"It's nothing against you to fall down flat, But to lie there -- that's disgrace" -Edmund Vance Cooke

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Doing a little bit of reading this morning and I came across this little line right here. Since the development of social skills is the main focus I could only relate to it in the sense.

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A lot of us got into pickup for the women. Be it lots of them or to find the one, there was a frustration there do to the lack of results and the ability to meet the women that we wanted.

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How many can say they actually gave and still give 100% to improving this skill? Not many. Most don't take it seriously or gave up and for the few that may still actually be apart of this commuity, there's a good chance they aren't committed to it entirely.

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It's tough. Sometimes you wanna go out but your brain does that crazy thing that prevents you from going out and crushing it. You can't let that win! Not getting results one night is no reason to stay at home and swear off women for life (extreme case but we have all seen the posts) get back out there and make it happen.

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If you're lost, find a freaking mentor! Someone who can help you and leave the excuses at the door. They won't help you here.