| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 240 | Approached and got told to F off | Field Report | kabiaman | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 06:41 PM |
| 98 | Went out solo today | Field Report | kabiaman | /r/seduction | 15/05/24 08:07 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Approached and got told to F offYeah you’re right and thanks for sharing your experience and thoughts. | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 10:10 AM |
| 2 | Approached and got told to F offBest way that’s for sure! Will remember this. Thanks | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Approached and got told to F offThanks for this! Definitely will take your advice with the opener and relate it more to the circumstances. Appreciate the Amazing feedback! | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Approached and got told to F offThanks for that, but what’s a good opener then? | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Approached and got told to F offYeah, definitely learning from this experience. Thanks for your advice will remember this. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Approached and got told to F offYeah, I guess she did see me before, but I didn’t make any eye contact with her. Yeah, I guess I was just a bit nervous at the station when I first saw her so I didn’t approach because of the people around me were making me nervous. Yeah, you’re right though she probably saw me and then see me get off. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 10:09 PM |
| 5 | Approached and got told to F offYeah you’re right and it was definitely not right, but I just didn’t see it because I was just too focused on approaching and how I would approach that made me not realise in that moment. I wasn’t trying to be creepy at all. I was just trying to face my fear that’s all and keep the promise I made to myself. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 10:05 PM |
| 0 | Approached and got told to F offI didn’t follow her or look at her just made a promise to myself that if she gets off at the same station then I’ll approach her and I did. However, you’re 100% right about the fact that she saw me from the beginning to end and then she felt uncomfortable, so I definitely learned a valuable lesson here. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Approached and got told to F offJust to answer your question yeah she was hot lol she looked like a model | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Approached and got told to F offNo she wasn’t walking fast just at normal pace. Yeah, I was only trying to catch up to her by her side so I could say hi and start the conversation that’s all. Not everyone is going to show you interest though or give you some indication that you should approach them. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Approached and got told to F offDude I think you’re getting the wrong idea. I wasn’t actually following her or staring at her throughout the journey. If you read what I said then you would know that I promised myself if she gets at the same stop as me I’ll approach her and I did it. It was just a promise that I had to keep to myself. It only would have been creepy if I kept on staring at her and glancing every few mins which I wasn’t and we didn’t make any eye contact. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 09:41 PM |
| 0 | Approached and got told to F offI do understand what you’re saying and you do raise some good points, so thanks for that. Definitely should have done it on the train when I had the chance but there was so many people on the train and she had her headphones. I definitely learned a lesson here. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 09:28 PM |
| 0 | Approached and got told to F offTrue that | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 09:22 PM |
| 9 | Approached and got told to F offThat’s true bro! 100% you nailed it. Yeah it does mess with your head for a little while, but yeah just need to shake it off. You’re right about her seeing me and then I approached her which would have made her feel scared or something. Yeah definitely won’t take it personally. Thanks for your input | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 09:17 PM |
| 0 | Approached and got told to F offThis is a good one! Yeah I think I didn’t smile as well because I probably wasn’t in such a social mood, but when I have done it before on other girls I do smile first and say “hey I thought you were cute..” I do get some good interaction. You’re right I do need to change my opener. Definitely learned something from this and just want to thank that girl for it. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Approached and got told to F offYeah that’s true. I probably did show her some nervousness and I think she did catch on to that. Good point. How does one keep a confident frame when you haven’t done any warm up to loosen you up? If you were not in a social mood and you saw someone that caught your eye how would you do it? | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Approached and got told to F offGood advice thanks will try and implement this approach in my next approach. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Approached and got told to F offYeah, this is the first time I ever got a F off from someone. Yeah, I have had only of those but it was an intimidating woman, so I did expect that. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Approached and got told to F offHow would you have done this and what would have been your opener? Just want to learn from a different perspective. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Approached and got told to F offThis is a great insight and thanks so much for replying it does make me feel see it in a different perspective. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 07:13 PM |
| -35 | Approached and got told to F offNo I was walking fast to keep up with her pace so I could approach her from the side and say hi. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 06:50 PM |
| 0 | Approached and got told to F offShe didn’t ruin my day but I do feel gutted because I just hope I didn’t scare her or make her feel afraid. You’re right though it definitely tells more about her internal state. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 06:48 PM |
| -73 | Approached and got told to F offThere was no other way. I just caught up to her as she walking from the side not from behind. Edit: Okay, maybe I’m not describing the situation properly here, but I was walking with her pace and I was going to overtake her but I just decided to say hi to her. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Went out solo todayThanks man will study this video. | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Went out solo todayThanks! Will remember this advice and put it into action today. | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 07:27 AM |
| 3 | Went out solo todayYeah basically. Yeah I’m good with girls and I can carry a conversation when needed. I think it was just me having cold feet. If I do one approach then I can easily do another one. | /r/seduction | 15/05/24 10:02 PM |
| 19 | How do you know if a woman is looking at you because she is interested?This! If she looks at you multiple times approach! I think this happened to me a lot of times, but never really got the hint as to what it means! | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 12:13 PM |
| 1 | the approach anxiety is way more complex than what u might thinkI agree! It’s so tedious to be asking these boring questions | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 12:40 PM |
| 1 | the approach anxiety is way more complex than what u might thinkThis! I find this happening to me at some point as well. Does anyone know how to overcome this? | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 12:39 PM |
| 5 | [Field report] Finally able to talk the cute Latina at the gym.Thanks man for the details! She’s definitely interested if she laughed. You got this! Next time just make face contact and just say hi then talk to her again. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 09:00 PM |
| 3 | [Field report] Finally able to talk the cute Latina at the gym.Nice one man. Just wondering what did you first say to her when she came to use the machine and how did you carry the conversation? | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 08:43 PM |
| 2 | How do you chat up a girl in a coffee shop?I don’t know about you, but if someone approached me while I was working and it was important I would just let them know that I’m trying to do some work and thank them for the nice gesture. It’s only bothering when they won’t leave you. That’s when it is disrespectful. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 10:07 AM |
| 2 | How do you chat up a girl in a coffee shop?I think either way you’re interrupting them regardless of what they’re doing. I’m pretty sure if they were busy they would let you know right at the beginning and you should respect that and move on. What I was just suggesting to OP to take the initiative and just approach because you might never know. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 10:00 AM |
| 1 | How do you chat up a girl in a coffee shop?I think you’re thinking too hard. Just don’t think about it just approach with an opener. For example if she’s working on her laptop, you can just say “Excuse me you seem really focused with that laptop are you writing a book..” from there you just have a normal conversation.. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Is it weird to cold approach alone?Yeah this! I think when you start going out regularly alone and meeting people it will become a second nature to you.. But kudos to you for going out alone! | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird to cold approach alone?Hey man nice one! You did amazing! Any tips for approaching and what you said to get into it? Did you meet those girls at the bar/club or at the streets? | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Somebody send some words of encouragement my way I’m about to go approach for the first timeDude go for it! I managed to talk to someone in the lines today! Let us know how you did | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Talking to a girl every single day for the rest of the year (update) June 22nd-25thThis is what I like to see in this group! People taking actions! Nice one man! Don’t worry the second time you’ll do it, you will be asking for numbers. It will definitely get much easier than this. How did you approach her? | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 02:23 PM |
| 5 | Talking to a girl every single day for the rest of the year (update) June 22nd-25thI think the best approach would be to just state your intentions clearly at the beginning. Just approach and ask what she’s reading and if that’s a good book or not? Then state your intention about how you feel about her. Doesn’t matter if she’s older, the outcome should be that you approached her. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Talking to a girl every single day for the rest of the year (update) June 22nd-25thNice one man, but was wondering how did you initiate the conversation and what was your go to line? Also, how do you combat the issue if someone is with their friend? Did you ignore their friend and just talk to the one you’re interested? | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 07:39 AM |
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