Game is about developing ones social skills. Change however, is extremely difficult, happens slowly and there is no “average” length of time before you see results. Since some of you aren’t approaching in day or night game or perhaps have trouble getting started, I want to suggest something here:

Build the momentum using similar/like energy. Listen, Day game is a B**** and 3 fuck quarters. Clubs can be a nightmare on flaming roller skates and a top hat.

But rather than trying to break in from the jump, invite people to share your energy. Say hello to a group of people and whoever responds in a way that you can vibe with will be where you start. Just as athletes stretch and warm up you too have to build you energy and momentum. Get that good feeling and good energy rolling and THEN start breaking into sets. People are out to have fun and if you can top that off, you win!

This is only responding or spending time with people who respond to you positively. Yes, these are basically cold approaches but if I said that you be like “I cold approach already! Fuck that shit!” so we have to shift your thoughts on this. You’re not approaching to practice, not to get numbers or anything. You are ONLY communicating with people who have the same level of positive energy, slightly higher to you. Using this the build momentum is key.

Do not try to approach otherwise it’ll kill your energy. Only approach when you feel you’ve got enough energy to where it wouldn’t matter if you were rejected.