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Your last bit about wanting to go on dates and not keep up with snap is how u should approach it, don’t value snapping people. Use snap as a tool to meet in person. If a snap is going to be longer than one sentence use a voice recording instead and leave almost all of them on delivered until like 10pm-1am (it helps create a good frame to lead to a HU)
/r/seduction25/10/21 09:12 PM
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3 step process Pick someone you want to go on the date with Ask them to go on the date Go on the date
/r/seduction25/10/21 07:14 PM
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If you delete your account and make a new one to ‘reset’ your matches you can get shadowbanned. U should link ur account or upload you pictures/bio either in this Reddit or in r/tinder and see if anyone has advice for you
/r/seduction25/10/21 12:38 AM
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Nope, sounds like you’re shadowbanned try using a new ph + email + device + ip + photos and make a new tinder, also don’t buy shit on tinder with the same cards
/r/seduction24/10/21 11:15 PM
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I’m a sophomore at my college and I can give you a few pointers: 1) get over your nerves. Easy way to to this is walk up to attractive girls and give them a genuine compliment then leave (nice ass is not a good one focus on things they put value in, like their tattoos or particularly stylish clothes) This gets you used to approaching these types of people without feeling dread towards the outcome of the interaction. 2) once you’ve mastered step one (meaning you’ve done it so many times that you …
/r/seduction23/10/21 06:12 AM
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No he’s not saying most people are scared of marriage. It’s just really weird to bring that up early in a relationship, until you’ve been dating for a few months you are almost hanging out with a stranger (especially on the first date) that’s why relationships start more casual and the get serious. People don’t know what the other person is really like until they spend a lot of time together Also causal dating doesn’t necessarily mean you have to hook up, most of the time it just means the peopl…
/r/seduction14/10/21 01:26 PM
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Bro I feel u there, I know like thousands of people at my college and most people think I’m pretty well liked but I’ve got like 1 close friend. Easy way I’ve found to pick up girls is to frequent an area (like class or a gym or something) and socialize with everyone there. Then I eventually ask a girl to go get coffee or something and let her kinda lead and things usually snowball from there
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:57 AM
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Areilius*
/r/seduction07/10/21 04:03 AM
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It’s not ab if he works with you, it’s about him knowing where to find you when he figures out his wife’s cheating on him
/r/seduction21/09/21 01:44 PM
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Most likely she views snap as a more intimate form of communication. in my experience most people think of Instagram as very surface level (because anyone can find someone’s insta), Snapchat as closer that Instagram (because you usually have to get it from the person), and the good ol phone number as the closest (because the least amount of people have it). If I had to guess I’d say this is her way of escalating the conversation (I’m assuming that your under the age of 25 otherwise the idea of a…
/r/seduction21/09/21 12:34 PM
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Don’t do it and here’s why: 1) you ruin some dude’s marriage for pretty much no reason 2) if a 42 y/o married woman is hitting up a 25 y/o on the sly she’s probably not the brightest tool in the shed and will definitely either get caught or use it as leverage in an argument with her husband. 3) referencing back to #2 when her husband finds out he’s not going to like you very much and it sounds like he already knows where you work (that’s not good)
/r/seduction21/09/21 12:27 PM
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And guys who make up “rules” to why other people are wrong with little to no reasoning behind them while offering 0 insight into alternatives are the most trustworthy source of advice on the internet
/r/seduction21/09/21 12:20 PM
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That’s fair, I was just assuming they already kinda knew each other, but I 100% agree it would be way more comfortable for someone you just met to go get coffee or do something else low pressure and in public as a tester to make sure you’re not a creep
/r/seduction20/09/21 08:52 PM
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Learn to cook and invite her over for dinner sometime in an easygoing way (don’t run across the street and flag her down to ask just bring it up next time you are already talking to her)
/r/seduction20/09/21 06:52 PM
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I definitely see your point, a strategy might be to open up an age qualified line of questions, for instance: You: Excuse me, do you know where this (bar/club/age restricted social area) is? I’m (from out of town or some other reason you don’t know whatever you decide to ask). Them: No I don’t sorry, (then giving a reason why they don’t know as people tend to do) I’m only “X” years old (or something else you can use for conversation material, such as they just moved to the city etc. Yeah, it’s i…
/r/seduction19/09/21 04:23 AM
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It’s all about working the question into the conversation before you get overcommitted, and it’s a helluva lot less creepy to ask someone how old they are than it is to hit on a minor
/r/seduction18/09/21 12:02 PM
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It’s pretty easy to figure out how old a person is, try saying things like “how old are you?” or work another version of that question into the conversation.
/r/seduction18/09/21 12:49 AM
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Don’t, unless they approach you. It’s fine to flirt and see if they’re interested based on reciprocation but if it turns out their not you could risk a trip to hr and then unemployment or at least a VERY awkward work environment. The best thing you can do is flirt a little and let her lead so your ass is covered
/r/seduction04/04/21 05:00 AM
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Lol
/r/seduction02/04/21 06:52 PM
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The real question is, will you shave your head?
/r/seduction02/04/21 06:08 PM
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Don’t leave your job to chase women, if you can get a transfer or find a job that has similar pay/benefits then sure, life’s about being happy, but at 30 a lot of women value security and proof of value so you shouldn’t shoot your self in the foot
/r/seduction02/04/21 03:15 PM
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It’s an issue where the guys are seeing that you’re making progress and getting kinda jealous, you can either alpha them back (which will make you look like an asshole or start a fight) or you can try to roll over them and out them as an asshole and immediately move on to the next part of the conversation
/r/seduction02/04/21 02:48 PM
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Yeah I agree with that, turn your weaknesses into your strengths (cliche I know) and own them
/r/seduction02/04/21 02:05 PM
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Not a shaggy or scruffy on tho, full and well trimmed
/r/seduction02/04/21 07:33 AM
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Read the other dudes comment
/r/seduction02/04/21 04:31 AM
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Hotel sex
/r/seduction02/04/21 02:04 AM
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Now’s the time to escalate and try to meet up, running out of things to talk about is a death sentence
/r/seduction02/04/21 01:11 AM
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Bro shave your head completely and work to get noticeably muscular (which it sounds like you have already done) then just own it, a shaved head can portray a lot of confidence and girls love confident men
/r/seduction01/04/21 11:21 PM
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Then you’ve answered your own question, she’s not interested. I’d still confront her about the stares, but besides that drop it and move on to the next girl.
/r/seduction01/04/21 08:23 PM
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A shit test is a emotional test that people use to test other people, common ones for girls are “I only date guys who are taller than me or have abs or drive nice cars” the point of the test isn’t to see if u actually have the height, abs, or car it’s to see how you respond to her trying to disqualify you from being able to hit on her. Basically she’s saying “you’re not good enough because of X” and you have to come up with a way around that. If you have a specific thing she said when “comes off…
/r/seduction01/04/21 07:46 PM
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If you’re 18+ NEVER approach a girl who’s under age, never talk about a girl who’s under age, never think about a girl who’s under age.
/r/seduction01/04/21 07:41 PM
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She’s uncomfortable man, tread lightly and try to put her at ease. Don’t push too hard or she’s going to think you’re weird (if she doesn’t already). The fact that you had to “convince” her to go with you is a bad sign, ideally she should already want to go out with you before you ask.
/r/seduction01/04/21 07:33 PM
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Girls are weird man, it’s probably her way of shit testing you. Next time she stares at you bump (not literally) into her after class and be like “do I have something on my face? I couldn’t help but notice you staring” directly confronting and giving her a shit test of your own gives you some flexibility to figure out what she wants.
/r/seduction01/04/21 07:27 PM
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Talk to the cashiers when you buy shit, it will help you get over social anxiety. Stuff like “shitty weather, huh?” or “you guys been busy today?” goes a long way. Work on seamless conversation skills before practicing picking people up. Walk before you run.
/r/seduction01/04/21 07:22 PM
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Bro based on the numbers you gave in your original post it got a number 26% of the time but only really worked 0.013% and you failed to escalate those into actual dates. That’s dogshit man, if people are calling you a “pedo/stalker” it’s for a reason. Compliments on things that a girl puts effort into (her style) are much better and don’t give the creepy vibe if you can keep the conversation light.
/r/seduction01/04/21 07:17 PM
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Honestly based on how you’ve described the situation she’s either really in to you and acting shy because of it, or on the flip side she thinks you’re weird. You have two real options: the first option is to try to get her to hang out 1 on 1 sometime but not really as an official date just something casual and then escalate from there. Option two would to be get another girlfriend and just move on
/r/seduction01/04/21 05:25 PM
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Don’t talk to the other guys in the group about it, that’s a mistake you don’t want to make.
/r/seduction01/04/21 05:09 PM
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Don’t tell the girls you think they are hot right off the bat, that’s weird af and probably what kills your game most of the time, compliments on style or tattoos are a much better way to go
/r/seduction01/04/21 04:41 PM
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Bro this isn’t something that you can study traditionally, just go with your gut and be a little ballsy (confident not cocky) the more you appear relaxed and fun the better you will do. It sounds to me like you’re too tense about the situation, don’t force interactions or worry if they go bad. Just stay frosty 🥶 and you’ll be fine
/r/seduction01/04/21 04:10 AM
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Use the word date as a confirmation, here’s an example: You: hey, do you want to get coffee on Friday? Her: yeah, absolutely! You: alright, it’s a date (then wink or smile or do something to be charming as long as u know it’s not going to come of as creepy) After this little interaction you can either use this as an excuse to exit the conversation and leave or change topics DO NOT let there be any awkward silence not matter what
/r/seduction31/03/21 09:26 PM
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Making yourself feel like you have sex appeal is 97% of it, the better you feel about yourself the better results you will have. If you’re talking about trying to escalate a covo, just try to make a subtle innuendo if she’s receptive, great! If not you can always fake offense and act like she took it the wrong way and then remove yourself form the conversation
/r/seduction31/03/21 05:53 AM
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Dude she likes u, she’s literally sleeping with u multiple times a week. Just act like you know she likes you and let that ooze off your personality. The reason she was talking about this other dude to you (and it was on purpose) is to try to make you jealous or to get a rise out of you (in other words a test). If you don’t worry about it you pass, if you sweat over this other guy you will make a mistake and fail. The issue with your relationship right now is that it sounds like she is gatekeepi…
/r/seduction31/03/21 05:42 AM
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What if you can do it? What if you do succeed? What if it goes better than expected and changes your life? What if you don’t know how good you are? You’re not afraid of failure because you’ve already failed by being afraid. You’re just realizing that you have the potential to do more and it’s easier to do nothing. Nutt up and improve yourself or you’ll forever regret your missed opportunities.
/r/seduction31/03/21 05:28 AM
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If you don’t like to approach women, then you have to convince them to approach you. The best way to do this is to establish yourself as someone with high social value when you go out. Next time you go to a club/bar take two or three friends with you and make an effort to be entertaining to them (don’t confuse this with seeking their attention). Other people in the club will notice and a causal smile or just eye contact with a woman you find attractive will often lead to her initiating the convo…
/r/seduction31/03/21 05:20 AM
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What time of night do u go for the run?
/r/seduction31/03/21 01:29 AM
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Look for externalities, for example if you were in college and there was really shitty weather for a week it would stand to reason that more ppl would be active online and vise versa. So maybe it doesn’t have so much to do with you as it does some other thing that’s changing people behavior. (or on the flip side your game could be really shitty after a week so they just decide to ghost)
/r/seduction31/03/21 12:36 AM
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Play it cool, and don’t force interactions. Just try to start conversation casually, not because your trying to meet someone before midnight
/r/seduction30/03/21 11:44 PM
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Honestly idk why I went for the second platform, but I took another user’s advice, sent a good line and she’s been texting me pretty frequently for the last day so I guess it worked
/r/seduction30/03/21 04:00 PM
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Shit, I see what u mean now.
/r/seduction30/03/21 06:03 AM
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Like a pickup line?
/r/seduction30/03/21 06:00 AM
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