I was reading some FR's here from various posters that underlines the importance of 'numbers game' and how, her being attracted to you is basically completely out of your control and the whole Mark Manson thing about 'game is played on the yes girls' and about how 'no girls' are impossible despite 'game' (they just aren't into you)

Having this in my head, instead of seeing that as a negative, I found it actually took the pressure off and I found myself opening more girls, and when I was rejected, instead of deciding it was my 'approach angle' that was the reason or whatever and stressing over likely irrelevant stuff, I just thought 'i'm not her type. Whatever' and moved on to the next.

I got rejected maybe 12 times (some actual 'rejections' like either being ignored, or told ''I'm not interested'' soon after opening and some, that I call 'rejections' where the girl was friendly and stuff, but I could sense zero attraction, and when I tried to slightly escalate at all, my suspicions were confirmed)

HOWEVER, at one point, I noticed 2 girls. One very hot blonde, and her fat friend. Her fat friend disappeared for a few seconds, and I used that to open her with a comment about her being on her own or something.

Within seconds she was asking me things like my name and where I live etc. I could sense immediate interest and, more importantly, attraction. Her friend came back and I tried to befriend her, and also had my win come in and try to talk to the friend of the girl I liked to keep her busy

We were chatting, I was making her laugh and kind of self amusing etc - I was about to start trying to test the waters with the girl I liked by taking her hand, but she beat me to the punch and grabbed my hand under teh table lol. I carried on being kind of flirty and then she was moving her face super close to mine and I went for the kiss and she was heavily into it. I broke it off first as I always do and she kept trying to initiate it

I tried to increase the comfort and asked her some stuff about herself (as I know without comfort, sometimes these things never lead to sex) but unfortunately, her friend was 100% intent on dragging her friend away from me despite my wings best efforts. She literally barged in and grabbed her friends arm, telling me that they were going. I tried to convince the girl i'd been kissing to stay, but her friend was like 16 stone and practically carried her out of there! haha

But the girl was actually very pretty so it's a mild confidence boost and shows that, even if you aren't to most girls taste looks wise, there will sometimes be hot girls out there for whom you are actually kind of handsome/attractive