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| 2 | What’s the best way for me to ask out some girls in my match classes, and how do I be more sexual around them?I like your date plans! However, how would I ask her out if we meet in class? What is a good way to gauge her interest? | /r/seduction | 17/01/18 10:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you meet nerdy girls like gamer girls?I see. So what is the best way to meet them offline, and how do I seduce them and ask them out on a date? How would I build rapport and chemistry? | /r/seduction | 09/01/18 11:38 PM |
| 1 | How do you meet nerdy girls like gamer girls?What is the best way to meet them offline? | /r/seduction | 09/01/18 11:37 PM |
| 1 | How do you meet nerdy girls like gamer girls?I am not asking girls to play 4 hrs straight with me. Of course we will do other things together | /r/seduction | 09/01/18 11:35 PM |
| 1 | What are your experiences dating smart and educated women such as doctors and lawyers and scientists?I see. So if I meet some girls in class or social events, how do I seduce them and ask them out on a date? How would I build rapport and chemistry? | /r/seduction | 09/01/18 11:20 PM |
| 1 | What are your experiences dating smart and educated women such as doctors and lawyers and scientists?How did you meet the lawyer and other professional women? | /r/seduction | 09/01/18 11:19 PM |
| 1 | What are your experiences dating smart and educated women such as doctors and lawyers and scientists?I see. So if I meet some girls in class or social events, how do I seduce them and ask them out on a date? How would I build rapport and chemistry? | /r/seduction | 09/01/18 11:19 PM |
| 0 | I'm Todd Valentine... Ask Me Anything (AMA)Hi Todd, What advice do you have for a 20 year old college student who is still a virgin? What can I say when I meet a girl to gauge her interest and to ask her on a date? | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 10:04 PM |
| 1 | My (unsuccessful) attempts to pick up women are causing me to ditch my responsibilities and get bad grades.But I didn't ask anyone out in freshman year, yet it failed to work for me | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 04:13 AM |
| 1 | My (unsuccessful) attempts to pick up women are causing me to ditch my responsibilities and get bad grades.I understand. I just feel that college is the golden time to socialize and date women | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 04:13 AM |
| 0 | My (unsuccessful) attempts to pick up women are causing me to ditch my responsibilities and get bad grades.I do have friends in a coed frat. But they are busy and the girls there see me as a friend or are taken. I understand, and I do admit it. But, it's hard to be a 20 year old virgin who has tried but every woman he meets is uninterested or taken. I always viewed college as the golden social / dating opportunity. To join a frat (can't do that due toa low GPA) or to meet single women (hard after graduation) or to study abroad in Japan or countries in Europe (GPA too low for that too). I just want so… | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 04:10 AM |
| 0 | My (unsuccessful) attempts to pick up women are causing me to ditch my responsibilities and get bad grades.I understand, and I do admit it. But, it's hard to be a 20 year old virgin who has tried but every woman he meets is uninterested or taken. I always viewed college as the golden social / dating opportunity. To join a frat (can't do that due toa low GPA) or to meet single women (hard after graduation) or to study abroad in Japan or countries in Europe (GPA too low for that too). | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 04:07 AM |
| 0 | What am I doing wrong in approaching and flirting? Please be fully honest and critique me!"Hurrican Irma is bad. How would hurricane [girl's name] be?" I cringed. Don't use pick up lines, for the love of god. For every time they work, they fail a million. It's not a pickup line, but banter/teasing her. I'll give you my two cents. Forget about pick up lines. Forget about technique. Most of the time they won't work, and when they do it's a one-off chance that won't last too long. Then what does work? Also for the next part, I hear that people like to talk about themselves. You aren't a… | /r/seduction | 26/11/17 11:53 PM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong in approaching and flirting? Please be fully honest and critique me!I am. I just don't want people to think that I am only aiming for the VERY hot girls, which I am not. | /r/seduction | 26/11/17 11:35 PM |
| -1 | How do I stop getting hung up over girls who have boyfriends?____1____ I then pretended to “receive “ a phone call and walked out of the room. I got too attached and hung up over her. You have to do the work here. What do you mean by “work”? If you catch yourself starting to imagine some sort of future with them or being with them, before you even know them, you have to stomp that out. Yeah. That does happen. I actually did/do fantasize sex with her or traveling to NYC/other parts of the world. How? By reminding yourself of all the times this attitude has… | /r/seduction | 21/11/17 05:14 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop getting hung up over girls who have boyfriends?How do I “escalate “? | /r/seduction | 21/11/17 05:01 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop getting hung up over girls who have boyfriends?Will that help? How do I meet more women? | /r/seduction | 21/11/17 05:01 AM |
| 1 | How do I step my game up, stop being jealous/insecure, cure my gaming addiction and learn how to take women out on a date without shying away?By gaming lounge, I meant to say that people keep to themselves there and in classes and yoga. The hash run was your suggestion, which I stupidly left early, as shown later in this comment. As for the dancing, I will consider it, though there isn't a social dance club on campus. There is a hiphop dance team (female dominated) on campus. What do you think of it? I once tried out (got cut) but met women there. And how would I get into couchsurfing? I live in a dorm, and even in the holidays, my pa… | /r/seduction | 17/11/17 05:46 AM |
| 1 | How do I step my game up, stop being jealous/insecure, cure my gaming addiction and learn how to take women out on a date without shying away?I agree. I had cut my gaming in freshman year and sophomore year, and I use the gaming lounge to play consoles and games I don't own, and have been hooked on the new Call of Duty. I am in a coed fraternity, and was in a taekwondo and a community service clubs. However, I had to resign from the clubs since I have a long class during their meetings. Otherwise, I hang out with brothers or other acquaintances/friends if I get the chance. The girls in the frat either see me as a friend or have boyfri… | /r/seduction | 17/11/17 05:25 AM |
| 1 | How do I step my game up, stop being jealous/insecure, cure my gaming addiction and learn how to take women out on a date without shying away?I know gamers can and do get laid. Right after class, I do make conversation, and people leave or be with their friends and usually don't open up to others. If I do approach a girl, she will be kind but may not accept my plan for a date. I don't know if I approach in the right way And you're right. I am just afraid of getting blown off over a "hi" or not | /r/seduction | 17/11/17 05:13 AM |
| 1 | I am a 20 year old male, and I'm a virgin, never had a gf, never kissed, and have been rejected by many girls i've asked out, and I don't how how to ask out some girls I like :( Any advice please?How do I show them? And you're a foreigner. How did girls react to that? I know girls reacti differently to Australians or British compared to Indians or East Asians. And how CAN I attract a woman with "nothing"? Would it help if we're already friends/acquaintances who hug and initiated conversation with each other when we see each other? | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 06:41 AM |
| 1 | I am a 20 year old male, and I'm a virgin, never had a gf, never kissed, and have been rejected by many girls i've asked out, and I don't how how to ask out some girls I like :( Any advice please?I did have goals in freshman year of college (go to gym and lose weight, make friends, get good grades), but that hasn't helped me meet girls, as I was (and still am) a bit awkward around girls I am attracted to. | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 06:39 AM |
| 1 | I messaged a girl 2 days ago and she hasn't replied, but she hugs me in person. Why would she ignore my texts but hug and talk to me in person?I thought she’d reply quickly and not take this long | /r/seduction | 06/11/17 06:40 AM |
| 1 | I messaged a girl 2 days ago and she hasn't replied, but she hugs me in person. Why would she ignore my texts but hug and talk to me in person?Information on when and how to ask her out, and get a yes | /r/seduction | 06/11/17 06:40 AM |
| 1 | I messaged a girl 2 days ago and she hasn't replied, but she hugs me in person. Why would she ignore my texts but hug and talk to me in person?I thought some girls are bad testers and prefer talking in person. | /r/seduction | 06/11/17 06:39 AM |
| 1 | What are some interesting questions do you ask a girl when you’re on a date with her or when you are approaching her?I understand | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 06:53 AM |
| 1 | My game sucks and I tend to be desperate and a bit creepy. I don't know how to improve myself.I asked them to a cup of coffee. And I may have some girls too soon and too late after meeting them. What do you mean? Do you mean to avoid asking question after question (like an interview) and follow up based on what she says? Yeah, that does happen. I do end up getting nervous and she can see it. I thought the guy would initiate the date plans and coming back to his place. I guess I did turn them off. Thanks for your advice! | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 06:52 AM |
| 1 | What are some interesting questions do you ask a girl when you’re on a date with her or when you are approaching her?Is that ok to say to a stranger? Will that come off as creepy? | /r/seduction | 30/10/17 03:00 AM |
| 1 | What are some interesting questions do you ask a girl when you’re on a date with her or when you are approaching her?Is that acceptable to randomly approach girls on campus? Without giving you the PUA/desperate reputation? | /r/seduction | 30/10/17 03:00 AM |
| 1 | What are some interesting questions do you ask a girl when you’re on a date with her or when you are approaching her?What if my questions are basic (name, major, hometown)? I may ask about some club/sorority she is in? And how WOULD I flirt? | /r/seduction | 30/10/17 02:59 AM |
| 1 | I like 2 girls and I don’t know how to ask out either of them, and how to approach the second one.I could approach, then how would I ask her out? Especially if she's out of my league? | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 12:44 AM |
| 1 | How do you ask out a female friend you’ve known for a while and NOT ruin the friendship?Neither of us are 21 yet | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 09:58 PM |
| 1 | How do you ask out a female friend you’ve known for a while and NOT ruin the friendship?If I don’t run into her, how can I suggest it to her via Facebook? | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 09:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you ask out a female friend you’ve known for a while and NOT ruin the friendship?Neither of us are 21. | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 09:55 PM |
| 1 | I want to know if this approach is too direct or a perfect way to grab her attention.Why did you suggest to cut the Facebook and the “we hit it off” parts? I would do it in person and we rarely run into each other in person ? | /r/seduction | 08/10/17 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Girl says she is busy, but is still interested, how should I proceed?I do want to see her and she owes me a meal for helping her locate her textbook. I just wanted to know how to ask it without setting it on a day she may not be free | /r/seduction | 04/09/17 06:19 AM |
| 2 | Girl says she is busy, but is still interested, how should I proceed?I only asked because she promised me a meal for helping her and told me that we would meet again. What if I say let's do X on Y day, but she isn't into X activity and/or isn't free on Y day? | /r/seduction | 04/09/17 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Girl says she is busy, but is still interested, how should I proceed?It is just that she is taking a lot of college units and works full time, so she barely has free time. | /r/seduction | 04/09/17 06:14 AM |
| 2 | How would you ask out a girl on the final day of classes, especially if there is an exam that day?I don't want to ask before the test and get rejected, causing me to fail. One of us may end the exam before the other and will walk away. | /r/seduction | 30/08/17 08:06 PM |
| 1 | I really hate being a single virgin and its been eating me up, what should I do?What do you mean? I don't want to say political things that will scare or bore someone. | /r/seduction | 30/08/17 03:22 AM |
| 1 | I really hate being a single virgin and its been eating me up, what should I do?How old are you now, if you don't mind? | /r/seduction | 30/08/17 03:21 AM |
| 1 | I really hate being a single virgin and its been eating me up, what should I do?I usually say hi, then ask basic questions (I know, it sucks but am not sure what else to ask) like major, year. etc. I add in some teasing but it can be ill-timed or hurtful if I overdo it. I understand these questions are boring, but I see them as neutral icebreakers, esepcially if we don't know each other or don't have certain hobbies in common ( I like sports or gaming and she doesn't | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 07:18 PM |
| 2 | I really hate being a single virgin and its been eating me up, what should I do?I am 20. Is that young? | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 07:12 PM |
| 1 | I really hate being a single virgin and its been eating me up, what should I do?I did the gym/running/socializing yet I didn't meet anyone through it. I made acquaintances yet I do not know how to turn them into friends to hang out with. And some I lost contact with. | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 07:12 PM |
| 1 | I really hate being a single virgin and its been eating me up, what should I do?But I haven't had sex or a kiss either. I also feel that later on in college, cliques will solidify and some people won't even want a new friend in their group. | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 07:03 PM |
| 1 | I really hate being a single virgin and its been eating me up, what should I do?I understand it is desperation. I just want to know how to get rid of it. | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 06:58 PM |
| 1 | I really hate being a single virgin and its been eating me up, what should I do?I did. | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 06:58 PM |
| 1 | I really hate being a single virgin and its been eating me up, what should I do?I joined taekwondo and a service club. But most people there are men and the few women are taken. | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 06:54 PM |
| 2 | I'm a 20M virgin and am depressed, what can I do?I did put it out of my mind in freshman year and just live life, yet that did not work. | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 04:25 AM |
| 1 | I'm a 20M virgin and am depressed, what can I do?It's just that I have been approaching women more. Most I meet are in relationships (see their pics on social media), or aren't interested. I have gone to hobbies and started working out. Most clubs in my school consist of women in relationships or men. And most clubs are not that socially active nor are there opportunities to meet people past the first 2-3 weeks of school (a socially dead commuter school). | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 04:25 AM |
| 1 | I'm a 20M virgin and am depressed, what can I do?So, how would you prefer a stranger to approach you and your buddies while out? Will you get annoyed at him? | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 04:23 AM |
| 1 | I'm a 20M virgin and am depressed, what can I do?For bad looking, I am more .. average (I hit the gym). I get told that I look like a dark skin Mr. Bean (don't know if good or bad). | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 04:16 AM |
| 1 | I'm a 20M virgin and am depressed, what can I do?I do whine a lot, but most women I have started meeting are in relationships. I don't know what to do as a junior, where people have their friend groups/partners and may/may not be open to newcomers. And people will get busier with school. And I do agree about the social media part. | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 04:03 AM |
| 1 | I'm a 20M virgin and am depressed, what can I do?I do keep an eye out and talk to women in my classes and elsewhere. When I find them on social media, I find out that they are in relationships or they tell me/I see them with their boyfriends. | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 03:57 AM |
| 1 | I'm a 20M virgin and am depressed, what can I do?I do have a job that lets me work ... but it isn't enough to go to Europe or anywhere else. And if you have Aproach anxiety in the US, won't you have it elsewhere? | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 03:52 AM |
| 2 | I'm a 20M virgin and am depressed, what can I do?I tried Tinder ... didn't work. | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 03:49 AM |
| 1 | How can a junior-year college student get over approach anxiety and meet or learn to flirt with more women?There is a Starbucks, but I don't know how to meet women there. What should I do? | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 05:38 AM |
| 1 | How can a junior-year college student get over approach anxiety and meet or learn to flirt with more women?What about in class? Most people seem to not be interested in socializing unless they already know the person beforehand. | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 05:35 AM |
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