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| 1 | The Easiest and Quickest Way To Get Into STATE In Field'state' is just mood. You can only control it so much. JUst like you can't just 'decide' to he happy when you're having an awful day Obviously if you go out with a really handsome dude (one of your examples) and girls are throwing themselves at him to do him being attractive, and you are the ugly guy trying to instead use 'game' to make them attracted but just get rejected all night, your 'state' will likely drop tbh | /r/seduction | 21/01/20 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Game is really just flirting100% agree. | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 09:28 PM |
| 18 | How do people get girls they meet online to fly over to meet them is beyond me.get him to send you ALL commnication from the open and the post it here on seddit (deleting personal info) We might learn something Although I imagine it's more a case of him just being 100% her physical type as well as her being a bit nuts, plus him saying teh right stuff. Perfect storm | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 09:25 PM |
| 1 | The end of RSD?max is very handsome. If he was tall he'd be a gigga chad | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Any guys on here have experience with cosmetic facial surgery? Specifically to define one’s chin/jawline?Well, unsurpisingly, if one is 'good looking' then you are MUCH more likely to be 'attractive' too a girl which will make hooking up easier. Girls care about 'looks' as much as us guys do, in my experience. I wouldn't generally recommend any drastic surgeries personally, as they can be SUPER expensive and dangerous, and also it doesn't always ending up looking how you'd like! scary Having said that, there was a guy on the RSD forums who got lots of work done and went from 'incel' to 'slayer' pur… | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 08:28 PM |
| 2 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away advicewhat does the first 1-2mins of a nightgame approach (say in a bar) look like for you? Super natural 'boring'/getting to know you talk but with good sub coms etc? Routines? stacking material? If so, give examples. How do you open? etc (my issue is reaching the 'hook' point on girls who aren't into my looks. ps - I found this easier in teh US than here in teh UK!!) | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Do you think 'game' works in the traditional sense?I dunno. Maybe i'm weird but even if I hate a girl, if she is 100% my physical type and hot as shit, I still wanna bang her more than anything lol | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 01:49 PM |
| 7 | The end of RSD?Where have you been? They essentially ended it months back! Got away from 'game' and into meditation and trauma and self help etc. Max uses his money and good looks to start some sort of modelling agency in Russia or some shit and he bangs all the hot teenage model wannabes lol. Julien got married The rest just left pickup - Jeffy trying to hang on by a thread, it would seem | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Why do people think that I have such an advantage because I’m 6’2”?OK, now we're getting somewhere. I had to ask you that because people have VERY different definitions of what game is. Some say you are only 'running game' if you neg her and use an opinion opener and use push-pull lines and routines and psychological tricks and cold reads etc etc etc. (otherwise you are simply 'talking too a girl' even if you are funny and stuff) So, he has the fundamentals covered. He isn't shy. Good body language. Holds eye contact etc. (Most people who have had girls kind of… | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Why do people think that I have such an advantage because I’m 6’2”?well, define 'game'. I could elaborate now, but I want to hear what you think I mean | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 10:31 PM |
| 19 | Why do people think that I have such an advantage because I’m 6’2”?It's a bit of an advantage, but not huge by itself. Height is simply an element of 'looks' (which IS a gigantic advantage) If you were tall AND ripped AND had a chisled, handsome face, then yeah, THAT'S a monsterous advantage!! But just being 6ft2 isn't necessarily that big of a deal My biggest 'incel' friend is actually fairly tall (about 6ft 2 in fact). But he's not 'handsome', he's slightly out of shape, and he doesn't any much 'charisma' or 'game' if you like. I'm not certain he's ever gotte… | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Do dry conversation starts always mean that girls are disinterested?Honestly, I've tried all that. I think it's usually just a matter of someone not being their type. The same as no matter what some girl who you weren't attracted to you said, you still probably wouldn't really wanna talk to her for too long (and certainly wouldn't wanna bang her) lol | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 06:12 PM |
| 3 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?i don't think you can learn from each encounter. Sometimes you might THINK you learnt something ''Hey, that girl liked me. Maybe it was because I smiled more, or because I used that cold read, or because I approached from a different angle''. You'll never really know, though, and usually, the actual reason was that you found a girl who liked your looks/you were her type. | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 03:03 PM |
| 1 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?I feel like we're going through a period of awakening in the seduction community. We've been fed a lot of bullshit for a lot of years and we're finally gathering enough evidence to show that it was largely a hell of a lot of marketing lol Girls go largely on looks, just like we do. Sure, there are ugly guys that get some pretty girls, but it 1/through social circle (rarely cold approach) - and when it is through cold approach, it probably took him hundreds and hundreds of approaches before he lu… | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Do dry conversation starts always mean that girls are disinterested?yep, there's tonnes of 'theory' but it doesn't work in practice. You can't force attraction in someone. You can try to tease and plow and neg and cold read etc but usually it won't change a thing. She's just not interested in you. Next | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Do dry conversation starts always mean that girls are disinterested?The 'reason' is usually either you're just not their type, or they just aren't the sort of people to want to chat with strangers. And sometimes a combo of the 2. And usually it's a wasted effort trying to 'flip' these girls. Can't be done (especially if the reason is that you're jut not her type at all) | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 02:10 PM |
| 1 | I dont know why people spread this so much. Looks, really dont matter.You tend to need 'game' to seal the deal (even if she thinks you're hot) However, without 'looks' she will never ever give you a chance. She needs to be physically attracted to you. If she isn't, no amount of negs and teasing and jokes and stories, or no amount of 'being present' and 'on your path as a man' will make her want to sleep with you. This old FR shows what it's all about https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/bh9yzg/wednesday_frno_girls_and_a_yes_girl/ | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 07:08 PM |
| 1 | I dont know why people spread this so much. Looks, really dont matter.I think it does largely work the same, tbh. You notice that in all successful infields, the ones where they get laid, it was clear instanty that he had a good shot. And visa versa. The ones where he opens and the girl isn't interetsted, never ever lead too a lay The actual 'attraction' part of the equation is based on her being physically attracted to you. But you can make her laugh and feel comfortable etc with game. But not sexually attracted (unless she likes your look) I always think this ol… | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Who to follow on YouTube:He did of course fake an infield (with a kiss close) so who knows what else is fake! | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 05:36 PM |
| 1 | I can't wrap my head around this female brainI can see that the replies are along the lines of 'It doesn't matter that she's being dry. She likes you. Ask her out'' I don't think it's as simple as that. I've had girls who seemed SUPER into me go on to be kind of 'dry' the next day over text, and when I asked them out, unsurprisingly they were like 'Sorry. i'm always busy. It was nice meeting you' kind of thing lol Basically, some girls lose attraction fast or are a bit anxious at the idea of meeting up with some guy they met randomly. Mayb… | /r/seduction | 18/09/19 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Is anyone else way more confident under the influence?Yes. Everyone. That's basically what being under the influence means lol | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 05:50 PM |
| 2 | FR 16.09.19Respecting the lack of approach anxiety, bro! Good stuff. It's basically 99% of 'game'. You will eventually stumble upon a strong 'yes girl' who is single and attracted to you, and from that point, you just need a little game to push through and close her Keep going | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Anyone know why Jesse from Simple Pickup left JumpCutDidn't Kong bang his girl (Kel) and fire Jesse? | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 03:57 PM |
| 2 | 'Nowhere' interactions frustrate me more than harsh rejectionsI know what you're saying, but in some sets, I can 'feel' the attraction. It's in her eyes and the tiny subtle movements. In these situations, flirting comes naturally But when I don't sense attraction despite my teasing and cold reads etc and the conversation is staying kind of surface level, I can't think of the lines to try to test the waters and flirt since she's not giving me much if taht makes sense. IN the past i've experimented with statments of intent and stuff in sets where I DON'T fee… | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Everybody sucks before doing 100 approaches. Don't complain, approach.good stuff. As I say, there's people who have bagned 500 girls with super direct game, or 500 girls using their own method which is like no other etc etc. I personally feel it's all largely irrelevant, but that's going off onto a whole new tangent, so we'll just leave it at that I guess lol Good luck | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Everybody sucks before doing 100 approaches. Don't complain, approach.I tend to use indirect game for what it's worth, but at the same time, I feel like there's so much evidence of people obliterating mysteries results and breaking every single one of his rules, that there's clearly many ways to skin a cat I also think it's designed for a certain type of girl/environment Even a playful 'neg' at the open on UK girls where I live will get you a very harsh rejection (if she doesn't think you're handsome) for example, lol As I say, I tend to run more indirect game (an… | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Everybody sucks before doing 100 approaches. Don't complain, approach.PUA's are LOADED! I speak too a few of them on youtube and konw what they earn. I predict the industry will explode soon with millions of 'PUA coahces running around charging 3k weekend bootcamps since there's no regulation and stuff (obviously!!) It's a good job for handsome dudes, basically!! Do it as a side gig if you are good looking and get rich!! | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Everybody sucks before doing 100 approaches. Don't complain, approach.It means 'read the Mystery Method and approach exactly like it says in the book' Mysterymethod is kinda outdated and will also put most newbies way too in their head, worrying about remembering DHV stories and what 'order' everything needs to be done etc (''shit, I can't say that since i'm not in A3 yet. I need to get another IOI, but she IOD'd be, so now I need to IOD her and then DHV etc etc) lol Also, most of seddit encourages direct game | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 04:14 PM |
| 1 | FRThanks. It's very much real, but there's nothing that impressive about it, tbh! Guys get laid every night. She was just a girl who had some level of physical attraction to me (a pre-requisite in my opinion) and I was able to amplify that attraction a little and escalate to sex without messing it up | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 08:28 PM |
| 2 | FRWas just a couple of silly lines like telling her I thought she was cute but that it wasn't gonna happen between us because she was clumsy (she knocked over a bottle of my beer) and sometimes I like doing physical push-pulls where i'll pull her towards me and ask her something or make a cold read, and basically whatever she replies, i'll pretend to not like her answer and i'll physically 'push' her away lol Don't over complicate it though. It's not even necessary, in my opinion. One naturally us… | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Indirect vs DirectYou're probably aware that this debate has been ongoing since 'game' became a thing, and there will never be a consensus. Lots of direct PUA's think indirect game is weak, and lots of indirect gamers think 'direct game' isn't even game at all!! (they call it ''fools mate') Fact is, there's enough evidence now online with infields etc that show both camps having wild success However, here's my personal opinion: Daygame - go direct. Stands out so much, shows confidence, and she might be on the mov… | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 04:33 PM |
| 1 | FR - Girls DO care about looks100% | /r/seduction | 21/07/19 03:04 AM |
| 1 | FR - Girls DO care about looksexactly | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 05:16 PM |
| 5 | I had better luck with chicks when I wasnt aware of "game"It's interesting, and you're NOT the first person i've seen say this! Could be a huge leap, but where are you based? I sometimes think lots of the theories (especially the actual lines themselves) are catered for US girls and tend to get a bad reaction in other countries (an example would be, in my experience, breaking rapport too early with a UK girl at night, even playfully, often seems like suicide, whereas US girls seem to respond too it!) | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 04:46 PM |
| 5 | Has learning pickup actually helped you get women?I feel like for most people, the answer seems to be 'no', but that's kind of because there's seemingly nothing to learn that you can apply in set! Like, most 'game' advice is 'be yourself!', 'what you say doesn't matter!', 'be a man on his path with hobbies!!' etc. That doesn't tend to help much when you open that hottie at the bar Any talk of 'technical game' such as negs etc is largely 'poo pooed' now, so yeah, there's nothing to 'learn' seemingly Personally, I feel like the act of getting the… | /r/seduction | 02/07/19 03:31 PM |
| 1 | SHOCKING! Thoughts on these Tinder experiments?I don't get how this is shocking, tbh. As someone who has more than 1 very handsome wing, I couldn't be less shocked lol | /r/seduction | 02/07/19 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Does opening 'direct' circumvent the need for most gamey stuffhehe, yeah, I see what you're saying! :) But on the flip side some PUA's claim that you DO want her thinking you're not interested, so as to make her think ''he's too good for me? Why isn't her interested!!? I'll MAKE him interested'' kind of thing | /r/seduction | 02/07/19 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Does opening 'direct' circumvent the need for most gamey stuffI think you can show your intent with intense eyecontact too I think so too. Although something that confuses me is that even most of the people who advocate very indirect game ''act aloof and disinterested to make her chase. Don't go direct. Don't show intent unless she does'' tend to promote direct subcommunications. (''look at her like you wanna bang her'' kind of thing) - Doesn't that defeat the purpose then of all of their indirect verbals? | /r/seduction | 02/07/19 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Worst rejection story?That's nothing! That's like 95% of my appraoches lol. It's just how girls react if you're not her physical type, basically (kind of ignoring you, not saying anything, one word answers at best etc) But I think my most mortifying one was being shoved...HARD on the dancefloor after facing towards a girl who I thought gave me an IOI lol I've also had tonnes of ''Ewwww....you've got no chance. You're a 4, I'm a 9'' kind of ones lol. And then they put their palm in your face. They can sting a bit!! | /r/seduction | 02/07/19 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Seducing a young girl, hal[f] my own age.wut? lol | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 03:50 PM |
| 1 | What to open with when there is nothing to comment on/ compliment?not saying that's 'bad' or anything, but when someone posts an FR using that type of opener and then get ignored or blown out, everyone always replies ''Dude, that's boring interview mode! You need to run actual GAME!!! She doesn't even know you and you're asking her this shit bla bla bla'' lol | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 03:41 PM |
| 0 | Why do betas always call Chad a douchebag?Jealousy. Everyone wants to be the good looking guy who gets all the girls | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 11:40 AM |
| 1 | WTF is game?chad is just a very handsome dude who has girls throwing themselves at him due to his looks. My wing/long time school friend is one of them lol | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 11:18 AM |
| 1 | A woman can't make herself want to fuck you. All she can do is give you the chance to make her feel something.correct. Other guy is wrong. You certainly can't FORCE her to be sexually attracted to you lol. 'Game' isn't some jedi mind trick lol. You're either her physical type of you're not. Simple as that. If you're not, move on and hit on other girls | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/19 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Going to clubs. I can feel when I'm talking to a girl their either not interested, or that they are replying to be nice. But I can feel the undertones. Not sure what to do.PUA wisdom is to 'plow and plow'. Basically keep talking, make assumptions, ask interesting questions etc until she opens up and show interest back and asks you stuff etc. But fact is, this will basically never really work. The reason she's being super laconic is simply because she's not interested. She's a 'no girl' as Mark Manson would say. If you're not her type, you're not her type. Whatever It's good that you're over appraoch anxiety and also good that you can obviously 'read' people (e.g -… | /r/seduction | 10/05/19 09:03 AM |
| 2 | The UK sceneNot been to Germany to game yet, but I can imagine. I did bang a German girl in Hungary recently, and we chatted about this stuff and it did sound like your culture is fairly similar to the UK in this respect. I'd estimate people would be SLIGHTLY more approachable than here though, tbh. Brits really don't tend to talk to strangers! I agree about the social circle thing. Good thinking on your part in terms of raves tbh. I think mainly, that sort of environment tends too attracted the kind of qui… | /r/seduction | 10/05/19 07:31 AM |
| 3 | The UK sceneI know ;) | /r/seduction | 10/05/19 07:29 AM |
| 4 | The UK sceneShould probably start gaming really given what you’ve said about the lack of competition! Interesting read thanks! yeah, do it! Even though US girls are 10x more approachable and probably a lot 'easier' (more likely to hookup) it can still be hard due to other guys literally jumping into your set and trying to snatch her from you/amog you. Not uncommon. It takes a new skill to keep her. That is literally a non-issue here. No guys approach a girl on her OWN, never mind a girl who looks like she m… | /r/seduction | 10/05/19 07:29 AM |
| 1 | What's your initial conversation starter with girls at night?he's right. You are so deluded and clueless dude. She ain't ever gonna get aroused if she thinks you're ugly as shit lol. | /r/seduction | 23/04/19 02:00 PM |
| 2 | I get really triggered hearing about people hooking up and talking about sex like it's so easy.well at least we have 'infields' on youtube etc to give us a clue in regards to how hookups in bars might look etc. Mine have tended to look somewhat similar. Approach girl. Try to make her laugh and act confident. Try to make observations and comments and ask her questions to keep it from getting too boring. Try to 'break rapport' a little. Maybe a little tease here or there. And IF she's into you (don't forget, this bit really is largely out of your control) she'll probably start giving you so… | /r/seduction | 17/04/19 07:10 AM |
| 14 | I get really triggered hearing about people hooking up and talking about sex like it's so easy.lol, I can relate to this. Sometimes it's little things like I saw some meme type thing on facebook and it was something about ''when you find out your boyfriend has been banging all 5 of your best friends!!'' and then reading the 'comments' and people tagging their friends etc and it's like ''How the hell do people do this!!? I literally can't imagine that happening. Like, did the girls just throw themselves at him?!! Was he super handsome? Did he initiate each time? Was it HER?? Was it somethi… | /r/seduction | 16/04/19 07:55 PM |
| 10 | Is face the most important aspect of getting girls?yes. Body and height are great, but if you have a super handsome face, you can get away with being short or not being ripped | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Whenever I’m around my attractive friend I’m literally invisible to girls.Go out with someone else, man. My wing is like model material and me and all of my other friends are invisible when he's out. It's a massive disadvantage. | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I get good at this?Sex is pretty much everywhere, and lots of perfectly good pussy goes unfucked because guys don't know what they're doing. I feel like it's more because hot young girls are VERY superficial nowadays. As much as us guys. If she doesn't look at you and think ''He's kinda handsome!'' then 'game' honestly has zero effect | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Insights on Consistently Pulling One Night Stands after 5 Years in the GameAny tips on actually 'hooking' the set after the open? I've read tonnes theory and stuff, but it seems that most 'PUA's' take advantage of the fact that they're hitting on Tourists and it makes things like a nationality cold read make sense and can help make the girl hook. BUt most of us just live in small towns with no tourists, and it just seems so hard to get a girl to 'hook' UNLESS she thinks you are handsome. (especially with UK nightgame where we girls don't tend to talk to strangers). I t… | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Approach last nightANyway, as we left, they left too, so I decided to go for it outside. I think I opened her and asker how her night was going, and she pretty much just put her palm near my face as if to say ''I'm not interested!''. I should have known. She was extremely hot lol Damn hot girls!! Their value is just sky high nowadays due to social media it's like trying to cold approach a celeb as a homeless person lol | /r/seduction | 17/02/19 09:57 PM |
| 2 | What happened to rsdnation forum?I think there's chance it's gone for good, which would suck :( Papa made some post about appointing a newe 'president' for RSD on his twitter at around the time the forum went down Tyler seemed to imply in some of his vids that he didn't really care about the forum and that it was just mainly people complaining. IN fairness it did turn into a bit of an' incel' forum recently, but there was still value. I mean, looks ARE very important. I think most people understand that now and aren't as bluepi… | /r/seduction | 16/02/19 09:17 PM |
| 17 | How to react when you kiss a chick and she bites down reaaallly hard on your lip like she's trying to hurt you. It feels like she's trying to make you angry and piss you off.In the bar or in the bedroom? In the bedroom I take that as a cue to wreck her insides with my fingers or my dick as a kind of 'punishment'. Some girls like rough stuff and her biting is a hint. In a bar I usually kinda push her away, grab her face and shake my head as if to say 'no' and then kiss her softly | /r/seduction | 15/02/19 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Is it unusual that making failed approaches somehow makes you more confident?There's a fine line. Getting out there and trying and failing can certainly raise your confidence! You feel like a man. You faced your fear. You done what 98% of guys would basically never have the balls to do (cold approach some hot young girl) Thing is, it can also kill your confidence, and it all depends on the type of rejection, and 'how' you failed, and also how often! I can give examples if you want lol. I've made lots of approaches! | /r/seduction | 15/02/19 04:30 PM |
| 3 | How Do You Guys Rank Game Skill Level?It's so hard to rate because there are other VERY important variables like looks. My best looking friends have almost zero 'game' (never tease, never neg, no DHV'ing, not much humour, nothing interesting, interview mode, not that smooth with escalation, bad at implementing ways to reduce her 'anti slut defense' with plausible deniability etc etc) and STILL get laid like rockstars. Similarly, I have friends who I think have 'game' but they still struggle to get girls. But yeah, if we assumed all … | /r/seduction | 15/02/19 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone feel like a Loser here? Is Game actually a skill set?Part of my thinking is that PUA/game etc is basically all info that every 'normal' person already knows. I don't think i've ever read anything in a PUA book (and i've read them all) that I wasn't already kind of aware of (Not that I was a natural or good with girls. But I certainly realised that humour is attractive, not being too needy, how to pass a 'shit test' a general idea of 'push/pull so as not to keep some interest and suspense etc etc) I don't think 'learning game' (god that saying make… | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 03:29 PM |
| 4 | I find cold approach easier than social circleI know what you mean. It seems so different! There's something 'care free' about hitting on some random girl at a bar (even though it can still be nerve racking). I guess it's that you'll likely never see her again for one. With something like soccer club, a job etc it can feel like you can't win. It seems super uncalibrated to 'hit on' a girl at, say, your first day at a new soccer club or in a new class at college or at your first day at some job you don't care about. Seems super keen. And it … | /r/seduction | 12/02/19 11:12 PM |
| 6 | Guys that have messaged girls on Instagram or whatever and have had success what are your tips?Basically be very good looking, and have a sick profile with thousands of followers and update every few days with you doing cool things like skydiving, going to festivals, driving your sports car, on holiday with a big group of hot girls and your guy friends etc | /r/seduction | 12/02/19 09:39 AM |
| 2 | Got rejected brutallytoo true. Some nights I can approach and some nights it's just too daunting. Every 'opener' sounds retarded in my head. I expect a painful interaction where i'm struggling to hold convo with an uninterested girl and it puts me off. And I HAVE had some pretty brutal rejections and it certainly does hurt, although strangely enough, sometimes t can help me too approach as it's like i've already got the worst out of the way! However, a full night of harsh rejections puts some very 'bad' thoughts in … | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Got rejected brutallyyou're much less likely to get told to 'go away' or something after you open in most places in the US than in the UK, tbh. | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Let me manage your tinderi've done that quite a few times tbh. It (deleting account) used to 'work' a few years back. | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Let me manage your tinderI haven't had a match in about 4 months lol. Pretty much given up on tinder until plastic surgery or something | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 01:53 PM |
| 6 | Got rejected brutallyAre you from the UK out of interest? Them kinds of reactions are normal here unless you're totally her type lookswise | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 01:49 PM |
| 8 | Any other dude find tall girls mega hot?I like 'em BIG and scared of their own shadows | /r/seduction | 09/02/19 07:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Tinder match to lay within 4 hours; full text convos attachedlesson: Be handsome in her opinion lol. Not playing it down but you can't talk about 'advanced game' banging easy af tinder girls lol. I have friends with ZERO (literally!) game who get laid every week on tinder due to handsome faces lol | /r/seduction | 05/02/19 09:08 PM |
| 1 | This Girl in SchoolChicks don't care about looks nearly as much as men do I nearly scolded you for saying this, as someone with a very handsome wing who has girls THROWING themselves at him without him saying a damn word, lol HOwever They'd rather date the 6/10 guy who's popular then the 10/10 quiet social outcast. I pretty much agree with this. That's the difference. A guy would always want to bang the 10/10 no matter WHAT she was like, whereas a girl would rather bang teh 8/10 who was fun and stuff than the weir… | /r/seduction | 05/02/19 02:43 PM |
| 1 | When you're completely out of state?(As soon as you get to 7 lays (average man has 7 partners in his life) from cold approach you are in the intermediate stage.) Yay, that means i'm intermediate :) (not that I think it's 'necessarily' an accurate test but nice to have a rough gauge. I was out with a friend of a friend last night who is known to be a massive player, and I realised that he had very little game, but he's a good looking dude and so the girls just made it SO easy for him! I winged him a few times and I could see what w… | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Is this a good sign?what's the backstory here? How'd you meet etc? | /r/seduction | 01/02/19 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Is this a good sign?lmao | /r/seduction | 01/02/19 12:19 PM |
| 2 | Is pickup manipulation? How to be naturally good with girlsOf course not. You can't MAKE her attracted to you. All the negs and push pull in the world won't make her want you if you're not her type. | /r/seduction | 31/01/19 12:05 PM |
| 1 | After Open helpthe advice is always to make assusmptions/cold reads, but to be honest, I've found them no more effective than standard interview mode. She's either into you, or she's not. If she is, interview mode will work fine as she'll pull her weight in terms of conversation and will give you signals etc, then you just escalate | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 03:07 PM |
| 7 | How do I attract white trash tattoed girls?lol, you think the badboys these girls go for respect them?!! :) haha | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 08:43 AM |
| 1 | I discovered a way to get over ten times the amount of matches on Tinderlol, I actually done this with my handsome friends photos years ago when I first tried tinder, and it kinda 'worked' in the sense that it at least got me into messages with girls i'd never have been able too. Like I had hundreds of matches in week or so. Maybe a 3rd of them would insta 'unmatch' me the second i'd message (now with my REAL pics). The rest would talk a bit, but unfortunately I wasn't able to get any of them sexually. Still an interesting method, though. | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 08:40 AM |
| 3 | Conversations with girls at bars and clubs seem to quickly fizzle out?Depending on your 'guru' showing intent (or not, in your case) is definitely not the problem. Half of the community suggest very indirect game and basically HIDING your intent until she is chasing you (girls want what they can't have. Be the chased. Be aloof etc etc). Not saying that's better' or right btw, but it proves that it can be done both ways (showing intent or not showing intent) and so it's not necessarily the reason for failure Maybe post a few interactions and go through the conversa… | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 08:31 AM |
| 1 | In my college town I'm an 8, In NYC I'm a 6. How am I supposed to compete in NYC clubs with Male Models?Dunno why you were downvoted tbh, but I get teh sense from various PUA communities I belong too that people are now very bored (and much more cynical) of the old narrative that game is some magic jedi mind trick that you 'learn' and then you can bang who you want. That idea was pushed back in 2007 but people just don't buy it anymore. Maybe the worlds changed and is more superficial? (instagram etc). Maybe people aren't as gullible? Maybe people have more evidence now that can be easily accessed… | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 08:24 AM |
| 1 | How do you remember and apply the stuff you read?Write out 10 of them 'things' now. Here. What 'stuff that you've read' do you want to be able to apply instinctively? | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 10:13 PM |
| 1 | In my college town I'm an 8, In NYC I'm a 6. How am I supposed to compete in NYC clubs with Male Models?everyone should be able to learn all there is about 'game' in about 10 mins, tbh. Unless you're talking the old school definintion so he'd need to memorise routines and remember to neg after his opinion opener etc | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 10:10 PM |
| 1 | RSD Julien's Deleted YouTube videos...Has he deleted ALL of his pickup vids? I wasn't aware of this, but from a quick search you could be right | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 09:36 AM |
| 2 | Richand La Ruina or Mystery?Mysterymethod is a nice overview on what game is imo, but I think it's kind of suicide aswell in that is puts so many guys massively in their head, thinking about what 'stage' they're at, where they are in teh sequence, images of flow charts going through their head ''She IOD's me there I think? So I need to IOD her back and then tell another DHV story?'' etc. Memorising cringey routines and stories etc. And it all comes off so awkward and robitic. I mean, a lot of peple think mystery is some PU… | /r/seduction | 26/01/19 04:27 PM |
| 3 | When I try to talk to women they walk away from me in silenceYou're making it too obvious that you're hitting on them. Not that i'm disagreeing with you, but bare in mind that seddit is very PRO direct game. (Mark Manson is like the bible here, and he advises to be super direct and vulnerable and make damn sure they know you are hitting on them) | /r/seduction | 26/01/19 10:35 AM |
| 1 | When I try to talk to women they walk away from me in silenceWhere are you? This is normal in lots of the UK for example | /r/seduction | 26/01/19 10:34 AM |
| 3 | I'm 20 and I'm not in school, where can I meet girls my age?Dating at 20 is hard because you are competing with people like me, 34 who 20 year old girls will easily go for. lol, most 18-21 years old don't want a guy over like 25 | /r/seduction | 23/01/19 01:10 PM |
| 1 | What is your definition of confidence?expecting a positive outcome | /r/seduction | 21/01/19 05:15 PM |
| 2 | A high school girl...Be aware that this sub is pretty much all Americans who don't share the same culture (and laws!) as lots of Europe. I'm in the UK and it's not a big deal here, but when I posted a field report of me banging a 17 year old (and me being 29) I got killed!!! lol (16 is legal here) All the usual ''why can't you get girls your own age!??'' nonsense, when the fact is, I can. But I just want whoever is the hottest, and most young girls are freaking hot! I'd prefer them. Also, i'm not looking for a relat… | /r/seduction | 20/01/19 04:07 PM |
| 1 | 1,000+ Laycount PUA: 5 Free Videos a Week on YouTube Plus Weekly AMA. Content Includes Infield Footage Breakdowns.(I saw his infields in his product OCCAM RAZOR) and they are not that good yeah, there's no game. Them infields would only make sense if he was some really handsome dude, and he's not. Like, anyone can do what he done (''hi can I meet you real quick, i'm a DJ, you're short i'm tall, it's my friends birthday, you're cute, do you like vodka, we have vodka, come back with me real quick. End of infield) lol. I think that's why so many people were initially suspicious and suspected something dodgy wa… | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 10:58 PM |
| 0 | Dark seduction techniques?In a word 'no'. There really aren't any secret 'techniques' that you can use to make a girl attracted to you. If there was, we'd all be using them to sleep with every single stunning girl we see lol. Not to say that 'game' doesn't exist (i.e a lack of social skills can ruin attraction, and being fun and interesting and stuff can amplify it) but forget some secret lines and stuff to override a girls brain lol. It's actually laughable when you think about it | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | I'm starting to question everything I've learned..There's basically no right or wrong. Every interaction is unique and dependent on many variables | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 04:58 PM |
| 4 | 1,000+ Laycount PUA: 5 Free Videos a Week on YouTube Plus Weekly AMA. Content Includes Infield Footage Breakdowns.I thought this dude was outed as a fraud ages ago? (I don't keep a close eye on all this stuff anymore as it's full of fraudsters and once you've banged like 50 odd (or even like 10 tbh!) girls you lose interest in the community and someone getting laids stops being 'impressive', but I thought his ex business partner exposed him as faking infields and using hookers etc and posted screenshots of his convos offering money for sex? Whatevs...) | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 12:45 PM |
| 1 | I’m a girl and I receive a lot of if “hi, do you want to hook up” on tinder. Out of curiosity, does it work sometimes ?Yeah, guys who do this are basically always gonna be very handsome (ugly guys learn very fast that this approach is suicide!), and they are also 'screening'. They send that same message to every girl who they match with (because experience tells them that it WILL work on a fair few. They don't care which ones. If he swiped right on her, she's 'good enough' to bang and he doesn't mind losing a few to get with one) Even though 'im jealous of these handsome dudes, I don't really see it as 'disrespe… | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 09:08 AM |
| 2 | I’m a girl and I receive a lot of if “hi, do you want to hook up” on tinder. Out of curiosity, does it work sometimes ?It can work, but you need to be handsome as hell (unless you are trying this on with girls who aren't that hot) My male model tier friend has banged an absolute tonne of girls (fairly hot ones) with this 'method' But tinder isn't even worth playing for average looking guys tbh. I stopped using it about 4 months back. Pointless. I'll leave it to the handsome guys lol | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 11:40 PM |
| 1 | is the fuckboy frame by tim ray from viking lifestyles any good.Not sure if the version I saw had bits missing or not, but don't think I saw barely any infield, and it wasn't very good as a product, really (although I do think he has fairly good game. Not knocking him. Just didn't think the product was very good from memory) | /r/seduction | 16/01/19 09:45 AM |
| 3 | How to get a guy to kiss me?Yeah, it just sounds like he's either a little slow on the up-take or just kinda shy. You might have to do more of the heavy lifting. Go get them lips, girl! | /r/seduction | 16/01/19 09:08 AM |
| 3 | How to get a guy to kiss me?Most guys really need to know that they aren't reading it wrong and aren't gonna get some mortifying kiss rejection lol. (at least guys who don't study this stuff!) He very likely wants to considering he keeps asking you out, so why not make it easy for him? You don't really need to be subtle. You could literally wait until a point where you're kind of giggling/flirting together or whatever, and then stare at him for a few seconds and say 'kiss me'. That's happened to me before, back when I wasn… | /r/seduction | 16/01/19 08:46 AM |
| 2 | Who is the best UK based Pickup Artist?'The night bastard', Richard Hood | /r/seduction | 12/01/19 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Bar hookupsI know it can seem baffling, but it's not really. If she thinks you're good looking, you can sense that pretty easily, and from there, it's just a matter of escalating and getting physical and then it usually 'just happens' | /r/seduction | 12/01/19 10:08 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys read and implement books?My issue with most material is that after you've finished reading it, there just seems to be so little actual PRACTICAL advice. This is partly due to the movement towards 'natural game', I guess. And the common 'what you say doesn't matter' advice. I think it's common for people to read PUA books and really try to digest it all and stuff, and then they approach a girl, possibly use a different sort of opener to what they would have before reading the book, and then after that, their actual inter… | /r/seduction | 11/01/19 11:35 PM |
| 2 | The Pain of Not Changing.What exactly do you feel it's 'too late' for out of interest? I mean, 28 is still kinda young. You can still have a good 'dating life' in theory. No reason that if you approached enough you couldn't still bang the odd 16-19 year old if you had the balls to open enough sets adn that's what you want (I managed to do this a while back and i'm older than you lol) But, yeah. UK is kinda rough. More so in some places than others. Big cities, especailly more Northern ones are much easier. It's hard in … | /r/seduction | 10/01/19 03:51 PM |
| 5 | How to spark conversations on IGMy guess would be comment on the stories that they put up, and not their photos? But how can you hold a conversation over how good someone’s dinner looks? lol. I know, right. I think insta etc is just too hollow for any advice to really help, to be honest. It's all about your pics and how good you look. They're mainly just fishing for attention. If you're handsome as hell, you can do anything, leave a comment or just like a pic or whatever, and then, if she's interested, you'll know soon enough.… | /r/seduction | 10/01/19 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Dance Floor Game @ Jane Hotellol, sounds made up, but it's' kinda funny | /r/seduction | 09/01/19 03:41 PM |
| 2 | How I solved my main sticking point and other problems with my approachesInteresting stuff. I can very much relate with BOTH of you A and B observations. With 'B' though, I don't think there's anything you can do about it. I know we all like to believe that 'game' is some sort of jedi mind black magic where we can make everyone want to bang us, but that's just not how it works in practice. If she's just giving you one words answers and clearly actively trying not to really participate and you can tell her body language is a little bit 'off' etc, then it just means th… | /r/seduction | 09/01/19 03:17 PM |
| 2 | What should I say when a girl compliments my hair?''Thanks! I grew it myself'' | /r/seduction | 09/01/19 10:12 AM |
| 1 | RSD Tyler: "If You Suck At Instagram, You Suck At Game"it's decent if you're rich, and always visiting different countries and going to expensive events etc. Demonstrates 'value' to certain girls. | /r/seduction | 08/01/19 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Is it socially acceptable to chat up a girl at her job?Guys don't like being hit on at the gym, girls don't like being hit on at work. For realz? I'd happily be hit on at my best friends funeral if she was young and hot! | /r/seduction | 08/01/19 10:24 PM |
| 68 | I was just friendzoned right?ignore her and hit on other girls in front of her. But yeah, she friendzoned you there. Sniper shot. Back of the head. Didn't even see it coming | /r/seduction | 08/01/19 06:17 PM |
| 1 | How peoole have sex when they met for Tinder dates?do you mean on the date? And when you've only had small talk/logistical texts prior to meetup? | /r/seduction | 07/01/19 01:45 PM |
| 7 | How peoole have sex when they met for Tinder dates?lots of variables. The type of girl she is. Your bio. The sort of 'chat' you had prior to meeting. How much 'game' you have (this is one instance where 'game' DOES matter, since she obviously thinks you are good looking enough to go on a date with you! If she thought you were ugly and you approached her in a bar, 'game' obviously won't work) To your question; I have a really handsome friend who used to SLAY on tinder (back when it was more popular. He rarely uses it now). Like 4 lays per week wi… | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 09:55 PM |
| 2 | By the time she's 20, how many times will an average girl have had sex?don't know why you've been downvoted. I've read the same statistics | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 10:08 AM |
| 10 | How to make a girl more comfortable being around youAre you talking about after you open from a cold appaoach? If so, Hell yeah i've got experience with it! Usually due to many variables, typically: You're not her 'type' at all (lookswise), your vibe is a bit off and you feel nervous which makes her feel nervous (state transference) your location (girls in most of the UK are nearly always gonna be much colder and less friendly to strangers than girls in the US are), the girl herself (she might just be shy. Hard to get some girls to NOT be guarded… | /r/seduction | 04/01/19 11:10 PM |
| 1 | 78 approaches this weekend and no success...field reports just get hindsight bias feedback and are a waste of time, really. Especially here. You opened direct and got reject? ''Always open indirect like mystery says!!''. You opened indirect and got rejected? ''Always open direct like Mark Manson says. Like a man!! show intent!!''. And this happens through the FR in every possible way from asking her her name (some say ''that's where you went wrong! Never ask her name!'')to everything else you can imagine! It's basically numbers game. Find… | /r/seduction | 04/01/19 04:44 PM |
| 1 | 78 approaches this weekend and no success...78 'no girls'. Whatever. Keep approaching until you find a 'yes girl' who likes your look! | /r/seduction | 04/01/19 04:41 PM |
| 8 | How do I ride the line between showing interest and making her chase me as well?basically one of the eternal issues people have when trying to learn 'game' because everyone who teaches it disagrees so much that you end up driving yourself crazy lol. Mystery says to hide intent and act aloof and uninterested etc as 'girls want what they can't have and like to chase, like a cat!'' etc. Then others advise super direct game beacuse it shows confidence in an exciting and sexy way etc. Since everything works (no matter what you do, you are doing it 'correct' in the eyes of at lea… | /r/seduction | 04/01/19 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Talking to girls that are strangers? No problem at all. Talking to girls I already know from real life? Pure fearI can 100% relate (not that i'm always 'good' with strangers, but I often find interaction with girls I kind of know to be much harder) The hardest ones actually seem to be girls that I 'kind of' know as opposed to girls I know well. For example, last week, I bumped into a girl who I had cold approach about 6 months prior and flirted heavily with (and almost kissed). But when I saw her this time after recognising her and opening her, we had the most awkward stilted convo and I just couldnt think… | /r/seduction | 03/01/19 09:57 PM |
| 4 | Women by Todd (The best work he has ever done)That way you are always going to instinctively know exactly what to say, and how to go about fixing their problems in modern society. Are you talking about their fear of being judged/looking like a slut? | /r/seduction | 03/01/19 06:57 PM |
| 0 | I keep running into this problem where women are nice and friendly and we can really vibe, but when I start to make it clear I'm interested in them sexually they pull away big time.I'd like to hear some other replies as i'm interested in this too, but in my opinion, and I hate to say it, it's just because you aren't her type lookswise :( I've been there myself tonnes of times as someone who knows 'game' but is kinda ugly. I can open, have a laugh, be flirty and self amuse, have rock solid eye contact, pass her shit tests, pushpull, demonstrate confidence bla bla bla, but the second I show some intent and she knows that this isn't just platonic, I'll get shut down. And as t… | /r/seduction | 02/01/19 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Treating her differently secured her attention [FR]A few moments into starting dancing myself I noticed her checking me out and trying to eyefuck me Game over at that point. As is always the case, girls bang dudes who think they are handsome Basically, be good looking is what we have learnt lol. | /r/seduction | 01/01/19 11:22 PM |
| 2 | What would you say to these girls to open them?just depends on what school of thought you adhere too (some say indirect is aweful, some say direct is aweful. Fact is, they both 'work' or 'don't work' lol) | /r/seduction | 01/01/19 05:33 PM |
| 2 | I've lost 70 pounds. I have a better job and living situation. I dress better and have better hygiene. And I have seen no difference to Game.Tinder is no way of measuring success. I boot it up every now and then and would only get 1 like per month, though infield says otherwise. I'm glad it isn't just me! Not saying that I get much attention in person, but on tinder I legit sometimes think my profile must be hidden, because it's like i'm invisible!! I can go like 3 months of using up all my swipes without getting a match lol | /r/seduction | 29/12/18 06:39 PM |
| 1 | I teach guys this stuff. What is your greatest challenge in seduction and dating right now?Approach anxiety (i'm thinking about seeing a doc about meds soon. Maybe an SSRI) and also 'hooking' the set. Nothing seems to work UNLESS she's basically into my looks (which is fairly rare as i'm not all that handsome) | /r/seduction | 25/12/18 01:54 PM |
| 2 | American Girls Vs European Girls? Which Ones Are More Open?Didn't watch the vid, but American girls tend to be fairly friendly and sociable with strangers. Europe varies quite a lot. Somewhere like England (especially southern) people still think it's downright strange to have a stranger approach them and talk to them. Even in a social environment like a bar, walking up too a hot girl and asking how her night is going or whatever will be met with a look of confusion and disdain for 95% of guys lol and she'll likely just give you a one word answer at bes… | /r/seduction | 21/12/18 02:41 PM |
| 4 | What are the most embarrassing mistakes youve ever made with females?Worst mistake was probably not 'making the move' when I had the girl who was every guys '10' in my bed, semi naked.Me, my really good looking friend (who she wanted to bang) and her were all at my house. It had got late, and my friend was kind of passed out down-stairs and she was on my bed and I was massaging her or some shit lol and she was just in her underwear, but knowing that she fancied my friend I just decided I was way too ugly for her, but in hindsight, I still should have given it a s… | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 03:25 PM |
| 2 | How Traveling The World & Meeting Girls From Everywhere Opens Up Your Game + InfieldThis is all PUA is, really. But it's cheapened the industry. Hooking up with girl who are travelling really is game on easy mode. I'm just not impressed when these PUA's are just hitting on travellers etc. I don't see it as 'skill'. These girls are the easiest of them all. I know from speaking to girls who are friends what they get up too when they go 'travelling'. All 'slut defence' and fear of judgement goes out the frigging window lol. If she thinks you are OK looking, it's a done deal | /r/seduction | 17/12/18 11:22 PM |
| 6 | Give me a few canned approaches for when a girl is just standing looking at phonechecking your stocks?? | /r/seduction | 16/12/18 07:26 PM |
| 3 | This sub seems so confusedi'm not claiming to be an authority. I'm just saying that if your idea of game is something that doesn't need to be learnt, then there is no learning required and i'm not sure of the point of the sub. My idea of game though is that there should be an element of influence. The idea is that if you are not very handsome, you can still 'game' a girl into wanting you. But that isn't the case here. Game in it's current form on seddit is seemingly only a game for handsome guys | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 02:18 PM |
| 1 | how to game this girl I work with?that's not really game though, to be honest. You don't need to read any game books etc to be able to do that. It's just about being physically attractive. It's basically screening as opposed to game | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 01:41 PM |
| 2 | how to game this girl I work with?u/wia20xx spoke about this a while ago. People don't think you can actually influence a girl at all anymore with 'game'. Just shoot your shot and see if she thinks you're handsome or not basically. This sub should be changed to more of a 'lookism' type sub where we can talk about how to get better looking etc | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Is the pickup/day game community dead?And girls seem more defensive when approached than 5 years ago Just the tinder effect. They have access to the guys they ACTUALLY want at their fingertips now. Getting approached by a dude nowhere near as handsome as their latest match must be a bit insulting lol | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Same Night Lay From Tinder Infield - Canadian Girl (+Texting)I don't think it's possible to turn a girl who is negative towards you. Never seen it in real life OR in infields. | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 10:12 AM |
| 2 | How to pick up girls at indoor raves?most of the girls will be high as balls on molly so it's super easy tbh | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Same Night Lay From Tinder Infield - Canadian Girl (+Texting)it's kind of game. At a stretch. Like, if a girl meets you from tinder, she obviously thinks you're hot. All you need to do is not wet yourself, and you're basically in (especially a girl who's travelling and using tinder lol! that's a girl looking to get banged!!) But the definition of 'game' has changed over the years. It used to be about making girls want you, even if you weren't her 'type' at all (not possible, but that was the idea) Now PUA's 'game' is about banging girls who are into you t… | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 12:03 AM |
| 0 | Forget about the rules. Just find some true confidence in yourself.it's true that all the rules contradict each other to the point that there can't even be such thing as 'game' in a way. How can there be a game without rules? What is there to 'learn' if 'what you say doesn't matter' for example? You can do almost anything, and it will be 'wrong' in at least the eyes of a handful of expert PUA's minds. You can almost do basically whatever you want and it will be 'right' in the eyes of other PUA's! Yeah, I had a similar epiphany to you in a way. Once I decided th… | /r/seduction | 14/12/18 10:25 AM |
| 1 | A thought experiment I just thought up, to help focus on what we should be improving about ourselves.""ugly! Like, seriously! Are you kidding me? His nose is ridiculous! He hasn't got a freaking jaw! And his hairline is way back! Plus he's short! Jesus wept. Were you high or something?? I don't get it....'' | /r/seduction | 13/12/18 01:45 PM |
| 12 | Teenage girls annoy me so much...Completely Incorrect lol. Only time you can't bang 16 year old when you are older than 18 is if you are a social worker/policeman/etc (position of authority) | /r/seduction | 13/12/18 11:11 AM |
| 6 | Teenage girls annoy me so much...I think lots of countries that have 16 or younger as age of consent have 'age gap' laws though? (which the UK doesn't, except in unusual situations like teacher dating student etc) | /r/seduction | 13/12/18 10:58 AM |
| -18 | How can i get laid in Japan as an American tourist?A lot easier to be honest. Not as easy as like The Philipenes or something, though. Go there as a white American, and it's like fishing with dynamite!! | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Does being hot also has a personality part?If i'm wrong, i'm wrong, but I really don't think so. I am not saying this as some bitter incel, by the way. I believe in game. I love it. I've done OK with girls (Nearly all lays being from cold approach too!) and i've even banged a few who are out of my league, but I still think her finding you good looking is by far the most important thing. I've used every trick in the PUA world and have read a ridiculous number of PUA books etc and so I doubt there's much that I'm unnaware of, and have neve… | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 10:31 AM |
| 4 | Does being hot also has a personality part?Honestly? Good looks are like 80% of it when it comes to someone being sexually attracted to you. If a girl thinks you are not remotely good looking (in her opinion) then no matter how you stand and what you say, it ain't gonna happen! But if she thinks you are good looking, then certainly things like mannerisms and what you say etc (game) can amplify that attraction | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 11:33 PM |
| 1 | A harsh lesson I learned about the importance of location after moving from Chicago to Atlanta.In Chicago I could go to a bar to talk to a stranger, in Atlanta I always got a stink-eye for it. This is like the UK vs US thing that Brits often talk about, but that US people don't seem to understand/believe. It effects cold approach success massively! | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 11:31 PM |
| 7 | Negativity on this subIf it's who I think you're talking about, you don't know the HALF of it!! He's made the same 4 posts about 1000 times each. (girls laughing at him at work, one about the woman at the job center and a few others)I'm not even kidding. He posts the same few posts every few days on LOTS of subs. (also on yahoo answers) He's either completely nuts or he's just a troll with a very sad life indeed!! | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Is getting women 95 percent luckKind of. I mean, you can get better at approaching and be smoother and come across more confident and witty etc etc through practice, but the overriding factor of whether she is 'attracted' to you is basically out of your control and comes down to whether you are her 'type' (usually meaning her physical type in terms of looks) | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 01:06 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - When to bail on the approach, judging lack of interestAre you in the UK out of interest? It's much more common here to have girls NOT throw anything back at you or even barely respond to your opener in my experience (unless maybe you're super handsome) In the US, ''hi, I'm jack'' is met with ''Hi Jack, i'm Kelly'' but in the UK ''Hi, i'm Jack'', is usually met with just a look of confusion and a backturn lol I get that reaction like 90% of the time. It can be an indicator of disinterest although it's best to make sure as sometimes they're just shy … | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone seen RSDMax pick up on YouTube?jmulv was exposed as a fraud recently (unsurprisingly considering his ridiculous 'lay count for like 1000' and the fact his infields were super weak and suspicious) | /r/seduction | 08/12/18 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone seen RSDMax pick up on YouTube?not really, although he's a fake and eas exposed by his ex business partner 'sonny' to be paying girls for sex using seeking arrangment lol | /r/seduction | 08/12/18 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone seen RSDMax pick up on YouTube?Yeah, the industry doesn't really help itself most of the time. There's been a tonne of really handsome 'PUA's' starting channels in the last year or 2 on youtube (people like James Tusk, that black dude (vikinglifestyles?), the dude who posts here (getinthevan or something?), Max and loads more. All just handsome dudes!) and even though they can't help being handsome, it makes lots of their tips etc kinda useless and you can't help but feel like they're getting results in SPITE of their ''game'… | /r/seduction | 08/12/18 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Are overweight girls easier to seduce then attractive girls?of course. | /r/seduction | 08/12/18 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Does tinders age range affect your elo score?Yeah, i'm 31 and banged a 17 year old last year from cold approach (16 is legal here) however, I must say that it IS much harder to do than if you were much younger to be honest. A large percentage of girls will instantly rule you out even if you have 'game' if the age gap is too big and they see you as 'old'. It's just too much of a social taboo for most girls. Although I do think you can still get fairly 'young' girls. Like lots of girl who are over, say 23 are often very open to trying someth… | /r/seduction | 08/12/18 01:30 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone seen RSDMax pick up on YouTube?yeah, he is short, but he is still very handsome facially which is the most important thing (unless you are legit midget level lol.) | /r/seduction | 08/12/18 12:00 PM |
| 4 | Has anyone seen RSDMax pick up on YouTube?His 'game' is fine, but that's really because 'game' is basically NOT being too shy and being able to hold a conversation etc which most people can do once they are comfortable with talking to strangers etc. Whether she is actually attracted to you is basically out of your control. In Max's case, yes, he is a very handsome dude (albeit on the short side, but that's OK). I have his product 'the natural' and lots of his pulls are simply because the girl thinks he's handsome, so she gives him a mas… | /r/seduction | 08/12/18 11:58 AM |
| 1 | im 24 but look like a baby and girls dont want me so i'm not going to even bother until i look older....i guesswhat about going for 16-18 year olds? (depending on what's legal where you live) | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Seduction is making me depressed.yeah, I agree that it's good to write FR's, and I do, but I tend to keep them to myself now on a word document, for my eyes only. When you actually post one online, you just get silly replies and 'tips'. ''Never ask a girl her name, that's why she rejected you!'' etc. I got bored of it. I think the real reason for a rejection 99% of the time is because you weren't her type | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 09:19 AM |
| 2 | Seduction is making me depressed.i think people largely stopped bothering posting FR's here because the same thing kept happening If he opened direct and got rejected, everyone chimed in ''No dude, always go indirect! Direct is fools-mate'' Then if someone posts an indirect appraoch and she ignores him or whatever, a different group of people chime in instead with ''Dude! She bloew you out because you went indirect and didn't show intent. YOu need to be a man and open her by telling her she's cute. None of this indirect nonsens… | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Seduction is making me depressed.I honestly think the hobby and career advice is bullshit because I do pickup with people who earn a shit ton of money and who have interesting hobbies and high levels of education but can’t pull a girl home. couldn't have said it better myself. | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Topics of conversationI think I know what you mean. In hindsight, one of the things that hurt my game was the usual typical advice about 'never asking questions, especially 'boring' ones like her name, age, where she works etc etc'' and then you start to force really strange topics of conversation so as to not 'break the rules' and you end up just not looking socially 'normal' which is kind of important! I always see people commenting on someone's FR with stuff like ''Dude, don't ask her name or anything after you op… | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Straight Up Push Game ...but it works?How?I have this good-looking friend I think You're maybe missing the wood for the trees. He's good looking. Basically, whatever he does (short of being extremely awkward and shy to the point of creeping her out) is going to 'work'. It's not his 'push' game that is doing it for him. It's his looks. I've actually tried to game similar to what you describe after getting my hands on JulienRSD's products which contain lots of pushing etc. Didn't work for me. Don't have the looks to pull it off. For refer… | /r/seduction | 23/11/18 09:27 AM |
| 1 | What are the best updated books of seduction (nightgame)?I thought mysterymethod was for nightgame? Like, I can't imagine going up too a girl in the daytime and being like '''Hey. I've only got 2 minutes, but Who lies more, men or women??!'' | /r/seduction | 22/11/18 04:59 PM |
| 2 | [FR] A day in the Mall - Cold ApproachesGood stuff. This sub needs more posts like this | /r/seduction | 22/11/18 10:44 AM |
| 1 | 10s while working retail—HOW CAN I GET A DATE?I'm not sure i could deal with this. I bet most of your colleagues are also stunning teenagers! I know it sounds weird, but I almost wouldn't want to work in that environment as i'd just fund it too frustrating to be around tonnes of hot girls who I am crushing on, but who aren't into me lol. Would feel like torture. Would prefer to work with a bunch of old dudes in a factory or something lol I did briefly have a job with lots of hot girls once and I just went home feeling frustrated and depress… | /r/seduction | 21/11/18 08:44 AM |
| 2 | Should I get surgery to change my eye color from brown to blue?contact lenses? Desio or something? | /r/seduction | 20/11/18 08:39 AM |
| 1 | [FR] finally, fuck yeah!oh, don't get me wrong. I actually do this sort of stuff all the time, but there's no getting away from the fact that the chances of the open 'working' (and her actually attempting to invest a tiny bit rather than just nodding or giving me the shortest reply possible) increase a fair bit on the rare occasion where something out of the ordinary is happening in the environment that I comment on. I guess maybe it takes the pressure off her a little for one. (since it's not about her?) | /r/seduction | 20/11/18 08:17 AM |
| 10 | [FR] finally, fuck yeah!But when the bus stoped and some guy started a drama with the ticket checking guy, i commented about it to the girl Nice. The only time I tend to have good opens that aren't awkward are like this, when something luckily happens in the environment for me to comment on to her | /r/seduction | 19/11/18 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Do looks matter ?Women aren’t retarded This made me laugh! I guess because I think it's kind of insulting how the extremes of the PUA industry try to sell us certain ideas. (not talking about the OP by the way) I was speaking too a big time mysterymethod follower (obsessed with it and has taken numerous bootcamps with him etc) recently and he honestly believes that with enough 'game', you could be 120 years old with no arms and legs and a lopsided face and if you aren't able to bang 100% of the hot 18 year old c… | /r/seduction | 19/11/18 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Going on a tinder date tomorrow, I need tipsReading this thread with interest! I've never had a date and i'm old (had some one night stands, though). Finally got a match/potential date after like 3 months of using up all my swipes each day! And she 100% my type https://imgur.com/a/ux7tcgK Idea of a date terrifies me though, and I think i'll be useless!! Like, I just imagine a really awkward stilted convo where i'm like ''Sooooo......how many brothers and sisters do you have?!!'' lol | /r/seduction | 19/11/18 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Missing out by not being in college?Can't really say for sure whether you missed out. On the one hand, you DO hear about guys talking about how college is an absolute fuck-fest and it's the best time of your life in terms of easy pussy, but you also read a lot from people who just spend their whole college life frustrated at seeing all of these beautiful teenagers who aren't interested in them and only want the handsome jock dude who is banging his way through college I guess the answer is that it's great if you are someone who gi… | /r/seduction | 19/11/18 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Has Tinder gotten worse for actually getting dates?I'm close to lining up my firts EVER tinder date (or any date for that matter) and she's hot! lol. Probably a flake, though. My first match in about 3 months of using up all my swipes each day! I feel like I only ever get a match if I 'superlike' someone. https://imgur.com/a/ux7tcgK | /r/seduction | 19/11/18 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Getting crush out of my head?Find a porn star that looks similar and binge watch!! haha. Having bad crush's is kinda rough. I'm a bit obsessed with beauty and find myself obsessing over stunning young girls I meet each week. I sometimes even make a move, but I tend not to be their 'type' (although it actually did work one time, so always worth a try I guess lol) | /r/seduction | 19/11/18 10:03 AM |
| 7 | Do looks matter ?Do looks matter ? Massively. I'll try to keep it as short at possible. She needs to think you are kinda good looking for you to have a shot at banging a girl from cold approach. Doesn't mean you have to be a male model, but she has to think you're kinida good looking. Luckily there is more 'variance' in a girls idea of 'handsome' than most would think. I am somewhat ugly and 95% of girls would likely say i'm a '5', although I banged my idea of a '9' from cold approach some time ago. She thought … | /r/seduction | 19/11/18 08:42 AM |
| 3 | Tinder hookups according to this tinder chick I've been seeing, uhh what?Admittedly I don't live with him or anything, but all of his friends know that he's 'the handsome one who get's laid all the time' kind of thing. I've certainly seen a fair few pics and messages on his phone from tinder girls and combined with what he and others have mentioned about his activities every weekend when we catch up for beers, i'd say my guess in regards to his tinder success is fairly accurare One thing I CAN confirm though (since i've seen it with my own eyes) is that hot girls THR… | /r/seduction | 19/11/18 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Tinder hookups according to this tinder chick I've been seeing, uhh what?interesting. Yeah, I'd imagine a mixture between being 'exotic' as well as using the phone rather than just texts. Moving too a different country probably where you are kind of 'unique' must be one of the best ways ever to become 'high value' and get laid easily cheers | /r/seduction | 19/11/18 08:24 AM |
| 2 | Tinder hookups according to this tinder chick I've been seeing, uhh what?lol, I won't get into it, but I really do think there is much more of a 'hookup culture' in the US compared to lots of other places. | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Tinder hookups according to this tinder chick I've been seeing, uhh what?Dunno, man. I've never lived with a slayer to be fair, but I have spent lots of time with 2 slayers. The only thing I learnt was 'be very very handsome!' lol. It's not like they did anything special. Like, at all. Girls are just super receptive to them (and even open them fairly directly in bars!) simply due to their looks. | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 10:22 PM |
| 3 | Tinder hookups according to this tinder chick I've been seeing, uhh what?Hmmm......like 'Jay' from 'the tattoo fixers' (if you're in the UK) but with more of a brad Pitt shaped jaw and maybe a touch of 'Tom Hardy' lol | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 05:11 PM |
| 18 | Tinder hookups according to this tinder chick I've been seeing, uhh what?that hurt a bit to read, tbh :( I couldn't live with a slayer. I'd feel awful! How did he (Paraguay dude) do it? You're saying he was a fat ass and still able to bang hotties from tinder? I've never known anything like that tbh. Tinder is classically for good looking guys to bang fairly hot girls, and for other guys to bang girls who are 'below' them in looks. If so, i'm very curious how he managed to pull it off! | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 01:04 PM |
| 60 | Tinder hookups according to this tinder chick I've been seeing, uhh what?Obviously depends on the girl and how 'into' her match she is. One of my super-handsome friends always bangs hotties from tinder non-stop (like 3-4 hot girls per week) and he never goes on a 'date'. Typically, they match, they exchange like 2 messages and then he invites them round to his place. She turns up, and they are banging within a few minutes. (this is why I always laugh when people talk about how you need 'game' for tinder lol) But also a fair few girls are gonna want to be taken out so… | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 09:31 AM |
| 1 | dating your co-worker?Can't offer advice really, but I love hearing how these things happen and people 'get together' (i've only ever banged girls from cold approach which feels 'different' so i'm curious) Were you just work friends and it 'just happened'?. Who made the first move? how? who initiated it from purely platonic to kind of 'flirty' or whatever? etc etc | /r/seduction | 17/11/18 08:39 AM |
| 2 | How To Spot And Overcome Bad Habits With Your Gamewriting FR's tends to lead to much more confusion when getting 'input' because everyone has their own idea of what right and wrong are, depending on who they learnt 'game' from. I could appraoch a girl and tell her I tihnk she's cute and she blows me out. The mysterymethod guys say ''Ahhh....that's where you went wrong! Never go direct! Always open with an opinion opener over the shoulder''. Or I could open indirect and open with an indirect opener and the 'direct guys' will say, ''Nahh,that's w… | /r/seduction | 17/11/18 08:32 AM |
| 4 | Why is it so hard to find someone who is successful at this in real life?He was caught using an actress in one of his infields. Not a good look! | /r/seduction | 16/11/18 10:45 PM |
| 2 | How To Spot And Overcome Bad Habits With Your Gamei've written lots of FR's but I still am never usually able to spot where I actually went 'wrong' as such. It always seems like the answer is always the same i.e - 'that particular girl wasn't into me. Nothing I could have said would have changed that'. But the exact same opener on the next girl might hook, so then was my previous opener 'right' and she was just a 'no girl'?. Isn't there too many variable to know what/if you done something 'wrong'? | /r/seduction | 16/11/18 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Why is it so hard to find someone who is successful at this in real life?It is actually quite a hard thing to find to be honest so I understand your frustration. Almost nobody is actually out there banging different hot girls from cold approach. I know 2 people who do do this, but there's nothing to learn from them. They are both extremely handsome and rely on their looks to get laid. I can't 'learn' to have a really handsome face and be tall lol. Girls literally open and come onto THEM, so it's pointless trying to copy what they 'do' The only person I knew who wasn'… | /r/seduction | 16/11/18 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Why is it so hard to find someone who is successful at this in real life?hard to take him seriously ever since the whole actress thing | /r/seduction | 16/11/18 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Is a 30 min walk a long time?About 30 mins | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 10:37 PM |
| 2 | How Long Should You ‘Stay In Set’? - some thoughts on premature ejectionGood stuff. I'm definitely a premature ejector! I only do nightgame. Lots of sets at night are instant rejections from hot girls who know how hot they are and don't seem to want to otalk to random dudes unless they are completely their physical 'type', and I figure it's OK to 'eject' in them sets rather than keep trying to plow when girls are like ''Sorry. I'm not interetsted .You're not my type, can you go away?'' after you open. They often literally turn their body away and walk away and i'll … | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 05:40 PM |
| 4 | How do some of you guys hook up with 50+ girls in a Year?This guy knows. Basically it's about going out LOTS and more importantly, targeting either girls who are travelling in your country, or targeting girls in a foreign country where your value is higher (such as being a white guy in the Philippines. That's like fishing with dynamite!) There's a reason why almost every PUA does this. It makes getting laid like 50x easieir. Look at people like pua 'bradicus' or basically 95% of other PUA's. Always Foreign girls The other way is to be genetically, aes… | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 08:27 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid the friendzone with women you'd see regularly (volunteering, meetup groups etc) without being known as a creep?Ah you're getting the info from observation. Not just observation. Like, even though i've never sat down and asked him to really give me all of the details, he has told me bits and pieces With the 17 year old, I think he just invited her to the cinema after working with her after about 1 month (this was the first one he banged at this job). I also think that she made it easy on him in terms of IOI's so he knew he wouldn't get rejected. He banged her that night and sent us all the photos. Lucky m… | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 11:20 PM |
| 2 | How do you avoid the friendzone with women you'd see regularly (volunteering, meetup groups etc) without being known as a creep?That's very interesting. And you said he takes between 2 and 6 weeks? Is that when the flirting starts or how long to bang them? This is all 'semi-guess work' as i'm only really going by a mixture of his facebook activity, and a mixture of activity in our 'group chat' thing so take it with a pinch of salt (i've never sat down with him and completley picked his brains about this stuff) I'd guess everytime a new girl works there he's friendly. I imagine within about 2-3 weeks he maybe has an idea … | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 10:38 PM |
| 3 | How do you avoid the friendzone with women you'd see regularly (volunteering, meetup groups etc) without being known as a creep?deadly serious lol Since he's been there (about 7 months) he's banged a 17 year old, an 18 year old, a 19 year old, and a good handful of early twenties girls! The whatsapp pics he sends to our group do get me jealous, so you're not alone! I don't think it's ever too late. To get the really young ones (16 is legal here) I think you need to luck out and find a girl with an older guy fetish/daddy issues, but they ARE out there. (i'm nearly as old as my friend and banged an 18 year old last year wh… | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 10:14 PM |
| 2 | How do you avoid the friendzone with women you'd see regularly (volunteering, meetup groups etc) without being known as a creep?yeah, as I say, he basically 'friendzones' himself initially, and if he senses that there's mutual attraction, he adds her on facebook and flirts with her (it's actually funny because based on his facebook activity, I always know when he's about to bang a new girl from work!) and then at some point he'll basically ask her out. How did this new dude at work get with the girl out of interest? He made the move? her? Was she already into him based on how he looks or whatever?? I like hearing about s… | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 10:11 PM |
| 4 | How do you avoid the friendzone with women you'd see regularly (volunteering, meetup groups etc) without being known as a creep?It's a tough one because, on the one hand, people always advise to show your intent and make it man-to-woman straight away etc, but on the other hand, if it's someone who you are going to keep seeing (like in a work setting or like an art class or whatever), it'd be odd behaviour to basically hit on someone in that kind of setting as soon as you meet them and would do more harm than good! (especially if she's not at all interested in you!) I have a friend who is ALWAYS banging his colleagues (he… | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 09:24 PM |
| 9 | 13 ways to make a girl want youchin up. I've been 'approached' by girls maybe 3 times in my life, and i've been going out multiple times per week for about 14 years! haha. | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 07:34 PM |
| 9 | Do your looks really matter?If she thinks you are very handsome, good looks alone are usually enough to get laid with her due to her high attraction level If she thinks you're OK looking, 'game' (appearing confident) is important and can help you seal the deal If she thinks you are ugly, no amount of game is gonna help at all if your goal is to have sex with her | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 07:18 PM |
| 6 | 13 ways to make a girl want youOh believe me, I can relate lol I have had 2 friends who are both male model calibre, and the things i've seen! I've seen one of them accidentally 'block a girl in' with his bad parking. When he exited the club, she was about to confront him, saw how handsome he was and came onto him HARD, and then he banged her in his truck about 3 minutes later! I've got tonnes of stories like that involving both of them. Girls will open them many times per night and give compliments and flirt OUTRAGEOUSLY!! l… | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 05:50 PM |
| 2 | First Ever Date Tonight!I just feel like going up to someone I have no connections with and speaking to them with a goal to impress them just for tonight is a lot easier and natural same. It's really hard to put into words, but as you say, going up too a complete stranger in a social environment and just throwing shit out there and seeing what sticks when you know you or her can just eject in 10 seconds seems easier to me than an actual 'date'. I imagine a date being like '''Soooo........do you have any brothers or sis… | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 04:50 PM |
| 45 | 13 ways to make a girl want youGenerally a very good post I'd say, although if said ugly guy has his shit together he can blow the hot guy out the water This is kind of wishful thinking and taking it a bit far lol If a girl thinks a guy is really good looking (thus her attraction is super high) as long as he doesn't completely spaz out and run 'negative game' then some ugly dude trying to tease her and spin her around etc is gonna be fighting a losing battle. I've got a few very good looking friends and feel like I could writ… | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Question for men who are 9's and 10's on the SMV scalelol, I agree that trying to 'learn' from good looking guys is a waste of time. I used to mention my really good looking wings in Field Reports sometimes, and people were always like ''Just do whatever your wings are doing!! It sounds like they know what's up if they're banging 9's every night!'' without realising that there's nothing I can learn from them. Neither have 'game'. They could be in the corner being boring and holding their beer to their chest and girls will still hit on them. That sa… | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 04:03 PM |
| 3 | First Ever Date Tonight!it's not studly tbh. I'm no 'stud' at all, older than the OP, and i've never had a date in my life (too nervous. The idea terrifies me!) and every girl i've banged has been from cold approach (same night lays) I guess different people thrive in different environments/situations | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 03:54 PM |
| 6 | Question for men who are 9's and 10's on the SMV scaleI'm ugly, but I have 2 friends who are both male model good looking. I don't get to go out with them that much now, but when I did, they'd typically get approached maybe 6 times per night on average i'd say (usually like once or twice earlier in the night, and then, past midnight when teh girls had lost their inhibitions, all bets were off and girls would hit on them non stop and try to get them to fuck them lol), so yeah, it happens. The other thing I notice when i'm out with them are the HUGE … | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 11:46 AM |
| 8 | I don't want to use Instagram, but it seems the best/easiest way to pull these daysPosting pics of yourself on insta and expecting to get girls commenting and get laid from it is only gonna work for like 5% of really good looking guys, so it's not as if most people are 'missing out' And them guys should be getting laid just fine anyway with tinder and stuff. Unless ones whole life is trying to get laid more than any other person in history, just having 1 or 2 avenues as a good looking dude should be enough lol But for most people it's just be a waste of time to try to run soci… | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 11:42 AM |
| 2 | I feel like shit when my friends are having success and I am notcould be that he's doing nothing at all wrong, though. If you're not her type, you're not her type. A really handsome guy will be most girls types, and a dude who isn't blessed with good looks might have to approach hundreds and hundreds of girls until one thinks he's kinda good looking | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 10:29 AM |
| 2 | I feel like shit when my friends are having success and I am notdon't compare to others. My best 2 friends growing up were both basically male model material and could pull every single girl they wanted with the click of their fingers. We all have our own journey and results are largely out of your control Just keep approaching and try not to take it all too seriously. Jealousy is natural, although I believe it diminishes over time. Them same friends are still banging 10's whenever they want and get approached 5 times per night by stunners, and I honestly do… | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Why your energy is so important.lets here what you say when you approach girls in bars. Give examples | /r/seduction | 12/11/18 09:34 PM |
| 2 | I'm a virgin, and a bit afraid of finally having sex. Is there a way to learn how to be good besides, y'know, doing it?being 'good at sex' is something that every single guy thinks he is yet when it comes to actually banging, he's often exactly the same as the guy next to him! You can't make your cock spin around like a hellicoptor so don't stress too much about that part of it! I learnt from girls that i've spoken too that what makes a guy 'good in bed' isn't what guys think. Guys think there must be some super secret way to move your hips, or some special technique to angle your cock to make her cum in 10 seco… | /r/seduction | 12/11/18 09:10 PM |
| -1 | What’s the best strategy for approaching girls on a college campus as a young looking guy in my 30’s?they tend to be much hotter, to be honest. Nothing wrong with wanting to bang hot teenagers at any age, relaly | /r/seduction | 12/11/18 12:06 PM |
| 4 | Nearly 600 daygame approaches, only 7 instadates, no lays - time for a bootcamp?Honestly, I don't know. I don't believe most of the stuff I read when it comes to stats, both from posters and from the coaches etc. It's easy to claim to get laid 1 in 5 or whatever, but i've heard from bootcamp students how even the 'pros' can get rejected all night long some nights. It's a big numbers game with lots of variables. Getting laid from a cold approach takes a fair bit of luck and pre-selection in my eyes. If you are lucky enough to be a handsome mofo (you are likely her physical p… | /r/seduction | 12/11/18 08:37 AM |
| 2 | problem with bringing girls around my friendsMy friends would never bang girls I'm with due to 'bro code', although I do know what you mean about girls becomming attacted to them I have like 2 male model friends who have 9's THROWING themselves at them every time they go out, and if I introduce a girl i'm with to them, I can see her drooling within seconds lol. I just don't let them meet! | /r/seduction | 12/11/18 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Tips on approaching and general tips that Ive learned! Hope it helps.examples? | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Does Mystery have some kind of supernatural powers.He's a magician. Does David Blaine have magic powers? | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Please help guys. I don't know what's wrong with me.you sounds knowledgeable. IN for tips! https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/9utg2y/opening_girls_by_themselves_late_at_night/ | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 11:53 AM |
| 0 | I'm 27, she's 18 - is the difference too much for dating?Perfectly fine (although i'm in teh UK. I gather it's more frowned upon in the US) I'm older than you and banged girls who are 18 (and even younger!) fairly recently Basically, if it's legal, do what you want | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Is JMULV Legit?Who told you he was fake, jmulv?? You can't believe a word he says (including his laycount lol) so don't worry about that. Todd is a hell of a lot better and actually has 'game'. I doubt any of his infields are fake, but you never know. It's a shady business. Take it all with a pinch of salt! But you can't go far wrong with Todd's advice. He's got lots of experience with this stuff and is a clever dude. | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Is JMULV Legit?scammer. Pays hookers for sex and was exposd by his ex business partner 'sonny'. Avoid. PS - I have his course on one of my laptops somewhere. His 'game' is the following. Opener: Hi, can I meet you real quick. Then tell her she's hot. Then tell her it's your friends birthday. Tell her you're a DJ. Ask if she likes Grey Goose vodka and then invite her back to your place - ps -girls in his infields were probably actresses in hindsight lol | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 04:24 PM |
| 1 | I think youtubers PUA have completely destroyed Pick Up and cold approachMaybe that's why most promote 'natural game' now, I guess. I can see how tehe ysterymethod stuff might have had that effect. They know that if a guy asks your opinion on something, or gives you a playful insult straight away, then this is all 'technique' from mysterymethod books lol But if someone's like 'hi, how's your night going?' then most people woulsn't associate that with some sort of 'trick'. But then, even though people promote natural game /what you say doesn't matter etc, if someone D… | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Opening girls by themselves late at night?lol. I'd like that opener myself personally if I was a girl, but i've experimented with 'random'/'funny' openers like that and I find they can get the exact same reaction as the late night girls gave me from my openers. I sometimes think i'm missing the obvious. i.e - Really hot girls only wanna be approached by really handsome dudes, and if you aren't her type, of course she's gonna just blank you and walk away (especially if her bitch shield is up for whatever reason) Anyway, out of interest, … | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 09:36 AM |
| 1 | New to clubs - getting overly consistent, harsh rejections.That's just the way it goes unless you are really extremely handsome. It's a numbers game to try to find the girls that ARE into you, so just keep going. | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Opening girls by themselves late at night?You're going to have a massive bitch shield to disarm if you're trying to game girls at 2am-3am. Thanks. I think this sums it up. . I don't feel bad anymore to be honest and don't there there's anything I could have done different. No more talking to lonesome girls at 3am for me lol! cheers!! | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Opening girls by themselves late at night?seddit often advises to comment on something about their appearance/fashion to be honest. They also say 'what you say doesn't matter'' but i'll try your (Jeffy RSD's) lines about being the next idiot of the line (althouh Todd RSD says it's a very bad frame and a bad opener) | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 08:38 AM |
| 2 | ‘I don’t get that creepy vibe from you’I always approach girls like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qZowK0NAvig | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 10:14 AM |
| 1 | 21 yo. Is cold approach out of date for my generation?To be honest, I think it IS a bit out of date nowadays! I agree completely with your observations. Everyone I know meets girls at work and school and stuff. When I go out I literally almost NEVER see people cold approach or even talk to strangers, even in bars and clubs! People go out in their 'groups' and they want to only socialise within that group only. People are glued to their phones often and don't seem to know how to react if, on the rare even, a stranger talks to them. They just aren't … | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Is getting rejected decent amount normal?yep. I agree with most of that. Haven't yet been to Poland yet, but I really want too before i'm just too old to pull hot young things! (also wanna try Hungary) UK I find to be the hardest. The instant harsh rejections seem almost common lol. I find US maybe the easiest. They are just trained to be approachable and talkative to strangers it seems, and it makes gaming them easier which leads to longer interactions which increases the chances of getting laid | /r/seduction | 04/11/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Is getting rejected decent amount normal?Even I had a higher score in my days and Im not a world class PUA That's kind of the point. Your PUA skill is fairly irrelevant in my experience. I often do things by the book and neg, tease, DHV, disqualify myself etc etc, and the girl is simply not into me. No amount of 'game' will work if you aren't her type (like the black guy/handsome guy thing etc I mentioned.) Similarly, one of my best friends is VERY handsome (the IOI's he gets are honoestly ridiculous) and even though he doesn't really … | /r/seduction | 04/11/18 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Is getting rejected decent amount normal?I'd be surprised if Mystery was actually able top BANG better than like 1 in 20 girls he approaches. People like to think game is some magical mind trick where you can bang any girl you want, but 95% of it is out of your control. YOu can't make her find you sexually attractive. Mystery's skill is that he is likely able to 'hook' a very high percentage of his sets due to his routines and stuff, but most of the time, he's not gonna have the girls wanting to bang him tbh. Don't believe the hype. I'… | /r/seduction | 03/11/18 04:57 PM |
| 5 | General thoughts on RSD Derek?Instincts tell me that he's nothing special when it comes to cold approach pickup. I get the impression that he's a clever, wealthy dude with a very strong frame who uses these attributes to help him get laid. I wouldn't be surprised if he was running 'sugar daddy' game. But I really don't think he would be much use to most people. Would be a waste of money at a guess. And yes, he also comes across as a dick from the little i've heard from him (in both Juliens and Max's RSD products). I'd avoid | /r/seduction | 03/11/18 03:02 PM |
| 5 | My most ballsy approach yet.It's just that in the UK, it's way more unusual for strangers to talk compared to the US. Every time I go to the US, i'm always amazed at how people strike up small talk convo with strangers. UK people tend to not do this. Also, on nights out, UK people are much more likely to want to stay in their social circle groups on a night out and are much less approachable than in the US where people seem to almost go out in order to meet random people from what I gather! In terms of your question, the d… | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 09:21 AM |
| 7 | My most ballsy approach yet.Nice. I like silly openers like that, personally. Especially in tEh UK where just introducing yourself like Americans always advise to do comes off super weird. Where are you based? | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 05:53 PM |
| 1 | People tell me that going to the gym would be a waste of time because I’d only get fat. Is this true??lol | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 09:51 AM |
| 3 | tired of being treated like shit20 rejections is nothing! Even a guy with amazing game could get 20 rejections in a row. If you aren't her physical type, then a rejection is always gonna be the outcome. The type of rejection you get and how harsh they are etc though, is somewhat dependent on your approach | /r/seduction | 31/10/18 10:02 PM |
| 3 | Colleague who has lost his waySounds almost identical too a few of my friends. One in paricular sounds like he could actually be 'Liam' lol (an accountant with a well paid job, his own nice place, 32, lots of hobbies where he meets various people, somewhat social, tall but not what you'd really call 'handsome' or sylish, and has 'possibly' got laid ONCE in the decade or so since i've known him) He actually does occasionally approach on nights out after he's watched me get rejected a few times lol, but doesn't tend to happen … | /r/seduction | 30/10/18 05:54 PM |
| 12 | Don't fear the friend zone. Friendships with girls are ok and she has friends who may be cute so don't be discouraged.Yeah, you always hear bad stuff about 'the friendzone' and how it can't be escaped etc, but literally like 90% of my friends relationships etc are through being 'friends' first - either socially, or work colleagues. (where they were friends for a while and slowly it just seemed to 'happen'). One of my best friends hooks up with TONNES of girls from his work, and he's always playing the 'friends' angle first. He's got it down too a fine are where he friendzones himself, get's her comfortable with… | /r/seduction | 29/10/18 04:47 PM |
| 12 | "Everything you've ever wanted is on the other side of fear"I kind of agree. For something like approach anxiety, i'm convinced that it's not so much a fear of rejection as it is a fear of not knowing what the hell to say to start and keep a 'fun' conversation going | /r/seduction | 28/10/18 05:34 PM |
| 14 | Has anyone ever been cold approached by a girl?Don't brag, mate. | /r/seduction | 27/10/18 06:19 PM |
| 12 | Has anyone ever been cold approached by a girl?Must be SUPER rare for a girl to cold approach a dude in the day! She's got balls!! (well, hopefully not literally, for your sake, but i'm still impressed with her!) You must be handsome as shit lol. I've been approached maybe twice (at night time) in like 15 years of going out twice per week. However, I have 2 friends who are both like male model looking who get approached maybe 6 times per night or so! (usually pre 10pm, they'll just get HUGE IOI's from girls that a blind man couldn't miss but… | /r/seduction | 27/10/18 08:50 AM |
| 15 | In a nightclub setting; what are some conversation topics that lead to sexy flirting?You got any tattoos~? What sort of boys do you like? | /r/seduction | 26/10/18 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls date/fuck chodes?He is good looking though checks out. lol :) | /r/seduction | 26/10/18 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls date/fuck chodes?A lot of it depends on the girl which is why people who think 'game' is some black magic 'catch all' where you say the right lines and act a certain way you can bang 100% of the girls you want are wrong. I'm sure i've messed up banging certain girls because I was using 'game' and trying to be cocky and funny, but in hindsight these girls actually happened to be into more quiet, reserved, thoughtful, introverted guys and i'd have been better of 'being myself'! (but in fairness most girls go for a… | /r/seduction | 26/10/18 08:46 AM |
| 2 | Why You Should Love Rejectionbut I'm a 6f4 handsome man haha! At least you're honest! I had a feeling there would be a catch. There always is!!! Of course you're able to get results if you are good looking! That's not game though, but i'm not hating on you. I'd be banging tonnes of girls and taking advantage of good looks if I had them too! I guess my point still stands that this 'game' stuff can't make a girl want to bang you if she isn't attracted to your looks, but it can help seal the deal if she DOES think you're hands… | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Why You Should Love Rejectionwhich game things have helped you the most? You talking things like negs, DHV stories, palm reading etc? I've never found any of that stuff useful, tbh | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 08:29 PM |
| 4 | Am I bothering women?exactly. men want physically attractive women. Girls want physically attractive men. | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 06:56 PM |
| 2 | I need a starting point, but don't know where that isweird. Yeah my body langauge is good. I think maybe it's a US thing. Girls are famously friendly over there. I hear so much about them and how easy it is compared to say, Aussies, Brits, French etc where girls will just tell you to go away if they don't think you're handsome lol. Not to worry. There's always prostitutes!! :) | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 06:53 PM |
| 7 | Are there women that have standards for men approaching them?of course. Same as us dudes. If a hideous fat women comes up to you in a bar, are you gonna keep chatting and flirting with her and wanting to take her home and bang her? unlikely. Same for girls. Every girl has like a minimum threshold of handsomeness that you must meet in order to have a shot. Luckily, tastes can vary quite wildly with some hot girls. I've pulled hot girls despite being ugly, but that was because she thought I was good looking since she likes big noses and 'masculine' faces, e… | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 12:36 PM |
| 6 | Why You Should Love Rejectionmade me lol :) But yeah, it's really not about 'game' is the point, I think. If a girl thinks you are handsome, anything you say will work. If she thinks you're ugly, nothing you say will make her want to have sex with you | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 11:37 AM |
| 1 | How do you stop being jealous?Being good looking is basically to do with your bone which you can't change without surgery (make a massive nose small needs surgery, implant for a non-existent chin etc) | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Why You Should Love Rejectionthink a bit about what went wrong - you can try to improve on that What did the OP do 'wrong'? | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 09:43 AM |
| 11 | Why You Should Love Rejectionlol, i've had loads of them exact rejections, almost word for word. ''Why don't I ever get hit on by good looking guys!!! Grrr...'' and ''It ain't gonnna happen! Bye!! (backturn)'' after literally just saying 'hi' lol. I can't say i've grown in confidence from them like you though, tbh. THey make me want to just buy a sex doll and be done with it, tbh!! haha | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 08:13 AM |
| 1 | I need a starting point, but don't know where that ishi. Have you read the natural by Richard la ruina? Yeah. I've actually read possibly ever PUA book in existence lol. There doesn't appear to be any pua guys on youtube who use mystery method so the only examples I have are of mystery himself, and they all look kinda weird. I think he'd struggle bad in a club, trying to bang teens/early 20's here to be honest. Would be nice to see someone maybe trying too apply a more modern version of his method to see how it looks, but as I say, mysterymehthod … | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 08:04 AM |
| 2 | How do you stop being jealous?Nothing specific. I think the mind will do it for you over time. Maybe my hormones have just slowed down even though i'm still only in my 20's! I dunno lol. But I feel less pain when I see my perfect 10's open him in bars than what I used to feel | /r/seduction | 24/10/18 03:37 PM |
| 2 | How do you stop being jealous?You WILL learn too accept that it's just life. Handsome guys will always have sex lives that the rest of us can't evne fathom. I've honestly been cursed with handsome friends lol. More than one of my friends are male model territory, and the hotness of the girls who throw themselves at them is just crazy. But I feel less jealous now than I did say 5 years ago. I guess you slowly get slightly numb too it all having seen it every weekend, with every hot girl, for years and years in a row One thing… | /r/seduction | 24/10/18 03:25 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop being jealous?it probably IS mainly his good looks, tbh. I have the same thing with my good looking friends. Whether they are boring or 'fun', girls try so hard to bang them. Women really are just as superficial as us guys, tbh | /r/seduction | 24/10/18 03:23 PM |
| 1 | this subbreddit is the biggest cope on reddit in existence. can’t believe I wasted 2 years reading this shit and 4 years later I realize it’s only looks and money that matter to women. serioushow do you 'build attraction' with a girl if she thinks you are ugly? YOu just try to be funny and stuff? What about if a girl ignores you when you approach (which hot girls do to me in bars). What do you say to make them 'change their mind' and start to feel attracted to you? Everything I try from the books (DHV stories, cold reads etc) only ever seems to work when the girl is somewhat attracted to my looks. I fee like looks are a 100% pre-requisite! cheers | /r/seduction | 24/10/18 08:50 AM |
| 1 | I need a starting point, but don't know where that isPickup is mostly just reading stuff and then going out and trying it. Then analyze where you went wrong and try again. It's like a video game, you just play and gain exp. Guides will help. I can't think of any books other than mysterymethod which actually tells you what to say, though. SO often I find people read about 'game', but then when they open a girl and start talking, the words that come out of their mouth are basically exactly the same as they were before they read the book! Other issue… | /r/seduction | 23/10/18 10:26 PM |
| 3 | Do you set a time in the week to practice seduction, such as weekends only? How do people manage to balance this with having a full time job?how do you practice seduction exactly? What things do you do/say that you consider to be 'seduction' when you are in the grocery store? Or are you referring to actually making approaches on girls in grocery stores and telling them you think they're hot or whatever? | /r/seduction | 23/10/18 09:32 AM |
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