How to keep her interest for three weeks?

Wolfofiu · 2019-08-15T11:44:16+00:00

If she’s interested, she will communicate with you when she’s free. Texting should be for getting the date and only that. The only thing that happens when you text is you can come across as needy or say something that has no context and will be taken the wrong way because it’s a text message. Let her know to call you when she figures out her schedule and wants to have a good time. Go on living your life after. If she’s really interested she will begin to wonder why you aren’t talking and will fill it in with things that will draw attraction to you. Works for me

OrzhovPalatine · 2019-08-15T11:46:43+00:00

Over phone no. The phone is for setting up dates in the early phase nothing more.

Best thing you can do is remain radio silent until the next date. That way shes wondering about you, you kill the wonder if you text her.

PrsnPersuasion · 2019-08-15T15:56:20+00:00

It doesn’t matter if you’ve gone out once or how well things went. If she’s not willing to meet up within 2-3 days you’ll probably never see her again. This is true 99% of the time in my experience and a ton of other dudes on here say the same. If she’s decent looking or better than I guarantee she’s not “too busy” and she’s probably seeing other dudes and keeping you on the back burner. It’s called the Brad Pitt rule - if you were Brad Pitt, would she make time for you? Of fucking course. If a woman wants to be with you she’ll move heaven and earth to spend time with you and once you’ve experienced that you won’t put up with flaky bullshit ever again. It is NEARLY IMPOSSIBLE to “keep a girls interest” over text, whether that means not texting, texting sparsely or texting often. She has so many options that there’s simply no way to win because after a few days you just become another sausage in her messages list. Sorry but that’s the world we live in now. If you really are set on her then I would just let the conversation hang and see if she texts you back after a few days while you continue to pursue others. Either way you should move on, psychologically speaking. Put yourself in her shoes: What circumstances would possibly lead you to tell a girl in your city that you can’t meet up for another TWO WEEKS? It’s almost laughable when you think about it and a borderline shit test just to see how desperate you are. Honestly have some self-respect and just next her.

Title	How to keep her interest for three weeks?
Author	CheekyEmu
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	August 15, 2019 11:26 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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