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"introvert with extorverted tendencies." Did you come up with that lol? I came up with it to use in my bio when I used OLD.
/r/seduction02/06/19 01:30 AM
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I can't decipher this cryptic message.
/r/seduction01/06/19 11:51 PM
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How did you deal with one. I always thought I was confident, but my insecurities (basically everything you listed in #1) has been getting worse and leading to some real negative thoughts.
/r/seduction01/06/19 09:48 PM
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Can you talk about how you do 2? How'd you move the conversation to be more playful?
/r/seduction19/05/19 09:57 PM
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Appreciate the advice. The approaching isn't the hard part for me. If I see something interesting I can start a conversation with, it makes it easier. But when I just want to approach because I think she is attractive, I don't know how to proceed. Like the girl at the bar, she was responsive but I didn't know how to move forward with the convo...I felt like asking if she in in school or w/e would be boring because it is not the right setting.
/r/seduction18/05/19 10:13 PM
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This is me down to the headphones and trying to learn something new. We are just passive people. I'm guessing if a girl gave you all the signs she is into you, you'd probably make a move. We need to be more active in our actions. I realize this, but still can't pull the trigger myself.
/r/seduction23/01/19 06:16 AM
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No game, just got lucky that time which is why I didn't know how to escalate.
/r/seduction22/01/19 10:43 PM
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You good people.
/r/seduction22/12/18 11:55 PM
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Ya, that's my dilemma atm. But you right, power dynamic is not balanced so best to cut it off.
/r/seduction22/12/18 11:37 PM
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We matched a day before I left back, but hit it off so we kept talking and moved to talking nearly daily and flirting. Flirting died down on her end about 2 weeks ago right before I was coming back to town, but we still talk here and there. You are not wrong, I should have cut it off earlier but I think I'll take my L and just settle for friendship.
/r/seduction22/12/18 10:06 PM
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Ya, she just hit me with "friends" and I proceeded to delete her number. I need to step up my game.
/r/seduction22/12/18 08:24 PM
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And what do you say? I'm quiet as heck and never know what to talk about. I usually just listen in most social interactions so approaching is difficult cus never know what to say/talk about.
/r/seduction21/12/18 05:13 PM
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By friendzoning myself, I mean, I guess I'm what you call a nice guy (not r/niceguy type), just cordial and respectful. As in I don't flirt and just overall interact with them in a friendly manner, not a "I want you" manner. Got me thinking about the saying nice guys finish last. Nah, from what I've noticed from myaelt, we don't finish last, we just let everyone else get ahead of us by not making moves. And what comedy would you suggest?
/r/seduction06/12/18 05:13 AM
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