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| 445 | “Cooking a nice dinner isn’t a sign of being a grown up. Cleaning your kitchen after that dinner and before you go to bed is being an adult.” | RED FLAG 🚨 | just-peepin-at-u | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 02:20 PM |
| 362 | Female Spaces | RANT | just-peepin-at-u | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 06:06 PM |
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| 26 | Response to 40+ yo men who want kids "someday"Yes, I think that is the thing though, the stringing along. At thirty, you aren’t usually worried too much about time running out. Once your mid thirties hits, it often becomes more of a concern. I think men like this guy are aware of this to some extent, and then, seven years later, pull this nonsense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 08:10 PM |
| 51 | Response to 40+ yo men who want kids "someday"I feel it is something close to reproductive coercion, where he waits until the last possible minute to commit to her and have a kid. My ex dated me and tried to forcibly impregnate me. He became furious when I took the morning after pill. I remember thinking I was 25, I didn’t need to rush. He dated a woman in her early forties who aborted a pregnancy from him before me, and he married a woman who was 41 and they had a kid. He was younger than both women. He finds women near the end of their fe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 07:57 PM |
| 77 | Response to 40+ yo men who want kids "someday"I dated an older man who had that mindset when I was in my early twenties and tapped out. I then had a kid in my thirties with my husband, a man close to my own age. This is definitely a better situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 07:52 PM |
| 169 | 🙄🙄🙄 I just want to say I never like this excuse for a manHe is loaded too. If he wants to sleep in that badly, at least hire a nanny or someone to help with the kids. We all know the rich and famous live a lifestyle beyond what the general public can attain. It isn’t some secret. So what is the deal with him? Camilla doesn’t need less sleep, she just learned to cope. Ugh, this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Guys know that the problem is not purely their looksAbsolutely! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 08:41 PM |
| 23 | Guys know that the problem is not purely their looksAlso, they often way overestimate their own appearance and underestimate the woman’s. I have had several guys confess they were obsessing over a girl that didn’t want them back, and they made comments about how she was average or natural. She would always be in good shape, with a nice face, skin, decent, clean clothing (not necessarily a fashionista, but not someone who dresses like a child or homeless person). Meanwhile, dude will be out of shape and with a creepy or unpleasant personality. He … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 08:40 PM |
| 16 | Guys know that the problem is not purely their looksWell also, physical attraction is a thing. Men can’t help their height, but that isn’t something that women are obligated to look over, and neither is baldness. Besides which, they can stay in decent shape (and so many think they are and they aren’t), and they can do basic stuff to improve their appearances. We expect women to be glorified ornaments, so I don’t care if men are upset women are not attracted to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 08:15 PM |
| 21 | Some scrotes actually think like this--can you even imagine the privilege to complain about this???So even though he is in no way mistreated or confronted, he still feels entitled to women acting a certain way for his benefit, even though it could save their lives or protect them at literally no cost to him at all. 😯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 08:46 PM |
| 22 | Can we talk about men who act like they are doing women a favor by objectifying them?Hahaha ok yeah I am not paying some pervy dude to photograph my naked body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 12:01 AM |
| 10 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)Speaking of media portrayals, men are way moodier than women in my experience too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 09:57 PM |
| 30 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)These dudes and their “I never got to experiment” bullshit. The majority of people don’t live life as the most popular kid in school. Women realize that overall, but the number of men I know who can’t get over freaking high school and are at least in their thirties is staggering. I was never the coolest “It” girl and neither were most women, and most men weren’t having to bat off beautiful, sexually available women. Get over it and develop a healthier outlook and you will be happier for it, menf… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 07:11 PM |
| 50 | In 8 months out of rehab he got a divorce, a new gf and is now expecting a baby....this is going to go great.Yeah, honestly I think you are right there. I guess I am just used to men using women as a tool to move to the next step in their lives, and not as humans in our own right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 04:54 PM |
| 233 | In 8 months out of rehab he got a divorce, a new gf and is now expecting a baby....this is going to go great.I hope his ex is legit child free, and didn’t just do it because he pushed her. I mean, I know women can just not want kids, and more power to those ladies. I just know too many tales of men who just do whatever they want with their first wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 02:13 PM |
| 73 | This is really sad and honestly terrifyingFat men rolling their lardy asses up and expecting an in shape, cute woman is so common, we have about two decades of American TV that validates their bullshit. So many men have been told their entire lives that they are entitled to women they find attractive, and the unconditional support of a woman, but they were never taught to be attractive to women or to offer that same support to us. I want to see a plethora of tv shows where a significantly overweight, not conventionally attractive woman … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 07:18 PM |
| 78 | No, Women Who Support Porn, I'm Not "Insecure".People lived with just husband and wife as their only sex partners, and no porn or anything like that, for centuries. Yes, there was prostitution, but plenty of men did not use it. People have the idea that porn is needed only because we have allowed it to have such inroads in our society. Once people accept it as normal and use it more often, it becomes something they want and feel they need. Men weren’t looking up porn all night, buying dirty magazines, or hitting up strip clubs in Little Hous… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 06:30 PM |
| 205 | No, Women Who Support Porn, I'm Not "Insecure".People lived with just husband and wife as their only sex partners, and no porn or anything like that, for centuries. Yes, there was prostitution, but plenty of men did not use it. People have the idea that porn is needed only because we have allowed it to have such inroads in our society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 06:26 PM |
| 4 | BruhWhat is it with people and their weird social skills? Who does this stuff? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Just got told off by a woman for being mean to a guy who idolises/sees himself in Joaquin Phoenix's JokerPeople who go well into adulthood publicly idolizing fictional characters come off as immature, perhaps mentally unhinged, and always absolute idiots to me. Grown ass men in their thirties and forties posting shit about the freaking Joker constantly should never be dated. I don’t care if someone likes comics or movies etc. I have a lot of fictional stuff I enjoy too, so no judgment. It is the total lack of social awareness with men like that which does me in. Like, they don’t don’t realize they … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 12:51 PM |
| 66 | How did this clown get a doctorate 🤡🤡🤮“Easy solution” for who? Certainly not the women being “given” away to be basically sex slaves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 09:23 PM |
| 29 | This is what LVM do to women…they break and push them to the point of suicide. Can we help this woman?Gawd, what the hell is in this absolute shit show for her? This loser she is with brought a ton of bullshit for her, and then had the audacity to brow beat her about getting to bang other women? This poor woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Ugh, expect?WTF you freak, you watched too much porn. Does this dude actually think women are going around with cucumbers and hairbrushes as sex aids in real life, as a constant real thing, and not his fucked up porn viewing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 01:43 PM |
| 9 | Man of deadbedroom is amazed that it takes effort to have a great marriageI have no idea about that sub overall, because everyone’s situation is going to vary. I have had other ladies tell me their husbands complain about their sex life and the lack of sex, but those same ladies also tell me their husbands don’t put any real effort into helping them enjoy sex. I mean, I wouldn’t want to be used as a glorified sex toy either, so I can understand why they are reluctant to be his masturbation aid while they get nothing. I think that, after awhile of that, most of us woul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 04:14 PM |
| 3 | Seen this repost on FB today. Are men really this stupid?God forbid they wear a condom right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 10:21 PM |
| 168 | Why is it becoming increasingly acceptable for men to be unemployed, not in school, and video game/porn addicted?The people giving backlash are probably people who would end up being saddled with this loser if she leaves (parents, his friends etc.). Another possibility is that they are people with loser offspring or friends, and subconsciously react so harshly to this because their priority is making sure their weirdo son has a cushion, not that he becomes a good partner. A woman finally saying no more puts a mirror in their own faces and makes them see that a woman might not be there for their kid/friend … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 11:02 PM |
| 4 | Disgusting scrote sought out SA survivor to fulfill his “kink.” Reason #485949 to NEVER reveal your trauma to a man when you first start dating. ALWAYS vet for this behavior! I hope she leaves his ass for good!“He says he can go without it,” oh this guy can eat a bag of shit. He can go without it, it being r**e role play. How magnanimous of him. The absolute audacity of that man, really. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 01:37 PM |
| 8 | Wonder if she got picked at the end of the day 🤡The women I knew who grew up Muslim have husbands who provide for them. The women who converted to Islam often ended up supporting their husbands. I have no idea how widespread that is, and I fully admit I grew up in less than stellar areas. It is entirely possible women from financially tough backgrounds and dysfunctional families already had the odds stacked against them when it came to finding a partner that was good to them. Sadly, a lot of men very much relate to a woman and treat her based… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 04:35 PM |
| 30 | I Married a Homeless Man Living Under a BushI would bet money it didn’t work out for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 03:46 PM |
| 18 | Future of scrotes“Did I mention that I am polyamorous?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 12:59 PM |
| 43 | Being skeptical of the advice you get from older women about datingYes, and I also think there is something about women thinking about their sons that makes them go pick me mode. Like the thought of their son being left out because women have standards suddenly starts to erase empathy towards other women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Beware of the self claimed ‘religious’ menI am sorry that happened. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 04:01 PM |
| 9 | What’s with some scrotes’ obsession with high school life when they’re well into adulthood???That is a huge thing with a lot of men. They seem to really think they missed out on something. Men who had a hard time or were wallflowers in high school, but then go on to have a successful adulthood don’t yearn for adolescence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 06:28 PM |
| 13 | What’s with some scrotes’ obsession with high school life when they’re well into adulthood???And we get the privileges of adulthood! Not “Dad doesn’t work and your brother is an idiot. Go to school, hand me your McDonalds money check, clean this house, and do what I tell you!” But actual control over our labor and resources. I have full rights in my home now, not “You work constantly but chronically unemployed man here actually has more say in this house than you do,” and “I kind of resent you and overly depend on you as my daughter, but goddamned if I will own up to it and stop it. So … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 06:24 PM |
| 17 | What’s with some scrotes’ obsession with high school life when they’re well into adulthood???Right! I remember having to work and hand over my checks to my mom because my dad didn’t work. I remember having to physically fight my brother. I remember living in a filthy hoarder house that got worse by the year. I remember being a decent (A and B) student, and working and not causing problems, so having adult responsibilities like financially contributing and cleaning being thrust on me. I remember my mom just cussing me out for stupid crap. Actually, yeah. A lot of my early adulthood came … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 05:41 PM |
| 7 | Why Do So Many Men Kill Their Pregnant Partners?I absolutely think this is part of it. They realize they are bound to her forever pretty much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 05:12 PM |
| 56 | Beware of the self claimed ‘religious’ menI agree with these points. I would also add be careful of “in group,””our group,” thinking. Many religious men think women from their group are for marrying, and women from other religions are for fun. One of my former friends made this mistake. She was not religious at all, but dating a man from a particular religious background. He even took her around his family and posted pics of her on social media. In the end though, he still married someone from his own religion who didn’t have premarital… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 02:32 PM |
| 6 | Be very cautious around men involved in youth ministry and other forms of faith based youth outreach. My story.I remember going with him (my ex) to a Methodist expo thing (he did not introduce me as his gf btw), and there was a black woman who had just finished her doctorate in theology and who ran a food pantry in addition to her job as a minister. She was also a small time monster. So basically the same as my loser ex, with no degree. Whenever I hear the phrase “The mediocrity of a white man,” I think of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 07:27 PM |
| 11 | Be very cautious around men involved in youth ministry and other forms of faith based youth outreach. My story.Beware of men in ministry in general. I dated a much older man at 22 who was a minister. Absolute loser. Let’s be honest: The bar of entry is actually quite low in some denominations. My ex was “working”’on a degree he never finished. He had a salary, health insurance, and a house provided by his church. He also was able to wedge that into a way to be a part time chaplain at hospital. His house was shit, just disgusting what he did to it. He had so much porn on his computer, it was insane. He al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 06:19 PM |
| 26 | Men: all FeMaLeS are liars, they’re so fake. Damn, they want a guy who’s honest and respects them?!? Wow FeMaLeS are so entitled😤… and then they themselves do this..🤔They lie because how dare a woman has preferences right? /s I think a big thing is that people are attracted to ambitious people, and to intelligent people. People do this crap because they don’t want to actually put in the work to be fit or be successful, they just want the status and benefits of those things. Like of course a fit, successful guy is more attractive, just like a fit successful work is, but what, are only men allowed to have standards? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 02:43 PM |
| 18 | Apparently even ancient Rabbis didn’t have time for thirsty dudes and their nonsenseIt plays into that entitlement so many dudes have to this day! Like you aren’t going to fucking die because she won’t have sex with you, and she is a human, not a medicinal herb. STFU and get out of bed, you aren’t dying, you are just a big spoiled whiney baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 04:02 PM |
| 12 | A tale for the ages... a scrote and his complicit family...This is like a soap opera or a telenovela I watch to study Spanish. Is this for real? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 01:03 AM |
| 7 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂This will not happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 07:47 PM |
| 5 | Preach it, sis!“Run my kingdom.” Hahahahaha. There is no kingdom and there won’t be one either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 03:32 PM |
| 3 | I love her so much!!!!I am sorry :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 12:48 AM |
| 10 | I love her so much!!!!WTF why? Did he deliberately drop you, or did he have weak upper body strength and couldn’t do it?! Neither one is acceptable, btw, I just need to know what manner of crazy he is before I get my book of curses out. I am so sorry. That is awful. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 03:00 PM |
| 12 | Just got sent this from a friend....5’9 not attractive...is he taking the piss?Even if he can cook, so what? The amount of men I knew in my single years who wouldn’t stfu about being a good cook and who were complete douches is massive. If it were a venn of the two characteristics, it would be a circle. A lot of people are great cooks. It is fine to cook for someone at some point. But dear lord can you please STFU about it? Cooking us a basic life skill. I don’t want to see more than a casual mention of it at first. It isn’t a personality trait that needs in depth explanat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 11:55 AM |
| 36 | I love her so much!!!!It’s also so they can feel strong without actually being strong. Like I have always been fairly athletic, and as a woman in my mid twenties, I was about 115-120, just because I mostly kept fat off, and didn’t put on muscle easily. Skinny fat dudes were the weirdest dudes about weight. The men who actually had some muscle have never cared about my weight to that extent. They didn’t need me to be a stick so they could feel bigger by comparison. Seriously, a 5’5 woman closing in on 130lbs is not en… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 06:15 PM |
| 38 | I love her so much!!!!Those young girls behind him seem to love watching him go down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 06:11 PM |
| 8 | What not to do... there's a lot to unpack hereEspecially childless women. The amount of men who were creepy and entitled with me as a young childless woman, when they were significantly older either kids...if it was a diagram, it would be a circle. They want the resources you bring to the table, but expect you to settle for whatever mess they made in life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 05:03 PM |
| 6 | THE LOWEST VALUE MEN ON TELEVISIONPlus he sought her out as a trophy and lied about everything he was. She didn’t even have the chance to accept or reject the real him. I get that she isn’t the most likeable character. He wanted the status of her as a wife though, and misled her every step of the way. Is she a self absorbed person? Sure, but she never hid who she actually is, as opposed to Don who doesn’t even let his wife know his real name. I hate how fans demonize her so much compared to him. They are both unhealthy and toxic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 05:00 PM |
| 3 | I love Reductress. They cover a range of topics, I just grabbed ones I thought you all would like. 👏That first one and the “pull out method” joke. Same dudes freak out if a girl gets pregnant, or they do it on purpose to trap her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 03:04 PM |
| 7 | Pick-me's vs Handmaidens -- an important distinctionThat is how a lot of the well off white liberals are, tbh. I am pretty liberal myself, but I see it. It is a part of why Clinton was so unpopular with a lot of voters. Just a part, mind you, there were definitely other reasons. A lot of well off white liberals preach about racial and class solidarity, but move to some of the most socially and racist exclusive areas and send their kids to school there. It is the same for women’s issues. Elizabeth Warren isn’t a poor Oklahoma kid anymore. If a dau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 03:15 PM |
| 39 | My gynecologist told me the REAL reason she shortens IUD strings- it's because men try to remove IUDs with out their partner's consent.He absolutely knew what he did wrong. He was just gas lighting you to make you feel like the irrational one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 12:12 PM |
| 37 | My gynecologist told me the REAL reason she shortens IUD strings- it's because men try to remove IUDs with out their partner's consent.“Fix the relationship” and also keep her around to pay for his shit and take care of him is how that stuff usually starts to play out.:( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 12:10 PM |
| 37 | My gynecologist told me the REAL reason she shortens IUD strings- it's because men try to remove IUDs with out their partner's consent.This is why I believe we always harp too much, as a society, on women deliberately sabotaging birth control. I am someone who had a partner who attempted reproductive coercion. These men don’t want the baby most of the time, they just want to limit and control their partner. They will be lackluster fathers, at best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 12:09 PM |
| 6 | This is why I’m okay with not getting married or having children. I’d much rather be out experiencing life and enjoying myself than have to deal with thisIt kind of ties into something I noticed with the Disney Channel, of all stupid things. The kids are snarky and the parents are idiots whose kids are their equals and run the show. Hell no to that for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 08:07 PM |
| 29 | A comment on an article about disrespectful things men have said to their wives during labor. He literally got off to her being in pain, and she doesn't seem to see this as a problemOr she has just been conditioned by society or her fucked up husband to always gas light herself that she totally doesn’t mind his weird shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 02:27 PM |
| 2 | The things mentioned in this article are big reasons why I would never consider dating a military man. I had no idea just how sexist & pornified the military is until fairly recently. This is from the same time frame as the Marines United scandal.Thank you! Yeah my friend’s ex sucked, but has long since moved on. We were talking just the other day about how glad she is they didn’t have kids together. She is married to a great guy now, and her life is much better. Her ex got kicked out because he continually bombed his PT, and also because he was in constant financial trouble and failed to promote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 02:47 PM |
| 6 | But - but younger women love older men! /s“Above average.” I find that hard to believe, tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 01:41 PM |
| 11 | A group of boys harasses and assaults a group of girls minding their own business.And of fucking course the train operator doesn’t open the doors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 11:52 PM |
| 34 | Do you know Betty M. James? Well, you should, she was a badass Queen.I wonder if he is projecting and he left a woman with some kids he doesn’t take care of haha? I see that all the time, dudes just walking off and when women succeed in spite of men, men get angry that they weren’t able to destroy her. Oh well, sucks to be a lvm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 02:06 AM |
| 17 | The things mentioned in this article are big reasons why I would never consider dating a military man. I had no idea just how sexist & pornified the military is until fairly recently. This is from the same time frame as the Marines United scandal.Interesting that today is military spouse appreciation day. Why do I bring it up? Well, I am a military spouse. I am happily married to a good guy. I didn’t even realize it was today until it was posted on the local base page. Just hear me out. I don’t expect people to treat me better because of my husband being in the military. However, on the page it was a bunch of military spouses joking around about being addressed by their husband’s rank and such. It was like seeing who could out “cool girl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 11:09 PM |
| 31 | Matthew Perry weaponizes his Hollywood status to force teen girls young enough to be his granddaughter to look at him on dating apps. Tik Tokker calls him out.Chrissy Tegan is someone who I occasionally agree with, but who also is very obnoxious and self serving with how she uses her platform. She bullied other women at times but then expects compassion when she shares her own struggles. I mean I feel sad for her miscarriage, just for example, and it was brave of her to share that loss. She still mistreats other people and gets away with a lot of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 11:00 AM |
| 3 | There is a steep and rapid decline in US birth rates. The media is placing the blame on the pandemic but I’m just over here like, “Have you seen these men out here lately?”God wait, you are so right. I do have that memory too! Damn that makes sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 09:27 PM |
| 2 | There is a steep and rapid decline in US birth rates. The media is placing the blame on the pandemic but I’m just over here like, “Have you seen these men out here lately?”I wonder why boys do better in Co-Ed? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 06:44 PM |
| 4 | There is a steep and rapid decline in US birth rates. The media is placing the blame on the pandemic but I’m just over here like, “Have you seen these men out here lately?”It is always a woman’s fault for them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 06:43 PM |
| 9 | Imagine how this "man" would treat you. He barely sees women as human. This is why we don't date down ladies!I always wonder what the end goal is for Pickmes like that, tbh. So they get picked....then what? I get it, they aren’t like the rest of us, they are so cool and awesome. So they end up with these dudes and feel terrible forever? The mind boggles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 02:41 PM |
| 6 | Scrote wants pity for getting dumped after stringing ex along for 10 years.I would bet actual money he wasn’t going to propose and is just saying that now to make her second guess herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 12:30 PM |
| 16 | So you don’t want to date women who strip or do porn? That’s fair. We don’t want to date men who go to strip clubs or who watch porn.Well we have also created a culture where playing video games for hours on end all the time in normalized. I don’t like porn, but I also differentiate between a young teen watching it and a man well into adulthood. It becomes weirder and weirder the older people are. Video games are fine, I just can’t with gamer culture. Like, get off the damned video games and work out or just do something constructive. Adults spending their lives on games is freaking weird to me. So basically we have an extend… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 01:08 PM |
| 245 | Hobosexuals.I actually have had people get angry when I suggest they work on their lives before dating. Like dude is here is thinking of moving into a homeless shelter for heavens sake! Last thing he needs to worry about is a girlfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 03:29 PM |
| 9 | Poverty rate in the U.S. by age and gender in 2019 - Debunking lies about men being worse off than women "these days." In every age group, women are poorer than men. Women, always have your own money, and save it where other people can't touch it.Why are even under 18 year olds impacted? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 07:53 PM |
| 19 | Some nonsense, and people calling it out lmaoI know this sounds bad, but so many nurses I have known in my own life have been with losers. I think it is just the desire to help others and the nurturing part of them, but yeah, I have known nurses who are married to a guy who won’t work consistently, and they work as a nurse and then do the cleaning and cooking. I am not saying that is across the board, but I have just seen that. What was this man doing that meant he couldn’t clean that up himself? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 07:51 PM |
| 6 | Fat lvm hitting on fit womenA woman would be expected by society to be in great shape herself before seeking out a fit man. Men are allowed by society to just exist in the “working on it” phase and that is supposedly enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 03:38 PM |
| 14 | Rape is just entertainment for them 🙄Interesting to me that even GoT, with the gratuitous sex and violence, didn’t show the full on graphic rape of Sansa and cut the camera away. I was honestly surprised they didn’t go for it, but glad they didn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 03:19 PM |
| 86 | I live in a van down by the river - is this a turn off?I just wanted to add that if this sort of thing works for you, great! However, the majority of people don’t do this, and he needs to get through his head that yes, this won’t be a positive thing for most women. His whole spiel about “Pixies” pisses me off too. Like get a grip, women are humans, not Fairies sent down to fulfill your dreams of pooping behind a tree and bathing in the stream. I am just gonna say it too: A lot of these men are super immature. I did the ESL teacher abroad thing, and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 02:18 PM |
| 72 | I literally cannot remember the last time a woman approached me in public for anything.Whoa that is awful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 10:55 AM |
| 3 | I still don't understand other women putting their worth into how much pleasure a man can get out of their vaginas.I hate when women use vulgar language to describe ourselves. Like she doesn’t say “My partner sent me beautiful flowers, love ya babe!” No, she reduces herself to a body part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:34 PM |
| 12 | This woman has clearly been manipulated by a LVM who convinced her that his porn habits are to be blamed on her.Pop country is generally terrible. I happened to scroll through her TikTok and all the songs are that pop country crap. She has Morgan Wallace, who recently got into crap for using the racist language. She also had Chris Young, who I briefly went to school with in TN, and was an insufferable little jerk even back then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 01:00 PM |
| 2 | This woman has clearly been manipulated by a LVM who convinced her that his porn habits are to be blamed on her.Whoa, I don’t know about other religious, but Christianity is absolutely not ok with pornography. I mean, obviously Christians use porn, I am just saying it isn’t validated during sermons or anything like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 10:01 AM |
| 78 | I love how often this lady gets schooled. This was a scary one though, be a bitch and follow your instincts.I just hope that men know that Jackie is a totally cool girl who is not like other girls and just doesn’t get along with other women for some reason. Totally one of the guys and she should get picked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 08:26 PM |
| 13 | My cousin was molested by her stepbrother and his friends. The proliferation of "stepbro/stepsis" porn is something we should all be very, very worried about.Allen vs Farrow really delved into “Parental Alienation,” and how much is is abused as a tool in court cases. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 02:54 PM |
| 3 | So they got “married” in the eyes of God so they could have sex but the man has not even proposed to her...why?Damn, the mental gymnastics of that one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 06:04 PM |
| 131 | Best post in the history of reddit. Not for the audacity of this POS, but the backlash he got from the replies. He really thought he could use this baby to control her and it backfired HORRIBLY. Love to men getting a taste of their own medicine. I hope this woman is great and doing well 🎉🙏🏼He expected that she would stay with him and do the bulk of parenting, or, failing that, he would be the weekend dad while she struggled financially and socially. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 06:53 PM |
| 358 | Best post in the history of reddit. Not for the audacity of this POS, but the backlash he got from the replies. He really thought he could use this baby to control her and it backfired HORRIBLY. Love to men getting a taste of their own medicine. I hope this woman is great and doing well 🎉🙏🏼I had an ex obsessed with getting me pregnant. He already had two abortions from two different women in his past. He fought tooth and nail about condoms. I should have left immediately. He did have a baby with another woman, and she looks like shit now. He wore her ass out basically. I don’t mean that in a catty, competitive way. I mean that she looks like she works full time and takes care of their now two children almost entirely by herself, while dealing with his mentally ill abusive ass. She… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 01:22 PM |
| 10 | ANOTHER SLUG UPDATE and honestly, this one is much worse. He was clearly exploiting her mental illnesses for his own personal amusement. One of the most disgusting, depraved, and truly evil things I've ever seen.What the fuck am I reading? Holy shit this poor woman! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 01:35 AM |
| 13 | Who else can relate? My last ex once ranted at me for 19 minutes straight without taking a breath.Well the next time someone walks into a crowd or school and starts firing away, I will remember how “logical” and “unemotional” men are. Considering how validated many men seem to be when the very rare woman does it, if suggests some fairly shitty things about their own mental health. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 01:02 PM |
| 52 | Who else can relate? My last ex once ranted at me for 19 minutes straight without taking a breath.Right? Like I am opposed to any form of circumcision, including male. I just hate that every single time the topic of FGM comes up, men have to latch on to the topic of male circumcision. It is not right, I get it, but they still enjoy sex, and GOD FORBID women try to address issues that affect women without hoards of men crying to us as though we were expected to do their work for them. To add insult, the rate of infant male circumcision is rapidly dropping in the US, so it isn’t like people ar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 12:43 PM |
| 16 | Your life does not end at 18 nor your worth as a womanDo y’all think this is really a woman? I do have my doubts to be honest. I mean it could be internalized misogyny, but it also sounds like a man that just hates women and is pretending to be one so they can indirectly “neg” every woman who reads it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 01:53 PM |
| 76 | THIS is why I’m so hard on my friends who say marriage is just a piece of paper. THIS. Nobody in this world will look out for us and our progeny, so WE must take out our own insurance policies“tHe tiMe JuST nEvER seeMeD RiGHt” oh sure, wtf ever he wasn’t gonna ever marry her and he knows it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 05:39 PM |
| 29 | Apparently I need to lower my body standards of men now 🥴The really out of shape dudes I dated were actually douchebags. My husband works out twice a day for his job, and treats everyone well. So....not sure I buy this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:04 PM |
| 69 | This 43 year old bald disgusting man cornered my gorgeous 25 year old girl friend at church while she was volunteering and demanded her phone number.I think a big part of that is also that they don’t care if they make a woman uncomfortable. It isn’t on their radar. This man is not concerned with her feelings and he never was. He wanted her to do for him. Her actual attraction to him is irrelevant to him, only his attraction to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 09:53 PM |
| 432 | This 43 year old bald disgusting man cornered my gorgeous 25 year old girl friend at church while she was volunteering and demanded her phone number.This post and comment section really sparked something in me because of my history. Just going to venture that this man is an idiot, but also likely just absolutely a nutter. Men are allowed to be batshit crazy, and we all have to accommodate it. Meanwhile, society loves women to be “crazy,” cause it is so convenient. Just for example, Britney Spears was well enough to perform for huge crowds for years, but too mentally unstable to control her own money. Oh no! Better let her redneck asshole dad… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 06:32 PM |
| 107 | This 43 year old bald disgusting man cornered my gorgeous 25 year old girl friend at church while she was volunteering and demanded her phone number.I really think some of them do believe that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 06:27 PM |
| 92 | This 43 year old bald disgusting man cornered my gorgeous 25 year old girl friend at church while she was volunteering and demanded her phone number.You would think that, I get it. It makes sense on surface level. However, that isn’t always the reality. I was 22 and dated a 38 year old, mentally ill preacher who became a more obvious asshat than he already was once he realized I wasn’t going to sleep with him. I also had two older dudes creep on me at church. I remember when a friend died, I was at church crying and this one much older man asked me on a date when I had tears in my eyes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 06:27 PM |
| 24 | This 43 year old bald disgusting man cornered my gorgeous 25 year old girl friend at church while she was volunteering and demanded her phone number.I am really done with society allowing men to be absolute loons but labeling every women who says “No,” as a crazy lady. Ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 06:24 PM |
| 41 | If this has been posted before please remove it. But sisters, this is where 50-50 will get you. It's their kid, but her bills.It.Never.Fucking.Fails. So sick of kids being raised by selfish asshat parents who can’t pull their shit together for the sake of a kid. Growing up, I knew so many girls just in shit conditions who got into terrible relationships. Men like this woman’s husband are on the prowl for girls who are financially and emotionally strapped by their batshit families. Like God forbid parents pull their shit together enough not to make their young teens fodder for predatory freaks. I know at some point we h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 02:01 PM |
| 146 | America's Next Top Model is male propaganda that grooms young women to think they're not allowed to say "no"I remember watching a woman having her head shaved and crying the whole time because “models do this stuff.”’Fuck that show | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 11:11 PM |
| 5 | I'm done being polite to accommodate men's egosOh yeah! I first started teaching at college when I was twenty four, and the amount of weird interactions I had with men AND women was ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 11:30 AM |
| 6 | What did I just read?!I am a teacher myself, and I look back on some of the stuff I experienced as a young student, and then I hear this shit and I just go “What the fuck?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 11:23 AM |
| 7 | Support her against the sjws, scrotes. She’s a medical prof.When I was in eighth grade, I read an article in my aunt’s cosmo magazine about an intersexual girl who basically had her clitoris amputated and was lied to about it for years. It was horrifying. That was how I even knew what it was, from that article. It is like even other women have been obsessed with pleasing men, not only as partners but medical professionals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 08:52 PM |
| 62 | Support her against the sjws, scrotes. She’s a medical prof.I remember being in high school and we were discussing anatomy. This part of our anatomy wasn’t even talked about. I thought that was kind of fucked up even as a high school kid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 01:20 PM |
| 52 | Great thread. I get it’s a joke but it erases the violence and often horrifying nature that has come with being a housewifeGawd, my grandmother was Native American and white. She had to work constantly to support her family. Her own mother was a housewife who worked her ass off on a farm. The majority of housewives worked constantly unless they were very specifically in a certain socioeconomic class. They couldn’t leave their husbands if they turned out to be evil either, at least not easily. The women I know who are worn out by working, staying at home, or anything else often have shit partners, like the one lady s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 09:13 PM |
| 3 | To young women browsing this sub: For the love of Venus, PLEASE don't waste your sexual exploration focusing on a man's pleasure.Yes. Plus for men, it is much easier for them to even get off during sex, especially for younger folks. Now that is apparently changing because they have conditioned themselves to constantly push the envelope, but they are the ones that let porn break their brains, so they can be the ones to go to therapy and fix that, or else deal with the consequences of the not enjoying normal sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 01:06 PM |
| 13 | NVM afraid to be judged like he judges single moms, cry me a river. The *last* interaction I will ever have OLD, 7 months clean and a much, much happier life without it!Oh but see that is what really pisses him off. You won’t have bio kids of your own, so even better for him! You can spend your time and money on his kids and take that heat off him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 01:58 PM |
| 68 | NVM afraid to be judged like he judges single moms, cry me a river. The *last* interaction I will ever have OLD, 7 months clean and a much, much happier life without it!The audacity of him to be like “You need to redo the words on your profile so as not to offend people like me.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 01:51 AM |
| 12 | This man has the audacity to just walk into a woman’s house uninvited! But she fought back!I am so glad she kept swinging because it gave him less of a chance to gear up and hit her back. By keeping him on the defense instead of letting him have a moment to strike she may have helped buy herself time and forced him to retreat sooner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 03:18 PM |
| 10 | Low blood sugar can cause seizure or death but scrote needs his candy.Ok all I am saying is, he doesn’t “think she is just hot.” He has been told what will happen, he sees it happening, and it has happened multiple times. No, he doesn’t just “think she is hot,” at this point. He doesn’t care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 01:42 PM |
| 9 | This man has the audacity to just walk into a woman’s house uninvited! But she fought back!The fucking entitlement to a woman’s time, space, and person. She was in her own home, and he felt entitled to come in, and entitled to her time. Like hey, stop what you are doing and talk to me. Let me come into your home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 01:39 PM |
| 14 | This was from 84’ imagine how it is today...I know there are good men out there because I am married to one and friends with others, but even with that being said about my own personal life, it still shocks me to see this man actually articulate and care about women. It took me a moment to really process that it was a man talking about how porn hurts men AND women, because I am just so used to men justifying their crap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 07:30 PM |
| 20 | Why are men such assholes about women's muscles???I also noticed men who are in really good shape don’t tend to give unsolicited fitness advice as often. The same in martial arts. Men who are actually decent grapplers or whatever don’t feel the need to tell women how to do things. Every BJJ female participant I know has men who are just starting out explain things to them. Like these men are so insecure that the only flex they can have is over a woman. The idea being even if they aren’t athletic or good at whatever sport, they can always feel s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 02:29 PM |
| 31 | LVM Triggered on a Post of a Woman Giving Birth. Apparently if the Woman is Giving Birth Willingly, She Doesn't Deserve Gratitude.I can only speak as an American here, but actually dude, there is quite a bit of hero worship (at least in the US) towards veterans, and last I checked, we don’t have a draft. By the way, my husband is career military, so it isn’t like I am against the armed forces at all, I just find this argument stupid. Also, quickly ninja edit here, but there are plenty of women in the military too. They often face serious harassment and assault too, sadly. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 12:36 AM |
| 22 | New concept- womb disciplineYeah I have had students from China talk about the pressure to get married. It seems intense, even from the outside looking in. I remember watching a news documentary about some girls in India who fought back, as a group, when some boys were grabbing them. They won that fight, but then the parents of the boys (moms included) came out with sticks and beat them! The other day, a woman on this sub went posted about a woman in Afghanistan who was reading poetry about how she hated being married to a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 11:52 PM |
| 29 | These guys are around us, ladies.That first guy reminds me of the video that woman posted of the man who basically kidnapped her and got mad she wouldn’t have sex with him. “I’m trying to help you!” I remember him whining indignantly, stamping his foot like a petulant toddler. Because of course nothing screams “I am aiding you!” Quite like coercion and lies right? Any time some starts off something with anything resembling “Let me give it to you straight,” I can almost guarantee we are fixing to hear/read some crap that is more… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 11:36 PM |
| 17 | What the Pickme Fuck? Admin of Supposedly All Female Breastfeeding Group Allowing Men to Pay to Join and Harass Women. Group Had 22.5K MembersThe way they just state it like “Listen, those profiles pay good money to be here..” WTF? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 11:16 PM |
| 5 | Society needs to stop perpetuating the myth that women should settle for unattractive men because they'll be "nicer". Women should be allowed to date whoever they want whether men like it or not.God yes. In my experience, men don’t have to be drop dead gorgeous but they do need to be in reasonably decent shape and have good hygiene and decent fashion (clean clothing which is appropriate for the situation) to have decent social/interpersonal skills. Going into situations in horrifically terrible shape and making now effort to fix it, not caring about hygiene or clothing...of course their social skills are weak. People are put off from interacting with them. I don’t mean body shaming, bec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 01:10 PM |
| 11 | Dating as a woman irl: low effort coffee dates and disappointing sexHoly shit. Well first of all, most men I dated rated themselves much higher, physically, than they actually were. For all the dudes who “Work out,” they sure look like pudgy little dough asses. 🤔 So I am already suspicious of his self assessment. Secondly, yes women get hit on often...by low quality men. Yeah, I bet he wouldn’t be thrilled if the only women who asked him out for “exisiting” were ladies he had zero interest in. What, he thinks a swarm of reasonably attractive, intelligent, decent… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 08:18 PM |
| 5 | How lvms are created :(A lot of times in cases like this, women project the man they want on their son. Their son’s father bailed? He is around but a loser? Well that energy is going into building up their sons as a replacement for the man who didn’t measure up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 08:08 PM |
| 149 | Reminder: Friends with benefits is a scam!Considering most men are garbage in bed, we can just add that a man who doesn’t value a woman enough to commit to her will most definitely not be putting forth the effort needed to please her. This “need” women claim to have for sex isn’t going to most likely be fulfilled by a guy playing this stuff anyways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 03:57 AM |
| 39 | What it would look like if scrotes were allowed on FDS... I have had most honest and benefitting conversations about dating, sex, feminism and women's issues only in absence of men (link to article in comment)Of course a man shut her up. These men all bank on having a young woman given to them by their families one day. The idea that a woman has a right to enjoy sex with her husband, and that it they could be lacking in any way, is not allowed in their view. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 03:18 AM |
| 21 | NVM runs over jogger and kills her. His first thought? Take her into a field and sexually abuse her dead body. Men ALWAYS think with their dick....ALWAYS!Grew up in part in Arkansas. A lot of people look prematurely aged there, sadly, especially the men. I don’t assume the worst in folks without knowing better, but there are several reasons. One, more innocent reason, is that people simply are poorer and have to deal with a lot of the crap that comes with that early on. Not ideal, but not a moral judgement and I feel for them. The other, much worse, reason is that people get involved with drugs and shady shit. I actually have sympathy for addicts… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 03:14 AM |
| 21 | Red flag after red flags: More reasons why age gap relationships suckAt this point, I hope she DOES get a full time job and uses that as a path out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 02:59 AM |
| 119 | Y'all hear that...??...but a lot of women do bring those things and more to the table. It is like she set up a giant straw man to take down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 02:54 AM |
| 21 | Oh really? Hmm.. you don’t say?I want to ask them, “Sowhat?” It is like yes, they can absolutely not be interested in a woman because of her weight. All we are saying is if a woman isn’t interested in a man because did his height, ok. Whatever. Doesn’t matter if it can be controlled or not. This isn’t some gotcha moment, they can be attracted to whoever and so can women. No fairness about it. Some people have an easier time dating because of their looks. It is what it is. They need to get over that. Men aren’t told to give a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 10:27 PM |
| 44 | Drowning in red flagsLike burying the lede there, just busting out the “Dom Sub” crap like it is supposed to be just another attribute and not some seriously fucked up shit that justifiably freaks out the majority of people. He is just stating it nonchalantly like he telling folks he is vegetarian, and not that he is going to beat the crap out of a woman in the bedroom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:20 PM |
| 51 | contrary to belief deadbeat dads are very proud of being deadbeatsHeck, even having a dad for the fun parts is a huge improvement for some kids. Let’s say there is a fun Disney dad type. It isn’t ideal, but holy crap it is better than a lot of other dads. At least he doesn’t skip out of child support and makes some effort to be in the kids life. At least he gives the mom a break to catch her breath for a few days a month. Yeah, the bar is in hell. I am just saying, the dudes I knew who pushed for babies before marriage and shit like that? They did it to contro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:27 PM |
| 6 | Woman posts about fiancé who refuses her request for help carrying something while she’s on crutches. He admits that he doesn’t feel empathy, and many comments telling her she needs to help him. Also, my reply triggers angry scrotes.Dude is 28, if he doesn’t have empathy now, nothing she is going to do will change it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 06:20 PM |
| 46 | What LVM really mean when they say...When I dated back in my early twenties, a lot of guys I dated with really skinny. I don’t body shame (unless they bring it first, then all bets are off), but these guys sure did. They HATED bigger women and made a point to constantly talk about how much they loved me being 120 ish pounds. When I started dating guys who were actually in really good shape and lifted a lot? They liked me being “in shape,” but didn’t care if that was 120 or 135. You know why? Because the skinny guys felt self consci… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 07:03 PM |
| 20 | Yup 😂I am glad he got told off, but after the porn thing, and then especially the “bitch” thing, he needed to be straight up fired. What does he need to do, set the place ablaze before he is let go? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 01:44 PM |
| 27 | Yup 😂Considering most men are either “skinny fat” (naturally thin but unhealthy and unattractive, with no muscle tone worth noting), or just outright chubsters themselves, I don’t think they can caste too much shade in this department, and yet.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 01:39 PM |
| 24 | Dont politely laugh for a man, if he's not funnyYeah, my experiences with comedians as friends is that they are either nice enough folks who work their way through trauma with humor, or total douchebags. Interestingly enough, the people who are nicer usually have funnier sets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 01:31 PM |
| 40 | This man going viral as his many wives figure it out.When I looked at the Facebook pages about him, the vast majority of support for the women he cheated on is coming from other women. There are a few men, but it overwhelmingly female. There are men sending insults to the women though, so there is that I guess? If a woman had pulled even a smudge of this, men AND women would be tearing her apart. When it is a man just throwing damage everywhere? Pretty much radio silence. This is why I don’t chime in when men go on about how woman did something te… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 10:11 PM |
| 26 | ...what’s YOUR worst case?Part of that is so that some of the men saying this crap to you don’t have to acknowledge that they are part of the problem and have done some shady shit themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 02:01 PM |
| 97 | Why do men ALWAYS settle down with the next girl after me?Hey first of all, I am sorry because I know that hurts. I don’t think you are missing out on any great quality person, so I am not actually sorry they didn’t settle down with you, because you deserve better, but again, I know that those situations sting. Let me get on something that I feel strongly about: Good people don’t want to cause others unnecessary pain. Good people don’t want to play games to see how much they can “get away with.” These men shouldn’t have that sort of mindset with anyone… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 07:00 PM |
| 17 | She’s sixteen...“He studied law.” No he didn’t. He listened to some YouTube videos that aligned with his world view, like millions of other people now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:04 PM |
| 5 | She’s sixteen...Pesky females with their healthy boundaries! Cannot let a young girl form a healthy and respectful view of herself and sexuality, that might spread to other women her age and interfere with his ability to abuse them for his own gratification. He is way too interested in making sure she doesn’t have a boundary. He is super upset about her having a reasonable expectation of having her own body respected. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:02 PM |
| 12 | You ever feel disgusted at the absolute scum you allowed to touch your body?I dated a much older man (38 to my 22) and never actually had full PIV sex with him. He was massively overweight and lived in a shithole. Oh it was a nice house he lived in which was providing by his church as part of his job as a minister. It was just disgusting because he didn’t clean. I was a super in shape Tae Kwon Do kid who just never had been able to date because my family was insane. I met him in school while he went back for the umpteenth time to finish that History degree (I mean fucki… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 04:36 PM |
| 113 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"It doesn’t help their cause that so many men don’t do much of anything during their twenties and even thirties. So it isn’t like decades ago when they could bank on a decent job just for existing. Women have to care about our careers even more because so many men haven’t given a shit about theirs. Oh, so men don’t care about careers? That makes sense because a large chunk of the guys I grew up with remain absolute losers who never cared about their own careers, so why would they care about a wom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 04:15 PM |
| 18 | Why a man taking drugs is an immediate disqualifier (yes, even cannabis)Hey, if you have a boundary that it is totally unacceptable, that is totally ok and your boundary to have. I am not a fan of pothead culture myself. I had more of an issue with pot when it was totally illegal where I lived, just because I thought it was stupid to use it and go through that risk. Now that it is legal? I still am not a huge fan of people using it all the time (outside of medical reasons), but I don’t care if they do every now and then. Yeah though, you having a standard of no pot … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 07:55 PM |
| 199 | Why a man taking drugs is an immediate disqualifier (yes, even cannabis)I have never had good experiences with dudes who smoke a lot of pot. I don’t mean occasionally, but really smoke it all the time. People like to joke about “Have you ever seen an angry pothead?” I just say,”Yes, when you take away pot and force them face reality without their cannabis crutch. They turn into real assholes most of the time.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 04:57 PM |
| 17 | Lack of support of independent female children is neglect.Nope. Graduate degree, paid off all my debt, and have a career where I lived and worked in three different countries by the time I was thirty. I didn’t work at the chicken factory, but I did work elsewhere full time through school. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 09:25 PM |
| 15 | Lack of support of independent female children is neglect.This is why I get mad at women sometimes right along with the men. We (society), keep investing and pushing women to invest in these shitty dudes. We do it in large part because so many men are giant babies who freak out if the girl doesn’t “give them a chance.” So we offload the losers on women. We push women to take one for the team, so there is one less angry, violent loser of a man for society to deal with. He can be her problem, basically. I think it is great when a woman loves and support … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 06:53 PM |
| 26 | Lack of support of independent female children is neglect.With a safety net too! My dad was chronically unemployed for most of my life. Work a few years, then be out of work for a few years. Wash, rinse, and repeat. My mom had me turn over my paychecks to her when I was in high school. My brother is now in his early thirties and has never had a job. Yet who did mom call and tell to drop out of the college (that she wasn’t paying for) and work at a chicken factory? Me. Not the men. Who got to have his apartment paid for over five years while he “went to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 06:39 PM |
| 20 | Lack of support of independent female children is neglect.I really feel that a lot of this is projection from the women to their sons. The man they had children with ran off, is weak, or just a general “eh” at best. So they take that energy and put it on their sons. They put that love and investment on them, trying to make them the man they didn’t have. Like some messed up emotional incest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 06:34 PM |
| 115 | Narcissist mommy (inlaw) humiliates bride at alter, and LVM groom doesn't say or do a damn thing to defend her. SPINELESSHer dumbass showing up in shorts to a wedding should have been the first sign this was gonna get trashtastic in a hot minute. When did we all, as a society, just decide we didn’t give a shit anymore? When did people start saying,”You know what? I think I will roll up to my kids wedding, a formal wedding in a church, wearing shorts and acting stupid?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 08:32 PM |
| 31 | UnReAliStIc mALe bEaUtY sTanDardS!!!That is hilarious to me when men would say shit like that, because how many dudes do y’all know that actually look like they work out? I mean look yall, I get it. I do. I live in the states and we have an issue with obesity. I am not into stringing people over the coals for not looking a certain way. I just think it is funny how all these dudes go on and on about how they work out and go to the gym, but they sure as hell don’t look like it. I understand Korean men are generally much healthier th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 06:54 PM |
| 28 | Woman fully supports boyfriend for two years, paying all his bills, including his schooling, all so he can cheat on her with a classmate in the car his girlfriend gave him. Wait until you hear what he says at the end.He was letting her build him up and was going to run off after he drained her. Let this be a reality check: You don’t build a partner like that. He can put himself through school just like so many of us. Does working all the time and going to school suck? Sure, but you don’t need to work two jobs to put a BOYFRIEND through school. He isn’t even a husband to her. :( He got her at the end too. She can’t recoup the loss of the money and time she put in for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 10:52 PM |
| 24 | Of course, everyone is telling her to coMmUniCaTe. If a woman did this, she'd be called a gold diggerMy husband and brother in law play LEGO’s with our nephews, but I see what you are saying. Honestly? I can deal with video games, LEGO’s or whatever. I just can’t handle grown men doing that shit for hours all the time when they neglect their responsibilities...which happens... a lot. This guy in OP acts like a teen with a job for fun money, not an adult partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 05:55 PM |
| 46 | "All the Time I Wasted Trying to Please Indifferent Men": Former Bloomberg journalist leaves husband for Pharma Bro Martin Shkreli - who then dumped her through his lawyersYes, I get what the writer and commenters are saying. Even when we tell girls not to play dumb early on, society still pushes that message. A big elephant in the room (to me) is that we have all dropped the ball so badly with men, that men now are regressing. Promising women fall over men not worth nearly half of themselves because, out of available men, those are what seems to be the best options available. We are not a society filled with promising, kind, intelligent and hardworking men. So wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 05:52 PM |
| 16 | As captioned on Twitter: what it’s like having sex with menThat firework sums things up with an ex of mine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 02:13 AM |
| 23 | My ex telling me I "have" to talk to him. I only reply if its about our son.But then goes on about your “Satanic nature” in his rant. I am glad he is your ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 11:53 PM |
| 6 | "MeN dOnT gEt AnY CoMpLiMeNtS"It looks like he has a ballsack on his face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 08:24 PM |
| 47 | My ex telling me I "have" to talk to him. I only reply if its about our son.I think he wants to shame OP into giving him another chance or something like that. When she (rightly) wishes to only speak about their son, he tries to gaslight her about her “controlling” nature or she doesn’t understand what he is saying. He talks about a therapist and again alludes to her apparently evil nature. Note she is only controlling and satanic when she doesn’t have sex with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 05:11 PM |
| 15 | My ex telling me I "have" to talk to him. I only reply if its about our son.I love when he put that laughing emoji at the end. I can guarantee he isn’t laughing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 05:08 PM |
| 161 | Found this on Twitter, sooo many LVM mad in the commentsOften bad sex at that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 05:06 PM |
| 22 | Predatory Romance in Harrison Ford MoviesIf y’all have seen the new movie Greyhound about the Battle of the Atlantic, Tom Hanks is the lead. I remember at the star of the film, it showed him with actress Elizabeth Shue and I instantly just felt relieved. It was so nice to see age appropriate pairings. I googled it and she is 57 to his 64. So sick of seeing 60 year old leads with 25 year old actresses. Harrison Ford also was one of the many who supported Roman Polanski, if memory serves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:37 PM |
| 17 | I am speechlessYeah, and this dude wants to be an interpreter that works with the Deaf? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:44 PM |
| 8 | I am speechlessYeah I thought (hoped) she was going to talk about how this guy really liked a girl and started learning ASL to talk with her. Nope, just to prey on her. Gawd | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:43 PM |
| 5 | CMV: guys who are overly competitive about everything think sunglasses make them look cooler than they areThat was what I was thinking too. General rule: Don’t use pics more than two years old for profiles. Men FREAK OUT if women put up pics from years ago, and you know what? I get it. It certainly is dishonest. Just hold themselves to the same freaking standard! It is kind of like how all these dudes get upset when heavier women mark “curvy” as a body type, but what do they do? Mark down “athletic” because they hit the gym twice a week or something. Athletic build but not a hint of visible muscle A… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 07:58 PM |
| 3 | A few reasons you should say no to the Hobo-sapiansPeople are often varying levels of shallow, myself included. I am sure those same men have their own standards they expect to be met, but don’t want the reverse applied to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 07:48 PM |
| 2 | CMV: guys who are overly competitive about everything think sunglasses make them look cooler than they areMaybe it is just the angle, but the second pics show a pretty big difference is weight from the first two. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 07:39 PM |
| 11 | Please no more pampering menMy husband said this once and it stuck with me, “Valentine’s Day is for girls. If you want to get a card or a little gift for me, fine, but it is the man’s job to do the heavy lifting on Valentine’s Day.” Too many men have become used to doing the bare minimum and having the woman be “independent” when it suits the man, but suddenly want to be the leader or something like that when it is to their benefit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 02:44 PM |
| 4 | I’vE cHaSeD a LoT oF tAiL 🤮🤮🤮I love this necklace and want one myself, but I can’t with that poem. I just showed the necklace to my husband and he ordered it online for me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:23 PM |
| 12 | Julian Casablancas, left his wife of 15 years for a 21 yr old roadie.I see many people addressing the lifestyle element, but let me add in that a lot of musicians who do rock, country bands are absolute narcissists. Even boys in freaking marching bands have that tendency. I was in band for years, and so many of the kids that went on to play in college were some of the weirdest, most entitled, socially insulated folks I deal with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:59 PM |
| 9 | I literally don’t even have wordsHe tricked her by telling her he was picking her up for an dinner, after the talked online for several weeks. This is a good reason to never let a man know where you live or get in a vehicle with him until you know better:( It shouldn’t be that way, and I don’t blame this lady, but a lot of men are just awful and it is something we have to keep in mind. We have to always keep in mind that there are men like this who will manipulate and whine, or even straight up kidnap a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:45 PM |
| 8 | I literally don’t even have wordsWhat a whiny dude. Does he expect women to sleep with him by whining his way into our beds? It is a massive turn off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:37 PM |
| 12 | I literally don’t even have wordsWhat is amazing is that he says that, and then immediately says he wouldn’t get any dates if he put “hook ups” on his profile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:33 PM |
| 17 | AhahahahahahahaThat is by design. They don’t want to talk about how BOTH sexes face issues with fertility and an increased risk of problems. If they make it seem like only women face these hurdles, they can keep up the “Hit a wall,” and “Men age like wine and women age like milk,” narratives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 10:12 PM |
| 8 | AhahahahahahahaHe saw an attractive woman who wasn’t bothered and it upset him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 10:08 PM |
| 42 | Do him dirty in front of his squad 💅🏻 don't sugar coat sh*tRight? Like this had weighed heavy on her for a good while! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 09:07 PM |
| 29 | Pornsick Limp Dick LVM shift blame to his VIRGIN wifeRight? Not to mention the possibility that a labiaplasty could damage her own physical sexual responses. But no, this dude... I guess I need to admit to myself that part of why this whole thing pissed me off (this whole response we are replying to, where a poster on the original suggested surgery) is that I would never suggest a man be circumcised, or anyone cut their genitals. Yet this woman is actually considering undergoing a procedure for his aesthetic preferences. The whole point of these r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 02:04 PM |
| 5 | Pornsick Limp Dick LVM shift blame to his VIRGIN wifeThe audacity of him being turned off by her normal labia, when he walking around fat and lazy? Having her give him blowjobs and masturbate? He can’t even be bothered to get her off. I think that alone points to him being, at the very least, a lazy partner in bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 01:58 PM |
| 40 | Her man of 6 years faked a proposal. I’d leave in a heartbeat.I hate that dough boy look he has. That perma layer of baby fat that covers the angles of his face and makes him look like a kid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 08:56 AM |
| 10 | The Cycle of Sexual FrustrationTo be fair, if you in the states, that is a huge part of our population. :( If not, my apologies for the (for you) irrelevant) statement. Yes, being in shape is a huge plus during sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 02:22 PM |
| 6 | A huge piece of the puzzle that is misogyny is mothers.Being from the south, I can shed some light. Just in my own experience, there is the more city/urban south, like Nashville, and the rural south. The rural south, dating was awful. People made messes of their lives, didn’t value education, were crazy conservative politically, but lived insane lives. I was pretty liberal, but I interestingly enough led a more conservative life than most of the “conservatives” around me. I worked, went to school, didn’t hook up, didn’t abuse substances, paid my bil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 03:11 PM |
| 5 | A huge piece of the puzzle that is misogyny is mothers.Boys don’t usually grow up as quickly as girls, that is true. That is because we tolerate shit from men, as a society, we never would tolerate from women. Little boys are not made to grow up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 03:03 PM |
| 3 | A huge piece of the puzzle that is misogyny is mothers.Oh crap they called out my family! My little brother was treated as a freaking deity by my mom. She had issues with my dad not being a high achiever etc, so projected that on to my brother. He was just going to be the greatest thing ever when he grew up. Except he didn’t. Grow up that is. He is in his thirties and has worked for maybe three months of his life. His last girlfriend just said “Screw this,” and left. Now he lives at home with our parents again, and mom can’t stand him. They fight co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 02:58 PM |
| 9 | Oh dear 😂I think that, for a huge part of human history, we didn’t have the option, as women, to be visual. We almost always had to rely on men for income. In many places, women couldn’t even inherit property. Adding to that, women often were property. If your dad was approached by a man or his family, and he agreed to give you to them in exchange for whatever, off you went. So if a man was attracted to you, and he had the means, you might not have had the chance to say no. Add to that, rape victims were… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 02:37 PM |
| 32 | FB scrotes are mad because they can't handle scientific fact 😂😂😂Oh they get it, they just won’t admit that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 02:19 PM |
| 36 | FB scrotes are mad because they can't handle scientific fact 😂😂😂I have no issue with people having kids early or later. I get there is an increased risk for some things, but that is the dice people sometimes choose to roll. What I take enormous issue with is the idea that women are constantly hounded about how we need to have kids by such and such a date, or we will be forever alone. What I take issue with is the smugness of certain men who believe they don’t have to worry about this too. People need to know there are risks associated with older fathers as w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 02:16 PM |
| 32 | Men lying on their dating profiles...I absolutely get that. I had a friend who was just out of the military and going to graduate school. Really good looking girl, with a really kind heart. Men got so upset with her for having standards they couldn’t live up to, and honestly? Her standards weren’t ridiculous. She was an Air Force nurse who was going back to graduate school to be an NP. She had been happily married to a wonderful guy who died in an accident. I think that made it worse for some of those dudes. They couldn’t be like “… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 06:40 PM |
| 20 | Teenage girl groomed by her employer since she was 15. Boss wants a relationship now that she turned 18. Hopes his daughter grows up to look like her. This is very troubling.Hahaha I totally commented on this earlier! “He said he doesn’t mind the age gap.” Oh I just bet the fuck he doesn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 05:02 PM |
| 16 | I struggled to hold my dinner..Vanilla Ice! That is who he reminds me of! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:07 PM |
| 14 | I struggled to hold my dinner..I am an older millennial myself. This guy looks to be more Gen X. I am married to a young Gen x’er myself, but outside of younger Gen x’er/older millennials scenarios, there is too much of an age difference for him to be so worried about millennials and dating. Also, why is he worried about “8’s and above”? I don’t think he falls that high on the scale himself so maybe he needs to reevaluate his own standards? So sick of men over rating themselves and under rating women. Don’t get me wrong, he s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:05 PM |
| 60 | Men lying on their dating profiles...If they actually tried to be the men they pretend to be, the world at large would be a better place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:37 PM |
| 19 | Even the F*cking Neckbeards are finally catching on. The porn industry is disgustingI remember being in high school and all of us little teen girls joked around about how hot Trent from Daria was. Some people took that way too far. I get it, to a small extent. I remember how utterly disappointing so many men around me were. In horrible shape, shit personalities, not going anywhere in life. It wasn’t like these girls were losing out on a real life wonder by obsessing over these characters. The humans around us were pretty awful. To go that far into it though, where these cartoon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:12 PM |
| 31 | Even the F*cking Neckbeards are finally catching on. The porn industry is disgustingAnime is generally crap. I genuinely am at a loss for how many people I grew up with are just obsessed with that shit. I am in my mid thirties now, and there are still people in my friends circle who just love it. I don’t mean a few shows, or Studio Ghibli etc. Women too. One of my close friends since junior high got sucked into that anime rabbit hole. She had a body pillow of some anime character and used that as a substitute boyfriend. I remember asking her what she wanted in a boyfriend and s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 02:08 PM |
| 40 | I have no words... Hope she will leave and get him arrested.He is using her humiliation to show off to his ex. What a terrible human he is:( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 12:30 AM |
| 1 | LVM on hinge sending me sexist messages “you sound smart for a woman” to get my attention and get me to respond. I ignore. Now some of them have stooped down to this level. Really? Does he even have anything to show off? I’ve seen more muscle on a chicken leg.Yes, it really threw me how mismatched the arms were to his frame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 10:27 PM |
| 6 | LVM on hinge sending me sexist messages “you sound smart for a woman” to get my attention and get me to respond. I ignore. Now some of them have stooped down to this level. Really? Does he even have anything to show off? I’ve seen more muscle on a chicken leg.Ok, so I am not into body shaming, but I will shame the crap out of someone for audacity. He put this picture up and expects...what? He is a skinny man with visible abs. He doesn’t have muscular arms or anything like that. So I mean, he falls into average I guess? Which is not bad, and I wouldn’t just randomly make fun of him (or anyone else) for that. However, the delusion of putting that picture up is ridiculous to me. What is he thinking? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 10:04 PM |
| 37 | B I G FACTSJust to add to this: Some dudes are legit obsessed with passing their genes on. Not raising kids, but just pushing their dna into the future. Reproductive coercion is totally a thing too, and men know that you are going to be the one doing the bulk of the work, or all of it, if they decide to split or play games. Men who purposely try to impregnate women without marrying them are throwing up huge red flags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 08:04 PM |
| 14 | Men are delusional 🤢“Whether that is sex or not.” I can guarantee this dude is terrible in bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:52 PM |
| 2 | What?This reeks of “nice guy.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 02:00 PM |
| 45 | Why do men date or have a GF for 5+ years, then when the relationship breaks down they find someone else and marry them within 2 years?I think it has been said that men know fairly soon if they want to marry someone. A man with low morals and sketch ethics (which is many of them), would have no issue keeping a girl as a back burner, forever girlfriend for the emotional support and sex etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 03:09 PM |
| 20 | To counter the video I just had to endure, so GLAD to see sane women thriving!!“We all know that you would not enjoy that, so why do you put us through it?” Because they were never taught to think about women and what we want, and women in turn have been taught to fake being happy and enjoying things for men so...recipe for disaster? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 09:33 PM |
| 197 | This is so fucking embarrassing watching things like this makes me want to off myselfOk so he can play video games in his free time. Whatever floats his boat. It is a hug warning sign to me when a person plays hours of video games every day though. She sounds like she is talking about a child. “Great graphics!” “Wow, you beat the big boss!” WTF? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 04:25 PM |
| 9 | imagine referring to women as a different ‘race’ as the only thing you say in your OLD bio“Prove me wrong.” No thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 05:58 PM |
| 35 | A realization hit me today, and I'm actually very much disgusted at myself.You were a young kid in a fucked up situation. You are in no way to blame for that. Further more, I am not sure I would even classify that as “cool girl” or “pick me behavior.” You were too young to totally get certain things. The same situations now, maybe? But at fourteen? No way. You were a kid being preyed on by boys who were told by society that their value lies in sexualizing girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 12:41 AM |
| 47 | 🤡 They just never stop, do they? Between the audacity to ruin a girl’s future and the pick me behaviour, idk what’s worse tbh.This step son may need help, but it doesn’t mean his poor step sister has to suffer. If I put money into an account for my relative, and found out it as being used for someone else, for something besides college, I wound be furious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Husband tries to convince wife to let him buy a sex doll. Wife’s self esteem is low due to people in his social circle criticizing her appearance. A lot to unpack here. I think we have a rescue mission.I don’t know if this is a new thing or if people are just more open about it now, but I am so sick of society telling people it is ok to be attracted to anything not human. No, it is not normal or healthy to have sex with a damned doll. Anime waifus are weird and women should rightly steer clear of you if you have an damned body pillow of it or some shit like that. We have catered to this crazy shit and we need to stop. She keeps going on about how beautiful this doll is, and I am just yelling a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 04:59 PM |
| 5 | Hitting his pregnant wife in the face with confetti during the gender reveal. I feel like LVM being blatantly abusive as a “prank” on social media is becoming more and more popularRight? He looks like an idiot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 04:46 PM |
| 7 | Hitting his pregnant wife in the face with confetti during the gender reveal. I feel like LVM being blatantly abusive as a “prank” on social media is becoming more and more popularYou can see her face and how upset she is. He took what should have been a happy cute moment and used it as an opportunity to make her the butt of an (unfunny) joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 04:46 PM |
| 23 | Age gap and forcing his religion on her 🤢 of course nobody in the comments asks why she’s dating a man ELEVEN years older 🤮Yes and women who convert and become SUPER religious are often mentally unstable and have a batshit crazy past themselves. I have known too many women who live life with one night stands, drugs, and a lot of freedom, for better or for worse, who become crazy conservative and never allow their daughter the same chance. It is like they can’t control themselves at all, so they go into these patriarchal religion that controls them. They also carry massive guilt. We can live our life however, and I d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 08:07 PM |
| 6 | Men who can satisfy in bed > flowersYes, the population would be in decline :( However, that is probably why we see some societies freak out when women don’t tolerate men. There was an article about a group of girls in India who wouldn’t let boys gripe them. The parents (moms included) brought out sticks and beat the girls. It was a poorer town in the area. Poor men who can’t offer monetary care of a woman in a population where girls in poor families are aborted already face an issue of there not being enough women. Sometimes, ins… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 03:50 PM |
| 4 | I'm not even slightly gay, but I can't imagine hanging around grown men after seeing stuff like this.I actually liked the food I had from the Nordic countries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 08:27 PM |
| 28 | This comment thread reminded me why reddit is a terrible place for advice. This woman got cheated on and some of the comments are advising her to go to counseling before considering divorce. FDS would never.🙄Well society allows women to be miserable, as long as it makes a man happy. Reddit weighed the needs of this woman and the needs of the cheating man, and decided the woman could be sacrificed. If the roles were reversed, we would see something different. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 05:24 PM |
| 8 | This comment thread reminded me why reddit is a terrible place for advice. This woman got cheated on and some of the comments are advising her to go to counseling before considering divorce. FDS would never.🙄Nurses make decent money too. I would bet he was trying to impress this girl with their nice house and things his wife works so hard to provide. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 05:22 PM |
| 8 | Coomer logic: "You can't jerk off to MY loved ones abuse but I should be allowed to jerk off to yours! 😡".“And I honestly feel sorry for anyone that thinks that way.” Oh ok, but no you don’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 12:17 PM |
| 6 | Saw this going viral on FB. Pick me’s are in the replies saying “hE jUsT wAnTs tO sEe tHe ReAL yOu!”No, because that is a weird power move on his part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 12:07 PM |
| 13 | FKA twigs Sues Shia LaBeouf, Citing ‘Relentless’ Abusive RelationshipThis is why I don’t base too much of my view of a person on social media, political views etc (unless it is super obviously terribly). I guess I should clarify that I don’t think someone who shares similar views as I do on social media or video etc doesn’t automatically get an overly positive view from me. This man was outspoken in his views about certain social justice issues, but look how he acts in private. I had an ex who literally shared dozens of SJW memes on social media all day, and got … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 12:52 AM |
| 337 | She realized she’s basically single but with more choresHell, some of those men don’t even bring in a paycheck, but I agree with what you said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 04:55 PM |
| 36 | Can we finally get rid of this lie "no one cares about men's mental health"? While everyone does. Women get called attention seekers, emotional and irrational for showing emotion. Mental health medicines gets always developed for men while treating women as others.Literally everyone cares about men’s mental health. Every time a white man shoots up a school or something, we talk about their mental health. People like the Aurora shooter and Elliot Rodgers had concerned parents attempt to get them help multiple times. People only care about women’s mental health when it can be used as a method to control us. Britney Spears has been stuck with her dad controlling everything for over a decade because she is “mentally ill,” but society doesn’t think about why s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 01:44 PM |
| 26 | "females" "men" it's a yikes from me dawgBecause society tells us women must be attractive, but men can make up for it. Plus I see way more unattractive men on average than I see women, so we are just used to it. On some level, we think women owe it to the world to be pretty, but not men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 11:04 PM |
| 18 | My (32M) girlfriend's (23F) family literally hates my guts because of the age difference?“I tried really really hard not to get involved with her because I am a teacher at her university. I failed miserably.” Yeah, she tripped and fell on your erect penis right? Shit, I hate when accidental sex happens! He tried so hard y’all, he tried so hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 08:10 PM |
| 12 | 'Christian' husband doesn't like how teen babysitter dresses, so his wife reprimands her 🤦🏽♀️If that were my kid, I would never let her go there again. I would personally confront daddy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 08:06 PM |
| 2 | How did we get here (song stuck in my head), the existential questions....Was baby boy catered to constantly while you had to fend for yourself? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 06:50 PM |
| 25 | She quit faking orgasms, now husband refuses to even TRY sexIs it that hard to just go down on a woman for these dudes? So many men are into this horrific crap like anal and choking etc, but something that a woman actually enjoys and doesn’t degrade her? Forget it! Biggest chore in the world! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 11:23 AM |
| 32 | How did we get here (song stuck in my head), the existential questions....Then when bills need to be paid, or there is a hard up relative who doesn’t have a place to stay, who is expected to make that problem go away? The girl. I think a big part of this is that these women are unhappy with their husband/boyfriend/ex, so they project on to their sons. Conversely, it is often generations of this bullshit, so she will put that responsibility on her daughter, the same as it was put on her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:48 PM |
| 37 | Because a Dr. Pickme thinks this is “science” (notice 0 discussion of socialization or how from a “scientific perspective” women should also desire younger men)I can find them objectively attractive, but I wouldn’t personally find them that way, if that makes sense? Like yeah they are good looking men, but I don’t want o sleep with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:29 PM |
| 84 | Me and the other girls in my theater class in high school were constructing props in the library late at night and we all had a tearful heart to heart about all the abuse we have received by men. That night we learned that each and every girl had been raped and/or beaten by a bf or family member.Your coach sounds awesome. I know school sports get a bad rap because some of the athletes are so ridiculously catered to, but overall school sports are important to kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:24 PM |
| 38 | Porn is ruining sex for women. So many men can't f*** properly 🤢. What's the point of being with a man that can't even please you in bed !?!Yet getting those same dudes to go down on a woman long enough to get her off is an exercise in futility. Men are so awful at sex, it is ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 01:30 PM |
| 8 | This PostSecret shook me, I think most women can relate to this.That is if they even acknowledge it could have been “blurred lines.” The majority of rapists get away with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 01:11 PM |
| 9 | This PostSecret shook me, I think most women can relate to this.Because men can fuck up repeatedly and society still thinks they should have a wife or girlfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 01:10 PM |
| 12 | Things I don’t Debate with menThere have been several posts on Am I the Asshole lately from men pressuring their female partners into breastfeeding. I have breastfed and formula fed ( I just did whatever works at that moment), and I try not to talk too much about it because people lose their minds about this stuff. It is bad enough when women shame a mom who can’t breastfeed, but a man? Or the reversal, when a man shames a woman for breastfeeding. Y’all remember that asshat blogger Onisom, or something like that? He always d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 12:56 PM |
| 116 | Thoughts?“Someone’s son,” there y’all go. Parents didn’t teach him not to do this and have taught him that it is up to women to accommodate his emotional needs at their own expense. Edit: Proposing at a shopping mall? I get fancy proposals, dinner proposals, and private proposals, but this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 01:54 PM |
| 4 | "My incel friend told my wife he'd r*pe her if he could and I did nothing. Now she's upset for some reason! What have I done wrong?"But he was offended she called him names. Right. So, in his warped world, basically she needs to shut up and deal. Men, however, can say whatever they want and allow whatever, and if she says anything she is in the wrong. They say we are the emotional ones... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 02:36 AM |
| 10 | I was scrolling through a post discussing school stress management and happened along this little number. Absolutely appalling. I wouldn’t be surprised if this is how most men view their wives and children.Being a parent is hard, but I think most people get that by now. It is normal to complain to some extent, because we all complain about life stuff. This sort of the thing goes beyond that though. There are two adults working and taking care of a kid. He needs to get it together and stop expecting a cookie for the bare minimum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 04:31 PM |
| 9 | Notice how it only benefits the man (unless they get married)Yes, he bought a house. His house. He plans for retirement. His retirement. I read it as, “My boyfriend is able to save up for a house and retirement while young, but can’t even bother to buy me dead flowers.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 04:07 PM |
| 4 | Notice how it only benefits the man (unless they get married)Right. He can’t get ten dollar flowers every now and then? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 04:04 PM |
| 6 | Notice how it only benefits the man (unless they get married)Yeah she is trying to look snarky as though she won some argument, but she knows she is in girlfriend territory, and may walk away with nothing after a few years of no flowers or dares, just to see a new woman walk in and get all those things and a house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 03:01 PM |
| 9 | Notice how it only benefits the man (unless they get married)Haha a house he won’t put her name on. He can still buy her lunch or flowers occasionally and save up for a house. She is over there bragging about this like it will benefit her at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Hate to see itThe writing and spelling on this one makes me think the law school thing may not be true 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Oof.Which is extra shady because they are past the “Girls have cooties” age. They can have a gf go clubbing with them and their guy friends, unless they are trying to cheat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 02:23 PM |
| 18 | LVM pushes woman to the brink of insanity on thanksgiving so she throws the WHOLE turkey out of the balcony and has a breakdown.If these dudes spent half the time they dedicated to trying to get on disability, mooch off women, etc on actually bettering their lives, we would all be so much better. I am pretty liberal on a lot of things, and have no issue with social programs like disability. It just burns me how so many people in the community I partially grew up in aspired to receive disability as some sort of ultimate prize. What annoys me the most is, whenever this crap happens, it is always the women and kids who suff… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 01:43 AM |
| 11 | How to employ FDS while serving in the military?Hmmm.... I think it may be best to see first and foremost if there are ladies in the Canadian forces who can answer that question. I am married to an (American) man in the military. I have met a lot of really great women through him that he served with. From the outside looking in, it seems like these women either are with fantastic dudes, or with cheating losers who they leave. I guess the one thing you have going for you in quantity. There will be a lot of men there, just, as you said, finding… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 10:14 PM |
| 133 | Have you noticed that men aren't funny?When many men say they want a woman with a “sense of humor,” they mean they want someone who will laugh at their crap jokes. They don’t mean ladies who are funny in their own right. The men that mean that, that is a sign of a HVM. If he can appreciate a woman’s own sense of humor and laugh at her, not just expect to be the whose jokes are laughed at, is showing a sense of self awareness and an appreciation for a woman’s mind and individuality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 10:05 PM |
| 44 | LVM pushes woman to the brink of insanity on thanksgiving so she throws the WHOLE turkey out of the balcony and has a breakdown.Right? I am so sick of these stories where men just keep deliberately screwing up and the women finally snap and act absolutely apeshit. I don’t find this story of launching a turkey off the balcony empowering, and I know people will be high fiving her. This bastard knows better, he just has so little regard for his own wife and child he can’t be assed to do a damned thing. It isn’t women’s job to “CoMmUNiCaTE” or “sEt bOUnDaRieS” for bullshit like this. I am not going to teach a grown man how t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 07:42 PM |
| 50 | LVM pushes woman to the brink of insanity on thanksgiving so she throws the WHOLE turkey out of the balcony and has a breakdown.These dudes who do such a half assed job watching kids are such absolute shits. I remember being barely a teen and having to closely watch the kids while the adults around me were able to piss off and enjoy company and tv etc at holidays. I know the young teen boys in my family weren’t expected to do the same. These men who think they can half ass it know a woman (or even a girl) will be the one to come in and let them finally play those gd video games in peace from their own kids. Also, video g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 07:35 PM |
| 3 | Some men actually think that a beer by the beach is a good first date idea. I cant evenIt is because so many cool girl types roll with that idea. Beer on the beach is fine in an established relationship as just a chill out, but not as a first date. It shouldn’t even replace nicer get togethers after dating a bit, but rather be an addition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 04:03 PM |
| 38 | NEVER tell scrotes that you’re a virginFreaking predatory bullshit, yuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 08:07 PM |
| 24 | “I can’t stick my dick in your master’s degree”The men who say this are rarely actually that successful in their own right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 08:03 PM |
| 126 | NEVER tell scrotes that you’re a virginYes. I was somewhat religious growing up (still am), and didn’t have sex until I was 23. It is like these freaks can smell it on you. Hymen Hunters don’t even see the women they are pursuing as fully human, just something to acquire and stroke their ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 08:02 PM |
| 108 | A woman went on air and listed her prefrance about the man of her dreams.......Yet those two obese raggedy looking jackals would never want to date their female equivalent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 08:00 PM |
| 20 | As a woman, you’re damned if you do, and damned if you don’t.Because men have set it up where they can do what they want and other people can clean up and deal with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 07:46 PM |
| 43 | Why does it seem that men are MORE likely to cheat when their partners are pregnant?He didn’t really think it was more ethical to bring another lady in while his wife is pregnant. That just the story he tells to make him sound like less of a shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 10:47 PM |
| 3 | If any of this is real, she has more things to worry about than her meat dildo deadbedrooming her.Oh seriously? Gross Edit: I just looked it up, and there she is, freaking Belle Delphine doing that same crap. I swear, anime has rotted this generations of men’s minds almost as badly as porn. Women too actually, as I have a good friend who slept with one of those stupid body pillows until she was thirty, but that is another story for another sub. I legit worry about all these folks this obsessed with anime, comics and crap like this. I remember one of my coworkers watching freaking Sailor Moon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 05:29 PM |
| 10 | If any of this is real, she has more things to worry about than her meat dildo deadbedrooming her.I think the men who are into that want super young girls and just slap barely legal on it as a way to sanitize it. This Belle Delphine lady looks like a geeky boy’s dream, and I don’t mean that in a complimentary way. I have some geeky interests too, but it seems that the more socially acceptable this has become, the further the limits have been pushed. People shouldn’t try to look like freaking cartoon characters, and grown men shouldn’t expect a damned anime character in real life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 01:24 PM |
| 26 | If any of this is real, she has more things to worry about than her meat dildo deadbedrooming her.I googled her, and besides the fact that she looks like a thirteen year old, she also looks extremely annoying. Those stupid cross eyed, tongue out pictures girls do now are so cringey. It looks like an effort to be even more childish. I see pictures on social media with grown women sticking their tongues out and I am just like, wtf? I don’t know, I guess it is because so many men are into this “barely legal” shit that I don’t think women need to go out of our way to look kid like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:55 PM |
| 30 | The question was « What job do you do that you enjoy ». She said escort and really dared to say that women selling their bodies would « decrease » men’s depravity and hate towards women!!Right? I am so sick of hearing men say it is. People go without sex and don’t go insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 08:18 PM |
| 11 | The question was « What job do you do that you enjoy ». She said escort and really dared to say that women selling their bodies would « decrease » men’s depravity and hate towards women!!Oh woe is them, they can’t get sex on demand with good quality partners. Welcome to what most of humanity deal with! These dudes are so delusional, they really think everyone else is playing life on easy mode while they needlessly suffer. I am glad you said something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 08:16 PM |
| 8 | So many men have this sense of entitlement when the topic of "men's mental health" comes up. It's so god damn rampant.Why don’t men stick around and help with their own sons? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 01:38 AM |
| 42 | I bet Clint’s WIFE doesn’t even know she’s in a non-monogamous relationship.Any time a man opens with what a “gamer” he is, or puts it down on a profile, I instantly want to scream “Shut the frack up” at him. Playing video games isn’t a personality trait. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 10:44 PM |
| 3 | Such.. bitterness.Yes. Men often think that just because they had one beautiful woman, they should have more from there on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 06:22 PM |
| 19 | If this ain’t the truth 😂 Love this generation of women lovingly giving pickme’s a reality checkThe issue with that is there is a lot of abuse in military marriage, especially amongst younger folks. I am married to a man in the military, and while I know that a lot of FDS doesn’t like military guys (and I totally get it), we are in a very good, long term relationship. That doesn’t change that there is a lot of abuse in other marriages:( Yes, there are some terrible military spouses. However, I have seen women start to talk about very concerning, even dangerous things, just to be met with “… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 05:12 PM |
| 7 | How To Shut Down Woke Bros Who Think Women Exercising our FREE SEXUAL CHOICE is a hate crimeMany societies rigged it so men could have women who didn’t want them. Now that women have more legal rights and economic freedoms, we don’t have to be with a man just so we keep a roof over our head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 04:58 PM |
| 13 | Such.. bitterness.Right? Do people think women can say they like an attractive, successful man and he would be pressured to “give her a chance”? Nope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 10:20 PM |
| 5 | Imagine the audacity of thinking 30k is enough to justify this behavior.I don’t think I could ever have ANY sort of sex with him after that. He hires PROSTITUTES to have anal sex with? This is disgusting. My vagina would close up like a steel bear trap at the thought of ever being intimate with him again. Let him divorce me. I will take half and leave, no problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 10:08 PM |
| 85 | Even after 11yrs and TWO kidsBe wary of dudes who want kids before marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 09:00 PM |
| 36 | Such.. bitterness.IMO, it isn’t right to randomly attack a man’s appearance anymore than it is to do that to a woman. However, from my own experience, women are constantly pressured to overlook a man not being physically attractive to her, while men are usually allowed some leeway. There is an idea that men can “make up” not being physically attractive to a woman, whereas the reverse is not true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:49 PM |
| 18 | While women are busy talking about real problems, men discuss why we shouldn't have women's day..."Men can have breast cancer too"I am sure every time a man is in trouble this guy makes sure to be fair and equal, and point out how bad it is for women too. Right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:45 PM |
| 6 | When You Reveal Trauma to LVMSomething I have struggled with and now tell others is, be careful about revealing painful parts of your life. Make sure they are a true friend before you hand over info they can use against you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 11:50 AM |
| 26 | Middle aged guys and their awful jokesYears ago, I read something that stuck with me. There was some kind of study, and it found that when men said they wanted a woman with “A sense of humor,” they meant a woman that found them funny. They didn’t mean a woman with her own takes and humor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 11:49 AM |
| 5 | Oh the duality of straight men.. one month they're telling one guy they'd never date someone over 30 "because 18-20 year olds are just hotter" and the next month they're crying to a bunch of other straight men about being bald and unattractive at 31.Link in my edit :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 06:05 PM |
| 7 | Oh the duality of straight men.. one month they're telling one guy they'd never date someone over 30 "because 18-20 year olds are just hotter" and the next month they're crying to a bunch of other straight men about being bald and unattractive at 31.Link in the edit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 06:05 PM |
| 5 | Oh the duality of straight men.. one month they're telling one guy they'd never date someone over 30 "because 18-20 year olds are just hotter" and the next month they're crying to a bunch of other straight men about being bald and unattractive at 31.Check out my edit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 06:04 PM |
| 0 | AccurateHey, someone keeps reporting me as a male. Sorry y’all, I am in fact, female. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 03:20 PM |
| 82 | Oh the duality of straight men.. one month they're telling one guy they'd never date someone over 30 "because 18-20 year olds are just hotter" and the next month they're crying to a bunch of other straight men about being bald and unattractive at 31.Did y’all see the post earlier today where the MGTOW men had their pictures displayed? Men consistently overrate their own physical attractiveness and underrate women. I have, hand to God, had several men who go on about how they just want an “average girl” and point out said girl to me. The girl will be in decent shape, nice skin and hair, and overall pretty cute. He will look like crap. They don’t even see women who aren’t physically attractive, except to be mad at their existence. Interesting… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 02:38 PM |
| 41 | Why women are vulnerable to male predatory practices (and what to do about it)A big part of this is that women are the primary caters for kids when men dip out. He can run off and establish himself financially without worrying about the kids. Yeah, maybe he will pay child support but many don’t. Not to mention child support is a set amount. If a child has an unexpected expense, it (usually) doesn’t mean the man pays more. The woman is the one who has to figure it out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 11:36 AM |
| 108 | My worst date...But women are such gold diggers, amiright? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 09:08 AM |
| 4 | Ladies it’s never good to be a “live in mommy” for your man 👏🏽 Don’t fall for it!Oh I didn’t even notice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 08:20 PM |
| 10 | Scrotes who have the audacity to gaslight you into thinking the woman in a typical age-gap relationship is the predatory one 🙄 clearly it’s the woman with half the life experience and two-thirds the physical strength with the power advantage!I bet, if he had sisters, they weren’t nearly as catered to! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 08:13 PM |
| 96 | Scrotes who have the audacity to gaslight you into thinking the woman in a typical age-gap relationship is the predatory one 🙄 clearly it’s the woman with half the life experience and two-thirds the physical strength with the power advantage!Yes, and so many women are embarrassed by it too. I have seen my own relatives discreetly hand the card or cash to their husbands so it looks like he is paying. I have seen women at church hand money quietly to their men so they are the ones putting money in the basket in public. It is learned at home. My mother would take money from me all the time, and then claim I asked them for money. They are embarrassed their husbands won’t work, but not ashamed to sign the next generation over to the same… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 04:34 PM |
| 90 | Scrotes who have the audacity to gaslight you into thinking the woman in a typical age-gap relationship is the predatory one 🙄 clearly it’s the woman with half the life experience and two-thirds the physical strength with the power advantage!What is really crazy to me is that so many men don’t do anything to better their lives in their twenties and even into their thirties. They pull their heads out of their asses and start getting it together after the women their ages have been working themselves to near death for fifteen years. The 26 year old in that situation is probably so surrounded by men with the work ethic of sea slugs that the older man probably seems more successful than he actually is, just by comparison. People can get… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 03:01 PM |
| 14 | When he makes your house a LITERAL barnyard 😬Ugh. What a ridiculous man! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 10:27 PM |
| 27 | When he makes your house a LITERAL barnyard 😬Ok we need the backstory here! :O | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 08:56 PM |
| 9 | Somebody call her an ambulance!I think you can hav a friendship with someone online under certain conditions and situations, but a romantic relationship with someone you never met? I don’t think so either :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 08:04 AM |
| 28 | Patriarchy 🤮I can say from the experience I had with weirdo men at some churches, there are people within some churches that encourage this as a way to keep a problem contained. They offload some freak on a woman and let her deal with him, instead of them having to handle all his problems. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 12:36 AM |
| 51 | Female SpacesI remember another story! A man with a developmental disability needed to change at a pool. He was there with his aid, and the family changing room was unavailable at that time. He came in every day, and they would use the women’s changing area. His aid was a woman. The lady complained to staff because a.)Grown man in a woman’s changing area and b.) The man was gawking at the women, which made it even more awkward. The staff straight up said it made the men uncomfortable for the man and his aid … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 12:26 AM |
| 98 | Female SpacesYeah, that is a no from me too. I hate that there are people in the US who go on about this. I am like, we can’t have real maternity leave? We fight about letting men come into our restrooms instead? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 06:22 PM |
| 99 | Female SpacesYes. This goes even beyond not respecting women. This is outright disrespecting us. I mean, I look at this this way: I clean the toilet after I use it in my own home. I wouldn’t treat my coworkers like that, and I would be so embarrassed if I left a mess of my own poo and pee! He enjoys the discomfort he is putting her in. She either has to clean up after him, confront him (just for him to smirk at her, gaslight her, or whatever. You know someone who does this won’t react well), or take the blam… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 06:22 PM |
| 18 | The Misogyny is Coming From Inside the House.If a man is worthy of credit, he gets it. If not...talk about a participation trophy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 12:47 PM |
| 131 | Women having standards = bad. Posted on a sexist subredditI can’t upvote “vulgar sense of humor” enough. Shows a huge lack of respect for not just you, but also social norms and the comfort of others. It might be edgy as a teen, but adults need to know better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 06:06 PM |
| 23 | Whelp it’s the end of an era y’all. r/UnpopularOpinion moderators and their selective application of the rules only on women who have actual unpopular opinions that they don’t personally like strikes again.Why do men insist we all know what they find attractive and unattractive? He doesn’t find black women attractive? Ok, but why go off about it? We don’t all need to know it. There are groups I don’t find attractive (not racial or ethnic or groups though, just physical types) but I don’t post about it. For example, I am not attracted to guys with long hair. I don’t make an entire post on social media about it though. I see so many men who post about not being attracted to bigger women, women of di… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 02:21 PM |
| 21 | Whelp it’s the end of an era y’all. r/UnpopularOpinion moderators and their selective application of the rules only on women who have actual unpopular opinions that they don’t personally like strikes again.All he got was fired though? This world :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 02:15 PM |
| 62 | Poor woman, awful husbandThat is still a crappy nickname, but it at least implies sexiness and desirability. The nickname he gave her is vulgar AND insulting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 08:55 AM |
| 84 | We should pray for her...Oh look y’all, communication again! Communication is great when discussing future plans, not basic crap like this. If he doesn’t know how to bathe regularly and change his clothes everyday by now, there is not anything she can say to help him get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 08:43 PM |
| 11 | Straight up abuse then love-bombing. Is this how women convince themselves with BDSM? X-post from one of my radfem FB groups.“Treat her bruises”? Am I in the Twilight Zone? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 03:12 PM |
| 50 | Delusional scrote denies he'll be invisible forever 😊 it will never get better...Oh boo boo, he can’t hook up with tons of people. So what? So this one girl does have a lot of partners, and that is a different issue entirely. I am not sure that is healthy for a man or a woman, but that is besides the point. I have met so many men who legit feel like everyone is hooking up left and right. No. Most people, ime,May have a few hook ups, and many have none. It is actually not as common as they believe, for people to have fifty partners by the time they are 30 or something like th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 03:09 PM |
| 33 | What's with the myth that women's feelings are catered to and men's aren't, when in reality the exact opposite is true?I have spent my life having to walk on eggshells to stop fucked up men feeling too angry or rejected, lest they become violent. I don’t about y’all, but their emotions seem to be more than catered to from where I sit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 02:57 PM |
| 10 | Why do women tolerate this? They know but they stay...This is heartbreaking to me, because my husband is a great dad and partner. If I had settled for some of the men I dated earlier in life, my kids would have been at such a disadvantage :( Me too, obviously, but I am just saying, the kids would be deprived of the time and attention of a good father. OP’s partner is putting all of them at a disadvantage, not just her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 02:58 PM |
| 42 | Why do women tolerate this? They know but they stay...If this lazy ass ever even bothers to formally upgrade her from forever girlfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 02:55 PM |
| 46 | Why do women tolerate this? They know but they stay...Yes. Men always complain women get more custody, so let them have the kids half the time. In my experience, the men who really want more custody usually get it unless there are extenuating circumstances. The rest who cry about being “kept from the kids” are often full of crap. Do fifty fifty. If they truly want the kids and take care of them, it will be fair and better for everyone. If they are lazy, let them be the bad guys and cope to not wanting to actually parent the children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 02:54 PM |
| 1 | “Cooking a nice dinner isn’t a sign of being a grown up. Cleaning your kitchen after that dinner and before you go to bed is being an adult.”Do it! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Is this romantic or cheap?That looks nice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 02:43 AM |
| 16 | “Cooking a nice dinner isn’t a sign of being a grown up. Cleaning your kitchen after that dinner and before you go to bed is being an adult.”Who doesn’t have a DOOR to a bathroom? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 04:43 PM |
| 48 | Scrote on r/divorce is surprised his wife left him when she caught him watching porn. He refers to women as "random sluts" and thinks his wife should be fine with his porn use since she's hot.I love how he throws out that he ended his career early for her. I mean, maybe? Most people don’t make the full twenty years required to retire from the military though. It is way more likely he just wanted to get out of the military (totally understandable), and used the “family” card when he tells this story. There is no shame in not retiring from the military. He isn’t even thirty yet, so if he is upset enough about this to mention it three years later, well, he is getting a divorce and the m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 04:40 PM |
| 8 | “Cooking a nice dinner isn’t a sign of being a grown up. Cleaning your kitchen after that dinner and before you go to bed is being an adult.”Right? And then don’t continue to cook in a mess that builds up after every single “fun” meal. That is some seriously self indulgent bullshit, to sleep these damned three course meals while dishes and trash keep growing and then serve it to someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 04:35 PM |
| 34 | “Cooking a nice dinner isn’t a sign of being a grown up. Cleaning your kitchen after that dinner and before you go to bed is being an adult.”Yes. A messy house is a sign of depression. I get that, and if someone is going through a hard time, no judgement. For me, it is that idea of just having the fun cooking part and never addressing the mess made. Like they just want the fun bits, not the work bits, and that is a character red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 04:01 PM |
| 35 | “Cooking a nice dinner isn’t a sign of being a grown up. Cleaning your kitchen after that dinner and before you go to bed is being an adult.”I don’t like pot lucks for that reason too :( Hey, if someone has a situation where things get a bit crazy, no judgement. Life happens. Just don’t make food for other people because “foodie,” you know? At that point, buy something instead for the pot luck. Don’t make your girlfriend hummus in a filthy freaking kitchen cause it is fun (that is the real reason he did that,honestly). Do the hard work of cleaning up that place. At the time this happened, I didn’t get how screwed up it really was. I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 03:19 PM |
| 92 | Even a 35 yo man has these same meltdowns but they're the logical sex!!!Maybe it is because what men say and do is acknowledged with more legitimacy from the get go, so their overly emotional responses are either pacified out of fear and exhaustion, or assumed to be logical? Like, men freak out, but society says their anger is justified, even if it isn’t. Whereas women are punished for speaking up for ourselves and instantly told we are not logical whenever we don’t do what men want. It is the default if they are right, we are wrong. So anytime we speak up, it is ir… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 01:40 PM |
| 10 | The tyrannical minority benefit the majorityOh wow, solid point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Oh no, Helena...Exactly! Very good point. It is why some people are victimized more than others. Predators know who doesn’t have the proper back up, whether through money, connections etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 07:28 PM |
| 9 | Ad found on YT. Do you SEE what I see? Yeah, trash.Side note: Is anyone else freaking sick of these stupid cartoon characters all over the place? I know I am older than a lot of folks on reddit, so this might generational. I am in my thirties, and anime was something kids watched in my group (I was a geeky kid), and I didn’t like it then. It has become mainstream, and for the most part I still dislike it. I don’t care if others do enjoy it, I just hate how people push girls to actually look like these stupid cartoon characters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 01:18 PM |
| 2 | A man "tried" making a birthday cake for his girlfriend. Pickmeishas in the notes going crazy over the "effort". 🙁I will be honest: That is better than I could do. It bothers me that it is sitting on the counter though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 01:13 PM |
| 2 | At what age did you stop dressing up as Ninja Turtles and Batman and start wanting to be ‘pretty’ for Halloween?I was always “pretty” because I was in tons of dance classes, so my mom would just use the dresses from my recitals and the tiaras from them, and I would be a princess. Actually, Halloween was always kind of lame for me. My parents always took us to the mall and had us walk in this boring line for candy. I didn’t get as much of the traditional experience. I think the best Halloween of my childhood was when I was in eight grade and I went to a party, and then we all went trick or treating around … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 01:10 PM |
| 15 | Why Do So Many People Want To Legitimize Sex Work?I think it because we have a culture now of men expecting sex on demand, and sex with girls they deem attractive. Women play this part of being “sec positive” when in reality they are letting men become even more entitled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 12:49 PM |
| 13 | Oh no, Helena...After reading the article, I noticed the actress in question came from an already fairly wealthy and connected family. Yeah, a lot of people are attracted to power, absolutely. However, when it goes pear shaped, the more powerful person is able to more easily control the situation. They have access to better lawyers etc to get the custody arrangement and such they want, if it comes to that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 12:42 PM |
| 65 | Don't make the mistake of believing that men only use women for sex.Yes, especially since custodial agreements splitting the time with kids closer to fifty/fifty are becoming way more common now. If men want to see their kids more, it isn’t like thirty years ago where women are default. Yes, some men can get screwed by a vindictive ex, but I don’t believe all these men crying about it. Especially if it is an every other weekend situation, it is just like...well it is legit just four days a month. Just spend time with your kids! You could the stereotypical Disney… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 12:33 PM |
| 57 | Don't make the mistake of believing that men only use women for sex.You can see the same thing on the different relationship subs. It seems like every other day, a new post comes up about a (usually younger) woman living with men, either roommates, or relatives of her boyfriend/husband. Sometimes it will be her at her family in her home and it will be father, brothers, uncles etc. The woman will be expected to do constant housework, and clean up after the men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 12:30 PM |
| 62 | LVM traps girlfriend into forced pregnancy as a military wife. She’s only just realised her future.The “lol” scattered throughout this fucked up tale of woe really seals the deal on how truly crazy this is. Is this woman really laughing at this? I bet not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 12:00 PM |
| 81 | Unattractive man catfishes women because he feels entitled to have a more attractive woman.I think society has told us that men are allowed to have physical preferences, but women need to “Look beyond that.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 01:51 AM |
| 6 | Because a wife should be subservient to her husbandNot all overweight bald dudes with a beard are douches, but enough of them are that I see a pattern. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 02:59 AM |
| 18 | Reminder: Never EVER build a man up. He will throw it all back in your faceY’all know what? Screw it. Enough of this crap about not using kids as weapons and being the bigger person. Should she deliberately use her kid as a pawn? No, but she needs to get a handle on his little ass before he treats women like crap as a result of what he sees here. Let daddy and his new wife have them as primary and she can pay child support. Be the every other weekend Disney parent. If daddy wants out of that arrangement, he can be the bad guy and explain that he wants to bang new young… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 05:39 PM |
| 39 | I’m at a loss of words. This woman’s husband doesn’t give a shit about her or women in general and she’s asking what to do? How can people like this exist?I think they are so used to being catered to (especially white men) they see anything that doesn’t revolve around them and their happiness as a threat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 05:29 PM |
| 59 | I’m at a loss of words. This woman’s husband doesn’t give a shit about her or women in general and she’s asking what to do? How can people like this exist?Just to add, we won’t be losing the right to guns anytime soon. The histrionics around gun ownership is insane. People will not lose the right to have a gun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 05:27 PM |
| 9 | Men: “all these western women are whores, I will just get a submissive virgin from another country!” Men 5 years later: why doesn’t my wife like sex👺After reading it, I think the guy is lazy in bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 12:33 PM |
| 47 | Where being a pick me will get you.That sounds horrible :( Poor lady | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 12:26 PM |
| 89 | Triggered much? I will definitely start telling them. Their reaction could be a red flag.They totally know this, they just don’t care. They want low effort sex on their part and you to fake it for their ego. Come on, I get a guy just starting out not getting it, but a guy who has had a bit more experience just doesn’t care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 12:25 PM |
| 9 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.So much is wrong here, but look at that young lady with her cell phone. That is the one that I zoomed in on first. Years ago, I remember going with friends to a coffee house and a man coming up to us and demanding a girl put her phone down to watch him to a magic trick. I have seen men demand that of young women, but never each other. It shouldn’t be an issue for a man to see a woman on a phone, but it annoys the shit out of them for some reason. Men can look at phones and it is assumed they are… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 07:57 PM |
| 5 | Stop being a good girl. Take some time to reflect on what you were praised for as a child. Was it being quiet? Obedient? Having no boundaries? Self denial? People pleasing? Having a "perfect body"? The very concept of "goodness" in how we raise girls is so damaging.One time, there was a bully who kept messing with me. I beat the shit out of him and my dad gave me a pack of Juicy Fruit gum. It is a good memory. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 06:58 PM |
| 5 | toxic men are so petty!I notice that too! The men will just take over the fancy meals, but the day to day stuff is often the woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 04:47 PM |
| 11 | toxic men are so petty!Not to mention men have often taken over cooking when it suits them. My grandmother pointed this out years ago, but at the time, the top chefs were almost always men. She said women do the day in and out cooking, and men show up and want an award for taking it over when it suits them. Now that has been changing, and many chefs like Gordon Ramsey give credit to their moms for starting them down that path, so there has been a reversal. It just always seems women have been expected to do it, and wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Be careful who you have kids with...All three kids of hers do this, or did, and this one is holding out. She specifically mentions ADD and ODD. ODD would be awful to deal with in a teen boy. She mentions her husband was a “late bloomer” too. ADD doesn’t usually make people do this crap, but ODD is a whole different issue. They do sometimes run together, but Oppositional Defiant Disorder is linked to all things like Conduct Disorder and other issues that can cause serious issues for other people. I knew several boys with ODD and th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Be careful who you have kids with...Sorry, I think the second one uploaded by mistake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 07:32 PM |
| 17 | Be careful who you have kids with...I read this and thought of y’all. It is not totally clear, but it seems all three of her sons are physically fine, and not developmentally delayed, but have still insisted that they will freaking piss all over the damned place She alludes to her husband had a similar “issue” and that her youngest has held out for the longest of all of them. So she has a house that reeks of pee. Y’all, I don’t believe in eugenics, but her “late bloomer,” husband has some less than stellar genes, and now she has h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 06:55 PM |
| 18 | Maturely handling accusations of "not being able to find a man."I got those accusations for crappy dudes who hit a wall at nineteen and hadn’t done anything with their lives since then. I lived in a podunk, middle of nowhere town and dating sucked. I didn’t want any of those guys really. Moved to a city and things improved drastically. It is what LVM say to push women into dating them, instead of improving themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 07:12 AM |
| 59 | Truth hurts and the pickmes don't like to hear it 🙄I think too many young men have normalized porn and it has made them lazy. They seem to think women should be getting off within a minute of sex, and that all men need to do is show up and they are owed an attractive girl, cause porn shows that. It is low effort sex and it has made them bad in bed. This idea they should have constant sexual access to attractive women via porn is degrading to women and to themselves. I grew up Mormon (I know, I know), and as crazy as that religion can be, their v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 12:05 AM |
| 5 | As a former gym rat (thanks covid), this makes me angry. Just a few, sadly predictable, comments.Yet they are bothered that she covered up. They can “lol” about male dominated spaces and such, but their expressions here are about her covering up so men can’t see, so that obviously bothers them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 11:40 PM |
| 11 | The Scariest Encounters Women Have on the Appalachian Trail Are With Men — “this report pissed me off, we can’t even enjoy nature w/o harassment from scrotes!”I have two male friends that hiked the AT. They told me there were two girls that hiked several days with them because some guys kept harassing them. The ladies would go to their tent at night, and the men would pee on their tent and yell crap at them. Absolute just insanity. My friends were pretty horrified and encouraged the girls to report them to park services, but the men scampered off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 01:02 PM |
| 97 | I never heard women complaining about 18 yo men bodies. Why do they keep doing this?When I was in high school, years ago, we had the morning announcements read by the student body president on a closed circuit tv. The elected rep for next year was a young lady. I remember a good old boy, pudgster of a boy saying,”I don’t want to look at her all year!” She was actually a pretty girl, imo. It was then I realized that men feel entitled to “pretty” from women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 09:26 PM |
| 47 | “Women should be more indulgent of affairs”. Excuse your mouth?He has a super punchable face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 02:07 PM |
| 45 | Why are we ALLOWED to sleep with anyone we want? How dare we have requirements when we invest in a partner?I know a lot of FDS doesn’t like military, and I get that. I am just saying, in my dating days, college educated, tradesmen, military...didn’t matter, just show some freaking initiative to support yourself and move up. I couldn’t care less if that meant an advanced degree, enlisting in the navy, learning how to weld, or going to be an EMT, just freaking do SOMETHING. In my rural area at the time though, even that was considering asking for too much. People just wanted a cookie and a gf for exist… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 02:04 PM |
| 60 | Why are we ALLOWED to sleep with anyone we want? How dare we have requirements when we invest in a partner?Please dudes, y’all have weight and appearance requirements, no kids requirements and so on. People can have whatever criteria they want, and it is no one else’s business. Maybe it helps them find the right person, or maybe they are unrealistic, but whatever, there is no “ allowing.” How many guys do y’all know who talk about wanting a “normal” girl, but then you notice their “normal” or “average” is a cute girl with a good personality and decent prospects in life? So many guys are conditioned t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 02:00 PM |
| 47 | Hookup is not worth it ! How many times do we have to tell the truth ?Men are often terrible in bed anyways. No need to risk this for what will end up being awful sex. That is what gets me about hook up culture: Women won’t even get off a lot of the time. It is all for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 01:45 PM |
| 13 | Shoe0nhead holds out a cup to collect male approval penniesAbsolutely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:00 PM |
| 19 | Serious question: Have older men ever became obsessed with you?Off topic but somewhat related to what you are saying, I watched a documentary last night about idols in Japan. Basically, Netflix has a documentary that follows one of the ten thousand idols that perform in Japan. They are young girls or women that sing and dance for fans. They start “getting old” in their early twenties. They showed some of the other idol singers, and they were mostly teens. Towards the end of the doc, you actually see freaking ten year olds working as idols. All the fans inte… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:52 PM |
| 32 | Shoe0nhead holds out a cup to collect male approval penniesIt is a shame too, because she has made some jokes I actually like (about anime. I know it is random, but I hate most anime and anyone who jokes about it gets a nod from me). You can tell she has a mind, but she just is such a giant Pick Me that she has sold herself massively short. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:35 PM |
| 6 | LibFems: Women don’t need UBI because Sex Work is part of the “Divine Feminine” and “empowering”🤡Side note, but I always find it obnoxious when people type out “sigh” or something equivalent. It is up there with “lol” in obnoxiousness to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:57 PM |
| 24 | A rant about ugly men making me feel worthlessI just wanted to say, don’t apologize for “over sharing,” and don’t tell yourself no one cares. You dealt with your demons, and that is admirable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 09:44 PM |
| 4 | Imagine being this insecure that you feel the need to go around and humble those GORGEOUS, confident black woman...patheticThey are such good looking women too! It is like he can’t stand a woman feeling good about herself. Why does he even care what they think or how they think they measure? He went out of his way to ask them their own opinions on themselves, just to tear them down....or try to anyways. Those ladies were not having it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 06:27 PM |
| 58 | Older fathers 35+ associated with increased birth risksI have no issue with older men having kids, but I do have an issue with older men acting like they can do whatever and still have no increased risk for waiting until later to have kids. I just think it is ridiculous that we tell women these risks all the time (and I do believe we should be forthright with women), but never harp on men about the same issue, even though it is increasingly becoming more widely documented. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:54 PM |
| 7 | Even non sexually, scrotes are scrotes...This is easily one of the weirdest posts I have seen on here yet. What a really weird situation from start to finish! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 12:47 AM |
| 15 | Drop him girlHe better be glad they are more accommodating than I am, cause seeing that mess play out with my child would bring out something really bad within me. He is just a boyfriend, not a husband, and he hasn’t worked for too long. Now he is living in my house, and blowing up at my kid (who is working) because he can’t get his dream job? Who am I kidding though, I wouldn’t have let him move into my home in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Is is just me or have all of you been noticing more online radicalization of men?fair enough then! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:00 PM |
| 19 | Is is just me or have all of you been noticing more online radicalization of men?I think part of that is because, in generations before, white men didn’t have to compete with anyone else for positions of power or wealth. They still do better than everyone else overall, but it is not as much a given as it used to be. So some of these guys freak out because they don’t get to single handedly just get a girl, get a good job, and do whatever the hell they want just for existing. That is why I think so many white guys are radicalizing. Now full disclaimer, I don’t think it is all … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 09:57 AM |
| 39 | If he wants to, he would.“I would bring dis up in every argument,” I mean, fair enough on that one. You fight Jaws for me, I can give you that. Doesn’t mean you win those arguments, but I would let you have that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 09:13 PM |
| 127 | 48M Seeking 28-34FThe men I have known who were most obsessed with having their genes passed on had the least desirable genes. My husband is a good looking, successful, kind man, and wasn’t falling all over himself about some legacy shit before we had kids. He has been open to adopting in the future if circumstances seem right. The uglier, broke dudes from my past with shit personalities? Oh yeah, went on about “Biology” all the time. I think it is because they have screwed up so badly, they desperately want to h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:12 PM |
| 28 | Why do we get SO much hate for not wanting to move in with a man??Yeah, like it is easier to get a divorce than it is to have a child with someone! I never got that logic either. Oh marriage is too much of a commitment, but deliberately creating a human life isn’t? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 09:29 PM |
| 18 | Why do we get SO much hate for not wanting to move in with a man??For us? We are just together on everything. When he had difficult selling his house, it was our money together we used to not feel the pinch. When we paid off my student loans, it was our money together. When I stay home with our kid? Our money together. There is nothing split. It works for us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 08:38 PM |
| 45 | Why do we get SO much hate for not wanting to move in with a man??I didn’t move in with any man until I was married, and I will encourage my kids to do the same. I think we get hate for that because it becomes a way for a lot of people to get the benefits of marriage without the commitment, and they don’t want that gravy train to end. As it is now, my husband and I don’t split rent or groceries etc. We are married, and in this together. Dividing finances up is what roommates do, not what a married couple does (imo). As long as both people are contributing, we … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 05:45 PM |
| 47 | I—????????????A picture of a literal beauty queen next to this dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:38 PM |
| 14 | Wow I really hit a nerve talking about the movie Juno in this askreddit about movie villains. Think I hit a nerve?Oh yikes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 11:24 AM |
| 34 | Why do some women date such ugly men?I think it is because there are more good looking women than men. Also, women are pushed to “Give him a chance,” even if not attracted to the guy, whereas men are allowed by society to pass on women they are not physically attracted to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 08:05 PM |
| 25 | "I'm a father first, with the most amazing baby"Very hard pass. I don’t think anyone needs to be dating right after having a baby, but that is me. I wouldn’t blame a man for not wanting to date a woman who just had another man’s baby within the last year, and I think the same thing vice versa. Settle down in your new role before trying to get someone else new in your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Please tell me your personality goes beyond weed, anime, and horrorHe has the same look on his face as my crazy ex that thought the government was after him and that he was fronting a revolution with posting SJW crap on Facebook five hundred times a day. I think this guy is probably nuts too, who the hell dresses up like that as a grown up, except maybe for Halloween? I am tired of this weird, dorky crap being normalized. A grown man wearing an animal onesie just out and about is freaking stupid and cringey, and I am done with everyone pretending it isn’t. I wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Woman finds out that her husband’s cousin’s ‘secret child’ is actually his from the time he cheated on her.You know what burns me up about this? Well the entire thing, but really, while the foster care system is not great, if she is a healthy toddler with legal parental ties severed, there are people lined up for her. Babies are the most adoptable, but kids that young, especially kids with no health issues etc, are very easily adopted. There are probably dozens of families who want that baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 02:24 PM |
| 9 | Woman finds out that her husband’s cousin’s ‘secret child’ is actually his from the time he cheated on her.If the mom being deceased is even true. This guy is a grade A liar, so who even knows the real back story at this point? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 02:19 PM |
| 6 | Woman finds out that her husband’s cousin’s ‘secret child’ is actually his from the time he cheated on her.Oh just wait until he enlists his family and friends to start guilt tripping his pregnant wife. “I can’t do this by myself,” is code for “I need a functional adult around to help me with the childcare and financial care required to properly keep up a young child. Also, oh shit, child support!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 02:18 PM |
| 5 | He doesn't "date fat"? What a coincidence. Neither do I.He is 44?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:28 AM |
| 22 | Do you girls find it funny how days, weeks, months can easily go by before you ever see a guy that’s even slightly attractive enough to take double take?The level of delusion so many men have is also off putting. Take online dating, just for example. I have heard men complain that women who are significantly overweight mark themselves down as “curvy.” Ok, fair enough, but how many men out there check “athletic”‘for their body build, only for you to show up on a date and be like....um...what? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 11:59 AM |
| 5 | Speculation: Men want young women to think they will provide, so the woman will not meet her potential and become dependent on them.I think some of these guys are so used to being able to just blame women for everything because of some of the cultural aspects of the military, they skirt by for a good bit blaming their wives. Don’t get me wrong, there are certainly entitled, materialistic, lazy military spouses. However, because such a large minority of military folks hold women and dependents as a constant drain, it wouldn’t matter what the reality is in that house, the woman will be blamed. I have seen women who work and sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 07:33 PM |
| 17 | Speculation: Men want young women to think they will provide, so the woman will not meet her potential and become dependent on them.A lot of people scream about how little the military pays, but I am just like, what, compared to what other 19/20 year olds make? I think that is part of why so many of them go crazy with money. It actually is pretty decent compared to other people their age, and they just lose their minds. I actually do feel bad for some of the people I grew up with who joined. They made good decisions and were decent people, really. Because I grew up in such absolute trash, their screwed up families would hit … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:26 PM |
| 36 | Speculation: Men want young women to think they will provide, so the woman will not meet her potential and become dependent on them.It is always ridiculous to me how so many men in the military blow through their money. My husband is career military, and while I know enlisted make less than officers, when you hear about some of these dudes and how they just go through money, it is insane! I get that when someone first enlists, it is not a lot. However, when you see someone who has been in ten plus years and still has constant financial struggles because of stupid shit, it is mind boggling. I grew up around poverty, so I see … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:40 PM |
| 6 | A father shouldn’t be praised for parenting his own childrenYeah, and I get parents need down time, so it isn’t like I get angry when a parent has a night out. Working with coworkers who demanded special shifts they weren’t entitled to so they could drop their kids with their parents off all weekend and party their asses (while the rest of us at the job were expected to take their shifts all the time), it gets old fast. At least they find someone to watch their kids though. Showing up at house parties and seeing kids sit around while adults got wasted, I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:43 PM |
| 54 | Dating advice from seniors !Side note, but 87?! She looks great! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:36 PM |
| 6 | Husband makes birthday gifts for his wifeGood guy! I am always happy when people treat each other well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:36 PM |
| 16 | A father shouldn’t be praised for parenting his own childrenDoes anyone else ever cut out of parties early when they see that crap? I always hated going to parties with heavy drinking and seeing little kids. I don’t mean a glass or two of wine, but serious drinking. I always left when that stuff started. Sorry that being a parent means they can’t hit the bars all weekend or go binge drinking with toddler in tow, but the rest of us manage to pull it off, so... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Woman finds out husband raped his cousin when she was 13 and continued affair throughout their entire marriage. Just when I think I’ve seen it all, men manage to sink to new levels of depravity.I can imagine the shock, but I hope she leaves him once that fades and she can think clearly. That would throw anyone for a loop! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:51 PM |
| 16 | Here is a dude who wants people to tell him it's totally cool for an adult man to use a children's jungle gym at the park to workout (probably because he is too poor to afford a gym membership). Who cares if he scares the mothers & children! It's a resounding "You do you, bro!" from the comments.Yes! My husband is a great guy who is overall very considerate, but I have constantly had to tell him to watch where he is going before plowing someone down. Men are not socialized to be conscious of other people and their space. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:45 PM |
| 32 | Here is a dude who wants people to tell him it's totally cool for an adult man to use a children's jungle gym at the park to workout (probably because he is too poor to afford a gym membership). Who cares if he scares the mothers & children! It's a resounding "You do you, bro!" from the comments.If there is one thing misogynists hate more than women, it is higher value men who defend women. A fit guy speaking up on behalf of women and kids to an out of shape man misappropriating their space would send neckbeards across the land into a foamy mouthed rage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:43 PM |
| 25 | Proving their point: Guy feels attacked on thread lamenting men's hygiene, says it is 'unfair' to claim that never washing one's hands is unhygienic. O.oMaybe they are so enamored with their pee pees, they can’t comprehend their special appendage not being perfection itself? Perfection doesn’t need washing, damn it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:36 PM |
| 24 | This man around my age. Enough said.So was I. I saw this when I lived in Asia, white westerners who thought they were God’s gift to women. They were not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:03 PM |
| 49 | Now we know why that man is an exI bet that guy wasn’t such a looker himself. The amount of men I have know that put themselves down as “athletic” when they are skinny fat at best is ridiculous. They complain about women marking down “curvy” when they are bigger ladies, but do the same crap themselves. Men overestimate their appearance, and women underestimate theirs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:01 PM |
| 20 | This man around my age. Enough said.Maybe it is a carryover from colonialism? I know that in the past, certain cultures pushed women to be with white men because of a better life, lighter kids etc. So maybe those guys who do this still have that mindset of “I get a few extra points for being white”? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 01:57 PM |
| 6 | How can I date older men while still maintaining my power?There are good men out there, but age is not what makes them turn some magic switch. We don’t push men in the same way we push women, at least not where I am from. Men expect a cookie for showing up oftentimes, and don’t push themselves to become better. The same underachieving loser you know at 23 will still be an underachieving loser at 33, but he will be able to hide that loser aspect more easily from a younger woman at that point. The sadness of this is, it doesn’t matter too much what someo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 01:53 PM |
| 10 | How can I date older men while still maintaining my power?I have something horrible to tell you. As someone who dated older men when I was younger, and now cringe when looking back...the guys dating you don’t have their “shit together” either. My ex seemed more together than he was just because I didn’t know any better. We have been broken up for thirteen years now, btw, and I am still a few years younger than he was when I was dating him. I can now see he was a loser. People make the choice to grow and change. If he is twenty-five and acting right, th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 01:46 PM |
| 68 | This man around my age. Enough said.What a piece of shit. I hope she realizes what a racist asshat he is for using her as some sort of consolation prize. You can have whatever preferences you want when dating, but there is a huge difference between “I am attracted mostly to white women,” and “Eh, these women are leftovers and I will bang them, but I don’t really want them. Still, let’s insult them and have sex with them.” I am sure his gf has no idea about his feelings, and he hid them from her on purpose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 01:41 PM |
| 10 | Male incompetence is not cute 🤢My husband wasn’t raised like that, for which I am entirely grateful! It is important to raise all kids to be adults, not just young girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 03:53 PM |
| 28 | Male incompetence is not cute 🤢I feel like this is funny, but also not. My husband is, in many ways, more together than I am. I think we socialize young men to be that level of incompetent, but plenty of them are capable. We need to do better in what we expect, and in how we raise boys. Don’t tolerate a man who can’t act as an adult. I can’t even see how someone can be attracted to someone like that! It is so off putting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 02:56 PM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on getting involved with men who already have children?I would date a parent if I were a parent myself (which I am). In my younger, single and childless years, so many men had an entitlement to younger childless women in their minds. It was off putting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 01:34 AM |
| 3 | My heart breaks for this young girl, I tried to be as tactful as possible letting her know she should leave that man who’s definitely taking advantage of herJust a quick aside, but I hate “lol” in general. The way this girl is bringing up a legit complaint and she feels she has to soften it with “lol” breaks my heart. Of course she wasn’t laughing out loud, nothing funny about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 01:30 AM |
| 52 | When Picasso was 45 he had a 17 year old lover, whom he later married. When asked about the age gap he said that he was in his prime and she was in her prime.I dated an older guy who was a total loser. I was 22 to his 38. My parents hated him and he was too much of a candy ass to ever meet them. My brother later told me my dad wanted to shoot the guy. As I get older myself and have a daughter, I get it. I really do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 08:48 PM |
| 45 | I hope they pick her.She desperately exudes the “I’m not like other girl,” “Cool girl,” desperation vibes. She can pull all the tricks in the book, but she is still a single mom and the type of men she is so obviously trying to appeal to will applaud her videos, but then go find someone without kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 02:22 PM |
| 46 | I hope they pick her.In her case, it might be justified. Not a lot of sympathy from me for women who throw other women under the bus to appeal to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 02:20 PM |
| 12 | Hm interesting 😐Did he just say white women never face any negativity for dating black men? What delusion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 01:13 AM |
| 58 | Hard passNo. Also, his facial hair is annoying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 01:02 AM |
| 6 | If you want a prostitute then just go out & say it..I have said this before and I will say it again: If a woman isn’t having sex with a man she is committed to, start looking at what the issues are. Is she having medical or psychological/emotional issues? Is she worn out from kids, work etc? Sometimes those are the issues. Sometimes though, the guy is just terrible in bed....men don’t need to play themselves like this in public. Start making getting your lady off before you do a priority, and you will start having more regular sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 05:24 PM |
| 55 | I can't believe this woman got gaslit by reddit when her NVM bf was more worried about food than her injury“I know girls can be dramatic and...” this poor woman is still drinking the kool aid :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 05:19 PM |
| 47 | The new "trend" dudes have found for themselves (shocker: it revolves around hurting girls)They are just using him as an excuse. They wanted to do this anyways. If it wasn’t him, it would have been another “reason.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 02:22 AM |
| 80 | When men always lecture women for wanting to dating downI read an article about girls in a rural village in India who fought back against boys who were touching them without consent. The boys parents (moms and dads) brought out sticks and beat the girls. It may not seem related, but I think it is. People tend to freak out if a girl or woman has standards. Societies don’t do well if there are too many unmarried/unpartnered men out there. I think that, to varying degrees, many cultures and societies push women to accept lower value men than the reverse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 02:15 AM |
| 5 | The woman that was kicked out of Paradise and snuck back inMormonism also teaches a loosely similar concept. They teach it was necessary for Adam and Eve to eat the fruit so we could have knowledge and free will, and thus progress. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Men have it so hard😔Yes, exactly. If a guy mentions he is into a grappling art like wrestling or Jiu Jitsu, a lot of people actually are interested. If he wears Tapout shirts and walks around acting stupid, well... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Men have it so hard😔One of those guys mentioned martial arts as being looked down on as “low culture.”‘I love martial arts and have practiced them off and on for years. Never have I seen them looked down upon. I have had some men scoff at the idea of a woman doing them, but I haven’t had a general feeling of people thinking they are some how low class. Now, I have seen UFC and things like that debated, but not martial arts themselves. By the way, most men who knew I did martial arts were actually very supportive. T… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 04:19 PM |
| 10 | STUDY: Most men do not consider living together with you being committed or the same thing as wanting a futureI commented in another sub a day or two ago that I don’t believe people should combine finances before marriage. I said that after we were married, my husband I shared everything. However, we didn’t live together before we were married, and neither of us ever signed any financially binding agreement with the other until then. It was surprisingly not downvoted into oblivion. Just to me, there is boyfriend level and husband level. I don’t move in with men I am dating, or plan to have kids with him… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:39 PM |
| 1 | ClassicSo he was 19 with a 15 year old when they got together? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Red flag! Get your red flag here!Bwhahahhaa | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 01:37 PM |
| 8 | Being creeped out is perfectly validHe GeTS a WArNiNg. I am so sorry, that seriously pisses me off of your behalf! What a load of crap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 09:44 PM |
| 22 | Men will marry any woman who says yes even if he isn’t attracted to her. Note he is overweight, but wishes his wife were a “petite athletic woman”.Yes. So many men I see talk about how they work out ( I don’t even believe them because they don’t look it), but walk around looking like the dough boy. Half the douche bags I had talk to me on OLD years ago were fat, out of shape douche bags with a shaved bald head, a crappy beard, and horrible skin. Oh, they all thought they were funny (they weren’t), and were self described “foodies,” but that is another story for another day. They always put down their body type as “average” or “athletic.” I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 07:02 PM |
| 31 | Being creeped out is perfectly validAbsolutely. Attractive men often have their own set of issues.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 04:52 PM |
| 85 | Being creeped out is perfectly validTed Bundy was attractive, and that had been continuously remarked on by media. You know why? Because most mass shooters and serial killers are not attractive. Look at Josh Holmes, Henry Lee Lucas, and Adam Lanza are/were all levels of hideous. It isn’t that attractive men are more trustworthy, because they are not. Being physically attractive is not any indicator of morality or ethics. However, ugly men have more of a chip on their shoulder about it. How many of these nutjobs who have gone on ki… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 04:36 PM |
| 62 | Men will marry any woman who says yes even if he isn’t attracted to her. Note he is overweight, but wishes his wife were a “petite athletic woman”.In my experience, men overestimate their attractiveness and women underestimate theirs, so I would wager you are correct. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:49 PM |
| 48 | Men will marry any woman who says yes even if he isn’t attracted to her. Note he is overweight, but wishes his wife were a “petite athletic woman”.Yes, and at 27 BMI, she is overweight, but only slightly. Depending on where she lives, she could still be well within average range, body wise, for that area. That is the sort of weight that isn’t as huge a deal as people often think. She mentioned he is also overweight. I would bet he is more so than she is, just based on my own experience. Regardless though, she doesn’t deserve to have someone be so cruel to her. He sounds awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:48 PM |
| 54 | Men will marry any woman who says yes even if he isn’t attracted to her. Note he is overweight, but wishes his wife were a “petite athletic woman”.Interesting. When I was younger, I was really into martial arts. I was a “petite, athletic” girl from hours of Jiu Jitsu and Muay Thai every week, and before that, Tae Kwon Do. I am older and having a kid now, so I am not at that level, but I still am not overweight. This isn’t a humble brag, this is me saying that a lot of dudes seem to think they should have access to in shape women, but don’t bring that to the table themselves. I would never have dated someone who wasn’t in good shape once I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:45 PM |
| 5 | Am I TA for leaving my wife because she can’t be my incubator? 🤨It is interesting to me because, as I look back, I dated two guys who were hardcore against adoption. They went on about how they wanted biological kids for their genes to be passed on. Now, a lot of people want bio kids, but they don’t throw down to this level. Even at the time, younger me thought,”But your genes probably aren’t that great.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 10:04 PM |
| 10 | Am I TA for leaving my wife because she can’t be my incubator? 🤨Which is especially hilarious to me because, where I grew up, most men were of the “I get a cookie for trying,” variety. No career, earning potential really. I read that working class areas usually have matriarchal families, and I believe it. Maybe women in more well off areas can be “gold diggers,” but most of the girls I grew up around ended up with chronically unemployed/underemployed men who often enough noped out of being a steady presence in their kids lives. So I always think it is crazy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 10:01 PM |
| 106 | NVM comes back into pickmeisha’s life with his newfound religion. Pickmeisha bends over backwards to adapt, and gets mad when her daughter doesn’t oblige and wear a hijab. Wtf!He’s not too religious to shack up with her though. I wonder who is paying the majority of the bills in that house? He is so Muslim his girlfriend’s daughter needs to wear the hijab even though she doesn’t practice Islam, but he’s not too religious to bang his girlfriend outside of marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 12:40 AM |
| 7 | Mormons brought a man over to my house, he showed me his dick pic without warning after they left to their car.A possibly relevant point of interest: If this guy was also Mormon..... Sometimes super religious people have the mindset of “these girls are for wives in my community, and all others can be treated horribly.” IMO, we need to be wary of men who have religious beliefs that are central to their public and personal identity, but will date outside their “group.” Many have an “in group,” and “out group,” outlook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 04:11 PM |
| 18 | Girl drives from California to North Carolina for a guy she met off Bumble. He ghosts her as soon as she gets home.I know. He looks like a douchey teen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 04:04 PM |
| 8 | LVM and their heinous tactics about pressuring women for sex.A lot of men seem to be upset that women in relationships don’t want to have sex with them. Well, she is committed to you, so it is not like she shouldn’t be open to the idea.... Many times, when you start asking questions, you hear the answers from the woman’s perspective as to why not. Basically, the men stop trying to really please her. No oral, no foreplay, or the bare minimum. So yeah, I bet if sandwich guy could go downtown for ten or fifteen minutes, his odds of sex would improve, since i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 02:50 PM |
| 71 | Imagine being so insecure you can’t event hold a conversationThis is a huge red flag for me, whether male or female. If you are in such a bad spot, financially, emotionally, whatever, you absolutely need to stop chasing relationships and get your shit together. I would never have wanted to date a guy with no job, and I wouldn’t have put myself out there if that had been my situation. This dude has no shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 10:34 PM |
| 6 | Cyber-stalker gets four years jail for 'war' on ex-girlfriendYeah, he got off pretty light. It pisses me off, because I have seen female friends have horrible messages sent to them, and the guys who sent them never spent time in jail, or had warrants, even if they made threats in writing. Yet this woman spent time in jail at least six different times?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 05:08 PM |
| 7 | Cyber-stalker gets four years jail for 'war' on ex-girlfriendHe has a punchable face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 05:00 PM |
| 3 | The trash took itself out. He has a pic with his wife on their WEDDING DAY on his profile. 🤮I get that everyone has their own preferences, and to each their own. I just met some seriously entitled dudes (and a lot of men are already super entitled) who banked on the “tall” thing way too much. My husband is my height, and I have no complaints! But my standard was someone needed to be in really good shape, which he was. Some women have a standard of being tall, and others have the standard of being tall AND in really good shape. It is whatever works for them really. I just had negative e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 04:08 PM |
| 9 | The trash took itself out. He has a pic with his wife on their WEDDING DAY on his profile. 🤮I noticed that a lot of taller guys seemed to act like that was all they needed to do. I get it, you’re 6’2 or whatever, but you’re carrying a tire around the middle, you have a crap personality, and you are kind of a loser in general. That was just my own experience with a lot of tall guys though. This guy is poly (at 23! Why get married so young if you are want to have an open relationship?!) and has a self admittedly “dorky” personality. I have had terrible experiences with so many people who… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 03:53 PM |
| 14 | The trash took itself out. He has a pic with his wife on their WEDDING DAY on his profile. 🤮I noticed this years ago too. I have rarely seen really attractive people get super into “alternative” lifestyles. Most of the men I know over a certain age who are even slightly physically attractive and have decent personalities and prospects in life are monogamous or want to be monogamous with a woman. I figured that it is because they know they have a decent shot at getting a good quality person to be with at some point, so no need to play around with a bunch of weirdos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 03:44 PM |
| 7 | Never underestimate the lies men will tell just to get sex. I hope this poor woman leaves.I wonder if it is because she has been socialized to take care of others to the point of her own detriment? That would explain how she would know to get help for him, but also how she was so easily manipulated (and by the way, not blaming her here, totally his fault on this) into “helping”him by having sex with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 11:44 PM |
| 23 | Remember this post every single time a man complains that his ex/current wife/girlfriend refuses to have sex with him. Makes me wonder how many posts on r/ deadbedrooms are from the perspective of the abuser. No, she's not "asexual" or inherently "low libido", he's probably just an asshole.I have also noticed a trend of women whose partners don’t care to try and get them off having “low libidos.” I would bet if some of these guys bothered with actual fore play or making sure she got off first (through whatever method), their partners might be more interested in regularly having sex with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 11:39 PM |
| 17 | notice the double standardIt is, imo, likely a carry over from the not so distant past in many cultures. Men didn’t even have to ask the women they wanted, they asked her father. Men just had to show up with something material to basically buy her, or promise to take her off the family’s hands and take care of her. Men were allowed to have preferences for pretty younger women. Women were told to go with whoever could reliably feed them. I think there are men out there who would be thrilled to go back to that arrangement,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 11:34 PM |
| 22 | Men battering women for rejecting them must come from more than just a sense of entitlement.I saw a life pro tip on reddit that said men should simply give their numbers out instead, so as to more easily avoid that sort of pressure and awkward situations. It is a great idea, but men who do this WANT to create that bad situation from the get go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 09:11 PM |
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