I've never really been anti porn. I always thought it hurts my motivation to meet real girls a little bit, and would avoid it when I needed more motivation in real life. But last night I had a realization: porn makes us believe that women will have sex with someone like us without being seduced at all. Think about how all of these porn scenarios go. Guys just walk into these situations where women are basically begging to be fucked. This does happen sometimes in real life, but most of the time you have to put some effort into seducing someone before she's ready to have sex with you. Porn never really shows that. For me, I've noticed that I'm only ever having sex with the easy girls, the ones that are already begging to be fucked, and it's limiting my options. In the last three months there have been 3 HB 9s that I wanted to fuck. There was plenty of opportunity with all three of them, but I wasn't prepared to seduce them. I was basically obsessed with watching IOIs and waiting for them to give me what I wanted, but I didn't do anything to try to increase their attraction toward me, and ended up getting friend zoned hard by all three. I'm starting to believe that this is happening to me because porn gave me the wrong idea of how this works.

I started writing this post because I wanted to ask what other wrong beliefs you think we get from porn, but I'm also curious, other than this sub, where do you go to learn about the right way to seduce women? Are there any books or movies where it's done right? I don't mean PUA approach videos on YouTube, I mean something that really shows the process of seducing a woman you already know and increasing her attraction to you over time.