If you’re going to Day/Nightgame…

There are a few things you should do through/within each approach that will help you tremendously

1.) Pick your girl and go.

Waste no time on the approach. Simply start with hello or whatever opener you choose for your timing and venue.

2.)Plant those feet.

You'll want to eject from the interaction when you first start because you're nervous but don't. Stand firm but relaxed. I know that doesn't make sense but that is not the craziest shit you've ever heard "be one with yourself"

3.)Be interested in them.

This will answer your question of what to talk about. You can ask where they are from and dive into that. If they happen to be from the current city and lived there all of their lives then you can ask something silly like “so when are you planning to escape” but be interested in learning about them and if they are a good fit for you. Some people live boring lives or may not be compatible with yours so really dive in and try to see who they are.

4.) Spin the interview question into a guess.

You’ll want to ask all the basic interview questions and if you do that you’ll often time be digging yourself into a hole of boredom. We all hate these kinds of questions so instead of asking her age just assume something low or outrageous. Age is touchy for women not because they are afraid of getting older but of actually looking older. Occupations are always fun to guess because you can shift into what they really wanted to be when they were younger.

5.) It doesn’t stop at the number.

You can ask for it but do not just run off like you just stole it. Stick around and have some more fun. You may find that she is free at that moment and willing to go out right then and there.

6.) Build/enhance the current state

(if it's a good one though)

If you want to have fun then you have to make it fun for yourself and for her. It’s okay to tell jokes and funny stories to get a better idea of where she is and try to move that energy level up. Smiles and laughs buddy. Smiles and laughs. You wanna see lots of that and eye contact.

7.) Post it!

I say time and again that we are all on the same journey! Please share your stories so that all of us can learn, test, review, apply and grow.

Best of luck