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Sounds like you had a real tantrum.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/24 07:12 AM
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I just chuckle and say ‘good question’.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/23 02:05 PM
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That behavior would be considered battery in some jurisdictions.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 05:57 AM
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Only 1/100 sugar babies 'never act on it'. The other 99 are DTF.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 12:17 AM
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If you haven't had a blood test, you can only guess at your t-level. See the sidebar at the Testosterone sub for tests needed. Also, you should eat more. 6' and 145lbs is underweight.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 09:06 AM
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Acute stresses force adaptation, however chronic stresses need a resolution.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 03:55 AM
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Harry: You always feel the need to act, to charge, and show such ardor as pushes you to take up all challenges. You prefer to launch out for you've confidence in your energy, your drive, your daring, and if necessary, even your nerve in order to extricate yourself from a difficult situation. But on the contrary, you may not sufficiently take obstacles into account for your reflection is not always equal to your dynamism: you offhandedly neglect the necessity to examine what's tempting you before…
/r/askTRP27/12/19 02:01 AM
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Starr rehab protocol.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 02:40 AM
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If they've had one surgery, they could have ten surgeries. Sometimes they become unrecognizable.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 05:54 AM
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Part of the relief needed is an injunction. Can't be done in small claims.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 06:07 AM
2

One girl's hobby was "makeup." If it went too long, she needed a break to reapply makeup mid-sex.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 07:41 PM
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He typo'd.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:32 AM
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Any asset not disclosed in the divorce remains subject to division post-divorce. If he hid those assets intentionally, wife could get them all. Wouldn't be difficult to discover.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 07:41 PM
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No-fault divorce. Its irrelevant. Financial abuse of a higher earner spouse to a lower earner, however is recognized.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 07:38 PM
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When I'm opposing counsel and this occurs, I regularly request additional temp spousal support, award of attorneys fees, and additional restraining orders to counteract the misuse of funds. These requests are usually granted when there is egregious conduct such as emptying a joint account. The 3x income disparity really makes this situation unpleasant for the higher earner who empties a joint account with a lower income spouse. He will lose freedom and negotiating power in the litigation. It wil…
/r/askTRP02/09/19 07:34 PM
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In addition to the underage issue, several states have revenge porn laws. For example, California Penal Code § 647(j)(4) – Cyber Exploitation aka Revenge Porn. Also, in many states the threat to distribute alone is sufficient cause to issue a domestic violence restraining order.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 04:04 PM
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I've seen similar, but why/how does Viagra effect ability to cum? 25 is optimal dose between effect and sensitivity?
/r/askTRP27/08/19 06:11 AM
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You should get a full panel, to include a number of relevant blood tests, not just T. See the /testosterone forum sidebar for a list of tests needed.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 06:09 AM
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When I did a MESA procedure last year, there was enough semen retrieved for 3 vial 'samples'. Enough to do 3 IVFs. We store the left over frozen embryos and semen with a long-term storage company. MESA is a surgery of the epidytimis. At time of fertilization they pick the single best shaped and speed (morphology and motility) sperm from the sample.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 05:25 PM
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Having just gone through a successful IVF with my wife, there are some costs to IVF beyond the financial. IVF requires the mother to be loaded up with a plethora of somewhat nasty drugs in the months before and after the fertilization. These include drugs such as Follistim, Menopur, Pregnal, etc. that have other uses in cancer patients, and heavy manipulation of the hormones estrogen and progesterone. While this is mostly the mother's burden, there is an effect on everyone in the household. Ther…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 04:45 PM
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If it is too late for a prenup, do a post-nup. A few more limitations, but same purpose.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/19 06:50 AM
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What prompted you to ask her about her divorcing, at coffee? I made a similar error at one time, when a married lady asked me if I wanted her 'seriously' or just as 'sex friends'. I thought she would expect the serious answer, so I gave that answer, then later she told her husband "there's somebody else I love!"
/r/askTRP06/01/19 06:06 AM
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I acknowledge that there is a general perception that prenup's are thrown out at a 'judge's discretion.' In reality, when a prenup is invalidated, it is because it does not conform to state statute or case law. A well-drafted prenup will address those issues (failure to follow the formalities of drafting, no lack of consideration, no unconscionable agreement, etc.), and include a severability clause that states that the parties agree that if any provision is found invalid, the rest of the agreem…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 07:41 AM
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The statement that prenups are useless is incorrect. A prenup that meets the state's procedural and substantive requirements is the strongest protection available.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 03:33 AM
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Probably. The variable you can control is the number of hours of use.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 06:51 PM
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I experienced more girth than length gains. The stretch applies force across the entire section of the corpus cavernosa.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 05:29 PM
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The progressive stretch causes micro-tears in the corpus cavernosa, which heal resulting in tissue increase.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 04:25 PM
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Andro-penis or JES extender will increase girth over time.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 05:43 AM
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Intramuscular injections every 3.5 days. Complete labs to measure free and total test, E2, PSA, bloods, thryroid, LH/FSH. See the wiki on /testosterone.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:19 PM
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Thanks all.
/r/askMRP17/10/18 03:48 AM
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First pregnancy for her, yes. I have children from a previous marriage. Didn't see this kind of thing before.
/r/askMRP16/10/18 05:46 PM
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You can never change your partner.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 06:10 PM
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Defending yourself in a serious manner from blatantly wrong characterizations is not effective, because of the natural tendency of others to believe that you "protest too much" (Hamlet: "The lady doth protest too much, methinks", Shakespeare). You'll need to find a more clever solution.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 06:56 PM
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I had this experience that the sex and connection was so good with a married woman, that I contemplated her as a long-term partner. However intense it was and affected your psychology, a sexual bonding experience is just not enough when a successful LTR requires a host of other non-sexual traits.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 02:51 PM
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Any fabric but cotton which retains water.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 07:10 PM
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Squats are better for training CNS, balance and coordination, muscular growth, and skeletal loading and bone density improvement.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 11:11 PM
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There are no repercussions in court for cheating. No fault divorce. Mom needs her own attorney.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 07:33 AM
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Unfortunately you've got some wrong legal advice. (1) The statement that joint custody equals no child support is plainly wrong. The guideline child support amount is determined by a calculation that factors the custody timeshare and both parents' incomes. Although custody time affects the support order and you should consider maximizing your custody timeshare if you can, the most powerful factor in the calculation is the relative income level of the two parents. For this reason, the higher-earn…
/r/askTRP23/07/17 12:02 AM
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LTR at age 14? wow.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 07:41 AM
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Steven Pinker's: -How the Mind Works -The Blank Slate
/r/askTRP10/07/17 11:24 PM
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Yes, but even in those contexts the temper has to be directed toward a business result.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 03:58 PM
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Email or text encourages persons to lie in a composed manner. The red flag you described as 'too descriptive' could be that way because LTR had time to compose its words too carefully. Anyway, the important issue isn't the chat, its your decision.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 08:25 AM
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Legal options? You could sue for negligence, and depending on your emotional distress, IIED. From LegalMatch: Negligence Negligence is conduct which falls below the standard of care. In contracting a sexually transmitted disease, a main issue in proving negligence is the existence of a duty. A legal duty is an obligation, the performance of which is required by law. Courts have recognized the duty of sexual partners not to spread infection carelessly. The failure to obtain diagnosis and treatmen…
/r/askTRP26/06/17 08:41 AM
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Certain bass frequencies will be felt more than heard. It could be physically and mentally disconcerting to hear certain frequencies but only feel others, or experience vibrations through the wall. There are some youtube demos of this.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 09:38 PM
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Pavlonian conditioning may be needed. Aim a large bass speaker at their unit and play a Dolby bass test mp3.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 09:20 PM
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Agree with the strategy, but... Legally, a letter from an attorney representing OP might safely be ignored, as OP does not have a cause of action for any damage to Gf's reputation. (Gf would have to be the plaintiff). For strongest impact, the letter must come from an attorney representing Gf.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 09:10 PM
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You can request 50/50 custody. As soon as the child is born, file for a custody order.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 07:41 PM
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Even with a high tax rate, investing is still the right play.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 12:09 AM
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My interpretation of the hand slap 'incident': Melania was lagging behind. Trump offered to hand to help Melania catch up. Melania touched Trump's hand to signal she caught up. She kept both their hands free so they could greet the others together.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 02:49 PM
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Compared to men, physical appearance in women more directly expresses a view of her fertility potential. Each egg that a women produces each month is of lesser quality that the last. Being able to assess the fertility of a female partner is naturally selected in a population, while the same is less true of men as if they keep themselves in good health they can continue to father children into old age (albeit with a higher rate of mutations). This difference is genetic, and expressed in embryolog…
/r/askTRP29/05/17 05:20 PM
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Which state? I don't agree with the legal assessment that you will lose your boys. You request an order that the boys stay in their current county, or within the neighboring counties.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 04:14 PM
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To discourage a false criminal complaint, yes. Police could be informed of the existence of a recording before making an arrest; although reviewing the recording would be at police's discretion. For general evidence gathering, or for any matter related to child custody, no. There would be various objections and motions to exclude, and the court is not in favor of admitting such evidence absent a criminal issue. I think you would also get an affidavit from the other side that they did not give th…
/r/askTRP22/05/17 03:15 PM
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Audio recordings are not recommended in California, which is a 2-party state. Useful legal tools will be a Gavron Warning, and a Seek Work Order.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 09:53 PM
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Great. Just hope you know the mechanism for bone gain is not 'stretching to accommodate muscle', but stress, recovery, and adaptation of the bone itself.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 09:08 PM
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Lifting everyday is not structured training, it is merely exercise. 48-72 hours recovery time is required depending on workload and level of training advancement.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 06:54 AM
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From 1940-1944 Germany occupied France. The French women adapted quickly. In 1942 there were 200,000 Franco-German births, 30% illegitimate. See the book 1940 - 1945: Erotic Years by historian Patrick Buisson.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 04:13 AM
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Agree with chiropractor recommendation.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 01:40 AM
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One thing to understand -- the median life expectancy for a particular diagnosis is a statistic to be taken with a grain of salt. The patient has some influence here. Continuing good habits and medical treatment can prolong quality and quantity of life. See the Steven Jay Gould essay on this subject: https://people.umass.edu/biep540w/pdf/Stephen%20Jay%20Gould.pdf
/r/askTRP29/04/17 01:57 AM
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The best time to divorce for a man financially is when you 'have not got much income or assets'.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 03:49 PM
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Isn't the real problem here that she found her way to another man's apartment hours after you canceled a date?
/r/askTRP13/04/17 08:40 PM
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Post this same question to /legaladvice.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 02:47 PM
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Paternity testing in France is not banned, but must be court-authorized. 'At-will' paternity testing is disallowed. This policy is called 'keep the peace'. In a paternity dispute, you would request the court to order a paternity test. If your wife had a child, and you doubted paternity, you would need to engage in litigation with her so you could request a court order re paternity test, following whatever timelines or requirements as needed under French law. Thus, this policy encourages litigati…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 05:45 PM
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Sometimes divorce cases taken years, and a spouse dies during a marital dissolution proceeding. In California, this can mean the divorcing spouse takes the other's community property share or life insurance proceeds. (Another reason not to draw out a divorce case).
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 04:35 PM
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Gaining weight and getting stronger will make the job less of a stress. This is because each physical movement will be less of a cumulative stress. Why so much stretching? I suspect this is unnecessary. Stretching before activity has been shown to reduce muscular performance.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 05:35 AM
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Salsa for combination of music, rhythm, modern leads, and ability to customize your own lead pattern. On the music side, there is salsa dura (such as Tito Puente, Ray Barreto, Roberto Roena, Spanish Harlem Orchestra, Richie Ray Bobby Cruz, etc.) which has jazzy compositions, amazing for listening and learning shines (footwork) which you can incorporate into social dance. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FyMxu7x0fxc https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RH30R89KKA0 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8zFgtq…
/r/askTRP25/03/17 08:22 PM
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The flight or fight response comes to our biology from millions of years of natural selection, during which hominids were predated by leopards, cougars, tigers, chimps, eagles, and other predators. The anxiousness we have continues strongly in the modern world, because our ancestors who were not anxious were eaten. In the modern world, with its many interactions and stimuli, we need to retrain the brain to reduce our anxiety. Start telling yourself the confrontation is not a life threatening tig…
/r/askTRP25/03/17 03:57 AM
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Trickle truth. But also, women want to share 'positive news' in their life. He's important enough to qualify as 'positive news'.
/r/askTRP18/03/17 06:34 PM
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Lifting does generate hormonal changes. Specifically, there is a spike in cortisol during the stress stage (Selye's syndrome) which is normalized during the recovery phase. If, however, you are doing inappropriate volume, or an inappropriate program, you may not be recovering and/or supercompensating. One measurable test of recovery is to track resting heart rate, as it changes through the recovery phase.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 07:40 AM
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told her that if she ignores that I will let her current boyfriend know Careful, this is extortion, a felony. Edit: dumb motherfuckers. Just unbelievably stupid.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 12:49 AM
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Forget all the past. It is already done. You will be happier if you live in the present. Make proper decisions now and going forward.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 07:09 PM
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There are two factors in recovery, one is food and the other is sleep. Sleep is not unimportant as is being implied here. But the proper macros of high quality food is the more important of the two recovery factors.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 06:55 AM
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I'd avoid "How would you feel...". (Soliciting her feelings, which may not align with your standards.) Better to make your own brief and clear statement on the issue, and ask if she agrees. You take ownership of your own standard. Then you either have agreement or not.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 01:13 AM
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A good rule of thumb is to complete the Novice linear progression -- the 'easy' gains. Once completing the Novice progression (workout to workout progression) you move to Intermediate weekly progression. However, I believe I read in Practical Programming for Strength Training, it said this is also an appropriate time for hypertrophy; however, if you are not training for strength you will be periodically bouncing back to the Novice area (where you lose some amounts of strength and can again do a …
/r/askTRP28/02/17 07:17 AM
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Here is one more scenario. You give friend $20,000. Friends repays you $20,400. Friend's father discovers the lie, and sues you and friend jointly for fraud in amount of $20,000. Father obtains a judgment, but chooses to collects the judgment directly from you (he can do that). You lose at least $19,600, plus attorney's fees. You have a judgment on your credit report for $20,000. Criminal side: Father reports the fraud to law enforcement. You are charged and may be convicted of fraud, and/or the…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 10:02 PM
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Knowing the facts, neither lawyer will accept being involved with this contract. This is fraud, because it is intentionally misleads friend's dad to confer a benefit to friend.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 09:58 PM
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Extend the entire back from the tail bone to the upper spine. Keep the neck and head in line with the spine. The lower back is extended as a result. Hold that. Do the eccentric (lowering) movement quickly.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 04:58 AM
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There is a proper weight that can be lifted by an untrained individual. This is discussed in Practical Programming for Strength Training, which was co-authored by Lon Kilgore, Ph.D. Anatomy and Physiology, Kansas State. Each year, there is a review of the year's current medical literature and exercise studies posted on the Starting Strength forum, authored by medical doctor Jonathan Sullivan. Both of these individuals, in addition to being trained, educated in science, are lifters themselves. Mo…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 03:02 AM
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There is a proper weight that can be lifted by an untrained individual. This is discussed in Practical Programming for Strength Training, which was co-authored by Lon Kilgore, Ph.D. Anatomy and Physiology, Kansas State. Each year, there is a review of the year's current medical literature and studies posted on the Starting Strength forum, by medical doctor Jonathan Sullivan. Both of these individuals, in addition to be trained, educated in science, are lifters themselves. Most of the persons inv…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 02:51 AM
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Why would you take advice about barbell lifting from someone with no experience -- like a physical therapist? This is spreading misinformation.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 02:30 AM
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I edited my response to make it more general. Whether a person has a medical condition or not is a question that can be answered by science. I think you might agree with me that the reason you're getting negative feedback is that you made an assumption that was not presented as scientific. Scientists do make assumptions, but they identify them as part of an overall argument.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 12:26 AM
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There are plenty of people with depression who get out of bed every day. Many of them go to work, and appear, at least to others, to function normally. The information presented in this thread does not allow a diagnosis, but there is no necessary reason to state a lack of depression based on the available information, even if we accept that some other depressive persons are unable to function properly.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 08:46 PM
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How were you able to make a diagnosis over the Internet?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 09:12 AM
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Also, testing may reveal presence of an asymptomatic infection.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 05:39 PM
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Several infections pass without fluid exchange, by contacting skin in and around the genital, groin, abdomen, and upper thighs. One partial protection is to evaluate yourself for a time period (for any transmitted infection to show) after a new sexual partner before acquiring another.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 05:20 PM
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Just saw video of a Peruvian woman breast feeding a piglet on live TV. Camera man panned away as fast as he could.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 06:25 AM
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There is no guarantee a vasectomy is reversible, and the chance for a successful reversal is decreased (and not linearly) with time. Also, some modern procedures, which increase the safety and effectiveness of the vasectomy (such as cauterization of the ends of the vas deferens) will make reversal more difficult. If you contemplate a reversal, discuss that with the surgeon prior to vasectomy.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 01:32 AM
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With a vasectomy, if you later decide you want a biological child, you are most likely limited to IVF with a TESE procedure (sperm extracted from the testicle). Insurance may cover a portion of this if you have a good plan, otherwise budget $15,000 per cycle (at current dollars in my area).
/r/askTRP10/02/17 01:23 AM
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With a fused growth plate, there does not seem to be a physical mechanism that can cause a vertical increase in height. Even with the presence of IGF and growth hormone, or a pituitary malfunction, a height increase would not occur since the bones are no longer lengthening. Then what other physical process can make a person permanently taller if the bones are not lengthening? Did a radiologist examine your growth plate?
/r/askTRP10/02/17 01:07 AM
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Going to 10% body fat will make this problem worse not better. Gain muscular mass, the problem will sort itself out.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 10:57 PM
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If you have been married only 2 years, now is the time to divorce. If you delay and extend the length of the marriage, you incur the risk of bearing children with this woman, and the risk of spousal support liability that comes from a longer marriage. Divorcing now avoids all the historical problems of your current relationship, allowing you a fresh start.
/r/askMRP07/02/17 08:00 PM
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Squirting is female urination. To make your wife squirt, cause her to drink a lot of water.
/r/askMRP05/02/17 05:19 PM
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Andro Penis and most well-built extenders like it (JES, ...) are effective. They work by inducing micro-tears in the corpus cavernosum by means of a progressive stretch tension. These tissues rebuild, resulting in a larger volume of this area over time. Affects length and girth. Designated as a Class 1 medical device in Europe and Canada; there are clinical studies on their site.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 05:27 AM
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Physically speaking, lifting, recommended here, raises testosterone. All other things being equal. However, if there is a low testosterone problem in the body, lifting may not be enough to solve it physically. Particularly so with age-related decreases, as the amount raised T level from exercise decreases with increased age. There are a number of other physical factors including diet; and there are T injections for those with measured low T.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 08:02 AM
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Make a limited-time offer to settle the dispute for $45 plus debit card. If not accepted, small claims, where you sue for $45 plus amount lost debit card replacement, plus filing fee. Brother could pay out $75-100 or more in that scenario. Might motivate settlement.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 01:17 AM
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Interesting. Thanks.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 06:26 PM
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Can you describe a little how your earning income benefits a LTR. How do you view finances in that situation? (One reason I ask is I had an ex wife who made money, but who spent her entire earnings in wasteful ways, without savings or budgeting, while making rare and minimal contributions to our lifestyle. In that situation, her income in addition to mine was a liability at tax time, and she would always complain about paying a portion of our estimated tax since she had already earmarked that mo…
/r/askTRP18/01/17 05:09 PM
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Small sample size; could be an uneven distribution of flakes. But online has more flakes. Try in person.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 04:51 PM
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Whores love math, especially algebra. In the US, rose is a constant equal to $100. Solving: 4 roses (❀❀❀❀) = $400. 2.5 roses = $250.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 11:33 PM
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I understand the viewpoint. In what way (what legal effect) was ex rewarded by claiming abuse? Since family law cases are tried by judges, not juries, there is sometimes a tendency for the judge to admit evidence (absent proper objection), and then ignore it (judge seeing themselves as an enlightened jurist who has the ample training to overlook irrelevant evidence). Thus I'm curious if admitting the evidence could be definitely shown to be a cause of a specific outcome. Generally we can rebut e…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 09:52 PM
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There are very effective legal tools in the evidence code and family code to counter false statements; most represented parties will not be advised to make such statements because of the possibility of serious consequences and legal countermeasures. California has case law which addresses false accusations; the consequences are very seriously legally which can include the ability to strike a judgment based on false evidence, and an award of attorney's fees. Because other attorneys are aware of t…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 08:12 PM
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The rules around spousal support waiver vary greatly by state, and most states that permit it include very specific requirements (in addition to the usual formalities of prenups). For example, in California, a spousal support waiver will only be considered enforceable if a) both parties had independent legal counsel who evaluated the provision at the time of signing and b) the agreement is not unconscionable at the time of enforcement. The second requirement is tough to say the least, as nobody …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 04:44 PM
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Beside the point, which is to not make your own party statements.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 04:32 PM
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A validly constructed prenup could have helped. Prenups can address property distribution, and which systems of property are used to hold or accrue property. For example, the pension may have been identified as an asset which would remain husband's separate property and where wife would accrue no interest. In some states, prenups can contain a waiver of spousal support, but there are more formalities to observe.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 03:28 PM
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Yes, what you have to remember in divorce is that any statements you make are all admissible as party statements. Best is to say nothing.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 03:21 PM
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Even with no fault divorce, there are states with statutes that operate to prevent an award of alimony against a spouse who was physically abused by the other. However, these are generally only cases of documented domestic violence, and it would be the burden of the payor to raise affirmatively the issue of abuse. In the second situation, the underlying test is whether wife is self-supporting. For example, in California, judges issuing a permanent spousal support order must statutorily consider …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 03:18 PM
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Agree with Rommel, also consider the situation where at start of the marriage there aren't many assets. Man decides not to spend the not insignificant attorneys' fees (and each party must have independent counsel to fulfill a formality of prenups which later can affect validity) because he lacks significant assets to protect at the onset of the marriage. Thus the decision to implement a prenup involves a prediction about the future. Always consider the probability that due to your efforts over a…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 03:04 PM
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The mutual email exchanges between Podesta and StratFor are relevant both to child sexual abuse and public money informant-bribery issues. One of the Podesta-StratFor email exchanges is the May 14, 2009, 2:30PM email from Fred Burton at StratFor concerning the expenditure of $65,000 that was spent on pizza and hot dogs from Chicago to DC, and inquiring whether the same channels would again be used. These words were used as code, respectively, for girl and boy child sex acts.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:04 AM
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Declassified re Clinton and Clinton Foundation. https://vault.fbi.gov/hillary-r.-clinton The recovery of a top secret thumb drive will allow an indictment for espionage. Investigations continue, including related to Podesta, Clinton, Alefantis, Abedin, Weiner, and the Clinton Foundation. Today's declassified email reveal the broad scope of the investigation with over 1,000 email accounts. Also declassified that Abedin has been herself under a criminal investigation, which includes investigation …
/r/askTRP09/01/17 05:53 AM
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CVD is not the only cause of ED.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 09:26 PM
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Do not see how how the planning fallacy is incompatible with stoicism.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 04:53 AM
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Anti-fragility and uncertainty. See the Incerto series by Nassim Taleb: --Fooled by Randomness: The Hidden Role of Chance in Life and in the Markets. 2nd ed., 2005. --The Black Swan: The Impact of the Highly Improbable. 2007. ISBN 978-1-4000-6351-2. expanded 2nd ed, 2010 --The Bed of Procrustes: Philosophical and Practical Aphorisms. Random House. 2010. ISBN 978-1-4000-6997-2. --Antifragile: Things That Gain from Disorder. New York: Random House. 2012. ISBN 978-1-4000-6782-4.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 04:39 AM
1

And really, fucking the same gender doesn't really hurt anybody. Good analysis. Don't mean to quibble, but there is greater disease transmission.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 06:16 AM
1

Agree. Some genes may be expressed through T during puberty. Also interactions with growth hormones.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 06:07 AM
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Agreed. I find the singular focus on current testosterone level too simplistic. What's more: More than 100 different genetic, sexual differences have been identified in skeletal muscle alone (http://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0001385#s2). For example, one isoform of GRB10, which suppresses growth in skeletal muscle, is expressed from the maternal allele alone. There are nearly 30 genes that show paternal or materal allele-specific expression (http://hmg.oxfordjourn…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 05:55 AM
1

Well said.
/r/MensRights07/01/17 05:42 AM
1

Spousal support (other than temporary) is not formulaic, and neither is custody. California: permanent spousal support is based on 14 non-formulaic factors requiring analysis: https://leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/codes_displaySection.xhtml?sectionNum=4320.&lawCode=FAM Custody is not at all formulaic.
/r/MensRights07/01/17 05:28 AM
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What you advised was illegal. Several attorneys have told you this. If I see you advising illegal things again, I will forward your unauthorized practice of law to the state bar, along with all publications of it, which I have archived. Each instance is a misdemeanor punishable by a fine of up to one thousand dollars ($1,000), up to one (1) year in county jail, or both. You are giving very bad and illegal advice which can harm people.
/r/MensRights06/01/17 10:07 AM
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He's not an attorney. He said he's a corporate lawyer for 20 years. But he could not name a legal principle of corporate law, a recent case, or describe in his own words a holding. Plus he does not write or comment like an attorney, has unnatural antagonism to his 'own profession'. So fake.
/r/MensRights06/01/17 08:52 AM
0

He's not a lawyer. He's lying everywhere.
/r/MensRights06/01/17 08:49 AM
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He spammed the same bad advice to a number of other forums and numerous attorneys and intelligent persons have rejected this terrible advice. He then went on to lie and say he's a corporate attorney. Delusional person.
/r/MensRights06/01/17 08:47 AM
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This guy is pathetic. Several of the things advocated are obviously and patently illegal. Moreover, they are bad legal strategy in every sense. I know where these thoughts originate, and it is not legal thought, it is from the frustrated dads who were too cheap to hire an attorney, represented themselves pro se, and got a bad result -- then blame the system -- because 'none of it is their fault'. There is not a chance in hell any attorney in the U.S., in any field of law, wrote ANY of this. If a…
/r/MensRights06/01/17 08:46 AM
1

State a legal principle of corporations law and mention a recent case and describe the holding.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 11:01 PM
2

Just admit the truth. You're not an attorney.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 08:35 PM
1

You advocated violating court orders several times. See above. How is the reader to know which of your statements advocating illegal action is merely 'hyperbole'.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 08:09 PM
1

There are definite costs, and the need for an evaluation should be decided on a case by case basis. Major decision is whether the evaluator should be your expert, or a court-appointed expert. Some attorneys myself included, believe that more weight is given to court-appointed experts, since there is less potential for bias.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 08:07 PM
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As myself and several other attorneys on this thread point out, you advocated several illegal and unethical things. This was one of your pieces of advice: "In that case, I would suggest you get plastic surgery in Brazil and fall of the grid completely." Do you not understand that Family Code section 4400-4405 codifies the need to support one's child? What you are advising is illegal and it is advice on how to avoid a pre-existing legal duty. This is illegal. This is unethical and against Califor…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 07:59 PM
1

Yes, a major focus of a higher-earner spouse case should be a vocational evaluation into a seek work order, into a request for income imputation. Sometimes by the time you do the first two steps, the need for the third step is obviated as wife under pressure suddenly gets a good job, and then stipulates to her current income.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 07:22 PM
1

There is room in family law for defensive strategies. Not these ones.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 07:18 PM
0

There is room for defensive strategies in family law. But these are just wrong, both strategically and legally.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 07:11 PM
1

Not only your state. Almost every U.S. state does this. (Another reason why OP's advice - that identifies none of the numerous serious risks of these 'strategies' - is so poor).
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 06:58 PM
2

I did not make this clear, but generally, and more commonly these tools are used by the higher-earning spouse spouse to decrease the amount support paid to the lower-earning spouse. The goal in such cases is to get the lower-earning spouse to stipulate to, or be imputed income at actual earning potential -- despite having been traditionally underemployed. In many cases a logical prerequisite for a seek work order is a court-ordered vocational evaluation. However, in the OP's scenario where the h…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 06:52 PM
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I was polite in my initial reply, but this guy is pathetic. Several of the things advocated are obviously and patently illegal. Moreover, they are bad legal strategy in every sense. I know where these thoughts originate, and it is not legal thought, it is from the frustrated dads from dad divorce forums who were too cheap to hire an attorney, represented themselves pro se, and got a bad result -- then blame the system -- because 'none of it is their fault'. There is not a chance in hell any atto…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 06:40 PM
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California family law attorney. I don't think a lawyer wrote any of this. Brief comments: Leave of absence. Your income may be averaged based on your last regular full-time earnings over the previous 6 months of full-time employment. The support order will be made based on the prior earned amount. Taking a leave based on depression or mental illness: becomes part of your employment record. There are some reasons why if you are changing your income, this should be done at least 9-12 months before…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 07:18 AM
1

Great, that may be a more effective training program. While there are differences of opinion between body building and traditional strength training, both sides will agree with the importance of compound movements and linear increases, with an appropriate balance of stress and recovery, to see performance increases (supercompensation).
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 07:18 PM
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Health benefits over the long term will be tendinitis, arthritis, an increase in inflammation and increased cortisol in the bloodstream, increased stress, poorer sleep, heavy DOMS from all the high volume eccentric movements. Also an eventual need for a back adjustment or surgery re the sit ups. Also, a low efficacy compared to traditional, properly linear training methods. What on earth is the training goal of this challenge?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 07:44 AM
1

Another consideration. Goes to the point, vasectomy is not a commodity medical procedure.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 07:34 AM
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The effects of cauterization errors are more than pregnancy: One problem is the formation of sperm granuloma which occur in about 60% of patients if sperm leaks from the vasectomy site or from a rupture in the epididymis. There is an inflammatory reaction around the site of the leaks. A benign malignant growth known as Vasitis Nodosum forms toward the vas deferens as the granuloma progresses. This growth could then join with the distal vas allowing sperm to flow, causing vasectomy failure. Subse…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 05:49 AM
1

We may have to agree to disagree on the medical skills required to perform a vasectomy, and the costs associated. Let me clarify and provide some sources: Doctors administer a local anesthetic (¹). There are a variety of accepted techniques (¹,²). There are complications related to improper cauterization (¹,²). The issue with saying 'any Asian doctor or old man can do the job', is that there are complications from vasectomy. When a medical procedure such as vasectomy is already cost-effective an…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 05:25 AM
1

Not all vasectomies are created equal. Differences in: quality and skill of anaesthia quality of cut and technique cauterization technique lab testing for zero sperm
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 02:02 AM
1

Greater than 7.5 hours sleep per night is associated with a higher rate of mortality in all subjects, irrespective of other factors. Therefore, 8-9 hours are excessive sleep. However, you would like to sleep 7.5 hours (5 sleep cycles). Sleep is divided into cycles of 1.5 hours. Perhaps you are waking from your last cycle because of a change in body temperature. Try increasing your clothing or blankets, or adjust the room temperature. Some studies have shown that a warmer temperature is associate…
/r/askTRP31/12/16 06:59 AM
1

While it is true that women have more biological investment into reproduction, the effort that men make is not unsubstantial. Men must produce millions of sperm in order for a single sperm to have a reasonable chance of impregnating a female. These sperms must have good shape and motility to permeate the egg. Therefore, while we should expect men to be less sexually selective than woman, a man still needs to consider whether the energy (food, resources) he used to produce his sperm is worth usin…
/r/askTRP31/12/16 06:49 AM
1

I had this problem before. First douse the flames with water. Then flip it over, use your mom's hair dryer to dry it out.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 06:34 AM
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Printing out screen shots? This is woman's behavior. Don't do this.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:54 PM
2

Short girls are insecure, and do strange things to over-compensate.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 04:21 PM
1

Unnecessary distinction. But re: Braverman: related to his Clinton Foundation employment.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 04:02 PM
1

Assange and Braverman are witnesses under FBI protection in an expanded investigation of the Clinton Foundation.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 07:12 AM
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In Dawkin's Selfish Gene, adopting a child is a 'genetic misfire'. There are parental genes for supporting actual biological offspring. The degree of relatedness between a mother or father and their biological offspring is 1/2, and there is a genetic selfishness for altruism between genetically alike individuals. When these genes are activated for a child that is completely genetically unrelated, that is considered a genetic misfire, because the genes will never be reproduced in that manner. How…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 04:51 PM
2

That's not lactic acid buildup. I would go to a Fleet Feet or other professional running shop, and ask nicely if they will help fix your technique.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 01:57 AM
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Quality of selecting an attorney is key. For your side, you want an Avvo.com 10/10 rated family law attorney with a family-law specialization, if that is offered by the state bar in your state. In California, this is a Certified Family Law specialist, which requires a certain amount of family law cases over some years time period and a challenging exam on family law. Personally, I selected an attorney who had the Certified Family Law specialist title and the additional designation of Super Lawye…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 03:47 PM
1

There's Finasteride and Rogaine too.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 06:16 PM
1

I hear you. One better surgeon is 14-15k for a 3000-3200 hair graft.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 06:08 PM
1

I know a good hair restoration surgeon.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 05:47 PM
3

Costco's 24hr Fitness All Sport membership is $399.99 including tax for 2 years which is $16.66 per month. Otherwise, the best equipment for home is a power rack (I installed the Rogue R3) that has a wide variety of adjustable safety levels so that in addition to squat it can handle bench press, as well as partial deadlift exercises such as rack pulls. The most stable installation for the home is a double plywood and horse mat lifting surface, and on Rogues' rack there are eight long bolts that …
/r/askTRP06/12/16 05:37 PM
1

Don't own a TV. Who is Alex Jones?
/r/askTRP06/12/16 02:40 AM
1

Declassified re Clinton and Clinton Foundation. https://vault.fbi.gov/hillary-r.-clinton The recovery of a top secret thumb drive will allow an indictment for espionage. Investigations continue, including related to Podesta, Clinton, Alefantis, Abedin, Weiner, and the Clinton Foundation. Also declassified that Abedin has been herself under a criminal investigation.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 02:12 AM
1

I can find the excavation image from jimmycomet with a 1 second Google search.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 01:49 AM
1

Assure you there is.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 01:46 AM
1

There are at least 114 emails between Podesta and StratFor. See: https://file.wikileaks.org/file/podesta-emails/
/r/askTRP06/12/16 01:28 AM
1

The collateral has not been disavowed, perhaps because Alefantis is represented by a criminal attorney and that would be a party statement in an ongoing criminal-judicial investigation. The pedophilia code language, and the underlying behavior it refers to, as used in the Podesta emails is a larger issue. Even if Comet would not be a physical site, we need to explain why we see code language in the thousands of Podesta emails. At issue is adult or child prostitution and fraud (expenditure of pub…
/r/askTRP06/12/16 01:19 AM
1

StratFor has a long history, and they are not a computer firm, but a private intelligence firm. It would be inaccurate to describe them as a private company with no connections to government, since their primary business intelligence gathering has relied on close government relationships since their inception. StratFor's content in Wikileads spans the period 2012-present. For the connections between Podesta, government and StratFor, see the Wikileaks Podesta email archive. This is downloadable f…
/r/askTRP06/12/16 12:50 AM
1

Yes, the pedophile symbols used by Comet and Besta were clearly displayed (and can be compared to the unclassified FBI memo of pedophile symbols), just as the Instagram content from jimmycomet and the related comments were available to all his followers prior to their deletion on November 7, 2016 after they were downloaded and publicized on November 5. The photos are publicly available on the Internet, and you may be able to find them yourself. The physical store fronts containing the logos have…
/r/askTRP05/12/16 08:29 AM
1

The code is used in hundreds of Wikileak emails. See wikileaks.com. The Instagram posts are archived, backed up, and documented. I haven't made any contentions unsupported by the evidence. Also note that there is an independent investigation by the FBI into the Clinton Foundation, which may intersect. 300 pages have been declassified. There's evidence sufficient for espionage indictment re a top secret thumb drive.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 07:25 AM
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The story is more broad than Comet Pizza, even though its owner James Alefantis' Instagram contained prior to November 7th, 2016 pizza porn, men women and children in 69 position on pizza, toddlers being restrained, sexual discussion of infants, kill rooms, and commentary regarding the above. There are also use of symbols, identified in FBI as pedophile symbols on a number of the related pizza restaurants. Here is the FBI memo which details symbols matching logos used by Comet Pizza, Besta Pizza…
/r/askTRP05/12/16 03:33 AM
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Pizzagate started after we read Podesta's emails on Wikileaks. The emails contained pizza and food related code words.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 06:39 AM
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Being discharged from a hospital's main wing, I was all ready to go, just needed my discharge medication. Asked the head nurse for help, she blew me off. Okay, no problem I'll just ask someone else. Asked another nurse, and the head nurse noticed this, took it as a great personal offense that I skirted her authority, and called security and had me escorted out. Walked straight next door into the ER. The head of the ER calls the head nurse and gives her a verbal beat down. Back to the main wing o…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 07:07 PM
2

My interpretation is real kids. He says it is working that they 'grow up in a better environment at least half the time.'
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 07:13 PM
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I would not attempt to fix what has already occurred by calling out your boss. That is a career-limiting move, with respect to all the managers in the company. The most you can do is to mention to boss privately, and without direct blame, that you would like credit for your work. But you could take a lesson from this situation. When you distribute your next presentation or have it reviewed, could you make the distribution more visible so that it would be clear you are the author. Are there any c…
/r/askTRP24/11/16 05:13 PM
2

The strength training community maintains there should not be any difference (visual or mechanical) between form on a set of 8-12 reps or 3-6 reps. That form breaks down at any rep range (competition singles excluded), indicates that you should fix the form as a top priority, de-loading if required to do so.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 04:59 AM
1

Weider's best known program is 5-3-1. Different in several ways.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 04:55 AM
1

Comparing 3x5 to 5x5. Suppose you lift 85% of your 1RM capacity in a lift in 3x5, but at 5 sets you: -- Will be doing less weight. You cannot sustain 85% of 1RM over 5 sets. Maybe you can lift 75-80% instead. You're lifting less weight, by definition you're less strong. -- You're doing more volume, you're going to have greater recovery problems, you'll have more DOMS, you'll have greater chance of injury, you'll need to eat more food and sleep more compared to 3x5 volume. But you won't gain any …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 04:49 AM
1

As a father, I often feel that I alone know best how to manage and control family resources, and do not want to see any resource squandered or mismanaged. I am very careful with allowing my children to drive expenditures. While money is not everything, I consider solid and stable finances to be essential to my sense of wellbeing. That being said, your dad appears to have an unusually unhealthy relationship or attitude about money, and that has damaged his own family members. I wonder how he deve…
/r/askTRP20/11/16 11:09 PM
1

With a science background, Practical Programming will help you understand why lifting 6x a week is less desirable than 3x per week, and also understand the systemic difference between compound lifts and isolation exercises for general strength. Just as compound exercises are best for general strength acquisition, they are also best for recovery purposes. Also, by all means listen to what your doctor says, but ask questions. How does he know that you cannot lift for six months: did he read a stud…
/r/askTRP18/11/16 01:40 AM
1

Doctors' predictions about your future lifting ability and the time for recovery to be able to lift after surgery are to be taken with a grain of salt. This is because doctors do not lift, and they have not had sufficient personal experience with a progressive lifting program that takes them through Selye's general adaptation syndrome, and gives them experience with how muscles, bone, and tendons respond to stress, and how strength is reacquired after injuries. In fact, using the shoulder muscle…
/r/askTRP18/11/16 12:34 AM
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Premarital debts remain separate property debts after marriage. Only marital debts are joint. This can also be enumerated in a premarital agreement to identify the separate debts clearly for posterity. However, commingling assets should be avoided as creditors may attempt to collect from joint accounts.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 01:34 AM
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Other side of the coin, there are people you never want as clients. Persons who go on rants, who misquote code sections, speak latin at you improperly, etc.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 03:41 PM
1

Not in my experience in litigating divorce and family law cases for ten years.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 08:06 AM
1

Yes, this has changed in the US over time. New York is the last remaining state where fault divorce is an option. But New York also has no fault divorce (which is usually chosen unless the parties have significant assets or are vindictive -- and willing to have their laundry revealed in court files). In most states, alimony (spousal support) is not as formulaic as child support. For example in California's statute, Family Code 4320, if spousal support has been requested by a party, the court mus…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 07:53 AM
1

His general abilities of controlling the flow of conversation at the debates and with media are alpha. A few frame breaks, but overall, he handled a huge amount of negative feedback with resiliency and authority. The Stump the Trump videos are a good display of how he handled negative feedback in a positive, alpha fashion.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 07:36 AM
1

Presently the only state in the US with fault based divorces is New York. There the only affected support could be spousal, as child support is untouchable; but there could be other factors that could call for alimony even if fault was found. Fault based divorce may cost triple digits in legal fees, so you would not enter one unless your alimony exposure is greater than $100,000.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 06:52 AM
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Presently the only remaining US state with an available fault divorce law is New York, if elected by the parties. Even in that case, the effect of fault is not related to asset division, but spousal support.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 06:28 AM
1

Started watching first episode of season 4, but turned it off due to boredom or disinterest with the extended molestation victims theme. Does the episode or season later become watchable?
/r/askTRP13/11/16 05:11 PM
3

The presence of one STI increases the chances of contracting additional STIs, including HIV. Also, sometimes people carry more than one STI. The STI she infected you with might not be her only STI.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 07:59 AM
1

These days, the better alternative is Revatio because it is available in 20mg pills. So you can easily take a lesser effective dose between 20 and 100mg. Easier than cutting up a larger pill. Same ingredient as Viagra (Sildenafil), and less expensive as it is marketed to treat 'pulmonary arterial hypertension.' I observed side effects at 20mg or 40mg were tolerable. 60mg is a mild headache. Greater doses were not needed.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 01:41 AM
1

If you have a temporary ED problem, the use of Viagra (or Revatio) can eliminate the temporary problem by allowing you to regain your own bodily control over the relaxation of penile tissues by having long intercourse sessions at full erection. The best way to see this effect is with Revatio, because of the 20mg dosage per pill you can easily reduce dosage from a maximum of 100mg, to 80, 60, 40, 20, and then eliminating once you can produce an erection without drug.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 01:37 AM
2

Regardless of whether the cause is psychological or physical, I'd use Revatio pills (20mg per pill; use 1-5 pills as needed) until your problem is solved. The use of the pill will cause filling of the penile tissue with good blood flow. Use this opportunity to have several long lasting sexual intercourse sessions. This will cause a physical change in blood flow to your penis that you can carry forward, reducing (100 mg to 80 mg, to 60, 40, 20) and eliminating use of the pills.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 02:52 AM
2

Another danger is debt. Your spouse, seeing you inherit monies, goes on a spending spree accruing a lot of marital or separate debt. Debts are treated differently than assets. For example, in California while statute mandates assets divided 50/50, debts in California (or both debt and assets in other states) are divided equitably. Thus having more separate property may be a factor the court considers in making an equitable division. Defensive measures include limiting how you share information a…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 11:32 AM
1

The classification of property is going to vary by US state, according to whether the state is a community property state, or an equitable distribution state. I will speak to community property law in California. In a community property state, assets are classified as either separate property or community property (CP). There is a general presumption that all property earned from the date of marriage through the date of permanent separation is community property, except that which comes from gif…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 11:24 AM
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This is true. Few notes: For an inheritance not to become part of the marital estate, it must be kept separate. Commingling funds, or using funds for joint purchases, or for the benefit of the married couple are likely to reduce your ability to exclude the funds as separate property. If the woman was strategically after money, she would attempt to stay married, while encouraging the inheritor to commingle his monies, or use those monies for the marital estate's benefit. Defensive measures (and s…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 03:05 AM
2

When you lift, you are applying a calculated stress to your body so that you can recover and get stronger. After you lift, you have a recovery period lasting 24-72 hours where you eat and sleep, and your muscle fibers, bones, and tendons are repaired and strengthened. The amount of this stress is primarily related to the volume of weight lifted. 3 sets of 5 weight is the right volume to allow you to both recover and adapt over a linear progression (session to session increases) lasting 3-9 month…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 01:27 AM
2

The volume in SS is 3x5, which is a more appropriate volume for a novice lifter (defined as a lifter who can make linear progression with each training session). By comparison, 5x5 volume for a novice is too much volume because it does not drive additional adaptation at the weights that a novice can lift, which limits the intensity (amount lifted), preventing you from getting as strong as you would with 3x5. 5x5 volume will only become a useful tool when you become an intermediate lifter (when y…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 12:59 AM
1

Reasons for hair on genitals are to reduce bacteria and pathogens entering the vagina, to reduce friction, and to emit pheromones. Shaving the genitals also creates microscopic cuts in the skin, allowing easier spread of STIs.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 02:20 PM
1

Lifting is great, but... Test if adding some daily HIIT cycles impacts quality of sleep.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 01:26 AM
1

Each sleep cycle lasts 1.5 hours. If you wake mid-cycle, you can feel groggy. It is preferable to sleep for an amount of time divisible by 1.5 hours (and not including the time it takes to fall asleep). My recommendation is you should sleep no more than 7.5 hours total (5 sleep cycles). Your friend who sleeps 6 hrs would be getting 4 sleep cycles.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 01:23 AM
1

u/fnordsnord is correct, you need a family law lawyer and you need to be proactive here, as the paternity test is for your benefit. Furthermore, the earlier you can get the paternity test, the better, because of both the value of this evidence for negotiation or legal proceedings, and also because some states have presumptions regarding fatherhood, and/or have a period of time after which presumed fatherhood cannot be challenged. As a practical matter, getting the test early could discourage mot…
/r/askTRP30/09/16 06:47 AM
1

Overall, yes.
/r/askMRP25/09/16 10:57 PM
1

Yes, the venues I frequent all have respectful dancers. Culture is okay, but I'm not sure how she herself will feel about dancing with other men. (She doesn't socialize with other men, and this is partially in deference to me, as I never encouraged her to have male friends). While I want her to have fun, I'm not sure if I could encourage her to dance with other men with a sincere face. This is mainly due to my comment about 'very strong dancers' below; I'm not sure I want to expose her to leader…
/r/askMRP25/09/16 07:44 PM
1

The areas I frequent have a lot of very strong dancers. How would you manage the situation she dances with an advanced dancer whose skills and vocabulary greatly exceed yours. Issue of insecurity aside, is that not inviting an unfavorable value comparison by her on dancing skill? My own skills and vocabulary are always increasing. Dancing with other women: so you go dancing, arriving at venue with wife, what is the proper way to leave her and go dance with someone else. Just casually walk away o…
/r/askMRP25/09/16 07:35 PM
2

Excellent analysis. Before my divorce, I saved my father in law's life by taking him to the ER, when the rest of his female blood relatives (wife and daughters) ignored his medical crisis and were unwilling to help him. I missed at work an important project, but I felt okay when he thanked me sincerely and later recovered his health. After all, wasn't he family? One month after his medical crisis, he helped end my already bad marriage by suddenly making up from thin air a false accusation that I…
/r/askTRP23/09/16 04:14 AM
2

My cousin did this nonsense. First their couple had two natural births, then he agreed to his wife importing various adoptions from eastern Europe. The imported kids now outnumber the natural born ones.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 08:15 PM
1

The first boob job is just the gateway surgery to more and larger boob jobs, face surgeries, nose jobs, eye surgeries, upper eyelid surgeries, and so on. When she's done you won't recognize her.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 06:03 AM
1

Try fixing your vocal technique instead. Allow your vocal tone to resonate through your head and chest.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 11:18 PM
2

No idea about Colombia, but in the US you can order Fastenal washers than weigh 0.6 lbs each. These washers are a close enough fit for a standard barbell. One set on a barbell adds 1.2 lbs, two sets 2.4 lbs. etc etc. Check with your local industrial supply store if they have comparable washers. Failing that, you could add one of more pair of spring loader clips if your gym has these. Clips tend to weigh around 1-1.2 lbs a pair depending on beefiness. So you could add two pair for about 2-2.4 lbs…
/r/askTRP13/09/16 04:39 AM
1

A baseline of strength will be helpful to bodybuilding, which could be accomplishment by training the compound movements until you are intermediate (no more session to session linear gains). Being stronger and having a higher work (volume) tolerance, you can then switch over or include the isolation exercises as needed.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 04:07 PM
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DOMS is most related to volume of work and eccentric component. To continue to train while minimizing DOMS, decrease volume, increase intensity (more weight, fewer reps), and limit or decrease time under stress for eccentric movements. DOMS after a training layoff is to be expected. You did not ease into the training volume properly. You might consider compound movements (squat, deadlift, bench, press) instead of bodybuilding.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 03:57 PM
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Is this a private lesson or a group class. Most group dance classes involve rotation. You would generally (unless you refuse to rotate - which is viewed as weird) both be dancing with each other person in the class equal time. Benefits and drawbacks here. Man's job in dancing is to lead the moves. Make sure you can lead as effectively as the other males in the class.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:46 PM
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Congratulations. Well played.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 09:50 PM
2

Just takes time.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 05:12 AM
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I joined a 'men's rights' group briefly, but all the men could do was complain and even wanted to set up protests. Then when you gave them concrete life or legal advice, they ignored it. I got the impression men's right group is not really about men's rights at all, more like a form of ineffective group therapy. It didn't provide value to me.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 07:43 PM
1

Find a Starting Strength certified trainer.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 01:29 AM
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I would take control of the situation as much as you can, rather than leave it to girlfriend's feelings, or her friend's availability. Propose a trip to the clinic city that includes both the abortion (business) and pleasure (plan something fun to take the mind off the abortion).
/r/askTRP27/08/16 01:46 AM
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My former wife of 10 years demanded a divorce last year. A week after her demand, she asks me "How's the case going?" I say, "Did you file?" She says no, "I'm too busy." So I filed as Petitioner and did absolutely everything in the case from proposing and negotiating a marital settlement agreement, to calculating the support numbers, to selling the home. (She just complained along the way how the case was taking so long, lol).
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 05:20 AM
1

Normally, no fault divorce makes cheating a non-issue. This case is an exception, if its discovery precipitated the false accusation. In fact, false accusations can have a negative impact on custody for the accuser. In my jurisdiction, there is case law about the effect of false child abuse accusations in a divorce proceeding. However, first priority is hire an attorney to get the rape accusation dismissed.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 05:15 AM
1

A properly drafted provision will stand as it is not within the court's discretion not to enforce the provision. That is, the court's discretion does not extend to modifying mutually agreed choice of law provisions. Thus, an otherwise validly executed agreement, will stand. However, we need to distinguish jurisdiction in general family law matters from jurisdiction in the interpretation and enforcement of a valid prenuptial agreement. While the local jurisdiction courts have jurisdiction in gene…
/r/askTRP12/08/16 06:43 PM
1

One strategy is to insert a provision into a prenuptial agreement that states that the parties agree to have the law of a particular jurisdiction (usually the jurisdiction they were married in) apply in the event of divorce. This provision will not affect child custody or child support, however. If the prenuptial agreement is validly executed with the proper formalities (no duress, not presented right in advance of wedding, proper financial disclosures, at least 7 days to review before signing, …
/r/askTRP12/08/16 03:31 PM
1

I would get a fresh start. A new relationship without the bad history.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 06:13 AM
2

Safer to select a well-reviewed provider from a hobbyist review board.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 03:32 PM
1

Few possibilities: He gave her an interest in a separate property asset in exchange for an offset against a marital asset, which he would then keep as his sole and separate property. For whatever other reason, they agreed to it in a marital settlement agreement. Court prefers property division to be settled by the parties themselves, and will sign off on any property settlement that is presented as an agreement of the parties.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 12:32 AM
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and I assume half his other assets. The only assets she would get a marital interest in are those that accumulated during that year of marriage (date of marriage to date of permanent separation). Unless he had a windfall year, this would not be a big payoff.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 03:10 PM
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While alimony (spousal support) law and practice will be state-specific, the article is correct about the expectation that the low-earning party become self-supporting. Often this expectation has been codified by a state law, or by case law of a state. There are at least 3 good legal tools for the higher earning party to minimize alimony exposure: Vocational Evaluation: requesting the other party to agree to, or the court to order a vocational evaluation. The party requesting an evaluation for h…
/r/askTRP05/06/16 06:18 AM
2

I would just send a card.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 08:47 PM
1

State laws vary, but, custody orders are modifiable. The court contains ongoing jurisdiction to modify its orders. The standard in most states is a 'change in circumstances'. Change in circumstances has a specific legal meaning, that some significant fact changed that didn't occur at the original or most recent order. Also, most states law is to encourage frequent and continuing contact with both parents, and custody orders should follow this, absent unusual facts such as criminal convictions or…
/r/askTRP25/05/16 06:35 AM
2

To impute a higher level of income than minimum wage, there are at least 3 good legal tools: Vocational Evaluation: requesting the other party to agree to, or the court to order a vocational evaluation. The party requesting an evaluation for his spouse is typically required to pay for it (the cost could be subject to reallocation), but it could end up paying for itself. The vocational evaluator can produce a report filed with court on ability to work and earning capacity. A Seek Work order that …
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 06:21 AM
1

Just completed a divorce, including with young kids. Before: scared of the financial, societal, and lifestyle changes. After: life is better in every way, including my relationship with, and ability to parent my kids.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 07:00 AM
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Congratulations. I'm in midst of a divorce too. Will take this lesson to heart.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 07:03 AM
1

If losing weight (caloric deficit) while lifting, just control the volume.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 08:36 PM
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Not something you can or want to teach IMO. They either get it or they don't.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 03:24 AM
2

I would have just made fun of her when she said that.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 05:47 AM
1

The way I think about it is, why do 5x5 when 3x5 is a sufficient training stress to enable you to adapt and add weight session to session. Only an intermediate trainee who can no longer add weight linearly, will need greater volume (but on a weekly, not session basis). Otherwise, what is the purpose of the extra two sets, if they do not produce a different adaptation (measured by performance increase) than 3x5.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 01:21 AM
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Identify whether the goal is maximal strength (accomplished with compound exercises) or also bodybuilding.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 01:19 AM
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If you're 40 (and I am almost your same age) don't do the 5x5 volume from Stronglifts. The main factor in recovery is volume. At the recovery capacity you have at 40, you can maintain intensity in your training program, but not that level of volume. It is easier to reduce volume than overeat. A 3x5 program is sufficient, and more productive in general for trainees of all ages. With 3x5, you'll have extra capacity to run around the block once a day for cardio purposes.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 05:21 AM
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Attorney here. Avoid paying for any additional or avoidable expenses such as a nanny. These become part of the status quo, and you will be financially indentured through the courts to pay these costs until the child turns 18 and graduates from highschool. Your apparent generosity will be used against you to the fullest extent of the law once she hires an attorney.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 02:22 PM
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After my wife starting physically abusing my daughter by grabbing and scratching her neck, and hitting her in the face, I decided (in lieu of making a police report so that my wife would not lose her professional license) to ask for help from my extended family to help fix the problem. Family members (mother, father, in-laws, sister) ignored the photographs and evidence, and turned the situation backwards and blamed me. Yes, I was responsible for the fact that my wife abused the child. A nice bo…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 06:04 PM
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Courts generally do not favor children's testimony in custody cases, and especially not a child as young as three. You will have to use other objective and subjective evidence (adult testimony, school records, records of care, admissions from the parties, a parenting log) to prove you are a capable parent. Attempting to get your child to testify where not appropriate can backfire. In very limited cases (usually allegations of abuse) a young child could testify, but not in open court, more common…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 05:52 PM
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The evidence will never come in because with no fault divorce it is not relevant to an issue in the case. Without the evidence coming in, it will not and can not be considered by the court in making any decision. If the party has an attorney, the court will never hear the evidence. If the party is without attorney, and somehow thinks this is a good idea to attempt to present improper evidence of adultery, this presentation will work against them in the custody determination, as it shows that the…
/r/askTRP04/08/15 06:58 PM
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In 49 of the 50 states, no fault divorce means the court does not care about adultery for either of the parties, and won't consider it in deciding any issue related to property division, status of the marriage, custody, or support. Only in New York, where parties have elected to a fault divorce (no fault divorce is avail), can adultery be raised as an issue, and equally available to either party. These fault divorces can get expensive, six digit legal fees guaranteed.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 06:15 PM
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Why is this whole thing about your LTR. What about telling us something about you? What subjects has she lied about?
/r/askTRP03/08/15 11:36 PM
3

Once I took a family member to the ER for a serious problem. It was busy, and they weren't serving by severity. After waiting a bit, and seeing people with minor ailments admitted, I asked for escalation because of serious and worsening condition and they refused. Ok, fine, I disagree but no problem, its your ER. I call 911 from the ER waiting room. Several fire trucks and ambulance pull in front of the ER and start treating on the scene. Flashing lights, and a big show. Blocking the usual ER en…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 08:46 PM
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Divorcing right after marriage, in a marriage of very short duration, is usually without any major consequence for property division and support. The only divisible property is that earned between the date of marriage and the date of permanent separation, and spousal support is not generally ordered in very short duration marriages, or is ordered for a limited time. Generally speaking the longer the marriage, the greater the stakes.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 05:57 PM
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You would need a regular divorce, but would also need to prove the common law marriage. Evidence such as cohabitation, and holding out as married testimony that you held yourself out as married in the community objective evidence, bank records, leases, tax returns, etc. If you intend to cohabitate in a common law state, and do not want to become married you should: Never represent the other person as your spouse Separate finances Not enter into leases or contracts together, or file joint tax ret…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 05:48 PM
2

In California, the higher earning spouse in a divorce should insist on giving a Gavron Warning, which is a directive for the supported spouse to become self-supporting. If the spouse does not make efforts to do so, you can take them back to court to order them to show cause why support should not be terminated. You can do discovery about what jobs they have applied for, what they are currently earning, etc. Other states may similar case law, and whether they do or not, the higher earning party i…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 05:34 PM
1

Real estate law does not require consideration to establish a tenancy.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 06:07 PM
1

Thanks. Will try again another time. 7/17: works now.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 01:57 PM
3

Get an error. Your usernames do not match - jupc isn't Try again... Click Here Warning: Cannot modify header information - headers already sent by (output started at /home/puerarch/public_html/verify/verify.php:44) in /home/puerarch/public_html/verify/verify.php on line 45 Warning: Cannot modify header information - headers already sent by (output started at /home/puerarch/public_html/verify/verify.php:44) in /home/puerarch/public_html/verify/verify.php on line 46 Warning: Cannot modify header i…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 04:37 PM
1

How to register? Don't see how to do that. Search on the site for 'Register' has zero results.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 04:19 PM
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Divorce attorney, agree. But he doesn't need a confession, or evidence of cheating. It will not help in settlement or court in any US state, because the fault reasons for a divorce do not factor into any decision regarding property division, custody, or support. Exception: New York State, in a fault divorce (expensive).
/r/askTRP13/07/15 09:53 PM
1

In order of importance: Finasteride (prevents binding of DHT to hair follicles in the scalp) Rogaine (dilates blood vessels affecting hair follicles) Nizoral (you have to shampoo anyway)
/r/askTRP13/07/15 09:26 PM
1

My best sexual experiences were in an 8 month affair with a married woman. Our entire relationship, until it suddenly ended, was nothing but fun with no responsibilities. We were both married to separate people at the time, and both ended up divorced as a result of our spouses finding out. We did a lot of activities/day-trips together as well, always got along well, and I thought, I like this person a lot better than my wife. One day she told her husband, "I'm in love with someone else." After t…
/r/askTRP13/07/15 02:41 AM
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That plate sounds super boring. But, you would lose a tennis partner. Tennis is a great game, and you definitely shouldn't play by yourself. Here is what you can do: go on meetup.com, or another website. Connect with one or more new tennis partners.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 02:09 AM
1

Selye's general adaptation syndrome. Need to distinguish between: -chronic stress (ongoing, unresolved stressors, e.g. smoking, regular lack of sleep, overwork), and -acute stress (an event, such as a lifting session, temporary changes in hormonal levels as a response to the acute stress during a shock period, which are resolved during recovery by a return to homeostasis.) Presumably OP refers to acute stresses which are beneficial if you survive them, because they result in an adaptation respon…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 01:44 AM
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Even more important to say nothing when splitting up in divorce. Anything you say is a party admission, and can be used against you in court!
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 03:44 AM
2

Love my kids. Hate my wife. Never get married.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 04:14 PM
1

Your temporary orders could have included a statement that says where the hand-off of kids occurs. For example, on the curb outside your home instead of inside your apartment where your privacy is invaded. Absent such an order, you are free to arrange informally with the mother to hand-off the children in a public place. She can threaten whatever she wants, but in any case you should observe near radio silence with her and say as little as possible. Don't shout, period.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 03:26 PM
1

This isn't about attraction, it is business. When prostitutes get raped, robbed, or not paid, it is by younger men. An older man is a safer client - a better business prospect - for this reason. Everyone else here who is guessing, hasn't banged as many ho's as I have.
/r/askTRP20/06/15 09:42 PM
1

I always fear getting started on the big 3 (squat, bench, deadlift) since it's clear to me that the right side of my body is significantly stronger than my left (any tips on fixing this?) Train with attention to symmetrical body movements. The problem will work itself out as you grow stronger, provided attention to form. Video tape yourself, and review. Make corrections as needed.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 06:21 AM
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There is no reason to be doing 5x5 volume when your press is 75 lbs, and lesser volume (3x5 acceptable. 5x5 is too much volume) is a sufficient training stress for your level of (novice) advancement. (5x5 volume will be a more useful tool when you are an intermediate trainee). Do a program with 3x5 volume (SS or other). Assuming you weigh at least 180 lbs, 3x5 volume should be enough training stress to get the press to at least 125-145 lbs before you need to consider intermediate programming aft…
/r/askTRP30/05/15 11:25 PM
2

Yes, my dad loves to be a provider to old frumpy, grumpy ladies. For example, his third wife dead only a few weeks, he latches onto a new cupcake, not a younger girl, no way, but a then 67-year old lady with three children my age or older, and a face in a perpetual frown. Moves her and her pets in with him right away, and marries yet again. She had a career which she promptly quit to cook him hotdogs and lounge around. Course she and her adult daughter (with minimum wage job) both need new cars,…
/r/askTRP30/05/15 03:23 AM
1

Used to be called dads divorce forum, now mens divorce. forum.mensdivorce.com
/r/askTRP29/05/15 04:26 PM
1

Not sure about the word custodianship, when there is a more accurate word, custody. Custody includes both legal and physical custody - it is not limited to the concept of legal domain over child. There is legal custody, and physical custody. See California Family Code 3002-3007: http://www.leginfo.ca.gov/cgi-bin/displaycode?section=fam&group=02001-03000&file=3000-3007
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 01:36 AM
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California attorney. No idea about UK law. But: It is a good thing for child or spousal support that wife earns more than you, and that you have low documented earnings over the past two years. Document your routine as far as the kids. Keep a journal that shows all the fatherly contributions you make. The fact that you spend more time, and make specific contributions to the kids, is a factor for custody. Document the positive contributions, so that you can introduce that evidence during settleme…
/r/askTRP23/05/15 04:04 AM
2

Go for the hour, not 30 minutes. Better experience when they're not clock watching. Some of my best sexual experiences have been with escorts.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 05:11 PM
1

The main factors in training recovery are food and sleep. However, by far the most important of those two factors is food. Prioritize good quantity and quality of food, and keep training as usual. As long as you can get 4-5 hours of sleep, you will be functional. I don't think this will happen, but if you see yourself not recovering, adjust your training by progressing with smaller interval increases between training sessions, and increase the amount of rest time between heavy sets to be able to…
/r/askTRP15/05/15 06:17 AM
1

While all states have availability of no fault divorce, in some US states such as New York, fault divorce is still available and used if both parties cannot agree to go no fault. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_York_divorce_law#At_fault_divorce
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 08:04 PM
1

Starting Strength or a 3x5 program, because there is no need for 5x5 volume on a novice lifting program since that level of volume is not necessary for a linear strength adaptation at your level of training advancement. Once you have exhausted linear progression gains, you can adjust to an intermediate program, which in some programs may modify volume to 5 work sets on a weekly basis.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 03:09 PM
2

'Women asking for breast implants should be screened for subtle signs of mental problems, says a study linking them to an increased suicide risk.' http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/2826933.stm
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 04:54 AM
2

Run a mile per day in addition to your current routine. Works to increase my energy. Tell me how you feel then.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 02:32 AM
1

When speaking in court, it is helpful to remind yourself that the judge is usually the most unprepared person in the courtroom. So, I find it relaxing to speak to the judge at a very simple level, like I was talking to and doing a favor to a small child, except with respectful language. This is relaxing and less confrontational because you are 'educating the court', rather than 'making an argument.'
/r/askTRP07/04/15 08:20 PM
1

All supplements are optional. I personally think time/effort is better spent on programming good training along with the best quality food you can afford, although if you are training for a particular competition, you may need more. If you consume a lot of protein powder, drink extra water to avoid forming a kidney stone like I did. Read Jordan Feigenbaum's posts on the Starting Strength 'Nutrition' forum. See especially his comments on preferred supplements, and BCAA supplements vs protein powd…
/r/askTRP18/03/15 07:58 PM
1

Start with a routine that allows you to make progress with symmetrical body movements with good form. For more detailed advice, post on the startingstrength forum (the Training, or the Recovery subforums). Get lifting shoes (metatarsal straps) - good for the ankle stability. Also, read the story of Brian Broke Legs, a man who fell off a roof, got pilon fractures in both legs, could barely move around the house until he started barbell training. He now deadlifts 500+, with bones now so strong tha…
/r/askTRP18/03/15 05:57 AM
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Don't work out. Train. Training is structured exercise based on the physiology of your own training advancement and a set of specific long-term and short term goals. A short term goal might be "increase my deadlift set of 5 by 10lbs this week with good form." Achieving that goal gives you satisfaction by showing that you are making progress towards your goals, even if the time spent at the gym isn't enjoyable. When you achieve one short term goal, you immediately set another. Thus, progress. For…
/r/askTRP17/03/15 08:01 PM
4

I reply "So that's a no" There it is - you rejected sex yourself! Too overt discussion of sex. She held your hand, because she'd hoped for sex to occur naturally.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 04:02 AM
1

There are documented ways of analyzing lies face-to-face. A major one used by the FBI is body language analysis. You can find the interviewing manual online and read it to improve your lie detection skill. For the layperson, the easiest indicator are the eyes, which during a lie tend to move upwards as you access the creative portion of the brain to construct the lie.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 03:57 AM
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The court usually orders the status quo. If she has custody, she will likely retain it. He needs to get the custody he wants for the long-term now, not attempt to change it later, when the court is unlikely to make any modification.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 05:51 AM
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If he wants to make this type of agreement, the agreement needs to address physical and legal custody, and times with each parent rather than child support (which agreement for isn't enforceable anyway). (By getting more custody, he pays less child support. But this is not how to present the issue to the wife).
/r/askTRP26/02/15 12:57 AM
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The only case when he doesn't pay is 3119.07 (A), above. Requires he be both residential parent and legal custodian. However, most courts will award split physical and legal custody, unless there are compelling reasons not to do so. In every case, the decision is made from the perspective of the child's best interest. Child's best interest means the lifestyle and parental contacts available to the child.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 12:34 AM
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Ohio follows a court ordered formula for calculating child support. Child support will be minimized if he becomes the custodial parent ("the residential parent and legal custodian"). He will end up paying a great deal more support than he needs to if he opts for an irregular schedule such as you mentioned. He would pay less support in for example, a 50/50 split, or some variation. Basically, he wants as large a split as he can manage if the goal is reducing support. Also, make sure wife is worki…
/r/askTRP25/02/15 07:45 AM
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You are conflating the issue of availability of no-fault divorce in each of the 50 states with the option and availability of fault divorce in some of the states. States that allow both no fault and fault divorce are known as mixed states. For example, in New York State: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_York_divorce_law#At_fault_divorce The state of New York is one of the states which allow the possibility of an at fault divorce. In this case, one party accuses the other of a wrongdoing (the "fa…
/r/askTRP25/02/15 04:27 AM
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Do not move out until the court makes an order about the marital residence.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 05:29 AM
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The only difference between a legal separation and divorce is that a legally separated person is not free to remarry. All the property division, spousal and child support is ordered by the court.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 06:07 PM
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There are still some US states where you prove fault. Compared to no-fault, each party can spend up to hundreds of thousands of dollars and 3-5 years legally trying to investigate through discovery to build a case to 'out-fault' each other, thus squandering assets, extending the time it takes to get divorced, and increasing the amount of fighting, litigation, court costs, and attorney fees.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 06:00 PM
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Trying to apply a civil litigation strategy won't be effective. Family court has jurisdiction over support, and the court has already ruled.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 07:31 AM
1

An extender device, such as an Andropenis or JES Extender, can improve your length and girth when worn consistently over a period of 9-12 months. The device causes growth by means of micro-tearing, and associated recovery of the tissue, in the corpus cavernosum of the penis. The result is increased flaccid and erect measurements. Useful for all men, but especially going to make a visual impact for someone with a micropenis.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 06:13 PM
1

The best lifting is a compound barbell training program. Compound means exercises that involve a full-range of motion over a large portion of your musculature. More motion and musculature translates into efficiency in acquiring strength, compared to isolation exercises. Training program means a programmed series of regular training sessions (for example, MWF) with specific weights and repetitions, with increasing weights session to session (beginner), or week to week (intermediate).
/r/askTRP03/02/15 05:15 PM
2

In some jurisdictions, even those without common law marriage, such as California, holding yourself out as married can subject you to community proper laws on division.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 06:22 AM
1

Disappointed that when I downvote this post, it doesn't go from 0 to -1.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/15 03:41 AM
3

I would read the Starting Strength book. 50 pages on squat form.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 06:30 AM
3

I was excited for an encounter with a cute girl 12 years younger. Everything seemed normal, but once I undressed her, I faced a terrible stink that filled every inch of the room. I could barely breath. I excused myself saying I forgot something in my car.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 05:06 AM
1

I may go that way in the future.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 11:49 PM
2

As a child of a divorced family, my father remarried another divorcee who began living with him, and my sister and I did not get anything resembling a family environment when we stayed with him and her. His new wife was not family. Instead she looked at my sister and I as her personal servants, mistreated us however she could. She was constantly anxious that the children should consume any resources or attention from the father that would otherwise go to her. On the other hand, she doted on her …
/r/askTRP26/01/15 12:33 AM
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Yes, the complex calculation is not performed manually. Both sides use a calculator which is modeled after Dissomaster, which is what is used by the court before it rules on support.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 02:03 AM
1

If you do barbell squat, you learn an important psychological skill. Being at the bottom of the squat with a heavy weight (relative to your lifting ability), and having to rise out of it teaches you to not fear difficult situations.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 09:23 PM
1

Legally speaking, the best thing for you to do is stay in the house until the court makes an order regarding housing. The court tends to make orders enforcing the status quo. Depending on your situation, you can lightly encourage wife to leave, but you should not leave yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/15 05:54 PM
1

Well, this is not scientific research, but 'research' from economists. I cannot see that they had any control group, or conducted a study as a scientist would. They are merely looking at data, and making conclusions. Vague, undefinable terms, like 'spouse who is your friend'. Even their own conclusions are unsteady and non-scientific, such as "a mechanism which could help explain a causal relationship..." Reads like a typical economics paper. Lots of ideas, even more 'data', but no real ability …
/r/askTRP09/01/15 03:41 AM
1

Taleb says something like: Forgive your family members, but never forget. and (Don't forgive strangers, but forget).
/r/askTRP07/01/15 03:20 PM
1

Yes, but that type of hair loss is distinguishable visually from male pattern balding. (The guy has no excuse not to know the cause in fact of his own hair loss).
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 09:23 PM
1

There are various forms of hair loss. He describes and appears to have male pattern balding. Male pattern balding is not caused by stress, but is caused by the binding of dihydrotestosterone (DHT) in the scalp to hair follicles. A lowering of testosterone level is also not plausible as a low level would limit miniaturization of hair (helping him retain hair) as there would be less dihydrotestosterone (DHT) binding to the hair follicles.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:34 PM
1

Get a power rack or squat rack, barbell, and plates. You can then do squat, deadlift, and press.
/r/askTRP04/01/15 10:24 PM
1

Give her a handicap.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 01:45 AM
1

I'm going to give you a 1 in 40-50 chance of having HIV Oh nice - that's generous of you!
/r/askTRP01/01/15 05:37 AM
1

When my father remarried a woman with children from a previous marriage, my new step-mother did everything in her power to oppress, belittle and mistreat my father's children (my sister and I). She fabricated lies, insulted and demeaned our friends and other family members, and ordered us around as servants. She resented any of my father's resources or attention going to anyone but she and her biological daughter, and she served no motherly role in the least.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 04:28 AM
1

I trained Starting Strength for the novice progression, and train the Texas Method for the intermediate progression. Besides the book itself, Starting Strength has the advantage of a strong forum when you can discuss technique and post a video for form analysis.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 07:30 AM
3

If the man has a documented history of drugs and alcoholism, and you can show he is spending time with or caring for your children, you can file for a modification of the custody order, citing a 'change in circumstances.' In other words, you must show the court you can provide more stable and consistent care for the children due to this change in circumstances. In my state, the court's notes on the law are: "You have to show that there has been a “change in circumstances” since the final custody…
/r/askTRP28/12/14 05:25 PM
5

We are evaluating the content of the statements, aren't we? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ad_hominem
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 02:33 AM
3

Be dismissive of the matter. But don't 'protest too much': http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_lady_doth_protest_too_much,_methinks
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 12:44 AM
1

They call the new guy who consumes her thoughts "Mr. Wonderful".
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 09:25 PM
12

Besides emotional detachment, I can think of a few more legal and practical reasons: attorney's specialty may not be criminal law, or the specific criminal area. For example, if you get a DUI, you may want at attorney who defends specifically DUIs. if another attorney makes a mistake in your criminal defense and it affects the outcome of the case, you could have a claim of ineffective assistance of counsel, and a remedy from that. you could look unsympathetic or defensive to the trier of fact. d…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 03:15 AM
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Small distinction, you don't ask for a lawyer on the scene, but you advise the officer that "On advice of counsel I will not be making any statements before consulting my attorney". This makes it easier to refuse answering questions by putting the refusal onto your attorney's advice rather than you. Despite you making no statements, if police have enough evidence to arrest you for a crime, that is the point that you need an attorney. You can use your phone call from jail to contact an attorney. …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 02:57 AM
2

When I have time off work, first priority is recharging: catch up on sleep extra attention to quality diet extra attention to following a strength training plan relax, but plan out a strategy for returning to work and responsibilities
/r/askTRP23/12/14 02:43 AM
1

That is the labia not the vagina. The vagina, however, can also experience physical changes.
/r/askTRP21/12/14 06:01 AM
1

This is related to child birth, and age. Both wife and I had noticed the physical change in her vagina after her second child birth, as well as more protrusion of the labia. She then decided to have vaginal and labia reconstruction surgery with a surgeon specializing in those procedures. The surgery was not a big deal, except that there is a healing process of several weeks during which she cannot have sex. The end result was a 20-30% increase in tightness. I can instantly tell that she feels be…
/r/askTRP21/12/14 05:45 AM
1

Wish I had a brother rather than a sister.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 03:42 AM
2

With regard to your life, you need to decide 'Where do I go from here. What steps can I take to get there?'
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 12:49 AM
1

Not completely ineffective. It has value for issues of property and spousal support. You have to understand though, its limitations , namely that it cannot address child support or custody.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 04:45 AM
2

Prenups have limitations. In most states they cannot address child support or custody. The purpose of a prenup is thus limited to the issues of property and spousal support.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 04:43 AM
2

Here are the proper steps to avoid a claim of duress wrt a prenup: The wife has her separate attorney review the prenup and you have a document with both parties stating that each party understands the purpose of the document and has retained counsel to assist in review of the prenup. The prenup is reviewed and signed considerably in advance of the wedding date, avoiding the argument of duress based on time pressure.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 04:42 AM
1

Tell the story in a way that emphasizes your indestructibility and recovery abilities in the face of these challenges.
/r/askTRP15/12/14 07:42 AM
4

In Silicon Valley tech companies, besides white Americans I've worked with Indians, Pakistanis, Chinese (mainland, Taiwan, Hong Kong), Israelis and Russians, Mexicans, Koreans, Iranians, and so on. For managers, I've reported to a gay man, a lesbian woman, several Indians, and a black man. In every case I've seen in 20 years in the valley, people judge you mostly based on merit - how well you do your job and help the company achieve its goals.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 12:05 AM
1

Most people think this is fake. Look at the note which was photographed indoors vs. the outdoor game.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 12:30 AM
1

I sleep either on my back or side. Sleeping on the stomach is not a good position for the back. If I happen to wake during the night in an unusual position, I adjust to a proper position on my back or side. When you sleep on the floor, and maintain the position or make movements during the night, your muscles and bones are getting a bit of isometric work more than if you were on a mattress which cushions your weight. In terms of specific benefit when you lift, I have noticed faster recovery thro…
/r/askTRP01/12/14 03:40 AM
1

I've been sleeping on a thinly carpeted floor for the past 7 years. Mattresses might be fine for sedentary people. I find sleeping on the rigid floor helps recovery from barbell training.
/r/askTRP01/12/14 12:15 AM
5

Too many words. Keep it simple.
/r/askTRP29/11/14 09:58 PM
1

Good luck. If she loses a job, she can file for a modification of support.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 05:34 PM
1

Spousal support is routinely requested by, and awarded to spouses who have jobs. If I were her attorney, this set of facts demands that spousal support becomes an issue.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 05:19 PM
1

You may still have spousal support to consider. A major factor in states that award spousal support is the relative income and expenses of the parties; ability to pay. When there is cohabitation, and if I were the wife's attorney, I would use the cohabitation to argue for increased spousal support based on the other party's income (and she could get innocently drawn into your divorce case), and your presumed reduced expenses and increased disposable income. It would be difficult to overcome the …
/r/askTRP29/10/14 05:08 PM
1

If you are going to live together with this person, make sure that your state will not consider the other person's income in support calculations for your current divorce.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 02:35 AM
1

Reduce the volume of running, allocating more recovery resources for lifting.
/r/askTRP29/09/14 04:59 AM
1

Weakness. Importing young foreign women.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 01:19 AM
1

She was about to remarry, after having lived with a man for a few years. As she is a simple person, she might have viewed the money as a complication to her overall plans.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 01:17 AM
16

The voice recording is not for the court. It is for the officer, to attempt to prevent a false DV arrest.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 01:03 AM
4

I had one of my ex wives for whom finances were not a huge deal, as long as she was okay with necessities. We did a non-contested divorce. Sold a jointly owned house and there were $54K proceeds. 1/2 went into each of our accounts. Just waiting for the 6 month period for the divorce to be granted, and both starting to date other people. Shortly thereafter, I asked her to give me her $27K so I could negotiate the payment of a previous year's joint tax bill and finance some trips to visit my new l…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 03:25 AM
1

No machines. Barbell training.
/r/askTRP27/09/14 05:23 AM
3

Too much explanation to the wife. Just tell her how it is.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 03:26 AM
2

Don't waste time arguing facts to RedPill115. He came here to give advice: how to fail a strength program, and blame it on someone else. how to misunderstand basic anatomy and physiology. how to develop a male eating disorder mentality.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 06:11 AM
1

Good pull-up number. Big shoulders: get your overhead press up to your body weight (moving target).
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 05:45 AM
3

The first thing you do is go 'radio silence'. Do not speak with her further. Read the List at dadsdivorce forum.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 03:16 PM
0

142 lbs doesn't look strong and isn't strong, and isn't close to "getting fat". This isn't the male eating disorder forum. And, I have the books in front of me. You haven't read them; no such statement.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 12:48 AM
0

You haven't read, or understood the books properly.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 11:58 PM
-1

There is no need for him to put on weight slowly. He's 142.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 04:11 PM
3

Rehab protocol using barbells is higher volume lower intensity, moving towards lower volume higher intensity. Search for 'rehab method Bill Starr Mark Rippetoe' for a detailed description. This protocol rehabs the injury because it works the injured area.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 03:52 PM
1

Yes, he nees to stop doing isolation exercises and replace these with compound barbell exercises (squat, deadlift, press, bench) in a linear progression, supported by increased food intake. The books describing the technique and programming are Starting Strength and Practical Programming for Strength Training.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 03:47 PM
1

You need to gain weight while lifting in a strength training program (not a bodybuilding program; you need the strength basis first and foremost). Increase food intake and train the Starting Strength method of compound barbell training in a linear progression. Clean slow weight gain doesn't apply to you at 142. Think 200-215 lbs.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 06:35 AM
1

SD does not require there be lethal force, but the level of force used to repel an attack must be in relation to the threat faced. He faced what could probably be termed a minor threat; therefore he would be privileged to use minor force to repel the attack.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 03:25 PM
9

He is entitled to use self-defense. How much force is required is the issue.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 05:02 AM
16

You can only give this advice to someone who is ready to receive it.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 10:52 PM
2

Kid, you can't afford not to have an attorney.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 01:51 AM
2

In most jurisdictions, joint or split custody is preferred to sole custody, based on the idea that children have the right (and it is in their best interest) to have an ongoing and meaningful relationship with both their parents. This is true even when one or both parents have personal or relationship problems. There are factors though that could tilt custody one way or another. For example, if one parent is a documented alcoholic, that information could be relevant to custody on the idea that a…
/r/MensRights04/02/14 03:54 PM
5

Tough situation, but here are my thoughts and recommendations: Legal strategy: a. Your brother absolutely needs an attorney. From the facts you described (custody and support issues), this is not a do-it-yourself divorce. Particularly important are custody matters, which impact upon child support. The cost of the wrong custody and support deal could be $500,000 to $1,000,000 over a lifetime. Beg, borrow, or steal to afford an attorney. Get the shittiest attorney in town if you have to. Go into d…
/r/MensRights03/02/14 11:47 PM
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