How unfair life is. It all comes down to genetics.

Actually, I doubt so guys.

My whole childhood and teenage years I've been called ugly (and fat at some point). Up to a few years ago I was also persuaded that being tall was ugly and stupid. Now, people call me handsome all the fucking time. I'm still the same one, with the same face and overall body shape.

That made me think about it, a lot.

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Isn’t that obvious that women and men alike are attracted more to what’s beautiful to look at ?

Now, since you’re a small baby kid you’ve heard about the hot and cool guys getting more girls right ? It doesn’t help that they are almost always super handsome if they are also confident, successful and getting laid a lot.

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In truth, regarding looks, I think that only two things really matter.

Instead of Are you hot ? I believe it's more about how confident you appear and what your appearance says about you.

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I heard there was a famous post about that on this reddit but it got deleted a while ago. I want to open the discussion again.

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I wrote a full article about this on my new blog. I wish I can share and help others. Guys, check it out, that means a lot for me.

https://insaneflirt.wordpress.com/2018/11/12/why-looks-dont-matter/