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Why would she? She is getting free stuff, period. Women value money more than you can imagine
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 08:22 PM
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Well good for you. I envy pro athletes. But next time, why don't you take it easy and don't take all the comments personally. I didn't like the analogy, but don't have a problem with you Cheers,
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 08:59 AM
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Good post. And you know what's funny? Every women knows this instinctively, by heart. We all know that the quality of sex is directly proportional to the difference between your and her SMV. There is an accountant sitting inside the brain of every woman out there. That accountant constantly counts and reevaluates this, and sends the total sum to her body. The greater the difference in your favor, the harder she will cum
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 07:47 AM
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Well I would argue. A man can get all that he wants by just dating be it casual or serious. Personally dating is all I care. Yes marriage is a business transaction but is one of the worst deals that's out there. Unfortunately your analogy is doesn't make it
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 07:43 AM
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This! If all you care is pumping and dumping bitches, why would you care about her debt or tattoos. Many men around here like to think that they are tough and red but the bluepill conditioning is so deep that it's in almost all of us. A true red pilled man would get what he wants, and is apathetic about the rest. Others, they are as blue as the skies but only wrapped in red coating. And they complain and complain about the so called decline of society. Me, I don't care!
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 07:38 AM
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I'd say a lot of ppl deep down in their gut know that a lot of life is fluff. they just can't separate themselves from the collective long enough to really see the solutions I agree with you on this one. People are not stupid. But most of the times they choose to ignore what's out there, because believing a make shift lie feels good in the short run. Who cares about the long term goals...
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 08:17 AM
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Great post. This should be labeled as tRP 2.0 It takes years of practice and experience to come to this point. This realization usually comes from some kind of meditation, be it a traditional sitting practice, or focusing on something and being persistent with it. Entitlement is the expression of this feeling that you are describing. People think that they are worthy of something, but in reality the world owes nothing to you. The system is set up in a way that it keeps on running. An individual …
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 10:51 AM
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This ! Yes the dread game will help in many situations but the intimacy that you get from someone whom you've known for a long time is on another level. I don't think you can find this from a woman that you picked up 2 am in the morning while both of you are intoxicated.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 04:54 PM
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Good right up Great ideas, even better than the OP itself
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 04:00 PM
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I have experienced all of these except for the marriage part but I still can elaborate on it thru research That right there is the problem to your approach. You have a biased option based on some theory. Let me share my experience with you and see if that makes sense. I've never been married, but had more than a few LTRs, some live in girlfriends. I will not go into a debate on the LTRs, so let's concentrate on our topic, which is the quality of sex over time (in our case familiarity) As the rel…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 03:46 PM
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I don't understand how you get so much down votes Oh wait, that's what butthurt people do, right!
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 10:38 AM
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Sad but true, right? But I want to ask you a question. You say that you understand their biological framework and you are OK with this. Have you ever thought about your own biological framework? Just asking
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 10:35 AM
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What is this? Are we giving relationship advice now? Grow a pair!
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 12:26 PM
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Simple as that, isn't it. Besides, why would she cry longer than a few days. Life goes on, and she has to move on.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 08:43 AM
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This comment is much better than the original post
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 07:20 AM
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I was expecting that these “tactics” would come from a woman but got schocked to see a guy telling all these things. Why? Why would a guy give “such terrible and sick” advise to women?!?!
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 07:14 AM
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This is weak man. You don't get it at all Put this energy, thinking and programming to make your workout routine, career, your life in general. That way you won't need to count miliseconds. Put that phone down, grow a pair and get out
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 07:32 AM
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Im offended because the entire overtone of the red pill community is dehumanizing and objectifying to women. I can't disagree with this Redpillers are one stop away from becoming incels They already are
/r/ExRedPill29/06/18 06:25 AM
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Why don't you go an check the redpillwomen sub? You might find some good advice there
/r/ExRedPill28/06/18 09:17 PM
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There are many frustrated people out there, both men and women. They are all very similar because they think that it's not their fault the world owes them something (they are entitled) the "others" are wrong I am sure that there is a female equivalent to the red pill. Because unhappy people need a place to let their anger out. They need to spread the hate. This is a given. The question is, why are you offended by such a place, or group of people? Haters gonna hate. You can't do anything to chang…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/18 09:16 PM
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Many TRPers are newcomers who are still in anger phase, and the chances are most of them will always stay at that phase. But this doesn't change the fact that there's still good information there and once in a while you will catch some helpful discussions. Take everything with a grain of salt, and ignore the haters. You'll be fine
/r/ExRedPill28/06/18 05:46 PM
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How is this related to the RP, and how did you end up in exrp? All your questions obviously stem from lack of social abilities and self esteem. Get out of the internet and build a life. There is your solution
/r/ExRedPill26/06/18 08:26 PM
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How about you answer this question yourself? Go out, test the waters yourself and see if you can score. If you can’t, improve, recalibrate and go again
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 08:48 AM
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There is nothing wrong with being a BP. But staying in that mindset is a sin. Hit the church of iron and give the last rep on all your sets to the alpha gods. May your sins be forgiven
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 10:32 AM
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Bullet dodged, lesson learned. AWALT right? Well there is a flip side to that coin. How about ABPMALT. As in All BluePill Man Are Like That. You pickup a woman from an online dating app, act like a highschool girl, pushing her to "relationship". See all the red flags but still keep her as your girlfriend. I don't know what to say. There is a saying "if a man admints his faults, he is forgiven" but you've commited too many sins. And what's with the "I'm just about to kick her out of my life" bull…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 09:12 AM
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I’ve never been married, so take everything I say with a grain of salt. It’s very strange that during the course of a decade long marriage, you have never scratched the surface of both your partner’s and your sexual fantasies. You have done this in the past, but not offered to your wife. You say it’s because of the incident that she had in the past, and it’s a very valid reason. But on the other hand, she is your wife. And it’s been 9 years. This tells me that maybe you guys have created a safe …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/18 06:34 AM
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She is clearly fucked up mentally. Do not stick your dick in this kind of crazy
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 08:16 PM
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Great quality post. Especially the part about the desires. Many people, including me, are not really intimate with their desires. Desire means drive. Drive means resilience. And resilience means success. But when you are faced with your desires, you have to meet them. That makes you responsible. Women are superficial ? Who cares, you have to find a way to meet your desires. Workplace is not ethical ? Who cares, you have to meet your desires. I just recently realized that facing your desires is a…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 06:47 PM
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Women are inherently much more clever compared to us. She will always assess your situation and how her SMV stands compared to her man. A slight change (decline) in your level, and she will constantly look out for better alternatives. We all know this as branch swinging. But the thing is, we shouldn’t be mad at women because their survival depends on their ability to always find good provider. This is how the human race was designed.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 06:42 PM
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It’s funny. All those guys in a dead bedroom marriage, they are already in the rock bottom. How low can you go from there ? A man should be comfortable to walk away with nothing out of a shitty situation, and build everything from the start. Otherwise he will be stuck in a shithole for life
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 06:37 PM
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I m in the same boat. RP is about getting what you really want out of life, only for your own good. If is a supportive relationship, than go for it. Those women, the wife material, are very few and far between but its the beauty od RP. Follow your dreams!
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 12:34 PM
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So get thee to the House of Iron, and whistle a happy tune on your way, and be grateful that you were born male, and learn to see the advantages, not just the disadvantages Wise words. It has been repeated here over and over and over again a gazillion times, but you make it sound real
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 06:46 PM
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Funny. If someone even thinks about building a place for men, all these women would protest this. But when they build women only spaces, it's normal.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 04:36 PM
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Great analogy. Liked the idea
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 10:34 AM
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Unless one gets this by heart, will never find hapiness in an LTR. But this idea brings lots of responsibility and hard work thats why its hard to internalize the idea.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 07:55 AM
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I d like to hear your take on this
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 07:39 AM
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I see that some people don't like this post. Well I say the side bar is milk for the babies, and this post is meat for the boys. You are right on about your observations on lifting. You can lift all the weight in the world, but unless you don't put that power and discipline into action, it doesn't generate any value at all. I see many insecure body builders walking around in their tight shirts, begging people to recognize them. I work out with very talented calisthenics guys who spend hours in t…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/18 08:32 AM
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Great ideas, solid post. I would like to add one important side to these already well-organized ideas. At first, you might think that you should give her the chills to ger attention and her sex. But this mindset is another expression of the blue pill mindset. Build a life for your self, for the sake of having your own fun. Let her follow you, let her work to ride with you. That's when they will try their best to stay with you.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 01:43 PM
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They just want the thrill. Don't care where it comes from
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 01:41 PM
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Fun doesn't mean positive per se, just exciting Excellent observation. Needs to have it's own post. As long as it's exiting, it is good (for women of course). They don't have moral codes for what is right or what is wrong. They just need the thrills and don't care where and how it comes from
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 01:39 PM
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Just this morning while I was at the subway to my office, I was thinking almost the same thing. We lift, we practice abundance, we work etc. but for what reason ? Getting pussy should not be the number one reason or motivation behind all this effort. I had a very nice, intimate night with a lady last night. My tanks are full now. I got all the feminity that I needed maybe more from her. It is very normal that I feel full. But if I don't get any for a period of time, I will slowly become thirsty …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 01:34 PM
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While using incognito mode is a good practice, it can only filter a little information. Yes your cookies are safe, but there are many more ways other than cookies to identify your id
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 05:45 PM
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I tried it a few times. One was successful, it turned to a NSA situation and kept going for more than a few months. And just like you say, if it doesnt work out, well you move on
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 01:20 PM
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If you have issues with BP feelings, and looking to get external validation than you will have bigger problems. Your ex or a new woman doesn't matter. So you should ask this question to yourself, why is it important for you that she accepts, approves the "new" you. If someone is waiting for that approval, he is still clearly as blue as the sky
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 11:31 AM
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185/18% bf. I used body for life almost exclusively working out, on a vegan diet. lots of protein shakes And you still have 18% BF ?!?! Something doesn't add up here
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 10:47 AM
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I was in a tough situation recently. Say, I've been involved with a woman from the work environment. I did the two things that I shouldn't, stick my dick in a crazy where I work. Anyway, I was looking a way to get myself away from the trouble. I said "I love you" to her. I didn't see her more than a few times after "the spell has broken". Bullet dodged !
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 10:43 AM
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If someone is angry about something, anything, this tell me that he still has some expectations, and those expectations are unfulfilled. Of course you can fuck your ex once in a while. If you don't expect her to deliver anything other than passionate sex, than what's the problem ? If you are sure that you won't cave in and turn into the "old" beta self, why worry ? Sex is sex. She knows your body, you know how to turn her on. You guys had fun. So enjoy it if you still can. Fuck the hamster, fuck…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 10:28 AM
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I've lived this scenario more than once. A loving, caring woman at home, and another woman on the side who is wilder who knows how to spark your desires. Since as men, most of our brain is living between our legs, I choose the "fun" one. But where are they now ? Everybody has their own agenda. Some woman try to live their twisted fantasies, and some just want to have a man that they can trust and follow. Again, I am not saying that AWALT is not true, but there are many flavors to it. Some are pl…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 12:59 PM
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Yes brother, I can feel your pain. tRP is a tough pill to swallow, and it doesn't get easier even you are way past the anger phase. There are some principles that have been repeated here thousands of times. Like being stoic, always leading etc. Yet they require constant work and so much effort. You describe the details perfectly, they love the fact that you are working for your own future, woman give you "the eyes" but once you cave in and commit to her, they loose interest. That's a given. So, …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 12:47 PM
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Good story. Feels real. I myself had a very similar experience. And I really liked the narrative. I can clearly visualize how this woman (the mistress) works hard to get into your life, and get control of you. Now, although the first thing that comes to mind is AWALT, the story goes deeper than that. This woman knew you had a girlfriend. This was her challange. She wanted that uphill battle. She wanted to "steal" away another woman's man. So, she moved lost a pawn (her time) in exchange to get a…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 10:16 AM
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Yes you can. But not in a way that you lecture them. You lead them by example. That's how you teach them
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 09:07 AM
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I thought he meant from the perspective of being a boyfriend whose girlfriend is slamming the boss. That would be a totally different story
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 07:16 AM
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It's both tough and very rewarding at the same time. Changing roles everyday from boss to BF to boss to BF creates a very strange dynamic. But on the other hand, once you breakup, it's very hard to keep managing them. In either way, I really like the experience
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 02:20 PM
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Agree with you. When you are behind the phone screen, you will be filtered out by one of the many criterias of their high expectations. But in real life, everything changes because now you are face to face, and all those rules about age, money etc. are gone. It's the confidence Vs. tingles
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 12:54 PM
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That is true. Approved by my experiences...
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 12:50 PM
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Martial arts are great for your confidence , and when you know what you’re doing and you competed once or twice no average bro will intimidate you. Yes you might still be small, but the mental toughness is still going to be there. If I have to choose between being a muscular body builder and a thin MMA fighter, I would definitely pick the latter.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 05:31 AM
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Let me share my experience with this approach. I workout mainly bodyweight fitness style, but most most principles are shared between BWF and weight lifting. My max pullup numbers are 5x5. This is equivalent to 1RM in the bodyweight world. If I hit 5x5 in the same week 2 or 3 times, I can clearly feel that it's too much for me. This is what he is referring to MRV. If I keep my sets as 4x5, which is 80% of my 1RM, I can do it 3 times a week without problems, and when I do this consistently for a …
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 10:39 PM
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This guy puts some real science into weightlifting. As he states, it should take some time to experiment on this idea and find your "landmarks", but once you do, you will have a very solid framework on how much you should push. Great information here. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 08:28 PM
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(Business) opportunities are like busses. If you miss one, you know that another one will show up
/r/seduction20/03/18 12:09 PM
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Generally it's ill advised to do this. "Don't shit where you eat" I've done it many times, in fact all the full time jobs that I had, I was intimate with someone, or some women. The problem is this, all the relationships be a LTR or a hookup, end up in a way. If you work together with that woman, you can't shake her off from your life. So most of the times the juice ain't worth the squeze, but sometimes you do it anyways. The way you ask this question, I would strongly advice you to stay away. D…
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:51 PM
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Wow ! You've gone a long way from "never stick your dick in crazy" to science them bitches up !
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 03:46 PM
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Squat is a great exercise. No doubt about that. But there is something about deadlift that make them feel better. I liked them both but especially after I discovered romanian deadlitfs, they are by far my favorite. And for me lunges come second because it involves balance, there are quite a few variations and its unilateral
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 04:59 AM
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You say that you've been lifting weights for a very long time. But I just wanted to ask, why not lunges and farmers walk ? You can change the lunges to deep or shallow and they should work your body in a similar way, but with more challange
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 08:00 PM
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Agree. Nothing beats the deadlifts. If deadlifts are the king, lunges are the queen, and squats are the princess
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 07:57 PM
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Completely agree with you. This particular woman tried to boyfriend-zone me for a long time. She used to call me darling, my man etc and i always ignored her moves. But after quite some time, she probably start to feel like she owns me because i come back to her. Lesson learned, if you see one of your plates start to get lazy, and yiu want to keep her, the best chance is to give it a break. If you keep going back to her, she’ll throw the towel adventually
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 05:11 PM
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I tried something lately. There was this middle-aged crazy woman. We hooked up from time to time for a year. I started to get bored because the sex was not passionate enough. I knew if I wanted to get out, she would start doing crazy shit. So the only thing that I had to do for a clean exit was to behave like a true blue-billy for a few times. Boom ! She is out of my life completely, clean exit
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 09:23 AM
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Remember this; There are no women on a sinking ship I am going to write this with neon lights and hang over my desk
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 07:58 PM
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I am not sure if he is aware of this but the OP is falling into the ego trap here. I did the same mistake. If a woman is stroking your ego, you should know that she is onto something. Sooner or later you will cave in, and she will eat you alive. That's why abundance is so important.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 12:16 PM
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I find this as a mistake on my part. Because if I had a stronger frame back than, I would have stayed in my own center, and she would come into my frame which would make us both happier. But no matter how strong your frame is, you still touch this person, so it's inevitable Yes the crazy women have the wildest sex drive, but there is a reason behind this idiom : never stick your dick in a crazy
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 12:06 PM
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It's not only about the woman. This applies to your friends, your coworkers, and even the environment that you live in. We are like a biological cell. Whatever lives outside, comes inside and in turn define who you are. Put shitty food in your system, and expect a good physic ? I don't think so.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 06:05 AM
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This woman that I am talking about, was raised by an abusive father and a gold digger mother. And she was very similar to the OP's woman in many ways. Had a good amount of money, the sex was abundant, she used to clean for me, buy me lots of stuff etc. But she had so many issues, that I don't remember seeing her genuinely happy. The more time I spent with this lady, she slowly passed that creepiness into my system
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 06:04 AM
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Congrats on your achievement. This relationship should have a huge boost on your ego I get it. I once had a similar relationship with a woman, maybe more than 10 years ago, but I clearly remember that she was a fucked up soul and was a broken woman. When I look back, yes the sex was great but I am not sure if it was worth it. Because the people you choose to spend your time with, shape your future self. Have fun, but be careful.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 08:02 PM
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When you do compound moves like squats, dips, lunges etc. you work your abs. I dont think its necessary to work them further. If you want to do them anyways, you should be careful about the muscle imbalances, especially between anterior and exterior chains. For every set you work your pulling muscles , you should balance with working pushing muscles
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 09:35 AM
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Just for science, right ;) Jokes aside, porn is like smoking. If you get addicted to it, you have to do it. There is almost no satisfaction, you know and feel that it's bad for your body, but you have to do it anyways. Once you give up, you realize that you don't need it. And it's gone
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 07:02 AM
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I would advise the opposite. I've been exercising for a long time, and the last two years were very consistent. I have not done one single abs exercise once. But my abs are still kind of visible. The thing about abs is that it is defined by your diet. The lower body fat, the more visible abs. So don't beat yourself with all those crunches.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 07:00 AM
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I double enjoyed it. Read it again last night, and then started reading the other articles. Liked your style. Keep up the good work
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 06:46 AM
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https://alphajedi.com/2018/03/07/predatory-efficiency/ Loved this post. Straight and to the point
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 10:06 AM
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This is very important and fundamental yet almost everybody miss this point.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 05:15 AM
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The whole point of the story, it appears, was exactly that there was understanding!!!!! “To speak ill of others is a dishonest way of praising ourselves; let us be above such transparent egotism. If you can't say good and encouraging things, say nothing.” - Will Durant Think twice about telling EC's what's what Since when the ECs are untouchable ?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 07:37 PM
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Good example of social and sexual dynamics. But here is where you went wrong. Never talk about tRP concepts. Put your money where your mounth is. They will not understand so why worry
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 01:31 PM
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Double D
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 02:55 PM
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It’s not that they are not logical. Some more some less but women have intelligence. But their emotions are so powerful and unstable that they are a slave to their feelings. This is not common but rarely you will have a very intelligent and deep conversation with a woman, and you will be amazed how easily they flip a switch and become a child again. And there is one more thing. Women are driven by fear. Fear of losing their provider, fear of being ridiculed, fear of rejection, fear of getting ol…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 10:49 AM
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This is very obvious. You are already in her frame. She tickled the white knight in you and you started playing on her scene. First things first, you should never ever try to fix a broken woman. It’s her problem, not yours. Second, never talk to her about her feelings. You will be drawn into her frame and nobody will be happy. And lastly, always listen to your gut feeling.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 10:37 AM
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But he handled your shit test well. I guess there is a reason why some of the guys become endorsed contributors
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 06:16 AM
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I remember reading about this trick 3-4 months ago. I assigned the accessibility shortcut to change my phone and tablet to black and white. This way I could easily turn back to color mode when needed. For example check the traffic on google maps, see the details of a particular image etc. Than I realized I don’t use gray scale anymore, because the phone started to lose it’s appeal. I am already away from all the social media except reddit. I stick to use whatsapp only on my pc. The phone is usua…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 06:12 AM
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Ok. This was just a meaningless event I experienced with someone I don't know of. But his reaction was not natural. Of course I don't start fights if someone bumps into me, especially in the public transport. And again, the natural response is to apologise. You say someting like "don't worry" or "no problem" and go on your own way. But I sensed the insecurity in this guy. I almost felt sorry for him.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 06:40 PM
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Nope. It was an automatic response. Not kindness or politeness. It was very evident that being submissive is his default state The new generation...
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 04:01 PM
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Today I accidentally pushed a young guy in the bus. He apologised. I was shocked. Of course you shouldn't start a fight but being too kind is something else
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 01:13 PM
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You just failed one right there ...
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 04:46 PM
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OK. I got your point and like your view. You are spot on that most of the problems any man have are caused by beta behavior. An alpha will succeed in many situations, thus will not be but hurt. Even if he fails in a certain situation, and this will happen a lot BTW, he will improve himself and keep on pushing. But I don't get why you have a problem with the shit tests. Shit tests are good for the women and men at the same time. Otherwise how would they know which guy to pick ? You gotta love the…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 04:42 PM
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We are social creatures. In the back of our cave brains we all know that being left alone means certain death. Thats why most people will go a long way just not to feel lonely. marketers knows this better and use it to sell more stuff Anyway, i like exercising a lot and do it for my own pleasure, but at the same time know that being physically fit is a hige plus when it comes to social interactions. Plus being emotionally fit also helps you getting up in the ranks of most desired people. So i tr…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/18 09:28 AM
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Men love women, women love babies, babies love puppies. I guess this is the answer to your question
/r/ExRedPill27/02/18 09:05 AM
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If you live a good life, meaning live the life for yourself, people will start getting drawn into you. Some call this being charming, some call this attention. But at the end of the day you will put your head to your pillow alone. Friends are very important, and most of the times very helpful. But stop chasing friends as you should stop chasing women. Once you concentrate on your own life goals, all the other things will come and pass by, just like the road signs on the highway.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 08:51 AM
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Great observation. First comes the diet and sleep. Than comes to body. Only after these guys are functioning, the mind can be at peace
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 08:55 AM
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Nope. Knowledge is knowledge but experience is the king. All the knowledge in the world is nothing unless it drives the experience
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 08:39 PM
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Sounds like someone had a gay dominatrix session that went wrong This reminded me the scene from the movie pulp fiction, where bruce wills and his "friend" was running and they ended up getting raped in the basement of a shop
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 08:31 PM
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I stayed with this idea today. Again, you have a point. If you feel any kind of anger, you should stop and think for a second what is it that is hurting your butt.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 01:32 PM
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Get this weak shit out of your head You know what ? You got a point. Fuck PUAs, fuck the game, fuck women. What does it have to do with me, and of course with you. I don't know what you were thinking when you were writing this, but yes we should all concentrate on our own business first, and only after then help out the others. My point was this: Some things might seem very innocent and harmless, but if you use it as a substitution to something that you need, it becomes a drug. But than again, m…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 08:54 PM
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I hate to break this up to you, but even if you have the money, you still need to have balls of steel to make this happen. Check out Elon Mask. He has all the money in the world, good looks and future, yet he is bent over by more than a few ladies.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 08:29 PM
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And for the love of god, don't let women find out how much money you really have. This is an extremely important rule that many men don't get. If you put your money on the table, and a woman follows you, than she is after your money. If you take it out and put it on the table, and she follows you (to the bedroom), than you know that she wants to have a good time. A woman knows that if she wants to makes sure that the money keeps coming, she has to lie, manipulate, fake and do all kinds of dirty …
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 08:26 PM
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I'm with you here. Although I like the OP and his unique approach for hookers, I don't buy buy sugar daddy/girl dynamic. How is this different than prostitution that has been around since the beginning of the time ? Nowadays women are using instagram or hangout at fancy places to find their daddies. That'S the only difference. To me, the road leading to the bedroom is no less rewarding than the destination itself. I wouldn't want to skip that part. But than again, I am not chasing full body, emp…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 07:03 PM
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I had a friend a while back. He was seeing this hooker regularly, once or twice every month. Since he was a regular customer, the hooker was calling him, texting him, and they even meet outside from time to time. I've always been against paying for sex. I thought it is the ultimate surrounder because you can't score woman with your personality or looks or charm etc. He told me, "look, I spend xx amount of money to have sex a few times a month. Tell me how much money do you spend money on your gi…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 06:51 PM
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tRP can't be learned by just reading an online community. You need to have a mentour, and more than that you have to get your feet (dick) wet many many times. I agree with you in that sense. But, again, most BPers can't be freed from their slavery because they burry their heads so deep into their asses that it's too hard for them to wake up. Most of us has to go thru hard times to become a tough man. What I am saying is that becoming a PUA is distracting you from hitting your own wall, seeing th…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 06:45 PM
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Tell me, what is the difference between these two profiles: A: A beta PUA B: A slut on a CC Both of them are living on the peak of their hedonistic lives, both are addicted to the dopamine, both spend almost all their time, resources and energy on this lifestyle. What do they get at the end ? Lots of sex. Sure. Anything else ?
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 06:40 PM
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I agree with you on all your points. Yes, a dedicated PUA will outperform me while pulling out girls from clubs because he has more experience than me. In the meantime, I have more experince on exercising, business and on social life because I choose to spend my time on other activities. I'll give it to them, they are successful at least in one area in their life, and also they get to have lots of sex. But than again, the opportunity costs are so damn high.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 06:37 PM
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Good answers to a great post. And I want to challenge you further. We all know that the society was built on the slaves. I am talking about the blue pilled slaves. There is too much blue conditioning till the beginning of the time, I don't think that this will change any time soon. So most of the guys are bound to be slaves, A.K.A. blue pill bililies. You and I can see that this guy gets it. And I can say that this is the ultimate stage. Now, do you think that tRP might be a false hope to many g…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 03:20 PM
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People should learn this already: Pumping a bar trash doesn't make you a tough guy. A man has a mission. Women is not and can't be a mission by itself. It is a by-product of success. Stop putting the pussy on the pedestal and concentrate on your own mission/life
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 02:54 PM
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There is nothing wrong with focusing on getting women. It's in our nature to get women. We need women to balance our masculine energy. The problem is how some people approach this. PUAs to me are mostly beta losers because all they do is press the right buttons to make sure women feel good. And in exchange they get a treatment, i.e. sex. When you reach your masculine potential, your life will be much better, including women around you. But all the women in the world can't make your life better. …
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 10:02 AM
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You would be amazed at how many betas out there who will marry the shit out of a hooker and willingly play the white knight For every slut out there, there is a BP guy waiting. Those women know this as well
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 08:06 PM
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As i get older and become more aware of the game, sex feels like russian roulette to me. I point a loaded gun to her ovaries and pull the trigger. And then i thank god every time that i survived. I hope one day the gun wont fire unexpectedly and kill me Amen
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 07:36 PM
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Then I bitch slap myself into reality. The fight is real, mate Great attitude. It's inevitable to makes mistakes but it's a sin to make the same mistake twice. but her statuses change ever so often and are so emo still And please explain this to yourself, why and how do you still see her updates. Now don't get me wrong, I am not shitting you. Consider me as another set of hands who bitch slap you when needed. she kept sending me emo songs and discussed love, and she still does And you need anoth…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 05:06 PM
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I had a very similar experience 7-8 years ago. At that time I was angry and thought that I did the right thing by walking away. Now I read your post and I remember that time. I can see that I was hurt but this doesn't change the fact that I was right. I had a group of friends from college. We had such good times together when we were studying. After our graduation, they all started getting into LTRs and getting married. One particular day, I told them that I needed their support and specifically…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 04:41 PM
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Agree with that completely. My point is that those people are rare compared to the population of tRP.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 04:34 PM
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Crazy in love at first sight with this new chick at work Here. Lost interest in your post from the first sentence. Fix this first and come back later with another field report. Then we will discuss things.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 04:22 PM
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Your post inspired me to watch a few videos about building an automatic transmission. While I agree with some of the facts, you sound like you are very naive. Yes personal values, honor, loyalty are still very important. But being a pure lion is not enough in today's day and age, you have to be a little bit like a hyena if you want to survive.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 04:21 PM
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What is this ? I don't understand. Yes it's immoral to pick on the weak but I think that you are projecting your insecurities onto this incident.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 04:16 PM
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I can see that you are bitter about your arrangement. I've never been legally married but I can see that most of the marriage deals create a slave out of the guy. But if you look closely, the guys is more than willing to be a slave in the first place. A woman's nature is to follow his guy. If she feels that he is not stable enough, she has to leave the boat. Otherwise she will drawn with him too. If you get your shit together and build yourself a good life, she will follow. You won't have to thi…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 04:14 PM
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Here is the thing. There are some guys around who already have figured out "life". And "life" here includes your intimate relationships with women as well. Do you think that a guy who "gets it" would come here, spend his time ? No. He is out there living his life. The ones who hang out here mostly have problems, butthurt by their exes, have mommy issues are. There are some really good contributors but they are rare. Now, for those who are singing the alpha song but are forever blue, kissless vir…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 04:07 PM
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Wow! 8 to 9 sets of the same exercise. You must have built an incredible stamina. I choose to workout at the park so don't do weight lifting. But I would love to try powerlifting for a short period. The "big four" to put on some additional muscle mass
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 03:26 PM
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That makes sense. If you do 34 sets, yes it adds up. I am not a powerlifter, so I don't know how you guys workout, but to me 34 sets is too much. When I do all my sets to failure (almost failure sometimes) 20 sets is more than enough for me.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 02:39 PM
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OK. Let's do a simple math. 30 seconds a set plus 1.5 min rests in between makes 2 minutes in total. Let's say you spend 30 minutes for warming up which leaves you 1.5 hours. You can do 40+ sets in this time, which to me sounds crazy. I do my warmup (no less than 15 minutes) + 20 sets (pullups, dips, pushups, inverted rows, squats) plus some skill work (handstand, L-sits) plus streching in under an hour.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 02:31 PM
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Good post. But there is one point I will disagree, and another point that I think should be included. I think cardio training is very crucial in any kind of sport, body building included. I work almost exclusively BWF style, and when I started jumping rope between the sets, I see a significant benefit. And one point to add to your post, always work until failure. Your workout sessions should not be more than 45 minutes, and never ever exceed an hour. I don't understand what the guys to at the gy…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 01:17 PM
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Good post. Can confirm with my experiences. But I would use a slightly different analogy. I always say doing business is very similar to looking after a kid. Most deals are signed on the dinner table. When people come to you you don't sell the product to them, you sell yourself to the customer. They have to trust you first, and only after that, the product comes second. Most sales people concentrate too much on tactics, sales pitches, product specs, but all they have to do is learn basic human b…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 12:56 PM
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OK. Fair points. You are right that an introvert can and should learn to conserve his energy. Thank you for pointing this out, and reminding me that I should not use this as an excuse. But there is a limit to how much you can push it. Especially when you get older, the club scene gets harder and harder.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 09:47 AM
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Good post. Recently I started to realize this pattern in my own life. And the rule is very simple. You let your inner animal out, and she will follow you. You keep your desires leashed and she will help you strengthen that leash.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 11:55 AM
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Great insights. I can totally relate to your last pharagraph. If you fuck her hard enough, she will never leave you.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 11:52 AM
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More walking, less talking they say. A perfect illustration of this concept. Those who have the courage go out and act on their goals. Others, the ones who are weak and cowards sit back and just talk.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 11:04 AM
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Exactly. This is the problem with the semantics. Being shy means you don't have the courage and the ability to go out there and introduce yourself to the people. Being an introvert is about the nature of your response to the stimuli coming from outside. Introverts make good friends because they can form deeper and more meaningful relationships with their friends and their surroundings.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 09:18 AM
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Same here. That's why I prefer day game as opposed to the night scenes. Approach that woman you see around the office, the ones you encounter in the coffee shop etc. Your chances or finding one of the better woman is much higher as opposed to the clubs. Yes AWALT, but not all the woman behave the same. People come here and bash women all the time. What do you expect from a woman you picked up from a bar 4 am in the morning ?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 09:14 AM
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For people like us, socializing is a choice. We do it when we want to do it. Extroverts however, they have to socialize. This means that they have to be around people even if they don't like them. Every man should learn to be alone. This way you don't go around hopelessly and meet with people just to pass some time.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 09:11 AM
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Good job. Congrats bro. Here are just few tips from a middle aged man just to make sure you continue this way. Never experiment with the "extra cirricullum" when it comes to nutrition. It's no different than using chemical drugs. Always be on the safe side. Injury is your worst enemy. You might go from a jacked guy to a skinny dude with a very simple mistake. Sometimes it will take months to heal, and that's if you are lucky Lifting is not the end goal. Use that confidence to build a good life. …
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 05:52 PM
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Being an introvert and being shy are completely different things. You might be an extrovert and lack the social skills as well. The introversion is about where and how you cultivate energy. And it comes from your threshold to the stimulus. Introvert people don't like crowded and loud places. Because high amounts of stimulus drain our batteries faster. Thus we require that "me time" earlier. Extrovert people, however, will start feeling weird when they are in a quiet environment for a long time. …
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 05:44 PM
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I got one question for you. Did you try all of these and if yes, how did you survive without breaking your dick ?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 12:59 PM
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Redpuke would be a cooler alias
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 11:03 AM
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I reacted to your post the other day, the one about JP. Now I can see you point more clear with this post. Most of the times the message is lost in translation. Just like you said, people look at the finger that is pointing to the message itself, and loose the meaning. But for this kind of people, anything can appeal to their god complex, JP or TRP Still think that JP is a very important, influential person and is helping the younger generation. So if someone is following JP as a cult leader, it…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 11:02 AM
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Don't listen to what she says, watch her actions. This is one of the fundemental teachings of tRP. If you listen to her, you might agree with what she says. After all she sounds like a decent person right ? Yes. She wants all guys to be decent and nice. Speak to her, so that she can choose the one she likes to most. BTW when she says all guys, she means only the good looking attractive ones, because all the others are non existent to her. Anyway, in her fantasy world, all the attractive guys wil…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 08:17 AM
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PUA's are nothing but a bunch of blue pilled loosers who think that fucking women makes them an alpha dog. But they don't realise that all they do, and spend their resources on is to please women
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 07:53 AM
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Spot on ! But the problem is not the red pillers who don't get it, it's most of the MGTOWs. They think going your own way requires you to get rid of your desires. No. I need women, not a woman, but some women. Because satisfying my needs is one of my priorities, not the first or the second one, but one of the important ones.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 07:51 AM
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I don't say that women get tingles by wealth. I am saying, intelligence can bring you some wealth and one side from the dual strategy of women is attracted to the wealth
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 05:13 AM
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Great post. Loved it. A man can become functional only after he conquers his fears. You too have a good day
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 05:01 AM
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Exactly. Intelligence might produce achivements which again in turn might produce wealth. Women are attracted to the end product, and they don't care how it is acquired.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 04:59 AM
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Good comment. Two important bits from you experiences. First, like most other things in life, this (finding a good mate) is getting harder and harder everyday. True. I feel like we are the actors of a national geographic show, where a group of males walk a long way to find some fresh water. And when we get there, when we think "wow check this water out, we will drink as much as we want" some alligators will jump out, catch some of us and eat them alive. And about this past sweetheart of yours, w…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 04:45 AM
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There is a reason why they call the good women "unicorns". And believe me they have the same problem, there are no "legitimate" good guys left for them either. I am not talking about the doormats, the nice guys. Neither the PUAs who morphed into "alphas". When I was in college, boys and girls who are raised by a good, loving, caring family, started to get married. This is what they saw when they were raised by their mothers and fathers. Remember, people look to create a similar environment to th…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 04:41 AM
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I can see you becoming a scientist when you grow up, or wake up from your dream
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 05:25 PM
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Pump and dump is one extreme, and being staying alone is the other one. There is a huge gap between the two, and you can fit in the middle if you want to. But I admit, if you are fit, and have some kind of disposible income, and on the top of that learn to game, you can score easily. But it's not easy to find good quality women. Do they exist ? I am not sure. But maybe this is another goal, like you learned the game, you will learn another skill. I feel that you are a little bit discouraged. Don…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 03:23 PM
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OK Brother, since you are open about your life, I will share what I think, hoping that I will help you and reflect my own thoughts at the same time. Again, you and I seem like we are coming from a similar background. Both middle-aged, both successful business wise and both having had their time with women. One of my very important insights about TRP is that you don't have to be an alpha dog to score many chicks. In another words, you can be a complete beta looser and still score many HBs. How do…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 02:47 PM
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In another words, Men cannot make himself without suffering, for he is both the marble and the sculptor
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 02:13 PM
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Seems like you mastered the PUA tactics, but struggling when it comes to forming meaningful relationships. Hate to break it up to you, but it's extremely hard to find a woman worth investing into. And your chances are very slim finding her in night scenes. One more thing, if you show your needy side, you will not get successful. And lastly, why would you want to get into a LTR in the first place ? I understand that if you meet a woman worth your commitment, yes go for it, but you didn't meet any…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 07:37 PM
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Do you realize how many offers do these women get daily ? Especially the beautiful ones. You wouldn't believe. Trust me. When everything is handed to you on a silver plate, you will not find the motivation to get out and educate yourself. Do something better for you and for the world around you. This is pretty normal if you ask me. The women are meant to be giving birth to the children and keep feeding them until they grow up. They don't have to be rocket scientists. If this bothers you, well, t…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 07:26 PM
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From the charts of BF, I am somewhere around 15% but I would bang the girl with 25-26% all night long, 6 days a week. She is sexy
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 07:18 PM
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I believe (or hope) that you read the whole 30 items. He says don't be a puppet. After serving in the military, this guy has a right to talk his mind.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 12:59 PM
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I don't think he is defending gay people. By reading his ideas, I am sure he doesn't have a problem with them. All he is saying is that if you have an identity, you should come out of the closet. No matter what other people say, you should go after your nature. Now I am not defending his writing, but I also have no problems with gay people. Being an asshole doesn't have to do anything with how you use your sexual organs.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 12:57 PM
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Yes the OP did point to some ideas from him which might be flagged as BP. I get that, and I don't disagree. But, nobody, or no ideology is 100% perfect and complete, including the TRP teachings. So we should take what we need and leave the rest. Someone can do the same against TRP as well. Nitpick some ideas from here, and write a case about how TRP is not good. How men are mindlessly following TRP truths. I personally support both camps. What I am against is, bashing JP because he has some BPis…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 09:06 AM
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I wish I was old and wise enough to be able to say "hey, I already know all the things that JP is talking about". But I am not. He is talking to a very wide range of people. For the younger crowd, clean your room actually means go out and clean you room. Yes I've already passed that age, but there is still lots of wisdom and knowledge from this guy, that I can take in and make my life better. The saying "milk for the babies, meat for the men" perfectly fits here. I am not contradicting to your s…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 08:58 AM
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There is something going on here. I've never seen so much endorsed contributors coming in and supporting a post made by one of them. The OP never says anything wrong about JP, but he is attacking the mindless followers. OK. I have no problems with that, but the same also can be said about TRP as well. If you are a self help junkie, you will attach yourself to anything, be it JP or TRP. I've been reading, internalizing, and experimenting with the TRP ideas for a few years. Appreciate the contribu…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 08:26 AM
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I get you point, But than again, why all the hate against Jordan Peterson. What did he do wrong ? Did he ever encourage people to worship him ? Did he say things that makes a standard beta boy feel good about himself ? All he ever says is "get up and clean your room" which means "take the responsibility and organize your life" I think we are shooting the messenger here.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 08:21 AM
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Man you are watching too much porn. Get rid of your cuck fantasies and then come back here and write posts
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 06:29 AM
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Great value post. Motivation is for suckers. Its the self discipline that keeps you moving. You put out a great framework to kill even the strongest hamsters
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 05:34 AM
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I like your post but have a problem with this line You had better start faking it until you make it. The genuine subcommunications of an alpha will always outshine any attempt to 'force it' You say you should fake it and then continue by saying that if you force it won't be authentic. I don't believe in "fake it till you make it" mentality, and when I read your post, I thought this guy is in line with my belief. I loved the part where it starts with "It is our ...." All of them are spot on. They…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 01:36 PM
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The kind of woman you are able to pull == your SMV SMV is so simple yet many people fail to understand this. Everybody finds their worth.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 07:24 PM
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Good point. And their attitude is no different than a baby boy trying to secure his mom's attention. Women want this, women want that. Fuck that. All women want is manly men around. Simple as that.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 07:53 PM
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Well said. I am sick of this same shit. What do women want ? Here is what my female friend/sister/coworker did. Check this story from confession reddit etc. People should understand this: Focus on yourself. Period. I don’t understand why these guys are so obsessed about what other women think. But yes. The reason has a color and is blue !
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 01:11 PM
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Let me give you my experience about crossfit. Its mostly about the people who do crossfit. All they care about is the number of reps or the weights that they lift. They think the more the better, but they sacrifice form for higher numbers. Always take care of the form first. Always. I don’t understand what good comes from those cheat curls or “kipping” pullups. Give your attention 100% and use full range of motion. Sure your numbers will go down dramatically if you start your pullup from dead ha…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 01:06 PM
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I don't think women are consciously lying or being malicious when they say this stuff. I just don't think they know what they're talking about. As George Castenza once said, "it's not a lie, if you believe in it"
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 07:37 PM
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You make 150 K and you still feel dread ? Dude you gotta change some things in your life. But please first start by putting a dot at the end of your sentences
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 10:50 AM
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Yes in fact I was talking about this link. And about meditation, it is a fundamental practice that we all have to partake. I've been meditating for more than a few years and pretty sure that I will continue this till the end of my life
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 10:05 AM
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You have a point. Yes these three strategies are all different from eachother. To me, TRP is obviously the smarter one of the bunch, because TRP tries to have a look at the behind the scenes stuff, and adjust to whats out there. MGTOWs ommit one very important aspect. We need woman in our lives. Period. It is hardwired into our bodies and our brains. This doesn't mean that you should be a slave to women. You can still go on your own way with a woman, correct some women besides you And PUAs are e…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 09:43 AM
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I might understand your post but am not sure. The thing about opportunities, I think the effect of true, random luck is very minimal. If you build the necessary abilities and you are aware of your situation, you will catch most of the opportunities. The ones you've never caught, well you will not have any idea. Meditaion is a very important part of this equation. I'll give you that. It cultivates awareness in most situations. And thru meditation, you will be closer to your passions which again w…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 12:10 PM
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TRP is constantly changing I am not so sure about this. In fact I think the opposite is true. There were red pilled guys around for ages. Nobody called them redpilled, that's all. These guys knew what they wanted, and had to balls to go after their desires. I see your argument that the times are changing, yes that's true, but the core teachings of TRP are as old as the ancient writings. Learn them by heart and you will have success
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 10:19 AM
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I am not sure I understand your stance on humor. I think going to the stage and performing requires some very critical masculine traits. While these men are cracking jokes (which might be a feminine art) they are very manly men if you ask me. Just like a business owner, becoming a good comedian requires lots of practice, courage and the ability to act. On the other hand, laughter is the standard issue agreeableness signal for every woman. Today I was stuck at a meeting where some people comes an…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 06:54 PM
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I ve never seen a country leader (exception Obama) crack a good joke. This also includes high ranking business owners, wealthy people etc. when they talk, they talk about how to be successful, which underlines their own success. On the other hand we have Jerry Seinfeld, Ricky Gervais etc who made millions out of laughter. I guess it takes concentration and dedication to be successful on something. And these men gave their all to be at that position. Women on the other hand have to do one thing, …
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 04:54 AM
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I hear you, Women are born physically weaker than men, thus the nature armed them with a black belt in manipulation. Beta men rank less than women because they neither have pyhsical power nor emotional power. I always see the marriage institution one of the biggest scams that the state enforces over us. By marriage, a beta can secure at least one woman (at least he thinks that way) If you want to know where you stand on the social ladder simply see who you can disrespect without consequence. As …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 09:44 AM
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The OP has a point. Hell many people write on TRP has a point. But we are missing maybe the most important rule. Thanks for sharing and reminding us this very basic rule. We can circlejerk and discuss all the details of the SMP but unless one gets rid of all these whys and hows to change the quality of his own life, nothing will change. A man has to learn to be selfish. Thats it. Thats how i read your post
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 02:24 PM
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Brother, I am sorry but this to me seems wishful thinking. I don't know where on earth you live, but from where I come from the amount of options a solid 9 has is practically endless. You can have a frame as strong as steel, or have the best game around but this will not change the fact that she is a 9. This scenario works only if you are a perfect than and the woman is 7-8. And again you have a solid frame and perfect game. Unless you are a few points over her, you don't have any chance. Sorry …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 08:39 PM
25

A good explanation to your current status. Believe me there are many people like you on this planet, who while sees the “problem” still struggle to fully get it. But you have a fair point and I see that you are open so I believe you have a chance. First, never listen to what a woman says, instead observe their feelings. Most of the things that comes out of a woman’s mind is a rationalization to her feelings. Second, women in general are black belt judo fighters when it comes to manipulation and …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 10:56 AM
22

You have a point, but this does not only apply to women, but also to the manchildren as well. You are either determined and have control over your actions, or weak and slave to your feelings. When you are a slave to your feelings, ( i.e. most women and manchild), most of the thoughts are there to rationalize those feelings. Only after you take ownership of your feelings you can make informed decissions
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 10:07 AM
2

Hey man you are very lucky yo have auch a mom. Your mom gets it compared to many people around here. The things she says look very much red pilled to me
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 04:52 PM
9

Good post, but I am going to ask you another question. Why do you need to give advice to other people ? When someone is giving advice, the benefit is usually for the advisor, not the listener. So you should ask this question openly to yourself and think about the answer long enough to get it. To me, giving advice to others is usually useless for two reasons. First, the person on the receiving hand should give the effort, and pay for it by his time/attention/persistence etc. I’ve learned this a w…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 12:36 PM
5

Great perspective on the redpill truths. This post alone can be the side material by itself. Free from anger and hate. Pure persistance and experience. Keep up the good work. Come back and write more.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 11:34 AM
28

As the great philosopher George Costanza once said, "It's not a lie if you believe it"
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 07:52 PM
-1

Hold your horses champ. This is a place where people come in and share their ideas. This is not 4chan where people call eachother “fag” all the time. I didn’t come here to prove the world that I am the most manliest alpha around. And definitely didn’t write a comment to bring the OP to down. Monkeyclam and I might use a harsh language, and to me it’s OK. Now I see that you are mad about a comment from a stranger, and feel offended. Funny isn’t it ? If you think something is wrong with the ideas,…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 11:17 AM
-9

You speak my mind brother. The OP is obviously a newcomer and probably still a beta. I can smell the anger phase from here. No problem here, we all learned the hard way so thumbs up for the good advice.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 05:08 PM
1

To start with, when I say sex, I mean something very broad. I am not only refering to the steamy act you do under the sheets. I mean the flirting that you do with your co-worker, the look you give to the good looking person that you see on the street, the desire to dress up to when you go out at night etc. We are all sexual beings. The sexual energy in our bodies drive most of the actions thruout the day, and it tries to find it’s potential. Now, having sex is one of the many acts of this energy…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 03:15 PM
1

Hope that mekes sense. Sure, why not. Sometimes you need a quick bite, and yes a cake might be a good option.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 06:57 PM
9

Don’t be hard on yourself brother. We all (middle aged sort of good looking guys who have options) live the same scenario a lot. While a young beautiful woman is very appealing, there is something about middle aged woman that the younger ones can’t offer. Maybe it’s their life experience in general, maybe because of all those years fighting in the workforce they learn some tricks, maybe it’s the motherly care that they give us. They loose that young bright womanly spark, but they gain something …
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 06:19 PM
1

I am not against casual sex. But -to me- it still requires lots of time and energy. But this is not the problem. To me, casual sex is like a cake. When I am hungry, and have a cake, I will loose my appetite. The cake has almost no nutritional value, so my body is practically starving, but I loose the drive to go out and find a good, delicious and fulfilling meal, like a juicy steak. And when I find that steak, it feels so good that I forget the times when I was hungry. But if I have the cake, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 06:11 PM
5

I don’t know this woman, neither do you. She can still be fit, and don’t carry any baggage, but at this age ? Come on she is practically out of the marketplace. You were her last branch before she hit the ground. And a very solid one. She had all the world to loose, so I bet she has put on her best of the best behaviour when you were together. But imagine what would happen if the tables has turned ? Imagine she was in her prime, and you were older, loosing your health (very close to andropause) …
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 06:00 PM
6

This is very cruel and very true at the same time. The moral values of people, especially women change drastically based on who they are dealing with.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 05:48 PM
1

Your relation to sex is your relation to the life itself. There may be some exceptions, but everybody knows (from experience) that sex with someone who you love and trust is worlds better than a casual ONS sex. So maybe you should add this to your list of questios: Why are you interested to find out things about casual sex ? Is it an alternative for you because you can’t attract someone you would trust ? Don’t get me wrong, I am asking the same question to myself. So, in my book, if you value li…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 05:12 PM
13

While this is not new around here, I like your enthusiasm, and I like how you find this by experience. Congrats, this idea will stick with you forever, because you earned it. We can discuss the why’s and how’s for hours but you already got the idea. You can apply this to any other area in your life. This post reminded me of a great scene from the series Band of Brothers. There is this great -soon to be a captain- lt. He talks to a private, and when the private says he is scared, he gives an epic…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 04:59 PM
2

I think the idea of the prisoners feeling pain perfectly alligns with the core red pill bliefs. If you create things, you will be valuable to the society, which will in turn bring you friends, women, fame etc. People who are isolated from the society on the other hand start to develop problems because they instinctively know that the ones left out by the society will adventually die. And about controlling emotions with your thoughts, completely agree with you. The one who is trying to control th…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 12:52 PM
1

Interesting article. Somehow I guessed from the beginning that this would be about Roosh.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 07:45 PM
-3

I don’t get how this FR is related to the boundries. OK OP, please don’t take this personally, but this looks like a mental masturbation to me. First, boundry is not something that you have to build like a wall and defend at all costs. Your self respect and your preferences draw these boundries by itself. You respect yourself that you don’t tolerate a woman run over you ? There is your boundies. You like lifting and don’t skip a workout just to meet a woman ? There is the boundry. And about this…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 06:03 AM
1

Check out bodyweightfitness reddit. Even though I can easily have access to a gym, and have enough time to excercise, I choose this route. Because it feels more natural as opposed to lifting weights on perfectly flat surfaces.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 05:50 AM
4

I am not saying that we should ditch theory alltogether. In your example, the pep talk you give to the fat guy, if it makes him excited and pumped mentally to go to the gym, yes do it. But in the end, it is only the lifting that makes him loose weight. All the fitness books in the world will not burn a single calorie.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 05:45 AM
4

Exactly. You said it better than I did. I’d rather discover everthing by myself without any theory behind it, as opposed to reading too much with very little practice
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 05:41 AM
2

That’s great. But don’t forget to come back once in a while and give back to the community.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 05:39 AM
1

This is the way to go ! There is a healthy balnce of theory and practice. The both should go hand in hand. What I am trying to say is, the theory you digested should be turned into a real life experience as soon as possible. Otherwise all this knowledge will “accumulate” in your system which will form a snowball of theories, but unlike a snowball it will stay in there forever
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 05:37 AM
-3

Takes this as my personal experience, You can’t control the subconcious. It’s always there. Yes you can condition yourself in certain situations, but trying to control your inner intelligence is a very dangereous path which will lead you nowhere. And back to your story, the child is right. It’s best to stay at the crash site. You will find food, shelter, clothing and some food if you are lucky. They will come and rescue you. 200 miles hike in the middle of nowhere ? You set yourself for almost c…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 04:55 PM
3

You answered your own question. Monogomy is good for people who have no options. People who’s SMV are declining and they are afraid that if they loose their current partner, they will not find a good, let alone a better one. Polygamy meaning a man having more than one women means that many men don’t even have a partner. With the marriage institution, these men, who don’t have any kind of power against the competition at least got to secure a woman and keep her. So, a clever person enjoys the lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 05:11 PM
1

The whole thing is about her in her head This! When i am having an argument with a woman, she makes is seem like everything revolves around her. My actions only affect her, she is the only one that i think about, she is my only responsibility etc. your sentence explains it perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 12:42 PM
24

Nothing surprising here. Men anywhere who DO have what women want experience women as very forward. They can be worse than men, once that switch is flipped and they go into automatic mode, coyness and clothes are dropped like a hot rock. “I need to be serviced NOW!” This right here is true wisdom. Men who are into PUA don't get this. Those who are successful are the ones who meet the requirements at the right time in the right place with the right attitude. With a set of learned tactics, you mig…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 06:49 PM
3

And I'd rather experience 12 minutes of that than anything else a woman has to offer When a woman truly submits to her man, yes this is probably one of the most rewarding things that a man can experience. When I say truly, I mean dropping all the masks, putting aside all the fears, and most importantly forgetting about all those plans in her tiny mind. Women kind is extremely clever in their own ways. They will give this to only those men who are capable of handling it. So yes, this time I fully…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 09:45 PM
2

You have a somewhat different point of view than mine, but I like it. I love this quote, and again was finding a different meaning. But I find your explanation also true. I told the same thing to a woman just a few days ago. I said I am always interested to see the real personality, whether it being good or bad Unfortunately for women it is very hard thus extemely rare to be open because they are mostly trained for manipulating (trying to) their behavior
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 08:27 PM
5

Well, your explanation also seems about right. I like it. So do you think this has a connection with this : There is only one woman, but with many faces.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 06:21 PM
5

I have this saying, "best cologne to wear is a woman's scent. woman can smell it and they love it"
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 06:16 PM
8

Your uncle was brilliant. I think he meant that if you are good enough you can have all the women you like. Otherwise you will be an incel. This is how humankind is build. A man is either a king or a slave. No in between
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 08:03 AM
4

the world is filled by many bitter people FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 05:01 AM
1

I would modify this slightly. Say some woman said sex is all you think about. If you are aroused by her presence, than say so. If not well than again tell the truth and tell her that you have no problems about speaking about your deisres but she didnt trigger any Then watch the show
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 05:00 AM
1

We are both right. The original saying is bear. But in the movie he says it like bar
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 05:02 PM
1

Good article. I won't object your ideas, but I find them a little bit too superficial. If you bring everything down to getting numbers from women and hooking up, than yes it is a numbers game and you have endless resource of women around. But in reality, I believe that everybody inherintly knows their real worth. And it is mostly measured by the quality of the mates that you attract. If you always attract HB7's than you are more or less in this level. How can you go to a HB9 and play the IDGAF a…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 09:05 AM
3

Let me share you my experience on this topic. Women who come in your life always compare themselves to the "previous" ones. If they see a picture of you with a not so beautiful woman, they will feel at ease. Now, here in tRP we all know that if a woman becomes lazy, the only thing that can happen is a disaster for you. Now try this, when you are with a woman, tell her a story about another woman and just slip in a few compliments to that woman's beauty. Just slightly talk something good about he…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 08:55 AM
2

Great explanation. I can only add a small details. When those middle aged post wall women finally acquire a beta provider, what happens is that they hate themselves because they think that they are worthy of much better men but this is all they have got. So they project this bitterness to their "last resort" . They are never happy and they never let the poor guy to be happy. So this is a disaster situation for both parties
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 11:38 AM
3

Wow great proverb. Resonates very much with my experiences.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 11:30 AM
1

Great video. Loved the ending I also saw the male version of the graph which was equally spot on
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 09:48 AM
1

To be honest I am not familiar with American muscle cars. This was a reference to the movie you know
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 09:47 AM
1

Agreed. I would like to see the details behind this argument
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 05:28 AM
45

Great points. The most beautiful women are often the craziest. They live an easy life but they instinctively know that their beauty will fade away. Yes they have many options but they crave a rock solid man just like any other woman. Just like we need a supportive nurturing woman. Men and women are wired differently. Dont hate the game, just get better at it
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 06:26 PM
7

Very good post but this applies to men and women in their early 20s. When you are in your 30s the story drastically changes. Women loose their advantages rapidly. Some men get better in life and they start getting more and more choices while the others become even more desperate
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 06:19 PM
23

Very good post but this applies to men and women in their early 20s. When you are in your 30s the story drastically changes. Women loose their advantages rapidly. Some men get better in life and they start getting more and more choices while the others become even more desperate
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 06:19 PM
-30

Great analogy But, a sports car is very high maintenance, and the engine is built for performance sonthey usually have a very short lifespan. I would rather become a classic muscle car which only few people appreciate but those who do take great care of their cars. I am talking about something like a 74 dodge challenger. Maybe not the top of the line performance but built like a tank and lasts forever
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 06:16 PM
18

Watch her actions brother. Words don't mean anything. Anyone who is pointed by a camera is going to talk about their ideals. Also do you think thr top dog guys care about what these women say ?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 06:30 AM
1

This I can tell you as a marketer, you can sell it to both men and women
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 07:14 PM
3

These are good experiences to take lessons from. The first one is pretty straight forward. The time she gave you her number she felt excited but you will never know what she will think of even after a few minutes. In sales we use this term ABC : always be closing. Phone number is not a sure sign no more. This doesnt happen to me a lot but sometimes they give phobe numbers just to get rid of the guy. Second case looks like a lost opportunity. She put her femininity on the table, full on. She want…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 10:22 AM
4

Usually i dont take so called pua community serious, but this article was spot on. I really liked how thr author sees the challenges as an opportunity. Please go ahead and share your experiences. I am interested to hear them out
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 07:51 AM
1

I do cold approach regularly. In an elevator, while doing shoping, at the office etc. I never cold approach in bars because I almost never go to the bars. Sometimes I go and flat out compliment them, and sometimes I just start a conversation and leave. It all depends on my mood. I have two close friends from the seduction community. I really like those guys but at the same time I find them pathetic, because they spend most of their time and resources for getting women. Nope. I am not an advocate…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 09:56 AM
2

Very good points. I remember reading this somewhere : The best thing that you can give back to the world is your masculinity. Most of the problems in this sociaty is caused by lack of quality masculine men. Many incels come here and trash talk about women, how evil they are, how they offer no value etc. When faced with a strong men, most of these women turn into little pretty kittens
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 08:59 AM
3

You should get a PhD with this intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 12:10 PM
1

You know how they make the toughest and sharpest swords. First they put it in the strongest fire. Then they beat it and beat it and beat it. If it is still not broken, only then a master starts sharpening it. So yes, this is how we are made...
/r/TheRedPill26/09/17 11:51 AM
3

This is probably one of the best posts that I have read here ever. You should be honored as "the monk of the red pill". There is nothing I can say or add to what you have written here. Even a noob can see the experience and maturity in your message. You are well past the anger phase and become peace with the system, and functioning as a true alpha. Although you don't mention about it, I know the struggles and hurdles that you had to pass thru. As they say, every obsticle is a test to your determ…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 11:45 AM
1

What people don't understand is that the male body makes testosterone out of meat and animal fat. As always there are some exceptions, some vegetarians who have good muscle mass but that is very hard to pull of the blood of others replenishes your own Loved this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 10:55 AM
3

My experience is the complete opposite of what you are advocating. I used to eat lots of vegetables and fruits. For the last years I changed my diet to include more meat and fat. Nowqdays I eat only two times a day, eggs and diary in the morning and lots of meat in the afternoon. Lost some weight, gained some muscles and most importantly i feel much better
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 08:11 AM
12

We weren't there, so there is no telling exactly what happened. But some things are pretty obvious. Firstly, never go on a dinner for the first date, not even drinks. If you put your money on the table, she will turn to a little innocent princess. You should put your D instead which will have the opposite effect. By D I mean your masculinity, don't take it out and whip it in the restourant :) You seem like you were tuned too much on her reactions. She is the woman, let her work on those little c…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 09:53 AM
2

This is spot on. The OP is very desperate and it probably shows. The guy probably loves him but desperation is one of the biggest turn offs
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/17 05:32 AM
1

This is a very broad generalization so it is hard to disagree or agree with the idea. I think it depends on what you are trying to go for. If you want to maximize you benefits and the quality of your life, you should have some rare qualifications. And this requires persistence and experience. Depending on the type of job, 3 to 5 years is a good time to get deeper in your field. Then, if you play your cards right, you will be that guy whom everyone respects and looks up to. I think 2 years should…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 10:27 AM
13

Very good discussion going on. But I want to add two questions to your original post. First, who is an average guy? As far as I know nearly half of the male population is hiding at home behind their gaming consoles, or working at low paying jobs away from people. I don't think that women take these kind of people into consideration when they get "average" of males around. The kind of guys whom most women want to be with (socially capable, physically attractive, financially stable) are very few a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 09:40 AM
7

Great post. Short and to the point. Women inherintly know the difference between a depreciating asset and an earning asset. Their survival is dependent on this. They can only survive if they are paired with an earning asset. Yes, looking good is a very important part of being attractive, but there are other things that makes a man very attractive other than the looks. A woman might like to experiment with a good looking tool, but she will only respect a man if she feels that he creates value.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 10:51 AM
7

Ok brother, life is unfair but it was never supposed to be fair at the first place. Everybody is responsible for their own wellbeing. You are right that there is an army of thirsty guys out there, who blow out the value of women. So, maybe, pussy has more value than you think ? Think of this for a moment. If there is demand for a product, then the price goes up. This is basic economics. I need to get laid once in a while. You need to get laid once in a while. I think we should find more efficien…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 01:58 PM
57

I had the exact same discussion a couple of days ago with a middle aged woman. She said she doesn't like the guys around. She thinks most of the guys are worthless. I asked her a simple question, when was the last time you were hit by a "good looking" man. Her face dropped instantly. People don't understand about the SMP. Everybody thinks the marketplace is unfair but it is the opposite. Your get what you deserve. Everybody more or less finds their worth.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 10:24 AM
3

20 hours will not get you anywhere near mastery, but you will get some basics and will be able to make an informed decission to continue or move to another topic. Here is my list *Everybody should be excercising regularly. This is a given. So, experiment with different styles 20 hours each. I've done body building, yoga, running etc, and found that street workout (body weight fitness) suits me best. *Everybody should learn an art form in order to express themselves. I've tried drawing but it did…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 06:25 AM
4

Good story. Classic human behavior. But I don't see any gender-specific narrative here. Clever people use less clever people for their own interests. This has been going on for ages. The moral of the story here is, as long has you have valuable assets (youth, looks, money etc), and know how to market them, you will always make some profits.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 08:26 AM
1

Very interesting discussion going on here, but most commentors fail to understand a very simple and basic human behavior. Sure you will not die if you don't have sex for the rest of your life. But sexual desire is a very strong drive and we don't know how deep it is embodied in our system. If you can't eat, sleep or move, you will stress out. You will get angry, sad and unstable. Going without sex for a long time has the same effects, but expresses itself in diffrerent ways. You will feel alone,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 08:27 AM
2

I would be shocked even half of this stuff was real. But it sure is entertaining
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 06:04 AM
2

This is a perfect example of how betas create this type of women. If he had the balls, she wouldn't have gotten this far. She probably tested the waters way before, and slowly pushed him to this point. I am sure that given the hands of a true masculine man, this woman would turn into a cute kitten in no time
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 10:28 AM
3

We can't know for sure what happened that day, and what is happening in you husband's mind. You seem like you are doing the best to your abilities and in this situation, but I see a fundemental flaw in your thinking. Now please take everything with a grain of salt here. You say that you left your job and your life to become the wife of your captain. You cay you trust his judgement. But you seem like you are questioning his actions. If you want to keep this D/s dynamic, you should let it go. I me…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/17 09:41 AM
0

didnt lift, didnt put any effort into his appearance Don't look no further. This is the real answer. But now that you mentioned it, I realized I have never seen a muscular indian in my life. I wonder the reason why
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/17 09:31 AM
1

I don't know how you look but you sound like a funny person
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/17 09:29 AM
2

You have some good points. But you can't override your biology intelligently. I am far from being an advanced meditator but have been sitting for half a decade. The more i observe my own nature the more i see how deep and strong those emotions and instincts are. Yes we are the most intelligent form of life in earth, but the power of your cognitive intelligence is no where near your deep intelligence You got some good points though
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 04:25 AM
4

Most people think that they swallowrled the pill and get what it is about. If you look only to the comments here you will see that there are at least 20 different versions of the "truth" Well the thing is you need to work hard, build up the experience, be clever enough and be lucky to get there. And when you get there, you stay there, do not get online and do circle jerking on reddit
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 04:17 AM
1

I got one word for you: Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 06:26 PM
2

Is this the real life? Is this just fantasy? Caught in a shit test, No escape from reality. Open your eyes, Look up to the skies and see ! Yes the title called for this song
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 11:05 AM
1

I think we are on the same page. As much as I believe in traditional gender roles, I can't see myself married to a stay at home mom. I agree with your ideas, not on the same level but to a degree. I too believe that regardless of their gender, people should work hard and achieve things. Yes raising a child might be a goal, but this should not keep a woman from continuing on working. Maybe not for 60 hours a week but there should be a balance. Being independent is a beautiful feeling. But when it…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 06:11 AM
1

Sure. Your body, your choice. I hope you are happy with your decission. (*I am respectfully sarcastic here)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 05:56 AM
1

I have a friend who is married for more than five years. He did get sex once a month if he was lucky. Believe me there are way more sexless marriages and relationships than you can imagine. Let's put the superficial "pumping and dumping" mindset aside for a minute. I believe sex is the expression of admiration. It is the vulnerability to let someone close to you. Now, this of course applies to LTRs obviously, and I am not talking about ONS. So, would you want to be intimate with someone who do y…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 05:48 AM
1

In an ideal world, if everybody does their part, the society would be in a very happy state. I have traditional views when it comes to relationships. If a man leads his partner, builds an environment of trust, I believe most women would willingly take the traditional woman model. Yes from time to time you would find feminine men handy. I have no right to say anything about this. But in general, I don't believe feminine men have little to nothing to offer back to the society. To me, there is noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 05:43 AM
1

The ways that I would define femininity and masculinity is quite different than what is on your list. For example, a woman might not know how to put on makeup, or don't do make up at all, but if I feel that she is doing her best preparing to meet me would be perfectly OK , even if she wears a very basic dress. She might not be a good cook, but if she genuinely is interested in keeping a good diet for both of us would also be very good. Femininity lies in more subtle things if you ask me. It is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 07:37 PM
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Most want the fantasy of a feminine woman, without dealing with the downsides Great observation. A feminine woman will have her ups and downs, and will be demanding. She will lean onto you for support, especially emotional support. As a man you should be willing to meet those expectations if you want to be with a feminine woman. I see that some men on tRP are talking about pumping and dumping, and nothing more. Well if the only thing that you do is pump and dump, you will end up nothing but dama…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 07:25 PM
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You and I might have different views on the mechanics of the attraction between a male and a female. But I think, no I feel that the more the polarity of feminine and masculine traits, the more attraction between those two people. A shy man still may have some strong masculine traits. And a cocky man can be a blue pilled guy. Remember, if you feel that you are lacking in some important areas, you always try to over compensate by stupid behavior, like being loud etc. If you ask me, the world need…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 07:20 PM
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Flesh dildos that cum money This is the most lyrical thing that I have red here so far. Beautiful yet so true. All these three scenarios have one thing in common. You SMV is increasing while their value is decreasing. If you ask them, none of these women would admit the reason behind their actions, but they instinctively know that their value is declining. So they need to score the best blue pilled billy as soon as possible.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 07:14 PM
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When I lose interest in a girl (teen years) they quickly find another boyfriend. First they find the next branch, then they put on less effort on their side. Last you start loosing interest. FTFY
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 07:10 PM
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It's never about you, it's about them. This ! You got the idea. It is as simple as that
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 07:09 PM
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It is pretty simple. If I was attracted to masculine traits, well I would be gay :) I like feminie women. That's it. I need that feminine energy in my system. So those masculine traits in a woman is a turn off for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 07:02 PM
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This perfectly answers the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 07:00 PM
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Let me answer this question. They are everywhere my brother. Ask yourself these questions: * How many times a month do you go out to buy some coffee ? * How many times a week do you ride the elevator with other people in it ? * How many new people do you see in the office every day ? And now, here is the last question: How many times did you approach a stranger and said hi ? You do the math
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 06:40 PM
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I enjoy reading your posts. To be honest, I was not 100% sure that you actually achieved all those things, but once I've seen you videos now everything seems about right. The way you talk and present yourself radiates a great deal of confidence. While I don't agree with everything you say, you sure speak from experience, and I respect your views. Now I see what all those 20 something girls are attracted to. It is not the clothes, it is not looking way younger than your age. It is that confidence…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 05:17 PM
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Brother, I am sorry but the red pill is quite hard to swallow. If you are lucky, I mean really really lucky, only few people will love you just for who you are. Those people include your mom, maybe your dad, or your closest friends. A woman ? I don't think so. I am not saying that it will never happen, but the chances are very very small. If you approach a woman with your resources, take her to a nice dinner to impress her, she will always demand that from you. If you fuck a woman's brains out s…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 01:13 PM
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Sounds to me like you're just a sugar daddy. You are right. But she gets to fuck the girl, which is a good deal. Every relationship is transactional in its roots.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 02:51 PM
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Younger or older, all women are self focused. The only difference is that they show it in different ways. Men are providers and women are consumers. If you are beta you are provider of sources. If you are an alpha, you are the provider of tingles. Better be peace with this.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 02:38 PM
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There is more wisdom in this post and the comments than what is ther in the sidebar. I am 36 and after I read this post and comments, I feel like I am a kiddo. Yet 20 somethings write posts describing how they swallowed (in past tense!) the pill. Experience. There is no short way around it. You have to live the life to get the experience.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 02:35 PM
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Just like how they do it in real life brother!
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 02:21 PM
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There is a saying "fake it till you make it". I don't believe in it. Just like you said, the more you try to imitate, the more bluepill you become. The reason is simple. When you try to look like an alpha all you do is trying to impress the people, especially the women around you. Just like a PUA, you play on their terms, in their field. I totally agree with your ideas. You should concur yourself first. The rest will follow your lead.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 02:03 PM
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I read a thread in AskRP: the guy was dating a virgin and asking how to proceed. The response? Make her not a virgin. Saying it broke my heart to read it is a bit of an exaggeration, but I just couldn't believe that this guy was told to play this girl and probably break her into hair dye and problem glasses. I remember reading this somewhere: "Men socialize by insulting each other but they really don't mean it. Women socialize by complimenting each other, they don't mean it either". Yes the lang…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/17 12:12 PM
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Ok, some say that woman is a fair gain. I say having moral values is more important than scoring the same chick you have slept for a long time. I've never slept with any other dude's woman in my life. At least not that I know of. Anyway, we grown up men (should) have moral values, but women usually don't. So, if women who already have a beta waiting at home shows you interest, this means that you are on the right track. This means that they are fantisizing about you mostly for the purpose of phy…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 11:10 AM
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Can you please give us some details on the demographics of the people who participated in this survey? If this survey is done to college students than it is expected that status does not play an important role in mate selection. Once you graduate from school and start working, women especially after the age of 30 look for status more than anything else. Of course this is my observation with very limited sample size
/r/ExRedPill07/06/17 10:54 AM
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A great observation. For a woman, feelz = realz. And couple this with the fact that if there is something wrong, it is never them, is must be the other people. So during or after the breakup, she feels bad, unless she has already secured a higher branch. This must be because of the guy. She can't do anything wrong. If she already secured a higher branch, well then you are invisible. You were a good guy, but you pushed her to the new one. The reality is, we behave our best in the honeymoon phase.…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 09:14 AM
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Good points, The woman side of the red pill is generally more constructive. Most of the questions are along the lines of "how can I make this work, how can I become a better wife/GF" kind of questions. And most of the field reports talk about how they become more reasonable person and how their relationships change for good after this initiative. On the other hand, male side of red pill crowd is mainly dominated by butthurt people and incels. All they ever talk is how fucked up the modern societ…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/17 07:31 AM
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I jusy stopped reading when you said you didnt talk to either of the girls. Grow some balls and come back later
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 05:29 AM
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Not all RP guys are bitter betas who think they swallowed the pill just three days ago. Players will always be players, they will jump from one branch to another, cheat and manipulate just like the how they think the women behave. An honest hardworking man will always work hard to make his and his loved ones lives better. This is in our blood. Don't think that all men are like that (those on the trp sub). Nowadays good people are very rare I know but theres still some out there
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/17 04:53 AM
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I remember reading a blog post about online dating. That post was written based on actual data that comes from okcupid. I found the writers very smart, and being an engineer, I logged into the system. This was probably a decade ago. And I recently tried tinder and happn. Once in a while, I log in, change my pictures and start hunting. I got a few ONS, LTRs and made a couple of friends from online dating sites. While I don't have lots of experience, and my sample group is small, I can say that, "…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 04:57 AM
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I tried okcupid and tinder for a while. Some tell you that they can score via these apps. I call this BS. If you have good looks, and can keep a conversation with a woman, why would you need online dating apps in the first place ? Instead of spending hours swiping and feeding women's egos, go out have fun and approach real people. In my experience, the women who ise dating apps are usually broken beyond repair
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 01:50 PM
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I am not that familiar with the Arabic culture, but my observation is that they very much respect women. They just have different ways to show it. Like you said the arabic guys are in a way afraid to get close to a woman. I don't live in the UAE but visit here frequently for business. I see women walking on the street 2 am in the morning with whatever clothing they choose to wear. As an outsider that seems to be a safe place. But yes you know much better than I do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 01:47 PM
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You know what? I agree with you. Women have these incredible sensors that detect how good a man is. They assess you in many ways than yiu can think of. So yes, my friends was right at the first place. You must have a big problem if you stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 01:41 PM
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I get that it is very hard for a woman who is looking for a LTR than someone who is looking for ONS. The same is true for men also. I remember one of my friends (a woman) telling something along these lines: If a man in his mid thirties wants to get married, and after announcing this can't find a willing bride in 15 minutes, it means that there is something wrong with the guy. At first I agreed with this statement, but as I write in the beginning, it is not easy to find somebody for a LTR and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 08:00 AM
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This ! Everything in life is good under moderation. Yes nofap has benefits for sure but denying your deep desires will sure have negative effects on your life. Totally agree with you
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 07:50 AM
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Only you can make this decision. Your age, your overall health, your fitness level all have effect on how your body generates hormones. I am in my mid-thirties, exercise regularly and watch what I eat. So I may be considered a healthy male. After I "recycle" my "resources" it takes 2-3 days for my body to get back to normal levels. My sexual drive and desire comes to a "manageable" level. After 7 days the energy becomes almost too much to handle. I have come to this point by experimenting. I've …
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 07:47 AM
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I would imagine that living in the UAE would be a paradise for single women. The male to female ratio is very high, there are expats coming from all over the world so that you can pick any flavor that you like and lastly is is probably one of the safest places on earth. I guess decent people are becoming rare and rare in the whole world which makes it harder for people other than players and gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 05:58 AM
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Once a week seems about right, at least for me. Longer than that, the excess energy starts to cause issues
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 08:57 PM
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Your reaction is way over the top. It seems like she got on your nerves, and this whole thing started way before that day. I don't think that you held frame, in fact it is the opposite, you cracked under pressure. I am telling you this, because you are a fellow red piller, so please take this with a grain of salt. If you reacted earlier, when she started to treat you bad, it would be better. But instead you let her disrespect you and that is the reason your abger built up and you had this breakd…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 09:32 AM
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This is probably the best advice here
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 09:27 AM
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Relationship with women is more like buying a car instead of buying investment options. Their value will deppreciate faster as you put in more miles, but since you use it as a utility, you get benefits for what you pay for. And this is normal If you dont use it, and don't get the benefits thats when the problems start. Still they will loose value, and you have to lay taxes for owning it. The idea is that you should buy a slightly used one, make some lihht modifications, put some miles on it and …
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 08:36 PM
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This is the kind of post that I want to read here in tRP Objective, to the point with actual proof instead of anecdotal evidence Keep up the good work, Looking forward to reading your next posts
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 01:59 PM
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If we are talking about women like the ones from crossfit games, than I am not interested one bit. If we are talking about a fit chick, than it depends. I am a man, I am attracted to femininity. And the amount of muscles a woman have does not increase her attractiveness in that department
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 01:22 PM
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I ve made extensive experiments on myself, for science of course, on the topic of nofap. When you get off with porn, two things happen. First you loose that "magic" juice that drives your engines. Second, you overload your reward system so much that it becomes numb. 7 days is about the first peak where you feel those so called super powers. Around that time you feel great, feel the energy pumping thru your veins. Women act differently around you. Than in 3 or 4 weeks another high comes. This is …
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 11:23 AM
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Can you share the original french versions ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 06:30 AM
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The guy is in a sexless marriage for sure. But the woman, we don't know ;)
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 02:12 PM
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This is ojlne of the best comments that i have read on tRP You should write a post on this thinking
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 09:34 AM
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Good observation. What the world desperately needs right now is good role models. If most people were raised in a good family setting, by feminine mothers and masculine dads, we would be in a much better place right now. Please correct me if I am wrong, but most people here on tRP complain about toxic feminism, and most of the talking is on holding frame, lifting, and more importantly pumping and dumping bitches. How does this help humanity ? I don't know. What we should do is, instead of trying…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 08:38 AM
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Agree with Rico on this one. They can get all the thirsty males, but in the end they still starve. It is much like constantly eating fast food. Your body needs real nutritions, but you feed it with garbage. In the end, you become weak and get sick.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 08:32 AM
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It seems that you are on the right track. A word of advice to you from a middle aged guy. Do more walking and less talking. Reading the stuff from the sidebar and posts is nice, but make sure you practice enough. Knowledge comes from theory applied to practice. Keep it up !
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 03:20 PM
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I agree with you by experience that a good photograph changes everything. Not just on tinder, all the way up to Linkedin I shot a couple of good portraits of one of my friends. I am not a professional photographer, but used a good camera and lens (fuji X system, and XF56mm f1.2 for those who are interested) He said that it made a huge impact on the number of matches and messages he gets. But I don't think it is a good idea to try to take your own shots. Setting up a timer, or a remote trigger is…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 05:25 AM
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While I don't agree with some of the details in your post (crossing arms does not always mean something) generally you are on a good track. Yes, physical connection is the key. And it is very simple. First keep a steady eye contact. Look them in the eye. If she likes you, she will break eye contact, but you will see in her face that she gets a little bit shy, which is a good thing. If she doesn't like you, she will find you a creep and look disgusted. Second, touch her. Touch her on the shoulder…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 05:16 AM
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I'll second your second point
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 03:49 AM
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You answered the question very simply. When you have some form of advantage over others, you feel confident. You don't feel that you will loose any conflict. Physical superiority is not the only source of that confidence, but our animal instincts go way deep, and is very much influences most our actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:20 PM
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I'm 5'5", I don't feel any less like a man around taller people Well I am really happy for you that you don't feel insecure about your physical build. You might be right that I am not used to being "smaller". But on the other hand, you don't know the feeling of being bigger and physically superior compared to other men in the room. Yes, being comfortable in your own skin is important, but that confidence should come from somewhere, right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:08 PM
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Short men got issues There might be many scientific studies conclude that people are drawn to taller men, but this is very important too. I am a tall guy (1.90) and have an athletic build. If I come in contact with someone who is taller and stronger than me, I can feel the effect of their physical superiority. I mean it is not that I have a fist fight daily, but being taller definitely changes the dynamics. Shorter guys must be feeling inferior all the time. And I believe that they know women fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:58 PM
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Instagram reflects the current trends of new generation. They express themselves on the street the same way they do it on instagram. This is not news. Yes, your points are valid. Yes the new generation is degenerated. They are fucked up. But with all due respect, can we move to more actionable insights instead of the dead obvious ? Have a good day,
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 11:49 AM
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5 years ago people used to complain about facebook being toxic and shit. The same thing is happening for instagram now. What people don't realize is that these platforms bring you personalized content, just like you said. My feed is full of good work of photography artists, and almost never see naked butt of random woman. Go figure !
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 10:40 AM
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Women appreciate premature rapport as much as they appreciate premature ejaculation Very good observation. They love it because they probably think that they are a sex god or something. But if this happens regularly, that is a no go
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 10:34 AM
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Ok. A big dick is a big dick. Experience is experience. I don't understand that everytime the length issue comes up, somebody says girth is more important. And they use this same reasoning that a thick short one is better than long thin one. How about this? A long thick one draws circles about a short thin one. Experience is very important for sure, but all the experience in the world will not make a dick longer and thicker.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 09:37 AM
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5 inches might be average. It is what it is. But at the same time, 5 inches is small. Sure you might make it work, but most of the woman would prefer 7 inches to 5 inches. At least that's what I've been told
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 11:15 AM
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Future Alpha explained it perfectly, but let me chip in with my 2 c. Discipline comes from within. It is your determination expressing itself. If you have that internal drive, the actions come naturally. You go into the flow when you are working. But motivation usually comes from outside. Music, drugs, a pat on the shoulder etc. These are mostly artificial. Yes, they might get you on your feet, but they don't guarantee that you will keep on going. You have to reach in yourself and find your inne…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 11:06 AM
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Motivation us for suckers Discipline is the real deal
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 10:11 PM
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I don't understand how you can use texting and frame in the same sentence. Texting might be a tool for some, but it's goal should be bringing you face to face with her. Most of the "successful" texters are deep blue betas
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 10:01 PM
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How is atheism beta, but on the other hand living your life by the rules of somebody else is not ? I am not trying to question your beliefs, but this doesnt make sense
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 02:12 PM
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I am sorry to break it up to you but this is the textbook definition of a blue pill behavior
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 01:35 PM
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Numnber 7 and 8 are very important Motivation is an external force. An upbeat music, a tap on the shoulder, a speech from one of your idols, you name it But it comes and goes. Self discipline comes from inside which is mich more powerfull
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 05:54 AM
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I can't say I agree with you on most points, but I liked your interpretation very much. I didn't realize this before, but yes both Harvey and Batman falling off the building must be a metaphor. Bruce is physically stronger than Dent for sure, but emotionally, I am not sure. There is only one moment where Batman takes out his own mask and that's the morning after Rachel's death. (And the second time was when Bane "breaks" him) About Rachel's choice, I thought she chooses Harvey because he is more…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 07:59 PM
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To start with, I am the one who was talking about Jung and the dark knight. You and I are looking at the same thing from a completely different angle and I am trying to understand your point. So help me put this together. You say that Harvey was not up to his promise. I agree that he was called two face, but he is the one who stood up against all of the mafia, he was brave enough to continue charges even after some of his friends were killed. And when the things started going south, he lost it, …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 05:31 PM
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Why do you think that Rachel was a bad judge of character ? Just curious
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 04:20 PM
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The reason Rachel didn't end up with Bruce is because he didn't hang up the cape. She didn't want to be with some guy who drove out in the night, all night, every night Ok this is what Rachel told to Bruce Wayne. And when Bruce told Rachel that he was willing to let go of his other identity, how did she reacted ? She said they won't let us be together. She didn't want to be with Bruce Wayne, but she liked to have an orbiter that powerful, that's all. She was in love with Harvey Dent from the beg…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 01:43 PM
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This ! As a 6"3 lean muscular guy, I can say that they love it. I do this every time and they respond back with a passionate kiss and that sparkly look in their eyes. If she is on the petite side somewhere around 100-120 lbs, I carry her on my shoulder to the bed. Then have fun !
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 01:24 PM
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The movie Dark Knight is a modern mythologic story. Joseph Campbell (RIP) says that all the myths come from the collective subconscious of people. There is also Carl Jung who has this theory called dark knight. He says that we all have a darker side inside us which shapes and manipulates our desires and actions. And this darker side is often shaped by past traumas. So, combine the ideas of these two important people. Everybody knows that we have some kind of a secret, darker side which we can no…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 01:01 PM
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The first rule of hamstering is you do not admit that you are hamstering ;) But yes, I agree with you. If you need to thrive, you have to push it forward. Thanks for the suggestion. I will reflect and act on this suggestion.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 12:39 PM
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Sorry but I don't watch movies that much, and I have never ever read a comic book. But this was a good discussion Peace !
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 10:32 AM
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Solid post. Think of a man who has his shit together. Concentrated on his career, has hobbies, is in touch with his family and his friends. Do you think this guy would answer all of his woman's requests right away ? Of course not. But he wouldn't do this as a "technique". Because he would be genuinely busy. And there is one more thing. When the hamster starts rolling, it does no good. Women and men are so afraid of that hamster that they need to be occupied by something all the time. If you keep…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 10:27 AM
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Now I see your point. I think you look at the "scoring" issue more like a hunting sport. I regularly excercise but never push myself to the limits. One day one of my friends said (while riding a mountain bike) if you don't tip or fall over your bike in a particular day, that means you didn't ride that day. He said that you don't know if you push your limits unless from time to time you fail. That is probably the same thinking that says "if you don't get rejected enough, that means you are not tr…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 10:13 AM
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Bruce Wayne slayed pussy I'm sure. He was definitely not having Albert jerk him off in the batmobile, but again... This is fiction. This was pure gold. Laughed so much :) Anyways, we can't be sure if he had a severe case of PTSD, or he finally get in touch with who he really is, because well, this is a fiction after all. he was out for revenge and started hunting down everybody who he tought was responsible. But in the end you convinced me that he was not a white knight. He might be a grey knigh…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 10:09 AM
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Totally agree with you. I sometimes go to sales meetings as a consultant but never show boring powerpoint presentations to the clients. I ask them questions and start drawing a solution to a whiteboard as the discussion continues. At the end of the meeting, the client thinks that they instructed me to paint that particular solution, and it is tailor-made for their specific needs, but it is the same drawing for every client. If they believe they are the ones who lead to that solution, it is very …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 09:58 AM
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Ok, not everything in life is pure black and white. You might be right, but not everybody needs to spend that much time and energy to chase after women. There should be a balance between focusing on your career, on your hobbies, and putting the time to go after women. And yes, when I score, I will definitely brag about it to the guys at the locker room.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 09:54 AM
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I didn't know being interested in mythology makes you a dork. If it makes you feel better, I also lift weights and score some chicks too. Am I good now ?
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 09:48 AM
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"I am the batman." Good point. Don't get me wrong, Dent was not the perfect hero. You know they called him two face, and he had this coin and used it to con people. But what made him different than Wayne was, when he was faced with the loss of a loved one, instead of hiding his identity, he let people see his real nature.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 09:44 AM
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You are spot on If she is only having coffee with you and texting you, the chances are she is fucking somebody else
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 09:35 AM
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Great addition. Now it makes sense
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 09:31 AM
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To me Dent seems an honest guy. He wanted his city to be a better place, and all he did was to make sure the streets are more cleaner. I don't understand why you think he tried to steal Batman's identity. What's more interesting is how Wayne sees Dent. Dent clearly stole Wayne's oneitis, but he was also he could be the savior of the city. So Dent was Wayne's worst enemy and his only hope at the same time. If Batman would really care for the city, he would go after Dent when they were about to di…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 09:30 AM
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Mankind has been telling stories since from the very beginning. The characters Batman, Joker, and Dent are no different than Perseus, Icarus, and Achilles. We know that neither of them ever existed. But the creator of the story uses these characters as a substitute of some common behaviors. This is what makes some stories very enjoyable because they come from real life experiences. And lastly, the interpretation is more important than the actual story here. So there is no right or wrong, this is…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 09:25 AM
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This is simple. She had no interest in you. Period. Because you were in her frame. You were desperately thinking what is wrong, and why she is not giving attention to you. You can't negotiate genuine attraction. If one day you become a more interesting, high valued man, they'll start to listen to you more. So, keep on working..
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 09:15 AM
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Think back... Did she actually say anything inventive? Or did she instead simply agree with you? Better still was she one step ahead of you ? Think hard. What really happened today? Was what you remembered actually real? This is golden advice. Probably one of the biggest IOI is that if the woman lets you to lead the interaction. But one should be very careful, because they (the women) have this incredible intelligence built into their brains, that they let you believe that they are very submissi…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 09:07 AM
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I see these ideas as tools to maintain long-term relationships and get what I want out of them, which is unprotected sex on a regular basis. I don't think that most guys here would agree with you. But this is exactly what I want. Instead of hooking up with many strangers and have mediocore sex at best, I would like to form deeper connections with a woman and form deeper connections. If you and I both get kicked ot of the red pill, we should create our own platform, and call it something like ora…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 09:04 AM
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most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inert, so hopelessly dependent on the system that they will fight to protect it So true I don't give advice to people anymore. Everybody has their own equilibrium in their life. And nobody wants to get anywhere. Misery is a very comfortable place for the general public.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 08:58 AM
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OK this is easy. In no particular order Where does she keep her phone ? If she carries it in his hand the whole time, she is probably addicted to online validation. How is her relationship with her father ? If she says good things about her dad, it is a good sign that she has a good father figure, and that signals she will look for honest, hard working guys in his life. How does her mom treat her dad. She will learn to approach her man from her mom Does she justify using online dating sites like…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 11:45 AM
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We have slightly different views on the very same topic but that's OK. I think it is not about how beautiful a person is. It is how much they are attached to the beauty. If a woman is concerned too much about her beauty, she will think about it more, she will spend more time on preserving it, and in the end she will have a greater fear of loosing it. That's what matters the most
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 01:21 PM
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Mostly agree with you. When a woman is young and attractive, everybody wants to be around them. They get free treats, people trying to approach them, laughing to every joke they make, etc. It's as if they don't have to put any effort to be "liked". But when their youth passes away all this attention starts to slowly fade away. There are two things that a woman can do at this stage. One is to deny this reality that everybody ages. The other way to is turn bitter, push this obvious change aside an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 09:23 AM
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This is a very tough question to answer. When you see a beautiful woman, your first guess is that she would be very confident about her looks. The reality is quite the opposite. Beautiful women are so attached to their looks, that they are very much afraid of loosing the privileges that they have because of their looks. Especially they start to get their first wrinkles. Men on the other hand start to gain wealth and power as they get older. So they enjoy the privileges mostly in their 30s and 40…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 09:16 AM
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One of my female friends said this one time: If a guy in his 30s genuinely says that he wants to get married, and doesn't get a bride in her dress in less than 15 minutes, there must be something wrong with the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 09:07 AM
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Sorry but I don't agree with you, in fact I think it is the exact opposite for men. If you work smart and build a good life, you will gain experience, create more value and improve the quality of your life. If you beautify your life, you know what happens ? People start to get drawn to you life. Instead of trying to look younger, learning the PUA tactics you surround yourself with good people. If you ask me, like at 30s is much more better than life at 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 06:35 AM
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You know what ? I think you are right. I am a proud owner of 36 years under my belt and a pair of balls :D 30s are very good if you are over 6", still in good shape and have a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 04:02 PM
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Oh come on! I call myself and old fashioned guy, but in todays standards 14 is still a child
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 03:52 PM
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If the wall means not being able to reproduce healthly, yes I still have a chance and not close to hitting the wall. But to me wall means something else. It's being desired by other gender, it's turning some heads while you walk by, it's the good feeling when you realise someone desires you so much that she daydreams about you. But love is somehow much colorful when you are young. The older you get, the more it looses its charm
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 04:38 PM
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As much as I agree and love your first comment, I am not so sure about this one. Yes women have this amazing ability to adapt to different situations but the virtues you described are very hard to get. It gets a good family, dedication and will to get there
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 04:30 PM
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Black humor isn't it ? Woman like AsYouPleaseDaddy described are far more rare than young beautiful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 04:28 PM
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Great points. As a 36 male, I would be very happy with a woman who does the things that you listed and choose her to someone who is young but ignorent
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 04:26 PM
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I will check that out. And I really love how he owns the mistake he did in iraq (the story from his tedx talk)
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 04:21 PM
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This guy has probably been thru shit that none of us can imagine, yet he managed to survive. I value his experiences, and how he shares with us in a digestible format. I love his podcast where he talks about his attitude when he faces bad situations. He says he always says "good" whenever something bad happens. Yes, that's how winning is done.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 01:33 PM
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there is no group more attractive to young women than young men Totally agree on this one. And this also implies that the famous wall not only applies to women, but to men also. This is coming from a 36 yo male..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 12:52 PM
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At the age of 14 you are supposed to be a child, not a man. I understand that it was the only way for you to cope with the problems but being forced to mature early in life might be another problem. Be careful
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 05:45 AM
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OK, there is a good discussion going on here, so let me ask you a couple of questions. Very Thought provoking... The economics part is easily understood... I've been buying low and selling high ever since I was a kid. You feel that you are selling your services low, and buying at a high price. That means you feel that you are not getting your potential's worth. I don't know your gender, but whenever I talk to a woman, they say there are not quality enough men to go around, and whenever I talk to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 11:35 AM
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SMV is more about economics rather than aesthetics. The idea is simple. Lets think that we are way back in stone age. You have some eggs, and I have some apples. We want to trade our goods. What would be the rate of exchange ? An apple for an egg ? And what effects that rate ? There will be other sellers on the market. So if let's say there are many apple sellers, and there is only a few egg sellers, egg sellers would require more than one apples for a single egg. And what happens if there are e…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 08:37 AM
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Most of the guys from /trp perceive the world only in black and white. If it is a woman, she must be bad. Sex is only penetration. People are only rated by their atractiveness on a scale from 1 to 10 This mindset dictates that sex is some kind of currency like money. When you become alpha enough you will be rewarded by beautiful virgins who are all solid 10s Don't expect an humane mindset from a guy who spends all his time to become an alpha douche
/r/ExRedPill24/02/17 10:24 AM
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There are two different , almost unrelated things about your situation The first is he spending aost 3 hours daily at the gym. Take it from a fitness instructor, if he is actively working out that long everyday, he is up for injuries. You should have resr days and deload weeks to give your body time to recover. It is not a good idea to push yourself hard without resting. The reduced sex drive issue is caused by excessive workouts. I workout 3 times a week with 1 hour workouts and it definitely i…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 06:06 AM
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Excellent perspective. All day long the guys at tRP are whining about who evil, how empty the womenkind is, and their response to this situation is pumping and dumping them. Yes women and men are very different but we all want what's best for us.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/17 04:32 PM
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WOW! This is the kind of advice from someone who lived and learned. I guess what you are describing is "husband goggles". But it works the opposite of wife goggles. Once a woman sees you in your lowest, she will always remember that. The lesson I learned from your "hard earned experience" is that you have to deliver constantly above a certain level. Yes sometimes life hits us hard, and sometimes it is really hard to keep your spirit up, but than again, the idea of someone loving you unconditiona…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 09:22 AM
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In another words, you can't negotiate genuine attraction
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 04:32 PM
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I am glad that you found those insights helpful. Sometimes when you write something down, or talk out loud, you realise that there are more aspects to what you had in mind. A few days ago I was with a close friend of mine. He, as most of us do, have a broken heart. He kept trying with many different women but still not happy in his relationships. This guy lost his mom in his childhood and had many difficulties after losing her. Anyway, he said he found an old hard drive from 10 years ago, which …
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 08:20 AM
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Let's dig this a little bit deeper. Both attracting someone and keeping them with you have different challenges. But, Being attracted to someone has a big chance component built into it. Both should be in the mood, both should be available, both should press the right buttons at the right time. You can win someone's heart in many ways. But when it comes to keeping the relationship fresh, you have to put in constant work for the rest of the relationship, everyday. When the times and therefore lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 08:04 AM
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Good point. Building a good relationship and keeping that relationship is way more harder compared to finding someone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 04:22 PM
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OK, I don't usually give advice online, but you seem like you need one. As a 35 yo Turkish man, I say dump him. You are trying to chase something that probably not exists at all. How do you know that this guy is an alpha ? Being good looking and charming doesn't make you alpha. Most of the times, it is hard (for many people) to distinguish a PUA from a real alpha. I see that most of the times women who are looking for drama go for broken men. They hand pick those kind of guys who have been deepl…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 03:01 PM
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Different strokes for different folks! I agree that most people you find on /nofap are young incels who are raised by their mobile phones, and fap more than 3 times a day. For that kind of people, yes I can see the "huge" benefits. If you eat clean, exercise, and have a healthy social life, you inherently should not have a porn addiction. I started to reboot this november, and continued for 2 whole months. At the end of this period, I realised that my testosterone levels were got higher, so the …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 03:17 PM
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I have been taking cold showers non stop for the last 9 months, and I love it. But in your case maybe it is the effect, not the cause. Think of it like this, life is like riding a wave, you have ups and downs. When you are starting to loose energy, first symptom would be not finding the courage to go into the cold shower, than a couple of days later you start to loose money. I am not saying the cold shower works, I believe the opposite. But your situation may be different. Just a food for though…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 05:28 AM
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tRP is like a religion. The core belief system has deep rules and contain great teachings from people who have lived the life and experienced it to the fullest. But, many people want to believe in something, so they read the "verses" by big colored glasses in the hopes of trying to find a way to ease their pain. And a small minority is making a great deal of money from these butthurt man who just "swallowed the pill" Let's look at Tyler for example. He is a very clever guy. I like some of his vi…
/r/ExRedPill31/12/16 09:56 AM
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Great contribution. It is very eye opening to see the shittest equation from a womans perspective. TRP is filled with posts about shittests but they rarely deliver informative real life scenarios.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/16 05:50 AM
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RP and nofap A great combination
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 06:15 AM
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Just curious. Where do you live ?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 06:14 AM
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This is something that I wrote short time ago. Hope you like it. Take this as a middle aged man's view What is the most valuable thing that you have ? Your car ? Your job ? Your significant other ? No right or wrong here, everybody has their own values. This is your life, and your priorities. All those things that you value, that you crave, that you care for, they all exists on a ground basis. That is your life. Without life, nothing would happen. Since everything is built "on" your life, nothin…
/r/ExRedPill20/11/16 11:50 AM
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Growing up is a painful experience. When we were a baby, we used to cuddle to our mothers' warm bellies, get to drink delicious and yummy milk every time we wanted and when we needed anything, by just crying - not even saying a word - all our needs were taken care of. Life became a completely different experience once we started to grow. Some adapted to this constant change and became adults. Some refused to adapt and stayed childish. So in light of this simple view, most RPers are made from hea…
/r/ExRedPill18/11/16 03:49 PM
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Great explanation. Saving this for future reference. Loved the term male hamster
/r/TheRedPill29/10/16 04:24 PM
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This is a much more accurate translation
/r/MGTOW25/10/16 05:30 AM
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Yes ! Women don't want the truth. They want to feel good. So they write their own truth which would include themselves in the happy picture. A woman body is inherently beautiful. But today's women loose the beauty with partying
/r/MGTOW24/10/16 09:09 AM
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Again great insights. I too have been telling the same thing, and use a coloured sunglass analogy. Once you start to enquiry the world with a clear mind, everything starts to make sense. If you have needs, biases etc, then you are not looking, you are searching to find you own version of truth
/r/MGTOW17/10/16 01:18 PM
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Brother, I saved this post and came back a few times to read again. It made sense at first, but now that I have given enough time to process what you wrote, I say you are a brilliant man Nobody around here likes to acknowledge that women are very clever creatures. The harsh truths that are very hard to swallow for the men, the women already know inherently. They are already masters of hypergamy and utilize what they have to the fullest. They know the weakness of men and they use them to their ad…
/r/MGTOW13/10/16 04:44 PM
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There is a big irony here. This woman is already armed with the bitter truth, yet many incels waste their days on end with playing video games or many bluepillers continue white knighting. Let me summarise what she says: She has her days with "fun" guys. She is already aware that those guys only want her for her body (while still young and fresh) but she also realises that her time as a beautiful flower are limited. She has to get someone who will never turn down her no matter what ( all her pre…
/r/MGTOW12/10/16 04:46 PM
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I've been in a few situations where a women said I am sorry to me. Now that I look back, I see a pattern She will do that if she has no power over you and she has a great fear of loosing you. At that moment her hamster will start to run, and she will think that this is the right way to do.
/r/MGTOW12/10/16 04:28 PM
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The answer is easy, They have an attention lifespan of a child so that they even don't understand that they are not concentrated on the task at all. The worse, they forget why they sit down in the first hand
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 03:58 PM
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Great insights, A man who wants to build a happy LTR relationship should answer these questions himself.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/16 03:57 PM
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Less is more A great album by Marillion :)
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 08:28 AM
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Great article. Thanks for pointing out
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 06:19 AM
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Take it from a musician and a meditator, music is a very strong stimulant and changes your feelings radically. Yes it is a good thing, and everbody likes music so I don't mean it is bad, but the way we use it is problematic. Most people put up music when they study, workout, doing housework etc. The problem is that it takes some part of concentration away. It is not white noise, so your brain tries to understand it and gives some of it's resources to it. Like the OP stated, you should limit the …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 05:30 AM
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Lady, You should write a book, and someone should sponsor it so that the book is printed millions of copies and sent to every married couple in the world
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 06:14 AM
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Yes, he was in a LTR, and his GF had a child from earlier. I remember listening to one of his interviews where he talks about his GF and his GF's daughter. How he loved that girl, watching her grow and spending time with her etc. The point is, having a woman does not make you less a man. He likes to keep his GF, and he can manage to keep her He can keep her emotions under control, he never gives his freedom to her, he keeps her where she needs to be. So in short he wants a good woman and he gets…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 06:26 PM
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OK, lets dig this a little bit deeper. If a woman is OK with her partner having other sexual partners, this may be because of two things. First she may have other men on the side, and for her sex is just something to release. Second, she wants that man so much that she can't afford to loose him by disagreeing with his arrangements. The latter fits to your definition of the plate, and I know that the former group is not that small. I totally agree here with you on your definition of the BB. He is…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 11:08 AM
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I specifically said in my OP we aren't talking about women who genuinely want to be plates. You're debating an argument I never made Yeah I may have misread that part. But in defence, my last reply about nice guys covers that scenario as well Cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 06:09 AM
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I would love to see the picture of the woman
/r/MGTOW06/10/16 06:07 AM
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That's male solipsism. Sex isn't a consolation prize to LOTS of women. In fact, it can make them feel worse about themselves. I don't think I implied that. We are talking about consensual relationships right ? In a FWB setting, both the woman and the man are willing to have sex on good terms so to speak. If they have the chemistry, and be upfront about their intentions, than both parties can have a long lasting and fulfilling relationship which is based on sexual ground. Now, if you use the word…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 05:58 AM
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You are not putting a very important part of woman motivation according the tRP, which is the dual mating strategy. Women get to have good sex with their partners. If she can't get to be fucked her brains out, she would leave him and find another. She may not get commitment out of it but at least she gets something OTOH an orbiter is always in service with the hopes of just getting close to her. He gives and gives and gives and gets almost nothing in return. The thing that gets him going is just…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 04:23 AM
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you cannot make them happy for longer than 15 minutes So true.
/r/MGTOW05/10/16 07:48 PM
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He was a perfect example of a MGTOW to me. He knew the true value of pussy and honestly said that he needed it. Everyman needs a woman. It is programmed into our genes. The ones who deny this are the ones who have to pay a premium price for it or can't get it at all. There are hundreds and thousands of charlatans out there who will tell you the secrets of "getting any woman you want". But on the expense of what ? Buy their book first, and then go out spend many nights in bars chasing sluts, chan…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 07:45 PM
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Very good question which got me thinking about the term The more I think about it, I came to a conclusion that chad is the monster that is living under every MGTOW wannabe and incel RP If you grow some balls, go out and fight a good fight, you get what you deserve. And the next day is another fight which you may or may not win, and the next day, and the next day.. So my point is, somedays you are that Chad yourself, the guy who happens to be there when she needs it, pushes the right buttons, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 03:26 PM
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Sounds like a perfect MGTOW mindset to me Congrats on your new life
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 03:01 PM
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Or yet in another words "choose, or others will choose for you"
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 04:42 PM
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When I was in college I used to go to the gym for a couple of years and was very serious about it. Some of the guys (read almost all of them) had very serious body image issues which was worse than a girl in puberty. I experienced in first hand that guys looking so muscular outside can be so fragile on the inside. Hence confidence does not come from those muscles, it comes from the balls!
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 04:40 PM
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That sounds a perfect description of a MGTOW to me. You have goals and dreams. You live your life the way you like it, and dont care what others label you. You already figured out that the value of pussy is not that much and it taked too much effort to keep that "social butterfly" status going What most people, including the OP don't get is, some people (read introverts) value deep and meaningful social interactions. As an introvert myself I drain all my batteries just by sitting an hour in a cr…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 06:14 AM
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This would be a much better interpretation
/r/MGTOW02/10/16 05:36 AM
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Please don't be a shallow guy. They teach many different topics to women in self improvement classes. Like, how to do makeup, loose weight, being sexually advantageous in bed. And when they can't put the effort to become a more desired woman, they talk about how important the inner beauty is...
/r/MGTOW01/10/16 07:22 AM
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The first person in the group to open his mouth (a guy) suggested that the charity be HeForShe. Another guy said nah, that's not a charity. He instead suggested breast cancer awareness...I couldn't hold in my laughter I too laughed as I read this
/r/MGTOW01/10/16 07:17 AM
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This is a great explanation. Yes women have a monthly cycle and it messes with their hormonal balance, but I believe the desire to a particular man (or the lack thereof) is a the underlying motivator behind sex drive. If a woman respects her man, trusts him (in many ways) the sex is an act of submission, which would be highly rewarding for both parties. In another words woman celebrates her man's masculinity by pleasing her. Mother nature is very very clever here by putting an endless desire to …
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/16 11:22 AM
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This ! The ability of being a good story teller pays so much more than working long hours in a cubicle.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 11:13 AM
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I'll just leave this here click click
/r/MGTOW30/09/16 10:51 AM
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Male, bloody red. Do exclusively bodyweight fitness. 13% BF, 1.90 m height. Watch my diet. Don't have big arms and chest but I can do L sits, HS pushups, etc. I love it when I look directly to the eyes of a women I like, and she immediately start to respond to me. I am not talking about picking up ONS from a bar, women you meet in the office, see on the elevator, or in front of you in a coffee shop. Sometimes they don't notice my presence, but other times they acknowledge masculine presence. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 05:28 AM
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OK, lets look at the situation from another perspective. You are saying that not only women, but also men loose the ability to bond. So, I am asking this as an open question both to you and myself. Is this related to the human behaviour in general (not limited to sexual strategy). You can't expect to sell the cow if you give away the milk. A person with an high N count expects to find new sexual partners with ease. An ONS, or a FWB would require very little effort to keep healthy. As a bonus, if…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 03:57 PM
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Maybe /r/exredpill should be this place from the start ?
/r/ExRedPill29/09/16 03:42 PM
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This is exactly what I was thinking the other day. There should be a subreddit for this kind of people who are in the second phase. Let's call it /r/theRedPillAfterAngerPhase There we would talk about reaching our goals, getting better at competitive sports, building furniture, woodcutting, and of course about women. But not shit talking about them, just appreciating the life and living it..
/r/ExRedPill29/09/16 02:25 PM
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OK, as a RPer who recently swallowed (at least I think so) the pill, I think "women have no value" notion is completely wrong. Women can give birth. Women have breasts that feed babies. Women have nurturing instincts. Even if a women sits and does nothing all day long, she still has these abilities. Most of the RP community is talking about how evil the women are. But what they often forget is that their mother is a women too. If the mother does not have these "abilities" we wouldn't be around. …
/r/ExRedPill29/09/16 12:27 PM
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Usually the opposites attract each other, but in the case of introverts vs. extroverts, this is rarely true. The reason is, extroverts see and label introverts as anti-social people which is far from the truth. When an extrovert is craving for fun times and an introvert stops them, they often get annoyed. I had this live-in GF 5 years ago. She always wanted to party and stay up late. I on the other hand wanted to get up early in the morning (yes, saturdays and sundays included) and go to the woo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 12:07 PM
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Did you ask this question because you genuinely want to study this subject, or are you arguing with me that this is not true ? I am fine either way., just asking.. A quick google search returns many results. I am going to share just a few here An article from huffingtonpost which is based on a poll An excellent article from Rollo OTOH, my personal experience definitely confirms these posts. Out of the women I have experienced some level of relationships, the ones who had high N count were not wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 10:52 AM
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You are absolutely right. There are many butthurt men (or should I say child) who always cry and whine about how women are sluts, gold diggers etc. But, there is a big but here that there are still very experienced guys out there who still share quality insights. It is very rare but it is still there. When most of them use the phrase "swallowing the pill" what they refer to is the understanding of their value (lack of) and that almost nobody would care for them. A true tRPer would get the inform…
/r/ExRedPill28/09/16 02:35 PM
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That "spark" you mention, gives you the motivation to go out and fight a good fight. I think I understand what you mean by that. Can you give us a couple of examples of those mystics and masters ? One that comes to my mind is Andy Puddicombe
/r/MGTOW26/09/16 12:46 PM
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OK, first an introvert is not inherently an anti-social person. The reverse is true. I am an introvert person myself and it took me more than 30 years to figure out what it means. I like to socialise with people. I like going out. But, as an introvert my senses are very sensitive so I get exhausted quite fast in a loud and crowded party setting. I always prefer a quiet home gathering or a nice quiet place where I will be able to hear people talking. Extrovert people on the other hand get their e…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 12:35 PM
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You are right. Men, especially the ones who have confidence issues don't like their woman to be experienced. But, there is important thing. When a woman has too much ( I am not giving any numbers here ) partners, she looses her ability to bond. This is human nature, like if you have too much money, would you care if you loose your car ? Or do you still value your belongings ? No. The same thing applies to men as well, but women in my experience loose their intimate bonding motivation. Then all t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 12:23 PM
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This is really powerful stuff. Thanks for sharing
/r/MGTOW26/09/16 12:14 PM
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Sad but true, So true that it hurts. But once you acknowledge this simple wisdom, you come in peace with human interactions..
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 12:07 PM
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The problem is not about the size of his dick. It is because that he has no balls A woman can smell a man's insecurities from miles away and when she does, she looses respect for him. What this fella does not know is that this woman is just using him until something better comes up. I am pretty sure sooner or later she will leave him either for a huge dick or a beefier wallet
/r/MGTOW21/09/16 02:17 PM
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I've been to a tantra workshop once. It was probably one of the most intimate, intense and deeply satisfying experiences of my life. And the best part is we had our clothes on all the time. Tantra is not a kind of sex. Think of it as meditation done by two people. You experience your existance thru your partners body Just wanted to clarify. Cheers.
/r/MGTOW21/09/16 02:09 PM
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Can you give some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 06:46 AM
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I am not referring to body parts being tight. It is the mindset. Before 25 years old, am woman is fun to be around. She is cute, she is spontaneous, she lives the moment (mostly). After hitting the wall, all they think (again most of them) is to lock some looser in order to secure their later years. I rarely see a woman get wiser as she gets older. They become obsessed people and always demand things from their partner (i.e. slave) new car, another baby, new furniture etc. And if they are not lu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 07:38 AM
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I am not sure I get the point of this post. But here is my 2c. There is a saying, men age like wine, women age like milk. If you still have a six pack ( which you can still have by the age of 40 and even in your 50s) and willing to invest the time, you can still get younger girls. The limit is your willingness, there is plenty of young girls around for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 06:33 AM
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The last sentence, it is worth a thousand posts... I would not want to take a woman as a wife who gave away her youth, and wants me to carry her leftovers (insecurities, crazyness, saggy parts etc). I am sorry to say this but youth is almost everything a woman can offer to a man. All yhe other staff I can find someplace else
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 06:28 AM
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Can you please explain to me how showing alpha traits in a LTR turns your bedroom to a dead one? Isn't it supposed to be the other way around ?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 10:11 AM
1

A great explanation on why the nice guys don't get action at all. Well written. To back this up, I remember watching an interview of Olivia Munn. She says that there is always some kind of sexual tension between her male friends and her. The polarity is what makes the attraction in the first place. So the more feminine the woman, and the more masculine the man, makes a greater tension hence, attraction. While a woman won't say no to an orbiter, she gets very little from him because, well she has…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 08:38 AM
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Great insight on needs hierarchy. People talk about manupilating and fucking damaged girls all day long but nobody talks about real caring loving human relationships. Sure most people will tell you that wonen are like children, hypergamy and shit. But we as a human being thrive in a loving and caring environment. Life is not a never ending battlefield. You should surround yourself with good people..
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 08:38 AM
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The way I understand it he is saying that you putting an effort on yourself or your journey is much arousing than a man commiting himself to the woman and shower her with flowers. Am I right?
/r/MGTOW01/09/16 11:03 AM
1

You listed some good points here. I agree that most of red pillers are loosers who have low self esteem and serious intimacy issues. Also most of them are no different than pick up artists. tRP community is fuelled with hate towards women. But, there is a big but here. The way you portray the whole community is also hateful. You are mostly right with your observations, but mostly does not mean everyone in that community is bad. Some of the guys there lived the life, had very deep and important i…
/r/ExRedPill29/08/16 11:52 AM
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OK the safe anon, like all analogies there may be some parts that don't fit together. But let's try to fix this, just for the sake of fun. A good looking car will definitely be an expensive one. Only few select people have enough resources to drive one, yet many men fantasize that maybe one day they will sit on the drivers seat. For a guy like me who has a mid level income, only way to drive a car like that is to rent one. It will be very expensive for sure, but I will get to drive a ferrari at …
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 07:30 AM
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Totally agree with you. Pussy, money, sports car etc. all these things are there to fill the void inside. If you manage to be in the moment, than you start to realise most of it doesn't matter. The joy of simple things, like drinking water, resting, talking to a friend are really very deep and powerfull
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 03:56 PM
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Being in the zone is undoubtedly the best feeling in the world. You feel one with whatever you are doing at the moment. There are no walls anymore between you and "the other" and become one. At that point your body, your consciousness or whatever it's name is, takes complete control of the flow. And you become a spectator. That way you won't feel anger, rejection or any other "bad" feelings. Likewise getting a girl's number won't be a big deal either. You just do what you got to do, and that's i…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 09:10 AM
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OK, let's meet at some point in the middle. I agree with you that most of the times people need motivation to start doing something. Like the great philosopher Joker said "madness is like gravity, all you need is just a little push" On the other hand, this "little push" may be dangerous because it can take a person to a place where he has no skills, no real ( i.e. deep ) motivation and he can stay stuck there acting like something which he was not supposed to be at the first place. I am reading …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 09:02 AM
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Totally agree with you. It is not about how to control the things happening around you, or your thoughts. It's about accepting who your are and finding peace within. Than you can go out and spread that energy in your life where you need it. A man comfortable in his own skin would not think about "holding the frame", because he is almost always centred. Say something stupid, he doesn't care, try to shit test him, minds his own business. You can't fake being a man. You either become one or you try…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 06:03 PM
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Great insight that you will not find regularly here. Like you pointed out, not all women are after fuckboy chads. But almost every woman would like to be treated by a man, not a man child. If I get shit tested, I say to myself that I am on the right track, because it shows that she is taking an interest in me.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 05:56 PM
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I really loved the analogy about the similarity between a woman and a used car. Apart from the milage, the health of the engine and the transmission is very important. Not always, but usually the exterior of the car will give you an idea about the engine. When I see a woman who is below 25 but already looks like older than 30, I always think something like "wow, she has been driven by many careless drivers who didn't even bother to take her to regular maintenance"
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 05:53 PM
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Zinggg! Eddowe owns puma Just kidding
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 05:47 AM
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OK, I see what you are trying to say. I may have written my message in a very harsh way I accept that, but you sound way too optimistic. Anyway, I really really hope that I am wrong and you are right, that the world is a better place. Think we will see in coming decade
/r/ExRedPill13/08/16 05:24 PM
1

If I had to pick one, I would definitely go with number 7
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 11:20 AM
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I browse TRP and MGTOW regularly, (and also purplepilldebate). There, you can find great insights and wisdom, and at the same time there is bullshit floating around. Like every other social setting in life, you should take everything with a grain of salt. Saying that TPR is totally useless is no different than guys worshiping top endorsers on that sub. To go into further detail, I too find it obscene the way TRP guys treat ladies. There is a big hypocrisy there. They say women are toxic and yet …
/r/ExRedPill05/08/16 07:06 AM
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I too was expecting a post about meditation. But in essence, writing is a form of meditation, isn't it ?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 07:34 AM
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In some ways people behave similar on online dating sites and in real life. Women have high standards and have inflated egos. They think they are special snowflakes and deserver the best man out there. Men who have a low SMV are always bitter, and who have high SMV are pumping and dumping. I value eye contact, physical touching, body language etc. but nobody seems to care about this kind of human interaction nowadays. For a woman, getting their validation from an app on a smartphone is no differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 07:30 AM
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Well in that sense the time spent on reddit would be spent on keeping a journal
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 01:55 PM
2

This is a great summary of the OP
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 03:10 PM
3

How about the health problems ? AFAIK industrial diving has some serious risks. Is that true ?
/r/MGTOW19/07/16 03:00 PM
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Both TRP and MGTOW share the same faith. They both started with a good cause. TRP showed men (and me) behind the scenes of the world. The unwritten, unspoken rules of the dynamics between men and women. I have consumed lots of quality information there. Most of the things started to make sense. Than, inevitably I evolved to and grown on MGTOW. "Once you understand the game, you loose interest in it." Now I am investing on things which will directly add to my value, not in the hopes of validation…
/r/MGTOW05/07/16 07:18 AM
1

Why do you think the purple pillers are the worst ? I really want to hear your opinion on this one
/r/MGTOW05/07/16 07:03 AM
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I mostly agree the OP and some of the comments. But one thing doesn't seem right. Being emotional does not equal to being a wuss i.e. BB In fact it is the oposite. A strong man with a solid frame feels those sensations , embrace them and without attaching himself to those feelings continue his own way. You cannot deny sadness anger and hold on to happiness instead. You can not depress fear. Your emotions are much more powerful than you think. Instead of denying your emotions you should be a man …
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 10:16 AM
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Romantic plots are all the same. It is almost always an AF with a mediocre woman at best. In order for them to be happy, the man have to be tamed (hand over his balls to the woman) . The woman on the other hand promotes from a shitty boring ass life to a life of adventure, passionate sex blah blah. The question is, after the honeymoon is over and the guy's engine start to stall (i.e. slowly turning to a BF) who is going to fuel that passion ? The answer is simple. The next Chad Thundercock..
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 07:22 AM
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Holding your frame would be the most alpha thing you can do (or in better words should do)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 09:02 AM
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Points 1 and 2 are essentially the same thing, and they both hold true. But, there are many man out there willing to fill a woman's desires does not prove anything. Men go for quantity, while women go for quality. This is buried to our DNA. A woman knows that if she goes out and pick a random dude, it is almost guaranteed that the "night" will not be fulfilling, and she will most probably regret the decision afterwards. It is hard for both genders to find a good partner who would connect to and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 08:26 AM
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You should not shit where you eat. I mean if you want to keep your job, but otherwise, go for it.. Remember, if she has a higher pay grade than you, the chances are when you next her (and you will eventually) she will try her best to use her power over you. And this would ruin your job, or even your career. In the end, doesn't work the risk..
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 08:10 AM
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You've simply had a normal sexual interaction between a masculine male and a feminine female. It is an interaction that not many people understand anymore but that everyone craves This defines the core of the relationship between a man and a woman. Most of the people, PUA's, RP'ers miss this point and think that "fake it till you make it" bullshit would save them. You can't fake a genuine attraction You're more likely to get open eager honest sexuality from a woman within minutes of meeting you …
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 07:57 AM
1

Bonus point should be the first one After all being an alpha is all about endurance and adaptation
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 07:00 AM
1

Very intresting observation. Vancouver is known the be a very friendly city. The only reason why people do not hold eye contact would be that half the population is asian. Do you think that you are way above average height ?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 11:29 AM
1

I understand that once your prime years are over life becomes harder but you got the experience. Obviously i am younger than you so i dont want to sound like giving you advice, but as a man you should never give up your life Keep up the good fight
/r/MGTOW26/06/16 07:02 AM
1

So what happened ? Did you recover financially ?
/r/MGTOW26/06/16 05:56 AM
2

Totally agree with you on this one I see many bitter men come here and talk about how evil women are. Once you start going your own way, you go "your" way I will leave this here as I see it is relevant https://m.reddit.com/r/Buddhism/comments/29j08o/zen_mountains_are_mountainscan_someone_explain/
/r/MGTOW17/06/16 04:47 PM
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Wow what a great writing ! I've read all 5 post and all I can say is that you outlined both trp and mgtow concepts perfectly
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 01:25 PM
1

If you consider all the energy and time you put into it, paying for them is much more "cost effective" than being a pua
/r/MGTOW04/06/16 05:28 PM
1

I have a BF is a common shit test, but nowadays they (the women) actually believe this lie
/r/MGTOW04/06/16 05:17 PM
1

A woman's love is strictly conditional. The harsh truth that almost nobody don't want to acknowledge
/r/MGTOW04/06/16 05:14 PM
2

your brain on orbiters Loved this !
/r/MGTOW03/06/16 12:18 PM
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Wow ! I see a lot of hate in you Take it easy man. Rise above this shit and hopefully it won't get under your skin like this..
/r/MGTOW03/06/16 09:38 AM
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Tinder, okcupid and likes destroyed the humanity. It is very hard these days to approach a woman you see in a store or a coffee shop, because even if you are a good looking guy, she will compare you to those chads she saw on tinder. Those guys are not real, you are there in front of her, but her mind can't differentiate pixelated guys from real guys. This is the same kind of damage that porn does to guys...
/r/MGTOW03/06/16 09:32 AM
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The article was very good, but this comment is no less motivating
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 07:46 AM
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Those who see reality for what it is, can bend it to their will … those who see only illusion, are bent to its will This is one probably one of the best advice I read in TRP
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 06:27 AM
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