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[–]WeigrafBeoulve 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you were texting 50 girls, like how she is probably texting 50 dudes, might take you 2 days to respond too. Abundance my dude.
[–]h1mera 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She is loosing interest as you are not inviting her for a date. If you already seen her IRL then she just have no time to respond quickly. I would bet on first option :-)
[–]INTelliJentsia 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That would be my go to but this is long distance. We tried talking otp but her family interrupted her-which I get, some people don’t have as much privacy as others.
[–]KingRemu 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're wasting your best years on a girl that isn't that into you and quite frankly you'll most likely never meet given that she lives several states away.
The sooner you realize this and move on the better.
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[–]ilikepie145 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Just ask her out if you haven’t already. Don’t try and have a drawn out texting convo if she takes forever to answer
[–]INTelliJentsia 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
This is a long distance thing tho. She’s several states away.
[–]Imightbetohonestbuti 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Find a new girl
[–]ilikepie145 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ahhh. Give her a phone call or FaceTime
[–]INTelliJentsia 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’m going to wait until she responds and try to see if we can talk otp again. I don’t want to blow up her phone as idk what she’s up to. She could be in class or something
[–]ilikepie145 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like a good plan to me
[–]CheekyEmu 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Thoughts: chill the fuck out bro. Lots of people don't like to be attached to their phone 24/7 and there are a million valid reasons why she might take some time to respond. She's not just sitting around all day making sure that she can always respond to you in 30 seconds, nor should she. If she says she's interested, she's interested. But if you're asking her if she's interested, that's weak and shows insecurity on your part. You're a man, you don't give a fuck if she doesn't respond for days. That's her loss because you're out there winning and focusing your energy on the things that are worth your time, not on worrying why someone hasn't texted you back after 30 seconds.
[–]INTelliJentsia -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I don’t sit around either. I get your point but unless she just doesn’t keep her phone on her, it’s not hard to shoot out a quick reply. I don’t like being jerked around with “I’m interested” and get nothing for up to two days. I find it hard to believe there isn’t 30s she can’t find in a days time.
[–]CheekyEmu 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Whether you sit around is irrelevant. What I said just went in one ear and out the other. Good luck bro.
[–]INTelliJentsia -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
My point is that it’s not impossible to focus on important things in life and and talk to a person. That is what I meant by saying I don’t sit around. I’m constantly moving around throughout my day and may or may not have my phone on me but I’m still able to find time to text because I make the time, one way or another.
[–]CheekyEmu 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The more you act entitled and demand that she text you back when you want, the more you'll push her away. You sound like you just want people to acknowledge that you're right in some insecure fight you're having with a girl about how much she texts you. Well sorry, you're wrong.
[–]INTelliJentsia -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]CheekyEmu 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If you're trying to win an argument about this, you already lost. Sorry bro.
[–]INTelliJentsia -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s ok, bro. I wasn’t aware I was arguing with the Great Cheeky Emu Guru, bro.
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