I don't spew sexualism, but I have no problem talking to people and generally don't lack confidence talking to people. However, I am a quite individual and prefer to listen than talk.

Whenever I communicate, I'm very cordial and usually straightforward. Don't really know how to be funny or flirt and that usually ends up with me friendzoning myself on multiple occasions.

How can I overcome this to talk more and be a good story teller (although I don't really have anything exciting going on in my life to talk about), and to learn how to flirt non-cringely?