So I’m normally not good at showing clear intent or touching, but yesterday I was at a club dancing and decided to just try to be really bold with the kino to see what happened. So on the dance floor, I started touching all the girls I was attracted to who was dancing near me in one way or another, even if they didn’t show clear signals of interest. Even if it felt like there was no natural way to touch them, I just put my hands on their back or on their shoulders or on their side, just to gauge their response. Here is what happened:

  1. Out of like 10 girls I did this too, only one seemed uncomfortable and left almost immediately.
  2. Most girls kept dancing just as near to me didn’t show any signals of disinterest, which I took as a green light to escalate. Some even started grinding up against me a bit.
  3. It was fun, and the only cost was rejection in the form of them leaving, or people thinking I was a bit forward, but honestly I felt like they respected me for it. They saw that I had no inhibitions to touch them in any way or form, and they felt desired. I gave them the gift of touch and feeling desired, on my own cost of being rejected. They like that.

So to sum it up, if you’re interested in a girl, just find ways to touch them. It doesn’t have to feel super natural, it might feel a bit awkward in the start, but it still works super well. You show interest, and you learn how receptive they are.

Edit: If they seemed into it, I started moving my hands up and down their side, or take their hands, maybe do a spin, or just pull them closer towards me and keep dancing. This felt like the natural escalation. Any tips would be appreciated.