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How do you guys read and implement books?

Tooslowtoohappy · 2019-01-11T22:40:43+00:00

As someone who mostly learns by doing, I often feel reading books is a passive experience: rather than taking notes I just read through as I would any other...

Tooslowtoohappy

January 11, 2019

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Title	How do you guys read and implement books?
Author	Tooslowtoohappy
Upvotes	3
Comments	2
Date	January 11, 2019 10:40 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/af0yhs/how_do_you_guys_read_and_implement_books/
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[–]injesterstrust 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

My issue with most material is that after you've finished reading it, there just seems to be so little actual PRACTICAL advice. This is partly due to the movement towards 'natural game', I guess. And the common 'what you say doesn't matter' advice.

I think it's common for people to read PUA books and really try to digest it all and stuff, and then they approach a girl, possibly use a different sort of opener to what they would have before reading the book, and then after that, their actual interaction is basically identical to what it would have been without reading the book lol

The other issue that is also in part due to the lack of examples is that people know the concepts, but struggle to implement them. Someone opens a girl and maybe he knows he needs to do a role play or tease her or sexualise the convo or whatever the book suggested, but actually finding a way of doing it can seem impossible. He doesn't know HOW. Because most material doesn't tend to go into this because it's all natural game.

I've personally improved a little by practically teaching myself! Trying to memorise lines and stuff for each mini 'stage' of each interaction kinda thing

[–]Ithinkthatsthepoint 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link