Why aren't you out approaching 3-4 days a week? You work 40hrs a week for someone else and give some ridiculous portion of your paycheck to the government, then to bills and maybe if you are lucky you get to eat some top ramen noodles or fast food because it's cheap.

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You study in school or university for years and hours to maybe get a decent job that will underpay you saying “this is our entry level pay” but we all know there’s no such thing as “entry level bills” but you’ll take it because you're desperate.

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The list of expectations others have for you goes on and on and you're probably too chicken shit to speak up and do what you really want to do with your life. Took me 6yrs before I said f*** it and walked out the door to do and be what I wanted to be.

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A lot of the above may apply to you and a lot of it may not. Here’s what I do know, for the things you can control like developing your social skills with women so you're not freaking lonely or incapable of meeting one without falling over your words or freezing up and looking like an idiot is definitely something you should be taken seriously. Seriously enough to actively pursue on a schedule that you follow like a crazy cultish religion or something.

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Forget the books, videos, programs, posts, lares, lounges, forums or any of the other countless resources out there. Not discounting the fact you will need it but none of that is going to do jack for you unless you walk out the door and actually do this on a day to day basis.

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Now, before you make a list of excuses, most of you will, I want you to consider this...Do you think anyone actually cares? Probably not. So toss them to the said, don't keep them or save them. Toss the excuses out with the rest of the trash because keep them around long enough and eventually there will be no room for anything else.