lemonman456 Archive

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1	What would you guy's say the % of plates/gfs/FWB's eventually hit you back up after y'all had parted ways? (they initiated after) Fucking loser	/r/askTRP	23/10/20 04:48 PM
9	Let’s get laid in LA 🌴 Lol you look like a lesbian	/r/seduction	27/05/20 05:02 AM
2	My father hates anything masculine? How to deal with this? Beat the shit out of him	/r/askTRP	30/04/20 03:48 AM
0	How to deal with nagging beta dad? Frame your cock in his asshole	/r/askTRP	10/12/19 05:48 AM
3	To all my “below-average” looking guys The emphasis on “genetic stock” stems from a lot of fascism in the manoshpere. Even if you have a genetic disorder, you can be insanely successful in today’s world. Even in hunter gatherer times humans took care of the feeble and elderly. Humans are already weak and feeble, we’ve relied on our ability to contribute to a group for our entire existence. Giving/showing value to others has always been more attractive.	/r/seduction	05/02/19 06:57 AM
1	The Tightrope "Nice Guys" Need To Walk I disagree. Everyone loves good leaders. Wouldn’t you like to hang out with a friend that takes you to fun events and controls things so it’s a fun and safe experience? Or a passive shy friend that makes you do all the work? I’d rather be with the friend that gives value. Being a good leader is very different from being a controlling douchebag. But too be fair, these male spaces tend to conflate the two.	/r/seduction	21/01/19 06:45 PM
1	Left the gym early after noticing I was in there alone with the female front desk attendant. You’re fucking retarded. You still don’t get my point that you’re worried about something insanely rare. I am completely unconcerned with it because I’m not a coward like you are. You’re literally so terrified by women that you want to wear a bodycam. If I was accused of rape by a random woman that I met via a short conversation in the park, I’d do the same thing that I would do if she accused me of stealing her car. Hire a lawyer or something and have nothing happen to me. Because that’s how co…	/r/MGTOW	06/12/18 08:06 AM
1	Left the gym early after noticing I was in there alone with the female front desk attendant. Do you wear Kevlar all the time? Wearing Kevlar would help you if someone decided to pull a gun on you. What would you do in the case if shit like that happened? I gave you very favorable leeway for the odds of getting falsely accused of rape and it’s still tiny. Women are not out there accusing random men that look at them of rape for no reason. False rape accusations are done out of revenge and only done randomly as a sociopathic way to get out of trouble(this effects minorities way more and d…	/r/MGTOW	06/12/18 06:44 AM
0	Left the gym early after noticing I was in there alone with the female front desk attendant. Your hypothetical situation is one of the most unlikely things to ever happen. In 2017 there were only 121,745 rapes reported in the US. 38% of all rapes were perpetrated by acquaintances. (Let's assume that the same goes for accusations) That's about 46,000 rapes reported that accuse acquaintances. There are about 125 million adult men in the US So about 0.037% of adult men are accused of rape every year. Let's use your paranoia and say half are false accusations. That's a 0.0185% chance of bei…	/r/MGTOW	06/12/18 04:53 AM
0	Left the gym early after noticing I was in there alone with the female front desk attendant. I couldn’t defend myself from getting shot in the back of the head either. That’s way more likely to happen than getting accused of rape by a woman after a conversation. I’ve talked to thousands of people in my life without cameras being around. Never once have I been shot or accused of rape. You’re about as likely to win the lottery as you are to get accused of rape from a conversation	/r/MGTOW	06/12/18 03:51 AM
1	Left the gym early after noticing I was in there alone with the female front desk attendant. Do you talk to men in public? You’re way more likely to be murdered or assaulted by a man than receive false rape allegations.	/r/MGTOW	06/12/18 03:34 AM
4	Left the gym early after noticing I was in there alone with the female front desk attendant. Have you never talked to a woman without being in front of cameras? I do that literally almost everyday and so does everyone I know. What are you suggesting would happen while doing that?	/r/MGTOW	06/12/18 03:24 AM
2	Left the gym early after noticing I was in there alone with the female front desk attendant. Talking to people in public places is a normal thing to do.	/r/MGTOW	06/12/18 03:14 AM
-1	Left the gym early after noticing I was in there alone with the female front desk attendant. Is that considered a risky thing to you nerds?	/r/MGTOW	06/12/18 02:26 AM
1	Party/Nightclub Atmosphere That just means that you have to work harder and take more of these baby steps. If you have actual social anxiety, go some place else for advice. If you’re just uncomfortable in social situations, baby steps and hard work will help you improve. I’m going to assume you don’t have some undiagnosed actual anxiety. Work on all social skills first with non-sexual intentions. Focus on building social competence and finding value and honest appreciation of being social. Look up general charisma advice …	/r/seduction	04/12/18 07:26 AM
1	What to do about fake flirts? It means nothing. Only use IOIs as an “ok” to keep escalating. She may just be looking, want to flirt, makeout, etc. You never know what she wants until you escalate and get either implicit or explicit consent	/r/seduction	04/12/18 06:22 AM
1	Where the hell do you find the confidence? This is terrible advice for some locations. I moved to a more conservative state a few years ago and felt ugly because women weren’t actively showing interest anymore. They’d only show interest when I’d approach them. It’s mostly unconventionally attractive women that would openly check me out. The women I find to be more attractive actively hide their interest in me until I’d approach them. Women here have a lot of shame expressing their sexuality, so expecting them to be open about it is unrea…	/r/seduction	04/12/18 06:19 AM
1	Party/Nightclub Atmosphere Baby steps and force yourself to take them. That’s all there is to do it. There are no shortcuts	/r/seduction	04/12/18 06:08 AM
16	Something to remember: It may seem obvious, but when it comes to girls, nobody is ever “too busy.” You’re either a priority, or you’re not. It’s that simple. Nah, just get real insulted and demand for the real reason why she won’t hang out with you	/r/seduction	21/11/18 12:33 AM
1	Girls saying they felt like it was more of a friendly hang out than a date during coffee dates You can be touchy in a friendly way. Try to find excuses to touch her arm while talking. You can do that to men too, without it being sexual at all. From there make the touches more intimate	/r/seduction	19/11/18 04:38 PM
2	Do looks matter ? Women aren’t retarded. They’re not going to think a guy is attractive just because he’s confident. Women only care less about looks than men do because women are pressured to not seek sex	/r/seduction	19/11/18 04:13 PM
3	Daily reminder: never act like this dude. Never. It’s not that they don’t get the hint, they don’t care. Lots of people are entitled and can’t handle rejection. Men are the ones who approach and are physically more dangerous than women, which amplifies this stuff even more. Most guys back down pretty quickly, but the vocal and dangerous minority is still a massive problem.	/r/seduction	19/11/18 04:07 PM
21	* 5 Tips For Flirting With Women* That does work when they’re already really into you and they know that you’re into them. But at that point, you could just close.	/r/seduction	17/11/18 10:24 PM
6	What is the biggest turn off to women? (Asking women and experience from other men) Some women like the “starving artist” type if he has passion for what he does, but having money is almost always more attractive. Autism is pretty unattractive to neurotypical women, but isn’t always a deal breaker. Does your autism prevent you from meeting and befriending people? I you can befriend women, you also have the ability to attract some of them. These rules of female attraction (status, looks, game) are simply guidelines and not the only things women like. If you can’t improve those t…	/r/seduction	14/11/18 08:27 AM
1	For those of you who became studs in your 30s, can I ask you for advice? I have a friend that’s in his 30’s bragging to me about his 22 year old gf. I imagine most of the e-posters are exactly the same way. They talk their young partners up because of their age. Most quality young women stay in their age bracket unless the guy is very attractive or she simply prefers older men.	/r/seduction	11/11/18 06:16 AM
41	I went out solo last night. It sucked. But I thought of you guys. Most girls go out actively trying to not have sex with anyone. It’s risky for them and there’s a lot of shame if they hookup with a guy from a bar. So they’ll even try to keep an interaction short if they already feel attracted to a guy. Same night lays are super rare and its best to not be pushy about it. Even if one girl is interested, her friend will try to “save” her and stop it from happening. Unless a guy is several times out of her league/has amazing game it won’t happen.	/r/seduction	03/11/18 07:31 PM
4	I’m 26 and no woman has ever been interested in or attracted to me, is it because of my looks? (Pics included) You're definitely below average for looks. You're not hideous or deformed looking though, so you're still in the realm of normal looking. Even if you were hideous, people aren't threatened by hideous/people people. The deformed are mostly pitied. The biggest thing holding you back is your lack of social skills. You're probably coming off as a threat to these women, so that should be the first thing you fix. Right now you should be focusing on building up your ability to make people comfortable a…	/r/seduction	31/10/18 05:31 AM
1	Why do girls date/fuck chodes? Were there any other guys aggressively trying to get sexual with her? Bad aggressive game gets guys laid far more than decent but passive game. The odds of a guy getting laid by sending random dick pics are way higher than a guy that never pushes the interaction. Approaching and escalating are the best ways to get laid, everything else will only improve your odds.	/r/seduction	26/10/18 05:23 AM
11	So the good looking guy in my friend group is a virgin but the obnoxious one who pees on cars gets laid all the time? People that say looks don’t matter are insane. It’s like saying height isn’t important in basketball because their 5’4” friend practices everyday and is better than their 6’8” friend that never practices.	/r/seduction	24/10/18 09:54 PM
1	Just had a pretty rough approach, feeling quite shitty now I’m just imagining some dorky guy listening to music while posting on Reddit at the library and getting pissed off that some friendly super model keeps trying to hit on him.	/r/seduction	23/10/18 07:13 PM
4	I've never touched a girl before. Please don’t ask random women if you can dry hump them	/r/seduction	23/10/18 07:01 PM
2	Ask a girl why she ghosted I understand why some guys don’t want to be that guy, but I’ll never care about a relationship I’m not in more than someone that’s in it. If a girl cheats on me, I don’t blame the guy, I blame the girl. Its easier for the girl to not cheat than it is for some random guy to get laid	/r/seduction	23/10/18 06:59 PM
1	Would you go back the same girl for another go after got cock blocked by her friends If her friends are immediately cockblocking you, you fucked up. Your approach probably needs improvement. If her friends don’t approve of you, she won’t sleep with you if they’re around. Her friends are saving her from a creep, not trying to sabotage you.	/r/seduction	23/10/18 06:52 PM
2	Sometimes when I approach girls, they reject me saying they have a boyfriend. But they will talk my ear off for the next hour without me contributing at all. Why are they wasting my time like this? Out of spite? Gender studies? What’s some recommended reading material?	/r/seduction	17/10/18 06:40 PM
4	3 Logic Based Rules for "Being Good in Bed" Enthusiastic consent is important but OP is probably doing something wrong if he always has to ask. The only time you need to verbally get consent is when the girl isn’t making it easy for you to escalate or you have to stop because you need to get a condom. For example, if you reach to pull a girl’s pants down and she doesn’t help you, ask if it’s ok. But if I reach to unbutton a girl’s jeans and she lifts her butt up to help, I don’t need to ask since she’s obviously into it and helping me do …	/r/seduction	09/10/18 06:50 PM
1	Multiple girls at work showing me iois how do I play this? It’s a seasonal job, it’s completely fine to hook up with girls at a low level seasonal job. It’s an easy way to keep things casual. If the girl gets bitter, she has a year to chill out/forget about you. Besides she might never work there again either. The whole “Don’t shit where you eat” thing is for real career-type jobs, not for a gig at a Halloween store	/r/seduction	09/10/18 03:16 PM
6	This Is Why You Get Ghosted & Ignored Yup I have a friend who is very good looking and muscular and is one of the nicest guys I’ve ever met. Our other friend said “if I died you’d be the only friend I’d let date my gf”. His gf later said to him “he’s just way too nice, I couldn’t be with him”. And it’s not like she’s some psycho that likes to be abused. He just got rejected by another girl in our friend group for the same reason. He’s not nice because he’s trying to get sex from them (or his male friends) or out of insecurity, he’s …	/r/seduction	30/09/18 06:54 PM
7	This Is Why You Get Ghosted & Ignored Being at the top of the dominance hierarchies you live in is a much better way to get anything that you want. Women find status to be very attractive and your eyes aren’t open if you can’t see that. But attraction is a multi-faceted thing. The alpha/beta dynamic does oversimplify things since there are plenty of powerful men that are found to be highly unattractive. But there are also many very good looking guys that can’t attract women	/r/seduction	30/09/18 05:52 PM
2	Every girl on tinder wants to "get to know me" online before a meetup What age range are you in? It seems like Tinder is much harder when you’re out of the college age range	/r/seduction	23/09/18 07:09 PM
1	How do you approach a date when you FIRST see and meet the person? Hug he when you first see her	/r/seduction	22/09/18 01:03 AM
2	Why am I so hypocrite? Insecure women say that same thing about men all the time. If you want a virgin bride, go to church and find one. You’re just trying to use women for validation anyway, that’s why need to feel like she thinks you’re special. The problem is with you, not with women. Build up yourself and your life so you don’t need so much validation from others. The problem is with you and that’s a good thing. Learning to control and build up yourself is much easier than controlling others	/r/seduction	21/09/18 09:33 PM
1	What does it mean if a girl rests her head on your shoulder? Wow you have really unsupportive friends. The only way to know how into you a woman is, is for you to escalate. All you know now is that she’s fine with a pretty intimate level of touch with you. It’s a good sign but doesn’t mean she wants to sleep with you/date you. A woman could make out with you and still not want to sleep with you, so it’s up to you to increase the attraction/comfort that’s already there and see how far you get. You can almost always step your toes past the line that makes h…	/r/seduction	21/09/18 08:25 PM
3	53 years old...out of the game for years: is it all over? What women find physically attractive differs as much as men’s. But your odds are almost always going to be better if you focus on the basics of the SMV (fit, well-groomed, successful, and charismatic). Build up your generic attractive qualities and find your niche	/r/seduction	20/09/18 07:32 PM
18	53 years old...out of the game for years: is it all over? Plenty of younger women prefer older men, but the vast majority of older men are fat/married/unkempt. Most women in their 20’s will be less interested in a guy 20+ years older, but there are more girls into handsome older men than there are handsome older men	/r/seduction	20/09/18 06:00 PM
1	"I don't think you would hook up with girls if you were single" The topic doesn’t really matter. Making jokes/comments/whatever about your heterosexuality is a good way to not seem asexual though. But people are also less likely to think a charismatic man doesn’t get women	/r/seduction	20/09/18 12:32 AM
1	What makes an average looking guy instantly become “hot”? I like to focus on building up my SMV and try to warm up the cold approach as much as possible before hand. Build up social proof and get her to view you as a friendly sociable guy before you say anything. Talk to random groups of people around you (men are easier to talk to), approach a pretty woman/group to break the ice and walk away. The better your icebreaker, the fewer times you'll have to approach-walkaway. From there I'll actually try to have a conversation/dance with them and start to a…	/r/seduction	18/09/18 09:43 PM
1	I just got rejected on my first approach ever fuck I’d be pretty damn uncomfortable (probably scared if I was a woman) if some guy randomly came up to me asking me what my name is and then saying that they follow me on social media. OP was acting strangely and suggested that he stalks her and then immediately asking for her to invest her free time into him. I couldn’t see that kind of approach working on a woman unless he was extremely good looking/high status	/r/seduction	18/09/18 08:46 PM
2	how do i respond to "You remind me of my little brother" I’ve fucked a girl that said I remind her of her younger brother. I just responded by saying he must be a great guy and then pointing out how I’m not her brother.	/r/seduction	18/09/18 08:40 PM
1	What makes an average looking guy instantly become “hot”? You have to work on your approach. What do you usually do when you approach them? You have to seem more interesting when the girl isn’t immediately attracted to your looks	/r/seduction	18/09/18 08:39 PM
1	"I don't think you would hook up with girls if you were single" Do you think you come off as asexual? Do you try to keep interactions inoffensive and conservative? You may just be nice but boring. An unattractive obnoxious guy is going to attract more women than an average looking but boring guy. My friend is a 25 year old virgin that got jacked and started coming out of his shell. Anyone that would talk to him now would be surprised to know he’s still a virgin compared but they wouldn’t have been surprised a year ago.	/r/seduction	18/09/18 05:11 PM
4	Invited Girl to Hang with me one on one and she wants to bring friend You could still hint at it. Say something about how you’d be happy to spend time with two pretty girls. You’ll definitely want to flirt with the friend a bit while you’re out, just not too much since you prefer the other girl	/r/seduction	07/09/18 06:52 PM
3	I would just make girls like me but after that I would realise that I dont like her, I just like being liked. Yeah it’s probably that. It’s easy for most men to find a woman attractive instantly without even getting to know her personality. There are tons of women that I find attractive but wouldn’t want to hang out with	/r/seduction	07/09/18 07:51 AM
1	Is she uninterested? Escalate and see what happens. We cannot read her mind any more than you can. Escalate the friendly interactions and escalate to more romantic interactions if she reacts positively.	/r/seduction	07/09/18 12:32 AM
2	If a girl you like, but is in a relationship starts complaining about her relationship, what do you do? Do you think it makes you a dickhead? I don’t, but you shouldn’t do anything that breaks your own moral code. If a girl wants to cheat with me, I’m fine with it. I’m not going to care about someone’s relationship more than they do. If you disagree with my moral code, then don’t take her out and focus your attention on another woman	/r/seduction	07/09/18 12:28 AM
5	Woman on train starring at me..for like 40 minutes out of the 1hour trip i took. What would you have done? If the girl is checking you out, she’s already really into you. Being a little shy or nervous wont fuck up the attraction already built. Confidence makes you more attractive, but in this scenario you don’t need to increase the level of attraction at all. If a girl isn’t already into you, some confidence can change her mind. Same thing with being rich or successful. A charismatic good looking guy usually won’t need to also be rich, but an average looking guy can be considered hot with basic socia…	/r/seduction	06/09/18 11:22 PM
1	When you know she is interested, how to just go straight up to her and say something. How to act? Being good at stuff impresses people, but bragging is gross. It’s difficult finding the balance between showing off and showing that you’re good at stuff	/r/seduction	06/09/18 11:12 PM
5	Is 'remaining alpha' actually good for a long-term relationship?? Gaming is just putting in effort to seduce women. Most older married men stop gaming their wives and the sex slows down a ton and they argue like siblings. A long term relationship should not just be a partnership, it should also be sexual.	/r/seduction	06/09/18 09:23 PM
3	Why do some women do the bare minimum in regards to conversation on dating apps, but expect men to be interesting and humorous? Tinder ruined my confidence with women. I was lazy and used it because I wasn’t into the bar scene and I work a weird schedule. So I also want interacting with women IRL. I’d rarely get even average girls to match with me on it. The girls I would actually meet up with would even tell me that I’m way out of their league. Now I’m working as a bouncer and get groped and complimented every other shift. Tinder works for some guys but not for others. It doesn’t work for me so that’s why I started boun…	/r/seduction	05/09/18 07:18 AM
6	Do any of you guys have "real core confidence"? How did you develop it? Plenty of ugly losers get laid, so I can too	/r/seduction	03/09/18 06:26 AM
1	Party Girls and Party Lifestyles It’d be bolder to ask them on a date, but safer to invite them to a party. If you want to get more serious, take them on dates. If you want to party and have fun, do that instead. Do whatever you want to do and see if they want to join you, make compromises if you want to	/r/seduction	03/09/18 06:23 AM
2	Party Girls and Party Lifestyles So you’re asking if you should take women on dates?	/r/seduction	03/09/18 02:54 AM
3	Joking Around, Light Touching As We Chat, But Don't Seem To Reach A Point Where Going In For A Kiss Seems Appropriate? What Should I Work On? How is there no sexual tension? Are you doing a push-pull with your kino and keeping the conversation flowing in a fun direction?	/r/seduction	27/08/18 12:08 AM
7	How do you open conversations with girls at bars/pubs? And never tell guys “it’ll just happen”it’s just hilariously bad advice	/r/seduction	25/08/18 09:42 PM
2	You can have all the looks in the world but if you’re socially awkward, timid, and unconfident nothing will happen for you. It’s definitely a cultural thing. In more conservative areas, women approach even less. I moved to the Midwest and thought I lost my looks because women stopped looking at me so obviously.	/r/seduction	22/08/18 09:22 PM
2	Are they attracted if their eyes are glued during conversation? This post on DiCarlo's escalation ladder is pretty decent for physical escalation. Just find excuses to make physical contact. Start off with short quick touches going up the ladder and then switch to slower more overt physical contact. For the overt touches, I'd recommend restarting at the bottom of the ladder if you're in a non-sexual setting. A good way to not be a creepy molester is to always give her the ability to avoid physical contact. If you meet resistance at any step, start over. This…	/r/seduction	21/08/18 11:56 PM
8	Are they attracted if their eyes are glued during conversation? She’s not grossed out be you so you can escalate. Do little escalations until she starts to seem uncomfortable, then back off	/r/seduction	21/08/18 11:27 PM
1	Do not use tinder as a crutch Is tinder really the harder path? I think outside of college, Tinder is way harder than real life. The competition online is way stiffer	/r/seduction	13/08/18 12:08 AM
119	[FR] A girl asked for my number Can confirm. Source: I’m banging OP’s Mom	/r/seduction	12/08/18 01:55 AM
4	Field report. Feels good, but critique me. These guys are projecting their fear of women into you. Don’t listen to them. As long as you’re always respectful, no one is going to care or talk about it. I have no idea what kind of gym these guys go to, but I don’t see too many people having locker room conversations with strangers	/r/seduction	07/08/18 05:55 PM
3	Field report. Feels good, but critique me. Don’t listen to this guy. As long as you’re not a creep, she was probably flattered by it. Remain friendly but non-sexual and you might have a chance later. If she doesn’t change her mind about you, you now have a hot female acquaintance and people won’t think you’re a creep.	/r/seduction	07/08/18 05:53 PM
1	Understanding Glances from Women [Advice] Rules and regulations? Are you actually going out and taking to women? There aren’t actual rules for human interaction. People can only offer guidelines and personal anecdotes	/r/seduction	06/08/18 09:00 PM
1	Understanding Glances from Women [Advice] it's just what happens when you go out. Attraction is based on status, looks, and charm. You need to have enough of all three to get women to approach you. You can overcompensate, but it tends to be easier to have all three.	/r/seduction	06/08/18 07:53 PM
1	Understanding Glances from Women [Advice] Women don’t approach very often and if they do, they need an excuse. It happens about every other shift when I’m working as a bouncer because they have an excuse. If I’m just partying, it rarely happens and it’s after they pretend to accidentally bump into me. It’s also mostly based on a combination of the vibe I’m putting out and the vibe of the environment around me. Sometimes I’m treated like a leper, sometimes girls walk up and grind on me. Don’t worry about girls approaching you, you can’t …	/r/seduction	06/08/18 07:35 PM
1	Is inviting a teacher after graduation inappropriate? Don’t ask to be friends unless you only want to be friends. There’s a difference between being subtle and lying.	/r/seduction	06/08/18 06:55 PM
1	Understanding Glances from Women [Advice] Nope it happens in real life fairly often. I’m no bodybuilder but it happens to me a lot when I work as a bouncer but only rarely if I’m out partying.	/r/seduction	06/08/18 06:52 PM
2	Is it best to NOT go out with a very handsome wing? Have the more attractive personality. If the other girl is acting cold and disinterested, call her a bad wingman. Make a joke about how you have no problem being the fat girl of the group and cockblocking your friend. Point out that you’re not as handsome as your friend, but you don’t give a fuck about it. As long as you’re funny about it, show that you have a weakness but it doesn’t affect you. The more ostentatious a peacock’s feathers are, the more they attract mates and predators. Only a str…	/r/seduction	30/07/18 03:42 PM
4	Lost my virginity when I was 16 - I've slept with 22 different girls now, and I'm 18 yrs old. Here's my most honest guide on how I've done it. It’s just so dumb. I’m not sure how drunk men are supposed to be consenting under these rules either	/r/seduction	27/07/18 09:17 PM
7	Women need to ask men out more Nah the super models simply aren’t asking me out because of social convention. Whenever I see a guy suggest that women should take more initiative, I always assume it’s from a man that thinks he’s way more attractive than he actually is. It only takes a bit of skill to figure out when most girls are physically attracted to you. I don’t think Chad Thundercock would have to read up on IOIs since women would stare, grope, and ask for his number. PUA is only about changing the minds of the women tha…	/r/seduction	27/07/18 04:39 AM
0	Help with FB She may be nervous about meeting you and then panics and cancels. Lots of guys put women on a pedestal and can’t believe that a woman could be intimidated by a guy that they’re super into. That could be why she needs a few drinks to have sex with you. Be up front that you don’t like that she cancels last minute so much, but don’t be demanding/whiny about it. Tell her something like “I want to meet you, but I don’t want to cancel plans if you’re going to cancel last minute”. Obviously say it in y…	/r/seduction	19/07/18 05:57 PM
1	Tips for a bisexual? You won’t usually know if a woman is into you unless you ask. Make it obvious that you’re also into women. Don’t try to be her friend if that’s not what you’re looking for, it’s dishonest and manipulative. You can be her friend if that’s all she wants and you’re fine with that arrangement.	/r/seduction	18/07/18 12:39 AM
8	How do I stop coming off as the boyfriend type? Lol so don’t sleep with the women that we want to have casual sex with? It’s 2018 many women are fine with casual sex. OP is asking for advice on how to find these women.	/r/seduction	12/07/18 08:44 PM
2	Text convo went pretty well You're only socially retarded if you also can't make male friends easily. If you can't do that, I wouldn't focus too much on getting women. If you can interact with men, it's mostly just getting out of your own head and getting comfortable. Do you make sexual jokes with your guy friends? Double entendre's and stuff like that? Do that with women. It's really only creepy if you go too far too fast with it. Basically treat her like a friend that you're having fun with, but keep trying to push the b…	/r/seduction	11/07/18 10:06 PM
1	Text convo went pretty well It's great when there's an easy topic for you to talk about, but do not rely on it. If you can't talk about things that interest her, talk about things that interest you. Make sure to involve her in your topic and ask for her opinions/get her interested in your topic. If she's not interested in your topic, make a joke about your incompatibility. You're the man, you have to lead. Once she's into you she'll give you openings to lead, but you have to lead the interaction into what you want it to be…	/r/seduction	11/07/18 08:36 PM
3	Text convo went pretty well Talk about whatever you want to talk about. Ask them something you want to know. Make an assumption about her and ask if it's true. Don't worry too much about looking for topics, you should be focused on being able to start a conversation/make a connection from nothing. Mentioning something from her bio is great but rarely a good option. Plus any decent man can do that. If her bio sucks/is empty, make a joke about how bad it is. From there lead her to topics you want to talk about (a convo about…	/r/seduction	11/07/18 08:27 PM
3	[FR] Failed Attempt Out: 100 Women in 50 Days, Day 4 It's crazy how simple most of pickup sounds, but it's so much harder to actually do it.	/r/seduction	18/06/18 10:02 PM
2	How To Get Girls On Tinder I think tinder doesn't work well for guys outside of college in most areas. I'm about your age and can't even match with girls half as attractive as the ones that stare at me IRL.	/r/seduction	18/06/18 09:49 PM
16	[FR] Failed twice: Anxiety kicked in. 100 Women in 50 Days (Day 5) Sucking at something is the first step to be sorta good at something. Posts like this are definitely encouraging to guys that know that their game sucks. You still had the balls to approach and learned more from that short exchange than you could've learned from watching 1000 hours of videos. You're gonna fuck up and feel like a fool, but after a while you're gonna laugh about it because it's really not that big of a deal. We learn so much more from our failures, so thanks for sharing yours. It'…	/r/seduction	12/06/18 05:59 AM
1	I used to be a red piller. Just logged into my account after years and I'm cringing looking at the posts I've upvoted. If you try to make their sub less toxic, you get banned. I just got banned even though I was trying to be respectful when I criticized their dogma	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/18 03:40 PM
1	[META] [RANT] Tired With This Place. What Real Manhood is about. This sub fetishizes men and demonizes women. So many guys here see men as a mix of John D. Rockefeller and George Clooney. While women are seen as Lindsey Lohan clones. There are a lot of lost young men here with a thirst for something better and a distrust of women. They need a group to belong to, and women are an easy enemy to unite against. Add in some confirmation bias and cognitive dissonance, and you get the guys that see TRP as law.	/r/TheRedPill	25/05/18 06:40 AM
4	Open or poly relationships from the alpha position versus the beta position The only people on the thread that have disagreed with me are guys with clearly low SMV. I have some skinny fat teenager calling me a "beta cuck" for letting my girl fuck like one guy while I'm out of the country and fucking multiple women. Unless you're dark triad, you're going to have to be a bit beta in order to keep things working. The red pill is a guideline, not an absolute rule set.	/r/TheRedPill	22/05/18 06:34 PM
3	Open or poly relationships from the alpha position versus the beta position This guy is a skinny fat teenager that's trying to tell us how "alpha" he is. The redpill will always be full of angry stage teenagers telling people how to not get "cucked". I guess I'm a beta for letting my girl fuck a guy or two so I can have threesomes with her and her hot friends. These guys are so scared about losing "their women" to some random jagoff walking down the street. Every now and then I'll encourage a girl I'm fucking to fuck someone else so she'll feel less insecure about me fu…	/r/TheRedPill	22/05/18 05:15 AM
4	Open or poly relationships from the alpha position versus the beta position I think most guys here are intimidated by every guy that they walk past. If some random jagoff can turn her on more than her boyfriend, the boyfriend fucked up a long time ago. In an open relationship the guy should not be worried about his partner fucking every guy out there, because if he's doing everything right, they should look like dog shit compared to him.	/r/TheRedPill	22/05/18 01:19 AM
5	Open or poly relationships from the alpha position versus the beta position Do you honestly think that your plates aren't fucking other men?	/r/TheRedPill	21/05/18 09:44 PM
2	Open or poly relationships from the alpha position versus the beta position Misery loves company, they think there's a grand conspiracy out to destroy men (TRP is part of the conspiracy), they think women are evil and men are all victims, and their "blackpill" has given them the confidence that they need to spread their message of enlightenment throughout the interwebs.	/r/TheRedPill	21/05/18 09:30 PM
9	Open or poly relationships from the alpha position versus the beta position I think it also has to do with the increase of Incels here. Up until a week ago, marriage and monogamy was heavily looked down upon. Now it's being talked about something that's going to "save western civilization from crumbling".	/r/TheRedPill	21/05/18 09:12 PM
4	"It's only sexual harassment if you're unattractive" Lol are you serious? Anytime a hot pedophile teacher comes out, men every where say how lucky that boy was.	/r/TheRedPill	21/05/18 07:22 PM
-1	Jordan Peterson wants to force you into monogamy. Jordan Peterson wants you to be a slave. He is not your friend. There is so much fear of women here. People actually think that letting women have the freedom to do what they want is going to destroy all of civilization. I have no idea how this sub is simultaneously against marriage but also thinks non-monogamy is the devil. There are just a bunch of 20 year olds that romanticize the 1950's from watching the Andy Griffith show	/r/TheRedPill	20/05/18 09:18 PM
2	The Holy Trinity of Masculinity: Frame, Game, and Lifting The anger posts just let the angry stage dorks feel justified in their shitty behaviors and world view. I honestly think that it should be an insta ban for anger posts. They make the sub anti-women, and fuels male ego. Some dork saying that women are just base creatures and men are perfect shows that the poster has 0 introspection. Redpill stuff is supposed to take evo psych to its logical extreme, not sexist pornography that makes weak willed men feel good about themselves.	/r/TheRedPill	13/05/18 05:49 PM
26	In-Depth Plate Theory for Nerds: Nerdy Girls As A Proving Ground Nerdy girls usually have tons of orbiters already, but they're just bottom of the barrel guys. And being worried about your girl getting hotter and getting attention from other guys is beta as fuck	/r/TheRedPill	13/05/18 04:42 PM
8	Banned from /r/socialskills for referencing this sub. There used to be way more manipulation and misogyny before "Models" get popular. It got a bad start and basically all the gurus are creepy con artists and there are tons of guys that went off the deep end into alt-right shit. Now the core teachings are basically telling people to be a good masculine leader with a sexual aura. Before it was wearing stupid hats, negging, and magic tricks. Even now, a lot of the stuff that's talked about could be easily misconstrued as sexual harassment if the guy …	/r/seduction	10/05/18 03:20 AM
1	Seduction while Attractive versus Fat So looks aren't going to be attracting women, so do something else that will attract them while you lose the weight. Be the fun guy that they're unsure about. Being rich or famous also helps, but that's a bit extreme for a normal guy like you or me. So try to be the life of the party. Or just accept that you're fat and find someone that matches your looks. It's gonna be hard to attract beautiful women if you're not beautiful yourself. It's possible but the odds aren't in your favor.	/r/seduction	09/05/18 04:22 AM
1	On Confidence... I disagree to an extent. Confidence can be shown through simple being comfortable in the situation. Being outcome independent shows a great deal of confidence. You don't always have to be good with women to appear confident. Gratuitously accepting a rejection shows a great deal of confidence and can change a woman's mind about you. I've heard tons of horror stories about guys not taking rejection well. Having experience and competency can definitely help, but just not caring about what happens i…	/r/seduction	09/05/18 04:10 AM
1	If you are with a girl and don't know what to do next, ask yourself "How can I make this fun for us?" rather than "what's the right move." You're reading this based on an assumption that the levels of attraction and the rewards are equal on both sides. Lots of women are fine texting non-stop with some guy that's fun to talk to but not sexy enough to fuck. It's work for you, but reward for them. If you're charming enough they might start seeing you as sexy enough for them. If not, then they got some entertainment and didn't have to fuck some guy that they didn't want to fuck. If some rich handsome charming guy was talking to them, t…	/r/seduction	08/05/18 07:19 AM
1	If you are with a girl and don't know what to do next, ask yourself "How can I make this fun for us?" rather than "what's the right move." Because women don't want to talk to you. If women already wanted to talk to you, you wouldn't have to keep them entertained. Women go out of their way to make things work when they're into a guy. She doesn't have to win you over, you're the one trying to win her over.	/r/seduction	07/05/18 10:07 PM
6	Your own sense of style That article reads like it was written by a college freshman that mixed weed and adderall for the first time. Somehow buying clothes that fit is the end of western civilization and is going to make us grow tits.	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/18 11:46 PM
18	How life changed after growing muscles and getting bigger. A lesson for everyone swallowing the pill It's just a ripoff of the five stages of grief. You have a bunch of young guys here that are super bitter towards women. The anger stage posts are filled with hatred for women just because women are a bit different from men. I see a few common trends with the anger stage guys that all stem from putting women on a pedestal and then learning that women aren't perfect. Getting upset that women prefer high status, physically good looking, confident and charming men. Getting upset that women won't be…	/r/TheRedPill	29/04/18 08:53 PM
2	15+ rejections last night, heres what i learned. It sounds like you were talking to everyone and being social. Some women (like the one you were responding to) thinks that guys can't just be social with them even if the guy would like to hookup. It's ironic because they end up pushing a narrative that says "girls know men want to fuck them and will only talk to a guy if they want to fuck him". Some women have issues with men just like some men have issues with women. I'm not a rapist, and there's nothing I can do to prove to these types of wom…	/r/seduction	29/04/18 07:01 AM
3	If you don't like being even more Inferior to Women regarding opportunities then stop watching Porn! It has to do with your chakras. If you touch your ding dong too much you'll go blind and make your chakras move from your eyes to your butt.	/r/TheRedPill	11/04/18 03:51 PM
1	The Five Stages of Red Pill There is a ton of anger-stage misogyny and racism that gets heavily upvoted here. You're not paying attention if you think all or even half of the advice on this sub is good. It's mostly 19 year old neckbeards telling guys how to be "alpha" after they finally lose their virginity.	/r/TheRedPill	10/04/18 07:34 PM
3	Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 09 There are people here that actually think that being an ex-con is attractive. Too many people treat this stuff as gospel and take it to insane extremes	/r/TheRedPill	10/04/18 03:26 PM
3	Does being 5'9 negatively effect my chances with girls or am I just being insecure? Yeah, I grew up in the D.C. Area. I have no idea how this guy could think that the women are tall	/r/seduction	09/04/18 01:49 AM
1	Did I do the right thing? Why are people saying to not be her rebound? Being the rebound guy is amazing as long as you don't fall in love with her. It's all excitement with 0 commitment	/r/seduction	04/04/18 07:23 PM
-1	Did I do the right thing? Lol why she the other guy care more about the relationship than the girl in it? The first doesn't own her. If she likes OP more, then she can be with OP. Women aren't property, you can't steal women from other men. The bf should go find a woman that likes him more than OP or one that won't cheat on him. You can't make a woman cheat, she does that herself.	/r/seduction	04/04/18 07:12 PM
2	A Rant from a girl: Why it isn’t working for you… Oh ok I read too much into what you were saying. There's definitely too much objectification and misogyny on this sub. But a lot of guys are bitter that they aren't attractive to women. I'd love to see more positivity towards women and you see a lot more of that in pickup communities since "models" became popular. I don't understand the guys that spend all their time trying to impress women when they don't even respect or like them. We all want to sleep with beautiful women of good character, so…	/r/seduction	03/04/18 06:49 PM
5	A Rant from a girl: Why it isn’t working for you… That's actually the advice women are given to not seem desperate or slutty. It's a big reason why women are rarely the initiators during romantic encounters.	/r/seduction	03/04/18 02:56 PM
12	A Rant from a girl: Why it isn’t working for you… All she said was to build comfort with the women we want to sleep with. Comfort is important but doesn't do shit on its own. He left advice breeds "nice guys" that think being nice enough to women will make the women want to sleep with them. Comfort + attraction are both required to allow sex to happen. Advice like this is why so many guys will sneakily become friends with women and then get heart broken when the woman wants to remain friends. I'd rather be honest to women and make myself attrac…	/r/seduction	03/04/18 02:32 PM
16	What’s up with this sub lately though? All these posters want to think that they'll some how turn into George Clooney when they turn 40 even though they look nothing like Clooney when he was 20. It's just an easy way to not feel bad about not being good with women. "It'll be easier when I'm older" "Girls don't care about looks". It's pushed by the professional pickup artists so they can sell books and seminars. Young guys eat it up to boost their egos. It's a comforting lie. Of course status, money, and social skills usually improve …	/r/seduction	13/03/18 06:54 AM
3	AWALT- Consent is strictly optional Some guy kisses his girlfriend and you think that consent doesn't matter if you're confident enough? Good luck with your future rape charges	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/18 03:48 AM
2	Responding to "You're such a lady" shittest Be a man and give your lady a curtsy. She's in a relationship with you, she clearly likes you for who you are and feels comfortable enough teasing you for your faults.	/r/seduction	13/11/17 03:35 PM
1	First approach ever! (Cringe) Just text her. If she doesn't respond then you can stop worrying about it. At least you had the balls to approach and gained some experience. If she rejects you then at least you now have some more experience on dealing with rejection. If she does respond, now you have a girl to talk to. It's a win-win	/r/seduction	08/07/17 08:27 PM
7	I'm 20, 5'5" and look like I'm 14 The guy looks like he's 14, he probably cannot grow a beard	/r/seduction	30/04/13 03:20 AM
3	A recent revelation: The evolutionary basis for the game I was randomly searching the subreddits and saw your post (so nobody thinks that I'm actually subscribed to this subredit. No offense.) I've been reading about evolutionary psychology recently (I'm studying bio and anthropology at school) you should look up David Buss. He's an expert in Evolutionary psychology and has written a few books on human sexuality. It would really expand on these ideas, which do have some truth to them, but are mostly based on stereotypes and pseudoscience. http://www.a…	/r/seduction	19/06/12 04:13 AM