I'm in college, so typically my first dates revolve around meeting somewhere, then going for a walk, then sitting down somewhere and talking. I know I'm doing something wrong-the dates never lead anywhere, and the conversation is slightly below surface level at best. Any kino that happens is incidental, and I struggle with overthinking and failing to escalate solidly. It might be the personality of the girl- shy/religious girls I think will be less open to escalation. Any tips to spice it up?