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Game isn't about fixing your inner trauma and becoming a better man, it's about drilling exercises and psychological calibration one million times until you have enough successful experiences.
/r/seduction25/04/21 08:58 PM
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People don't have the slightest idea of how to meet people + most subreddits are filled with incels + most guys can't approach a woman without being creepy + pickup has a terrible reputation You're right and I know it, but most eople won't even think twice
/r/seduction23/04/21 01:57 PM
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Girls crave attention and male validation, by taking it away from them you're striking at their ego and make them feel worse about themselves, you toxic PUA
/r/seduction14/04/21 02:37 AM
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She didn't seem responsive, which means she ain't interested because your IG isn't attractive to her or you said something stupid, either way move on to the next
/r/seduction10/04/21 11:05 AM
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I wrote a list of all the places where you can possibly meet women outside of a dating app. Basically any public place with high traffic will do.
/r/seduction06/04/21 09:11 AM
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Tell him that his behavior isn't getting results. Be direct and logical. If he can't understand that you're better off going solo A good wing is positive, approaches a lot and can accept feedback.
/r/seduction06/04/21 09:08 AM
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This whole post is BS coming from a guy who admits he can't do daygame
/r/seduction06/04/21 09:05 AM
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I wrote a list of what book I liked and why, I read A LOT over the years.
/r/seduction04/04/21 10:57 PM
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Bro you want to start figuring out how to deal with your ego. You're not too far down the mgtow, there is still hope. Read Ego is the enemy and then watch this. ​ But really, get your ego trip sorted out first and foremost before everyone starts hating you and avoiding you, that's how school shooters are born.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 01:17 AM
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Invest in stocks, get a dating/life/business coach, get a gym membership, buy gifts for your family and friends, etc
/r/askTRP30/03/21 01:03 AM
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Try this one, it's long but explains everything.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 01:01 AM
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Is it that weird that someone would like to know what you look like before they decide whether they are romantically attracted to you? Basic psychology, you trust more people when you know clearly what their face look like. This is not even related to SMV yet. Just girls who don't want to talk with a faceless person because it's sketchy. If you don't have pics that show you clearly it's something you want to work on asap
/r/askTRP17/03/21 07:28 AM
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Don't ask on reddit, everyone hates coaches here, unless you've got a million subscribers already. But then people start saying you're fake so that's another kind of problem :) Build a youtube channel, be patient. Thinking you know game after 1 year is a bad idea though. Thinking you know game after learning about TRP only is a bad idea as well. Don't let that stop you, start now.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 05:59 PM
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Practice makes perfect + make her talk about herself + screen her + lead the conversation + a bunch of other stuff that you won't find in a redpill subreddit. Like seriously, If you want to cold approach girls or basically just seduce girls you need more than "just be chill bro" kind of advice. There are ways to have people talk and talk and talk forever and like you more the more you make them talk. Watch Youtube pickup guys. Watch this. Start putting some structure in what you do.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 02:17 PM
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This sub is the worst place to improve tbh Check out the side bar, there is a link to groups filled with people who actually go out and approach
/r/seduction07/07/20 03:09 PM
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Give value
/r/seduction02/06/20 10:49 AM
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Why the F do you still care about trying to get every women? If any guy approached enough he would get a girl for every day of the week. It takes 2 hours of your life to approach 20 girls, if you're not that bad at picking up chicks you can get 2 to sleep with you easily. If you spent 7 hours of your week cold approaching instead of browsing this sub and jerking to pickup theory you'd actually get a new girl everyday. And I'm not even talking about tinder which basically consumes no time as you …
/r/seduction13/02/20 09:19 AM
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Care more about what you think of them than what they think of you
/r/seduction12/02/20 12:41 PM
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Getting hurt so much that you become disensitized works as good as it sounds emo because it brings you to Putting your priorities somewhere that matters
/r/seduction11/02/20 05:37 AM
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Dont agree and explain that you wanted to get to know her, not her friend. But if she's asking to brinf a friend it's probably that you did something wrong before or she isn't looking for a date.
/r/seduction11/02/20 05:30 AM
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Yea you don't need it
/r/seduction11/02/20 02:49 AM
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A relationship should serve all the involved people, not the other way around. You know what to do.
/r/seduction06/02/20 07:12 AM
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Just treat all humans with compassion, and love yourself man. Let yourself grow and flourish, This advice is as gay as it sounds. Point of this sub is to learn how to communicate better and show your attractive self better. You didn't get the point of the sub. OK thx bye.
/r/seduction05/02/20 04:14 AM
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Gosh, who hurt you?
/r/seduction05/02/20 01:47 AM
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Success took years to develop. Most guys here are stuck in the victim mindset and they don't want to change it. They want girls to like their silly self instead of becoming more attractive. Success takes months and years of fine tuning, molding yourself into what works.
/r/seduction04/02/20 06:40 AM
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Approach all people and take tons of action. It's about momentum.
/r/seduction31/01/20 07:52 PM
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It's a jargon term that rates girls attractiveness from one to ten
/r/seduction31/01/20 07:50 PM
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Just a thought dont really like conversations just for the sake of having them. No one does, what people like is what comes out of this fluff talk.
/r/seduction31/01/20 05:07 AM
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My game went from amazingly bold to crippling anxiety at the beginning of the night. Then you learn to deal with the first few approaches and build momentum. Then you are able to structure your game because your mind is clear. And after some time of practice you don't need alcohol anymore at all and your game is extra tight even at 2am when everyone is wasted. ​ No alcohol is really just you raising the skill floor and skill ceiling of your game.
/r/seduction31/01/20 05:04 AM
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Seems obvious to me, you go to the most random place ever, you will meet the most random people ever. If you go to events and places that appeal to your social/economical/political/religious/whatever category, you have more chances to find people that you like.
/r/seduction31/01/20 05:02 AM
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OP in a few months "Sorry sensei, I have to use the forbidden seduction technique NEGGO JUTSU on that HB9" starts flashback on OP's life
/r/seduction31/01/20 04:58 AM
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Anything is fine as long as it's not too weird. You can know what's not too weird with experience, but usually your common sense is enough. Just gotta be confident and say the first thing that comes to your mind.
/r/seduction31/01/20 04:54 AM
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lol about the Michelin man thing, true I used to walk a lot too when doing daygame, until a realized that you don't even need to. Find your spot and approach non-stop, most people walk around because stuck in aproach anxiety I've noticed that most traffic happens outside of subway stations that are next to shopping malls
/r/seduction31/01/20 04:49 AM
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DM her privately "Hey woman, I kinda enjoyed last time we met, wanna get coffee/beer some day ?"
/r/seduction31/01/20 04:38 AM
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Start kissing, take her clothes off. Kiss her on her now naked body, get naked yourself, put condom on, put D in V, gg
/r/seduction31/01/20 04:37 AM
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Call her out on it in a funny way. If she gives an evasive answer she isn't interested. She might be shy so, consider her overal behavior
/r/seduction29/01/20 04:37 AM
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Im not reading through this wall of text sorry bruh
/r/seduction29/01/20 04:35 AM
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Go to any public place, there's approximately 50% chance that any human you see will be a female. Yes cold approach works. I won't probably work out for you until your 50th approach if you're starting out on your own tho
/r/seduction29/01/20 04:34 AM
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All i've heard is that they suck for how overpriced they are. Sad because I used to be a huge RSD fan. Cancel it and send me a PM, ill give you better quality coaching than the assistant they'd assign to you and the 3 other AFC in your group for 1/20th of the price.
/r/seduction29/01/20 04:31 AM
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Have fun with them. Boom, you're now in the set, you've done the easiest part. Now you hang around her, have fun with her and talk to her until it's time to go home.
/r/seduction29/01/20 04:29 AM
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Try to small talk people at first
/r/seduction29/01/20 04:28 AM
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Step 1 : stop caring about what other people think Step 2 : get better friends. friends don't *roast* each others
/r/seduction29/01/20 04:26 AM
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Come to Bangkok bruh
/r/seduction29/01/20 04:25 AM
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Once again, it's not about the line. It's about how confidently you deliver it and the intention behind the line. Canned line are just lazy solution for guys who are too lazy to learn how to show intent correctly.
/r/seduction29/01/20 04:25 AM
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You stand up and you go say hi. Then she will say hi. 50% she will say something else immediately afterward to start the convo if she has been glancing at you. If she doesn't, you say something, a n y t h i n g. I'd go with "I got kinda shy with you looking at me like that" because Im a jackass, but you can try "what are you up to ? :) "
/r/seduction29/01/20 04:22 AM
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Big tit milf lmao Well played bro
/r/seduction29/01/20 04:17 AM
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To some extent yes. You can exagerate a bit but don't pretend to be someone else.
/r/seduction25/12/19 05:00 AM
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Small talk through text blargghgh
/r/seduction16/12/19 04:23 AM
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You did the right thing Now move on and find a new gf
/r/seduction16/12/19 04:22 AM
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Taller than you even if you wear heels Most likely to send you dank memes Attracted to mean-looking girls I've got tattoos, your parents might not like it. When I was young, girls used to hate when I'd pull their hair, funny how things change ... __ Im using that one atm
/r/seduction11/12/19 03:38 AM
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I dont think they care much about you tbh. Just act normally if you meet them again
/r/seduction07/12/19 11:19 AM
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Google it man
/r/seduction07/12/19 11:18 AM
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Probably because you come off as too nice and not sexual enough or not leading enough
/r/seduction07/12/19 05:28 AM
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I mean, you can always listen to audiobooks when youre working out
/r/seduction07/12/19 05:27 AM
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Go through your sad posts and delete them all manually then
/r/seduction07/12/19 05:26 AM
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Fun, feel important, sexx
/r/seduction07/12/19 04:31 AM
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Delete your old social media accounts and start new ones?
/r/seduction07/12/19 04:30 AM
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Cool man, keep insulting people trying to help you, im not the one having trouble getting laid
/r/seduction07/12/19 04:26 AM
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Take action Go out Anddd Cold approach
/r/seduction07/12/19 04:02 AM
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Take action Go out Anddd Cold approach
/r/seduction07/12/19 04:02 AM
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Expose yourself to hot girls more
/r/seduction07/12/19 04:01 AM
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Instead of paying for dance class and improv class, why dont you pay a pickup coach and find a wing? In one month of the right work, you can overcome most of the things you're complaining about in your post.
/r/seduction07/12/19 04:00 AM
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Go in your nearest mall and tell girls that you find them cute. Report back and tag us so we give feedback
/r/seduction07/12/19 03:54 AM
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"Aww Yea let's see"
/r/seduction07/12/19 03:52 AM
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Ego protection? Force yourself, recognize the situations where the behavior happens and controp urself
/r/seduction07/12/19 03:51 AM
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Have her qualify more Build more comfort
/r/seduction07/12/19 03:50 AM
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Man you just had ego-sex What do you expect. If you actually wanted to, you'd have tried to get to know this girl better before going for the sex. I feel like this post could have been written by a girl when I see how attention seeking it is.
/r/seduction07/12/19 03:47 AM
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Here's a piece of uncomfortable truth for you. Women will always have incredibly better dating success than men. Unless Those men start taking action and actively cold approach women.
/r/seduction07/12/19 03:45 AM
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Engage in plain boring conversation and have them invest by holding the tension, pausing 3 seconds at the end of your sentences and see how they react. Hold eye contact. Give them the opportunity to ignore you. You dont have to carry the whole conversation. Expect them to answer. If they dont, fair enough. Try once more. If they really dont, move on. 80% of your conversations should be "boring" stuff. What you consider boring is actually not boring btw, that's just your limiting belief. In this …
/r/seduction07/12/19 03:39 AM
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I've been there, trying to be the coolest guy in the club. I've been a club promoter. Got tons of makeouts, some toilet sex. Still, what gets you to pull at the end of the night is trust. Being the edgy look-at-me fuccboi doesn't build trust. When the time to pull come, girls will ask you "where is your girlfriend" "all girls must like you", and they will also say "I've gotta go home with my friend" "maybe we can meet next time".
/r/seduction07/12/19 03:32 AM
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Break rapport
/r/seduction07/12/19 03:27 AM
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Lol dude look at how defensive you got Sorry for hurting your ego. You dont have to listen to me you know. You asked and I just answered.
/r/seduction06/12/19 11:21 AM
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Matching on tinder doesn't mean having good game man. In any case, look at those girls boyfriends and think about how you can copy some of their behavior/lifestyle.
/r/seduction06/12/19 10:46 AM
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Seduction is like sales man. If your product is good and you market it well, it's gonna do better than a poor product poorly marketed. Doesn't mean everyone's gonna buy it. Doesn't mean you shouldn't try to sell either.
/r/seduction06/12/19 10:42 AM
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The other guy is right. Whatever your arguments are are wrong and biased by your own opinions/experiences.
/r/seduction06/12/19 10:39 AM
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Record yourself Film yourself Get a wing Get a coach
/r/seduction06/12/19 10:36 AM
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Short answer means your previous message was boring. Break rapport and escalate.
/r/seduction06/12/19 10:35 AM
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Ok that's all good and fun but Did you build any trust? Did you try to get to know her? Did you show her why she should see you again? So far you acted like a fuccboi, trying hard to be cool and witty. And that's exactly what she thinks about you. She has legit 10 guys a week acting like that with her every week, if she's a bit pretty. So, why you? Seduction is attraction+comfort over a long period of time. What you did was attraction over a short period of time. That is the fuccboi vibe and gir…
/r/seduction06/12/19 10:32 AM
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Have someone film you while carrying a microphone
/r/seduction06/12/19 10:27 AM
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Pause 3 seconds after finishing a sentence
/r/seduction06/12/19 10:24 AM
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Skin color doesn't matter if you have game
/r/seduction06/12/19 10:24 AM
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Catch hand or invite with yours. Pull her in.
/r/seduction06/12/19 10:23 AM
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Before going into this whole skin color debate, is your game even on point?
/r/seduction06/12/19 10:21 AM
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You're probably seeking for them to react when saying stuff so if you're needy they get annoyed. I mean small talk
/r/seduction05/12/19 04:45 PM
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Stop trying tonhave them react to you. Learn to fluff about basic topics
/r/seduction05/12/19 02:48 AM
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When I say bad quality pictures, it has nothing to do with your looks.
/r/seduction03/12/19 04:51 PM
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Me and my clients beg to disagree
/r/seduction03/12/19 04:49 PM
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Pretty sure that if you're not having any match you're doing something that my post is saying you shouldn't do
/r/seduction03/12/19 12:10 PM
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Mad like what? You might just be annoying to them if they try to break your frame and get angry when you hold.
/r/seduction03/12/19 12:08 PM
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Girls like to match with attractive guys Better than a bathroom selfie with a shirt on Still lower value than a nice picture
/r/seduction03/12/19 12:07 PM
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Man I was trolling you. Knock at the door like a normal person. Expect nothing, make moves anyways. A kiss is of course extermely likely to happen on a good first date.
/r/seduction03/12/19 07:57 AM
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Yea good quality pictures are the most important part of your success online
/r/seduction03/12/19 06:17 AM
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I cant always be playing it off by agreeing and exaggerating to hold my frame Stop being so soft. That's why they don't like you, you're failing shit tests. I get asked why am I gay, why is my friend hotter than me, why XXXXXX everynight bruh
/r/seduction03/12/19 06:15 AM
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And yet, it ain't happening Are you even meeting girls. If yes, then you should be meeting higher quality girls. Look into developping your social circle game if you're really picky about your girls.
/r/seduction03/12/19 06:14 AM
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should I knock on her door? Or do something else?. Bring a guitar and play a serenade under her window until she comes down
/r/seduction03/12/19 06:12 AM
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You connect more by having them believe that you care and understand how they feel. You achieve that by active listening (and usually, high tolerance to bullshit and girly thoughts). Now I disagree that you need to emotionally connect with every girl you like, you can also enjoy the sex in itself, for itself.
/r/seduction03/12/19 06:12 AM
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until they take action* FTFY
/r/seduction02/12/19 05:31 AM
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Have them see you "regularly" Find common points, find common activities.
/r/seduction02/12/19 05:30 AM
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Keep talking. Lead the interaction to your desired outcome. When you feel like it's dying, why don't you invite her for a coffee instead.
/r/seduction02/12/19 05:29 AM
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Learn to make it friendly Then learn to make it sexual ​ If youre not able to have a friendly conversation about the weather and make people talk about themselves, you're not ready for filrty conversation yet.
/r/seduction02/12/19 05:27 AM
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1 I am a -yourjob-, how about you ? Ahh, what got you into this ? Cool, what do you like so much in blablabla 2 I am from -yourcountry-, how about you ? Oh cool I heard its very cold there. But you're as strong as a bear. 3 I like to -yourhobby-, you ever tried it ? Yeah, it actually makes you feel blablabla 4 You guess 5 I went to -yourschool-, ever heard of it ? Aww, was your school very strict too ? ​ You got my point bruh ?
/r/seduction02/12/19 05:25 AM
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Why is that kind of thing being posted on this sub
/r/seduction02/12/19 05:21 AM
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I did something to piss her off, and now she acts like she hates me She probably genuinely hates u
/r/seduction02/12/19 05:19 AM
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Open girls without having them looking at you first You dont need her to look first.
/r/seduction02/12/19 05:17 AM
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Yeah man mine usually is "taller than you even if you wear heels" works well
/r/seduction30/11/19 01:05 PM
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I have a ton of things to talk about. But most girls are very boring and very average looking. Im talking about building a social circle of models, entrepreneurs and high responsibility jobs women. I used to have that in the city i was in before, but it was mostly because we got introduced by my job or girls that I was attracted too but found out they were actually not that physically or mentally attractive to me. Point is, I want to pro actively make friends with high quality women. Problem is,…
/r/seduction26/11/19 05:18 PM
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For the challenge and experience. Also because im in a new city. Also to build an attractive social circle.
/r/seduction26/11/19 05:12 PM
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woosh
/r/seduction26/11/19 04:36 AM
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Google translate Body language
/r/seduction26/11/19 03:11 AM
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Put your ego in your pocket and your tissue over it bruh I've got laid tons of times and still come off as a creep very often. If you're not upsetting/creeping people off sometimes you're doing something wrong.
/r/seduction26/11/19 03:10 AM
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People don't want to hear it man
/r/seduction26/11/19 03:09 AM
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She doesn't like you and she's afraid you'd get all salty and potentially violent/creepy/awkward so she's just being nice.
/r/seduction26/11/19 03:08 AM
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U sure ? Id personally never trust a girl from pluto
/r/seduction26/11/19 03:07 AM
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For most of my clients I tell them that they need 3 things : ​ Something that the girl will like about them Something that they want in a girl Sonething fun to hook her
/r/seduction26/11/19 03:06 AM
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I enjoyed ranting while filling the survey. Make seddit great again yo
/r/seduction26/11/19 03:04 AM
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Life is about uncertainty. Get out of your comfort zone, that's how you get better with women. Tbh in your place id refuse the friends meetup and ask her for a proper date instead
/r/seduction25/11/19 12:44 PM
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Aftrr the you're cute you should have asked her out. Or didnt say she was cute at all and get her to invest more in the convo and quickly ask her out
/r/seduction25/11/19 11:41 AM
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She likes you and has been waiting for ypu to make a move forever bro. Deep inside you know it and you know when you should have made your move.
/r/seduction25/11/19 11:38 AM
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You can find many youtube videos and articles explaining it better than me
/r/seduction22/11/19 05:19 AM
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You're pissed because you're lost and powerless. Grab a pen and paper and write EXACTLY what you do right and what you do wrong. Give yourself objectives in the form of things that you have to do during the set, not in the form of outcome (ie : did I hold her attention throughout the set?). Establish and try new ways to attain those objectives (ie : how to get her to stay focused on me during the whole interaction ?) Think with that sexy brain of yours, or watch youtube videos answering your que…
/r/seduction21/11/19 04:35 AM
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Break rapport when too much small talk
/r/seduction21/11/19 04:29 AM
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Recently, we hung out, and that didn't go so well, as she had her sister tag along as well because we were suppose to go to my friend's (her brother's) birthday party I also felt guilty that I made my date suffer for it. That's a friendly meetup, not a date. A part of me wanted to open up to my date and make her feel comfortable and attractive, but my damaged side would clam up and reject being vulnerable with her You should write a book about you and I'd buy it because that sounds edgy AF. In a…
/r/seduction21/11/19 04:27 AM
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Walk on your knees maybe ? ​ Seriously man, most girls like huge guys. If you've got a nice bodyshape you're going to slay.
/r/seduction21/11/19 04:22 AM
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y u so needy As other people said, people don't owe you attention nor anything. Go out and approach more girls that you like, it's gonna fix all your problems.
/r/seduction21/11/19 04:21 AM
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Get a girlfriend for everyday of the week fam Then two, etc ..
/r/seduction21/11/19 04:20 AM
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also, for a woman to respect you and say that you need to deserve it. If you deserved her respect she probably wouldn't have rejected you in the first place
/r/seduction21/11/19 04:16 AM
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this sub is full of softies
/r/seduction21/11/19 04:15 AM
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Never said nor implied that
/r/seduction16/11/19 12:56 PM
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Same as a non shy girl. Expect it to take more time
/r/seduction15/11/19 10:19 AM
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Yeah man welcome to the real world. It doesnt mean they are sluts. It means they dont value their current relationship the same way you'd value your relationships. It's your choice wether or not to hang around those girls who are low quality. You're not here to judge them though. Find the girls you feel good with and accept that most people dont view the world the same way you do.
/r/seduction15/11/19 06:06 AM
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Yeah man people flirt all the time. Your conception of love, girls and relationships might be off. Reality is that both genders lie and flirt a lot.
/r/seduction15/11/19 05:32 AM
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There are many smaller communities around. I dont think there's a team that's as big and as publicly knows as RSD so of course it feels empty without them. Wanna join up and become the new RSD ? Hmu and let's be partners lol
/r/seduction15/11/19 05:31 AM
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Wear a condom, do your best to do it safely and make it a great experience for the both of you. Don't ask anyone for permission, just make sure you have the other person's consent.
/r/seduction15/11/19 05:29 AM
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Dude it's the same for every guy in his every home country. I think french girls are bitches sometimes. Russian guys feel like russian girls are bitches sometimes. Reality is that no, they aren't more bitchy than other countries girls. If you have good game it works the same. I believe shit tests are harsher from girls from certain countries but anyways, the point of a shit test is to pass it without being phased by it.
/r/seduction15/11/19 05:28 AM
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I'd say attaching your ego to any social identity keeps you from improving and trying new things. So keep being u
/r/seduction14/11/19 04:48 AM
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"Hey, I saw you and I wanna say hi because I like your style. I know it's kinda random though. What are you up to ?" Say that and pause between each sentence to allow her to talk. Talk only if she doesn't. That's the basic cold approach thing. ​ Then you can also replace the I like your style thing with any indirect situational opener if something comes to mind.
/r/seduction14/11/19 04:46 AM
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Thats a bit tryhard, you can tell by the wording that seem too researched. Also, add things that you look for in a woman.
/r/seduction13/11/19 09:03 AM
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Youre bragging man. Its not subtle enough to sound cool, it's flat out bragging. And there's a layer of wannabe edgy on top of the bragging. Girls will see through easily. Its not sincere, it's crafted to have her react, which makes it needy. Also, it's way too long.
/r/seduction10/11/19 04:38 AM
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Haha
/r/seduction10/11/19 04:35 AM
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Sounds oddly specific
/r/seduction09/11/19 06:42 PM
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Yeah and then what. You still go and approach them. Only difference is they gave you a smile before.
/r/seduction09/11/19 04:52 PM
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Your point is valid if you see chasing as a bad thing. I'd rather go for what I want and see whether it works out instead of waiting for good things to come. If i see a hot girl im gonna talk to her, because if she doesn't open me (which very hot girls never do) I'll keep my blue balls.
/r/seduction09/11/19 03:59 PM
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Idk man, I attract women by going up to them and talking. I don't wait for them to e v e n t u a l l y come to me.
/r/seduction09/11/19 03:16 PM
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Lmao Taking action vs not taking action. Chose your side.
/r/seduction09/11/19 02:20 PM
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Few months. Lots of going out every night. A ton of awkward moments.
/r/seduction09/11/19 11:20 AM
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Your profile is tryhard and your message is tryhard. Thus being low value. You wont get hot girls (nor many girls) that way. Less is more.
/r/seduction09/11/19 11:19 AM
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I just opened a girl with a Lucifer GIF on IG. I'll report back.
/r/seduction09/11/19 11:17 AM
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Warm up, by the sixth approach you'll be a freaking machine and forget your ego
/r/seduction09/11/19 11:15 AM
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Halo effect has people look your way. Taking risks has people look your way. Confidence loop alone doesn't get you a good social circle. What builds relationship has nothing to do with looks and everything to do with what you can give them and what they can give you in a genuine way (what value you have to other's eyes). Which isn't mentionned anywhere in your drawing. Oh yeah, you said status and money once, sorry. Sarcasm makes me sound like an asshole, but point stands.
/r/seduction08/11/19 06:24 AM
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Approach.
/r/seduction08/11/19 05:32 AM
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Problem is, why do you want to save it for a second date, you need some time in between the two dates to rationalize it and think about whether or not you should kiss ? Kissing should communicate your attraction, this is not an interview, this is emotion. Girls want it too. Put yourself in the girls shoes, most guys don't act this way and if you do you're standing out as weird or not liking her.
/r/seduction08/11/19 05:31 AM
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I can relate tbh. Getting a bit good at game and feeling that you don't actually need egoic validation kills some of the motivation. I guess to overcome that you have to get through this phase and simply aim for a better overall quality of life, this including better quality girls.
/r/seduction08/11/19 05:29 AM
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Why do you care about what they think
/r/seduction08/11/19 05:27 AM
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I really wished this was helpful. But first point is that looks are important for making friends therefore making the whole argument bullshit.
/r/seduction08/11/19 05:25 AM
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You don't rly need to remember it. Ouch I sound like a bad guy. Or you can just ask her again.
/r/seduction07/11/19 05:57 PM
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Today's news : you need good pictures to get laid off dating apps
/r/seduction07/11/19 05:35 PM
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Nope, not gonna read that. Put a tldr pls
/r/seduction07/11/19 05:33 PM
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Well Todd has a video on looks money and status so since you like him just go watch it it answers all your questions
/r/seduction07/11/19 05:33 PM
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Taking hot showers gets you into the habit of forcing you to do something that you don't wanna do. It actually works. But, cmon man. Is meeting more women worth never taking hot showers ever again? Heck no
/r/seduction07/11/19 03:53 PM
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Why are you getting so many up votes while being so wrong. Oh right, this sub is now full of incels
/r/seduction07/11/19 03:21 PM
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Well, indeed. You wanted to fuck and she doesn't want. Now you can fight why she doesn't want (not by text) or you can go slowly and make her more comfortable. But tbh she is setting the frame right there. Will you accept it? Edit for clarity : she acted like that because she rationalized your behavior, during the date you've not made it clear enough that you're a sexual person that fucks often and without judgment. I'd just answer to that text by "yeah I wanted to get with you but if you're unc…
/r/seduction07/11/19 09:05 AM
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It's okay. Depends on how much he invests in you. But coaches charge a fucking lot for boot camps usually. I'd say the price is low compared to others.
/r/seduction07/11/19 07:22 AM
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Tmw you actually study something useful
/r/seduction07/11/19 07:21 AM
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You're probably needy as fuck and can't handle tension. Don't lean in, talk slowly and stop talking that much. Believe that they will talk. Make 3 seconds pauses between your sentences.
/r/seduction07/11/19 06:22 AM
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If you never freak out anyone you're doing something wrong. I think you're doing great man.
/r/seduction07/11/19 06:17 AM
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Day game : Open indirect, direct if no idea what to lash on (80% of the time) + statement of empathy because being direct during the day is low value and socially weird. I throw anything I might think of at her to get her to hook at least socially and stop walking. (I aim to get rejected twice to make sure she isn't interested). Fluff, mix of having her qualify herself, comfort and rapport building and screening for logistics. If she has to go I take her contact, if not I try to spend as much ti…
/r/seduction07/11/19 06:16 AM
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Why don't you be a confident alpha cool nice guy instead? You can be firm without being a dick. You can be confident without being narcissistic. Life isn't black and white bruh
/r/seduction07/11/19 06:09 AM
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She values your attention to begin with. What you say has value because you're human. Having an ugly face doesn't lower your value. You're mistaken about what girls value.
/r/seduction07/11/19 06:08 AM
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Tyler once said that guys have this need to always be holding on a branch while actually they could fly. Say whatever comes to your mind. Have an overall idea of the interaction in the back of your mind but talk about whatever you want and react in any way you feel like reacting. If you can't do that, you might have some insecurities that need to be fixed.
/r/seduction07/11/19 06:06 AM
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Remember that the rule is 80% nice guy 20%asshole
/r/seduction07/11/19 05:56 AM
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It doesn't make the situation awkward. It makes them awkward because you're too much of a Chad. Be aware of the pressure and tension in any interaction. Some people can't hold much tension and if you don't calibrate you will have a hard time connecting with them, networking, etc.
/r/seduction07/11/19 05:53 AM
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Im just joking. Best of luck with your boyfriend.
/r/seduction05/11/19 04:35 PM
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I can help you but I'd need your phone number first
/r/seduction05/11/19 10:13 AM
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"hey I wish we had more time to talk actually, do you want to get coffee someday?"
/r/seduction05/11/19 10:09 AM
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Dancing with a girl yes. Being a lone dancer not that much.
/r/seduction05/11/19 05:37 AM
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Or you can just torrent it.
/r/seduction05/11/19 05:29 AM
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You're not leading enough, you're seeking for attention and validation. Asking for a kiss killed the vibe and your agenda was made clear. Pretending to do something friendly to get into her pants + neediness = bad. That's how she felt. Instead, just get to the point without trying to make sure that she likes you and assume it.
/r/seduction05/11/19 05:28 AM
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When she tells you to fuck off or physically turns/goes away
/r/seduction05/11/19 05:24 AM
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Point of the article not sclear enough, my millennial attention span couldn't get past the first paragraph, tldr
/r/seduction05/11/19 05:24 AM
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F R I E N D Z O N E Edit : your best move is to tell her that you didn't expect her to invite anyone and refuse to go if she maintains on inviting that acquaintance. Unless you're fine with being friend.
/r/seduction05/11/19 05:20 AM
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If the girl isn't receptive, you cannot. So ping from time to time without being needy up to when you get bored of it/busy with another hottie.
/r/seduction05/11/19 05:18 AM
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One of the best teachers right now imo
/r/seduction05/11/19 05:17 AM
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I dont mean to be aggressive to you my man. Reading some of the comments i felt like some people view doing and activity as an easy get away from having to talk to the girl and actually make moves. Also, I'd personally not invest bringing a random girl on a first date to an activity, she might be boring as well. I believe sharing those activities I like should be for a girl who earned it or that I really like. You know, its about investing as much as she does.
/r/seduction05/11/19 04:47 AM
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Dont just stare thats creepy. Experience for yourself.
/r/seduction04/11/19 09:07 PM
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When she feels slightly uncomfortable. Girls can't handle the pressure as much as guys usually,she will look away first. That builds tension. Or you just stop staring when you're done with it and move onto another conversation thread.
/r/seduction04/11/19 07:49 PM
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Bruh. Approach 20 girls the next time you go out. Doesnt matter what you tell them, just open a conversation with 20 girls. Talking to 3-4 girls a night is for newbies with approach anxiety. You have to get past that.
/r/seduction04/11/19 07:30 PM
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It kills any sexual tension. Just hold eye contact and try to actually enjoy the pressure. Your pp will get hard I promise.
/r/seduction04/11/19 07:28 PM
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Hand of god The claw Saying hi + anything engaging
/r/seduction04/11/19 07:26 PM
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Going out solo is so tough at first. Huge GG man. Now do it again. It gets easier, I promise.
/r/seduction04/11/19 07:24 PM
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Do you want to make friends or do you want to get laid? Be an attractive guy and take her for drinks or to sit on a bench in front of your house/designated place for sex. You're seducing her with your character, not by playing bowling. Point is to seduce, not to entertain. I cant believe most people in this thread advise you to go on some soi boi activity.
/r/seduction04/11/19 07:19 PM
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Stare at the girl and use long pauses between your sentences. Dont laugh the pressure off.
/r/seduction04/11/19 07:11 PM
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"yes I actually have 3 girlfriends" Then she can't complain when she founds out it's actually true.
/r/seduction04/11/19 07:10 PM
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Bruh.
/r/seduction04/11/19 07:08 PM
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Build your home base. Or just have your own fun by yourself. When she asks where your friends are you can say they are somewhere else in the club and you point a vague direction. Or you say you came alone. You avoid surveying by not doing it, by being busy having fun or approaching people.
/r/seduction01/11/19 10:36 AM
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How it actually went : "I know you want me" -who are you lol "stop chasing me babe" -what the f
/r/seduction01/11/19 10:10 AM
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Anything works. You can lie. You can say something that doesn't make sense.
/r/seduction30/10/19 10:08 AM
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Talk to her, if she likes you don't take it slow. Anyways, it's uni so find any reason to spend time with her and hold the tension between you two and whenever you can be in a place for sex just do it
/r/seduction30/10/19 10:05 AM
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I disagree. My answer would be "because I like the park here" and I'd not even talk about it if they don't bring it up. Then change the topic to whatever helps the pickup
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:58 AM
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Sooo how did it go
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:57 AM
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Depends on the mood. The constant is that guys who get laid lead and screen hard.
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:53 AM
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Maybe you're just looking for attention and not for sex
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:51 AM
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Did you make a move when you met her. If not, she thought you were a poossy or that you actually didn't like her
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:50 AM
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Step 1
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:49 AM
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Lmao
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:48 AM
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Why do you care so much about what to say. Even the girls don't care about the specific words that come from your mouth
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:48 AM
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We both know you're looking for people to push you to make a move, so, make à move
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:46 AM
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I have three girlfriends
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:22 AM
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So, if you have a calorie and macro goal, why do you want to be eating chicken and rice only
/r/seduction30/10/19 08:48 AM
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Look, if you're a random asshole at the club, expecting people to come at you wont work. If you're hosting your own event at your house, people will come to you. I think op's case is more relevant to my firdt paragraph.
/r/seduction30/10/19 08:47 AM
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Idk man you're not giving any argument. Most books about success and pick up gurus confirm my point. Real life experience also backs it up.
/r/seduction29/10/19 01:54 PM
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Gosh relax man. If you set the expectations at the beginning of the relationship the girl will abide by it, or leave you. Most of them abide by it anyways because they like the guy in the first place. To me its more intimate to hold a girls hand while walking than having sex. It's also the case for many, many people. You can cater your emotions, that's called being an adult.
/r/seduction29/10/19 12:27 PM
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I promise they enforce the rules, i got banned a few days ago D: I feel noob posts get deleted eventually, but the only thing that gets to hot are posts about shy guys overcoming being shy anyways, so its hard to relate for some of us I guess.
/r/seduction29/10/19 12:22 PM
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Thats a broad question and i have not enough specifics. Chase girls less.
/r/seduction29/10/19 12:20 PM
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No. Give value to everyone and people will come to you. Give value without expecting anything in return and girls will chase you. By giving value you just make yourself, well... Valuable.
/r/seduction29/10/19 12:17 PM
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Thats an opinion not a fact. It's social conditioning. You can undo it. Sex has the value you give it. Ask a hooker if she gets attached.
/r/seduction29/10/19 12:16 PM
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Well i do online coaching for dating apps, check my profile there is a link. Mods dont allow me to post my link anymore lol.
/r/seduction29/10/19 12:13 PM
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The most important way to view things is your way. If others disagree, take it into consideration but that shouod not affect how you feel about yhe way you see things untill you eventually take time to sit back and think about it. Ultimately, your way always has more value than the way of others. Don't rub it to their face, tell them you disagree, and if they bitch about it find new friends.
/r/seduction29/10/19 12:11 PM
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Why do you want to be affectionate if you don't feel affection for her. Why aren't you affectionate with a girl that you eel affection for. Just be clear bout your expectations
/r/seduction29/10/19 09:49 AM
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Yeah, no. Do you even have calorie goal?
/r/seduction29/10/19 09:47 AM
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This sub sucks now, it's filled with teenagers and lazy incels who want quick fixes about their particular situation. Some people are nice and willing to hustle though.
/r/seduction29/10/19 09:47 AM
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Dress as a tampon and look for blood bruh
/r/seduction29/10/19 09:45 AM
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They find better friends who don't rustle their jimmies about being single
/r/seduction29/10/19 09:44 AM
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There's a difference between not talking to and not chasing lol. Keep opening a ton of girls and giving value but don't chase for sex or attention
/r/seduction29/10/19 09:24 AM
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Yes. Try to not be chasing yourself for once and be amazed.
/r/seduction29/10/19 02:32 AM
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She's not interested, you know that right
/r/seduction29/10/19 02:32 AM
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Heii ma boi go for it you gonna hit dem poossy hard 😂👌👌💯
/r/seduction29/10/19 02:31 AM
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You're not polite, you're asking. You should demand. I mean, yes, you're polite. But that's not the main vibe here. Probably you've been needy before and you asking her to come over to fuck "politely" is still in the same vibe.
/r/seduction29/10/19 02:30 AM
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Well unless you guys are 14 that's a fucking problem. I'd advise you to bluntly ask her why and if the answer is not satisfying you should find a new gf.
/r/seduction29/10/19 02:27 AM
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You don't. She'll forget you within a week. Such is life. Meet new girls.
/r/seduction29/10/19 02:25 AM
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Go for drinks close to your place, make her talk about herself, tease her and walk back home to have sex. EZ PZ
/r/seduction29/10/19 02:23 AM
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Tbh that's really bad advice. Do not follow it. You'll waste your time and this is absolutely not attractive. Those apps have conversation starters to keep guys entertaining girls online, their interest is not for people to meet offline.
/r/seduction29/10/19 02:22 AM
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Lead the conversation, push for a meet-up, do not try to have a conversation online. Screen out to see if she is actually mentally available to meet someone off the dating apps.
/r/seduction29/10/19 02:20 AM
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Pretty much the same all around the world for me. Some countries are more traditional, some countries have less English speakers, overall girls are girls reacting like girls, everywhere. How harshly they react is irrelevant.
/r/seduction29/10/19 02:19 AM
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Dude don't put your greasy paws on people out of the blue, especially if they don't see it coming. She has to see it coming and you want to give her the opportunity to say no. Yes that means risking being rejected openly. A few things you can do : Offer your hand while holding EC Taking her hand and (SOFTLY) pulling her towards your while letting her go if she wants to go.
/r/seduction29/10/19 02:14 AM
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Do you think you being needy plays a role there?
/r/seduction29/10/19 02:11 AM
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Examples of polarization : I don't like fat girls. I think batman is better than superman. I like fake boobs because they are always big. Italian music is the best. I think in models he talks about it in a way that you cannot stay neutral to the girl, you have to be authentic and give her the possibility to hate or love your personality. But not to stay neutral.
/r/seduction29/10/19 02:09 AM
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Focus on something else, having sex should not be your main goal. Like, it's your main goal when you go out but it's not your main goal overall. This takes the pressure off a little bit and then you're less needy and then you fuck more.
/r/seduction29/10/19 02:07 AM
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That's called statement of empathy, or basically acknowledging that this might be a frightening situation by lowering the social pressure on the girl. Must do during day game, most coaches advise it anyways.
/r/seduction29/10/19 02:05 AM
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That thing you fear, it will happen. Guaranteed 100%. And more than once. Girls will think you're a weirdo a lot of times if you actually get laid à lot. But that's okay.
/r/seduction23/10/19 08:04 AM
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"oh, are you expecting a threesome?" And see what she says
/r/seduction23/10/19 07:59 AM
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Your What was low value so disregard it and text her again later if you never said it.
/r/seduction23/10/19 06:49 AM
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The less i watch porn, the less i want sex. Kinda weird, it's just as if my mind would just move onto something else like work or stuff. I gotta agree that watching porn everyday fucks you up though.
/r/seduction23/10/19 06:48 AM
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If you're creepy that's creepy. If you're cool that's cool.
/r/seduction23/10/19 03:06 AM
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Because you are asking for advice
/r/seduction22/10/19 07:44 AM
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Well, if you cannot talk to girls you are attracted to, it's gonna be tough
/r/seduction22/10/19 07:42 AM
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TLDR, no one is reading through your whole blog post my man How to find a girl : Step1 see cute girl Step 2 say hi to cute girl You think you can do that?
/r/seduction22/10/19 07:32 AM
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Approach 5 girls "hi I really like your style so I wanted to say hello" Wait for her reply, don't say shit and hold eye contact "anyways, have a good day" and you leave You think you can do that? Because I saw your other posts and I think you're wasting a lot of time by being afraid of something that's very basic beginner shit.
/r/seduction22/10/19 07:23 AM
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PARAGRAPHS PUNCTUATION TL;DR
/r/seduction22/10/19 07:20 AM
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I guess that you saying No is withholding your validation, thus making her chase. If she likes you she'll chase, if she doesn't like you she'll be pissed. I'm not too sure about where to go with that. If you appear as a jerk by saying no for ridiculous things she might see its incongruent. I think it comes down to what is congruent with your personality. I'm no one's bitch but I'm also a nice guy so I don't pay for girl's drinks but I can buy them a bottle of water if I'm getting one for myself …
/r/seduction22/10/19 07:18 AM
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You don't have to dance buuut the dancefloor is where the girls are. And you'd be weird if you just stood there not dancing. So leave your drink at the bar and start wiggling those arms in the direction of the girl you like. And open.
/r/seduction22/10/19 07:14 AM
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Lol your friends will ostracize you if you talk about anime ? Find better friends. I was talking about anime to this girl yesterday and after we got interrupted she asked me to keep talking about it. Who cares man. But I guess you're in high school or something so I know you won't listen to my advice.
/r/seduction22/10/19 07:12 AM
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What you will meet : -Girls who are happy to talk to you regardless of wether they like you or not. -Girls who are in a bad mood and don't care about you regardless of whether they like you or not. You can sometimes change their mood to get into the first category of girls. -Girls who are socially weird and can't handle a conversation even though they are extra hot, even though they like you. Those are a pain in the ass and you'll basically have to do most of the conversation because even if the…
/r/seduction22/10/19 07:05 AM
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Maybe you got the Tornado Tongue.
/r/seduction22/10/19 06:58 AM
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Learn how to pick up girls by going out alone. This has the fix to all of your problems my nigga
/r/seduction22/10/19 06:58 AM
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If you don't know what to say it's gonna be harder and less congruent to force yourself. When idk what to say I usually just fall back on the physical attraction that she makes me feel. Obviously try to be more original than Whoa ure hot. Are you French my man?
/r/seduction22/10/19 06:55 AM
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You get pissed with getting rejected because your ego is touched everytime you get rejected. Getting rejected doesn't mean that you're worthless, it means either that you did something bad or that the girls wasn't available. First case you think and improve, second case there's nothing you can do. Either way, there's no reason for you to feel bad other than your ego being hurt. So, drop your ego.
/r/seduction19/10/19 08:03 AM
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Drop your ego if you want to get better
/r/seduction19/10/19 02:29 AM
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Build more comfort
/r/seduction19/10/19 02:27 AM
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Its pkay man, first you notice and then when you see those again your brain will conneft the dots and you will knownthat you have to make a move
/r/seduction18/10/19 05:16 PM
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Tyler once said that during the first year of learning you see those windows with girls and during the second and third year it's when you learn to take actions on those windows. So, keep it up :)
/r/seduction18/10/19 10:23 AM
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First there's anxiety because you're not used to it, and the anxiety keeps all your mind's RAM busy and you go blank. With practice, the anxiety takes less room in your head. So, practice talking to women.
/r/seduction18/10/19 08:19 AM
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Why do you care and why do you want to have something witty to say about it
/r/seduction18/10/19 08:17 AM
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Woo caps locked, looks like someone is growing balls.
/r/seduction18/10/19 08:14 AM
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Why would you do that? Here's a rule to follow for the rest of your life if you want to make friends : do not judge people and do not call out people who did you no wrong.
/r/seduction18/10/19 08:06 AM
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You sound young, high-school? There are many things and priorities that you get wrong and that you should reconsider bro. It's not a big deal if a girl that didn't want to fuck you fucked your friend.
/r/seduction18/10/19 08:05 AM
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Man you sound a bit naive and are projecting a lot. She wanted the D the first time you met and now you're slowly moving to the friend zone by not taking risks and playing the nice guy.
/r/seduction18/10/19 07:52 AM
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Sure man, i do something that you cannot do so im either lucky or going for ugly drunk girls. Lol.
/r/seduction18/10/19 01:43 AM
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Every damn time. A date = time and money. The girl is probably not that fun to be around anyways so if you dont even try to go for thr sex while its actually what you want you are doing something wrong. Considering that most girls want to have sex with the right guy too, there's no reason not to try.
/r/seduction18/10/19 12:45 AM
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Why do you try to get into your friends panties. They felt safe around you. Now they dont. Ever heard of the friendzone? Pursue strangers not women who are not sexually attracted.
/r/seduction18/10/19 12:43 AM
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You're lacking comfort or attraction or she just doesnt wanna bang. If she wanted to get the D she wouldnt freak out when you mention doihg something at your place.
/r/seduction18/10/19 12:42 AM
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Why dont you say hi to her in real life?
/r/seduction18/10/19 12:40 AM
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Im at a point where if the girl is sending mixed signals im just gonna ask her "why do you think i asked you out"
/r/seduction18/10/19 12:39 AM
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Bro have you ever heard about the f r i e n d z o n e
/r/seduction18/10/19 12:37 AM
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Why do you care smh
/r/seduction18/10/19 12:35 AM
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Its not important just approach
/r/seduction18/10/19 12:34 AM
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If you're with a guy that makes you uncomfortable, why do you stay up to the point when you have no solution but to go pee in his house? I'm really blindsided. Some girls will force themselves to have sex because they want to give a nice impression or not appear rude, and that is extremely lame. I'm not sure you can blame the guy on that. I'm now regularly seeing that very good sex girl btw. This is an advice that works, given on a subreddit that gives advice. This is creepy and dangerous when g…
/r/seduction16/10/19 12:13 AM
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At least once a day
/r/seduction15/10/19 07:21 AM
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They mostly don't like it. Would you want a girl who's good or bad at sex? Some of them will find lack of experience cute because it reminds them of heir first bf, I guess. Don't worry about it though. If you want and try to do good girls will like it. You can also ask them what they like (AFTER you already had sex). Relationships are the best way to get good at sex btw.
/r/seduction15/10/19 07:20 AM
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Well you tell me. Did I guess correctly that you're watching a lot of it?
/r/seduction15/10/19 07:14 AM
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Of course, some people said I should not talk to pretty girls so I'm obviously going to stop.
/r/seduction15/10/19 07:12 AM
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Today on "how to treat people as objects"
/r/seduction15/10/19 07:09 AM
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Watching game is stupid and pointless. The only situation you can use it is if you maintain eye contact in a situation where you physically cannot go approach the girl yet. Example : you're in a conversation with a friend, you're on the phone. If you can approach you have to do it.
/r/seduction15/10/19 07:08 AM
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Stop watching porn
/r/seduction15/10/19 07:05 AM
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No one talked about tricking. Maybe you had bad experiences. That girl left my house thanking me for the "very good sex". Im just being a bit more subtle than "hey lets go back to mine and fuck". It was obvious all along that this was the outcome.
/r/seduction15/10/19 06:55 AM
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Im sorry, wrong guy. I did not send you a dick nor a duck pic lol. You're not terrible and I appreciate that you stalked cough dug through my post history to see what kind of person I am. You're still being hypocritical coming "just to talk" on a place where every guy is looking for help meeting girls in a romantic way. But i tip you my fedora and wish you a good day m'lady
/r/seduction15/10/19 06:49 AM
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You have coaches who charge 100 000$ a year for the famous ones and they go out with you every night. I charge 20$ a month for coaching through online calls. The more you pay, the faster you see results. As with any kind of coaching. Do some research and choose someone who you have a nice feeling within your price range.
/r/seduction15/10/19 06:46 AM
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It is still one of my huge issues sometimes. Everytime you are doing something and thinking to yourself "oh man, I must look fucking stupid now" then you are going in the right direction.
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:59 AM
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Which is a totally inappropriate thing to ask
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:52 AM
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Girls are getting pursued by multiple guys at once so get over it. You probably feel that way because of the way you were raised in your family and conditioned by society. So get over it. And go get what you want. You don't owe anything to anyone and do not have to justify your actions or things you want. Find ways to get what you want without putting yourself in a worse situation and stay out of jail as much as possible. Life is what you make it.
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:50 AM
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Hmm Maybe that's why you don't get laid
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:46 AM
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Trouble in paradise
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:43 AM
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Kill your ego, this is your worst enemy. It is the source of you not going for all the things that you want to achieve in your life. I mean, have a look at your last paragraph.
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:41 AM
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If you don't have any other chance to meet her well man just do it. I mean, be practical.
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:40 AM
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Surgery?
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:38 AM
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Staying mysterious is gay as fuck. That's the old-school advice to cover up that you're a weirdo. If there is no comfort there won't be any sex, attraction alone doesn't get you laid. Don't talk about yourself unless you want to share some information or feeling. Do it only with a goal in mind (make the girl comfortable, find logistics, etc). Or do it when she asks for it. Just don't overshare for the sake of pleasing her and feeding the conversation (it's needy) , value the things you say, less…
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:37 AM
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Invite her out and try to have sex. Which should be your goal for every date you go on anyways.
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:34 AM
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Anywhere where there's at least 80% chance that you will be left alone for at least 10mins. The remaining 20% is for the excitement.
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:32 AM
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Funny = confident = attractive
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:31 AM
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Seed the pull, talk about that cool thing that you will show her that's in your house. Walk in the general direction of your house. Last girl I pulled was because we wanted to pee and my house was right there.
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:29 AM
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Tmw the babes start working out. Lmao. I like the wording. Be indirect man. I tried doing direct a lot at the gym, it worked only once and that's because the girl was so into me to begin with. So be friendly and sociable. Find commonalities. You guys liking each others is a common point, but avoid being that direct,unless she states you're hot or shows interest of some kind. Invite her out.
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:26 AM
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Get tinder gold. Way worth the investment.
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:24 AM
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Bruh
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:23 AM
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You walk in, interrup them. "hey guys what's up?" Whatever they say "whatever you want to talk about" Conversation continues
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:21 AM
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Man do yourself a favor and listen here : stop trying to connect through text and ask her out. Try to connect IRL. The whole thing that you said in your whole comment is wrong and doesn't work in practice. I know guys who bang 3 girls a day from online game and they don't waste time trying to connect through texts. How many girls do you sleep with by "connecting through texts"? I guess not many. I'm angry because your comment is wrong and you're spreading bad advice. I used to believe this shit …
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:18 AM
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People don't but I bet you do. I feel anxiety when I wake up to 10 notifications from girls. Man all your post exude a need for attention and utter bitterness. Look into hat before blaming girls. They are way better and cuter than you think. They are not bad because they don't react how you want them to react. Learn what has them react the way you want instead of doing he same thing that you think is right but actually doesn't work.
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:13 AM
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This post and the way you think things works and how girls are is so wrong on so many levels nigga. I dislike how they put so much emphasis on texting and social media. It used to be where you would get her contact info and set a date and get to know her on the date, not over the phone. It is still like that. These days you get a girls contact and you set a date, they flake because you dont entertain them over the phone and because another guy that had more followers than you, hit her up. They’r…
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:05 AM
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Approaching women who didnt notice me VS approaching women who noticed me. I mean, bruh. If you just wait for girls to notice you or be introduced before approaching you're gonna miss on many many chicks.
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:56 AM
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Hello there, welcome to dating 101 what can we do for you
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:52 AM
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Open everyone. Be nice person to hang with. Soon enough people will come to you, buy you drinks, give value back, girls will twerk on you, etc. That's social proof.
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:49 AM
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Boom boom. I'm doing online coaching. First two sessions are free, I believe it can set you on the right path to begin with. Check my post history and get an idea of how legit I am. I got what you need. And if you don't want more coaching after the first two, you're free to go on your own with solid bases. PM me brother.
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:47 AM
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Even your username is screaming for attention. Well don't worry you came to the right place. How many dms did you receive so far? In all seriousness, don't do this, using awkward guys to get free attention is highly dishonest. This is everything but happiness and fulfillment.
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:43 AM
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But. Why do you care?
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:40 AM
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Ego ego ego
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:39 AM
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I understand your point better now. They say it takes 6years to practice and get pick up artist level when you're starting off as socially awkward, only 3 years with the guidance of a coach. Yes you can overcome being shy and introvert. If you've not been seeing improvements so far after trying its because you're not trying the right way. I'd need more details to be more specific. Best of luck man.
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:32 AM
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Ive been clubbing too much maybe. I need that sexy dress and makeup high.
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:29 AM
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It is awful toxic but you're also awful at making a point. Arguments pls.
/r/seduction14/10/19 02:55 AM
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I mean, you won't get away by keeping being a shy introvert.
/r/seduction14/10/19 02:54 AM
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You're missing my point.
/r/seduction14/10/19 01:04 AM
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Dude that's d a r k
/r/seduction14/10/19 12:33 AM
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Giving value = send stuff that you find interesting that she doesn't need to answer to. Example : a picture of the pink dildo you found in your grandma's basement. If you actually do that, give some context through captions though.
/r/seduction14/10/19 12:30 AM
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Keep talking, a lot. Use pauses. And then talk again. Make sure she isn't just not interested. Thats for the extreme case. But most likely if you have her talk about herself she's gonna talk.
/r/seduction14/10/19 12:28 AM
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I can relate. Work on building trust and comfort. Have them talk about themselves and lead them through different situations while showing the range of your personality. If that makes sense, lol.
/r/seduction14/10/19 12:27 AM
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"btw do you have a boyfriend?"
/r/seduction14/10/19 12:21 AM
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True
/r/seduction14/10/19 12:20 AM
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How about you go out and start talking to girls. Then when you notice an area of difficulty you will have the answer to your post.
/r/seduction14/10/19 12:12 AM
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Whenever a stranger touches your crotch, quickly check your pockets nigga. Personally I'm pissed evem when salesperson touch my arm in the street so yeah
/r/seduction14/10/19 12:08 AM
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What to do : Basic logistical questions. A bit of value giving. The date proposal. What to not do : Seek for her to validate you Try to have conversations Send dick pics
/r/seduction14/10/19 12:06 AM
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Put yourself in their field of view
/r/seduction14/10/19 12:04 AM
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Why doesn't the sex happen after the kiss? Why do you dates end on a kiss, I this some kind of "good enough date" checkpoint? Heck, why do you even try to get kisses on dates?
/r/seduction14/10/19 12:04 AM
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Bruh even if you have the most boring life you can still have nice conversations and chemistry with people by just having them talk about them and being a good listener.
/r/seduction14/10/19 12:02 AM
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Someone send this to the BBC
/r/seduction13/10/19 11:59 PM
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Ask her for coffee drinks. Dont try to have a conversation through texts.
/r/seduction13/10/19 11:58 PM
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Tldr man, gosh.
/r/seduction13/10/19 11:57 PM
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Don't call out people for what they do. Call out people for what they do TO YOU. Shes not really doing anything to you by being on her phone all the time, she's just being boring (and/or not interested enough in you). Do you wanna date a boring girl?
/r/seduction13/10/19 11:56 PM
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Yea it's probably bcz you smell bad, sorry bro. Jk. Did you Escalate? Do you even talk to them or do you dance for 5mins without a word? This post lacks details.
/r/seduction13/10/19 11:47 PM
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You won't work your introverted self out. You have examples of guys who are getting results. Now you reverse engineer how they got there. Which you actually did a bit in your post, they don't give a F about nothing. Now you take that and you think hard about how to have that attitude and still being able to pay bills.
/r/seduction13/10/19 11:46 PM
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Yeah man she probably just took a video because it looked like it would make a good video Props on opening her but maybe she never even liked u
/r/seduction13/10/19 11:43 PM
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Toilet sex?
/r/seduction13/10/19 11:41 PM
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You put yourself in the friend zone by not doing any move for the first month. She just verbalized it. She's never gonna chase you unless you don't care about losing her. In other words, stop being needy.
/r/seduction13/10/19 11:40 PM
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Who cares about reputation. If you are in this for the long run you're gonna have people talking shit about you for the rest of your life. Take this as a welcome to the real world. And ignore it completely. Talk to that girl as if this bad rep was non existent.
/r/seduction13/10/19 11:38 PM
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Can be because of a million reasons. But tbh you should just move on if she doesn't accept the date. It's not your job to find out why she won't come out.
/r/seduction13/10/19 11:36 PM
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Boom boom. I'm doing online coaching. First two sessions are free, I believe it can set you on the right path to begin with. And if you don't want more coaching after the first two, you're free to go on your own with solid bases. PM me brother.
/r/seduction13/10/19 11:34 PM
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Game and status beat racial features. Approach and be a high value person. Who cares about the color of your skin if you give people chocolate.
/r/seduction13/10/19 11:31 PM
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Disregard all that she says and whatever she does. Move her through the funnel that leads to sex (assuming that's what you want). Escalate. If she doesn't want, well nigga, you can't do anything about it.
/r/seduction13/10/19 11:29 PM
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Abysmally low numbers. Day game girls are not hot enough for me to keep trying :(
/r/seduction13/10/19 11:27 PM
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Tbh honest if she flakes she is probably not interested and neither should you be
/r/seduction13/10/19 11:26 PM
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Dude please write more of that stuff, i loved reading it. Fine ass female ayy lmao
/r/seduction13/10/19 11:25 PM
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Man your situation sucks but you have the right mindset where so many guys would be suicidal/misogynistic instead, especially on this subreddit. You can improve, now you need to take a lot of action. If you feel alone and your relatives and friends cannot support you, get a coach.
/r/seduction13/10/19 11:23 PM
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Oh yeah I feel u daddy
/r/seduction13/10/19 11:20 PM
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She's not a native, it doesn't mean she's stupid or oblivious. If she thought hanging out as friends it's because you didn't come up as a potential sexual partner.
/r/seduction13/10/19 11:19 PM
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Please where do you live I want to have my dates right next by your place.
/r/seduction12/10/19 01:08 AM
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Dude you can go to the club next door and kiss a girl in 30seconds. Instead you spend so many dates and so much time (+ money?) on a girl that won't kiss you. Re asses your priorities.
/r/seduction12/10/19 01:07 AM
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If the girls are attractive to you how can you not be motivated? Eevry interaction is different, if you find it too similar it's because you don't pay enough attention to the person you're talking to
/r/seduction12/10/19 01:05 AM
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She doesn't see you as a romantic partner or she too shy/full of issues to handle a one on one date.
/r/seduction12/10/19 01:02 AM
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Thats for a reason. I usually move on fast too. Except for this girl im dating now. Because she worked out her issues, is extremely affectionate and she can cook very well. Think about what you bring to the table. If this is only sex, guys will stay only for the sex.
/r/seduction11/10/19 01:19 PM
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Whatever a girl says is irrelevant. She might be saying it as a tease or just because she doesn't know what it means. If she really doesn't like you, the best way to get her to stop is to actually try a move. And I'm not talking about asking her for a coffee, im talking about trying to kiss her and such.
/r/seduction08/10/19 02:13 PM
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Im glad it helped :)
/r/seduction08/10/19 01:09 PM
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Read Ego is the enemy Do things that you don't want to do, daily Hurt your ego on purpose and see how little of a big deal it actually is Meditation helps Taking a lot of action and having an abundance of girls helps Finding out why this situation is such a big deal for your ego helps. For me it was that I had no idea how to get girls, even though I was having many. I just felt control-less most of the time. Now I know how to talk to girls, attract, get them comfortable and escalate. Having a "s…
/r/seduction08/10/19 10:24 AM
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Try buying a sex doll
/r/seduction08/10/19 10:19 AM
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Girls don't put guys in the friendzone. Guys put themselves there.
/r/seduction08/10/19 10:16 AM
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She liked you but you were needy and asked for permission instead of chilling and escalating. Too bad you could have banged that day.
/r/seduction08/10/19 10:14 AM
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But. Why do you even care ?
/r/seduction08/10/19 10:13 AM
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the super technical guys (who think if you 'apply the model' and say this and that, in this order you can attract any girl you want), are just deluded? ​ You cannot attract any girl you want. Who even believes that myth anymore. There are 3 kind of girls, the yes, the maybe and the no. You can't get a no, but you can turn a maybe into a yes.
/r/seduction08/10/19 10:12 AM
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You're not hurt, your ego is hurt. Every paragraph that you wrote in your post comes down to "it hurts my ego".
/r/seduction08/10/19 10:09 AM
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It depends. I do online coaching starting at 20$a month. Some coaches charge 100 000$ a year. Tbh, if the coach you are looking at has an easy or revolutionary way to coach, he's probably lying to you. A good coach is someone who will basically force you to do what you dont want to do.
/r/seduction03/10/19 07:30 AM
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popcorn smoothies
/r/seduction26/09/19 03:27 PM
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Hey I've seen that movie before
/r/seduction26/09/19 03:12 PM
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Their cold reaction while talking to a stranger ( they make give just one word answers or responses) Point is that they don't know that you're cool (yet). So of course they don't care, you're a random weirdo until proven otherwise. Keep giving value and if they are not receptive after 2 tries move on. ​ Appearing too needy while talking to them ( I'm the one pushing the conversation constantly) Engage her, hold tension. Which one are you not doing ? ​ She appearing not interested and start surfi…
/r/seduction26/09/19 02:04 PM
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You can go home at 1am from the club on weekdays. Accompanied. ​ Then you have malls, yoga classes, etc.
/r/seduction26/09/19 01:58 PM
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bruh
/r/seduction26/09/19 01:56 PM
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Man you're not going to engage people's emotion by talking about yourself and your DVH. If you were high value/status people would feel emotions by being around you. But in your example you're just going in and showing a girl that you're not interested in her.
/r/seduction26/09/19 01:30 PM
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It's attracting girls and getting girls who are interested in you in bed. If you can do that you have good game.
/r/seduction26/09/19 01:28 PM
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Idk man, there doesn't seem to be any hook whatsoever. And by giving IOD as an answer to what you perceived to be a IOD she just felt like "alright, boring pointless conversation" and moved on in her mind. You gotta engage her emotions. Have her talk about herself. Who cares about some rando commando coming to tell you his DVH.
/r/seduction25/09/19 09:01 PM
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Yeah man
/r/seduction24/09/19 11:02 PM
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Go watch Todd's latest video. Looks help for online dating and give you a wider frame to show value off the open. And that's it. If you have bad game the girl is gonna bored and go away anyways.
/r/seduction24/09/19 10:15 AM
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I was very bad with girls when growing up. And I wanted to smash dat hot poossy. And man has got to do what he's gotta do.
/r/seduction24/09/19 10:02 AM
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Yea I used to do it. Just go to the busiest mall
/r/seduction24/09/19 09:58 AM
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Because guys who want sex are not good guys? You should deal with your emotional issues and need to have someone support you first before judging. If you want quality guys become a quality girl first. And screen hard, as successful guys have no reason to settle down. If you want a guy for a LTR you're most likely to find a wimp that will see the relationship as his only chance to get a girl. Successful guys have options, and a ton of quick fuck options already.
/r/seduction24/09/19 08:40 AM
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Nice
/r/seduction24/09/19 07:57 AM
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Find ways to have her talk about herself in a way that you find attractive. Exemple from the top of my head : "Look at my tattoo, do you like it?" (can be low value but if the girl likes me she will jump on my arm and touch my tattoo without me doing anything). "Im actually really into tattoos, do you have some?" most pretty girls have. If she really wants to qualify she will immediately show her tattoo, bonus points if its on her lower back. "I like that one, all my tattoos have meaning, I thin…
/r/seduction23/09/19 09:48 PM
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Happy cake day bruh
/r/seduction23/09/19 09:11 PM
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Dating app right? You're investing too much I'd say. Joke is fun and all but you're stretching it too much. Also as someone else said, she probably was talking to many guys at same time and someone else got her preference for whatever reason out of your control. You should be talking to multiple girls too. But I'm sure you are :)
/r/seduction23/09/19 09:09 PM
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Find out what's preventing you from getting along like other "normal" people do. There must be something that you don't do or do in a weird creepy ass way. Worst part is that you don't realize because it's just the way you always did. So find out what it is.
/r/seduction23/09/19 08:57 PM
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That was a long ago lol. Day game. She was really, really my type. I just enjoyed talking to her actually. We talked a bit, conversation flowed because she was so pretty that just put me in the mood to try and know her.
/r/seduction23/09/19 08:55 PM
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So yeah that's cool and all. But that's flash game and flash game doesn't get you laid.
/r/seduction23/09/19 08:45 PM
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Who cares about earphones, if she doesn't want to talk she will let you know within 30 seconds. So, talk to her.
/r/seduction23/09/19 07:07 PM
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Depending on the context, that's good advice. But hey, it's more useful for you to approach and try different things to get the reference experience.
/r/seduction23/09/19 07:06 PM
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Will that help you get her, probably no, no matter the moment when you follow her on IG. Just go talk to her IRL.
/r/seduction23/09/19 07:04 PM
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Bruh So this other day that girl with 50k followers asked my IG and told me I'm handsome. I have exactly 76 followers myself. Good game trumps status. Go watch Todd's latest video.
/r/seduction23/09/19 06:59 PM
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Sorry my man, didn't mean to sound like a jerk. I just mean that if you were approaching girls you'd not ask that question. ​ How do I go about it? Approach more girls. And show them interest (not too much).
/r/seduction23/09/19 06:58 PM
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You're new here aren't you
/r/seduction23/09/19 06:52 PM
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That's an extremely vague question. You'll get an extremely unspecific answer : open girls until you find one who likes you, stay around her and talk to her until it's time to go home with her.
/r/seduction23/09/19 05:48 PM
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How about you actually start approaching girls.
/r/seduction23/09/19 05:46 PM
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"I have this ANY COOL THING at my house I will show you later" seed the pull "Okay cool let's walk a bit/go buy food/buy water" walk in the direction of your house "So you have to see this ANY COOL THING that I have let's go upstairs" you go upstairs ​ All along she will know what you're doing, you're just making it smooth. If she doesn't wanna come she will say no. Logically disarm her worries. If that's her principle to not fuck on a first date don't try hard because you will just lose her for…
/r/seduction23/09/19 05:45 PM
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Are you 14 years old? It's just a joke and it just means he sees you talk to her a lot.
/r/seduction23/09/19 05:39 PM
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You can have a serious relationship. With multiple women.
/r/seduction22/09/19 11:08 AM
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Well my man you have the answer to all of your questions. Fix those problems and you'll be happy and confident. To be a strong and successful person you have to be honest and VULNERABLE. All the successful people are. So start letting people into your thoughts and express yourself freely. Find out why you dont like yourself and change it. Talk to girls so that you can practice how to not be creepy.
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:23 PM
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Why wouldn't a girl like you? I'm sure there is something awesome in you :) Usually girls are flattered when someone likes them. There's no shame in wanting sex or anything. You might have the wrong mindset.
/r/seduction21/09/19 05:44 PM
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Well, yewh man. There is always the risk that she doesnt like you back. Thats the same for literally everyone on hearth. You gotta deal with it. Also why would you feel embarrassed if a girl knew you liked her?
/r/seduction21/09/19 01:56 PM
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No. If you want something to happen, try early. You don't have to kiss her right away but start the escalation asap
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:51 AM
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If your issue is about time, pay a coach. It's the biggest time saver when it comes to game.
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:48 AM
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Try slapping her face during sex. I remember it being nerve racking the first time I did it. That kills the nice boy inside you.
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:47 AM
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Scam, happens here too and where I used to live before aswell.
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:45 AM
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It doesn't have to be meaningful. People are not attracted to meaningful things. Girls are attracted to looks and status. In reality, that translates to an attractive behavior. Basically, meet girl, show that you are attractive and that you can make her comfortable (= have good game). And that's all you need for a date.
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:44 AM
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Take a shower, go to the club, approach girls until there is one that smiles at you and then stay the F around her until it's time to leave. Good game, easy.
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:41 AM
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Go indirect, small talk them.
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:39 AM
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I don't know how you managed to plow through it for 7years if success is not there. On the other hand, if you tried so long and success is still not there it's for a reason. Any idea what might hold you back?
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:39 AM
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You're aware that girls intimidate you because your lack of experience. So go talk to girls until you get confident. What's your problem there?
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:37 AM
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Tip your fedora, females love it
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:35 AM
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Be true to yourself and playful
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:34 AM
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I strongly disagree and it worked for me countless times. You dont need to try that hard to look busy. If she likes you she wants to meet you, you don't have to fake being busy or having an awesome thing to do, if she likes you she will want to meet you just for you.
/r/seduction21/09/19 05:26 AM
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Yeah of course you're waiting for an answer. You dont ask people out out of the blue. Ask them if they have plans first. Reduces chances of no ladder and shows you're being generally calibrated.
/r/seduction20/09/19 02:41 PM
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Yeah man fake being tall
/r/seduction20/09/19 02:30 PM
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"What you doing tonight " "nice, let's hang out"
/r/seduction20/09/19 02:29 PM
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Stop staring and go say hi. Nothing good is never gonna happen by you just staring. Take it as a life rule.
/r/seduction20/09/19 02:28 PM
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Show sexual interest more. I cant be more specific because i dont know enough about you
/r/seduction19/09/19 03:13 AM
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Maybe thats because you try to late. Generally that happens when you're not sexual enough.
/r/seduction19/09/19 02:40 AM
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Clubbing alone is alright man no one cares or even notices you being alone
/r/seduction19/09/19 02:38 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction19/09/19 02:35 AM
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If girls see ypu only as a friend its because you dont make moves
/r/seduction19/09/19 02:33 AM
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Well then you know what to do. Move where the pretty girls are
/r/seduction19/09/19 02:28 AM
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Im sorry but that's really what it comes down to. Go to a mall tomorrow and approach 50 girls. You'll have at least a few lays out of it, building the abundance reality.
/r/seduction18/09/19 08:33 PM
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Filling your brain with dopamine, of course you're gonna feel confident. Youre not gonna feel much else tbh.
/r/seduction18/09/19 01:44 AM
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Well, idk man, talk to more girls?
/r/seduction18/09/19 01:43 AM
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Open girls with whatever comes to yoir mind. It might help to dissociate their answer to your emotions. Imagine talking to a wall for the next few girls you approach. Keep talking whatever you feel like saying without paying attention to what she says.
/r/seduction18/09/19 01:42 AM
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Sounds like a challenge. Always there when other motivated individuals are. Im dming you.
/r/seduction18/09/19 01:38 AM
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Might be because you're not approaching to give, but to take. Might be because your style sucks. Might be because you lean in when talking. Anyways, make sure you check all the boxes, you know.
/r/seduction17/09/19 02:55 PM
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Maybe you body language is creepy. Maybe you talk in a needy way. And maybe you don't even know it. I know asian people and they slay. There's a guy making youtube videos about picking up girls and he's indian and he slays.
/r/seduction17/09/19 02:31 PM
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"yes i slept with one thousand girls so far"
/r/seduction17/09/19 01:57 PM
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Get her attention
/r/seduction17/09/19 01:56 PM
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Good luck there's a lot to learn. I've been doing this for a while. Start by reading Models ane watxh youtube videos. Or get a coach.
/r/seduction17/09/19 01:56 PM
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It can be for one million reason that you're not successful. Can you create tension? Do you take showers everyday? How abput ypur social group? Do you lead and escalate hard enough? Age, race, panties color, it's irrelevant. Get your game good first.
/r/seduction17/09/19 01:32 PM
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Make a move, ask her out yo
/r/seduction17/09/19 01:11 PM
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Wth did i just read
/r/seduction17/09/19 01:10 PM
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How about an abundance reality? What's holding you back in neediness is usually not that you don't have girls but more that you will have to face your approach anxiety soon again if it doesn't work out with a particular girl. Fix: approach again and again.
/r/seduction17/09/19 01:09 PM
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I say hello and hug
/r/seduction17/09/19 01:07 PM
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However the F you want as long as you enjoy it and you're not obnoxious to others.
/r/seduction17/09/19 01:07 PM
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Your lines were pretty needy tbh. You tried to save face with the perfect comeback but that's not how seduction works. Escalate the interaction instead of trying to be playful and witty.
/r/seduction16/09/19 10:11 AM
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Find a job. Work at McDonald's if you have to. You'll get so much money compared to not working or just working part time.
/r/seduction15/09/19 04:54 PM
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There's honesty and honesty. It's all about how your communicate it. My brother is gay, if that matters. Lol.
/r/seduction15/09/19 04:51 PM
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You look like my brother lmao To be honest your pictures look random. Also, wtf is that bio man. 4 profiles pictures to get tons of matches : face shot body shot social setting shot your hobby shot PM me for more ..
/r/seduction15/09/19 03:09 PM
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Kissing breaks the sexual tension. Tbh, unless you're super high value and the girl might interpret it as a sign of disinterest, no matter the scenario, I'll not kiss before she's at my place. Unless i'm in a fun mood and I just don't care. Also kissing in a club where you come often is bad rep imo
/r/seduction15/09/19 03:06 PM
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Plow through. This is the normal learning curve. Keep doing it. I'm talking about go approach 50 more girls at least. Maybe get a coaching for more guidance. Get to work.
/r/seduction13/09/19 11:50 AM
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Old school stuff. Internalizing this kinda stuff pushes you to be needy and over-investing in conversations. Why would you explain your deepest passions to someone you just met ? It sounds nice on paper, doesn't work in practice. You don't have to talk about/with passion. A better way to frame it would be "say whatever you want, be engaged but not outcome dependent"#RSD
/r/seduction13/09/19 11:45 AM
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Bruh you don't screen hard enough if you have a ton of numbers that dont lead to dates. You might be enjoying too much the attention you get from all those ramdon girls yourself too. If a girl puts even a 'maybe' on the tinder convo, I don't even answer and I don't text her anymore. I get laid on most of my tinder dates tbh. But Im not anyone's texting buddy anymore.
/r/seduction13/09/19 11:40 AM
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Easy answer : you don't ​ Unless you slept with her already or you have much much more social value than she has.
/r/seduction13/09/19 11:37 AM
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Have good game, play on her specific insecurities, fit in her "boyfriend pattern". And spike her emotions hard. I mean, it depends what you call love, but that's how you hook hard a girl who already likes you.
/r/seduction13/09/19 11:36 AM
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Pushing (not pulling, if you wanna get technical lol) doesn't mean insulting. Exemple of a cute push pull : "Omg you didn't shave your legs, you're a cute monkey." ​ Make fun out of her, but be nice, basically.
/r/seduction13/09/19 11:25 AM
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End the relationship with her if she cares about you. And try your thing with the other. If girl A cares she's gonna be pissed if she knows. If she doesn't care she has more chances to be okay with it.
/r/seduction13/09/19 04:39 AM
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That's usually how it goes. Guys are more invested at first, girls are more invested after sex. Also, you might be a bit needy if you come off as too interested.
/r/seduction12/09/19 07:53 AM
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Yea sometimes I do that myself too when I feel the nice guy inside doesn't wanna go away, I'll go and say stuff that makes me cringe by how offensive it is in my reality.
/r/seduction12/09/19 07:15 AM
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Dig on the internet. This is pretty basic stuff to be honest. Read this : have a lazer eye contact, stand in front of her, care about your voice tonality (it should go down). Shoot me a PM, I do online coaching for free (really free) to get experience with a wider variety of people.
/r/seduction12/09/19 07:13 AM
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Yea man don't be that blunt with people you just met. You went from 0 to 100000 in one sentence. Take it gradually.
/r/seduction12/09/19 06:55 AM
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Dont rely on eye contact to approach, it's really just too random and irrelevant.
/r/seduction12/09/19 06:53 AM
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Say anything thata going through your mind. Ask get-to-know-her questions. Say something fun. What you say doesn't matter, it's how you behave. I can help more. Im doing a few free (really free) online coaching sessions to get experience from a wider variety of profiles. Shoot me a PM.
/r/seduction12/09/19 06:52 AM
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I can help. Im doing a few free (really free) online coaching sessions to get experience from a wider variety of profiles. Shoot me a PM.
/r/seduction12/09/19 06:48 AM
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Wtf is this post lol
/r/seduction12/09/19 06:46 AM
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Tldr?
/r/seduction12/09/19 06:45 AM
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I can help. Im doing a few free (really free) online coaching sessions to get experience from a wider variety of profiles. Shoot me a PM.
/r/seduction12/09/19 06:44 AM
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Put yourself out there. Be honest, RISK BEING HURT. That will grow your confidence and kill your anxiety, as you realize being hurt sometimes is not the end, but actually the path.
/r/seduction12/09/19 06:42 AM
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To be honest, a 3 approaches sample is far from enough. Approach 50 indirect, approach 50 direct. By then you will not even need to ask your question anymore.
/r/seduction12/09/19 06:39 AM
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Thats good man. Do it 50 times. Its all about momentum. I recently tried to go on a "open a shitton without thinking about what to say" challenge and i cant even complete the challenge because most of the time I pull before 10 approaches. Once you get past AA it gets so much easier.
/r/seduction12/09/19 06:37 AM
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Lol. Show them a bit more respect. Maybe thats why they don't care about yout bday.
/r/seduction12/09/19 06:34 AM
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Talking to people (girls). Basically cold approaching.
/r/seduction02/09/19 02:41 PM
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Yea i know thats what you mean, my statement stands still.
/r/seduction01/09/19 02:10 PM
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Yeah that's called being in state. You build momentum up to that point by taking action and going for what you want.
/r/seduction01/09/19 12:44 PM
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lol nice
/r/seduction01/09/19 12:43 PM
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Because girls send them to you when they want to. Not because you ask nicely. What you can do is let her know that you'd like to have some (in a smart way, not bluntly).
/r/seduction01/09/19 12:42 PM
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I used to work in a club and there I used to do at least 10 every night. So 100 a week, including daytime, sounds feasible.
/r/seduction30/08/19 08:03 PM
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I have no money to buy a stealthy camera. Shout out to any generous donor.
/r/seduction30/08/19 02:19 PM
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Stop talking to her, reimburse your flight tickets and set your search range within 5km. For real, even she realized how weird this is and she stopped investing. You're putting so much obstacles between you and your dating life. Overcoming anxiety and approaching girls down the street would be 100times easier than what you're doing right now.
/r/seduction30/08/19 01:51 PM
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I personally need glasses to see well so when I dont have them I just get closer lol. Also "hey, you look pretty from afar, I wanted to talk to you to see if you actually are"
/r/seduction30/08/19 01:19 PM
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Last time this happened I just said "Hey I because you're cute but you look super young, how old are you?" It's not super smooth, but not awkward either ​ Also, your video is lowkey creepy and its impossible to clearly see any face.
/r/seduction30/08/19 01:06 PM
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It's scientifically proven that glasses make you appear smarter, more serious and more mature. Depends on what image you want to project.
/r/seduction30/08/19 01:03 PM
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Unconsciously afraid of disappointing her by saying no ?
/r/seduction30/08/19 01:02 PM
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The incel commenter VS the Chad DMer
/r/seduction30/08/19 10:16 AM
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Beta AF, unless they have deeper connection with the girl. If a girl is into you, you might as well go and like every single one of her instagram pictures. It depends on why you're doing it.
/r/seduction30/08/19 10:15 AM
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Find people looking for the same thing. Screen hard.
/r/seduction30/08/19 10:11 AM
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Give an example of your neg man.
/r/seduction30/08/19 10:10 AM
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Yes. Not necessarily true 100% of the time but it will help you to believe so. Had this date yesterday, in front of her place. Except that she's sleeping in the same room with her boss. She knew nothing would happen, still she's horny AF. I kept escalating anyways. Now she's sending nudes because she's afraid I'd lose interest because nothing could happen.
/r/seduction30/08/19 10:06 AM
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I’m just gonna come out and say I’m scared to make a move because I fear getting rejected and don’t want things to be akward That's the same for everyone. What's the difference between you and the others ? Protip : It will be awkward most of the time if you take action to get what you want. Suck it up.
/r/seduction30/08/19 10:04 AM
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You don't ask for nudes. You can tease that you'd like to see some (in a smart calibrated way). Depending on how the conversation flows. If she says she's right out of the shower you can text "let me see" but that's as close as directly asking for nudes you'll ever get.
/r/seduction28/08/19 09:28 AM
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I used to be fucking shy and awkward. I thought I'd never get over it. I thought it was impossible to get laid with pretty girls (if any girl at all). And that all I was worth was poop. I went over it, now I'm slaying. I'd give my advice for free to any guy in need. I'd give professional advice for a certain amount of money to any guy willing to seriously improve and overcome. Because I freaking relate man.
/r/seduction28/08/19 09:25 AM
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Some people don't like me because I speak my mind and they get butt hurt. Smh.
/r/seduction28/08/19 09:22 AM
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😂😂😂😂👌🍆💦
/r/seduction28/08/19 09:21 AM
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Is this post serious. Gosh man, why would you even care about another guy talking to a girl that's not even your gf. That's two steps above being needy, that's being creepy and controlling.
/r/seduction28/08/19 09:20 AM
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Enjoy the party. Be mostly direct. Use your body language and not your words most of the time. Claw, hand of god. Provoke IOI by waving at her, raising your dirnk at her (goes in the body language category)
/r/seduction28/08/19 09:17 AM
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"come to the beach with me"
/r/seduction28/08/19 09:15 AM
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Rofl
/r/seduction28/08/19 09:14 AM
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Wait. Text her again three days later but by that time if she doesn't text back it's probably dead.
/r/seduction28/08/19 09:12 AM
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Meet other, actually nice, girls. Wayyy simpler
/r/seduction28/08/19 09:10 AM
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You can't fake it if you're aiming for the long run. So be yourself, as cheesy as it sounds. Stay on your path and if she likes you and wants the same long term thing she will come along. You might fuck up, you might not. Whatev, plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/seduction28/08/19 09:08 AM
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Step 1 : put foot in front of other Step 2 : repeat until you're in talking range
/r/seduction28/08/19 09:06 AM
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Tldr? Also, do you even try to fk them bruh? You have to make moves and go for what you want.
/r/seduction28/08/19 09:05 AM
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You can do it in a car. You can do it in a park. You can do it anywhere you'll be left alone for 5minutes tbh
/r/seduction28/08/19 09:03 AM
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Is it really important? Do you think you're gonna seduce girls with a "" good "" IG bio?
/r/seduction28/08/19 09:01 AM
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It could mean a million thing. Why do you wanna know anyways. Just make a move yourself
/r/seduction28/08/19 09:00 AM
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I'm glad I just finished watching JoJosBizarreAdventure
/r/seduction28/08/19 08:59 AM
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That's cool you found the issue. Now force yourself to try new things in those uncomfortable situations.
/r/seduction27/08/19 05:25 AM
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Find logistics, dont make useless small talk
/r/seduction26/08/19 09:31 AM
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When she earns it and you genuinely believe in your compliment
/r/seduction26/08/19 09:21 AM
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Just text her when you've got the time to, no matter if it's immediately or not. Of course have things going on for you as well.
/r/seduction26/08/19 08:57 AM
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Malls Bookstores
/r/seduction26/08/19 08:53 AM
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I can relate on a lower level I get less attracted if the girl is obviously stating that she wants me to fuck her
/r/seduction26/08/19 08:53 AM
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Being successful online makes you quite lazy irl tbh
/r/seduction26/08/19 08:50 AM
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Don't use texts to banter. Maybe she was just busy.
/r/seduction25/08/19 07:33 PM
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If that happens again, add yourself oon Facebook or IG in her phone, or just text yourself from her phone.
/r/seduction25/08/19 07:32 PM
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Ask her number when she "earns it" by investing. Then say you guys should go get ice cream together one day. Then talk a bit, don't just leave after the number (unless you or she is in a rush).
/r/seduction25/08/19 07:26 PM
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My guilt usually goes away when I look at the naked girl riding me. Lol. For real though, there's no reason to be guilty. Learning PU is everything but bad. Read No More Mr Nice Guy
/r/seduction25/08/19 07:24 PM
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Try twice, if she still wanna go it's because she's not interested or that you fucked up. Good line because you're asking for it "oh cool, how long have you been having this problem?"
/r/seduction25/08/19 07:22 PM
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Get logistics, set up a date, be chill
/r/seduction25/08/19 07:21 PM
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Start approaching girls and try to have sex. I mean you have to start somewhere man.
/r/seduction25/08/19 07:19 PM
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How to have sex with hot girls is not specific enough yeah. How to open properly How to seed the pull How to AMOG How to screen correctly Those are specific questions. The advice I gave you in my previous comment is the best you can get for your situation.
/r/seduction25/08/19 07:16 PM
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Momentum
/r/seduction25/08/19 10:34 AM
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I mean, do you feel something is missing? I do not. All my questions have practical answers that are a YouTube search away. I'm not talking about personal dating help. (?)
/r/seduction25/08/19 10:16 AM
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Maybe she doesn't like public displays of affection. Her asking doesn't mean "let's go now". Sometimes it does though. Try and get a feel for it. If she asks between abrs it's probably because she's thinking about it
/r/seduction25/08/19 10:13 AM
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You don't really need to talk lol
/r/seduction25/08/19 10:09 AM
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You build tensions by pausing between your sentences and letting her time to invest
/r/seduction25/08/19 10:02 AM
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I'd say she just used you all night to get away from guys who actually made moves.
/r/seduction25/08/19 10:01 AM
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Yes she wants the D. Also if she asks whether you've got roommates, etc. You should seed the pull, though it's sometimes not necessary. There's nothing in my house so I don't really seed the pull lol. I just stay with the girl and walk with her until we're walking towards my house.
/r/seduction25/08/19 09:57 AM
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Go talk to girls until you become good. Come back with more specific questions.
/r/seduction25/08/19 09:56 AM
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Sorry bro but "its a numbers game" and "get over your anxiety" Your successful friends are playing the numbers game and they got over their anxiety. Every successful guy is.
/r/seduction25/08/19 09:54 AM
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Tldr pls Also both probably wanted to fuck
/r/seduction25/08/19 09:51 AM
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Maybe. Maybe not. Why do you care?
/r/seduction25/08/19 09:49 AM
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You don't have to be funnier tbh Why do you think that you do
/r/seduction25/08/19 09:45 AM
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I want to throw up. People have been meeting each others during the day since the birth of mankind, but now it's an "uncomfortable trend". Gosh
/r/seduction25/08/19 09:39 AM
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The second girl liked you because she actually invested. The first one just wanted to dance and get validated. Also, dont ask for numbers when going clubbing (unless logistics are bad and it's really impossible).
/r/seduction25/08/19 09:34 AM
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I can't agree more. 👌
/r/seduction25/08/19 09:32 AM
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The reality is too harsh to handle. Also, pickup has bad rep
/r/seduction25/08/19 09:32 AM
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Everything is out there already man. Idk what else you're looking for or why you believe something is missing
/r/seduction25/08/19 09:26 AM
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The one who brings out the hotel card has to pay for it. Get a freaking apartment man Or have sex outside
/r/seduction25/08/19 09:24 AM
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How rude is that, getting oral sex and leaving you with blue balls lol
/r/seduction25/08/19 09:23 AM
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Invest time with every girl but don't expect any to like you back. Just do it fot the sake of talking to girls
/r/seduction25/08/19 03:44 AM
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Go have drinks in a bar that's active but not too noisy.
/r/seduction25/08/19 03:43 AM
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Tbh you should be straight forward with tinder.
/r/seduction24/08/19 08:26 PM
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Good man
/r/seduction24/08/19 08:24 PM
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Read No More Mr Nice Guy Read Models Reflect on your issues, accept them and try to change what you can change.
/r/seduction24/08/19 08:21 PM
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Go talk to her ffs lol. Stop thinking whether she likes you or not. And also talk to other girls as well.
/r/seduction24/08/19 08:21 PM
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Hot babe
/r/seduction24/08/19 08:15 PM
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Keep it up, hold the pressure, you'll get used to it and this will become your usual player week lol. Don't try hard if logistics don't happen. There are plenty of girls. Sometimes it's right person at the wrong time.
/r/seduction24/08/19 08:14 PM
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She probably thinks it's friendly dinner. Actually she probably thinks you wanna fuck her but that you're too shy to make proper moves. Dinner date is always a bad idea before having sex. Make sure you let her know you're interested in her.
/r/seduction24/08/19 08:09 PM
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Happens to me all the times. It's part of da game
/r/seduction24/08/19 08:07 PM
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I love Asian girls
/r/seduction24/08/19 08:04 PM
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Quality post 👌
/r/seduction24/08/19 08:03 PM
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You don't have to play hard to get. Your problem is that you overwhelm her and that you don't give her the chance to invest. Probably because you feel that you have to keep talking and entertaining her for her to actually like you. So chill back and let her talk.
/r/seduction24/08/19 08:02 PM
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Don't say lines, say whatever you think bruh
/r/seduction24/08/19 08:00 PM
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Get help. Go see a therapist for your emotional issues. As for seduction, pay a coach. An actual good one.
/r/seduction24/08/19 07:59 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction24/08/19 07:58 PM
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Don't bring girls to the movies if you ant to make a move. It's the worst place for so many reasons.
/r/seduction24/08/19 07:56 PM
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Unless you have very good momentum you're probably not gonna hook her off her phone and you'll come off as super rude yes. Edit for clarity : Unless you're extra confident, playful, calibrated and dominant its gonna go very wrong. Do not ask her if she has a minute while she is on the phone, she obviously hasn't.
/r/seduction24/08/19 07:55 PM
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Push through the LMR as someone else said. So many times I fucked up as well because "I don't want to be the guy that forces a girl" This is the Grey area where "she doesn't actually know what she wants and you should plow through". Escalate sexually, BE PATIENT, go for what you want full shameless mode.
/r/seduction24/08/19 09:14 AM
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You don't need to dance better or have friends. You need to open girls in a non needy way. Seems to me that you're looking for attention and receptive girls, which kills any interest. Happened to me yesterday, was in a bad mood, was looking for girls to show me interest. So I opened less pretty girls than usual and I could feel how painful for them and me the interaction was compared to usual. Look for sex not for girls to like you.
/r/seduction24/08/19 07:48 AM
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Pick any celebrity that's not really handsome. You will still find nice pictures of them. It's not all about facial features. And with online game you get shown to so many girls that even if you are objectively less attractive than another guy, you can still have more girls than you have time to see them. As long as you have an attractive Profile. There are a few specific things that make an attractive profile. It's not all about your looks. That's my business so I won't give everything away her…
/r/seduction24/08/19 07:16 AM
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Because I was very young as well in that relationship and I then realized I was there for the wrong reasons. I also didn't know myself or what I wanted. Three years after I traveled through Asia and improved myself more than I ever thought I could when I was in thst relastionship. And, because that's what matters, I'm now banging girls that are way hotter than my at the time gf.
/r/seduction23/08/19 08:32 PM
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I agree haha
/r/seduction23/08/19 03:17 PM
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Agreed. Will keep doing that
/r/seduction23/08/19 02:31 PM
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Ahh. Alright. You're just butthurt. Best of luck man.
/r/seduction23/08/19 01:48 PM
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Rofl Edit : Man I don't want to disrespect you or anything as you put time in writing that but cmon. You seem to have issues with hot girls. They are bitchy because they are used to men who wouldn't let them shit in their boots. So they test guys by being bitchy. You said I probably don't have much experience. I return you the compliment.
/r/seduction23/08/19 01:39 PM
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That's sounds oddly personal. Pretty sure a girl that hot would leave me before she has time to hurt me, because she wouldn't stay with a guy who would let her hurt him. That's the real world. That's also the point of shit tests.
/r/seduction23/08/19 01:26 PM
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You obviously don't get it bro. It's not done in a disrespectful way, it's a tease. I teased her on her fake tits aswell. Now for the long term I don't want those teases to be always there. I can take a joke, I don't want it to become a habit. Now there's a reason why hotter girls do that. Put your ego aside and use your brain. Shit tests are a real thing. I just made this post because I was wondering whether she was bipolar or just really testing me.
/r/seduction23/08/19 01:23 PM
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She's obviously not interested bro
/r/seduction23/08/19 12:55 PM
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Yeah I did. But I'd rather just let it slide, because it doesn't affect me anyways. So I'm thinking which is better. Because getting worked up at every slightly offensive joke doesn't seem very high value either.
/r/seduction23/08/19 11:29 AM
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Don't put her in an awkward situation. Don't care about the people around yourself.
/r/seduction23/08/19 11:27 AM
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Was in the same situation, broke up because adventure calls, went through a lot of shit, looking back, best decision of my life.
/r/seduction23/08/19 11:24 AM
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She doesn't wanna feel teh responsability of having a horny dude over, bring her to yours or have an excuse to go in her house (gotta pee, any thing). Also, she just might not be ready to sleep with you for various reasons.
/r/seduction23/08/19 11:18 AM
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"But I still think some flirty lines that show less intent could be useful I guess" No some sets are dead nos and you can't do anything about it. You can turn the maybes into yes by being yourself and not being afraid to lose the set. Showing intent is not the solution to everything.
/r/seduction22/08/19 01:14 PM
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Im cringing hard when reading that comment man. ​ Edit not to sound like an asshole : forget about pushpull for real man. ​ If you really want to get technical, there was no push there. It's just a needy comment. An actual push would create tension and have her react emotionally by either closing off or chasing. There she had no time to invest because you basically did both in the same message and it looks obvious that youre trying some PUA move, thus making it needy and cringy.
/r/seduction22/08/19 11:53 AM
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in these interactions, it just seems impossible to make it kind of 'flirty Why? Probably because youre afraid of fucking up the set. Which is why it goes nowhere
/r/seduction22/08/19 11:48 AM
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Considering you met her only on a dating app you should just say something along the lines of "alright hopefully you don't starve yourself to death waiting for that date" and stop talking. If you remember her by then, text her. But your game is needy judging by that screenshot, complimenting her for nothing, she's even calling you out on that.
/r/seduction22/08/19 11:45 AM
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Look how I get down voted by just saying that. Sharing your score and how well you're doing on this sub always get you down voted to oblivion. Plus sharing your success just sounds like bragging, people don't care. I'd rather just give advice.
/r/seduction22/08/19 09:21 AM
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It obviously means that you stop chatting. Don't chase a girl who said no.
/r/seduction22/08/19 08:31 AM
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Thats weird af, you're giving all your value away and dont let her invest. Also asking for permission is bad.
/r/seduction22/08/19 08:03 AM
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Go up to them, tell then that you wanna talk because you think shes pretty, try to get to know her. Solo daygame sucks hard, you need a lot of warmup approaches to make it efficient. Tbh you need to do that a lot before thinking about escalating from daygame. Come back with more experience and more specific questions.
/r/seduction22/08/19 07:59 AM
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Be casual, escalate
/r/seduction22/08/19 07:58 AM
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You dont look like an idiot if you make moves without being needy and mean. Dont be ashamed of liking a girl or not
/r/seduction22/08/19 07:57 AM
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What you wanna know buddy ? Went clubbing solo yesterday, met this ultra sexy 35 years old, she paid me some drinks, we went home together and she was extra happy. There's nothing too impressive about successful lays.
/r/seduction22/08/19 07:55 AM
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I'm kinda busy this week, i'll come back to you when i'm available. It means no
/r/seduction22/08/19 07:53 AM
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You're not specific enough. It might be that your texts are needy or that they like and your reaction is making them lose attraction but you don't see hiw/why Try different things and see what works, but it takes forever to learn that way. Or Get someone to coach you and look into details (I can do that).
/r/seduction22/08/19 04:56 AM
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Read Models Have a coaching with me :)
/r/seduction22/08/19 04:15 AM
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Have a coaching with me :)
/r/seduction22/08/19 04:14 AM
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It's because your game is bad and that makes her lose interest. Maybe your text game is bad. Your post doesn't give enough detail but yeah you're fucking up somewhere
/r/seduction22/08/19 04:11 AM
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Just talk to them girls man
/r/seduction22/08/19 04:07 AM
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Ask questions about them to get to know them. You don't need a book. Just ask what you think will help you understand more what kinda person they are
/r/seduction21/08/19 09:02 PM
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It's the same for everyone. Now go talk to girls and stop hiding behind books and videos
/r/seduction21/08/19 09:01 PM
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As long as you care about it you'll be beta
/r/seduction21/08/19 09:00 PM
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Nope. It's awkward if you make it awkward. "I gotta go, by the way, what's your number" Done.
/r/seduction21/08/19 08:58 PM
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Be decisive and polite. "alright guys that was nice, I will go home now. Have a great evening"
/r/seduction21/08/19 08:56 PM
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Becauuuse mystery method sucks as it's unnatural af. Of course people find it weird. Your opinion openers are canned lines, even if they are your lines. Furthermore, whatever the opinion is and whatever her answer is, it's unnecessary if you want to start a conversation. You can start a conversation by saying "pineapple" and if she's receptive she will react positively.
/r/seduction21/08/19 08:53 PM
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Get other girls and move on with your life.
/r/seduction21/08/19 08:50 PM
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Being needy. If the girl is investing in the conversation but you still can't handle the slightest silence and cut her off all the time your doneee
/r/seduction21/08/19 08:47 PM
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If you can't get hard with a girl it's either because your balls are dry, you're tired/high/drunk or because you deep inside believe you don't deserve her.
/r/seduction21/08/19 08:43 PM
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Because girls are human beings with different tastes and fluctuating emotions that you can't control. That, and believing that looks matters most is so wrong.
/r/seduction21/08/19 08:40 PM
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Why
/r/seduction21/08/19 08:40 PM
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If à girl likes you she's gonna invest. Just sit back and relax. Lead the direction of the conversation and let her keep investing.
/r/seduction21/08/19 08:38 PM
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Great
/r/seduction21/08/19 08:33 PM
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Wat
/r/seduction21/08/19 08:31 PM
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Nope it doesn't. You turn maybes into yes, you don't turn nos into yes
/r/seduction21/08/19 08:30 PM
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Don't think about isolating or escalating. Small talk her, have fun, take number and then ask on a date.
/r/seduction21/08/19 08:29 PM
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To be honest it's dead and she doesn't like you. Move on to the next girl and work on being less needy when you talk to girls. Cheers.
/r/seduction21/08/19 02:29 PM
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Dont ask her out until she shows interest, also your texts are extra needy
/r/seduction21/08/19 02:24 PM
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Expect to fuck between 1to15 for every 100 girl you daygame cold approach
/r/seduction21/08/19 02:20 PM
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You might be chasing too hard without letting her invest
/r/seduction21/08/19 02:18 PM
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If you want actual professional advice you should go ask an actual professional coach. Duh duh. Useful and relevant connections don't come easy nor for free. I give easy priced coaching if you're into it shoot me a pm.
/r/seduction21/08/19 01:20 PM
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Fight club bruh
/r/seduction21/08/19 01:14 PM
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The other day I met a girl by cheering my bottle of water to her bottle of water. Say whatever you want man
/r/seduction21/08/19 01:14 PM
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Try to befriend him, there must be something that he likes that you can provide him. Don't do it in an obvious way. Basically put him into a situation where he'd lose something if he messed with you. Read that Laws of Power book, it will give you ideas
/r/seduction21/08/19 01:13 PM
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Step 1 forget all that you think this book taught you Step 2 go and read Models
/r/seduction21/08/19 07:36 AM
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Okay. Pm me. I do coaching.
/r/seduction21/08/19 07:31 AM
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Stop masturbating, eat healthy, stop playing video ganes
/r/seduction21/08/19 07:29 AM
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Empty your mind, talk, lead her around
/r/seduction21/08/19 07:27 AM
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You'll regret that in a few years. Best of luck.
/r/seduction21/08/19 07:26 AM
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Online game has not much to do with anything you said to be honest. It's all about having a profile that stands out. And most people don't understand what it means. It's not about being handsome, most of us are not handsome enough to stand out with that only. Google top 10male tinder profile and cry at how much more handsome than anyone you know they are. But you can have a handsome profile. And that's enough to stand out if you do it right. Also, having good education and job on your profile is…
/r/seduction21/08/19 07:24 AM
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Modelsss
/r/seduction21/08/19 07:18 AM
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Because they're insecure and attention hungry. Don't go for those gals
/r/seduction21/08/19 07:18 AM
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Change gf
/r/seduction21/08/19 07:17 AM
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"drunk game" lol Depends on how comfortable she is. If she's not comfortable yet yes it's the usual let's talk/netflix/etc for thirty minutes or something. Girls don't just wanna get fucked (well, some do). I've noticed that when they want to have this time before sex they are usually looking for more than hookup. They make great fwb.
/r/seduction20/08/19 01:01 PM
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How is it going? Where are you from? How long do you stay? Do you live far away? Was that your husband? Get the answer to those LOGISTICAL questions. No need to be direct or indirect, it's already on, and already quite direct through the way she looked at you. There it's not about finding out IF this can happen but rather HOW this can happen. Or, worst case, finding out that she was just teasing you for ego boost. The window you missed is that it was already on.
/r/seduction20/08/19 11:46 AM
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I think that girls are cute easily distracted cats that would like to see you again but will for some reason easily forget that they have your number. Sooo yeah don't mind the low return rate, just try anyways. Don't wait for them to take action, do it yourself.
/r/seduction20/08/19 11:42 AM
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You said she looked at you with an interest sexual gaze. That's the window you missed, that's enough of an IOI to go into moving things forward before the guy came back. But I'm not sure you know what I mean exactly by moving things forward (hence the beginning of my first post). And thats quite a lot to explain here so yeah.
/r/seduction20/08/19 11:31 AM
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I might have an answer but man I feel you don't have enough experience to understand it. Sorry for sounding condescending, that's not my goal. Basically, she played with you for ego boost because you looked shy and interested, there was a window to game her but you didn't act up anyways. I'd advise opening girls more often to get better social acuity.
/r/seduction20/08/19 10:40 AM
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You don't attract a No. You can only attract a Yes and a Maybe. I Disqualify myself if the girl is investing a bit after being neutral for a while, it makes her invest more (sometimes). I Disqualify the girl in the same context, or just to tease her if she already likes me. I'd also do it on a neutral girl, spikes her interest a bit sometimes. I'd qualify a shy girl, or a girl that genuinely earns it. Or a girl I really want to sleep with if it's too obvious that I'm only here for the sex (hard …
/r/seduction20/08/19 10:36 AM
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Everyone is always quiet at the beginning. It's alright, go with the flow. Drink a bit, small talk, let the fun build up, don't rush it. Piece of advice for you girl : Don't gst drunk Talk to everyone by short bursts Spend a bit more time with her when you're around her, force yourself to engage her, but don't force her to talk to you if she's having fun. Allow her to have fun. Keep in mind that maybe she just wants that, fun, and that maybe she doesn't like you. if she does like you, Isolate he…
/r/seduction20/08/19 10:26 AM
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Cheeky boii
/r/seduction20/08/19 10:12 AM
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Girls like tall guys
/r/seduction20/08/19 09:29 AM
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I'm not talking about techniques. I'm talking about the most officient way to communicate clearly and attract girls. I have my filters too. It's just that I know what I'm doing, im not throwing random shit at the girl until it eventually works. Just saying that for most guys "natural" means random and clueless.
/r/seduction20/08/19 09:23 AM
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Man you're so wrong about so many things. Doing what works is not being a robot. You seem to have misconceptions about what works. I have a system to get girls. But I like memes. Now there's a way to do it that doesn't get girls, and a way to do it that gets girls. Both cases I'm sending memes anyways. Guess which way I chose. Yes, the one that gets girls.
/r/seduction20/08/19 09:15 AM
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I made a post about it yesterday. It works if you have a plan and know what to expect. I get laid easy twice a week from online. I also do online dating coaching. I don't have the link to my post now but feel free to pm me if you want to know more.
/r/seduction20/08/19 09:09 AM
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Clubsss
/r/seduction20/08/19 08:53 AM
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Trying to use specific lines on dating apps smh That's not how you do it
/r/seduction20/08/19 08:51 AM
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Use Tinder lol Whenever I move to a new city Im never alone, thanks Tinder.
/r/seduction20/08/19 08:49 AM
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If she leaves you on read you move on. Anything you'll say to adress it will be needy. Anyways, why do you try so hard to have a conversation if she doesn't want to?
/r/seduction20/08/19 08:48 AM
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Texting is for giving value to stay in her mind and asking her out. Anything else is needy behavior. Text her almost as if you didn't expect her to answer and ask for dates bruh
/r/seduction20/08/19 08:04 AM
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Basically, if a girl doesn't give you shit tests or is too close too fast without calibrating to you it's because she doesn't care whether or not you're a good fit, thus not liking you for real and having no expectation for any kind of relationship with you. Girls do it sometimes when they want validation from guys, teasing and then giving blue balls.
/r/seduction20/08/19 07:58 AM
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Yeah man. If a girl is too "easy" it's a good indicator that she actually doesn't like you. Get experience, improve.
/r/seduction20/08/19 07:40 AM
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When that happened to me it was because I didn't read correctly. You gotta be very good to actually fake it properly.
/r/seduction20/08/19 07:27 AM
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Let the world see your answer, share man. How to get 4somes?
/r/seduction19/08/19 07:58 AM
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Tbh once you've got some experience pickup isnt rocket science. You can even find the best advice for free on youtube
/r/seduction19/08/19 07:47 AM
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how to have foursomes with 3 girls
/r/seduction19/08/19 07:46 AM
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Just saying, girls lose interest when the guy doesn't make moves. You were in the right situation to make a move :-)
/r/seduction19/08/19 07:14 AM
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Throw your whatsapp number here and I guarantee your problem will be solved
/r/seduction19/08/19 06:18 AM
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I do the same and I charge 20$ a month lol
/r/seduction19/08/19 06:17 AM
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Oh alright. I understand better. Well I don't have that situation happen, im usually like "wanna meet, I have Netflix lol". Then I bring out this cool show that I like. Maybe she wants you to show that you care a bit more, hold the frame that what you wanna show her is good, overhype if needed, even if we all know it's to fuck. Just make it seems like it's not a small bit. I mean, you know.
/r/seduction19/08/19 05:05 AM
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It just sounds gimmicky and, well, useless if you have actual game. Like that anchoring thing that associates some things you do with positive emotions so that a girl will be reminded of those positive emotions each time you do it. That always made me think about that one post i saw about that guy who thought his gf was about to leave him so he wanted to put patches of nicotine on her when she was sleeping so she would feel bad about not seeing him lol. Why would you even need it if the girl lik…
/r/seduction19/08/19 04:55 AM
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If she's not into it it's probably because she's not comfortable yet to go to your home for sex. Not because she doesn't like netflix lol and because wine is boring. Maybe it is, but don't forget that she knows what will happen, if she wants it she wont care whether wine and movie is boring or not.
/r/seduction19/08/19 04:48 AM
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Always get dem chocolate hungry gurlz, they can't resist lol
/r/seduction19/08/19 04:46 AM
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Here's what you should do for the next girls you see : if she doesn't text you something that you like or are satisfied with reading, you do not answer. Your texting looks quite needy right now.
/r/seduction19/08/19 04:02 AM
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I think you're overreacting out of a single text on a dating app. She likes you, but again it's just one text. And she wouldnt match you if she didnt liked you to begin with. That just seems like a normal flirty interaction to me, not something crazy incredibly good. Im happy for you though :\<sup>)</sup>
/r/seduction19/08/19 03:37 AM
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She doesn't like you and you keep chasing. You're hurting yourself. So i texted her “guess you lost interest”, she responded “huh”, then I said “u dont wanna talk or go on a date so i dont wanna waste my time" You lost right there by answering again to her "huh". You're way more invested than she is. Highly unattractive to her. Her "huh" meant "yes" and you couldn't read through it and still tried to get her to give you a positive reaction out of it.
/r/seduction19/08/19 03:33 AM
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What you are, in a way that can interest her. What you are looking for, in a non butt hurt way Something funny and hook-material. Do those three and your bio will be optimized. Here's my tinder bio : Taller than you even if you wear heels. Most likely to send you dank memes. Attracted to mean-looking girls. I have tattoos, your parents might not like it. When I was young girls used to hate when I would pull their hair... Funny how things change. Also check that out for more : https://www.fiverr.…
/r/seduction19/08/19 02:07 AM
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Still useless if you don't move the interaction forward. I'd be curious how she is "chasing you" afterwards in the next message
/r/seduction19/08/19 02:00 AM
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You were alone with her at her place and instead of doing something you asked her for coffee another day.. I stopped reading, there is your whole issue. Make a damn move man.
/r/seduction19/08/19 01:59 AM
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Talk about whatever you want. If you run out of things to say it's because you filter yourself our try to have a reaction out of her. Trust the process and talk until something funny comes out of your mouth. Once you got that figured out, you can notice that sometimes it's better to tease, sometimes it's better not to, and turn your conversation in either direction.
/r/seduction18/08/19 02:55 PM
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Her knowing your agenda is a good thing. Just don't be needy.
/r/seduction18/08/19 02:53 PM
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They mocked you. Now move on and stop caring you're making a fool of yourself.
/r/seduction18/08/19 02:45 PM
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I personally wouldn't go on date with girls who are not comfortable with their sexuality. You should have established more comfort and compliance, but heck, some girls just need wayyy too much of it
/r/seduction18/08/19 09:46 AM
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"Hello" And then you talk about whatever the f you want while trying to move the interaction forward
/r/seduction18/08/19 09:43 AM
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You're trying to get to react. Bad move. Just send fun texts without expecting her to answer at all. And when she starts investing you move the conversation towards the date
/r/seduction18/08/19 09:20 AM
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Get more girls
/r/seduction18/08/19 09:06 AM
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It will attract smart girls for sure. Repel not so smart girls maybe. I do tinder coaching if you're interested, pm me
/r/seduction18/08/19 09:00 AM
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I might be dumb but my balls are empty fam
/r/seduction18/08/19 01:28 AM
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Not really. Depends on your mindset. Seems like you're too attached to the girl responding and they sense it. Just speak for the sake of expressing yourself and give her the possibility to not care
/r/seduction18/08/19 01:27 AM
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Don't forget to report back
/r/seduction18/08/19 01:23 AM
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Yea man, that's the right midset
/r/seduction18/08/19 01:22 AM
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I'm doing some coaching man. I have ton of screenshot of successful and unsuccessful text game, explained. Pm me for more detail.
/r/seduction18/08/19 01:21 AM
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Depends how main she is and how busy you are From three times a week to one time a week
/r/seduction18/08/19 01:19 AM
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If you try to be it's weird If you actually are because you don't care what the girl thinks it's attractive
/r/seduction18/08/19 01:19 AM
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Your position of vulnerability wth is that
/r/seduction18/08/19 01:18 AM
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Just stop giving fucks and go for what you want
/r/seduction17/08/19 10:56 PM
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Yea man I feel like you've just got to screen extra hard on tinder while in real life you can take your time
/r/seduction17/08/19 10:50 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction17/08/19 10:14 AM
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Read Models
/r/seduction17/08/19 10:13 AM
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Dance next to her, make eye contact, take a step closer, see how she reacts, take another step closer, see how she reacts, until you're both grinding Also, don't make out with multiple girls in club, it's bad for reputation. If you come back to the same club often I'd say don't make out at all in the club.
/r/seduction17/08/19 10:11 AM
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I really believe that most girls go on tinder because they have X issue with no intent to meet anyone (attention whoring, prostitutes, bored, boyfriend had a fight with her, language exchange, etc). A few go there because they want to meet someone eventually but they won't try much so you have to lead hard and they still have high chances to flake as you've never been a priority for them, no matter what witty lines you use and what common points you have. Very few go there to actually find dates…
/r/seduction17/08/19 08:34 AM
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0 to 3
/r/seduction17/08/19 08:28 AM
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Oh well. Thanks for the reality check I guess. Still don't understand why girls would match someone they don't intend to meet.
/r/seduction17/08/19 08:25 AM
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Yeaaaah that's actually not my point at all. Im surprised that I'd get 20 matches and only one of them would actually be down to meet. Assuming I don't fuck up, why would the others match me if they stop talking when I'm going for the meet-up.
/r/seduction17/08/19 07:05 AM
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Don't wanna judge or anything but, those are pretty low numbers. Mine are more like 1 lay out of 20-30 matches, which is reasonable but still too low imo.
/r/seduction17/08/19 07:01 AM
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If every women rejects you, ever thought that you're doing something wrong? You might wanna look into what's happening.
/r/seduction17/08/19 06:53 AM
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Tell me what you look like and I'll give you grooming, fitness and style tips to make you at least an 8 in looks. Unless you're crippled, you've got no excuse. And even still, some get laid with hotties.
/r/seduction17/08/19 06:51 AM
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Well man I totally disagree. Maybe it's working for you in which case Nice. Edit: When I say logistics only it doesn't mean that all my texts are about logistics, but my only intention is logistics.
/r/seduction13/08/19 01:44 PM
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So, she doesn't like you. Move on
/r/seduction13/08/19 07:55 AM
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Texts are only for logistics man Or bantering a bit with a girl you're already dating
/r/seduction13/08/19 07:49 AM
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Girls texting me what they want me to do to them
/r/seduction13/08/19 07:48 AM
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How about you ask her out on a date
/r/seduction13/08/19 07:48 AM
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I'd not go on a date with a girl who has pics that don't show face and full body Consider stepping up
/r/seduction13/08/19 07:47 AM
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What are your thoughts on same day meet and sex
/r/seduction13/08/19 07:46 AM
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I'm an English teacher but I have no idea what you guys are talking about Sesh
/r/seduction13/08/19 07:44 AM
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Yeah you basically rephrased what I said. I generally feel that people are offended at anything lately. Maybe that's the process of me polarizing and becoming more honest. Can't pin it though.
/r/seduction12/08/19 04:37 PM
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Yeah man. I feel like people get pissed when they can't control me. Lately I've been noticing that a lot. Going my own way pisses people somehow, while I'm still being respectful, I just value what I want over what other people want and that seems to be pissing off a lot of people. At the same time, if someone else is valuing what they want over what I want, I wouldn't bitch about it. I just wonder where the limit is, to still being able to make friends and connections.
/r/seduction12/08/19 09:32 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction12/08/19 03:58 AM
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Thought about that. I figured that it's quite hard to filter out people who just want fwb. As in, i won't have a quick lay most of the time, even if she just wants that. Still needs to spend time with her to get her attracted and comfortable. On the other hand, I could make fwb with girls who I'd need to invest time on but then most of them in my experience would like a BF. And I'm anyways too horny to be wait numerous dates with out making moves. Guess yeah I should meet 'better' girls. And mak…
/r/seduction11/08/19 05:27 PM
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It says that I like to pull girls hair, lol
/r/seduction11/08/19 03:17 PM
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20s
/r/seduction11/08/19 03:05 PM
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From tinder and clubs.
/r/seduction11/08/19 03:04 PM
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Lol. Advice taken.
/r/seduction11/08/19 02:34 PM
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They do the same aswell. Often bringing it first
/r/seduction11/08/19 01:59 PM
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You gotta accept it to see how things truly are, and then change. I totally relate with your post on the rest. This is how it is.
/r/seduction11/08/19 12:04 PM
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It's a book called models
/r/seduction11/08/19 11:35 AM
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Bkk
/r/seduction11/08/19 11:34 AM
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Well you should. Point is to stay around her until she knows your personality enough to make that maybe a yes
/r/seduction11/08/19 11:33 AM
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Tinder game explained, take notes 4steps : text her to see if she's into talking to you remind her that you're here for a romantic relationship/hookup push the idea of a date get her contact All of that in under ten texts if possible. GG you saved tons of time while increasing your lay rate.
/r/seduction11/08/19 05:14 AM
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Don't do it. In my home country we do it aswell, it's just politeness. Trying to make it flirty would be seen as super creepy given the context
/r/seduction11/08/19 05:10 AM
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You're very welcome
/r/seduction11/08/19 05:09 AM
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Say whatever you want and do whatever you want. There's a reason why RSDs CEO name was Tyler Durden, go and watch fight club again bruh
/r/seduction11/08/19 05:07 AM
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Three categories of girls : yes maybe no You don't chase a no
/r/seduction11/08/19 05:05 AM
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Be polarizing. Be warned, people are gonna throw a whole lotta shit at you. But at the same time girls will throw their panties at you so it's k
/r/seduction11/08/19 05:02 AM
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If someone jokes on you you just ignore it and continue with your shit. Of course if you're passive, that's hard to do. If you're proactive in getting what you want, who cares about what others say, you don't even have to listen to them.
/r/seduction11/08/19 04:56 AM
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Read models
/r/seduction11/08/19 04:54 AM
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Cold approach is the true way to abundance bruh Text game is too complex for tips, you need to give more context because rn the only thing I can tell you is "be chill"
/r/seduction11/08/19 04:51 AM
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What you think as "really hitting it off" is actually not that much. Having attraction and a great interaction doesn't mean much. Just means that on the moment she was enjoying it. Now if you want to make it happen, you have to stay around her while she's enjoying it to logistically make the sex happen. If you can't, just chill and find a time when she is available to have her enjoy you again. Girls need warming up, even your gf needs warming up. It's not either on or off. It's slowly boiling, e…
/r/seduction11/08/19 04:50 AM
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First thing that comes to mind after reading your first sentences "dude, chill"
/r/seduction11/08/19 04:45 AM
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Community is dying, RSD shutdown their forums, most others coaches are not well known enough or are scammers. Find wings and practice while watching YouTube videos. Find a coach that you relate to.
/r/seduction11/08/19 04:44 AM
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Actual useful advice : go talk to girls instead of waiting for them to notice your shiny Tshirt
/r/seduction11/08/19 04:38 AM
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"highly attractive female" My boi
/r/seduction11/08/19 04:37 AM
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Been there done that. Accept this side of yourself, make small steps into not doing it when you want to indulge in the attention seeking behavior. It takes time. Reflect on yourself and why you have this mindset (usually because of your upbringing). Read No More Mr Nice Guy and Models.
/r/seduction11/08/19 04:35 AM
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Yet lately I've seen many many girls who seem to be looking for that. I can't help but think that they just do it to feel desired and better about themselves, not because they actually enjoy the sex. I'd rather have a toilet quickie than a 5hours date that ends in a farewell forever bruh
/r/seduction11/08/19 04:30 AM
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I'm pretty sure that any help that's "how to answer to that" is gonna come incongruent and therefore useless. There's a pattern and mindset that works for online game, not specific lines.
/r/seduction11/08/19 04:27 AM
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If I notice a girl proactively flirting with other guys I immediately stop investing in her, until she invests back in me first. It's about self respect, don't chase someone who's not investing in you. If she's talking about her ex and she's not just being overly talkative (some girls are and they just freeflow without too much thinking) I tell her that I don't want to know and it's not my business.
/r/seduction11/08/19 04:24 AM
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Situation : you and her on a dancefloor, side by side. You know she likes you. Solution : get fucking on top of her and grind.
/r/seduction11/08/19 04:21 AM
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No way they'd call. Girls don't invite guys out before having sex bruh. Even if they said they would. It's not attractive to them having to lead.
/r/seduction11/08/19 04:19 AM
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No one does because most people are poossies. Jk. It's hard to do, but once you are able to do it it's like you're now able to fly after walking on the ground your whole life.
/r/seduction11/08/19 04:17 AM
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Get more girls
/r/seduction05/08/19 10:59 AM
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Interesting
/r/seduction05/08/19 06:55 AM
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Semantics
/r/seduction05/08/19 06:40 AM
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No it's not creepy. Read Models
/r/seduction05/08/19 12:12 AM
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Gosh you're so judgy lol
/r/seduction04/08/19 11:57 PM
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The game is a fun read, but horrible at teaching you anything. Forget about it. Forget everything you think it taught you. Read Models And then watch RSD videos on YouTube (the old ones, they've turned into a self help company now for bigger audience) There also a program that's a bit old by now, it's called Foundations, for good reasons, from Tyler Durden
/r/seduction04/08/19 11:54 PM
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Idk man, the only thing I can hear is the girl I just slept with calling me daddy too many times
/r/seduction04/08/19 11:49 PM
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This is BS, everyone is complaining about their country. Pickup works everywhere. I'm pretty sure you can find a dude on YouTube who's doing infields in your country. About the ginger thing, you're doomed man sorry
/r/seduction04/08/19 11:47 PM
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Being less needy Going through social fear and approach anxiety Better fitness Reading books Traveling Masturbating less, watching less porn Going out solo everytime now Overall social experience improving over time Going after the girls I like instead of waiting for randoms to show me interest first
/r/seduction04/08/19 11:37 PM
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Sned vagene pic pls
/r/seduction04/08/19 11:31 PM
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Open any girl you like, anywhere, because everytime you don't that's a missed opportunity That being said, clubs and bars and dating sites are made so that people would meet.
/r/seduction04/08/19 11:05 PM
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I'm sorry im blind, too many girls there, that I met by doing what they preach
/r/seduction04/08/19 11:03 PM
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And there are a ton of videos where he's pretending to be a cult leader during his seminars so that people like you would fall for it. Oh well. That's free advertisement for them I guess.
/r/seduction04/08/19 11:01 PM
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Doll as in "cute as hell"
/r/seduction04/08/19 11:00 PM
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My man, I can tell if a women is into me by the way she looks at me before even first meeting them. Keep spitting on the successful, that will get you far for sure.
/r/seduction04/08/19 10:54 PM
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That's not what I mean at all haha
/r/seduction04/08/19 10:33 PM
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Most people are insecure, as for the rest you're just putting words in my mouth. Maybe I should have put "Most of the" and "but thats only my opinion". But there I'm sharing what works, what gets guys laid and what gets girls meeting cool guys.
/r/seduction04/08/19 10:30 PM
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Well, know that you are the exception and not the majority
/r/seduction04/08/19 10:22 PM
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Yeah that's basically what I said
/r/seduction04/08/19 10:16 PM
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From an evolutionary standpoint, girls don't want guys who don't have the ballz to approach
/r/seduction04/08/19 08:31 PM
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Anything that engages you and thus engage her
/r/seduction04/08/19 08:27 PM
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Depends on your interpretation. I say doll therein the nicest, cutest way
/r/seduction04/08/19 08:25 PM
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I'm focusing on opening hot girls whenever I see them those days. I'm talking about those super hot girls that every guy in the club hover around but no one approaches, even those tall jacked dudes don't dare doing it as they watch me with an envious smirk. They are pretty much normal girls tbh, the more you do it, the less impressive they are.
/r/seduction04/08/19 11:02 AM
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Hit me up bro, lets sarge together
/r/seduction03/08/19 10:33 PM
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Get a coaching man. Whether online or on-site, you need someone to dedicate time to you because by reading your post it seems like you're a fine regular lad
/r/seduction03/08/19 09:43 AM
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I'm a cheap mofo aswell, hey brother In most Asian and European cities you can get a bottle of wine for the equivalent of 5$ or less
/r/seduction03/08/19 09:41 AM
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Asian girls are hard to get out of their friends circle. Just do the same as with other girls, expect less chances of success. Maybe try to make sure that the girl knows you want more than a simple dance? Ask questions to get to know her briefly while dancing. "nice moves, what's ur name" "lol haha, where are you from" I'm still working on my dancefloor game so yeah. I'll go out again tonight aswell bruh 😎
/r/seduction03/08/19 09:23 AM
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Hello
/r/seduction01/08/19 08:02 PM
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Read Models
/r/seduction01/08/19 07:58 PM
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Many go through this. Realizing it is the first step. Now take action when you actuaoly wanna get laid and dont do things for the validation
/r/seduction01/08/19 07:58 PM
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I think it means that by being nice you're trying to deceive her, not because you're not deceiving when you're not trying.
/r/seduction01/08/19 07:56 PM
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Wat
/r/seduction01/08/19 07:49 PM
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Let her know you're looking for that, dont tell her that you want her to be your gf. That'd put too much pressure on her. Let her know what youre looking for and go with the flow
/r/seduction01/08/19 06:27 PM
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Sex addicts 🤪
/r/seduction01/08/19 01:35 PM
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My man, seems like you know what you're talking about. Daygame is my worst. Any plan on how you usually get daygame pulls?
/r/seduction01/08/19 12:50 PM
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Why do you want her to become your gf? You should not have to ask. Just let her know that you're looking for something stable and that's it. It might be her, it might not. If she wants it aswell she will work for it. If she doesn't want it, she was not the right one for you anyways.
/r/seduction01/08/19 12:46 PM
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Go step by step if you have no idea what you're doing. Google Kino Escalation. But know that most people with at least slight social experience just do, and apologize if she ever is offended. Don't ask for permission that's a turn off.
/r/seduction01/08/19 12:42 PM
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Dude you don't wanna go to bars and clubs which are designed to meet people and you don't use apps which are designed to meet people, yet you want to meet people. Something looks wrong.
/r/seduction01/08/19 12:40 PM
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This sub is 90% virgins and 10% sex addict manwhores. Funny how the two side get together.
/r/seduction01/08/19 12:38 PM
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Been there, done that, can confirm. Now my kids will have no choice but to go study abroad as soon as they turn 18.
/r/seduction01/08/19 12:36 PM
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She's insecure and you're trying to play hard to get. Showing interest is not being needy. And seems like she needs you to show interest. Just do it a bit, when you actually feel like saying something nice. Stop playing games man. You've been ghosted because you waited 5 fucking days to text her again, just to look cool. She probably thought you ghosted her first and moved on already not to feel too bad about herself.
/r/seduction01/08/19 12:35 PM
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So many things are wrong in this post. OP, do yourself a favor, read that book called Models.
/r/seduction01/08/19 12:23 PM
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Excuse me, you sound a lot like you're 14. We all had internet gf/bf when we were 14, don't worry. Anyways, she doesn't actually like you, you're her emotional support. If she liked you she'd make it possible to see you or wouldn't get in a relationship if she knew it was impossible to meet you. She might thinks she loves you but I doubt she actually knows what love is if she is fine with not seeing you. Move on.
/r/seduction01/08/19 12:21 PM
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Rule of thumbs, if you guys usually fuck and you come over on your period, he's gonna try a move anyways. So if you don't want it just say no. Yes fucking your friends has consequences, you can't just hover between platonic and sexual relationship however you want.
/r/seduction01/08/19 12:18 PM
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I'm cringing. I'm cringing because routines that are not 100% your own will always come off as weird. It's better to just say "hi you're cute do you like pineapple" or any other random stuff, rather than someone else's line.
/r/seduction01/08/19 12:16 PM
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I can relate. Slept with more than a hundred girls, that made me EXTREMELY picky. I'm not sure that this is a bad thing. Last serious relationship was now 2 years ago and I don't see myself getting in another one soon. Got things to do, places to go, people to see. While most girls just want a guy to make them feel confident and emotionally comfort them. I have no time for that.
/r/seduction01/08/19 12:13 PM
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Read Ego is the enemy Short answer : drop your ego Ego is a SENSE of high self esteem. True ego less confidence is actually high self esteem.
/r/seduction01/08/19 12:09 PM
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Read Ego is the enemy Short answer : drop your ego
/r/seduction01/08/19 12:09 PM
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I get rejected ten times a day when going out. It's alright lol. Become tough. Know that you need momentum to become less stressed, so go and don't complain unless you've approached your next 5 girls tonight.
/r/seduction01/08/19 12:08 PM
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Nice initiative man. I'll give it a go. EDIT : I can't believe there's no Bangkok group, this is literally the city of vice. Make a group for this one and I'll volunteer to be an admin
/r/seduction01/08/19 11:58 AM
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Yes she'd be. But then again if you make a girl jealous on purpose, that's a needy behavior and it will backfire. Best way is to just have fun and keep opening people, eventually you'll be around another girl and she will see it.
/r/seduction01/08/19 11:58 AM
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Just open girls by saying anything. Let her time to answer, dont be needy. If she rejects you after you saying a single sentence it's because she probably doesn't wanna meet any guy. Have some warm-up, I myself I'm a weirdo until my 3rd approach every night
/r/seduction01/08/19 11:56 AM
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Maybe you do it in a needy way. It's fine to do it if you're horny and touchy. It's not fine to do it if you feel like you need to touch the girl for her to stay around, or if you need to touch her to feel appreciated
/r/seduction01/08/19 11:43 AM
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Making a move is just doing what you want to do. What do you want to do to her?
/r/seduction01/08/19 11:41 AM
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Noice.gif
/r/seduction01/08/19 11:40 AM
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It's always appropriate. If she doesn't have time or bad mood she'll let you know. Only situation I can think of for that to be really inappropriate is a funeral lol
/r/seduction01/08/19 11:39 AM
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If you hold EC more than 2-3 seconds and don't say hello that's weird. If you keep staring without approaching that's weird. Other than that, keep a lazer EC with everyone when in a conversation
/r/seduction01/08/19 11:37 AM
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Are you 14yrs old Wheres da sex
/r/seduction30/07/19 08:58 AM
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How about ASKING HER OUT
/r/seduction25/07/19 08:11 PM
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Go to gym Stop masturbating Eat healthy Work on your career Open every girl you find attractive and let them know that you are attracted. In two weeks from now you'll be a new man.
/r/seduction25/07/19 08:10 PM
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Tinder sucks if you're not having the right mindset. Which is probably your case if you don't fuck girls outside of online. You've got a lot of issues and improvements to make and blaming the girls or saying that tinder sucks isn't gonna help.
/r/seduction25/07/19 08:08 PM
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That girl is making fun of your stupid first message tbh. And you're taking it seriously.
/r/seduction25/07/19 08:05 PM
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Read Models, No more Mr nice guy, etc Give her the opportunity to not invest if she is not interested, and be fine with it.
/r/seduction25/07/19 07:59 PM
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You don't get it do you. If she is not interested, she is not interested. There's nothing you can do. Move on to the next girl.
/r/seduction25/07/19 07:58 PM
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Probably because you act needy and because you don't give value.
/r/seduction25/07/19 07:57 PM
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Whatever she thinks. Own what you like and communicate effectively. Emphasize on the "communicate effectively". Don't be needy. Stop hanging out with those who criticize the things you like.
/r/seduction25/07/19 07:55 PM
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There's no place that worth deeming as too hard to game. Step it up. If it's not working you gotta get better game, not blame the area.
/r/seduction25/07/19 07:54 PM
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Stop masturbating
/r/seduction25/07/19 07:52 PM
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Usually when I get frustrated I just go and talk to girls. I mean, eventually you get laid, only way not to is to not open
/r/seduction25/07/19 07:51 PM
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Momentum is key. I like to believe that each set I approache improves my lay chances by 10%
/r/seduction25/07/19 07:48 PM
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I'm leaving on the first of August sadly
/r/seduction25/07/19 10:22 AM
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Glad you took time to blog about this
/r/seduction24/07/19 11:48 PM
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Try things, Calibrate better, get experience. Isolate girls. Learn to communicate your interest non verbally (body language). Google "stealth seduction"
/r/seduction27/05/19 09:21 AM
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Don't lower your standards. Go for what you want. You really have a non-issue right there.
/r/seduction27/05/19 09:19 AM
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Her mentioning her boyfriend is her telling you she's no available. Though she is flirty. That's called mixed signals. That's worth trying a shot. She's your co-worker, if you have to work with her regularly, it's not worth a shot. Or it might be, depending how much of a madlad you are. Just put things in perspective. Low success chances, might be worth a shot, you should definitely not care enough to make a reddit post for it.
/r/seduction27/05/19 09:17 AM
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I'd forgot the nice to meet you stuff blabla. I'd ask the idea of another date during the first interaction. Like "give me your number so we can get a milkshake together next time" I'd send a value giving text about something I am doing or find funny and see how she reacts. If she reacts positively I'd fluff a bit and quickly after ask her out. I'd never wait 2-3 days, she'd forget me in that time yo
/r/seduction27/05/19 05:33 AM
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Read Models, it will teach you all of that.
/r/seduction25/05/19 09:02 PM
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Sounds fancy. Are you french or something
/r/seduction25/05/19 08:27 PM
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Ahh got your point
/r/seduction25/05/19 08:26 PM
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Well how do you think i learned. And other people too. Just try (: If she freaks out you can always apologize.
/r/seduction25/05/19 08:22 PM
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Well Idk man, not bragging but my numbers are way higher. 3-4 out of every 100 women you have a flirty conversation with is just sad.
/r/seduction25/05/19 08:20 PM
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I wish I could bring hookers to the office too lol
/r/seduction25/05/19 08:18 PM
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Define old fashioned lol
/r/seduction25/05/19 08:11 PM
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Swipe handsome guys on tinder? Your boss might see you though
/r/seduction25/05/19 08:07 PM
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Stop commenting on my every post gurl
/r/seduction25/05/19 07:50 PM
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" shits pants aggressively "
/r/seduction25/05/19 07:35 PM
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Yes its hard for men to talk to girls first, im very shy. LOL at your username though
/r/seduction25/05/19 07:34 PM
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Why do they say no for sex but yes for titty sucking? Try to build more sexual tension. As someone else said, you can also take a step back and try again later whenever she says no. I used to do that but nowadays I'm just pissed when a girl comes to my place but naively expects me not to try to go for the sex. I usually don't call those girls again once they leave.
/r/seduction25/05/19 07:07 PM
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That's a lot of lays, someone has been going out a lot ma boi. You may want to describe your text game a bit more in order to receive feedback. I believe the next step is to balance correctly attraction and comfort while escalating and leading the conversation. Seems like there's a problem there if your positive number closes don't translate into dates.
/r/seduction25/05/19 07:01 PM
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God damn your odds are very low. 3-4 lays out of 100 opens, gosh. I'm glad you can learn game and up those numbers.
/r/seduction25/05/19 06:54 PM
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Don't leech value off others. Have fun.
/r/seduction25/05/19 06:49 PM
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Go read models Try to have sex Usual blabla
/r/seduction25/05/19 06:18 PM
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It's never weird to go solo. It's always cool to go solo. Unless you're a weirdo.
/r/seduction25/05/19 06:17 PM
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Hi this is 911, how may I help you
/r/seduction25/05/19 06:17 PM
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I support this comment. As you get even a lil bit good with girls, you get a shitton of haters.
/r/seduction25/05/19 06:15 PM
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It matters. You're a stranger from the internet. It also adds social proof
/r/seduction25/05/19 06:12 PM
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The only dominating girls I met were goths and MILFs. Lol. Who doesn't like a big tiddies goth girl anyways.
/r/seduction25/05/19 06:11 PM
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Go read Models
/r/seduction25/05/19 06:10 PM
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Bruh. TLDR. If you want people to care for such a long text, pay a dating coach.
/r/seduction25/05/19 06:09 PM
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Talking to girls helps I think. I never tried though so idk
/r/seduction25/05/19 06:08 PM
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Yeah my man, I agree
/r/seduction25/05/19 12:58 PM
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Just have fun. Work on getting in state. Then you come up to girls and you say whatever feels amusing to you. In that order. All those three steps.
/r/seduction25/05/19 10:35 AM
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Just fuck them bro
/r/seduction25/05/19 10:33 AM
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You don't need transition to change the topic. "yeah, anyways. Do you like pineapple on your pizza?" and done. You don't have to stay in a conversation you find boring. You're trying hard my man. If there's a shot for a tease that's amusing to you, do it, if you miss it it's no big deal. Only if you find it amusing, do not expect a reaction from her. Make it obvious that you want to talk to her again to setup a date. Verbally say it if nothing comes to mind. If she says no because she had creeps…
/r/seduction25/05/19 10:31 AM
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I'm more thinking that this guy didn't get half of my post lol. Flash attraction game only works to some extent. You get better results if you also acknowledge that girls are actual human beings with feelings and emotions.
/r/seduction25/05/19 10:23 AM
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Sure thing, son
/r/seduction25/05/19 06:08 AM
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My routines are just things that I once said and I saw it worked and that I found it very fun, so I say it again. Another one would be to just show off my arms and ask the girl which one of my tattoo is her favorite. I once opened a girl by asking her if she played League of Legends, and that worked pretty well (not because of the topic but because she was into me). Small talk is a way to build comfort by making her talk about herself and learn about if/how to fuck her. Where do you study, do yo…
/r/seduction25/05/19 04:17 AM
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I didn't say it has to be serious. Lately I've been telling girls that it is a known fact that the length from the top of your middle finger to the base of your thumb is equal to the size of your penis. And then I ask them to show me their hand. And since most girls have small hands, hilarity ensues. It depends on the interaction and time in the night but usually you need some small normal talk though.
/r/seduction25/05/19 03:16 AM
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It's about comfort my man. If she's insecure, she will feel more comfort if you validate her. And since you need a certain level of comfort to fuck, there you go.
/r/seduction25/05/19 03:08 AM
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That's good man, you're taking action. Clapping down the street is not crazy hard though. Go on!
/r/seduction25/05/19 03:06 AM
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Since I'm the only person commenting you'll have to do that one. Talk about how was your last sex party
/r/seduction25/05/19 03:05 AM
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I don't really understand your issue. Are you afraid to talk to girls if there's a guy around? Nightgame is know to be harder yes.
/r/seduction25/05/19 03:03 AM
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It's better to go solo in clubs. Other people are a HINDRANCE that has to be REMOVED in order to reach your OBJECTIVES. Lol. Wings are only usefull in clubs to deal with a girl's friends.
/r/seduction25/05/19 03:01 AM
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Hello fellow 外国人, which city are you in? Also, you probably just friendzoned yourself.
/r/seduction25/05/19 02:59 AM
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You're trying so hard man. The topic really, really doesn't matter. That's not how it goes. If you want to have her interested in the convo, you have to engage her, have her talk about herself and things she like. Period. Just speak your mind. Make sure you are really talking unfiltered. And when you've got nothing to say you wait for her to say things and invest. And if she doesn't you wait for it, it's alright if no-one is talking (once you've hooked her in the conversation in case of cold app…
/r/seduction25/05/19 02:55 AM
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Just DO IT. Lol. It ain't easy, but there's no other way. Practice.
/r/seduction25/05/19 02:51 AM
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"hello there" Raise your glass at her from a distance, see how she reacts.
/r/seduction25/05/19 02:49 AM
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Talk to her a bit, be chill. Other than that nothing
/r/seduction23/05/19 09:29 PM
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Lead the conversation to your desired outcome. Basically, you say whatever you want while asking her things to figure out whether you like her and how/when you guys can fuck. In a subtle way hmkay? Practice by talking to a wall everyday for 10 minutes straight.
/r/seduction23/05/19 09:20 PM
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I wish I had such a story, I wouldn't have spend so many time learning freakin pickup
/r/seduction23/05/19 09:18 PM
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Send n u d e s
/r/seduction23/05/19 09:16 PM
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Train by making smalltalk with everyone when you get the chance. It's normal to feel down sometimes when learning. Don't worry. Keep hustling through. 💪
/r/seduction23/05/19 09:12 PM
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Tldr I'm just commenting to say that today a girl rejected me so I went to buy avocados. That concept out of context makes me laugh hard
/r/seduction23/05/19 09:10 PM
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There seem to be a shortage of lairs those days. Most coaches just milk their client base by making their own coach-dedicated lair. There used to be the RSD forums but they are down
/r/seduction23/05/19 09:07 PM
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Don't Escalate in public. Light chat her, ask her out if the conversation is not negative.
/r/seduction23/05/19 09:06 PM
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Some of my friends took a bootcamp. It always help to see others players go through they approach anxiety and open sets non-stop. Usually you save time in your improvement by buying a coaching.
/r/seduction23/05/19 09:04 PM
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Or you could ask her out. Texting is only for logistics. If you want to fluff know that it has no other purpose than to have you have fun. So say whatever you think is fun.
/r/seduction23/05/19 09:03 PM
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Why would there be hot single women in their twenties in a suburban town? They have better opportunities in big cities since they are young and pretty. You have to move there aswell.
/r/seduction23/05/19 09:01 PM
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Totally agree. Raise the bar for discussion. Most topics can be answered by "go read models" lol. This has to change.
/r/seduction23/05/19 08:59 PM
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I the video was basically called Julien game manifesto
/r/seduction20/05/19 04:49 AM
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Pre-selection, body language, social status
/r/seduction20/05/19 03:57 AM
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Fr 1 : 2minutes interaction in a club, she probably forgot as soon as you left. Have for objective to try and get laid on the spot, aim higher. Fr 2 : you appear very game-y in your interactions, trying to push buttons and check lists. Try to have more fun in your interactions, and SPEND MORE TIME WITH THE GIRL.
/r/seduction20/05/19 03:51 AM
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Sorry wat
/r/seduction20/05/19 03:46 AM
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Be a nice person. If you care about your gf you guys can have sex after. It's just about taking into account what she feels, she's not a 24/7 sex dispenser. If you care more about sex just dump your gf and find another one who likes sex more. Anyways, we're all gonna be disappointed by that finale so you can always comfort her later lol
/r/seduction20/05/19 03:45 AM
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I can understand Tyler saying that he became so good that he can't teach to awkward weirdos anymore because he doesn't relate. If you watch him, you can see that he teaches with passion for something he cares about. Now he cares more about self dev since he relates more to that.
/r/seduction20/05/19 03:42 AM
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There's so many other things that you can do to improve your attractiveness than just building muscle
/r/seduction20/05/19 03:39 AM
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I cant really say yet, hence my whole challenge
/r/seduction19/05/19 01:35 PM
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Haha, I was still living in chengdu last month. Got pretty "popular" there, used to be a club promoter. Go to Orangutan or Jellyfish to find "friendly" foreigners. Just open them with anything and then keep talking, same always applies everywhere.
/r/seduction19/05/19 01:14 PM
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Beijing
/r/seduction19/05/19 12:42 PM
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You know you are getting better results than 99.99% of this reddit folks right? Good luck having your question answered. Do you lead the thing enough when you're with a girl you like? Do you care? It seems like you care about having girls like you and chose you over others. Maybe it comes off somehow as needy and that turns them off in a way you can't really perceive.
/r/seduction19/05/19 09:24 AM
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You have a lot of ego if you're afraid to fail. Realize that this is normal to fail and to try to go for what you want. There's no shame in trying to get laid.
/r/seduction19/05/19 07:58 AM
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You are way too self conscious. Let lose, try to enjoy your time instead of focusing on what others will think.
/r/seduction19/05/19 07:56 AM
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Yes man. It all goes wrong because you masturbate a lot. Stop it.
/r/seduction19/05/19 02:42 AM
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You don't arrange it yet, you find out whether she's interested in it or not. If she wants it you take her contact and you try to make it happen there. You basically tell her you're into her. In a way that's nice and personal to you.
/r/seduction19/05/19 02:41 AM
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Stop masturbating. You have all rsd programs and still can't approach man, you gotta freakin man up or give it up for real.
/r/seduction19/05/19 02:29 AM
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I mean, yeah, I'm a cool guy. Travelling and stuff. Exotic and stuff. I know it. And you know what, I'm actually already very very good at game as well. From some comments, I got the feeling I should be sorry about that, for making this challenge sound easier than how it would be for the average redditor. You're missing the point.
/r/seduction19/05/19 02:26 AM
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Good job man. First time you do those you feel weird so it's hard to focus on even approaching. Been there done that. It take time. Keep at it.
/r/seduction19/05/19 02:22 AM
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How to tinder game : 1st text - is she open to conversation 2nd text - is she open to a flirty conversation 3rd text - is she down to meet some day 4th text - contact exchange
/r/seduction19/05/19 02:18 AM
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First one is the hardest. It's all about momentum m8
/r/seduction19/05/19 02:14 AM
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Oh yeah. Of course you are "more interesting" as a foreigner from the sole fact that you're travelling. But since the people I meet are in the same situation it doesn't make it easier imo. At least that's a topic to talk about :)
/r/seduction19/05/19 02:05 AM
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I'm usually talking to people and having fun. Plus I believe that traveling alone is one of the best excuse to be alone at a bar. I'll start posting my reports soon :)
/r/seduction19/05/19 02:03 AM
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Three of them do, they do the translating for the others lol.
/r/seduction19/05/19 01:59 AM
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Could you elaborate on why you think this is easy?
/r/seduction19/05/19 01:54 AM
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It's good enough. Just open your mouth and say stuff. :)
/r/seduction19/05/19 01:53 AM
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But, my post is not about being attractive lol, it's about sharing the journey of improving my solo game starting from scratch in a non English speaking country.
/r/seduction18/05/19 07:15 PM
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Tell me how that is cheating. I don't speak Chinese and I go talk to foreigners as they more often speak English. *edited for clarity
/r/seduction18/05/19 07:01 PM
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Make moves. That's how.
/r/seduction18/05/19 06:49 PM
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Chances are higher that she'll say no if you do that. Chances are higher that you'll get laid if you don't. Don't cite The Game please, all those who actually go out and practice know it gives bad gimmicks.
/r/seduction18/05/19 06:33 PM
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No man I did this work like 6 years ago. Do your homework, tomorrow is Sunday you have some time to look for it :)
/r/seduction18/05/19 06:31 PM
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This is soooo not smooth haha. I'm sure there are better ways
/r/seduction18/05/19 06:26 PM
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Watch YouTube men grooming / fashion videos. I used to read blogs aswell but YouTube is so convenient.
/r/seduction18/05/19 06:25 PM
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Assuming attraction is never a misplaced advice, that's the basic of seduction. I didn't say expecting results though. Be engaged, no outcome dependant. Having selective blindspots is helpful (if you're aware of those). And it helps getting to the point. Also your "got any song suggestion" is never gonna work. Been there, tried that. Getting to the point is what works.
/r/seduction18/05/19 06:23 PM
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Take more risks. Try harder and be rejected harshly. Have positive assumptions and move aggressively towards the outcome you want, give her time if she freaks out and next her if she really doesn't want it. You have entitlement issues bro. Work on that. Trying only once is not enough.
/r/seduction18/05/19 06:17 PM
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That's just bad advice man don't run around spreading that. He should get to the point and assume she likes him *edited
/r/seduction18/05/19 06:13 PM
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You don't really Escalate with words in a club. Test her compliance by making more and more intimate moves. Having your arm around her waist is not enough. Being face to face with your hands resting on her hips is enough. Practice, get référence experience, try things. If she freaks out a bit when you try, take a step back and try again later, she just needs more time.
/r/seduction18/05/19 06:11 PM
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Too needy.
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:30 PM
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Say you're busy. Ask for plan other day together. If she says no, she doesn't want a date with you (who would have thought that ikr). She basically said no to you so many times, I think the message was clear by now, stop chasing a girl who doesnt like you. Right now she's most likely using you when she feels bored/in a lack of attention. Try your shot again but don't expect much, don't be needy and don't commit. If she likes you, she will handle chasing you a bit.
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:28 PM
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Yeah here is my advice : don't do any of those. You should have kept the small talk in real life. Now your only chance to see her again is to instagram DM her I guess. "hey lol that's funny, we sat next to each others in the library and now Instagram recommends you to me, im scared for my privacy" "whatever she answers" "anyways, I do think you're cute and I wish we had more time to talk last time. Up for a coffee sometimes?"
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:23 PM
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Go for drinks
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:09 PM
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How about you invite her on a date instead
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:08 PM
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That's your silly ego m8 Kill it
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:07 PM
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You're asking way too much in a reddit post lol. I do coaching, pm me if you're interested. Anyways, what I can tell right off the bat is that you should practice more. Put yourself in more social and uncomfortable situations and hold the pressure. You'll learn fast by doing so. Next step is to teach yourself (slow) by trial and error or get a coaching (saves months of practice).
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:06 PM
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"Starting a convo out of thin air with a stranger is hard" -> practice You did good, that's the spirit. Approach. Now you do that again over and over for the next year or so and you'll see huge improvements. The anxiety will go away soon as you do it more and more. Be glad, you are moving in the right direction, unlike most men.
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:02 PM
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Yeah man, this is not a good heads pace to be in. It my help at first but you quickly want to move away from that or it'll fuck you up in the long run.
/r/seduction18/05/19 04:48 PM
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Put one foot in front of the other, say hello, then improvise. That's for the warm-up. After that you care less and less as you open.
/r/seduction18/05/19 04:47 PM
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There's never an appropriate "movie like" moment to kiss. If you feel like she is ready, you can do it mid sentence. Besides, what the other guy said in this comment thread is spot on. Who cares about your reputation and ego. Make a move.
/r/seduction18/05/19 04:44 PM
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Watched most of those videos a while ago and they truly changed my life. Dude if you have them just put them out somewhere we can download it so this gold content never dies.
/r/seduction18/05/19 04:41 PM
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Agree lol
/r/seduction14/05/19 05:55 PM
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I'm sorry wat
/r/seduction14/05/19 05:54 PM
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That's ego. Kill your ego. Seek to be in places where you're not the top player, and you will soon become the top player in most places.
/r/seduction14/05/19 05:51 PM
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"hey lol, what do you think of my new shoes"
/r/seduction14/05/19 05:50 PM
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I don't do dates on the barstool because it's in plain freakin sight. Girls don't want to look like sluts so they won't allow escalation there.
/r/seduction14/05/19 05:48 PM
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Forget about your game tactics. If a girl doesn't like you, she doesn't like you. Period. Start approaching girls and try to lead the interaction to sex. After you've done that 100 times start worrying about how to use what you call "game". Tbh, you are asking this question because you don't have enough experience. Now go approach 100 women as I said earlier and come back ask again. If I were to answer your question subcommunication is definitely more important. But I'm not sure you really under…
/r/seduction14/05/19 05:44 PM
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Your post listed exactly all of those issues. Now take a pencil and a piece of paper, in front of each problem, write how you intend to remove that problem from your life. If you don't know how, Google it and watch YouTube videos. Basically, do your freakin homework.
/r/seduction14/05/19 05:40 PM
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As I said I worked as a promoter full time aswell.
/r/seduction14/05/19 05:36 PM
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Yes broooo
/r/seduction14/05/19 05:02 AM
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Because i tried to help you in my previous comment but you didn't answer anything I said. Anyways. Write field report tonight. With "I did good", "I did wrong" and "I will do better" categories. And pretend that you don't care about looks, just for a try.
/r/seduction14/05/19 05:01 AM
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If she's turned off by that alone she probably didn't like you anyways
/r/seduction14/05/19 04:58 AM
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Sologame
/r/seduction14/05/19 04:58 AM
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What a bunch of nonsense delivered in a condescending tone lol
/r/seduction14/05/19 04:57 AM
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Why the fuck would you open asking her to give you a blowjob? Bargaining for it even? God man. Talk like a normal person. You're also trying way too hard to be smart/cocky / having the right logical comeback. You lost her after the second/third message, everything afterward is irrelevant.
/r/seduction14/05/19 04:51 AM
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Watching with someone is different. Do your homework, there are plenty of videos on YouTube explaining it.
/r/seduction14/05/19 04:48 AM
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At first it sucked ass, big time. Then practice Then I also learned how to hold a conversation and get to the point. Night game is harder, and this is where I learned most of what I know. Don't worry to much, trust the process, go through the experiences.
/r/seduction14/05/19 04:47 AM
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Alright man. Keep believing what you always believed, since it's working so well for you so far.
/r/seduction14/05/19 04:45 AM
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It depends on so many factors. From your question, im sorry but I have to ask, do you even approach strangers? If I'm not warmed up it's gonna be boring. "hey, you look cool, are you going to work?" If I'm warmed up it can be "you. Hug me" It also depends whether it's day or night, club or private party etc. What you need to learn are social dynamics. It's not about what you say. I'm off to sleep, shoot me a pm if you want more details.
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:39 PM
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Opening is Hi Transitioning into what?
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:25 PM
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I just spent the rest of my comment explaining that word.
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:23 PM
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Is that how stupidity reacts to the truth? Lol. My parents didn't want me to go abroad and I had no money. Well I still went, and I worked until I saved enough money for the plane ticket. Life is what you make it. But, it's probably better for everyone if you stay in the poop hole where you're safely insulting strangers online.
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:22 PM
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Say what's on your mind. Be polarizing. Take the risk to say what's on your mind even if there's a chance to offend people. Care about their feelings though, don't go on a racist jokes rampage if this is a minority party for example. Calibrate. If you offend someone, say sorry.
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:17 PM
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Well then anything works. If she wants to see you again for that type of activity (and the implied type of relationship that comes with doing it with you) just ask her out and she'll come.
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:16 PM
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Awh. Yeah. Your parents don't allow you. That's kinda sad. Smh.
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:14 PM
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Girls are biologically the same around the world and respond to the same things. Even if culture doesn't allow, the feeling is still there. Now, just Calibrate according to the culture.
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:12 PM
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Sorry man but with ten years game experience you should be able to give more details on what is happening. Stop focusing on what girls says and stop focusing on your physique, it's for the most part irrelevant Reflect on what you think you're doing right and wrong. Do you even write field reports?
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:09 PM
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Actually, it does since most people are boring AF and bad conversationalists. Lead the things, make things happen. Looking cool doesn't get you laid though.
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:06 PM
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Your edge is that you know what you have to pay attention to. Routines only help when you're not warmed up or when you have a brain freeze or when something unexpected happens. You should have your own routines. When you say something that works and that you enjoy, just note down that this thing can be said in that situation because this result happens most of the time.
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:05 PM
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Are you 15? Lol
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:03 PM
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Romantic relationships start with sex. Go for drinks and try to get laid, for your pp and also for her sake. "hey, im free this evening lol, I brought donuts to work today and my boss was so happy I finish earlier tonight. What are you up to around 7pm?"
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:01 PM
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You don't make friends by texting. Now stop lying pls bro. Consider moving abroad if you country doesn't allow dating and you still want to do it.
/r/seduction13/05/19 07:58 PM
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I'm not always numb to it, that's what warm-up is for. Also, having results makes you give less fucks about it because you know that you can do it anyway, and that by just approaching you'll eventually find a girl that will like you anyways.
/r/seduction13/05/19 07:56 PM
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no, maybe noticing that I shouldn't try hard and just get to the point. But that's more related to game in general rather than daygame. I still want to mention that my results skyrocketed once i noticed that I was physically too close out of the opener, taking literally one meter of a step back if she freezes a bit releases the tension rejections don't matter, it's just feedback, even if unpleasant I think feeling the pressure is the first step after realizing you can meet girls anywhere anytime…
/r/seduction13/05/19 07:55 PM
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Get more experience with social interactions. From what you said I believe that asking for her the permission was a bad move, just say "come, lol" and grab her hand. Then try a move. Depending on the amount of interest you perceive she had, it might have been the right time to pull her in an isolated place to kiss or fuck her, brah
/r/seduction13/05/19 07:50 PM
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Why the F do you text so much. Text back and forth 3-4 messages and ask her out. If she's not into, next, gg.
/r/seduction13/05/19 07:47 PM
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Open conversations with people. Practice holding a conversation, because that's what you need if you're ever asking this kind of question.
/r/seduction13/05/19 07:46 PM
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I don't feel rejection anymore because maybe ten girls gave me the shoulder yesterday but there's the eleventh one sleeping next to me as I'm writing this. And I can guarantee that when a girl you cold approached has her tits jiggling over your face, rejection was well, well worth it.
/r/seduction13/05/19 07:44 PM
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It does, and you don't feel it. I don't say it, science says it. But I saw that it's true on me aswell. Whenever I go on a porn binge I become depressed. Whenever I finally stop I get laid within 3 days.
/r/seduction13/05/19 07:41 PM
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"yourself" is not what you are now, or what your emotions pushes you to do an be. Being willing to give love is not yourself. This is just the habit you took to cope with life during your childhood and early years. Yourself actually doesn't exist. Yourself is what you mold your character to be (or what you let others mold for you). When you were born, your default state was happiness. No need to give love, no need to be loved, not need to be mean to anyone either. Read the power of now, ego is t…
/r/seduction13/05/19 07:39 PM
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Welcome to the party, expect regular lays with a variety of hotties within 1-2 years if you keep at it.
/r/seduction13/05/19 07:33 PM
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Your post lists all of your problems and the solutions. Porn indeed increases social anxiety and depression, indeed. So don't relapse. Fix the shit going on in your life first. Then go meet girls.
/r/seduction13/05/19 07:32 PM
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I used to be a club promoter aswell. I have no idea how you can not get laid. The point of this job is to open people and talk with them. I can't believe you've been doing that for ten years without improvement, after two months I could basically sleep with a girl every night if I wanted to. Maybe look into what you're doing wrong? There must be a reason. And your post doesn't give enough detail to help. Your physique is irrelevant because once again the point of that job is to play the numbers …
/r/seduction13/05/19 07:29 PM
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Wow. It's probably because you're handsome and tall and you have lots of money
/r/seduction13/05/19 05:01 PM
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When that happens to me the issue would rather be lack of sleep lol
/r/seduction06/05/19 08:11 AM
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If she refuses everything she doesn't really like you / isn't really attracted to you. Or she is very young, religious, extremely insecure, etc. In both cases I'd advise you to change gf
/r/seduction06/05/19 08:09 AM
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5-6 people a month is not even a lot lol. You'll get used to it.
/r/seduction06/05/19 08:07 AM
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My situation used to be similar to yours actually (living with depressing and depressed parents, etc). You shouldn't learn from him IMO, there are way better models just from the internet only. I have the feeling you don't know how to structure an interaction that leads to romantic outcome with a girl. Jokes aren't even necessary lol. Hit me up with a PM, as I said I do coaching. We can have a free consultation.
/r/seduction06/05/19 08:03 AM
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You're trying hard to prove your point lol, going through my posts history. I used to work in a club too, I could sleep with almost a girl a night if I really tried to. It's not that hard if you know what to do and take a lot of action. I have as much "success" in my home country, I did sleep with a new girl every week I spent there last time I went. I do prefer Asian girls. I'm not bragging, just feel like black pilled people aren't trying hard enough to have good game, once again. Yes money st…
/r/seduction06/05/19 02:24 AM
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"what if that isn't me?" It's you. Changing your behavior doesn't make you another person. Are you being depressed because you're not like this guy? You don't have to be. Why do you want to be like him so bad? He's not even that successful with girls from what I understand. You don't have to fire joke after joke to get girls or be cool. Actually this is a pretty bad thing to do, being a dancing monkey doesn't get you laid.
/r/seduction05/05/19 08:02 PM
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Yes. You can only succeed by being yourself, your best self. Doing so will require you to do some things that he's doing, as those things work. He obviously has bad game though if you never see him close the deal with any girl, so i don't think he's a person you should be jealous of. Watch infield videos on YouTube. Don't watch theory anymore. Are you even approaching girls in real life? Those contradictions are complementary principles and they make sense to those approaching enough.
/r/seduction05/05/19 07:48 PM
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My man, you have so many misconceptions about social relationships. And you over think it way too much, I don't know where to begin. Of course changing your habits is difficult and you don't want to. Read a few books and they will help you way more than a simple comment at this stage. Read : Models No more Mr nice guy Ego is the enemy I advise using audible, that's soooo convenient man. And because it's subscription based you feel obligated to get new books every month, good for your mind. Watch…
/r/seduction05/05/19 07:26 PM
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Yes, let's blame it on the girls Those girls need sex too you know
/r/seduction05/05/19 05:23 PM
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Well that's weird because those books are only about inner game. And no more Mr nice guy talks about dealing with issues while growing up, and how to fix them. Being too cocky is a trap that former shy guys fall into to protect their ego. You usually turn fuck buddies into relationships by appearing vulnerable, genuine and honest. On top of having the qualities of the Attraction. Aswell as spending quality time (not just sex) with them.
/r/seduction05/05/19 05:21 PM
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Your therapist is right. Watch comedy. Try to find fun in the small things of life. If you see a cloud that looks like a giant penis and you find it funny, laugh. Lol, just writing this has me smile. And do not care about whether people find it funny, rather, have confidence that your "funny-ness" will touch them and laugh hard. And if they don't find it funny well that's too bad for them lol. That's the law of state transference, whatever you feel, others feel. Still be aware to stay in the ran…
/r/seduction05/05/19 05:12 PM
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Tinder messaging in a nutshell : First message - is she open to talk Second message - is she actually looking to meet guys Third message - let's meet up one day Fourth message - take IG/whatsapp/whatever Don't need to be that robotic, make it more organic and add maybe one or two fluff messages. Spread the good wisdom ~
/r/seduction05/05/19 05:01 PM
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No As to why, it depends. Probably because your texting game needs improvement
/r/seduction05/05/19 04:57 PM
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I'm 25, poor af, slept with more than 100 girls in the last two years. Used to be the classrooms ugly donkey. I always thought black pilled people were not trying hard enough. Life is what you make it.
/r/seduction05/05/19 04:41 PM
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I don't understand and because she's a girl S H E P R O B A B L Y. W O N 'T. E I T H E R
/r/seduction05/05/19 04:32 PM
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As I said, try things and get experience. I could try the cookie thing lol, it's awesome I think. See, you don't know what is childish and what isn't. Is childish what is not working, isn't childish what is working. Often, just doing whatever you think is fun is not childish. So, try new things.
/r/seduction05/05/19 04:25 PM
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Idk how old you are but those kind of comments don't keep friends around past first college year. About you, right now your should have a clear mind, think about situations when you were in a conversation with a girl and you said something that you think was too nice. How to reframe it as mean? If at least not mean, how to reframe it as something funny to you? If you wanna talk more about that hit me with a pm, I do some coaching and I'd like to help a bit (for free).
/r/seduction05/05/19 03:58 PM
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You're not a late bloomer you're a lazy and scared dude. Stop listening to everyone else in the comments telling you it's okay. It's not. Wake up. Because indeed if you don't you won't change. Is far as I'd love to help idk what else I can say outside of "do something, anything". Because that really all that it takes. I used to be in the same situation as you. Hit me up with a pm, I'm doing coaching and I'm quite curious to help (for free).
/r/seduction05/05/19 03:06 PM
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Tl;dr? You learn by trying different things. Say what's on your mind, even if you think that's offensive. Be offensive on purpose. Your reality about what's acceptable and what's not is wrong, so you need to test things to see what actually works.
/r/seduction05/05/19 03:01 PM
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OP was talking about when a girl is grinding on him. You grab her arm and pull her, other is you offer your hand for her to take. That's social proof, but if you're alone for the night no one will even notice (nor care).
/r/seduction05/05/19 02:55 PM
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Grab and pull a girl's arm (gently..) Offer your hand, as an invitation
/r/seduction05/05/19 12:49 PM
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Don't worry. Girls generally like taller guys. Period. Feel sad for shorter men, not for yourself.
/r/seduction05/05/19 11:30 AM
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Yes, absolutely true Yes. You don't need to know. Just answer her grind with some grind, let her do most of it. What matters is that you're not afraid to be physical. If there is a fight you go on the other side of the club, and you take your girl with you there. You're there to get poossy right? Avoid fights, waste of time and state. Yes. The Claw, Hand of God, raising your glass up to her, those force her to show you whether she likes you or not, without talking. Make sure you body language is…
/r/seduction05/05/19 11:24 AM
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Yes. Are you there to fuck with the music anyway?
/r/seduction05/05/19 11:15 AM
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You won't get anywhere with that. This is not enough to attract someone. Small talk for a while, be funny, invite her for a date. Don't bother trying to take her number unless she or you is in a rush and has to be somewhere.
/r/seduction05/05/19 11:14 AM
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You know, worst that will happen is that people will call you out for pursuing girls (booo no man ever did that). It's gonna be embarrassing at first if you want to learn game, deal with it. Good thing is that you will also learn that it doesn't matter anyway, and that there's nothing to be embarrassed of. Tbh I think you have inner game problems to solve, the fact that you shouldn't give a fuck about what others think and that it's okay to pursue girls, to name a few.
/r/seduction05/05/19 11:12 AM
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There must be a reason my man. It can vary depending on the city and girls there, but there's probably something you're doing wrong in your bio or pictures. If your pics and profile were fine you'd get more likes
/r/seduction05/05/19 11:04 AM
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It releases dopamine 0w0
/r/seduction05/05/19 09:27 AM
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I get 4 likes a day on average. Improve your profile. Living in a more populated place helps aswell.
/r/seduction05/05/19 09:26 AM
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Lmao. Posting nice homemade food pictures just shows that you have stuff going on in your life, and passions. Which is always attractive.
/r/seduction05/05/19 09:25 AM
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You're wrong. As soon as he decides to take action, the man has limitless options. Even more than the girl I'd argue. Too bad most men are afraid to say hi to strangers.
/r/seduction05/05/19 09:22 AM
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Dafuck did I just read
/r/seduction05/05/19 09:17 AM
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Lol. Judging by your other comment I'm prone to think that you're subject to overreacting
/r/seduction05/05/19 06:33 AM
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Learn to recognize them, and avoid them. Comes with practice brooooo We all go through these girls.
/r/seduction05/05/19 06:32 AM
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She's bored and knows you're gonna entertain her since you like her. Push for a date and watch as she stops talking to you. If she liked you she'd accept to go out with you.
/r/seduction05/05/19 06:31 AM
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No offense but, your porn fantasy won't probably come true anytime soon. Can you hold a conversation with a woman? Do you have anything that cougars are looking for? Try tinder, or basically just go approach older women.
/r/seduction05/05/19 06:29 AM
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Go make so small talk with her. At some point drop "by the way, do you have free time to go grab a coffee someday?" If you freeze when talking to her it's because you care about the outcome. Focus more on saying what you want to say instead of the eventual result. While still leading the conversation to a date (cf previous paragraph) Ez pz
/r/seduction05/05/19 06:26 AM
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Read no more mister nice guy, ego is the enemy
/r/seduction05/05/19 06:25 AM
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"hi" Say w/e you want. Slow down if she freaks out. Spend time around her.
/r/seduction01/05/19 10:38 AM
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What if im horny AF and that i think almost everything cutr enough is good for a quick smash?
/r/seduction28/04/19 04:35 PM
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Hey you're cute, where do you come from And stare at him expectingly. And then watch as most guys crumble and become overly needy. And then he'll keep talking to you. You really don't ha e to do much That or he basically likes another girl than you
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:36 AM
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If I get stabbed I'll think that it was my mistake to go in that shady alley. I'm the captain of my ship. If it sinks, it's my fault. Because I'd be dead and blaming the bad weather wouldn't help. Dude you have various ways to look at life. Yours is complaining about things you can't change and blaming others, mine is improving and blaming myself for taking PREVENTABLE and KNOWN risks. Marriage is brainwashing by government and religion for controlling the people. It was invented in a time where…
/r/seduction02/04/19 12:34 PM
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If my girls run away with another one, I'm the only person to blame bro. But most people can't handle that. There's also an interest threshold over which a girl won't look at other guys, I'd not consider a relationship below that threshold. And even then I'm not 100% sure she wouldn't cheat. But that's a calculated risk. Now if I let myself go and become complacent and then be angry when she bangs the gardener well I'm a big peace of wrongly entitled poop and I deserve it.
/r/seduction02/04/19 09:08 AM
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I'd agree with most of your points if I was not as used to going out and meeting people as I am now. People are not mean but, no one is out there to care about what you are feeling. No guy specifically targets girls in relationships. Attraction just happens to be there. Like, really, I just got the feeling you don't know much about human interactions. Like the fact that girls should dump a guy before going to another. Unless the guy is abusive most girls don't do that, and most girls are not bio…
/r/seduction02/04/19 03:30 AM
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This whole post is butthurt and forgets that girls have emotions and feelings. They are not a toy belonging to you. If they want to cheat they will. They are not harmless and innocent kids that mean men manipulate into cheating. Yes they do operate on split second emotions sometimes AND THAT'S OKAY. That's the nature of women. Now if you're unhappy because you can't keep a girl you might want to look into why. Or grow up and accept that polygamy is a normal human behavior. Sorry man, if I don't …
/r/seduction02/04/19 02:59 AM
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This kind of post is the only reason why I'm not browsing this sub anymore. Bunch of virgin chodes being happy and proud whenever they meet a girl. Then blogging about it. And then it freakin somehow makes up 95% of the topics that get to hot. Wasn't it supposed to be a place to discuss seduction and improve? Wth are the mods doing.
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:50 AM
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She wanted the D and you didn't act up on it. Too bad, she nexted you when she noticed you were not what she was looking for
/r/seduction20/03/19 11:48 PM
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Always say she's a friend. It doesn't mean much, and means everything at the same time. Whatever your relationship is, the girl will appreciate that you don't publicly explain every detail of your relationship. Unless she's bitching about you not willing to commit and call her your gf in public, then it's another problem.
/r/seduction20/03/19 11:44 PM
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Are you sure that you're not just protecting your ego by not trying any move? OK, girls don't like neediness and eagerness. But they also expect you to make a move. Why don't you try to have sex on first date? Why do you pretend that you have to be somewhere else? Are you afraid that she might reject you by actually showing your interest? Or do you just wait and act only after you are sure that she shows you attention? I doubt your approach will work on hot and ADHD rype girls, at least if you'r…
/r/seduction20/03/19 11:21 PM
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I'm pretty sure you even took some of his script at some point, even though I stopped watching after a minute because I felt like derp I already watched this video but with an actual coach. I mean, lol, you didn't even quote the channel the video is on in your description, you quoted his other channel. Here's the original video https://youtu.be/7OZebLs6v7o I really hope you'll get all the YouTube money, "" pickup "" videos on a cartoon background are trendy those days. Too bad this video comes o…
/r/seduction19/03/19 11:44 PM
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Todd made a video about this a while ago, you pulled exactly the same concepts and explained them in the same way gratz
/r/seduction19/03/19 09:36 AM
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Yeah man same. Just force yourself to keep going out of your comfort zone next time you're having success
/r/seduction10/03/19 10:34 PM
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While I do agree about the bio part, it also depends what kind of girl you wanna attract and what kind of relationship you want out of the app. Considering I wanna smash, you have very good points sir. I also notice that "beautiful" and thought out pictures are not necessarily what works for tinder
/r/seduction10/03/19 05:21 PM
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I used to live in China, better look non threatening. I take the feedback though
/r/seduction10/03/19 03:29 PM
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if I try to get closer/initiate some contact, she moves away and looks at me like wtf are you doing Yup she just wanted to grind on a guy for validation, like 95% of girls dancing with guys in a nightclub. It's not you doing something wrong, it's her not associating dancing in a sexy way with a guy and willing to fuck him. Try a move, if she doesn't accept it have fun, move on without being butthurt and reopen later. ​
/r/seduction10/03/19 02:46 PM
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Why would you even say that
/r/seduction10/03/19 10:11 AM
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I've been to Thailand and banged girls from tinder already, as I said earlier, they are very open to (free) sex. Have you ever even been there?
/r/seduction09/03/19 11:24 PM
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Yup. Did the same on tinder this afternoon and had one agree for sex. Thai girls are very nice. Some of them are hookers, some are traditional an will never sleep on a first date, most are very nice. For an Asian country they are very open towards sex imo
/r/seduction09/03/19 10:10 PM
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I've been to Bangkok, I've banged a bunch of legit chicks from there, from tinder aswell. What you say is a gross exaggeration. Tell me more about how cozy your cave is
/r/seduction09/03/19 09:55 PM
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