Hey,

I'm more lesbian than I am straight but I've only dated guys because every time I meet a girl, we become friends.

Even if I found out later that they're bisexual, we've already started off on a friendship vibe and I find that to be impossible to change (in my own mind and hers)

To my fellow bisexual ladies and lesbians, how do you know when a girl is into you? Do you tell her you're gay right off the bat?

I don't know if I'll ever kiss a woman because it feels like so few are gay.

I also don't want to go to gay bars or anything, I don't really drink, nor are bars my scene.