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Report the teachers for statutory rape. Karma. Also, there are plenty of other ways to have a great time sexually, so don't feel like you missed out because one of your fantasies never happened. Instead, seek out new fantasies. Life is full of surprises and adventures.
/r/seduction15/03/20 09:50 AM
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You've got it backwards man. You don't wait for a girl's attention to prove to you that you're worth something. You have to prove that to yourself, without a girl's help. If you don't believe you're awesome, then do what you need to do to become awesome.
/r/seduction13/03/20 10:36 PM
1

Meh, Honestly I forgot about all my missed chances.
/r/seduction13/03/20 10:33 PM
1

Sounds like you need to work on believing in yourself then.
/r/seduction13/03/20 09:54 PM
1

Trying to hold someone's hand or trying to kiss them is not forcing them. What that girl did to you wasn't sexual assault, was it? Then why would it be sexual assault for you to be the one to do that to someone else? It's a gift you're giving, not a crime you're committing. Sounds like you're reading too much hyperfeminist bullshit.
/r/seduction13/03/20 09:27 PM
3

The guys who get laid are the guys who take risks and make moves. Have you ever tried to hold a girl's hand? Tried to go for a kiss? Start there. Don't wait for a girl to make a move. And definitely don't take girl's attention or lack of attention as an indication of your value as a man.
/r/seduction13/03/20 09:29 AM
1

Your biggest problem is you're putting yourself in environments where you sit across from the girl. Save that shit for after you're fucking.
/r/seduction12/03/20 11:40 PM
1

He who waits, masturbates. Sorry bro, you missed your chance.
/r/seduction12/03/20 06:31 PM
2

This sub has gone to shit. Did the mods catch coronavirus?
/r/seduction10/03/20 07:24 PM
1

C: She's attracted to you, but feels kinda bad about it because she'd be cheating. She wants to hook up with you, but keeps trying to convince herself that she shouldn't and thinks if she mentions her boyfriend nothing will happen.
/r/seduction10/03/20 05:31 PM
1

Lots of the girls on Tinder have boyfriends too.
/r/seduction10/03/20 05:03 PM
3

Lol what? You have a lot to learn, young one.
/r/seduction10/03/20 12:31 PM
1

Well then definitely read into it.
/r/seduction10/03/20 11:50 AM
1

Yeah trying to pull her into the bathroom was where you fucked up. You're in her place, follow her lead. She knows best where you can hook up. If she wanted to fuck you in a dirty bathroom, she wouldn't have taken you back to her place. And if she disappeared in the five minutes it took you to use the bathroom, she was probably drunk and just going with the flow, so I wouldn't read too much into it.
/r/seduction10/03/20 11:26 AM
2

Yeah, but you also have to know the difference between a girl telling you to slow down and a girl telling you she's not interested. If you want to continue with the baseball analogy you could give yourself three strikes before you're out.
/r/seduction10/03/20 02:57 AM
-7

Isn't a thing
/r/seduction10/03/20 01:41 AM
1

Wtf, go ask this on /r/sex
/r/seduction10/03/20 12:42 AM
3

Advice: don't.
/r/seduction10/03/20 12:41 AM
15

There's nothing shameful about watching porn regularly. Most people do it.
/r/seduction10/03/20 12:18 AM
48

I'm a fan of the app Real Life for dating. Once you download the app, you start walking around in the world until you see a girl. If you find her attractive you say hi. If she says hi back, she gets added to your Potentials list. Your Potentials list works just like the Matches list in Tinder. You make conversation with the girls in your Potentials list and invite them to do things with you. The things you can invite a girl to do gradually progress through a series often called Bases. First, you…
/r/seduction09/03/20 09:30 PM
44

Install a porn blocker on your phone and computer. Give one of your guy friends the password. Find a distraction for when the craving hits. I usually set myself a two week goal. And I have never once gone two weeks of not masturbating that didn't end with me getting laid. Also it's not necessarily easy to arrange, but I find when I have a roommate (usually when I'm traveling) it's easier to avoid the temptation since I have less time alone.
/r/seduction09/03/20 05:14 PM
1

There is no such thing as text game. If you're trying to game over text, you might as well just Google some porn and save yourself the embarrassment.
/r/seduction09/03/20 04:25 PM
0

IOIs, check the sidebar
/r/seduction09/03/20 04:24 PM
1

If you're trying to date a stripper, never visit her at work.
/r/seduction09/03/20 12:36 PM
2

This, 1000%. Ask her to meet you and go on a date on your terms. She'll probably have an excuse.
/r/seduction09/03/20 11:53 AM
2

Always compliment a girl for sending you a nice pic. Always. Or jokingly neg her. But always give her some attention for the pics she sends you.
/r/seduction09/03/20 09:12 AM
1

When she texts cute pics, tell her she's cute. Say something to let her know that you like how she looks. If you give her the positive feedback and attention she's looking for, she'll send you more pics and maybe get more sexy. Reward her for doing the things you want her to do.
/r/seduction09/03/20 09:06 AM
6

If you're calling it a date, or telling her you want to take her out, then she knows your intentions. If you said, "hey let's hang out sometime", your intentions might not be clear. You don't have to tell a girl up front that you want to fuck her. Rarely, a girl might respond well to hearing that up front, but for most girls you need to slowly escalate to that point. I'd say continue making plans with this girl as you have been. You don't need to suddenly get awkward and say "by the way, this is…
/r/seduction09/03/20 08:58 AM
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Did you touch her? Tell a joke and touch her arm/leg. Pay attention to how she reacts. If you get a positive reaction slowly start touching her more and if she's into it, she'll start reciprocating.
/r/seduction09/03/20 08:50 AM
1

Yep, and then do it whether she comes or not
/r/seduction08/03/20 08:52 PM
2

I'm more concerned that you feel so unsure of this text that you need to ask reddit for a second opinion before you send it. But, since you asked... It's a lame way to ask someone you already hooked up with to see you again. Don't ask when she's free. Make a plan, then invite her to join you. And unless she's an alcoholic, just "drinks" doesn't count as a plan.
/r/seduction08/03/20 08:27 PM
7

Lean into it. Keep getting rejected until you realize that the people who reject you don't matter and the ones worth your time won't reject you.
/r/seduction08/03/20 08:23 PM
2

Nah
/r/seduction08/03/20 08:12 PM
1

Try not to be a cocky asshole about it.
/r/seduction08/03/20 08:05 PM
2

Start by identifying what was awful about it. I've never been a bad kisser. From my first kiss I just had an intuition about how to do it. But I've had a few bad kisses. Usually they were bad because I didn't have the right chemistry with someone. Sometimes they were bad because of bad breath- don't kiss right after a garlicky dinner.
/r/seduction08/03/20 08:04 PM
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I'm confused. Why are you trying to get her number if you've already got a way to contact her and make plans?
/r/seduction08/03/20 06:02 PM
205

Good move. Now follow through and move on. Fuck one of her friends.
/r/seduction08/03/20 05:42 PM
2

You're being a creep man. Stop beating around the bush and hiding things. Ask her out, let your interest show.
/r/seduction08/03/20 05:40 PM
3

You can run backwards naked through a field of dicks
/r/seduction08/03/20 05:36 PM
3

Oh ok, then I guess I just gave you all the help you need too
/r/seduction08/03/20 05:35 PM
2

No, don't apologize. Stand by what you said. Maybe she just couldn't think of a clever response yet or something. If you take it back, you look like a man with no confidence who's super unsure of himself and what he wants.
/r/seduction08/03/20 05:23 PM
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Impossible to know without some context.
/r/seduction08/03/20 05:20 PM
2

Yeah, don't shit where you eat. Be very careful entertaining advances from this girl and focus your own advances on other girls that you don't work with.
/r/seduction08/03/20 05:18 PM
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I am get be have many sex and you can too. Don't try to force sexuality over the phone. If you haven't reached that stage yet in person, and it doesn't flow naturally, you're just gonna make yourself look thirsty AF. Talk about sex openly if it comes up or is relevant. Otherwise, phone conversation should be mostly logistical with an occasional joke or letting her know that you're doing something interesting.
/r/seduction08/03/20 03:15 PM
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Yeah, you're wrong. You asked why he isn't attracted to you, and then admitted you're letting yourself go. So you know why he isn't attracted to you. It doesn't matter how you felt when he let himself go. It's not like the feeling of attraction cares about what's fair. But the thing that bothers me about your attitude is that you think you're entitled to someone's affection without doing anything to deserve it. That wrong mindset is way too common in this sub. Seduction is an active verb. If you…
/r/seduction08/03/20 02:22 PM
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Sounds like you need to take care of yourself more. You can't expect someone to unconditionally be attracted to you when you're not even loving yourself. If I had a girlfriend who was letting herself go, that would turn me off too.
/r/seduction08/03/20 01:16 PM
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I highly doubt it's your race bro. Chicks love black cock. But it's not as simple as "be reasonably attractive" + "be present at a party" = "get danced on". You sound passive, like you're just waiting for chicks to do something to you. That's not how it works. The guys who get the chicks are the ones who take an active role in making that happen. So what are you doing actively to get chicks?
/r/seduction08/03/20 01:06 PM
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Game is about being curious and verifying whether or not a woman is interested in you. Both a yes and a no are a success. In the case of a woman who's not interested, the sooner you find out, the better. If you're paying attention to her body language, you're not likely to run into a situation where she overreacts before you determine if she's interested or not. And if she does overreact, that's great, now you know two things: 1) she's not interested and 2) you dodged a fucking bullet. That's a …
/r/seduction08/03/20 12:03 PM
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The guys who get the girls are the guys who have the balls to make the moves and risk rejection. They don't get every girl, but they get a lot more girls than the guys who are afraid to make moves.
/r/seduction08/03/20 10:36 AM
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I don't care what word you use. My point is that if you're thinking about the girls you hook up with as victims, you're doing it wrong. Pickup has absolutely nothing to do with harming another person.
/r/seduction06/03/20 03:18 PM
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It's bullshit terminology no matter where you got it
/r/seduction06/03/20 03:05 PM
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Victim? That's a bad look bro...
/r/seduction06/03/20 02:54 PM
1

Are they smiling?
/r/seduction06/03/20 07:36 AM
0

There's no such thing as a neutral response. You need to pay more attention. Is she clamming up when you touch her, or is she enjoying it? If you don't know how to tell, stop touching people until you learn more awareness of people's body language.
/r/seduction06/03/20 06:43 AM
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If you're attractive you probably don't have to do much. That being said, as a somewhat older guy I find it a huge turn on when a younger girl shows interest by making eye contact, touching my arm when she speaks to me, or acting like she wants to learn something from me. It strokes my ego I guess.
/r/seduction06/03/20 06:42 AM
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Sounds like you suck at reading girl's body language. Read about IOIs and then pay attention. If you're touching a bitch's thighs and you still don't know if she's interested or not, you're not paying enough attention. Anyway, if you really can't figure it out, try going for a kiss and she'll either kiss you back or slap you. Then you'll know for sure.
/r/seduction06/03/20 06:36 AM
5

If you've got extra money to spend, spend it on self improvement. What kind of idiotic question is this?
/r/seduction06/03/20 06:31 AM
2

Chill. Nobody owes you a chance. If someone doesn't want to talk to you, and wants to be a dick about it, let them. They just saved you time and energy you could have wasted on dating an asshole. And now you can move on and invest your energy somewhere worth it.
/r/seduction05/03/20 11:54 PM
5

Maybe not "stop looking" as much as "stop obsessing over what you wish you had and focus more on improving yourself".
/r/seduction05/03/20 11:07 PM
2

Learn how to have a conversation. Fuck's sake!
/r/seduction05/03/20 10:43 PM
4

Rule number one: be attractive. Rule number two: don't be unattractive.
/r/seduction05/03/20 10:28 PM
1

Nah
/r/seduction05/03/20 10:07 PM
3

Next time you talk to her, suggest getting together outside of the lab, then get her number or whatever so you can coordinate.
/r/seduction05/03/20 10:06 PM
4

The only way kissing is gonna kill the sexual tension is if you kiss like a wet gym sock or if you're so trigger happy that you get off just from a kiss. And in both of those cases you need to kiss more anyway, so kiss away!
/r/seduction05/03/20 10:05 PM
2

I think let it go and don't worry about it.
/r/seduction05/03/20 10:01 PM
1

Girl invited you to a bar and you didn't take a condom with you. Rookie mistake. That's on you. She fell asleep because you couldn't give her the dick she wanted. Do better next time.
/r/seduction05/03/20 09:53 PM
1

Stop being a pussy. Life is hard.
/r/seduction05/03/20 09:14 PM
1

The same way you take advantage of being good looking. When people see it, it makes them like you more. There's nothing else to it.
/r/seduction05/03/20 09:12 PM
2

Uh, first of all, plenty of girls like indian guys. Second, there are other girls beside white girls. Third, yes actually you can live without a girl, stop being so lame and desperate. Fourth, if you have a problem getting what you want in life, don't come to reddit and whine about it, go fix it. Do what any normal, capable man would do in this situation and work on your damn self and keep chasing your dreams. Stop being a little bitch, the world doesn't owe you anything. If you really can't han…
/r/seduction05/03/20 09:08 PM
5

If you like someone, and you want to kiss them, do it before the end of the date, even if that means you have to awkwardly ask at the end of the date if you can kiss her.
/r/seduction05/03/20 07:49 PM
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I think better advice that "just be yourself" is "be your best self". Yeah, tons of chicks like nerds, but you're not doing yourself any favors if you spend so much time gaming that you neglect your fitness. The more you can invest in yourself and become a better man, the more success you'll have with women. But that doesn't mean you have to be a certain type of guy. For example, I have genes that prevent me from ever gaining muscle mass. I have to remind myself that bodybuilder types are not th…
/r/seduction05/03/20 12:27 PM
1

There are two ways that you could take that. The only one worth thinking about is that she's hinting that she wants you to ask her on a date. So do it.
/r/seduction05/03/20 12:09 PM
3

Find another venue. Problem solved.
/r/seduction05/03/20 05:45 AM
5

She's letting you down nicely. Next!
/r/seduction05/03/20 05:43 AM
17

Never let on your money or resources unless you're a beta buck.
/r/seduction05/03/20 05:33 AM
2

It doesn't take any building to get to that point. All you have to do is walk over and say hi.
/r/seduction05/03/20 05:32 AM
5

Pro tip: don't wait for the girls to talk to you, go talk to them.
/r/seduction05/03/20 03:53 AM
1

The "emoticons" you use don't matter at all. Focus on more important things, like learning how to use a fucking smartphone. (｡•̀ᴗ-)✧
/r/seduction05/03/20 02:55 AM
2

🤦‍♂️
/r/seduction05/03/20 02:53 AM
2

*on your head, in your head means it's imaginary
/r/seduction04/03/20 06:57 PM
1

Go for the kiss man! Worst thing that can happen is you get slapped and a bunch of dirty looks from her friends when they're leaving the club.
/r/seduction04/03/20 03:30 PM
1

Are you inviting the girl to leave the dance floor and go somewhere alone with you? "Let's go get some fresh air" is a good move.
/r/seduction04/03/20 03:16 PM
1

If you're hooking up, why do you want to escalate further in the club? I'm confused.
/r/seduction04/03/20 03:09 PM
2

I'm not saying it's crazy, but if you're having problems with anxiety, less drinking always helps. Drinking any amount is actually a major driver of anxiety since it adjusts your body's baseline levels of relaxing brain chemicals.
/r/seduction04/03/20 02:15 PM
1

Yep. I've never met someone from Couchsurfing expecting anything more than a coffee or exploring together, but I've ended up hooking up with a handful of people I met through it because we were both attracted to each other. And there's never any awkward trying to back out of a date if you're not attracted to someone since it wasn't a date in the first place.
/r/seduction04/03/20 01:58 PM
1

Yeah, they have a hangouts feature too, for meeting up with people. It's the only non-algorithmically restricted app for random meetups out there. But once you meet up, you're on your own for setting the tone for the outcome you want, since the app sets no premise for being attracted to the people you meet. And everyone you meet has the ability to review you, so you have an incentive to not be a dick.
/r/seduction04/03/20 01:34 PM
1

Less drinking.
/r/seduction04/03/20 01:28 PM
1

The environment of apps is a downward spiral and it's much worse than it was a few years ago. Depending on where you live, Couchsurfing hangouts can work better, but there's less guarantee with that since it's not a dating app.
/r/seduction04/03/20 01:17 PM
1

Can I have the two minutes and 19 seconds of my life you just wasted back please?
/r/seduction04/03/20 01:15 PM
2

You're on the right track. Delete all the dating apps. Online dating sucks for your mental health except in rare circumstances. Go back out and start meeting people in real life, at the gym, the bar, the park, wherever you go.
/r/seduction04/03/20 01:05 PM
1

If you're trying to win an argument about this, you already lost. Sorry bro.
/r/seduction04/03/20 01:03 PM
1

The more you act entitled and demand that she text you back when you want, the more you'll push her away. You sound like you just want people to acknowledge that you're right in some insecure fight you're having with a girl about how much she texts you. Well sorry, you're wrong.
/r/seduction04/03/20 12:56 PM
1

Whether you sit around is irrelevant. What I said just went in one ear and out the other. Good luck bro.
/r/seduction04/03/20 12:42 PM
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Yeah, don't do that bro. If she's not into you, move on. Best case you're wasting your time and energy on someone who already told you they're not worth it. Worst case you cross someone's boundaries and end up blacklisted with your reputation destroyed.
/r/seduction04/03/20 12:37 PM
10

Fail faster then, it's the only way to avoid wasting your time
/r/seduction04/03/20 12:28 PM
1

Agree and amplify is not a great BJJ technique.
/r/seduction04/03/20 11:31 AM
2

I think you've got that backwards though. If you're trying to build a friendship group, that's a place "where you eat", and it will be hard to casually date there. If your intention is to date people, go straight to asking them out right after you meet them. Don't try to hide your intentions, that always ends badly.
/r/seduction04/03/20 11:11 AM
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Don't expect a high rate of success if you're hitting on girls who are there to go to class. Go hang out in the cafeteria or at a student organization or something where people are more relaxed and without an agenda. People will be more open to dating in those contexts. Bible study groups are good if you don't mind meeting religious girls.
/r/seduction04/03/20 11:05 AM
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I don't know of any "gurus who teach this style", but meeting people you have things in common with works. Just be wary that some people don't like to "shit where they eat", meaning that they like to avoid casual dating in a place that they count on for community (or their professional network).
/r/seduction04/03/20 10:59 AM
1

Thoughts: chill the fuck out bro. Lots of people don't like to be attached to their phone 24/7 and there are a million valid reasons why she might take some time to respond. She's not just sitting around all day making sure that she can always respond to you in 30 seconds, nor should she. If she says she's interested, she's interested. But if you're asking her if she's interested, that's weak and shows insecurity on your part. You're a man, you don't give a fuck if she doesn't respond for days. …
/r/seduction04/03/20 10:48 AM
1

What?
/r/seduction04/03/20 10:43 AM
1

She doesn't sound worth your time, to be honest. Next her.
/r/seduction04/03/20 10:41 AM
13

Ask why you're sending it and what kind of response you're asking the person for. If you're sending it to get reassurance or to figure out how they feel about you, it's needy. Also, if you're asking yourself if it's too needy, it's probably too needy. Don't text unless you're offering something. Offer to take her on a date. Offer a compliment. Etc.
/r/seduction04/03/20 10:37 AM
2

Interesting. The way I've found balance in the modern world is to get rid of my list of things I want in a partner and the expectation that anything will last forever. I have a small list of deal breakers (hard drugs, hatefulness, dishonesty) and other than that my only criteria is that I like the person and am enjoying my interactions with them. Then I focus on making the most of the moment I have realizing that it won't last forever, but as long as I'm happy in the moment, why does it matter t…
/r/seduction04/03/20 10:27 AM
1

Sounds like your chances are slipping away. Make a move before it's too late. Try kino. But be aware, she might reject your advances and if you're part of the same friend group she might try to let you down easily by not responding instead of calling you out and embarrassing you in front of everyone by saying she's not interested. So if you make some subtle kino moves and she doesn't reciprocate, move on!
/r/seduction04/03/20 10:19 AM
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Ok, slow progress is better than no progress. Now ask her on a date, quick before you get solidly friendzoned. Hopefully she didn't notice you being a pussy about this for three years.
/r/seduction04/03/20 10:16 AM
3

When in doubt, just say hi. If she's interested, things will flow even if you don't know what to say. And if not, say hi to the next girl.
/r/seduction04/03/20 10:10 AM
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Confidently initiating what you want. Ask for a phone number, ask for a date, ask for a kiss, ask for whatever you want with confidence and without hesitation. If you're confident enough and not pushy, the girl will be creaming her pants before you get her home. Edit: disclaimer, take this one step at a time, don't just ask a stranger to fuck out of the blue. Be aware of the context, her comfort and your rapport with her.
/r/seduction04/03/20 10:08 AM
1

Well, then work on yourself and then go out and meet girls at the bar or at church.
/r/seduction04/03/20 12:16 AM
0

No match on any dating site? Jesus dude, how unattractive are you?
/r/seduction04/03/20 12:05 AM
2

I don't care if you're showing it. You care too much. There's no reason to be keeping track of who's initiating before you've even met. First, you shouldn't even be having that many conversation over text before you meet. The purpose of the messages is to arrange to meet, not to have conversations. Second, in the beginning, the man always initiates.
/r/seduction03/03/20 11:46 PM
1

If you're worrying about who's initiating and you haven't even met yet, you're way too invested.
/r/seduction03/03/20 11:43 PM
3

!remindme not to fuck a girl on /u/usedtimecapsule's car
/r/seduction03/03/20 09:30 PM
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Don't be afraid to fuck on a car in public Yeah, let me know how that works out for you (if they give you reddit privileges in prison) haha
/r/seduction03/03/20 09:12 PM
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It’s particularly funny if she’s overseas, because her music will probably be crap I actually show her Avicii’s music videos Ok, dude.
/r/seduction03/03/20 09:11 PM
6

For me, I think having a smile and approaching random tables, like I own the place, is where I usually start. Sounds like a good plan. Another thing I do, if I'm there with guys I know is show my physical dominance by touching them: putting my hand on their shoulders, things like that. I spread myself out and take up my physical space. It boosts my confidence and girls notice guys that appear confident and dominant in their social group. Don't overdo it though. If you look like you're trying or …
/r/seduction03/03/20 05:18 PM
1

What is it with people posting completely non-seduction-related things here lately?
/r/seduction03/03/20 05:13 PM
2

I kind of agree. But I don't think it's gonna work to say "Ok, date two, you have to fuck me or I'm out". It's within your right to say that if you don't want to keep investing, I just don't think it's a good strategy if you're saying it to get a girl to put out. Also, while it's not too hard to sleep with someone by a second date, a lot of girls take a few more dates than that to feel ready. A friend of mine has a rule, if he's spent more than 12 hours with a girl and hasn't slept with her, she…
/r/seduction03/03/20 03:02 PM
2

Sounds like you're on the right track. You've got a confidence issue that's causing you to soften your voice when you approach because you fear coming on too strongly. That's a natural instinct for most people when they think they're breaking social norms. I'd recommend either facing it head on by approaching people until it feels normal to you (maybe getting a sales or bartending job where you're required to approach people might give you some good practice), or changing your approach to one th…
/r/seduction03/03/20 11:07 AM
24

Never take dating advice from rich men.
/r/seduction03/03/20 10:54 AM
3

Lots of girls say they just want to cuddle and no sex because they don't want to feel like a slut for being so easy, and they want to make sure that you're not gonna freak out and get angry or violent if they ask you to stop or don't give you what you want. The best response is to say "Ok, that's fine, we'll just cuddle". You should always respect a woman's stated boundaries. But 9 times out of 10 when I start cuddling with a girl, within a few minutes things are heating up (that's just how biol…
/r/seduction03/03/20 08:53 AM
3

That's not an IOI. But have the confidence to make eye contact, say hi and start a pleasant conversation with them or it's never gonna go anywhere.
/r/seduction03/03/20 08:39 AM
1

Just ask them on a date. The sooner the better. If you try to get to know them first you'll probably get friend zoned. Set the frame confidently from the beginning. You're there to date her and fuck her, not to be her friend.
/r/seduction03/03/20 08:37 AM
1

Never invest more in a girl than she's investing in you. If you stop investing she'll either start begging you for more (good) or she won't care, in which case you know that investing in her is a waste of your time and you can move on.
/r/seduction03/03/20 08:35 AM
0

What makes you think you're qualified to give advice in this sub? You can't even approach a woman for fucks sake.
/r/seduction03/03/20 12:55 AM
1

Get her to laugh
/r/seduction03/03/20 12:48 AM
0

Nothing. I'm agreeing with you. You definitely shouldn't be dating.
/r/seduction03/03/20 12:44 AM
0

You're right. Clearly. But then why the fuck are you in this sub?
/r/seduction03/03/20 12:28 AM
3

I used to have long hair. I got a lot of compliments on it from a certain type of girl who were into long hair. But as soon as I got a haircut I felt an instant boost in confidence and girls absolutely started noticing me more-even the ones who had complimented my long hair before. I think there are very few men who can pull off a non clean-cut hairstyle in an attractive way. And I think there's something evolutionarily ingrained in women that's attracted to stereotypical masculine traits like c…
/r/seduction02/03/20 11:47 PM
0

And you don't see the connection?
/r/seduction02/03/20 09:45 PM
3

WTF does this have to do with seduction? Stop dicking around desperately trying to find nudes of some chick who just wants money from beta cucks. Not worth your time. Next this chick.
/r/seduction02/03/20 06:48 PM
6

No one ever complains about being trapped in the sex zone.
/r/seduction02/03/20 06:45 PM
0

"Hey girl, if you catch the coronavirus as easily as you caught my attention, you're infected already. Wanna infect me too?"
/r/seduction02/03/20 06:43 PM
3

Turns out asking a girl if she has the coronavirus isn't a great way to start a conversation.
/r/seduction02/03/20 04:40 PM
-1

Yes. Sorry bud. You're forever alone.
/r/seduction02/03/20 04:21 PM
4

Well I hope you're not flirting in English cause damn that was awful to read.
/r/seduction02/03/20 04:08 PM
2

I've virtually stopped dating women who aren't my economic equals. I'm not giving up my hard earned resources for someone who just sees me as an opportunity, no matter how hot they are. I'm not a beta cuck. I find dating outside of the western world to be full of low quality low hanging fruit. You can waste a lot of time there and never find a woman who isn't using you for your wallet. I see a lot of desperate western guys who suck at attracting women because they refuse to work on themselves an…
/r/seduction02/03/20 04:05 PM
2

Didn't read your past posts, but sounds like maybe you should see a mental health professional.
/r/seduction02/03/20 01:39 PM
0

I figured out why you're single
/r/seduction02/03/20 12:37 PM
1

And this is why Tinder works best in a country where the type of chicks you like go for vacation
/r/seduction02/03/20 12:36 PM
2

British chicks on holiday in Eastern Europe are basically the definition of thirsty.
/r/seduction02/03/20 12:35 PM
1

It's not predatory to express interest or to ask for what you want non-verbally. It is predatory to ignore signs that someone is not interested, ignore a no, or to manipulate or trick someone into being with you.
/r/seduction01/03/20 11:55 AM
1

It's not rude. Just say "ok". Or "ok, see ya around".
/r/seduction01/03/20 11:53 AM
1

Next
/r/seduction01/03/20 11:52 AM
7

If you don't have any rapport with them, this is going to be a really inefficient way to get girls. Take things one step at a time. At least ask her if she wants to go for a walk, and then when you're out, invite her over to smoke a joint or something. While on one hand you don't want to over-invest, on the other hand, low effort = low rewards. Edit: also don't be stupid, rumors and a bad reputation are one of the easiest ways to become an incel loser. So to answer your original question, what c…
/r/seduction01/03/20 11:46 AM
3

Assume interest unless proven otherwise. You're a virgin because you're not making moves. You're waiting for a girl to initiate things and it rarely works that way. The thing about making moves is you could get rejected for a million different reasons. But if you don't try, you'll never know. Next time you're in this kind of situation, escalate a little bit. When she sits on you, put your arms around her. After awhile, if she's close to you with your arms around her, lean in close and whisper so…
/r/seduction01/03/20 11:43 AM
4

Google "kino escalation". The lesbians I've met have been quite good at it. I suspect because women are a lot less suspicious of another woman touching them than a man.
/r/seduction01/03/20 11:34 AM
7

Just make sure you aren't being a different person online than you will be in person when you meet.
/r/seduction01/03/20 11:31 AM
-7

I'm teasing because a girl having an ex is not a problem. Chess memes are fine, if you're going for a nerdy girl.
/r/seduction01/03/20 10:18 AM
11

I'd be more worried about the fact that you use chess memes to describe your dating life than the fact that the cute chick has an ex.
/r/seduction01/03/20 07:42 AM
1

If you don't wanna be an orbiter, you gotta land. That means ask her out. If she says yes, you're not an orbiter. If she says no, you can either stick around and orbit or move on and quit wasting your time.
/r/seduction16/02/20 10:02 AM
1

As someone who flies once a month, that guy is a huge dick. When you're on an airplane, you pay for the seat you get. If you paid for a seat that reclines, you can recline. If you paid for a seat that doesn't recline but the one in front of you does, tough fucking luck. If you really can't handle it, you can always ask a flight attendant to help you switch seats. A few months ago, I was on an overnight flight. When I leaned my seat back to sleep, the man behind me (who could also recline his sea…
/r/MensRights14/02/20 07:11 PM
7

A couple of years ago, I was going through a low point and feeling suicidal and lonely. In the midst of that, a long time friend accused me of looking at women the wrong way. When I defended myself (I hadn't checked out these women, and even if I had, checking someone out isn't wrong), she started making up accusations and spreading them around my friend group telling them that "I'm a known abuser" and that I had been violent and "whipped my dick out in public". When I asserted my innocence in t…
/r/MensRights14/02/20 06:43 PM
1

Hypothetically
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:32 PM
1

First, if she treats others with a lack of respect. Second, if she's not honest. Third, if she's caught up in ideology or religion. Fourth, if she has no self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:16 PM
0

Kind of a double standard if you're trying to be a slut too, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:15 PM
6

You generally can't, until the deception has already come to light, which is why it's such an effective tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:13 PM
4

As a man-faced 35 year old man, same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:09 PM
2

I wish. But the extremists won't have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:08 PM
3

I think you've reached the wrong conclusion based on your Tinder experience. Women don't like men who lie any more than employers like employees who lie. But if you walk into a job interview, and the first thing you say is how inexperienced and unqualified you are, you're shooting yourself in the foot. Don't be an idiot. When a girl asks you why you're on Tinder, don't say "because I'm a loser and hoping you'll have pity on me". Say something positive. Tell her you're looking for a good time, or…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 05:58 PM
1

That's why you hire an expert witness to verify the texts on your phone have been unaltered (and why screenshots aren't good enough).
/r/MensRights01/09/19 04:58 PM
1

Ummm, I'm gonna say this is bad advice. An encrypted message can still be used as evidence. Just don't delete the actual message from your phone, as there will be no third party copies, and screenshots may not hold up in court.
/r/MensRights01/09/19 02:08 PM
8

It's not about me. It's about the tragic victim of all this. The suicide victim, who lost everything. Not the harasser who lost nothing.
/r/MensRights01/09/19 12:35 PM
8

Yeah, because it led to his suicide, dumbass
/r/MensRights01/09/19 12:19 PM
1

In the OP. I'm too lazy to point to it, but if you read the comments you'll find a good number of people making comments about men vs women.
/r/MensRights22/08/19 06:54 AM
1

In the thread, holy hell.
/r/MensRights22/08/19 06:43 AM
-2

Hi, I'm OP. This isn't really a "men's rights" issue or men vs women. Please don't make it one. Thanks!
/r/MensRights21/08/19 02:53 PM
16

Yes, hot women rarely have boyfri.... Wait...
/r/seduction21/08/19 09:13 AM
0

TL;DR How to deal with shit tests: Have your shit together.
/r/seduction19/08/19 05:03 PM
1

woosh *
/r/seduction17/08/19 06:31 PM
1

Hi Momma Bear, if you're looking for young, dumb and full of cum boys, may I suggest Tinder?
/r/seduction17/08/19 05:25 PM
2

Spoken like a true man.
/r/seduction17/08/19 04:40 PM
4

How is this related to seduction? "Hey baby, come back to my place, I've got some sweet free abortion pills!"?
/r/seduction17/08/19 01:53 PM
1

Yes, Yes, Yes, See 1-3
/r/seduction17/08/19 01:52 PM
3

For me, it depends on location, mindset and other things. In the US, I get about 1 date a month if I want to, but I get really bored because the women I meet are less attractive and more boring than their profiles. In South America I get a shit ton of matches, but a large percentage of them are essentially prostitutes or just looking for a sugar daddy. They're hot, but I've stopped going on Tinder dates in South America because I have no interest in someone using me for my money. In Europe I get…
/r/seduction17/08/19 11:17 AM
13

Correlation ≠ causation, but I'd rather base my texting game off of this correlation than off of some jackass on Reddit who wrote a guide about how to text women but doesn't even know how himself. I've had so many people tell me that emojis are stupid or show that you aren't an alpha or some bullshit. Emojis work when used correctly. Don't be afraid to use them.
/r/seduction17/08/19 10:38 AM
2

It means you have shit on your face. Go check a mirror.
/r/seduction16/08/19 01:18 PM
2

Some of these are definitely "what the fuck?" tips, but definitely some good ideas there.
/r/seduction16/08/19 10:52 AM
8

Just keep trying. As long as you're being respectful, and not acting like a sociopath, you'll eventually realize that asking someone out and getting rejected isn't a big deal. And then you'll get more comfortable with it. I might get downvoted for saying this in this sub, but you don't need to do some cringey PUA stuff to practice. When you want to ask someone out just say "Would you like to go on a date sometime?" Say it any way you want, it's not a magic formula. But make sure you use the word…
/r/seduction13/08/19 07:15 AM
0

It's not the "smoothest" thing, but if you want to kiss someone and haven't found the right vibe yet, but it's getting toward the end of the date or end of your patience, you can just say, "I was wondering if I can kiss you", if she wants to kiss you, she'll say yes and if not, you'll stop wasting your time. Alphas aren't afraid to ask for what they want. This works.
/r/seduction11/08/19 11:50 AM
1

Just ask her out. You're gonna feel awkward however you do it. Who gives a fuck? Just be a fucking man and make the move.
/r/seduction11/08/19 11:42 AM
1

Just ask her if you can take her on a date instead of asking her to hang out. Alpha. As. Fuck.
/r/seduction06/08/19 12:51 PM
48

Damn. I'm in my 30's and I was hoping this post was going to be about not making excuses like being too tired to seduce women. That's my current struggle.
/r/seduction05/08/19 08:26 AM
24

A few things you can do. First, don't start with "putting it in". Rookie mistake. Start with making out, fingering her, and giving her oral. Insist on pleasing her first and making sure she's well on her way to being satisfied before you put it in. Second, go more than one round. I usually don't last long my first round, especially with a new partner, and especially if she's really hot, which we all hope for. That's ok. You don't have to last forever the first round. Figure out what your refract…
/r/seduction05/08/19 08:20 AM
6

touching our faces/body Which base is that?
/r/seduction04/08/19 09:16 PM
1

Then you walk away, and you let her come to you at her own pace. I agree, with the caveat that she probably won't come after you, and you need to be ok with that.
/r/seduction04/08/19 12:09 PM
0

I think you're onto something with the frames. But your dating frame is missing some element of physicality and sexual tension. It basically looks like a friend frame to me. I say this because... you go out on a date and talk about yourself to each other and ask each other questions I do this alllll the time, and get friend zoned majorly. Girls take it as a sign that I'm not sexual / physical, but that I'm a great person to have deep, caring, best-friend type of conversations with. I'm learning …
/r/seduction03/08/19 08:51 PM
1

Good luck with your career
/r/seduction27/07/19 10:54 PM
51

If you use alcohol to create confidence in the moment, it will slowly destroy your confidence over time. From first hand experience, I can tell you, the more you rely on alcohol, the more you'll suck long term. I recommend doing things the hard way. Improve yourself until sober you is no longer awkward and terrible at conversation.
/r/seduction27/07/19 10:13 AM
1

Cold approaches are probably not what incels need. P
/r/seduction19/07/19 11:00 AM
1

There's a clear difference between harming someone with violence (a punch) and giving someone a positive, friendly touch. There's a reason almost every culture has friendly hugs and kisses as the NORMAL way to greet even strangers. But you seem to be trying as hard as possible to falsely equate all touch with violence. Funny thing is, I bet you don't think that throwing a milkshake at someone you disagree with or breaking an egg over their head is assault. Logic doesn't seem to be your strong su…
/r/seduction17/07/19 01:47 PM
1

On the fact that I meet dateable people on a weekly basis in real life, and rarely have a Tinder date that I enjoy.
/r/seduction16/07/19 10:06 PM
1

It consolidates all the single people in your area That's where you're wrong. The single people in your area worth dating are not on dating apps.
/r/seduction16/07/19 09:24 PM
0

It's implied in normal human behaviour. No, no it's not. You're trying to normalize a world in which the basic human need of physical contact becomes taboo. Fuck everything about that. Normal behavior for social animals is physical contact. Watch apes, bonobos, gorillas, baboons... they all touch each other all the time. Touch is a basic need for primates, and depriving primates of touch literally leads to death. If the only way you can touch a girl is forcing yourself on her Whoa whoa whoa. Slo…
/r/seduction16/07/19 06:27 PM
1

Trade her and shit. U wot?
/r/seduction15/07/19 03:30 PM
0

A woman's sexual trauma is not the fault of anyone but the perpetrator. As long as he's respecting the boundaries that people communicate, then nothing he's doing is "a fucked up game". Maybe turn your attention to the women who have a sexual trauma but are still somehow unable to communicate their boundaries like a normal human adult. They're the people who need your advice.
/r/seduction15/07/19 03:29 PM
0

they are afraid to confront a man coming out of nowhere touching them In public? Come on. Girls are perfectly capable of communicating their boundaries. A woman should not be afraid to say "Don't touch me" if she doesn't want to be touched.
/r/seduction15/07/19 03:26 PM
1

Meet women at church.
/r/seduction09/07/19 12:35 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/seduction08/07/19 11:00 PM
18

Eye contact, smile, look away. Look back, smile again. If she smiles back, say hi.
/r/seduction04/07/19 12:57 PM
1

How about instead of getting intense and creepy you just say, "Can I take you out for a date sometime?". Intent clear as fuck.
/r/seduction04/07/19 12:56 PM
3

Assuming you're a guy, your initial conversation is lost in a sea of dicks by day two. Best to move off of Tinder and get her number ASAP to avoid this. And try to set up a date in the first conversation. Nobody has time for long drawn out text conversations with someone they've never met. That being said, if you're like me, when you decide to go on a date with one girl, it's easy to let your conversations with other matches go stale for a day or two, and when you get back into the game a few da…
/r/seduction04/07/19 07:19 AM
9

Usually on my first day in the UK, I get zero Tinder matches.
/r/seduction12/06/19 03:00 PM
1

Sounds to me like she likes you. But here's the thing, either you make a move and nothing happens, or you don't make a move and still nothing happens. The only way to make something happen is to make a move. Stop over analyzing it.
/r/seduction03/06/19 04:33 PM
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