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Make small steps. Ignore the negative thoughts. It will become easier and easier over time.
/r/seduction22/09/19 09:28 PM
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just wipe the sweat off on your clothes first. if it’s not drenched in sweat it shouldn’t be a problem unless you make it one
/r/seduction18/09/19 05:52 PM
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No More Mr Nice Guy and How to Be a 3% Man maybe.
/r/seduction17/09/19 07:19 AM
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Ask her questions, yes, it should be more about her, but the one who asks the questions controls the conversation. You want to get to know her but keep mystery about yourself. Mostly talk about yourself when she asks you questions. I’m bad at this myself, but I think it’s a good rule of thumb. The more she talks about herself the better, as long as she seems to enjoy it. Keep it fun and light for the most part, yes. Never negative. Ask her questions like ”where are you from”, ”what do you like t…
/r/seduction15/09/19 02:10 PM
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Yes let her talk 70 if possible. Try to ask her questions she will enjoy answering.
/r/seduction15/09/19 01:09 PM
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I can relate to this. I think you should try to be chill and masculine, when you get too much energy try to calm down a bit, that’s what I will try to do. That being said, you can still be charismatic and talk when being masculine, just try to to it slowly with a deep and calm voice. And try to not do more than 30% of the talking if you’re on a date, that’s what I’ve heard.
/r/seduction15/09/19 11:15 AM
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What’s that drink? Looks interesting. They’re talkibg about something and you just join in the conversation. Make eye contact. Say ”hi, what’s your name?” or ”i don’t believe we’ve met” Make an observation: ”nice hat”, ”i see those shoes everywhere”, ”how drunk are you?” ”i like this music” when you got their attention, offer your hand and ask them for their name.
/r/seduction10/09/19 05:24 PM
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Just dance, do crazy moves and pay attention to if girls are looking your way or dancing near you. They are paying attention, trust me.
/r/seduction08/09/19 12:26 AM
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Depends on the situation. Be quiet for a second. If she’s clearly into you, is staring into your eyes and your faces are close, just go for it. If less clear, do the look at mouth then eyes then mouth thing.
/r/seduction07/09/19 09:58 PM
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Make a statement and see how she responds. Just about anything around, preferrably domething funny, something you would say to a friend. ”I love this song”, ”wow that guy seems drunk”. Or in the club, ”do you know where the water is?” or ”i like your moves”. Just anything, then see if she seems interested.
/r/seduction07/09/19 09:54 PM
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This happens to me too. How do you deal with the friends? How would an after party solve things? Would you say there was sn after party and then it’s just you two?
/r/seduction07/09/19 08:59 PM
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Escalate physically
/r/seduction07/09/19 07:15 PM
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Let her bring it up.
/r/seduction07/09/19 02:47 PM
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Lol you’ve read 3% man haven’t you?
/r/seduction07/09/19 02:46 PM
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Treat her a bit like your little sister. Tease, ask her questions and listen. Talk with a deep, confident voice. Talk slowly, articulately. If you think of her as a woman and of yourself as a man, and assume she wants you and you want her, and you have a stronger frame than her, then that’s how you spark interest if there is a possibility for it. She might just not be interested though.
/r/seduction07/09/19 02:44 PM
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Ok thanks :)
/r/seduction07/09/19 11:20 AM
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It was yesterday... Why are you baffled?
/r/seduction07/09/19 11:14 AM
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I’ve seen her these two reception weeks, she’s seen me, we’ve played games together, sat near each other and danced and stuff, but we haven’t done any of these things one on one. But now that these two weeks are over and classes start, I won’t be seeing much of her since I’m three years above her.
/r/seduction07/09/19 11:04 AM
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I mean she’s seen me for two weeks and most freshmen seem to remember my name so I’m sure she remembers me. I think the risk is that I make her more uncomfortable by texting her if she’s not interested sny more.
/r/seduction07/09/19 10:57 AM
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Nope. There’s been this reception for the new freshmen so I’ve been seeing a lot of them for two weeks at parties and stuff, but there is a stupid rule that during these two weeks you can’t hook up with them so I didn’t feel comfortable asking for their numbers (I don’t use instagram), plus the first day a group sms chat was created so I have it already. I’ve displayed pretty high value during these two weeks I think and several of the freshmen girls has seemed at least a bit attracted to me. La…
/r/seduction07/09/19 10:38 AM
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The problem is that I probably won’t be seeing her much at all since she’s three years below me. Also, in the post it was gonna say that her friends were watching, I missed a word. The thing is, I don’t know if I will get another chance with her without texting her.
/r/seduction07/09/19 09:59 AM
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What do you think about models vs 3% man and sharing yourself vs mystery?
/r/seduction06/09/19 12:31 PM
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Just relax, be silly and move your body to the music. Any way you move your body in sync with the music is a dance move. When dsncing with girls, the spin or just hands on the sides/hips is good. You can also put her hand on your shoulder.
/r/seduction06/09/19 10:00 AM
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Take molly. Then replicate it off molly.
/r/seduction04/09/19 10:04 PM
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This is one of the positive effects of drugs ;P
/r/seduction04/09/19 08:36 PM
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It’s true, it’s happened to me many times and imo I’m pretty ugly. When I’m pretty drunk I can just go up on the dance floor and start dancing by myself with a smirk on my face cus I know what I’m doing is strange but I know it works. Hot girls has practically thrown themselves at me, grinding up against me etc. Haven’t gotten laid from it yet though.
/r/seduction31/08/19 11:13 AM
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https://youtu.be/lrNZPge5iIw
/r/seduction21/08/19 11:41 AM
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Californication. Seriously.
/r/seduction21/08/19 11:33 AM
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This comparison was better than mine, thanks man :)
/r/seduction21/08/19 09:52 AM
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Agreed, I’ve read both models and 3% man multiple times. They make a lot of sense and focus on a lot of the same points, but they do differ in some things and I think both can work. For example, Manson talks about his one friend that was really physical with girls and ”always going for it”, even when they didn’t reciprocate. This apparently worked really well for him and they ended up receptive to him eventually. Wayne on the other hand says you should wait for the girl’s invitation to get physi…
/r/seduction21/08/19 09:13 AM
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But some really do
/r/seduction21/08/19 07:52 AM
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Good stuff, which I knew this and had better confidence when I started college.
/r/seduction21/08/19 07:51 AM
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Lol if you drove back over the bridge you already gave them away. The point is, if you didn’t think she was cute you wouldn’t approach in the first place or ask of her number. The mystery comes later: does he think I’m interesting, does he like me for more than my looks, did he think the date went well. If she’s hot she already knows you think that too.
/r/seduction21/08/19 07:42 AM
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maybe go down in steps
/r/seduction18/08/19 08:35 AM
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Ye, or ask about the menu or whatever. Just get used to it, then you can make jokes with them and keep building.
/r/seduction16/08/19 09:12 AM
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ye it sucks, that was a good channel
/r/seduction15/08/19 09:11 AM
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Ye ofc, it’s an awful tactic
/r/seduction14/08/19 06:31 PM
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There are youtube videos on it, check out ’whatever’ on youtube. 1/200 said yes to a pretty attractive guy.
/r/seduction14/08/19 04:44 PM
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I wouldn’t recommend approaching at the gym. You have to find activities and hobbies you are interested in, that’s step 1.
/r/seduction13/08/19 09:35 PM
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If you’re in her art class, just say something like ”nice painting, are you an artist?” or ”nice painting, what’s your trick” or abything. Just anything to start the conversation. Then if she seems into it or receptive, keep talking s bit fron there, then pull back. Next week say hi and talk a little more. Then a little more each week and go from there.
/r/seduction13/08/19 09:33 PM
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First of all, chill. You’re only 20, you have a lot of time. I would recommend getting involved in clubs and different extracurricullars or engagements that you have some interest in and preferrebly that has girls in them. If you build good social circles it will make everything a lot easier. Then just make friends and show interest in the girls who you are interested in. I would really recommend reading Models and How to be a 3% man. They will teach you all the fundamentals and the basic dos an…
/r/seduction13/08/19 09:30 PM
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I’m sitting alone in these booth of four seats with my backpack next to me and these two insanely cute teenage girls sit down opposite me, and there is some space on the rest of the train. My anxiety immediately rises to 100 because I know I’m gonna sit opposite them for like 40 minutes and it’s really hard to not make it awkward, like where should I look? How should I approach this?
/r/seduction13/08/19 10:38 AM
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Look at her eyes, then her lips, then her eyes, then her lips, then her eyes, If she looks ats your lips during this, you can kiss her. Worst case she turns away.
/r/seduction11/08/19 11:07 AM
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Well how did it go?
/r/seduction11/08/19 11:04 AM
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Dude, stop beating yourself up, SERIOUSLY. It’s very damaging in the long term. You did great for a beginner. You’re supposed to start small and build up. Your goal was to approach her snd you achieved it, and she seemed to appreciate it. Next time do a little more. Don’t invest too much in one situation, more opportunities will come. Relax and be good to yourself,
/r/seduction10/08/19 05:49 PM
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He seems pretty reasonable I think.
/r/seduction10/08/19 03:56 PM
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Well, the point is, if she makes it hard to meet up she probably isn’t that interested. If she were, she would suggest a date if she was busy on the date you suggested.
/r/seduction10/08/19 04:43 AM
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Good luck man :)
/r/seduction10/08/19 03:00 AM
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He doesn’t really say ”don’t approach”, he says don’t overpursue. Your goal is to approach, pick up on signals, if she’s interested you flirt and have fun, if she pulls back you pull back too. You approach first, but then you let her come to you, never chase. The best is if she gives you signals before you approach.
/r/seduction10/08/19 02:47 AM
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Beyond what? What do you wanna learn?
/r/seduction10/08/19 02:40 AM
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I think it’s good. It makes a lot of sense and has good morals. Read it and test it out. You have to try things and relate it to your own experiences. Experience is the best teacher.
/r/seduction10/08/19 02:39 AM
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I would say just try to set up a date before next week. If they initiate the texting after the first date, just almost immediately say ”when are you free to meet up next week?” If they have no time they probably weren’t that interested.
/r/seduction10/08/19 02:38 AM
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I just couldn’t handle a two guy threesome. But if you can, props to you.
/r/seduction09/08/19 12:05 AM
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I wouldn’t.
/r/seduction08/08/19 11:26 PM
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Good job
/r/seduction08/08/19 10:55 AM
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Maybe you’re developing a reputation.
/r/seduction08/08/19 09:00 AM
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You seem smart enough and your english is fine. I would say the most important thing is to be relaxed and just talk about what’s on your mind and what you find interesting. Don’t overthink it. The end goal is to talk about her and you. For example, if there is music on, say: ”I hate this song” or ”I love this song, it’s kinda similar to X”. Hopefully she will then say what she thinks about it. Try to ask her how she feels. Say how you feel. ”I’m so tired, I did legsat the gym yesterday”. Don’t o…
/r/seduction07/08/19 08:11 PM
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Watch her actions, not her words. If she liked you enough she would get back to you. Otherwise, you can try to text her again but don’t get your hopes up.
/r/seduction05/08/19 11:33 AM
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Same here my dude. I actually believe more in Models’ approach than 3% Man’s, but I think they both have good insights and two different perspectives.
/r/seduction05/08/19 06:04 AM
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Make small talk with public service people and store clerks.
/r/seduction04/08/19 07:35 PM
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How to be a 3% man and Models
/r/seduction04/08/19 04:06 PM
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Dude, this is exactly me. I can’t force a smile, but I can smile naturally just fine and do it all the time when I’m genuinely feeling happy or something is funny. Just fuck everybody who tells you to smile, just be you and be genuine. Edit: Try to find something funny in every situation, try to make it come naturally. You have to relax and not try to force it.
/r/seduction02/08/19 04:47 PM
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Personally I fear the ’Wtf creep’ reaction. I know for a fact that it will keep coming up in my mind for days/weeks after, even if with diminishing frequency.
/r/seduction01/08/19 11:05 PM
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Sure, TO DOME EXTENT.
/r/seduction01/08/19 06:29 PM
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That’s the spirit
/r/seduction01/08/19 08:19 AM
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Well it might come back to haunt you more than you would expect, but if she wants it then it’s up to you.
/r/seduction31/07/19 01:01 PM
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I’ve had similar experiences. A theory is that some girls are attracted to you, but it’s hard for them to justify leaving with the mysterious guy who is there alone. Just a theory.
/r/seduction30/07/19 06:23 PM
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This has always been my natural state when talking to new people, until I genuinely feel something fun happening, I literally can’t fake a smile if my life depended on it.
/r/seduction30/07/19 06:21 PM
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Because he’s on a journey of self inprovement abd read it in a book.
/r/seduction30/07/19 05:06 PM
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Wow dude I’m not diagnosed bipolar but I feel exactly the same. Like this whole sunmer I’ve been on a huge self ipprovement trip, but since like a week ago I’ve started feeling depressed and hopeless and like I’m fooling myself and am deluded/detached from reality.
/r/seduction30/07/19 05:03 PM
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You should wear stuff that feels like you, but you should wesr stuff that fit generally. Definetely doesn’t have to be tight though.
/r/seduction30/07/19 12:30 PM
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r/malefashion, or I like r/streetwear. Buy clothes that fit, in matching colors (for example blue, black and white), clothes that you like and that express your personality. Not too out there, but still make it personal. Regarding Cologne, I wouldn’t say it matters too much which one you buy, you don’t need an expensive one, just buy one with good reviews. If you buy a cheaper one, just wear it at all times, just not too much.
/r/seduction30/07/19 10:45 AM
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Something that makes you stand out.
/r/seduction29/07/19 10:01 PM
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Lol I relate, I like writing too. Write a book :)
/r/seduction29/07/19 09:05 PM
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You can do it! Remember: INTERNAL GOALS. If you approach, you’ve already succeeded no matter what. You will have to remind yourself of this constantly.
/r/seduction29/07/19 09:04 PM
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Fuck scripts. It’s not a long term solution. Models conversation tips work, just do that. Relax, say what you find interesting and expect other people to think that is interesting too. If they don’t you’re not compatible anyways.
/r/seduction29/07/19 11:22 AM
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Well, by correcting you they are investing in you, and you find out about them. Are you sure it’s condescending?
/r/seduction29/07/19 10:31 AM
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Ye, I feel like I’m socially retarded. Girls clearly see me and start dancing closer to me and start ”accidentally” dancing into me, but then act surprised/creeped out when I make a move, like touch their shoulder. Wtf.
/r/seduction28/07/19 10:41 PM
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Being selfish means prioritizing yourself over others, not neglecting others. Respect yourself and others.
/r/seduction28/07/19 08:29 PM
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Ye, I’ve felt this a few times, but then afterwards I’ve felt like I made a fool of myself. Like I cared too little what people around me thought, and that I interpreted signal wrong because I assumed the positive interpretations too much, and that I escalate too quickly. How do I deal with this?
/r/seduction27/07/19 07:23 PM
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Good luck man, you can do it :)
/r/seduction26/07/19 07:27 PM
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I think you develop a good mindset by consistent repetition. I have started to consistently have a good mindset now: be kind to everybody, be honest, be proud of yourself, express yourself, and you can be happy and attract attractive girls. But my mindset used to be really bad, and ever so often I slip back into the old mindset: what are you doing, you’re a pathetic loser, you’re embaressing yourself. It’s very easy to believe these thoughts, because I used to believe them constantly for the maj…
/r/seduction26/07/19 07:26 PM
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Encouraging, thanks :)
/r/seduction26/07/19 02:23 PM
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There will always be both nice people and not nice people, guys trying to amog you etc. I’m 22 but have a baby face and probably look like 18-19. I joined a group of three hot girls and two big, handsome guys dancing in a circle. I was dancing next to the hottest of the girls, in my eyes a 10, and when I looked at her she was checking me out and smiling, a very clear IOI. So I offered my hand and she took it. I spun her around and she spun towards me, so I put my hand on her waste and led her in…
/r/seduction26/07/19 11:15 AM
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Please elaborate, I’m curious :)
/r/seduction26/07/19 11:05 AM
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Ye, it’s hard. I’ve practiced like 10-30 min every day for a month now, and I can still only handstand for lile 5 sec, but it’s steadily increasing. I’m even further from the backflip, just have to figure out a safe way to learn it in steps. It’s definetely fun if you stick with it, you will see improvements :)
/r/seduction26/07/19 06:30 AM
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Ecactly, it only decreases your anxiety, it doesn’t change your thoughts or mindset. The problem is when you start acting obviously drunk, which is a turnoff.
/r/seduction25/07/19 10:38 PM
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Same man
/r/seduction25/07/19 05:23 PM
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Drink a little bit less every time, reduce in steps :)
/r/seduction25/07/19 05:18 PM
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Well it’s definetely related to seduction, and I think it can help people here. People seem to appreciate it.
/r/seduction24/07/19 07:39 AM
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Nice job man, hope it works out well!
/r/seduction24/07/19 06:44 AM
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Recently I’ve started learning french and gymnastics. I want to learn to handstand and backflip. I go out to some grass and practice on all my free time basically, it feels great. Also, I go to my local club alone and just dance with everybody there, preferrebly hot girls, which I like. Idk, I might be making a fool of myself but who cares, it’s better than what I was doing before for sure. Just find something you’re passionate about and pursue it. Set goals for yourself and stick to them. Pract…
/r/seduction23/07/19 09:13 PM
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I’m usually using nodejs backend and frontend vue.js. It’s all basically javascript :) I could maybe help with the frobtend if you want and there are features that would be useful. Just pm me if you’re interested :)
/r/seduction23/07/19 08:06 PM
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Nice job dude. I’m a web developer and have bern thinking about the same thing. What is it written in? Are you interested in help further developing it?
/r/seduction23/07/19 07:42 PM
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Did you post here on seddit? Edit: Nvm I saw you did
/r/seduction22/07/19 09:29 PM
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Also, r/streetwear
/r/seduction22/07/19 03:31 PM
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Find clothes that fit, that has matching colors, that you feel comfortable in, thst you like and that express your personality. I like to wear blue chinos with blue shoes, a black t-shirt with a blue and white print, and a white long-sleeve underneath. This is kinda grungy, really comfortable and I feel like it gives off a ”don’t-give-a-fuck” vibe. I also like grunge music and rap music. I just FEEL GREAT in these clothes, which is important.
/r/seduction22/07/19 03:03 PM
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I don’t do it on ecstacy every time, only sometimes, and ofc you don’t wanna become dependent on it, but for me it opened the door and gave me a glimpse of what was possible that I probably wouldn’t have gotten otherwise. To each their own.
/r/seduction22/07/19 02:11 PM
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I mean the first one is a joke, and the second one is actually true because I do think it’s fun, but you’re right, the third one is dishonest. I actually do like your example though, I don’t even think it’s that odd, just unusual, if there’s a difference.
/r/seduction22/07/19 02:08 PM
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And wear clothes that fit and matching colors. I wear only white, black and blue for example.
/r/seduction22/07/19 12:30 PM
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Ye I’ve went to raves solo too, but there are more girls at clubs, and they are hotter, at least to me :) But taking molly and going to raves solo just to dance is a lot of fun too
/r/seduction22/07/19 08:05 AM
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Ye that’s not bad either, but the fact that it’s harder and more uncomfortable to go alone will build more confidence by itself. Also, most people won’t question you about it. And if they do, and you are honest and hold frame/stay calm and unreactive, I honestly think it displays a lot of confidence and builds attraction. If they ask why you are here aone, say ”I have no friends. In fact, you’re the first girl I’ve ever talked to” or ”because it’s fun” or ”my friends were busy tonight” or ”my fr…
/r/seduction21/07/19 10:04 PM
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I’ve started going clubbing alone recently basically only trying to seduce girls on the dance floor. So far I’ve been three times, and I think I’ve had a bit of success, although I haven’t gotten laid yet. I have kissed a hot girl, danced sexually with like four really hot girls, like feeling them up and down with them grinding me, and have one pretty cute girl throw herself at me and start making out with me, although that didn’t really take any effort. I do see myself as a pretty good dancer, …
/r/seduction21/07/19 09:13 PM
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Start go clubbing alone. That way you are forced to be non-neddy. I’ve always been bad with women and considered my face unattractive, but I’m 6” and fit. Anyways, after going clubbing alone on ecstacy a couple of times, which basically gives you the power of extreme non-neediness without any effort for a few hours, I realized that I like to dance, and that I could dance with the hottest girls and give them a good time without expecting anything in return. Now I’ve started going to a local club …
/r/seduction21/07/19 08:42 PM
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I guess it depends on how confident and comfortable the woman is. I would just say start flirting slowly escalate if she’s receptive, just make sure she’s comfortable. I approached a group of three hot girls and two big, hot guys dancing a few days ago (I’m pretty sure they all knew each other but not sure). The hottest girl showed some interest in me (looked at me, smiled and eye contact) so I offerred her her hand, spun her to me and started dancing sexually with her (crotch to ass, hand on hi…
/r/seduction21/07/19 01:26 PM
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I think 6” is perfect, I wouldn’t wanna be taller, but I’ve never had a girl talk about my height I think.
/r/seduction20/07/19 11:18 PM
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Judt give them both attention but don’t try to look like a player. If someone thinks you look like a player, so be it.
/r/seduction20/07/19 11:15 PM
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Lol nice move
/r/seduction20/07/19 11:11 PM
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You did, the question is if you were truly comfortable doing so. I don't know if you were, but I think that if you are and if you have genuine confidence, you should be able to dance with people. Keep going out alone man, just keep practicing. You did good.
/r/seduction20/07/19 10:45 AM
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I can’t force a smile, it’s weird, but I can usually find something about the situation funny enough to genuinely have a slight smirk om my face, which every now and then becomes an actual smile. This seems to work well. I’m just always genuine.
/r/seduction20/07/19 10:07 AM
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Take all opportunities to talk to girls, shop clerks are an easy option. In the supermarket, ask where they have X. After doing this for some time, add something more. If you find something funny tosay, do it. Add an observation. Build from there.
/r/seduction20/07/19 10:01 AM
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Why is this downvoted? Clearly works every time.
/r/seduction20/07/19 09:35 AM
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If the jackpot is finding an attractive girlfriend, and the grind is building confidence and social skills, I would say yes. Look at it like a game (radical idea I know), you have to do some grinding but if you do it right it pays off.
/r/seduction20/07/19 09:32 AM
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Build true confidence. Low real confidence is probably the reason you feel/are ignored. You have to really stop investing in other people’s opinion of you and invest in your own opinion of yourself. Be a man you can be proud of being. You have to be fine by yourself. The girls are a bonus. Even if you look like shit, if you have good energy and true confidence, many groups will be happy to dance with you at least for a little while. Make a silly move, entertain them, show that you don’t care if …
/r/seduction20/07/19 09:28 AM
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I hope so, and I hope I remember what she looks like :)
/r/seduction20/07/19 05:54 AM
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What do you mean with your friend has been snuck?
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:33 AM
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Dude, you did awesome! You experienced almost the worst kind of rejection, and you made it through. You're fine! You're past the hardest part, now you just have to keep going. She was obviously not a very confident person, because confident people would never react that way. They would empathize with you and let you down easy if anything. You were the bigger person in that situation, and you grew from it. It's cringy now, but you will look back at it and laugh soon. Be proud of it. I've been thr…
/r/seduction19/07/19 04:45 PM
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You inspire me
/r/seduction19/07/19 02:19 PM
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I’d rather keep playing on hardmode. Gives more satisfaction in the long run ;)
/r/seduction18/07/19 03:30 PM
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I don’t have a very attractive face but I’m fit and 6”, I guess it’s relevant. What has considtently at least gotten me good conversations, sexual dances and one kiss with hot/very hot girls (in two nights of clubbing alone) is to just be vulnerable and fun. Lose your ego. The most important thing is your energy. Some or a lot of people are gonna think you’re weird. That is ok, and it doesn’t even necessarily mean they won’t be attracted to you, as long as you have good energy. I would recommend…
/r/seduction18/07/19 10:31 AM
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Read Models. But if you wanna get a prodtitute, I’ll say go for it, just to get it over with. It’s obviously only for your own mentality though, and it won’t be good, but you’ll have done it.
/r/seduction18/07/19 07:24 AM
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It’s a student club and they basically let everybody in, I guess it’s different at a lot of other places. :)
/r/seduction17/07/19 04:51 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction15/07/19 03:45 AM
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This makes a lot of sense to me. Thank you.
/r/seduction14/07/19 10:33 PM
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Thanks man, appreciate it :) People seem to be overly cautious, you’re not gonna get thrown in jail for touching girls’ hands or arms. Sure, you might come off as too forward or a bit creepy when learning to calibrate, but that’s ok, in fact it’s good, that’s how you learn. You have to be ok with being a creep to some people. As long as you’re not doing anything illegal or seriously inappropriate, like following a girl who clearly wants to get away from you or keep touching after clear signals t…
/r/seduction14/07/19 01:47 PM
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Thanks, will keep this in mind. I do sometimes take their hand and spin them once, I think this is a good way to initiate.
/r/seduction14/07/19 11:43 AM
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One in ten. And I agree that I might have been too forward in a few cases, but I definetely didn’t grope anyone. I definetely felt like it was worth it, maybe I came off as a weirdo or a creep, but many guys and girls gave clear signals of interest and liked it. If a girl is uncomfortable she can leave, I didn’t follow. Don’t be so afraid of coming off as creepy, you have to polarize. You can’t be liked by everybody.
/r/seduction14/07/19 11:42 AM
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Ok dog, you do you.
/r/seduction14/07/19 11:38 AM
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I mean if that’s the worst case scenario, I’ll take it. I’m sick of being afraid.
/r/seduction14/07/19 11:38 AM
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It seems you’re wrong from my experience.
/r/seduction14/07/19 11:37 AM
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It’s not feeling up to touch their arm or shoulder, that’s initiating. I just went with the advice from Models: if they don’t make any sign of disinterest, they are neutral and you should polarize more. It’s not illegal to touch girls in these places, and my intentions are good. I’d rather aer on the side of boldness from now on.
/r/seduction14/07/19 11:36 AM
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Well, she definetely didn’t this time. I figure worst case you get thrown out. It’s not illegal to touch a girl on the shoulders or on the side man.
/r/seduction13/07/19 07:42 PM
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Thanks, ye I think it helped a lot. I find it hard to get in the right mindset, and had some anxiety in the start, but when I got into it the anxiety disappeared and it was pretty exciting just to see how people would respond. You have to just lose your ego and see everything as a game or experiment. :)
/r/seduction13/07/19 03:43 PM
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Cause your attitude is shit. Read Models.
/r/seduction09/07/19 08:00 PM
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Clothes that fit, matching colors, then just what you like and feel comfortable in would be my advice. Dare to express yourself through your clothes.
/r/seduction09/07/19 07:56 PM
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I mean I was just going the same way and she was ahead of me. What was I supposed to do? I guess the creepy part would be that I looked to see if she would look back.
/r/seduction27/06/19 09:13 PM
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How can I dance with them if they won’t meet my eyes?
/r/seduction06/06/19 05:40 AM
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DUDE I do the exact same thing with reminders popping every day, so helpful right?!
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