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Thank you 👏. OP is clearly out of touch with women and views them as a separate mysterious entity to push buttons and puppeteer into being convenient for his life. He’s made them into caricatures. He needs to normalize women as human beings to interact, cooperate and coexist with. Not foreign objects to either gain or lose things from. He places inflated value on attractiveness and thinking women have to orient everything in their lives to upholding being “hot”, which many who spend their childh…
/r/seduction21/04/20 10:59 PM
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OP did say the value he sees in himself diminishes or increases with how many options he has. This to me is comes off as OP cannot be confident at all without a specific external circumstance and he’s using options to patch a void in his life. The tone of OP’s post implies his mood and happiness is very much dependent on his number of options, so I don’t think what both are saying are mutually exclusive, even if purely the wording of OP’s post might suggest otherwise.
/r/seduction21/04/20 12:52 PM
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There are lesbians out there who have feminine mannerisms and still fucking tear the field up. Their mannerisms are effeminate but they communicate the same personality traits girls like.
/r/seduction09/04/20 04:33 AM
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I don’t think it was that bad, if you’re someone who she knows just doesn’t care. If you’re hypersensitive to what she thinks and you were try hard, then it’s unnatural and she’s probably like wtf. Either way, wait a few and when something pops up that reminds you of her, shoot her another text
/r/seduction08/12/19 03:33 PM
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Guys do this too lol
/r/seduction06/09/19 04:48 PM
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Girls can look at you though just to look or because you’re in their line of vision. Why are you asking this question? Do you place an undue amount of self-worth on how much girls look at you? And you’re asking so you compare how many times girls look at you with a common reply you get on here?
/r/seduction06/09/19 04:18 AM
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I can’t really rank on a scale. It’s just attractive, average and not attractive. If an average girl has a great personality, she can ascend to attractive. Placing way too much emphasis on rankings or anything for that matter, becomes debilitating because you attach so much pressure and meaning to it. It becomes insecurity.
/r/seduction06/09/19 04:16 AM
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*she missed the innuendo and does her workout with your blankets as the weights while kicking you in the head
/r/seduction04/09/19 12:35 PM
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What about finding a look that suits you and makes you look your best that in turn attracts a variety of girls to you, not just the ones who share your style?
/r/seduction04/09/19 12:28 PM
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Hot girls are not any meaner than girls we don’t find hot
/r/seduction21/08/19 05:11 PM
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This is exactly me. Once I sorted out my mental health, I found attracting girls wasn’t too hard but the insecurity driven attitude towards my love life was still there. It was unfulfilling because I’d see girls who I didn’t find interesting once I knew them better yet continued spending precious time with for the sake of creating a “rotation”. I decided to let my insecurity go, remove false standards about who I thought I had to be and met an amazing girl that I respected and admired (couldn’t …
/r/seduction18/08/19 01:53 PM
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And by shots, we don't mean shots of tequila
/r/seduction03/08/19 01:49 PM
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do you try to grind against them from behind? no girl likes that
/r/seduction12/07/19 01:33 AM
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Hey man, appreciate it. Perfection is a non-existent concept, a social construct. It is completely irrelevant in anything in life. Do not use it as a marker or standard - replace the finish line with being human. Once you own your humanity, that's where the fun begins. You can do so much and you'll start feeling fulfilled with your life and what you can actually do. Perfection feels like a finish line, where you keep reaching for it and until you do, you won't be able to happy and get what you w…
/r/seduction28/06/19 03:14 AM
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well what do you screen your girls for? it's all based off what YOU want in the girl. You don't want to ask the girl questions that get you girls other guys screen for. I personally love girls who have a passion and are unapologetic about it. I'll pop some casual questions in when the time is right. "So, are there any weird hobbies you have that I should research to woo you?" (warning: I say this in a fun, non-needy way. You need to establish you're non-needy and saying that simply to have fun, …
/r/seduction28/06/19 02:38 AM
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I like this. personally, I'd add in a little quip to spark some positive vibes. maybe "Hey we met at friend's going away party. I REAAALLY loved your drunk shuffling (insert whatever was funny and notable about her that night) but didn't get a chance to ask for your number. How are you?"
/r/seduction28/06/19 02:33 AM
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Agreed. Presence is attractive because you're not stacking all these abstract concepts on her about your own worth, about what you want from her, about what this and that means and instead letting the situation inspire you and genuinely allowing yourself to express how you feel. This is the only way to connect and get people to trust you. If you have a million other thoughts going on in your head, people will not trust you since you have an ulterior agenda being there and you constantly break th…
/r/seduction28/06/19 02:27 AM
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Toyota sienna minivans are awesome dude! I don't see most girls giving a single fuck about the excuses you listed here. The few that consider these things as make or break are not right for you at this time or ever. I can't imagine a girl saying, "I'm not attracted to this guy because of his minivan." If I heard a girl saying that, I'd think she was using your minivan as an excuse to state she was not attracted to you on a deeper level. If a girl is attracted to you overall, she will take the de…
/r/seduction26/06/19 03:29 AM
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It's hard and I'm still learning to fully emotionally detach from rejection and others judging me. but, nobody never gets rejected. Rejection is not a concept personal to you.
/r/seduction24/06/19 08:44 PM
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And get really graphic with it. They get a stomachache at first watching their friend's Instagram story. Their belly gurgles and the poo slides along their intestines into their ass. They clutch their stomach and speed walk to the toilet. She hits the hair dryer dangerously sitting on the edge of her counter and it falls off onto her toes. "FUCK!" she yells. The poo slides closer and closer to the outside world. Quickly, she yanks her jeans down but they are too tight. She must wriggle her way o…
/r/seduction19/06/19 08:35 PM
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omg prom i remember those days
/r/seduction17/06/19 08:45 PM
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you're probably not confident in your ability to keep it going, so you're afraid to 'lose' it. or you are not used to receiving that kind of attention so you avoid it out of fear. or you think it will change you and who you are, so to preserve your identity, you avoid it. the solution is to be okay with it. it won't change much. keep doing you and have fun with it. let go of all these judgments surrounding it
/r/seduction17/06/19 08:39 PM
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having thoughts and feelings is enough to be interesting. you need to express them in a light-hearted full ownage way
/r/seduction17/06/19 08:36 PM
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The next time there’s a sexual tension lull in the conversation, hold eye contact and slowly lean in
/r/seduction16/06/19 11:45 PM
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If you keep up with it, this will, unbeknownst to your conscious brain, become second nature and effortless. You keep climbing up the ladder this way. Congrats man! Love posts like these
/r/seduction16/06/19 11:43 PM
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Lol this is inspiring and uninspiring at the same time. Take it easy on the shrooms man
/r/seduction16/06/19 11:42 PM
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I started seeing significant improvement when I stopped relying on alcohol for liquid courage. I pulled extremely well when drinking, so it felt like a setback at first when I quit and was nervous. After the first few rocky nights going out sober, I made lasting mindset shifts and soon back on track. The important point is to emotionally resonate with lessons you learn going out. Not drinking forces you to face your fear of failure and learn it's not that bad and it hands you the map of what to …
/r/seduction13/06/19 08:29 PM
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you have balls of pure steel man. I'd love to know your results if you do it. when you message on facebook, these are girls who know of you and previously seen you around?
/r/seduction11/06/19 11:13 PM
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some girls won't answer because you put all your cards right on the table at the get-go and it's a yes or no question from the start. if they're not sure yet or not into it at the time, then they'll ignore. i admire this way of doing it though
/r/seduction11/06/19 10:54 PM
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There is no need to be defensive when the purpose of my response wasn't necessarily to refute yours, just to add clarification and my own comment to the first part of what you were saying. I also happened to read your reply and not the others, there is nothing particular as to why I'm responding to yours specifically
/r/seduction06/06/19 09:36 PM
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the best thing to do is give her space and time without getting butthurt and needy. the number one thing to fuck up anyone's trust in you is to try to pressure or manipulate them into doing something they didn't decide on their own
/r/seduction06/06/19 08:34 PM
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People say "drunk words sober thoughts" but I disagree with that statement unless they showed true signs through body language and vibe when they were sober. Girls will feel warm, kind, flirty when they drink and them throwing compliments at you in a tipsy state is more of an emotionally satisfying thing for them than truly meaningful about how they view you.
/r/seduction06/06/19 08:32 PM
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I think girls have abundance in terms of being chased. if they put themselves out there and they rarely do it, then getting blown off is equally, if not worse (due to being used to being chased), embarrassing for women too
/r/seduction06/06/19 08:27 PM
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what did you say? did you just pop it out into the open out of the blue? sometimes there needs to be buildup and depending on the situation, there's an optimal way to express interest. as for this instance, don't worry about it. as you date, you'll have things like this happen. you did nothing wrong
/r/seduction06/06/19 08:25 PM
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is it orange inside
/r/seduction06/06/19 08:23 PM
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If I sense passion or excitement about a certain topic, I’ll casually ask “what are the things you love about it?” And you’ll get interesting answers that reveal what they value in experiences and life
/r/seduction05/06/19 03:10 PM
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the more you think about it and plan it out perfectly, the creepier your approach to the situation gets lol
/r/seduction04/06/19 08:59 PM
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why did you get clingy? if you don't eliminate this mindset to begin with, it'll spill through still
/r/seduction04/06/19 08:50 PM
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I don't understand how people have the gall to potentially ruin another human being's life by viewing sexual assault allegations as a light tool they can throw around to their benefit when they'd like. It's unacceptable. Also, please try talking to one of your previous friends to vouch for your character. I can see why they would side with their lifelong friend initially, especially if they weren't presented with conclusive evidence that you did not do it, but if you tell even one of them your s…
/r/seduction04/06/19 08:43 PM
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Exactly, life goes on regardless. OP, why do you feel like you NEED the girl? You've lived all this time without her and she hasn't made any actual difference in your life or you.
/r/seduction03/06/19 10:41 PM
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What is it really that you’re looking for from her. Validation? Affection? These things aren’t her
/r/seduction31/05/19 02:55 PM
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this is so specific lol i like the question however. just look at whatever catches your eye and attention and do the body language that comes up. don't suddenly get self-conscious because you're standing still. your need to do something is a form of escapism.
/r/seduction30/05/19 12:12 AM
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Hot girls and not hot girls also have different mentalities towards things. Hot girls will find looks from men and compliments almost annoying. Ugly girls will LOVE looks and compliments. Hot girls will not feel a need to be nice to strangers or put effort in continuing conversations. Ugly girls will. Essentially, ugly girls are desperate for validation whereas hot girls will come to expect it.
/r/seduction28/05/19 04:13 PM
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Yes. If you feel like you're "reaching" in the conversation or "trying" to be something or make the conversation go somewhere, just that energy is so off-putting and hard to go with the vibe of the conversation or actually create something natural and connect-able. There's a difference between laying down what you want to say like a knife versus exerting and pulling the conversation a way. You want to feel "on top" of the conversation, or in other words, non-needy.
/r/seduction23/05/19 11:41 PM
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LOL no
/r/seduction21/05/19 02:02 PM
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nice man! lol love your red tie. i'm curious for more details on how you maintain relationships and keep things going in that direction
/r/seduction21/05/19 01:32 AM
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Np! You probably have childhood trauma (where your feelings of inadequacy and habit of comparing to others originate) and negative thought loops and negative emotional coping mechanisms that perpetuate past emotional trauma over and over again. When a pretty girl talks to you, it likely medicates your pain temporarily because for a second your brain thinks, 'I might actually not be the shit person I think I am!'. This reinforces an unhealthy, extreme reliance on girls for self-esteem. You could …
/r/seduction21/05/19 12:59 AM
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Alongside building your social skills, I would recommend heavy focus on inner work. These emotions and reactions towards girls are pointing to some inner issues. Hopefully you can use this pain to motivate you to get better. Read some self-improvement books and find what resonates with you and your situation. Let me tell you, this isn't permanent and you can get great with women, even if you feel like you can't right now. Just start moving in that direction bud. I believe in you.
/r/seduction20/05/19 11:08 PM
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pffft these peasants thinking we need to click a link to learn how to have a bigger penis. everyone already knows you just tie your penis to a dumbbell and pull it across a football field twice a day
/r/seduction20/05/19 11:03 PM
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play the slow game, you still have to see her around
/r/seduction20/05/19 10:57 PM
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Good advice. And as long as you're not needy, everything you say will not come across in a needy light. That's why saying compliments and sweet things when you're non-needy actually help and make her and you feel good. When you're needy, compliments and sweet things become a turn-off.
/r/seduction20/05/19 10:56 PM
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Try cold approaching REALLY hot girls and watch how flustered and not used it to they are LOL. Make sure you talk to them out of the blue and immediately though because they are used to men staring or getting nervous around them for a long time waiting for a strong IOI before mustering up barely enough courage to weakly mutter something weird, if they even take any action at all (which 99.9% don't). Don't take any hesitance or lack of immediate reciprocated interest as meaning anything, they're …
/r/seduction20/05/19 10:50 PM
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you could wear jeans to be presentable at the start and show a level of standard that keeps tensions up. when the netflix happens and you guys get more comfortable, tell her you're going to switch into something more comfortable and offer her something comfortable too.
/r/seduction16/04/19 11:44 PM
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this isn't Max being a compassionate Mother Theresa and checking up on people who have social anxiety from the kindness of his heart lol. he wants $$$ and he is using a personal strategy to promote his business. you're romanticizing him
/r/seduction16/04/19 11:41 PM
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LMAO this is just such a random and strange post
/r/seduction12/04/19 08:16 PM
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Idk flirting should be fun to do
/r/seduction12/04/19 08:15 PM
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you have to be willing to distance yourself from those emotions. you're probably addicted to the feeling of being in love especially because it was 4-5 years. every day, make the decision to let go of those emotions fully, even if for a second. it gets easier and easier. also focus on enjoying doing your own things
/r/seduction09/04/19 09:07 PM
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Google milf chat
/r/seduction04/04/19 01:38 AM
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You need to do some inner work lol
/r/seduction04/04/19 12:35 AM
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this is sort of adorable lol
/r/seduction01/04/19 01:31 AM
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Sex, the destination, feels so much better when you've improved yourself and gone on an awesome personal journey to grow. Having sex for the sake of having sex is empty, dry and meaningless. Once you get sex after working on yourself, feeling the massive upwards change happening within you and knowing your personality and what you offer is solid because of the hard work you've done, sex becomes a beautiful thing. It truly is magical and you are appreciative of it. It adds to this life you've bui…
/r/seduction31/03/19 10:32 PM
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I'm part Asian (mixed) and what I tend to see in full Asian guys is an inferiority identity. It's not even an inferiority complex because complexes usually show symptoms of people actually lashing out to mentally defend themselves from feeling inferior. Many Asian people are defenselessly victimized in their head and they accept and are taught to embrace subconscious inferior identification. Usually three branches of behavior to be seen: The appeaser. Acts like a slave who must appease and kiss …
/r/seduction31/03/19 01:21 AM
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As a newbie, there will be times where a girl is nice to you and sensitive to you and you'll mistake that as you and her "clicking". This happens because of minimal reference experiences where most are not positive. This skews your perception of her being nice to you to be larger than it really is. Later on as you advance, you'll have girls hooking strongly and know exactly when it happens. In the beginning, you get rejected often. Then, you reflect on what could have been better. Look at guys w…
/r/seduction29/03/19 08:59 PM
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This is a multilayered problem that takes time and understanding to work through. I suggest you say fuck it one night and let loose. Whatever pops into your head is going to be said full blast with overflowing emotion and no shits to give. Once you get a taste of the feeling, it will start to take over. Combine that with a release of trauma (letting go of resistance to the past and debunking living in the future trying to avoid certain "painful" outcomes) and an empowering attitude towards yours…
/r/seduction29/03/19 08:37 PM
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From what I'm reading, I don't believe the actual logistics of your first dates are the main issue. You seem to struggle with flirting in the first place and creating a connection that goes beyond the surface level.
/r/seduction28/03/19 08:04 PM
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It seems that a girlfriend is a major NEED in your life and you're in this internally manic search for a girlfriend. Eliminate any need relying on others. Trust me and start there.
/r/seduction28/03/19 12:24 AM
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read up on the basics of attracting women
/r/seduction28/03/19 12:21 AM
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Dude when I was a newbie, I had the exact same thought process. Got into yoga for the girls and ended up loving yoga more than the girls. It's something I do regularly now for the mental and physical benefits. What you find is people mostly come in for the class and leave right after so it's not easy to socialize. It's likely you'll make a few acquaintances but I wouldn't recommend frequently and overtly hitting on people in your classes
/r/seduction25/03/19 09:10 PM
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Disinterested also doesn't mean disengaged with her. You can make jokes, offer value, tell stories to her as long as you don't put pressure on her by expecting something in return or are reactive to her responses. On a subtle level, she will feel that you are "disinterested" and independent of her, if you are unattached to how she acts.
/r/seduction25/03/19 09:04 PM
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if you run into each other in class, don't be awkward or fearful, embrace her company and be welcoming and friendly. you can even go up to her and in a joking way say something like, hey stranger, and make a fun, good vibes comment and treat it like you're re-opening her. spike her emotions to get the tensions running. don't get needy. the moment you feel needy and have urges to act based off it, inhale, exhale and do not do anything. if you don't get an opportunity to talk with her, wait until …
/r/seduction24/03/19 01:38 AM
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oh it's the "if i was this, if i was that" game
/r/seduction24/03/19 01:26 AM
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I really dig your content bro! Keep it up
/r/seduction24/03/19 01:24 AM
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This is nitpicking at small details and turning it into a science. You're falling into the mental trap to get as nuanced as possible so that you don't have to risk rejection to find out this thing doesn't matter or that it does. Focus on the bigger questions. This question is highly low level to the point where it's barely relevant. Figure out the bigger question that takes care of the issue and nips it in the bud. I consider myself in the earlier stages of advanced and never has this been a tho…
/r/seduction24/03/19 01:17 AM
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your tinder photos are at a 5-6/10 and your bio is a bit cringy. mirror selfies work for girls but it's not great for men. in your photos, you want to convey confidence, direction and positivity. your mirror selfie has an unsure look in your face and all your selfies are empty in the eyes with an "I'm lost" purposeless vibe. the one where you're carrying your dog is pretty good. more photos of you smiling or expressing positive/goofy emotion in the face unapologetically or a candid of you in the…
/r/seduction24/03/19 01:08 AM
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She could be one of those girls who are flirty even if she has decided she doesn't want to be more than friends with you. She also might not be comfortable kissing people in a subway station at risk of looking like a slut. I'd say ask again. who cares what your mutual friend thinks. what would your mutual friend even really think about it lol
/r/seduction24/03/19 12:24 AM
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so other people know if it's a worthwhile investment too, curiosity etc. duh
/r/seduction22/03/19 10:17 AM
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oh where do i even begin....
/r/seduction19/03/19 10:08 PM
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If you do it in a way that is actually aggressive and breaks a lighthearted vibe, then it's rude
/r/seduction19/03/19 09:54 PM
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Interesting question! In my social circle, I have a close lesbian friend who hangs out, smashes and seduces hot ass girls on the reg. I learn loads from her all the time. She isn't that butchy but much of what she does is close to how a guy would venture to seduce a girl. She has a lot of femininity and owns that too. Emotional spikes, conveying personality in fun ways, authenticity, calibration, same deal. She is least neediness I've ever seen and brings girls on rollercoaster of adventures and…
/r/seduction23/02/19 06:02 PM
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lol
/r/seduction21/02/19 12:02 AM
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I just mean for showing girls what your life is like and finding easy ways in to talk to her. girls using it and any social media for validation will never change but you can ignore that and not react in any way to it. use it to validate you
/r/seduction20/02/19 08:55 PM
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move on as quickly as possible man. what is you getting needy over her and going through internal turmoil going to actually achieve? that will only harm in every way, not help. i know it's hard but you need to gain strong emotional discipline and stuff like this will become dust off your shoulder
/r/seduction20/02/19 08:53 PM
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that being said, snapchat can be a great tool to use in your favor
/r/seduction20/02/19 08:50 PM
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yeah don't become her penpal or just an object of amusement who she uses as an ear to listen to her whenever
/r/seduction20/02/19 08:49 PM
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Ehh, I respect if this has worked for you, but I'd disagree. This would work on girls who are thirsty or drunk. In my experience, for a lot of girls, it would trigger the anti-slut defense and make her feel like a cheap sex object.
/r/seduction20/02/19 08:48 PM
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my counselor asked interesting questions that slowly uncovered heaps of bullshit I didn't even know was there. I always heard about self-help concepts and tried to apply them myself but it seemed like I was putting a band-aid on liver failure. not unlike if you feel like shit about yourself but repeat positive phrases...it kind of helps you feel better but the underlying shit feeling doesn't go away or get addressed. It never zones in on the actual problems. She sort of eased me into the right w…
/r/seduction20/02/19 03:59 AM
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how am i supposed to know lol why did you drop them
/r/seduction20/02/19 12:11 AM
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Lol you're only nervous because she has a coincidental better combination of features than most, it doesn't change that she's no different from the random next to her or anything in the external. you feel attraction and the attraction itself makes you nervous and your brain builds a story around her. realize this is all in your head and it's really whatever
/r/seduction13/02/19 09:18 PM
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friendzone her and watch the magic happen, she's obviously teasing and you're falling into the trap
/r/seduction12/02/19 10:00 PM
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took me 1 year of grinding and inner work to get my self-esteem to an ok place, eliminate neediness. took me half a year to get comfortable and fluent in technique, another half a year to get more or less advanced. fix the deeper issues and the rest comes pretty easily
/r/seduction12/02/19 09:51 PM
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what ur trying to do already comes from a needy place
/r/seduction12/02/19 09:48 PM
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"as if I'd want your SC to see your nudes, I just want to see my bitmoji fight yours"
/r/seduction12/02/19 09:35 PM
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Yeah, I'd rather get hit with shit in the face now than have it go up my ass without me knowing and come out of my mouth later. Find out what you did and then fix it. I went out to a huge party with the girl I was seeing, her friends and my friends there too, I got drunk and told my friend in what I thought was a quiet voice that I hooked up with her and then turns out I was yelling and everyone ended up knowing, including her brother. But I said sorry and it's all good now If she's still textin…
/r/seduction12/02/19 09:19 PM
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The birthday texting thing and stuff wasn't even that bad, OP. You probably gave off needy vibes in general and that's why your texts came across that way too. You don't even really know her but you're trying to force her into the girlfriend role in your life, OP. It's fine if your end game is a girlfriend, but be screening to find someone who is deserving of that.
/r/seduction12/02/19 09:11 PM
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You said you hate having conversations over snap and asked at the end if you should start talking to them over snap lol. Are they interested in your company (social hook point) or do you gain real sexual attraction (sexual hook point)? Try to strike up a genuine connection where they are moved emotionally and you make a mark on them. You'll feel the difference between social and sexual hook points if the shift happens. That's when they want YOU specifically and not just your presence and what yo…
/r/seduction11/02/19 11:10 PM
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What's awesome is two years ago, I was like what?? how could I ever walk away from a hot girl. now when I'm in front of one, I just go meh. Abundance is beautiful and the girls I get and CAN get fucking raised so high
/r/seduction30/01/19 10:00 PM
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What helped me was not doing things, like standing up for myself, because this is what girls like so I have to do it. This is already reactive and dependent on somebody else. I realize the reasons why I should do this for myself and whatever the consequences they had on my social life, I didn't care, they wouldn't be that significant anyway. I believed in the why behind standing up for myself and so it's sturdy versus standing up for yourself because you think girls like it, which is flimsy.
/r/seduction30/01/19 02:18 AM
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