that, those instant connections that can’t be explained but feel like nothing you e ever felt before. Simply enjoy them. It’s kind of a reminder that anything can happen at anytime since the universe is wildly unpredictable. You can’t hope to experie…
/r/seduction09/03/20 03:04 AM
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I hope you can read it and apply it soon.
/r/seduction08/03/20 06:24 PM
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Mmm... I understand. There’s levels and people also have other things they are dealing with. I regret this post is somewhat of a baseline rather than all inclusive. Perhaps next post I could include some exercise to help with clearing the mind.
/r/seduction08/03/20 06:21 PM
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I do what I can for the sub.
/r/seduction08/03/20 06:20 PM
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How’s that?
/r/seduction08/03/20 06:11 PM
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I can see how you’d think that but I see a lot of guys asking for tips and so on who then disappear for months only to discover “I did what you said and it didn’t work so this is all bullshit! I’m focusing on other things” and so on. But yeah, kind of ironic.
/r/seduction08/03/20 06:11 PM
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My pleasure
/r/seduction08/03/20 06:07 PM
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Why is that?
/r/seduction08/03/20 06:06 PM
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Lol c’mon, things aren’t that bad
/r/seduction08/03/20 06:05 PM
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Glad you liked it
/r/seduction08/03/20 06:05 PM
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No sir that would be my boss. I simply bring my personal experiences, support, and accountability to those we work with.
/r/seduction08/03/20 06:00 AM
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Thanks so much
/r/seduction08/03/20 04:24 AM
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Thanks so much.
/r/seduction08/03/20 04:14 AM
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Glad to hear you’re getting back out there and that this helps. Good luck.
/r/seduction08/03/20 04:14 AM
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i laughed harder than i should have
/r/seduction08/03/20 01:48 AM
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are you looking for openers or certainty? You could very well google 1000 openers so I guess you want to know what everyone else is using just to be sure you dont look silly. Aint gonna work like that. I suggest you pick a few of you own, walk out the door and try them this weekend. It's much more beneficial to you in the long run having done it that way than. Go out, skrew up, test some shit and laugh about it in a year when you no longer need this stuff because youre a real boss
/r/seduction07/03/20 02:31 AM
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act? Well if you have to act you are going to be in trouble in the long run.
/r/seduction06/03/20 07:35 PM
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You gotta warm up before that man. What's your process or routine you go through to help build momentum. You wouldn't go to the gym and slam the heaviest waits without warming up and you wouldn't run a marathon without stretching. You're making this harder on yourself if you dont try to build momentum first. That being said, sometimes you just have to say "f*** it!" and just go without a second thought which is where the 3 second rule comes from.
/r/seduction06/03/20 07:34 PM
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10yrs I been doing this sort of thing and I will say two thing If the mindset isn’t there, nothing will work If it’s not fun for you, take a break and come back. It will eventually become a way to just let off some steam and relax.
/r/seduction06/03/20 06:17 AM
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Thanks my friend. I’m sure there are 1000 other things that can be added but too much information and people’s heads explode.
/r/seduction06/03/20 03:08 AM
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So then share that but also switch it up. Some days do you and some days try other podcasts. Besides, there podcasts, you can catch the episodes later.
/r/seduction06/03/20 02:47 AM
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See number 12. Listen to something on the way to work or on the way back. In the morning or just before bed. Lunch break or otherwise. Im not saying just sit there and take notes lol. I usually play the podcast while im working out in the morning or during the lunch break.
/r/seduction06/03/20 02:34 AM
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This is why I do about 2hrs a day of some informational podcast or maybe listen to the radio like NPR or something educational each day. I stay up on current events, learn something new and get to talk to others about it and when they ask how I know this or that I turn them on to whatever I was listening to that day.
/r/seduction06/03/20 01:37 AM
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Regret last a whole hell of a lot longer than rejection.
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Stop thinking about it or rather over thinking and just go. There is literally no special or specific way to approach her vs anyone other girl or person. Now intent is completely different. Stop wasting time and go say something before someone else does.
/r/seduction04/03/20 12:45 AM
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why cant you participate?
/r/seduction28/02/20 08:21 PM
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Powerful ass statement. Learning to fight this can be a task in and of itself. While its simple to say mindset is the key I know first had it was a hell of a process to get to where I am now.
/r/seduction28/02/20 03:51 AM
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Just one of many approaches you will be doing from here on out. Keep at it.
/r/seduction26/02/20 04:08 AM
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I mean you already started trying to reach out to her again so at this point its clear you are going to do what YOU want to do. You got invested and thought things were going well without warning they fell apart. You wanted clarity and reached out for it. Now that you know it wasnt your fault you think maybe there is a chance to pick things back up which any normal person would think and do. However, we know better. That's a clear sign right there that it may not be the best fit for you. Gross l…
/r/seduction24/02/20 08:58 PM
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OP Here! TL:DW Over coming the limitations around you The balance between, work, love, mental health, physical health Kaizen - constant and never ending improvement in all areas of life Evolving from one small area to a larger more fulfilling things in life Coming from a small island to living in a large city he gives a small overview of what it took for him to start his business and transition from simply dating into relationships and personal development. Its a call to those who want a more fu…
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:51 PM
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Always an option
/r/seduction15/02/20 06:39 AM
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TL;DW, The importance of knowing where you are energy wise and getting out of your own head. He speaks a little bit about congruence and authenticity and how understanding where you are can help you achieve better results. Don't try to force things and realize that things can change but some times you wont actually have to.
/r/seduction14/02/20 09:08 PM
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Your gotta get out of your own head on this one man. You over think too much shit and she wont think you are interested and move on to the guy who can show his intent.
/r/seduction14/02/20 03:47 AM
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It's happening both ways. Women will look at things they like however you have to learn to determinate if that's them just looking or if its a look of interest. Its also possible she is interested and taken. Note: If she looks twice or more she's possibly single and interested. Not an exact science but test it out. Looks...i didnt say stare.
/r/seduction14/02/20 03:44 AM
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consistency is power! Make sure that you try/test out new things since this is the best time for it. Keep doing what works and scratch the ones that done. Continue to push the limits of each interaction to find your limits of comfort and experience.
/r/seduction06/02/20 11:40 PM
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A couple of days from now? Explain? Also it’s the weekend, you can “lay low” but unless you have other dates lined up and plan to cold approaching this weekend understand that it is the weekend. Your best opportunity for a date should have been ASAP Fri-Sun. If she’s socializing like most people do on the weekend you run the risk of her ghosting/bailing or canceling the date if she meets someone in person. Do what you want but I’ll say this, don’t wait until hours before the date to ask if you’r…
/r/seduction31/01/20 07:43 PM
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What do you mean “spending money”? I mean it’s obvious there’s more to this than what you’re saying. One of the main points to developing this skillset is so you DONT have to spend money or have all those other things. Just be upfront with women on this one. Its really just that simple but try not to sound like a dick or a bitter disgruntled guy or they’ll sense that and you’re doomed.
/r/seduction31/01/20 01:15 AM
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what is your issue with spending money? You need to resolve that before anything else. I believe the old saying is "you're going to end up paying for it no matter what" Also, if tinder has made you lazy and you put minimal effort into it, even if there was a way to get 8-10's there's little evidence you would do the work required for it. Start with logging out of tinder and going out and actively learning the socials skills that would be required to meet higher quality women. You cant want to be…
/r/seduction31/01/20 01:03 AM
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Agreed. The only people who could possible hate anything about this are just a bunch of boys who are too scared to talk to women.
/r/seduction31/01/20 12:58 AM
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The process of self improvement or growth as a person is never ending so in truth you will never be a finished or perfect version and even if you meet all the goals you set for yourself and become the very best version of yourself...your paradigm will shift and you will realize there's so much more to do and you have accomplished only a small percentage of what you are capable of and thus the process begins again. my point? You can have the relationship and still be working on yourself
/r/seduction30/01/20 05:16 AM
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Yeah man you just kind of move on from here. Besides, she knows that you are interested and there is nothing saying you cant come back around to her in the future so it was kinda interesting to hear that you cut her off but there is a lot in seduction and pickup that would agree with that move.
/r/seduction30/01/20 12:24 AM
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Cold approach gives you so many more options than online dating. Think of it like this, with online dating you see who they want you to see when they want you to see them. That and when it comes to phones they can be a major distraction to and for most people so sure, they saw your message but then they got a text and boom...they forget. The other side of this coin is that you can make a better impression in person than online. You really get to pull that persons attention away from everything e…
/r/seduction30/01/20 12:06 AM
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Skip the friend part because then you will end up asking how to get out of the friendszone. Why add an extra step to the process or make it more difficult. My advice here would be to approach and ask for a date. You literally have a reason to ask her because its been two months. You like the girl so make the conversation fun and full of energy so that she has an emotional reason so want to go with you. "This guy is funny. I would be a fool to NOT go on at least one date with him" Dont worry abou…
/r/seduction30/01/20 12:03 AM
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The neg is like PUA 101. Google it.
/r/seduction27/01/20 05:36 PM
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Stop
/r/seduction27/01/20 07:13 AM
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You wild
/r/seduction27/01/20 07:13 AM
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What if you’re not though?
/r/seduction27/01/20 06:33 AM
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You are correct in all manner. However, I stand by my original statement in that it is not my content. While it may appear I stand to gain something, I cannot deliver the message the way Sami does. Taking note; I will in the future add more detail and summary but again, I would rather the viewer watch the original content vice some summary that may be lacking details.
/r/seduction27/01/20 06:32 AM
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Well why do you fail to make the move? Fear? Uncertainty?
/r/seduction26/01/20 11:12 PM
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I wouldn’t need to add a link to the video if I did that. I wanted to give credit to the creator by providing the link. I could give a little review and add some detail but since the content isn’t mine I want to be sure it didn’t seam like I was taking credit. Definitely add a discretion on future links
/r/seduction26/01/20 11:11 PM
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It’s not impossible. It will however be a little difficult at first.
/r/seduction26/01/20 10:47 PM
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OP here! Seen a few post about how to meet women if you’re shy, introverted, new and so on. Good video with a lot of good ideas for the ones that need help or just a boost.
/r/seduction26/01/20 07:18 PM
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lol bro chill! He's just sharing. * looks for link to website *
/r/seduction21/01/20 07:43 PM
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Learning that communication and communication with women are NOT the same.
/r/seduction21/01/20 07:29 PM
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I guess the real question is what you are doing now to meet women if anything at all. If you are shy and haven't been approaching there is very little change you will put into practice these suggestions.
/r/seduction21/01/20 06:27 PM
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One step at a time. 1 person a day would be ideal and keep you from losing momentum but start where you are comfortable.
/r/seduction21/01/20 06:15 PM
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Stop asking Go back to fun and light messages. Make it fun and ask again later. Show that you’ve actually got a life. Invite her out to something that you’re doing with friends that’s fun. Let her know it would be great to have her there but you understand if she’s busy and she can’t Move on
/r/seduction18/01/20 01:16 AM
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He just dropped a video on how to make friends after college. Difficult but not impossible. How To Make Friends As An Adult - Build A Social Circle https://youtu.be/qcrCyNmJ93U
/r/seduction15/01/20 06:37 PM
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so what are things like now if you weren't able to get into those college groups?
/r/seduction15/01/20 06:35 PM
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What is it about #2 is holding you up? Maybe you are having trouble breaking in to groups to meet that person?
/r/seduction15/01/20 06:34 PM
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so if your friends arent helping, what else have you tried?
/r/seduction15/01/20 06:31 PM
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How did that work out for you? Any tips for success for those who are trying to do the same thing?
/r/seduction15/01/20 06:29 PM
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why do you think that?
/r/seduction15/01/20 06:29 PM
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Need a little bit more detail on what you are doing or saying when you do approach. Is this during the day or at night? Are you rushing things "Hey you're cute, I thought id introduce myself and ask for your number and maybe we can go out sometime." or anything along those lines. Just need a little bit more detail to better determine how to help.
/r/seduction15/01/20 05:38 PM
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I can tell you right now that's not going to help you. It may make you feel better or think that its possible but if you really want to see results, go make it happen.
/r/seduction15/01/20 03:42 AM
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Lots of opportunity to practice your day game vice going to have a drink. Also if you live in around or even close to a major city to help improve your game then I would suggest doing that. You can always go to the bar after putting in some really good daygame and cold approaching.
/r/seduction14/01/20 09:44 PM
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Good stuff. Test it out and let us know the difference in results.
/r/seduction14/01/20 09:42 PM
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Literally no one cares about a snap chat code and neither should you. That's not anything that you'd see on a dating profile or that would come up in casual conversation or a date. No big deal.
/r/seduction14/01/20 04:42 AM
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Good stuff. Keep it up.
/r/seduction09/01/20 05:30 AM
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There is no difference in approach hear. Do what you would normally do and you will be fine.
/r/seduction02/01/20 01:08 AM
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I would suggest some short but light texting but nothing serious. Maybe a few jokes and so on about how awesome the date is going to be "You better bring your dancing shoes because..." Not to many people are keen to a phone call but i found that it works wonders for me if there are a few days in between the first and second meeting.
/r/seduction02/01/20 01:04 AM
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You got this!
/r/seduction02/01/20 12:58 AM
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You're not witty, you're comfortable. Focus less on wanting to be funny and more on just having a good time but you knew that already.
/r/seduction02/01/20 12:57 AM
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Your first mistake was asking for her snap. Stay as far away from social media as possible until you get really good with women in person. You wont need social media to take things to the next level once you do that.
/r/seduction27/12/19 01:01 AM
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A quick question for you would be why you think you need those?
/r/seduction27/12/19 12:58 AM
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You are in fact over thinking but thats normal when starting off. Just get out there, make some mistakes and memories and you will eventually get passed whatever your brain is telling you. Its normal to have not be 100% comfortable with this but you have to get out there.
/r/seduction26/12/19 11:35 PM
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Just go on the date. You have nothing to worry about at this point. Im curious as to if you asked her out on a date or just to hang out but at this point she probably already knows and so you just have to go and make the most of it. Good luck.
/r/seduction26/12/19 11:33 PM
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Take a look at when that book was written and what you will find is that the community as a whole has made a few shifts and changes since then. Not that what you are looking for isnt out there but since that book was written things are very different. In fact if you take a look at where those guys are now you will find they are actually shifting although still teaching some of the materiel.
/r/seduction26/12/19 10:41 PM
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Me either...¿ We’ll hopefully OP reads this and knows things can go either way.
/r/seduction23/12/19 09:20 AM
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Well good luck then mate. Your post and this response don’t really add up but I think you’ve got it. Hopefully things turn out the way you want.
/r/seduction23/12/19 09:13 AM
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Things like that usually end badly. There’s no need to try to manipulate them to see how they feel about you. In fact you’ll probably end up doing more damage than good having to explain why you “ghosted” them. Is there any particular reason why you want them to chase you or show more interest?
/r/seduction23/12/19 08:31 AM
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You don't need anything really. She's usually coming to spend time with you. She can watch TV and listen to music some other time. You can pretty much get away with just some music.
/r/seduction22/12/19 12:22 AM
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You can't avoid it so much as learn how to deal with these incidents. They happen less frequently than you think it does. Just learn to engage, interact, and entertain the group. You always have to watch yourself as well, most people won't "cock block" you without a reason.
/r/seduction22/12/19 12:12 AM
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Did you actually say anything to her? You not getting a smile or her saying anything is entirely on you.
/r/seduction06/12/19 04:19 AM
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Happens all the time. If you cant move it from app to number don't move it at all. People can be easily distracted so its best not to allow to much room for that. Also, and we see with the other posts, it just happens. People are weird like that.
/r/seduction22/11/19 04:46 AM
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Laser tag is freaking awesome. Just remember to make it as fun for everyone as possible. If you and the date hit it off there is nothing wrong with the two of you heading off to another place after laser tag with the others.
/r/seduction22/11/19 04:42 AM
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Congratulations man Keep it up.
/r/seduction22/11/19 04:39 AM
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This is one of those things that isn't a problem now that you have become aware of it. You will just slowly over time start to make sure your voice doesn't do that. Same way with body language. Once you become aware you'll just start to limit it until it's gone completely.
/r/seduction22/11/19 04:38 AM
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There's always something going on and if there isn't you'll have to find a way to make it happen. Do the best you can but like its already been written, you may just have to create a plan to get out and move to a larger city.
/r/seduction22/11/19 04:36 AM
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Cold approaches are a lot of fun once you learn to love it. Learn to love cold approaching and you will get good at it very quickly. If you are only concerned with getting numbers or getting laid then you will end up hating. Do it for fun and make it a game.
/r/seduction21/11/19 07:43 PM
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I think a lot more guys here want something more than just sex and just aren't sure how to get it. Tones of posts here about wanting to meet, impress, connect and date one girl. The sub is meant to teach people how to connect and get over fears.
/r/seduction21/11/19 03:47 AM
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It's no different than any of the other things you are doing. You weren't the best at lifting or jiu-jitsu but after practice and of course time, you were able to make progress despite how you felt before starting. Now it's easy for you and actually makes you feel good.
/r/seduction14/11/19 11:48 PM
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24hrs in a day and you can’t find 30 seconds? You being busy is just another excuse you give yourself to avoid the possibility of failing. Now, that being said, it’s the weekend, stop putting it off and text her. If there’s any hope of recovery you need to take action now. It doesn’t matter what you text as long as you do something. If she doesn’t answer, move on.
/r/seduction01/11/19 02:59 PM
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If 75% of the women you approach have boyfriends you’re moving too fast. Slow the whole interaction down. The “I have a boyfriend” response is an automated response particularly because they aren’t comfortable with you or are uncomfortable in general. It’s also the most common response anyone just starting out or “rushing” gets. Slow the interaction down.
/r/seduction01/11/19 01:35 PM
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Drinking does NOT help with game in fact it can sometimes make it worse. Moderation is second only to ny drinking all. If you think you look like a loser when not drinking you’ve got some things to sort out. Socializing and having fun are the key. You do that and no one will care if you’re drinking water or pink freaking lemonade.
/r/seduction01/11/19 01:28 PM
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Great job, mate. Now you just have to follow up with that Snapchat and let us know how things turn out. Good job.
/r/seduction01/11/19 01:25 PM
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Everyone’s busy and has tons to do. It’s take a few hours a week to start mastering social skills. Better to start now than at 25+ and still be awkward knowing you had every chance to fix this before it became a real problem.
/r/seduction24/10/19 11:24 PM
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Little context missing here as to what you talked about and why you didn’t ask for the number or a date. If anything was done wrong it was failing to do that. People don’t ghost because they don’t like you they ghost because of priorities. How much do you know about her and when was the last time you messaged her?
/r/seduction24/10/19 11:19 PM
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Ask this girl out already! You got this!
/r/seduction24/10/19 11:16 PM
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“Or ask” did you read my post? Lol! C’mon man.
/r/seduction24/10/19 10:40 PM
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Brave mate!
/r/seduction24/10/19 10:31 PM
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You can still text/call or ask for a date. The best time was Friday but you still have another chance
/r/seduction24/10/19 10:31 PM
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You will get better. You have to realize you are not compatible with 90% of the population and that you don't actually want everyone you meet to like you even though you want everyone you meet to like you. One thing to never do is talk about work in the club with anyone. Ever! Make something up if you have to but talking about work is a fast track to the friendzone unless they are 200% passionate about that job. Become more aware of what you are saying and while at times a blunt and straightforw…
/r/seduction24/10/19 09:53 PM
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Good breakdown. I say this is where tact, presentation and wording come into play. I don’t suggest jumping straight into seduction just because you’re not getting enough sex. I say that because if an open dialogue hasn’t or can’t take place or If you can’t talk about your sex life with your partner then you have a lot more to worry about.
/r/seduction24/10/19 05:47 AM
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Just give her a call man. Nothing work with checking on someone you use to be with considering you guys ended on good terms
/r/seduction24/10/19 04:08 AM
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In time you will learn to bounce back from that. It has more to do with inner game than anything at all. Once you get better at controlling your state, frame, emotional state, blah blah blah
/r/seduction24/10/19 03:42 AM
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This is like one of the oldest and easiest things to overcome. Just remember that her music will still be there after you talk to her. The same way her friend who's on the phone will still be her friend when you are done speaking. Now be aware as not all situations are an invitation but this can easily be overcome.
/r/seduction24/10/19 03:09 AM
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Couple things here If you are doing this self-improvement thing in hopes with will bring people to you or make them like for (even if it's just a little) you're doing it for the wrong reason. The same with joining clubs and anything of the sort. You have to be there for the right reasons Social interactions are a skill. Kind of like work, when you first who up you dont know the lingo or the norm but after 90 days or so you start to get it and fit in. That's how this whole social interaction thin…
/r/seduction24/10/19 02:59 AM
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Hobbies are one way to do it but I would say go with logistics instead. Go where a lot of women are and you will very soon find yourself with no shortage and spending a lot less time and effort meeting them. If you must choose hobbies or other venues I would suggest anything live or entertainment-wise. People pay more for entertainment than anything else on this planet! Maybe food comes as a close second but anything like concerts, live music, bands, festivals and things of that sort are prime f…
/r/seduction24/10/19 02:46 AM
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How long have you been talking to this girl? over the phone? Texting? Have you asked her out or met her in person?
/r/seduction24/10/19 01:54 AM
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You guys kill me with this height thing and what you won't do. Change your mindset and open yourself up to new paths of meeting people. That would literally solve your problem right there. Now for a more direct answer to your question, take some time to go out and meet people. There are countless events and venues to meet people, tons of places to just walk around and strike up a conversation. I am sure there is at least one person that you work with thats cool enough to hang out with and you st…
/r/seduction24/10/19 01:28 AM
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Get out of your head. It's clear she's comfortable with you and just wants to see if it's worth it in the long run. That and while she likes you she may not be ready to take things that far which is cool. Learn to recognize these things and don't see her holding back as rejection or an indication that there is something wrong with you. Besides, if there was something wrong with you she wouldn't have gone to your place that many times. You'll be fine.
/r/seduction24/10/19 01:16 AM
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This is definitely something you want to ask your girlfriend about vice seddit. It's your sex life and your needs with someone you live with and have a long-standing relationship. Seduction is the short term answer to what you are looking for, you may want to find out if there is something more going on.
/r/seduction24/10/19 01:12 AM
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Some time you just have to go for it. Understanding that the worst they can say is "No" and that you won't die is key. There is a lot of fun to be had out there.
/r/seduction24/10/19 01:03 AM
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Keep it moving. It’s one girl out of BILLIONS.
/r/seduction23/10/19 11:01 PM
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probably not. there's not movie in the world thats that good anyone would have to use someone for money to go see it.
/r/seduction22/10/19 02:39 AM
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Unless they specifically want to go on a movie date, don't. At least not on the first date and not if you don't have something planned after. There's an entire list of things to do aside from movies but i think the most important thing is having fun.
/r/seduction22/10/19 02:07 AM
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Comment on her snap and take the conversation from there. Simple enough or if your snap is active enough wait until she comments and go from there.
/r/seduction15/10/19 11:48 PM
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All humans have it.
/r/seduction15/10/19 11:42 PM
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I'm guessing you like her and want to make 100% sure she is giving you the right signals and you are reading them right. It happens early on but at this point, you'd do well to simply as for the date, grab the contact info and meet at the time and place of your choosing.
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:49 AM
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You could always just go for it and see what happens. If you have mutual friends then thats even better. The best bet is to always ask form something, anything when you meet someone of interest so you can avoid situations like this.
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:47 AM
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sure man
/r/seduction14/10/19 10:52 PM
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Litte context missing here. What do you mean by "having trouble"?
/r/seduction14/10/19 10:17 PM
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Do you think anyone will really remember you getting rejected by someone they probably aren't even paying attention to? Do you fancy yourself that much to think all the other women will be locked into the one moment in time and then commit it to memory forever? You'll be fine. Make it happen.
/r/seduction14/10/19 10:16 PM
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Just keep doing it. That's the only way to get through all that self-conscious static and self-doubt. Just keep speaking in the loud and comfortable tone and it will eventually stick.
/r/seduction14/10/19 09:45 PM
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The answer is simple, you don't know what to do. The fact you think that you have to "compliment her" is evidence of that. So the next question is; other than seddit, what are you doing to fix this?
/r/seduction14/10/19 09:18 PM
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Sounds like you misunderstood what she was looking for or rather or not sure what you want.
/r/seduction14/10/19 09:09 PM
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Logistics is key. You have to go to where the majority of people hang out. Make connections, friends, network and mingle. Becoming an expert at social interactions will lead to some very interesting invitations and you'll eventually meet tons of women.
/r/seduction14/10/19 02:53 AM
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You cannot, I say again, cannot think like this. I get it, after so many rejections you start to think it's something wrong with you. While I don't doubt that there are preferences when encountering things like this your best bet is to become better at the attraction aspect of a conversation. It's also a self fullfing prophecy. If you think Asian girls don't like dark-skinned Indian men...guess what...that what it will be. would suggest focusing on getting better at interactions as a whole. Look…
/r/seduction14/10/19 02:51 AM
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The simple answer to this is "time". Beyond that? Conversation, maybe something familiar, sharing a laugh, proximity and socially acceptable banter and touching.
/r/seduction14/10/19 02:42 AM
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Very common if you know what to look for. They don't always appear at first since but will appear through the conversation.
/r/seduction14/10/19 02:41 AM
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Yes, because you never know what can happen in the future.
/r/seduction14/10/19 02:06 AM
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yes
/r/seduction11/10/19 03:06 AM
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exactly this
/r/seduction10/10/19 02:59 AM
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#facts
/r/seduction09/10/19 07:01 PM
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its just something people say. don't think too much into it. its doesn't mean anything as its just a slang term that people use. even women in an office environment and professionals throw "bro" around. Nothing to even worry about.
/r/seduction09/10/19 06:59 PM
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It's not dangerous and no one cares. Literally no one. It's college and more guys are hitting on girls than you think. So, by not doing it you are just giving other guys a chance to make the move you are too afraid to make. Don't think about it too much as it gets easier to overthink and harder to break through to any actual progress that allows you to meet women.
/r/seduction09/10/19 06:53 PM
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Little context missing here as in what exactly is happening on the first date? People don't flake on second dates because they are busy (if they do they usually suggest and alternat time and location) the flake because something is missing. Re-examine what's happening on your first dates or go even further and see if you should have even been on a date with them in the first place.
/r/seduction09/10/19 06:48 PM
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Go talk to her. If it's cool then ask her out. It's really just that simple.
/r/seduction09/10/19 03:44 AM
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Waiting will only make it more difficult to ask her out and why on earth would you wait till the end of the semester? At that point, she may be focused on whatever she is going to do for the holidays. Just ask her out. Yes, it will be awkward but you know what else is awkward? Not talking to people! Go get it done.
/r/seduction09/10/19 03:39 AM
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Ask her out. I think you'll know at that point.
/r/seduction09/10/19 03:31 AM
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The same way you would approach any other girl.
/r/seduction08/10/19 10:42 PM
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Good job. Keep it up.
/r/seduction08/10/19 10:39 PM
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Never
/r/seduction08/10/19 10:38 PM
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Act as if nothing happened and tell a joke.
/r/seduction08/10/19 10:37 PM
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You can actually not care or you can stand out. Most guys don't have the true abundance lifestyle to not actually care or at least te experience and so the other method would be to stand out amongst the competition.
/r/seduction07/10/19 10:42 PM
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A few months? At this point, she probably just recognizes you and "your picky side" and her age are just excuses you give yourself to avoid making the approach. It's not the advice you need but to take action. You've got this.
/r/seduction07/10/19 08:45 PM
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None of the "reasons, worries, excuses or concerns" you've listed are a valid reason to NOT approach. Get over there and get that date.
/r/seduction07/10/19 07:58 PM
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Not for me though!
/r/seduction07/10/19 02:23 AM
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Harsh reality
/r/seduction07/10/19 02:22 AM
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While there is some context missing here, it's pretty obvious she was flirting with you. You bombed this one brother and I can imagine you have missed a few other opportunities although less obvious. Your answer or response depends on your personality. Anything anyone would tell you here would probably clash with that so... You'll get them next time.
/r/seduction06/10/19 07:54 PM
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Good stuff! Your positive outlook overcame all the other excuses that may have otherwise prevented you from taking this jump. Now you know it's not going to kill you and that each interaction can be as fun as you want it to be even if it doesn't go exactly as you want it to.
/r/seduction05/10/19 11:08 PM
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And no matter how we look at it we still gotta do the work. Let’s get it!
/r/seduction05/10/19 10:28 PM
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Let’s freaking CRUSH it!!
/r/seduction05/10/19 10:27 PM
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I hope you’re pushing through to whatever major goal you have set for yourself
/r/seduction05/10/19 10:27 PM
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Let’s get all the bread! Share a few slices and get more bread!
/r/seduction05/10/19 10:27 PM
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The absolute worst
/r/seduction05/10/19 10:22 PM
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That part
/r/seduction05/10/19 05:08 PM
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Go get it!
/r/seduction04/10/19 08:09 AM
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You’re welcome and best of luck!
/r/seduction04/10/19 08:08 AM
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How can you ask for the end result and not want to do any of the work or change? It doesn't work that way. You have to learn the game and then streamline it to fit and achieve what you are looking for. You can get lucky, you can learn the signs or you can do the work. No matter how you look at it you are going to have to do the work. That being said, you wanna skip straight to the bedroom with the ladies...volume. More people = greater chance of finding someone who's into that.
/r/seduction03/10/19 10:01 PM
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Looking for tips on your dating life? Idk? Maybe you think the sub is cool?
/r/seduction03/10/19 08:24 PM
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Reddit doesn’t have to be so serious all the time
/r/seduction03/10/19 07:22 PM
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The clock is ticking!!! You got this!
/r/seduction03/10/19 07:20 PM
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You guys are so funny
/r/seduction03/10/19 06:36 PM
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Have you ever had a really great conversation? You dont remember what you talked about do you? But you know how it felt and what it looked like. Recreate that!
/r/seduction03/10/19 04:50 PM
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Stay out of your head and try to have as much fun as you can and make it fun for her. You'll want to do or try something and hesitate because it been so long. Ignore that. If things aren't going well or too fast she will let you know.
/r/seduction03/10/19 04:27 PM
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I can tell you right now that what you are looking for is not in a book. Its in the field. The art of 1000 conversations...go have them
/r/seduction03/10/19 04:19 PM
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Thank yo oh wise and venerable time wizard! Many blessing upon you and your descendants.
/r/seduction03/10/19 04:12 PM
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So what you're telling me is that I have more time to crush it than I originally predicted?! "I see this as an absolute win"
/r/seduction03/10/19 04:05 PM
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you already know
/r/seduction03/10/19 04:01 PM
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I got you!
/r/seduction03/10/19 03:52 PM
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You can't take this stuff personally. These women don't know you and because you don't know them, just forget and move on. It takes a while to get through times like this especially where there is more rejection than success but you will eventually get to the other side. Keep pushing.
/r/seduction03/10/19 02:38 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction01/10/19 04:01 PM
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You win
/r/seduction30/09/19 08:36 PM
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You know what's creepy? Not talking to people is creepy. So get that out of your head and you've won the battle. You speak to this person with the same confidence not giving a fuck attitude that you do with everyone else but you speak with intent. You'll be fine, just say hello and ask any question that pops into your head and just make the conversation as fun as possible and when you feel the time is right, you ask for the date. ​ Best of luck
/r/seduction30/09/19 08:31 PM
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2 steps forward and one step back is the simplest way to go about it. Be aware of social queues and body language and most importantly try to stay out of your own head otherwise you'll end up friend-zoned.
/r/seduction30/09/19 08:26 PM
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Why would you hint as opposed to taking action and asking her out? Communication between humans even on its best day is horrible and trying to throw hints isn’t going to help.
/r/seduction30/09/19 03:42 PM
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Can confirm this is the most effect and attractive method.
/r/seduction30/09/19 03:19 AM
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Dating is confusing at times and can be frustrating if you're not sure what you are doing is working or why things don't go any further. It sounds like your frustration is leading you to think you are undesirable but clearly that isn't the case if they at least talk to you. There is a disconnect somewhere in the process but with a lack of context here, there is no way to really tell,
/r/seduction28/09/19 05:35 PM
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The main issue here is that you noticed the attraction signs and didn't ask for the date at that moment. Time kills decisions and interest and you are getting close to the possibility she has lost interest. Message her immediately and either ask for the date or explain that you are going to have a bite/drink and it would be nice if she could join you. Good luck
/r/seduction28/09/19 05:30 PM
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You're in a lot of trouble if you let your environment completely change your mood when you are with someone who youre having a good time with. You are the energy. You are fun. You are a good time. You could be in the middle of a parking lot with nothing around you but if you bring that energy and that mood she will still have a good time. Sounds as though maybe you were paying too much attention to everything else.
/r/seduction28/09/19 05:21 PM
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Make a comment on something that she posts. Lead the conversation to a meeting and go from there. Not that hard. Don't overthink it.
/r/seduction28/09/19 05:11 PM
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Get your own place because you want to, not because of women or whoever you are dating.
/r/seduction28/09/19 05:08 PM
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2 requires a little tact and a lot of confidence. Delivery is very important.
/r/seduction28/09/19 12:00 AM
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It takes some people longer than others to get this social interanctions thing down. I see the effort is there but you've misunderstood a few things.
/r/seduction27/09/19 03:49 PM
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That mindset is the first thing that's got to go. If you don't think you have something to offer or just generally feel good about yourself then you're shooting yourself in the foot. Also, you are not doing yourself any favors by NOT talking to them. Get out of your own head and into some flirty conversations.
/r/seduction27/09/19 03:39 PM
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OLD can be frustrating... well, so can the direct approach but I think with where you are right now in a college town there are a few things you're having to deal with that you may not be aware of. That's another post but for now, its a numbers game for you until you finally get it and have that "ah-hah!" moment. Word of advice though, never ask for social media. If it's not a date, meeting or number, keep it moving.
/r/seduction27/09/19 03:37 PM
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1.10 8 (love life? love for self? love of life?) 7
/r/seduction27/09/19 03:28 PM
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There are two schools of thought here, If you have done your part in the attraction process it should only be natural that she would want to eventually (maybe not the dame night) want to be more intimate with you Just come right out from the start and say what it is you're looking for There's no magically phrase or step by step instruction to this. If you are uncomfortable asking or displaying your intent or unable to read the signs that she is interested then go to work on those two things. ​ B…
/r/seduction27/09/19 03:27 PM
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best idea so far
/r/seduction27/09/19 04:49 AM
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Clubs are always like that at first. You'll eventually get better at mingling with people and recognizing when and how to break into groups.
/r/seduction27/09/19 04:47 AM
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It piques the interest of "some" women. Again, "some" as people have preferences. You'll still have to do all leg work of striking up a conversation and all that stuff. Muscles are cool but like everything else, money, house, cars, clothes etc if you're lacking in social skills your gonna have a hard time.
/r/seduction27/09/19 04:43 AM
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Match and enhance the mood/energy. While that sounds like some hippie spiritual voodoo the idea is simple; people go to bars to relax, meet people, talk, VENT, sing and dance. In short, have fun. If you can add to the fun or top it off, you’re a winner. Invite people to play pool, darts or beer pong (even if you don’t play) talk about whatever is on the TV (most bars have them) There’s also nothing wrong with briefly introducing yourself to people. You’re opening up and that opens people up as w…
/r/seduction26/09/19 03:50 AM
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That's why we have books like "The War of Art" and saying like "use that gut feeling as a compass to great things"
/r/seduction26/09/19 12:51 AM
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Change NOTHING other than how you communicate. If texting doesn't work, make it a phone call. Why change something have has been working so well in most cases for one particular individual? Unless shes "the one" I think you have your answer.
/r/seduction25/09/19 06:15 PM
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I think it’s awesome! If you feel there’s enough of a connection to do this, then do it. This and a host of other things just shows you’re confident and comfortable but also shows intent. Besides, if it’s uncomfortable for either of you just take a few steps back, carry on as usual and see if it’s a bit more comfortable to do so later.
/r/seduction25/09/19 04:28 PM
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OP here, this small comment really gave way to a lot of valuable conversation. I’d like to say that for the most part the questions, feedback and even with the difference of opinion that this post was very productive. My hope is that everyone was able to find an answer not just leave a comment and return to the way things were after reading this. If you’re still looking to build more confidence around women or just want to improve your dating life as a whole and you like the idea of accountabili…
/r/seduction25/09/19 03:16 PM
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So what about other girls on campus? There are plenty of places, ways and Opportunities to do so. Why not that way?
/r/seduction25/09/19 02:14 PM
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I like the idea of “if you didn’t know what it was, you wouldn’t be worried about it” I can see that. Even if we never called it “approach anxiety” there have always been men who are reluctant, hesitant, apprehensive, you pick a word when it come to speaking with women. Great video by the way.
/r/seduction25/09/19 02:05 PM
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It can’t be awkward unless you say nothing. You know what’s awkward? Staring or making eye contact with someone and not saying hello or even waving. That’s awkward. The words will come to you but you have to say something! Say anything at all! Focus on that and not whether or not she will accept you, cool?
/r/seduction25/09/19 06:23 AM
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Pickup or not even pickup but social interactions as a whole are supposed to be fun just like you experience. You can have fun in any environment.
/r/seduction25/09/19 06:21 AM
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The old regret vs rejection. Which one lasts longer? I love that you enjoy pickup. To me it’s like a roller costed. Scary but adrenaline pumping and leave you with an amazing burst of energy so much so that you want to go for another ride even if the line is 30-45min long (10 if you have the speed pass) 😂
/r/seduction25/09/19 06:19 AM
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The thing is that you already know what to say. You just have to say it!
/r/seduction25/09/19 05:08 AM
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Do you!
/r/seduction25/09/19 04:57 AM
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Please stop...
/r/seduction25/09/19 03:57 AM
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"Direct approaches is how it was done for years" - A legend
/r/seduction25/09/19 03:55 AM
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I mean... sure why the hell not?
/r/seduction25/09/19 03:53 AM
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Because its a process and you learn from process and you grow. First thing is not to take it personally (not saying that you do) and the second is to learn from each interaction. I keep telling guys that if you do 200 approaches and get rejected each time, you either need to examine the approach.
/r/seduction25/09/19 03:52 AM
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I wish I could upvote this 3 more times.
/r/seduction25/09/19 02:41 AM
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Not this again. Please don’t do this. Please. I know you’re probably just pointing this out but like, seriously don’t give the sub something to complain about.
/r/seduction25/09/19 01:49 AM
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Literally no one cares and being a player has NEVER in the history of EVER made women run from a dude. Have you ever heard of a guy on campus being called a player? If so, you and I both know he’s probably doing just fine with the ladies. Alive and well 😂 Don’t over think it man. Seriously, you could wear the same thing to class everyday and no one would remember. How do I know this? Had a military uniform all 4yrs of college. You’ll be fine.
/r/seduction25/09/19 01:36 AM
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Make it happen!
/r/seduction25/09/19 12:01 AM
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Ok so review your approach or your process. There has to be something missing or something just a little off for that to keep happening. I think if you really take a look at that and I mean really go back and think about it, you’ll find your answer.
/r/seduction24/09/19 11:12 PM
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more clapping *
/r/seduction24/09/19 09:34 PM
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Sorry you feel that way...but “preach on brother” All jokes aside, I can agree with your statement.
/r/seduction24/09/19 09:33 PM
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You’ve probably gotten them but simply don’t perceive them as results. You’re super critical of yourself and have higher expectations Your expectation of pickup and the reality are skewed
/r/seduction24/09/19 06:54 PM
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I like it.
/r/seduction24/09/19 06:44 PM
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If you’re frustrated you’re doing it wrong. If it’s just a numbers game, you’re doing it wrong. If it doesn’t work (it literally has for countless others) you’re doing it wrong. As much of a dick as I sound in that first part, I’m going to suggest you do a self audit and revisit “why” you even started pickup. Then really look at where you were when you started and where you are now. Actually look at your progress.
/r/seduction24/09/19 06:43 PM
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☝️
/r/seduction24/09/19 06:39 PM
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Bravo, mate. Bravo 👏🏾
/r/seduction24/09/19 06:29 PM
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You hook up with that international tourist/student/etc yet?
/r/seduction24/09/19 02:58 AM
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Go out and start meeting other women. You’ll be to busy for her and with more options you can clearly see what the original problems was/is.
/r/seduction22/09/19 07:20 PM
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Focus on what you have done well and what you can learn from. You’ll realize that while you’ve probably failed more than succeeded, there’s more fun in talking about the success. Eventually you’ll learn to laugh at past experiences and that’s when you know you’ll have it.
/r/seduction22/09/19 07:18 PM
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You’re well on the way! Deciding is the first step and we look forward to hearing about your journey and dating life.
/r/seduction22/09/19 07:17 PM
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There are a lot of things a coach can do for you that your friends, videos, books, subs, wings and lairs cannot. I’ll say this, everyone’s coaching experience is different so instead of asking for opinions just commit and take the leap. Find out for yourself if it’s worth it. Took a bootcamp in 2014. The first and the last. Magnificent experience. Massive results but I would only recommend getting a coach if you’re willing to do the work as opposed to thinking someone is going to hand you all th…
/r/seduction22/09/19 07:15 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/d1m7w7/social_skills_dating_in_college_how_to_make_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/seduction22/09/19 06:53 PM
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Dude just schedule it like you do everything else. 50hrs a week even after sleeping 8hrs a night gives you 60+ hrs to do whatever you like. Also recognize this is a skill and a long game. It sounds like you’re really dedicated to getting this down so make a schedule and max out the time you do have.
/r/seduction22/09/19 06:21 PM
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Unless she said “you made things awkward” you’re probably just overthinking it. Besides, if the two of you were together for an hour it couldn’t have been that bad 😂 You’ll be fine the next time around.
/r/seduction22/09/19 06:16 PM
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Don’t over think it.
/r/seduction22/09/19 06:13 PM
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Just find out who she is and walk up to her. Say hello, and start talking about anything. You’re both in college so there’s a start.
/r/seduction22/09/19 06:12 PM
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You could literally say anything "Hey, you look cool." give her a high five and start talking. Say something, say anything.
/r/seduction22/09/19 02:21 AM
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Austin is the truth! Actually visiting next week.
/r/seduction22/09/19 02:13 AM
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Thats my city. This rain kind of slowed things up a bit.
/r/seduction22/09/19 02:12 AM
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Got a buddy down there who's a monster.
/r/seduction22/09/19 02:11 AM
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Where's your favorite spot? OB, PB, IB or Gas Lamp?
/r/seduction22/09/19 02:11 AM
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Not too far from Houston. I'll actually be visiting next weekend.
/r/seduction22/09/19 02:10 AM
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That's my city! Whats up?
/r/seduction22/09/19 02:09 AM
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Right next door to you!
/r/seduction22/09/19 02:08 AM
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Women are a bit confusing at first but they are more similar than they are different. If you really want to get out there and start meeting them you will definitely have to change your mindset about all this. Sure it's going to be a rough and awkward ride but you are going to have to take the leap. No one just appears with girls. Someone has to take the first step and say hello.
/r/seduction21/09/19 05:51 AM
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Well, what exactly did you say to her?
/r/seduction21/09/19 05:21 AM
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Well, let's talk about how the interaction went. There is always something to be learned since rejection is a learning tool. When a woman rejects you she is just saying there's something you need to work on. Let's see what's missing. Where do you think you went wrong?
/r/seduction21/09/19 05:12 AM
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It's always good to go back to the basics and get reminders of how something small like this can make a difference in an interaction.
/r/seduction21/09/19 05:09 AM
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Big props to you on this one man.
/r/seduction21/09/19 04:31 AM
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Now that it’s out of your system, the next time just focus on holding a little bit of a conversation. As you learn more about social skills and build confidence you’ll find quality banter and small talk works a lot better and warrants a much better response. When I first started approaching and trying to rush with “you’re cute and uhh...can I get your number” sometimes I’d get it and she’s ghost but (2/10) or (7/10) she’d say I have a boyfriend. Once I slowed things down and made it less awkward…
/r/seduction19/09/19 02:31 PM
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They will talk about it for YEARS afterward. How this girl just walked up to them and said hello. Be careful as men tend to fall in love really really fast!l
/r/seduction19/09/19 04:59 AM
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It’s a process, baby. No one “screen shot” is going to solve the problem for you. I don’t believe subs want bandages and quicks fixes but rather want to do the work. Showing my matches does nothing for the sub. It would just be me bragging about matches and half the guys asking if I got laid 😂😂
/r/seduction17/09/19 10:53 PM
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I think I can help you out
/r/seduction17/09/19 10:37 PM
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This should help out a bit but its a journey my man. There is no short cut to building an awesome social life. It will be a lot of things before its amazing. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/d1m7w7/social_skills_dating_in_college_how_to_make_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x
/r/seduction17/09/19 09:45 PM
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This should help you out on college campus for now. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/d1m7w7/social_skills_dating_in_college_how_to_make_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x
/r/seduction17/09/19 09:43 PM
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Never paid for Tinder but it was the first dating app I ever really used and had mad success with. Even without paying or all the little shiny things they have added it tends to lead to solid interactions. I have tried it in many different cities and states and it has never failed. A lot of your success comes from the amount of effort you put into your profile. If its shit doesn't matter how much you pay or how many people see it. If it's great, you won't need much help.
/r/seduction17/09/19 09:38 PM
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It’s good to let loose and really open up to people in a way you wouldn’t normally be able to during the day. So much thinking going on and you can just sort of shut that off when you’re out.
/r/seduction17/09/19 05:20 PM
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I think most people would agree with you. There’s really nothing to be afraid though. However!! I didn’t say approach. I meant just meeting them.
/r/seduction17/09/19 05:15 PM
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Why not just learn to do/be that when you’re sober? Nothing against how you choose to let loose but what if you meet the person of your dreams at the grocery store? What now? Just an idea.
/r/seduction17/09/19 05:11 PM
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Most of the things you thing will happen are in your head. Just remember most people are busy looking at their phones and probably won’t even remember what happened.
/r/seduction16/09/19 10:13 PM
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The haters will say this is fake. Great job OP. Tones of lessons to share. Thanks so much for this positive post.
/r/seduction16/09/19 06:02 PM
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why are you worried about what other people are saying? You could be missing out on a great experience thinking this way. It may also have a lot less to do with what other people say and more of what is going on in your head.
/r/seduction16/09/19 05:52 PM
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why are you worried about what other people are saying? You could be missing out on a great experience thinking this way. It may also have a lot less to do with what other people say and more of what is going on in your head.
/r/seduction16/09/19 05:51 PM
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why are you worried about what other people are saying? You could be missing out on a great experience thinking this way. It may also have a lot less to do with what other people say and more of what is going on in your head.
/r/seduction16/09/19 05:51 PM
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why are you worried about what other people are saying? You could be missing out on a great experience thinking this way. It may also have a lot less to do with what other people say and more of what is going on in your head.
/r/seduction16/09/19 05:51 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/d1m7w7/social_skills_dating_in_college_how_to_make_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x
/r/seduction16/09/19 05:08 AM
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The best way to know for sure is to go out and see for yourself. Even if the sub were to give you 10 perfect examples unless you see them and test them out yourself, it's pointless. Reading is great but you will also find that women will give off zero signals but hoping to meet someone.
/r/seduction14/09/19 11:51 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/d1m7w7/social_skills_dating_in_college_how_to_make_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x
/r/seduction10/09/19 08:21 PM
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It’s not as awkward as not talking to anyone at all ever. That’s super awkward.
/r/seduction09/09/19 06:38 PM
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You just have to talk through that. Tell a story or just keep the conversation going until something sticks. This isn’t unusual so much as it’s annoying but since no one is untitled to a response you just have to move past it. That being said; learn the signs. She may want you to get the hell away from her but you can usually tell that very quickly. Be aware of it though.
/r/seduction09/09/19 06:18 PM
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You know I hear a lot of people having trouble with that as well but the college students keep posting about their struggle so I thought I’d help them out. Maybe I can write something up about what to do after college.
/r/seduction09/09/19 03:23 PM
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Thanks. I’m glad you like it. Hopefully it helps someone have a great semester, year and overall college experience.
/r/seduction09/09/19 01:37 PM
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Glad you like it and best of luck to you. Hell, let me know how it works out for you end of the semester. 🤙
/r/seduction09/09/19 07:20 AM
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Yeeees!!! When’s the date?
/r/seduction06/09/19 01:56 PM
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Whoever told you that "girls don't like that" probably had a few bad experiences and gave up. Literally every place in the WORLD is a public place. That being said, meeting women out and about has and always will be the best way to meet women although not for everyone. Online dating is amazing since it's just the best things about you posted up 24/7. You can't beat that. Start meeting women in public to stay in practice. Those conversation skills aren't going to hone themselves and you don't wan…
/r/seduction05/09/19 09:54 PM
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"Really enjoyed meeting you guys. Thanks so much. Enjoy your night and I'll be over there having the time of my life"
/r/seduction05/09/19 09:40 PM
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that'll do it for sure.
/r/seduction05/09/19 09:27 PM
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How long was it in between getting the number and texting her?
/r/seduction05/09/19 03:42 PM
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If you are worried about her remembering you the sooner you message her the better your chances are. I mean, you've come this far already. Don't let this one slip through your finger.
/r/seduction05/09/19 03:23 AM
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Man I would say pick up the damn phone and make this happen. It doesn't look like a complete loss to me. You still have a chance you just have to lead this interaction otherwise she will LOL and HAH you to death.
/r/seduction05/09/19 03:22 AM
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It’s a college bar. Everyone is out to have fun, dance and meet people. If you can add to that you’ll be just fine. Try not to focus too much on getting girls so much as adding to the energy and atmosphere. Everything else will come to you.
/r/seduction05/09/19 01:48 AM
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Imma be honest with you man, it’s no different than speaking to women anywhere else. You’ll be fine.
/r/seduction05/09/19 01:39 AM
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You were almost there! When the next class? You definitely want to catch her before the weekend and please don’t let this turn into one of those missed chance. You won’t die so just ask for the date. Phone numbers rarely go anywhere.
/r/seduction05/09/19 01:38 AM
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There’s a whole world out there full of women so...Is there any particular reason why you choose college students?
/r/seduction05/09/19 01:32 AM
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Good point OP. Strikingly enough, the same problems that men come to the sub for are the EXACT SAME problems women come for. A lot of people live that average, mundane, boring, routine filled life and just don’t think they have anything to bring to the table.
/r/seduction04/09/19 11:24 PM
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Best answer ever. Clarify what you want and make more friends.
/r/seduction03/09/19 10:53 PM
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As a general rule, you never ask twice. The second rule being that id she does not give and alternate date and time, she's probably not that interested. It's okay to let this one go and just reach out to her once a week or something. Asking someone out and contacting them several times a month can come off as needy, annoying or just to the point where she won't take you seriously.
/r/seduction03/09/19 09:33 PM
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Wait till break break is over
/r/seduction28/08/19 08:25 AM
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There are several reasons but I’ll ask this; Do you have her phone number? Did she specifically invited you to her job? (date and time given)
/r/seduction28/08/19 08:14 AM
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So hear me out on this one. Under no circumstances do you go to this girls job (read number 2.) Do not do it (see number 1.) You had several Months to ask her and could have been spending the break together (depending on the distance) and for whatever reason you didn’t but don’t panic. You can ask her out after break When you meet her again, say hello, ask about her break, ASK HER OUT and say simply that you’d love to here more about her break over (insert genius date idea) Don’t ever thing this…
/r/seduction28/08/19 08:04 AM
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Say it louder for the people in the back! One more time for the ones that showed up late!
/r/seduction27/08/19 03:57 AM
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You have to text her. That's just the way it works. If she does text first consider yourself lucky. Send the first text. Show you are interested. Lead the interaction.
/r/seduction25/08/19 07:02 PM
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Will edit to include more “motherfuckers”
/r/seduction25/08/19 06:25 PM
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How about 4? Find>Meet>Attract>Close.
/r/seduction25/08/19 04:43 PM
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Happy to help.
/r/seduction25/08/19 04:36 PM
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The place where it all begins!
/r/seduction25/08/19 04:35 PM
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If you’re going to the same place just remind her who you are and make a remark about the first interaction. Tell her you hope to see here wherever you’re going and take everything else from there in person.
/r/seduction25/08/19 08:25 AM
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It not so much bad as it is limiting. You want to show the best elements of yourself and to stand out. If everyone has 6 selfies there is a good chance you are getting passed up since you blend in. Again, nothing wrong with having just selfies but blending in works for survival not a reproduction.
/r/seduction24/08/19 11:10 PM
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I think it definitely a tool you should learn to use and eventually master. Social media as a whole can lead to some pretty interesting interactions.
/r/seduction24/08/19 11:08 PM
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Once again, I think you have the answer to your own question here. It sounds like you have had enough interactions to see the major issue and so from here you just need to slow thing down just a little bit. Also, reduce the texting as a whole and go for the date. Put that energy from texting to the meeting.
/r/seduction24/08/19 10:51 PM
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Keep crushing it OP! These are the posts that give people hope.
/r/seduction24/08/19 10:46 PM
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Start by chatting up a few other girls before her. If it works out, yeah! You go from there but if not you the other conversations that you started to pick up and run with. Honestly, OP, I think you've got it. You let a lot of time go by and seeing as this may be your last chance, I don't think you are going to miss this one. ​ Good luck and don't rush it.
/r/seduction24/08/19 10:45 PM
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Learn the skillset required to get better in your social interactions with women. I mean really take control of this and do what needs to be done even if it looks like its not working at first.
/r/seduction24/08/19 10:39 PM
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I hope you realize the amount of progress you made in just two interactions. That's exactly how you do it. You jump out there, take the risk and build upon your skill through continued interaction. Great post. Great work. Good luck.
/r/seduction24/08/19 10:35 PM
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It's actually just that simple too. I tell people that club game is by far the easiest way to meet women because everyone is already there to have a good time. All you have to do is add to it and boom! You are the winner.
/r/seduction24/08/19 09:15 PM
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I am wondering how the rest of the interaction went. Also, you would have had to mention your age at some point. Learn to handle that objection and you will be just fine.
/r/seduction24/08/19 09:12 PM
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Don't overcomplicate it. Yes, they work. You will need some practice to become better at reading them but also I would say learn IODs as well. Balance things out,
/r/seduction24/08/19 09:03 PM
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If you go by that logic there will never be a good time to talk to her or even ask her a question. People are always doing something even if they aren't doing anything at all. Walk over and say something before you end up either regretting it.
/r/seduction24/08/19 08:55 PM
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You're having this issue because you asked for the number and not the date. Next, texting (in the beginning) should be used to confirm the date and time. Nothing else.
/r/seduction24/08/19 08:39 PM
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Just rip the bandaid off, say hello, introduce yourself and make a comment about the commute.
/r/seduction23/08/19 07:03 PM
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The longer you wait to start learning and practicing this stuff, the harder it will will become to get started and push past the discomfort.
/r/seduction23/08/19 07:01 PM
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I think there’s room for discussion here as I do like some of your points. I think there’s more common ground here than we think. Perhaps an exchange of experiences via chat?
/r/seduction22/08/19 06:40 PM
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Inner game is developed primarily through three paths Writing things down and reading them. Who you are? What you want (in life, experiences and so on) All the great things about you, your goals, dreams, vision, and self-affirmations. You write it down and you read that shit EVERY SINGLE DAY. Mentoring and accountability. You find someone to help you or someone you want to be like and you express the items noted in point number one. Whoever you choose to work with or be like should have similar …
/r/seduction22/08/19 06:54 AM
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You’ll find a lot of interactions will go just like that. Nothing sinister. No feelings hurt but they can be enjoyable and often times a good laugh.
/r/seduction21/08/19 07:45 AM
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YAAAAAAAAEH BOI!!!
/r/seduction21/08/19 12:38 AM
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A classic move! Women are competitive as HEEELL!! Never had a bad date with a little competition mixed in.
/r/seduction20/08/19 06:04 AM
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But how did the date go?!
/r/seduction20/08/19 05:28 AM
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Find a friend or classmate Go to ANYTHING and EVERYTHING happening on campus Meet, greet, mingle. Repeat with people you mingled with Look I know that sounds fucking stupid and you're probably thinking "I could have done that myself" and that's cool. This is the simplest way to put it and yet no one actually follows the steps. Don't over think it. Just introduce yourself and ask where they are from and boom. This includes men and women because you never know who knows who and you want to invite …
/r/seduction20/08/19 05:23 AM
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Oh don't I know it. Spent a lot of time filtering through flakes and people that just weren't that interested at first. It's frustrating until you sort of figure people out and there's an "ah-ha!" moment when you realize it's got nothing to do with you. I guess I now have to take my first answer back. The question that you asked wasn't the real question, knowing that, it wouldn't matter where I suggested you go. The results would be the same. You're having a bit of trouble meeting people. I do h…
/r/seduction19/08/19 09:42 PM
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Well there’s a science to it though. A few elements need to be present for a conversation and eventually friendship to blossom. You can still meet lots of amazing people as an introvert with very little effort actually.
/r/seduction19/08/19 09:11 PM
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"at my age"...? I never understood how people could have trouble making new friends until about 2012. I'd gotten back to the US and just kind of ran out there and started talking to random people. I'd get weird looks when I would invite people to go places or exchange numbers and meet later or even invite them to an afterparty. Someone said to me "dude, this is weird. Nobody does this. You're the only one that goes out expecting to make friends and genuinely follows up. It doesn't happen." It's …
/r/seduction19/08/19 09:06 PM
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Plenty of free festivals or events going on all the time. It can get expensive if you try the larger more popular ones. You can also try the tourist route plenty of people just kind of hang out in these places that aren't actually tourists. The only other option I see would be to expand your social circle and start networking to meet more people thereby exposing yourself to new things and people just by association.
/r/seduction19/08/19 08:47 PM
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The bar can get a little boring and repetitive if that's all you do. If you really want to change things up, try more outdoor venues. Parks, live music, musical festivals, festivals in general. Facebook will literally tell you events going on in your city. Just pick one and attend. Really just that simple.
/r/seduction19/08/19 08:32 PM
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I say go for it. It's 40,000 students less than about 1 percent will actually even remember you. College is about networking (get your degree of course) so make some friends, join some clubs, go to anything and everything you possibly can get to on-campus that brings people together. With that, you will end up meeting people from all over. Having a solid group of friends and knowing people across campus will make you a cool guy to hang out with and by default draw people to you. ​ To sum it up, …
/r/seduction19/08/19 06:05 PM
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“It sucks because my heart isn’t in it.” I felt that. You’ll be back in the game soon enough.
/r/seduction19/08/19 03:00 PM
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Sounds like you beat most of the inner dialog by getting to the date in the first place. Props! As far as you’re dating life goes, get back on the horse mate! You’re compatible with far less people in this world than you think. Like even for me, when I was a people pleaser I still found 60-80% of people just weren’t compatible with me over the long run. I grown a bit and the percentage has dropped but even still. That’s a large number of women that just aren’t the right fit for me.
/r/seduction19/08/19 02:56 PM
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You are correct! It’s difficult teaching people that failure should be viewed as learning experience and not the end of the world.
/r/seduction19/08/19 02:53 PM
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Nope. Not the best idea or conversation starter. If you’re looking for something longterm and it looks like things are headed that way, then yes. Until then, don’t give it a second thought.
/r/seduction19/08/19 07:43 AM
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"Rejection is always better than regret" Love it. I also like that you are taking affirmations and giving so much more to it. Listening to yourself speak your affirmations into the universe sounds silly and a lot of people wouldn't bother even doing it but how much more does that take? How much more aware would you be by doing that? A lot more. Great ideas mate. I hope they help someone.
/r/seduction19/08/19 02:22 AM
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And this was the thing that concerned me ands why I waited so many years before actually getting a coach. It’s not that the coaching is worthless but the accountability and follow up just aren’t there. I got lucky, my coach worked with me for months and years after. We’re actually friends to this day and I still ask him for his opinion on things both related to women and life in general. So yeah, I agree most coaches are a waste of money but not because it doesn’t work but because most people do…
/r/seduction19/08/19 12:07 AM
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Uh...no. You ask say hello, ask about her day, ask her on the date and and her for her number. I’m that exact order. Don’t try to get around this by leaving a number or asking for social media. It will only mess you up in the long run. You got this! Get to it!
/r/seduction17/08/19 10:01 PM
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You have a plan and some level of rapport so now you just need to execute. No one can do this but you. Don't wait too long as there are countless others who are probably waiting for the same opportunity. ​ Good luck
/r/seduction17/08/19 12:53 AM
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You’re not the first person to say that. It’s very possible you’re lacking in other areas. Go out and crush it tonight! Get some dates, numbers and make some new friends.
/r/seduction17/08/19 12:46 AM
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They only find it weird if you make it weird Going out alone is initially the best method Use your first few nights out to make some new friends who you can go out with again later in the week if not next weekend Developing your social skills and social circle will take time but once you get it, you'll regret not starting sooner
/r/seduction17/08/19 12:41 AM
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This has a lot less to do with your looks and more to do with the attitude you have about the way you look. I'd suggest getting out there and socializing a bit more.
/r/seduction17/08/19 12:30 AM
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That thing where you check her IG...dont. Nothing wrong with sending a message asking about her trip. She may or probably already has told you when she is coming back so use that in you follow up You should definitely be texting her because there is a good chance someone else is. If you want to know what to text or how often see number 2 If you will see her in person sometime it would be great to ask her about her trip, ask for a date and suggest she tell you more about her trip then
/r/seduction15/08/19 02:29 AM
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Where you ever going to ask or have you already asked this girl out on a date?
/r/seduction10/08/19 02:00 AM
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It's all about perspective in this case. For me, the purpose of game is to help meet and communicate with women. That's it. I have met tons of women in the 10years I've been at it. I have been with women who didn't like me at first and women who couldn't believe someone like me could like them. I have lost a lot more than I have won but after 10years you can recognize when things are out of your control and I wouldn't go back to the way things were without it.
/r/seduction10/08/19 01:28 AM
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There it is. Totally understand that. Use to lose out on so many opportunities and get frustrated but it wasn’t the good looking dudes, not the guys with mad game or money and material things. It was always the 30+ guys crushing it. Even after learning game and seeing a major difference in my dating life I’d always see older guys effortlessly leave with the hottest chicks. Of course I later figured out why but there was a point where I questioned why I had even bothered trying to meet women.
/r/seduction09/08/19 09:38 PM
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What’s the real question here? Skeptical about game? Personal experience with looks? Would love a little more context and background.
/r/seduction09/08/19 06:06 AM
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Progress is progress are you happy with how things have turned out over the last month? What have you learned to make sure you don't have to do another 200 approaches to get the same results? Word of advice, the sooner you stop looking at this as a numbers game and about stats, the greater your success will be. Quality over quantity.
/r/seduction05/08/19 10:23 PM
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You don't "Deal with it" you change it. If something is broken and can be fixed (however difficult that may be) you fix it. You don't break an arm and go "well, how do I live the rest of my life with a broken arm?” That's a gross over simplifaction in this case but you said it yourself "it seems the main quality for this is ‘social skills’ it's like these guys have social charisma on a platter." and you are right. It's a skill like any other that with practice you can get better at it and if you…
/r/seduction05/08/19 07:11 AM
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The simple fix is logistics. Tons of people go out during the week especially those from out of town, who have shift work, nurses and a whole lot of other occupations. Every city has a hub for nightlife even during the week so if your downtown during the weekend there are some places in that same area that a booming during the week Look for events like live bands, amateur night, spoken word, comedy and so on. Lots of places use these to fill the seats during the week If you want to be more socia…
/r/seduction05/08/19 06:37 AM
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The key here is that you have a system. A lot of the guys who have success in anything have a system. This little 6 step post would eliminate a lot of the anger and frustration with online dating if people would follow it. Great post.
/r/seduction04/08/19 01:10 AM
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So the real question is, what are you going to do now?
/r/seduction04/08/19 01:07 AM
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So how did it go?
/r/seduction03/08/19 10:41 PM
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Sent you a message
/r/seduction03/08/19 10:39 PM
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If you have a decent phone or camera have a friend take some good photos of you doing cool stuff. No selfies Clearly define what you're looking for saves you and other people trouble in the long run Pictures should include things you like doing almost as if you are branding yourself Take is slow, the online dating scene is different for most people just kind of go with it and don't expect 1,000,000 people to swipe and magically fall in love with you Most people have short attention spans so if y…
/r/seduction03/08/19 08:33 AM
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Don’t worry about it. She’ll tell you. Let her bring it up. Its very possible she isn’t seeing anyone at all but that question you want to ask is not so important as having a good time. Do what you like though.
/r/seduction03/08/19 07:20 AM
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Austin will forever be my city for going out. Great place all around. Being from Texas I know a few guys out that way. Check out https://www.facebook.com/groups/moaforum/ there's a few guys between Austin, Dallas, and San Antonio that head up there frequently.
/r/seduction03/08/19 07:09 AM
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First of all, don't ask her if she is seeing anyone. You need to just have a good time because if you make it weird and awkward then she'll sense that and it'll really be weird and awkward and then everyone will start asking what's up with you two and it'll ruin whatever you were trying to do. Just go there and have a good time and if you cross paths have a light and fun conversation and move along. DONT ASK ABOUT HER RELATIONSHIP STATUS.
/r/seduction03/08/19 06:54 AM
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Man I hope this goes well for you. It’s always great to hear success stories.
/r/seduction01/08/19 10:35 PM
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Are you actively meeting women or find yourself drawn to certain women and wanting to speak to them?
/r/seduction01/08/19 10:35 PM
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Well it depends, are you re here just to vent or really make a change? Tips or advice won't matter if you're not going it actively implement the input.
/r/seduction01/08/19 10:28 PM
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You cant be both! You either an incel or you're shy and just need a little help.
/r/seduction01/08/19 10:25 PM
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worry less about the topics and more about the vibes /energy of the conversation. You could talk about school, family, vacations or freaking clowns for all she cares but if it's a topic that keeps the energy, offers laughs and smiles, you're good to go. I literally talk about nothing on my dates. Literally NOTHING but fun times I have had doing dumb things with friends. If you're going to be walking around dress comfortably and let her know this too so you don't overdress and feel awkward. I thi…
/r/seduction01/08/19 10:24 PM
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When you say not experienced at all in terms of sex what exactly do you mean because that's going to play a factor in FWB. If you have no idea what you're doing you'll definitely not be friends for long. Second don't do it in the car, mate. Find literally anywhere else to do this. Do a little research on what friends with benefits entails. It will not necessarily help with what you have set up but what to do to keep it from imploding
/r/seduction01/08/19 09:42 PM
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Stop asking for numbers and start asking for dates. When you’re in the conversation assume the close or interested and go big. Why ask for a number and wait 16-22hrs before you can have that really great conversation again? If she says no to the date or suggest a number then you can go back and get the number. It’s not science (well...kinda) also you may want to try a new area of town. 1 more thing. Typically things slow down this time of year with everyone going back to school or coming of vaca…
/r/seduction01/08/19 07:49 PM
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Don't close yourself off to possibilities. Online dating, Bars, and clubs are great places to meet people and if you only go to the places you like or you feel comfortable going, there's no point in asking this question. Logistically speaking if you want to meet more people you have to go where they are. So go to the part district and start socializing. Yes, this may include bars and clubs but again, don't cut yourself off. Facebook, Twitter, IG, SC and more are all constantly updating the users…
/r/seduction01/08/19 06:51 AM
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To be honest, none of these are inappropriate situations. Every single one of these if done correctly can yield a positive outcome. These are normal everyday things and are only barriers if you think they are. -Power walking, you can go indirect or direct approach. - On the phone, if it's not a life or death situation or a serious call, it's more than likely that person can be called back. -Eating is where a lot of conversation happens anyway. People converse in restaurants and small venues regu…
/r/seduction01/08/19 05:25 AM
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I’m sure you’ll find something that works for you.
/r/seduction31/07/19 07:03 AM
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That’s an easy fix. Just move.
/r/seduction31/07/19 07:02 AM
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You didn't do anything wrong and there is actually no need to worry. Stop being so down on yourself and take a look at the progress you have actually made. Change in lifestyle and having the guts to approach people and catch up. Now. what is sounds like is that you were in your own head on this one and really started overthinking. You didn't actually hear what the girl said about you and then you explained to us a back story of what you think may have happened then ejected from the conversation …
/r/seduction28/07/19 04:46 AM
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Applause all around for your effort. We’ll be hiring soon and may have a need for your skill set...I’ll keep you in mind.
/r/seduction26/07/19 01:20 AM
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Lmao the jig is up! How’d you figure it out? Lol
/r/seduction26/07/19 01:15 AM
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Not dissing it AT ALL! The wording was funny though.
/r/seduction26/07/19 12:33 AM
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bruh!!! lol!
/r/seduction25/07/19 09:02 PM
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Are you not approaching women and asking for dates or looking for a long term relationship to solve this problem? Maybe you’re just venting.
/r/seduction25/07/19 07:05 PM
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Lived in San Diego for well over a year and I’ve games from Temecula all the way down to imperial beach. The above means nothing but what I can say is meeting women organically, at parks, festivals, live music events and the beach are prime. Online dating is challenging because it’s the city, people get busy and often meet other people very quickly. The city is just fast paced and so getting ghosted is just a normal part of it. Keep moving and socializing and don’t quit online dating. Use all th…
/r/seduction25/07/19 07:02 PM
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Damn! You’re ruthless! But you know what you want so all respect to you for that. I guess my question is what do you mean by move on? You just leave them be or do you maybe add them to the friends list, maybe give them a few months and come back around?
/r/seduction23/07/19 09:03 PM
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Could it be said you have no interest in the long game? Basically how long are you willing to wait from the time you meet someone?
/r/seduction23/07/19 08:41 PM
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I like this, so your success in daygame heavily depends on your goal. Personally I’ve noticed that if all you want is sex the same day or to see if you can even accomplish that the success rate is low. Now if you’re looking at all options like running long game, networking, making friends, adding them to a social circle and or wanting to date, you tend to come out more successful. Day game doesn’t always have to be about taking. If you build enough rapport and she wants to hand out a few times, …
/r/seduction23/07/19 08:00 PM
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98% rejection rate? So then something has to be adjusted during the approaching or when you first greet someone. You can trip over a person who’s mildly interested in you. 9/10 people will say hello if you just say hello and 8/10 people will just have a small conversation with you about anything. I’d really like to figure this out. I’ve Day games with some success so perhaps there are other variables in other people’s situations I’m unaware of.
/r/seduction23/07/19 07:47 PM
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Two different schools here then. I think minds can be changed over time. Presentation is everything. Calibration as well. You’ve heard the good old “at first blah blah blah but then I started to like you” Sure there are those you’ll never get and a long list of things and situations you can’t control but I guess I’m more of an advocate for a less direct approach but also about adapting to the current situation.
/r/seduction23/07/19 10:17 AM
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I that's the thing, if guys who cold approach are just going "Hey, I think you're cute. Let's exchange numbers and go on a date. lol" That's probably why a lot of people are failing. It's one method and it is super direct, doesn't always work but it can. Now if that's all you're doing then it's no wonder some people have an issue with day game. ​ Where's the value? What are you offering? At that point, nothing.
/r/seduction23/07/19 03:19 AM
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Regardless of what you do just make sure you don’t let this opportunity pass you by without giving it your all. Seems like you’re pretty close to me.
/r/seduction23/07/19 01:04 AM
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Lots of nice options here and I hope your day game is awesome. Nightgame doesn’t have to be just clubs and bars though. I mean you knew this. Live music, parts, festivals, lights, anywhere where people are out at night. Actually a few more places than most people care to look for.
/r/seduction23/07/19 01:02 AM
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That’s a good thing! I’ve heard it said that “your mannerisms will betray you” so it’s clear there’s some interest there. People don’t just say things like that.
/r/seduction23/07/19 12:39 AM
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Personally I’ve been seeing posts on different forms of social media talking about how it’s sucks, women are x,y and z. This way is better than that way and day game is dead. You are definitely right about it not being practiced a lot. I think it’s mostly fear and frustration.
/r/seduction22/07/19 11:57 PM
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And see that’s the thing. I rarely run into super defensive women during night game. The energy is too high for that nonsense. Idk. Maybe that’s just me.
/r/seduction22/07/19 11:49 PM
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That's just something women say. Women will talk themselves out of anything.
/r/seduction22/07/19 11:46 PM
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Now. It may take you 3yrs to lose the weight. You may never actually lose it. You could also miss out on the woman of your dreams while you "wait" women love me who continuously working on themselves.
/r/seduction22/07/19 11:40 PM
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Hear me out on this one, all you should have said was "Make sure you send me the originals! You know those are my favorite." a left it at that. This means whatever she posts or will potentially post you would technically be apart of thus maintaining respect.
/r/seduction22/07/19 11:38 PM
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This is why day game or random approaches are so awesome. When you get it and I mean really get it you can have a great and funny conversation with almost anyone. Generally speaking, most people would like to meet someone who's cool, funny and charismatic but there's a lot of fear there. ​ You really have something here. Keep it up but don't be too friendly with women you are attracted too. There's a balance between that friendly vide and escalating to show your attraction.
/r/seduction22/07/19 11:30 PM
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Day game and night game will be whatever you want it to be. Personally I am a fan of night game but have actually had the most fun during day game. In night game it’s expected that you approach but day game??? The looks on women’s faces have ranged from utter confusion to the biggest smiles I’ve ever seen. I hope you get back to it and you crush every approach!
/r/seduction22/07/19 11:26 PM
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Big facts here my man. Shout out to all those who started and are now out there crushing it and living life on their terms.
/r/seduction19/07/19 11:49 PM
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I see. So a few things here: Stop doing things through text. If they “forget” that’s their polite way of saying they’re not interested. Stop doing things through text UNLESS you’re confirming a time to call or meet. That’s it. Move on if they play too many games.
/r/seduction18/07/19 05:22 AM
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There’s some context missing here. Do you like these girls? Have you asked them out? Have you made it clear that you want to be more than friends? The answer to these questions will give you you’re answer as to why they’re playing dumb.
/r/seduction18/07/19 05:03 AM
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Try out this group. Got a few guys from Florida is there https://www.facebook.com/groups/moaforum/
/r/seduction18/07/19 12:47 AM
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The Mystery Method and/or Cocky Comedy should be all you need. Both are jam packed with exactly what you’re looking for.
/r/seduction18/07/19 12:45 AM
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Now that you know this, have you decided to turn around and chase the dream?
/r/seduction17/07/19 12:46 AM
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The Ministry of Attraction has a mentoring program that’s pretty dope. Step by step process and you speak with coaches weekly.
/r/seduction16/07/19 09:57 PM
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Approach - you’ve gotta get use to it now or you’ll miss out on some pretty great opportunities Stop asking for numbers and start asking for dates. You and just about every other guy wants her number and that means nothing. How many numbers do you think she has? How many guys wanna add her on social media? Get the number after you ask for the date. If she’s not sure, THEN you ask for then number. If it’s going to happen, it doesn’t have to happen fast. Meaning you’ll approach and of course some …
/r/seduction16/07/19 09:53 PM
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"Hi I'm _________. What's your name? OK______ so you're from out of town, right?" and just go from there. You have the opener and the next step. Too many openers or anything more complex is a waste as you'll simply forget them or end up mixing them up and falling all over yourself. Keep it simple. ​ Your second option would be to try out a bunch of things you have either read or made up and see what the reactions are to each of them. Take a mental note and try the ones that worked again and agai…
/r/seduction15/07/19 11:49 PM
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This is the only answer anyone will ever need about communication in a loud and crowded atmosphere. Body language.
/r/seduction15/07/19 11:45 PM
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You probably do have a fun personality but lack the confidence to really bring it out. Everyone has something that people love about them even if its the fact they are a good listener. Holding conversations for most people is initially and probably still a little tough until you get really good at it. Like your first time at a new job and they have a huge meeting and you won't understand 90% of what they are talking about and if someone were to ask for your input on your first day you would prob…
/r/seduction15/07/19 11:25 PM
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You're not going to win every girl over the first time or the first night. There are women who you will meet and won't get the chance to date for months. It may take a few more meetings for her to really decide what she wants to do with you. I say give it another shot and if it doesn't go well just ignore the situation and chat with here in a few months.
/r/seduction15/07/19 10:40 PM
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Usually when this happens its a mix of two things, nutrition and hydration. Nothing more. Of course, now that you are in your head about it there's a good chance it will happen again unless you tell yourself its NOT you. ​ If the two of you have been going at it the way it sounds like you have, there's a good chance your body needs a break. Check your nutrition, hydration and get some sleep.
/r/seduction15/07/19 10:38 PM
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Start shooting your shot then. You have your friends to back you up as wings or whatever you want to call them. It's that simple man, just start knocking out approaches and always remember that you have an awesome group of friends that you can introduce them too.
/r/seduction15/07/19 10:17 PM
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Number 4 has and always will be one of my favorite things about communication. Guessing can be fun for both parties and offers so much more than a straight forward question which tends to kill the conversation if you are nervous or just not able to carry an easy going conversation yet.
/r/seduction15/07/19 10:13 PM
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Be straight forward about it and speak to her yourself IN PERSON. Don’t ask anyone else about her (you saw what happened the first time) or go through someone else. That’s never ends well.
/r/seduction12/07/19 03:54 PM
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You should 100% NOT do whatever you’re thinking. If you’ve spoken to her friend and she blocked you that’s a sign. Secondly if someone else gave you her number without her knowledge, consent or permission and she finds out it will more than likely not end well for the two of you. Third, if you don’t want to be labeled as a creep or stalker I highly suggest deleting that number immediately. Go the old fashion route and speak to her in person. Say hello, ask about her day and see if the two of you…
/r/seduction12/07/19 10:11 AM
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So what’s happening with the women you do manage to sway?
/r/seduction10/07/19 07:42 PM
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Boom! It’s 100% about confidence. We all have access to the same tools but without actually going out and developing once’s social skills you can’t build confidence and this you end up sitting at home, alone.
/r/seduction09/07/19 06:13 PM
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Are you saying it doesn’t work because your short or you get rejected because your short?
/r/seduction09/07/19 06:10 PM
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If you can do that, fantastic and I think most people should but then again there are people who need a little help and are really struggling to meet the one. That’s who this is for. You’re absolutely right and hopefully your message resonates with someone and helps them.!
/r/seduction05/07/19 12:32 AM
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You’ve got other options right? If she flakes, call the next one. Sorry to hear that mate
/r/seduction04/07/19 10:00 PM
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You’re in luck! Just went over yesterday. Lots of foreplay Find (ask) what her favorite position is. Most women have a favorite, least favorite and one that makes the climax. You want the 3rd. Breath with her (yes it sounds silly) breath in sync with her. This will help you find the rhythm. Don’t rush it. If it’s going to happen, it doesn’t have to happen fast. Take you time.
/r/seduction04/07/19 09:58 PM
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Best advice anyone could give you.
/r/seduction04/07/19 09:53 PM
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A classic. Works so well when asked at the right time.
/r/seduction04/07/19 09:52 PM
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With that mindset you’ll shoot yourself in the foot and give up at the first sign of rejection. So that’s gotta change immediately. It’s definitely worth it. So many experiences and stories to be told. There are endless possibilities out there for you. Commit first and figure the rest out later.
/r/seduction04/07/19 09:49 PM
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So here’s a little tip, most people are flakes anyway. Most people don’t follow through and most people are scared to death of change and will think of any reason to avoid doing it. That being said, while it’s not your fault, it is your fault is you miss out on other matches. You can meet with 2 matches in the same day or 3 in a weekend. Options! You’re not getting married! Hell, you don’t even really know if you like these girls yet. Go get it! I wish you the best.
/r/seduction04/07/19 09:45 PM
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and this is where I think he had an in. If she just broke up and wants to have fun he can add to that, typically when people break up they either date around and have fun or sit at home and cry all damn day. I really think he missed a chance here but again. We’ll never know.
/r/seduction04/07/19 09:42 PM
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This doesn’t sound like rejection at all. In fact she legitimately sounded busy but even with all that going on, there’s no reason you couldn’t have grabbed the number and set up a date later. Definitely not a missed opportunity but you for sure blew you self out with that last line “if it’s a no then it’s a no” Completely unnecessary. She’ll tell you no if it’s a no. I think you should ask her about her birthday the next time you see her and then follow up with a second request for a date. She …
/r/seduction04/07/19 09:38 PM
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Develop your social skills so you don’t feel like you’re falling apart or lacking while in person.
/r/seduction04/07/19 04:21 PM
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What about you op? Are you good yet or are you looking for a range of answers to see what the experience would be like for you?
/r/seduction04/07/19 01:29 AM
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I mean, you aren't lost. This is just something that is on your mind right now. It's something that is important to you. Everyone has that thing that they are focusing on at some point or another and for me right now it's building a business with my friend. It sounds crazy and probably is but it means something to me and I am going to do whatever it takes to make this thing happen. ​ I say you do the same, my man. Go out and get what you are looking for. I cannot say you will truly be happy when…
/r/seduction03/07/19 03:51 AM
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I always go by myself initially play a few warm up games and so on. If I’m not doing well with approaching I’ll call some friends to play just to decompress for a bit. If things go well and I meet a large group we typically move venues and I’ll have my buddies meet us there.
/r/seduction03/07/19 03:38 AM
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I say it time and again. Pick 4, 4hrs 4, different places to go out, you don't have to spend money and it doesn't have to be a club or bar. 4 days of actively going out and meeting people and having conversations with them. If you find a connection then you invite them to one of the other places you usually go or you simply meet them at the place again. Repeat the cycle and eventually, you will have an entire event.
/r/seduction03/07/19 03:30 AM
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Absolutely, I actually just started playing about a month ago and between the few different venues I have been to it has worked out great with meeting people. Also, I have actually put in time about 4 days a week to play and I am considering or rather I have been invited to join a league.
/r/seduction03/07/19 03:23 AM
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If you want to learn to dance take a class or just go to the clubs and try things out every weekend. Hell, why not do both. I have a few very good friends that only go to clubs to dance and that's it. ​ Now, that being said, I don't think learning to dance is going to solve your problem.
/r/seduction03/07/19 03:09 AM
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It looks like you have answered your own question. You know exactly what to do but you're just a little afraid of someone accusing you of something if you do come on too strong. Most women will let you know one way or another if you are coming on too strong or not.
/r/seduction03/07/19 02:38 AM
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It's just apart of the process. Don't get up. Take the time you need to cool your head about it all then get back out there even though it can and will be frustrating from time to time.
/r/seduction03/07/19 02:34 AM
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You had all this time to ask her out in college but didn't? You may just want to text her something funny and see when is a good time for her to speak then ask for a date. You can meet in the middle or since you took so long and in the interest of her feeling secure/safe you may just have to go to her. See when the best time to drive up there would be. Also if she doesn't want to go alone you have mutual friends you could invite.
/r/seduction03/07/19 02:31 AM
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How in the world did you give her the wrong number? There has to be a way to fix this so get creative and start trying to figure it out. Hopefully, you actually mentioned the name of the club you wanted to go to and maybe she will be there later this week.
/r/seduction03/07/19 02:28 AM
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Is it that she is staring at you or do you think she is a string at you. You know when someone is looking at you and in this case, it doesn't sound like she is. Now where it could be that she is staring into space and you are just looking at here which can be a good thing. I mean, you came all the way here to tell us about her so go for it. Personally, I think it's worth a shot considering how you described her. Just say hello and ask her what she's been daydreaming about and just go from there.
/r/seduction03/07/19 02:26 AM
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If you absolutely must and I do not recommend this but keep the text flirty and random but do not try to do this all day. As mentioned already below, texting is used for logistics and calls. That's it!! However, you can send a random or flirty text here and there but don't get drawn into long texting conversations.
/r/seduction03/07/19 02:20 AM
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The Golden Rule of Texting. In fact, when you take texting 101 it's the printed on the front of the book and the entire first chapter covers this.
/r/seduction03/07/19 02:18 AM
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While the super shy part is cool, you can still meet women that way, it’s the awkward part that’ll take time to fix. This is why I suggest 3-4 days a week to sort of get that’s awkwardness ironed out over time. Then you’re best qualities can shine.
/r/seduction02/07/19 06:03 PM
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I highly doubt that. I’m pretty sure you have a ton of great qualities other people would admire.
/r/seduction02/07/19 03:35 PM
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Of course and I totally get that balance is required in all things. No one said clubs and bars. There are just cool places to go with fiends and if you find someone and an opportunity why not take it. Now, those important things aren’t going to change or go anywhere but you can’t focus on them 24/7. There’s always time to meet and connect with beautiful women on a day to day basis.
/r/seduction02/07/19 09:55 AM
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Just go on the date. The things you are worried about have nothing to do with anything and will fuck you up if you worry about it.
/r/seduction29/06/19 01:08 AM
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This is very good. Becoming aware of yourself is a large part of the growth in developing your social skills. Are you new to the club/bar scene? I would say more than getting comfortable being there you should be getting comfortable with speaking to the people around you.
/r/seduction27/06/19 09:50 PM
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My hope it’s that the sub can speak on this more in the future.
/r/seduction25/06/19 09:39 AM
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We not clapping for this one? Bravo 👏👏👏👏
/r/seduction25/06/19 09:38 AM
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Glad you like it. Hopefully someone can learn from it.
/r/seduction25/06/19 09:36 AM
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I hope this week is 10x better than this passed weekend was for you.
/r/seduction25/06/19 09:33 AM
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If this isn’t a golden rule if should be.
/r/seduction25/06/19 09:31 AM
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I appreciate this so much. I’ll keep it coming.
/r/seduction25/06/19 09:30 AM
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Sit down and write out what you want to experience, what you want in a women and what you want in a relationship. It makes all the difference once you can see it on paper. Then! Here’s the hard part. Put it into a few sentences and try explaining it to someone else. If they understand, you’re good. If they don’t, you’ll probably end up running into the same women.
/r/seduction23/06/19 09:51 PM
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There’s a whole song about that lol
/r/seduction23/06/19 09:29 PM
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Perhaps there’s a quality those women have that you like and when you see it you over look every thing else or the red flags. Also, if you’re still young you’re learning to filter. Here’s an example, I like independent, hard working, motivated and mentally strong women. The ones that have all of their own things and rather than depending on a man they can choose to enjoy and contribute to a relationship. I’m not much for the sweet and quiet type however I was mistaking “aggression and anger” for…
/r/seduction23/06/19 09:28 PM
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This is where there’s such an interesting but also frustrating concept when it comes to women, dating and relationships. Logic vs Emotions (there’s a really good post or video in the subs on this) I completely get that. Everything you said above is true. We should follow the golden rule, be honest, have higher standards, women should meet us half way, cut the crap and so on. Now, while that is how an intelligent and thriving society should operate that’s now how most people or Attraction works. …
/r/seduction23/06/19 09:19 PM
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This is the stuff that makes us tough in the long run. You’ve seen all the wrong behavior and maybe a part of you still feels something but the better part of you, the smart part knows better and that’s why you’ll be able to help someone in the future who may be going through what you are.
/r/seduction23/06/19 09:04 PM
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Some would say this is contradictory to number 5 but in reality, things like this have to be done. Top tier advice right here. Now some may not have the heart or the guts to do this but there will come and time and this is exactly what they will do.
/r/seduction23/06/19 07:59 PM
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First of all, thanks for sharing. Takes a lot to put it out there. I’ve been there as well so you’re definitely not alone in having experienced this sort of thing. You noticed that she refused to tell you anything, blamed the guy, some random situation and refused to take responsibility? That’s what I mean in points 1-4. It’s gonna happen so now that you know, you know what signs to look for so you don’t ever feel that way again.
/r/seduction23/06/19 07:56 PM
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I think you know what to do here. There's really no need for this post but I look forward to the update. You dont need us to tell you what the next move is. ​ Good luck
/r/seduction22/06/19 11:13 PM
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It’s only funny until it’s not. Get out there and make it happen. If you need a wingman I suggest getting one soon. Seddit is cool but you have to get out there and make it happen. Go crush it!
/r/seduction21/06/19 08:40 PM
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How long can you keep this up before you get sick of it?
/r/seduction21/06/19 07:35 PM
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What city d you live in? You could also just ask seddit if there is anyone in your city who wants to meet up for game/approaching and have them PM you.
/r/seduction20/06/19 02:02 AM
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You should obviously spend 4 hours in the field for every 1 hour of material you read, watch or listen to. I would suggest the Ministry of Attraction. Sami is all over the place and puts out a lot of good content.
/r/seduction20/06/19 01:58 AM
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Get a coach or mentor. Someone who can work with you in person and for longer than a typical weekend. This is a skill that’s must be developed over time through pain staking effort and endless effort. Find. A. Mentor.
/r/seduction19/06/19 04:53 AM
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Take it and run with it my friend!
/r/seduction19/06/19 03:27 AM
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Glad this quote was of use to you. If you need some support feel free for PM me. We’ve got your back.
/r/seduction18/06/19 08:11 PM
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I love tequila! Usually save it for when she back at my place though. No drinking infield!
/r/seduction18/06/19 08:10 PM
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Whatever it takes to get a little motivation to the sub. We’re all on the same journey.
/r/seduction18/06/19 07:44 PM
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Are you talking about physical standards or limitations? While I’m sure there’s an argument about how it takes more than mindset to accomplish anything, the mind is where it starts. You’ll figure something out if you want it bad enough.
/r/seduction18/06/19 07:42 PM
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If you want it bad enough and you start putting in the work, thoughts and actions will subconsciously move in that direction.
/r/seduction18/06/19 07:39 PM
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Amén indeed
/r/seduction18/06/19 07:38 PM
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Save it and reread it as often as you need. Also since I’m big on mindset I’d suggest “As a man Thinketh”, “The War of Art” and “The 10X Rule” All great books. My hope is that they help you.
/r/seduction18/06/19 07:38 PM
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You should always push through (within reason) there’s so much to be learned. Sure it builds confidence but it’s also fun. Some of the funniest stories come from failed attempts.
/r/seduction18/06/19 09:07 AM
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If you examine when you got the number and how long it took to suggest the movie date I’m sure you’ll see why the response time is the way it is. Next thing is that there are tons of other women out there. Why wait weeks for an answer when could be out having fun with a women who actually wants to meet with you. While I’m sure there are signals and hints that you missed at the end of the day, you gotta choose your headache. Some say it’s easier to start over than to fix it. Good luck.
/r/seduction17/06/19 09:59 PM
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Clarify the “almost brought her home but we made plans for the next night” because that’s where we find out why things fell apart.
/r/seduction17/06/19 09:48 PM
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Thank you! This is exactly what people need to see. Even still, you can give them a road map and a plan and they’ll still be sitting on their ass 2 weeks later. They have to either want the change or the pain of not having what they want has to be so great it forces them to move.
/r/seduction16/06/19 06:53 PM
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Happy I could write something that helps people. Reddit has proven time and again to have some hidden gems. You just have to find them.
/r/seduction16/06/19 06:47 PM
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Tons of women looking for it. All you have to do is figure out where they are and be there. Typically I state what I’m looking for from the start but on rare occasions, it’s just understood we both want the same thing.
/r/seduction16/06/19 06:45 PM
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You’re whole life is self improvement
/r/seduction16/06/19 06:42 PM
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They can’t hear you though. You have to post this so they can see it. So it can sink in. So they feel it.
/r/seduction16/06/19 07:50 AM
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So the trick is to recognize that you don't like the way this interaction or lack of interaction felt and to take action to ensure that you never feel this way again. This is why we have daygame and cold approaches so that you don't freeze up when opportunities come your way.
/r/seduction16/06/19 02:36 AM
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Dude there's really no master plan. Its just going for it and not giving a f* if she says nah. TED talk 2019 award winner right here.
/r/seduction16/06/19 01:40 AM
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pickup is about communicating with women as a whole. you then can go from wherever that interaction began into a relationship if you like. Don't think pickup is all about getting laid every night. A lot of people miss that.
/r/seduction16/06/19 01:36 AM
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Well said. Finally someone with some common sense. Pickup is a skill like anything else in life. You get the shit job and keep your head down till you're good enough to take on more difficult tasks. You don't give up, blame others, or make excuses because things didn't work out the way you wanted. You stick with it. "its portraying your best qualities in a way that says you are confident" boom! love it
/r/seduction16/06/19 01:34 AM
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Let it go. That’s not the type of person or behavior you want to have to deal with. Notice I said deal. Pick your poison but at this point it would be best to just ignore her and move on to the next.
/r/seduction15/06/19 11:35 AM
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Do it! You literally have nothing to lose and could be missing out on a great time if you don't.
/r/seduction14/06/19 11:55 PM
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Nothing wrong with just going to get tested if you don't feel sure. In fact, having those results on hand is just good for the mind.
/r/seduction14/06/19 11:54 PM
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Just say hello. I mean you are at work and they are out to have a good time so if you can add to the fun then you are already winning. Next just ask for a number if you feel like it's going in that direction and then set up a time and place to hang out later.
/r/seduction14/06/19 11:52 PM
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As someone who is just getting into this sort of thing, I strongly suggest going for the number and the number alone. Avoid social media since you will end up looking at all of her pictures and get into a cycle of overthinking. When that happens...well...usually nothing will happen. So start asking for the number and leave social media alone.
/r/seduction14/06/19 11:50 PM
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So did the two of you hang out and how did it go. No one can tell you what kind of hangout this will be, you have to show up and have the interaction in order to determine that. Also, don't expect her to come out and tell you anything. You have to lead the interaction to where you want it to go.
/r/seduction14/06/19 11:47 PM
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It doesn't matter what she said only what she does. It's clear she was interested so take a lesson from this one and look for similar signs in the future. Good to hear you had a great interaction. Hope to hear more of these.
/r/seduction14/06/19 11:44 PM
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What are you getting at here?
/r/seduction14/06/19 11:41 PM
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They are not thinking anything. Most people aren't even paying attention to you.
/r/seduction14/06/19 11:00 PM
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People go to bars to either socialize or just to get out of the house. It is in no way weird to go to a bar by yourself or to go anywhere alone for that matter. Most people aren't even paying attention to you and what you'll also find is that most of what you worry about is in your head. ​ Go out and have a great time! Meet people, make friends and tell us all how awesome it was tomorrow.
/r/seduction14/06/19 10:41 PM
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As you continue your journey in developing your ability to speak with women and social skills all around you will find that most people are flakes. You've been invited to a party before and only a small percentage of people show up. Does that stop you from enjoying the party? Do you cry about it? Nope. You keep it moving.
/r/seduction14/06/19 12:56 AM
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Say it one more time for the people that showed up late! Louder for the people in the back!
/r/seduction14/06/19 12:54 AM
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I tell guys this all the time and they stress over it more than anything else when it comes to meeting women. I tell them, when she is on the phone with you she won't be distracted by the 9000 other things that are happening on her phone. It's literally that simple and effective. Great post.
/r/seduction14/06/19 12:53 AM
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I think the best part about this post is that you have noticed that you a certain opener is being overused and decided to try something else out. That should be the major take away from this post. Testing everything out and find what works for you. I look forward to hearing the results. ​ Best of luck
/r/seduction14/06/19 12:24 AM
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Great stuff! It's little successes like this that we need more of. Please tell us more about your next few approaches. ​ Good luck
/r/seduction14/06/19 12:06 AM
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Well, you have to know that if you don't approach, someone else will. Meaning the more time you sit and think about it the more difficult it will become to do anything. ​ I mean if we are talking about logic then why ever apply for a job or do anything if so many people are doing it? What chance do you have? Well, you won't have any chance if you don't do anything. Now...just take the risk and see what happens. ​ Good luck
/r/seduction12/06/19 08:56 PM
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Only about 12.
/r/seduction12/06/19 07:11 PM
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I have always been a fan of tinder in that i have taken some time to tailor my profile so that I don't have to worry if she wants the same thing I want. Typically I meet women in public places but it's nice to meet a new girl I would otherwise not have run into every now and again. I mean all dating apps have their pros and cons but tinder has time and again proven (at least for me) its the best app for what I am looking for. Its like a billboard with all the amazing things about you posted up f…
/r/seduction12/06/19 09:20 AM
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why wait around knowing that you want something more? Sure there is a risk of losing her as a friend but you don't want to be hanging around for years hoping. fortune favors the bold and there are more women in the world that just this one. ​ Good luck
/r/seduction12/06/19 09:18 AM
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Honestly, commit first and figure the rest out later. The longer you wait to take action the harder it will be and usually when people "need to think about it" that usually means they will end up taking no action at all. You do not want to miss out on what could be and that my friend is what you should be thinking. Do think too much or you'll self eliminate. Go for it. ​ Good luck
/r/seduction12/06/19 09:16 AM
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If she is just getting out of a relationship there is a good chance she is just trying to have fun. Where does she find the fun...? You! This is actually pretty good that you have all these things going on but don't take it for anything more than she is just having fun, I mean, what would you do after a breakup? She's comfortable around you and again is probably just having fun. Keep it that way. If you bring the fun and top it off there is no reason why the two of you couldn't have something. Y…
/r/seduction12/06/19 09:13 AM
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See you there
/r/seduction12/06/19 04:47 AM
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Please don’t say that about yourself. The thoughts in your head are already enough to deal with. That which you speak and write about yourself should only be positive and uplifting.
/r/seduction12/06/19 04:46 AM
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Let's take a step back and look at it for what t really is. It means she is comfortable (to a degree) with you. I mean if you are on the date and it lasted a couple of hours and now she is holding your hand...you can probably answer your own question on that part.
/r/seduction12/06/19 04:11 AM
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As long as you worry about this and think it is a problem then it will be a problem. While I am sure these things are very real concerns for you, you also have to understand that a large portion of the time no one cares. ​ I mean of all the things you should really be worried about, why focus on the things you cannot control. Sure, it's normal for most people to (and for a while) think and be concerned with these things but don't dwell on them. It'll fuck up your energy and kill attraction with …
/r/seduction12/06/19 04:00 AM
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This is vital to your success in game. Get the content then go practice.
/r/seduction12/06/19 03:25 AM
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Thank. What about the other sections? Do they not resonate or perhaps they are missing details?
/r/seduction11/06/19 09:08 PM
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The other F’s are so you can get there. Note: a very important F
/r/seduction11/06/19 02:14 PM
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It’s Funny as hell!
/r/seduction11/06/19 01:31 PM
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Now I have to rewrite the entire post so everyone can enjoy it as you did.
/r/seduction11/06/19 01:23 PM
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Being direct in your approach can lead to wonderful things. Sure, there will be rejection but you can't look at them as failures and don't think of it as a numbers game. There is 100% nothing wrong with stating what you want up front. You'll hear nightmares about Daygame or direct approaches but don't let that stop you.
/r/seduction10/06/19 11:08 PM
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😂 thanks for pointing that out. I’m new here! Cut a brother some slack 😂
/r/seduction09/06/19 04:11 AM
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I see the post but what I don't see is what you are doing to change things and get back out there to meet people and find the best version of yourself at 37....
/r/seduction09/06/19 01:02 AM
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😂🤣 you’re welcome mate!
/r/seduction08/06/19 02:30 PM
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There’s absolutely no shame in know and going after what you want.
/r/seduction07/06/19 11:25 PM
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Wherever you find/make your power is fine as long as it works for you.
/r/seduction07/06/19 05:44 PM
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Thanks mate!
/r/seduction07/06/19 05:44 PM
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I know you would if you could. Thanks so much.
/r/seduction07/06/19 05:43 PM
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Great points I do especially like the “you don’t find power, you make it” and that can definitely be the difference someone needs to push through.
/r/seduction07/06/19 05:43 PM
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Thank you sir.
/r/seduction07/06/19 05:41 PM
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Slowly building success and using that momentum to crush any doubt and fear we had prior to.
/r/seduction07/06/19 05:40 PM
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You’re starting at a good time. The summer is always filled with great opportunity and some of the best stories happen in the summer time.
/r/seduction06/06/19 08:49 PM
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Crossing the line is when you put yourself or other in danger (sprinting across the highway or jumping an electric fence) You’re asking about calibration, stick with the polite “hi, I’m xxxx. How are you?” or whatever version of that. It allows you to adjust the energy level from there.
/r/seduction06/06/19 08:48 PM
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Not stupid as all 😂 I too have used this little trick. Mostly in the weight room when going for a new PR I’d count it down. So much more to this than people think. Logic vs emotions. Logic can shut down emotion and emotions can disrupt logical thought. Happens all the time. This is just a small example of it.
/r/seduction06/06/19 02:29 AM
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It’s little thing like this if said correctly, powerfully and often enough that can start that fire for an approach. Things like this transcend game and work in everyday life. Thanks so much for this.
/r/seduction06/06/19 01:48 AM
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Are you thinking about moving? Within the US (based on my experience) and no specific order LA, SD, HTX, ATX, Miami, NYC, ATL, SF had a few too. Haven’t been to Vegas yes. Daytona Beach and parts of Florida have some smoking hot women. Outside the US? Sydney, Tokyo, HongKong and Mexico...god I love Mexico. Now, all that’s being said: depends on what you like.
/r/seduction06/06/19 01:28 AM
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Humor like that will have beating them off with a stick. 😂 Save some ladies for the trade of us!!
/r/seduction05/06/19 11:21 PM
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Or never put them into action. I learned these is business and from my time in service. The directly relate to the dating world.
/r/seduction05/06/19 11:20 PM
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Check out http://Ministryofattraction.com/apply anytime.
/r/seduction05/06/19 09:43 PM
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-Bars and clubs are cool but for me it’s was mostly outside venues and events. Parks, house parties, festivals, anywhere where something was going on. Lived out in Texas so I made it a point to hit the Rodeo, cook off, any part of town that was pack on a Friday night. Any outdoor venue. -I found with this most people will at some point end up going out alone. I go out alone all the time in California but I have a social circle too. -Smaller steps? Meet and speak to as many women as possible. Use…
/r/seduction05/06/19 08:28 PM
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Use to work security at a bar and found logistics to be the best tool. I just happen to live close buy 3min and you know people don’t want to stop the fun once it’s really going so I’d offer to have people back at my place. Still do that now. It also helps to have a nice social circle that usually goes with you. Doesn’t have to be your place, could be one of your friends but logistics is one great tool. So again, if you don’t live close, find someone who does.
/r/seduction05/06/19 08:15 PM
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Usually to go out every night for 3-4hrs to just socialize and make new friends No techniques but the strategy was to find the a place with the largest number of people What’s your goal? A girlfriend? Two girlfriends? Lots of friends? Figure that out then take necessary action but test everything Most important skill for me was consistency. Commit to a routine of going out and doing the thing no matter what Good luck!
/r/seduction05/06/19 08:10 PM
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I’ve recommended people read and re-read models. Personally I think it’s a great book.
/r/seduction05/06/19 08:04 PM
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BOOM!
/r/seduction04/06/19 07:47 PM
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That’s NOT what I told you to do and we both know that. My exact words were “If YOU find someone you’re ATTRACTED to then I suggest that you approach them with intent (I gave you the opener, topic of conversation and follow up) to get the number” In due time. Not everyone is ready to just dive in. Find something or someone that resonates with you and go from there.
/r/seduction04/06/19 03:53 PM
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We talked about this. You know what to do.
/r/seduction04/06/19 03:37 PM
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Love it.
/r/seduction04/06/19 02:51 PM
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So go find a girl. Make the first move. By your logic, none of these videos would be applicable. Hell, pickup, game, seduction or whatever else wouldn’t be applicable. Don’t over think it. Just go.
/r/seduction04/06/19 02:50 PM
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You’ve gotten a lot further than a few others I know. There are plenty of videos on how to ask her out or what to text next. https://www.youtube.com/user/MinistryofAttraction
/r/seduction04/06/19 12:30 AM
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The pretty simple answer is to filter for the woman that can hold their own, are willing to contribute or have a different view on male expectations. Just filter with questions you think will lead you to a more ideal woman to date. For example, if you find a woman that always at least tips or offers to tip you're good. There are also some women who will invite you out and then pay as a form of showing they don't necessarily need you but they like you and this the best way of showing it.
/r/seduction03/06/19 10:29 PM
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Congratulations! This is good stuff. Commit first and figure the rest out later. I hope wherever it goes after this (hopefully to a date) that you learn something.
/r/seduction03/06/19 10:14 PM
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Best of luck to you on your journey. I just want to say that and how awesome your goals are, like sure, we all love sex and want to be with someone attractive but these 4 are fucking gold right here I want to be able to go to any place and travel solo and be able to meet women so I wont be on my own increase my confidence have amazing experiences with different girls. become more social. It's good to see things other than just getting laid or numbers about approaches or openers. Your in the righ…
/r/seduction03/06/19 08:46 PM
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I say us IG for everything it's worth. It's an opportunity to take the best pictures of yourself doing pretty cool and awesome stuff. Literally some of the best times/moments and things about you floating around for all the people to see...FOR FREE! Easy way to start a conversation too. I'm sure the argument can be made about how horrible and shallow social media is but there is a tone of benefits to having IG both as an asset and a tool.
/r/seduction03/06/19 08:00 PM
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Don't do this. Why would you do this?
/r/seduction28/05/19 10:22 PM
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I’d be happy to help
/r/seduction28/05/19 10:55 AM
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Immediately do what has been suggest by this user! Fantastic!
/r/seduction20/05/19 07:49 AM
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You're trying to go from 0 to 3000 very quickly. You do know that there is a whole process that has to happen before that can EVER happen. The first thing being you need to start building a connection with calls, text, a date or whatever you feel is the best way to make that connection. Set up a date if you can and use that time to find out if what you have been discussing over the phone and text is congruent. You don't need conversation topics if you have done the work prior too. Now assuming t…
/r/seduction19/05/19 11:33 PM
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Good to read something positive on the feed today. Good to hear your confidence is growing and you are trying new things. Keep it up and don't lose momentum.
/r/seduction19/05/19 11:29 PM
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I see where you're coming from and somewhere in an alternate universe the argument can be made that this is a masterfully made list....this ain't that universe though. I hate to be that guy but I'm gonna do it and say this list is trash. It's something someone who doesn't actually practice game would put together someone who tried and the results were perceived as negative. If you follow this list you will never approach anyone at all. This is a list of excuse that you will tell yourself in your…
/r/seduction18/05/19 10:18 PM
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I wouldn't say an issue so much as a loss of momentum. It's pretty tough to get back out there when you have been enjoying yourself for so long. Kind of like getting back to the gym after spending 2 weeks on the beach chilling out and having loads of fun. Its gonna hurt a little bit.
/r/seduction26/04/19 08:14 AM
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Adding someone or anyone on social isn't actually a good or bad thing. You can actually just approach her as if things were brand now like "a cold approach" and move from there by asking for her number. If she says "well you have my snap chat, why didn't you ask me on there" that's your chance to say something silly like "I wanted to stand out from the crowd" ​ It's really not a big deal. However, if you make it a big deal and think its awkward then you bet you prized cows ass and a gallon of mi…
/r/seduction26/04/19 08:12 AM
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as in you enjoy sex with the girl you are with and don't go out and meet other women.
/r/seduction26/04/19 08:01 AM
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Nothing wrong with looking for insight in the matter just don't get comfortable or you will lose the ability to meet other women, once the one you are with senses that you will be left with since she will leave and lord knows how long it takes to start meeting women again once you have lost you momentum.
/r/seduction26/04/19 07:45 AM
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It is convenient for you that's why you keep messing with her. You don't have a lot of other choices, do you? Don't mistake the tone of the message here I don't want you to think I am coming at you any particular way but the reality is that if you had more choices (and you either do but it takes work or you don't) you wouldn't be running this game for as long as you have. You're not only hurting her but hurting yourself in a few more ways than you think. You know what you need to do. ​ Good luck
/r/seduction26/04/19 07:22 AM
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I can't tell you how to recover but I can help you avoid this awkward space again when I say you need to talk on the phone and stop texting. Texting is informal and a very easy way to lose interest since most people view it as less urgent than a call so it falls right in there with most social media in that when you get tagged in something you don't have to look at it right away. If you are busy it can wait and there is no real way to build attraction through text. Make a phone call. ​ Good luck
/r/seduction26/04/19 05:32 AM
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If you have been talking to her for some time now you should already have the phone number. From there just make a phone call, chat and then go from there. ​ Now, if you haven't initiated a conversation with her go ahead and try something funny like "I see you liked my page, my premium IG is $500 a day *wink*" or whatever. More than likely she will "lol" you do death after than but the point is to break into the DM with something fun and light. NEVER a "Hey or Wyd"
/r/seduction25/04/19 02:36 AM
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Go. You do not want to miss the chance to be with your friends and run into someone who may also be without a date. Prom is for mingling as well so its a good chance to socialize and see who is with who and who is just with a date but actually single. The benefits of attending prom and mingling are endless. You could find a date there, meet someone at an afterparty, or find out a few people want to hang out during the summer. You have everything going on here from short to the long game. ​ Going…
/r/seduction25/04/19 02:30 AM
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You know its much easier when you call them, have a laugh, talk for a bit and then confirm or ask for the date as opposed to just texting. If you really wanted her to go on the date you have to follow through. Texting is informal and people read it in the mood they are currently in. If she was busy she will see it and go "I don't have time for shit because I'm busy" Make the call
/r/seduction23/04/19 11:43 PM
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There is no magic formula for how often or how many times. Get the girl on the phone and talk to her. Ask her out and stop playing games. If you think you are the only guy messaging her you are probably going to be disappointed. Pick up the phone and call her. ​ You got this
/r/seduction21/04/19 07:17 AM
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What have you tried doing to fix this problem? You have to go out and meet people. There are a ton of women around your age running around looking to have some fun. Get on FB, find an event, and go. Don't make any excuses about how to get there, money, work or whatever. Just go out more and meet people.
/r/seduction16/04/19 04:53 AM
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It sounds like you had a really great time though. I can imagine the urge to just sit in a corner and not do anything or just leave because you weren't having any fun but you did it. Maybe they will remember you and all the fun they had next time and then you can ask for the number. Takes a little courage to do what you did. Keep at it.
/r/seduction16/04/19 04:43 AM
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