| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 23 | Does men need to pay the bill? | kai77kai77 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 01:13 AM | |
| 12 | At the end it's the same | CMV | kai77kai77 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 06:09 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | The reason why women’s preferences generally speaking seem to range very different in online dating vs real lifeI think women will blu try speak up about everything while men will just don't say mich. Preferences are crazy on both sides but men will just go on and say nothing and women will say ot out loud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Let’s stop pretending guys don’t age and have just as many unattractive problems later in lifeDo you even know how many females are balding? Lol on you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 12:07 AM |
| 25 | If a man is failing to attract the women he wants, and he is a good person, what options does he have aside from lowering his standards or giving up?If a woman is failing to attract the man she wants, and she is a good person, what options does she have aside from lowering her standards or giving up? Attraction is based on: -Looks -Status -Personality If you're a 10 in one, then you need a 5 in the other 2, and math apply fir the rest. Its not difficult to understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Does men need to pay the bill?I didn't appreciate it, that's why I said No, we split, a lil clue for you to guess how much I wanted it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Does men need to pay the bill?This got to Europe I think. Thank you. 💚 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Does men need to pay the bill?I was wearing gym outfit bit I don't it makes a difference lol that was gross btw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Does men need to pay the bill?Sure the thought of going out with women that don't use makeup never crossed your mind Aha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Does men need to pay the bill?Great. But what else do you expect from men "being a man"? That's my concern | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 03:38 AM |
| 6 | Does men need to pay the bill?Yes, and i was raised in that belief, therefore my concern. But people here are split???? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Does men need to pay the bill?The restaurant was closing and I offered to pay for a drink and he say, and I quote "I can pay for my own drink" and he paid for both of our drinks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Does men need to pay the bill?Ehm I might be an idiot but it was a 30$ lunch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 02:18 AM |
| 0 | Does men need to pay the bill?Cool bit I was the one that planned the date, I said it'd be a nice idea to go to my fav place in town, I'd stated I wanted to pay for my lunch, like I don't really know what else to do? Am I expected to do something c9s "I'm a woman" is he expected to do something else cos "he's a man" that's my concern. I've paid for many people in the past cos I've being faster and I sneaked but never said "hey I'm a woman" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Does men need to pay the bill?I'd say my concern is "what else I'm expected to do cos I'm a woman"???? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Does men need to pay the bill?That's just what I was saying, I'm Spanish, from Valencia, and for us is normal to split, at least in my age range (I'm 37). I know in Ireland things are a little different but the "I'm a man" thing rubs me weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 02:12 AM |
| 4 | Does men need to pay the bill?Is there a book out there I've missed? Even better, am I expected to pay nothing in any first date and I didn't know it? Should I start hiding my wallet? This is starting to make no sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 01:58 AM |
| 3 | Does men need to pay the bill?Well thank you, but are there any other things you'd do cos "you're a man"? Am I expected to do something cos "I'm a woman"? That's my honest concern | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 01:53 AM |
| 5 | Does men need to pay the bill?I've done that many times but I've never said Hey I'm a woman, and men has done that to me before and I was like Oh you've being faster haha but the "I'm a man" thing, still struggle to process | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 01:51 AM |
| 3 | Does men need to pay the bill?You summed up my concerns. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 01:45 AM |
| 8 | Does men need to pay the bill?But I did argue 😭 I sometimes sneaked into the bathroom and paid the bill for someone, but I never said "Yes, I'm a woman". That's what itches me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Does men need to pay the bill?I've stated I'm in ireland cos maybe its a normal thing to do here? I'm Spanish, in Spain, for people my age (I'm 37) it's not uncommon to split a bill, specially if you don't know each other that much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Does men need to pay the bill?I see your point and that's why I'm questioning myself. But in my defense I did insist, he just woke up and went to the counter to pay, I honestly didn't feel like arguing in a public place over something that's not so important (a light lunch). But I also thought my will didn't have any value by the way he put it up. Also thought if he thinks he has to do that "cos he's a man", how many other things he's going to do for the same reason? How many other I'm expected to do cos I'm a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Why Should Men Get Married?In a civilised country, the same. In Spain, unless you say the opposite whatever was yourewill remain to be yours after a divorce. A divorce cost like 500eur, it's done in a month. Narriagwbis good if you have children, for medical purposes and for inheritance purposes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 11:25 PM |
| – | Could u in the 80s as a Man basically "just exist" and you were basically guaranteed that u will end up with a Wife + Family? Was it that easy?"I'm not sure what a woman not being able to have a ba k account has to do with my comment" THATS THE WHOLE POST I just read MeMeMeMe honey ITS NOT ABOUT YOU | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 11:16 PM |
| – | Could u in the 80s as a Man basically "just exist" and you were basically guaranteed that u will end up with a Wife + Family? Was it that easy?You are not making a point with what my post was saying. I'm Moy here to debate men's things, that's the whole point. For once you could understand where women were coming from but og course you had to make it your own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 11:09 PM |
| – | Could u in the 80s as a Man basically "just exist" and you were basically guaranteed that u will end up with a Wife + Family? Was it that easy?Yall are forgetting the fact that my 58yo mother couldn't open a bank account on her own name. Yes I said what I said. Think about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 08:49 PM |
| -6 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeGeneralising when you can't. Take out pregnancy, then take out menopause (that affects everybody differently), take all social norms, and you're quite as being the sane. If not ask lesbians lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 06:22 PM |
| -3 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeYou'll be surprised LOOOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 06:17 PM |
| 0 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeWell it's weird that the vast majority of men in this forum will value virgins and also men are the ones to pursue weird fetishes, I just wonder in which position are women left into this equation 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their place"Issue" really doesn't represent the "issue" lol men buy that therefore people sell that, you can sell whatever you want as long as someone buys it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 04:31 PM |
| -1 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeYou're talking more about you than you're talking about myself, I've no prejudice against fetishism, they're not good or bad to me, they just are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 04:20 PM |
| 7 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeIt's all a mens thing. There are no women buying used underwear 🤷🏻♀️ I don't even know how to explain why men have all those "extreme" fetish and women doesn't seem to have them but it makes me really curious. Might have to do with women being considered "sluts" when expressing sexual desires and men considered, well, "just men". I suppose if you carry on with that for decades that's what you'll encountered in 2023 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 04:17 PM |
| 0 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeFacts ate facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeYes. But also fetishism are a thing. Fat women are a fetish for some men. And fat men are a fetish for some men. Can yall connect the dots here? EHM MEN ARE THE ISSUE HERE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 04:04 PM |
| – | At the end it's the sameIt's a very lonely society, specially for someone that doesn't really fit standards 😔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 09:59 PM |
| – | At the end it's the sameLacking a scientific resource demonstrating that you'll be surprised by fetishes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 08:04 PM |
| – | At the end it's the sameDebatable at the very least. Men get raped and men can have a sex arrangement, very easily actually. They just can fight more. You'll be amazed by how many men ask homeless guys to have the exact same arrangements. A hole is a hole, my dear. As sad as it sounds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 07:56 PM |
| – | At the end it's the sameDo you care about thr human when you don't care if they've eaten? I don't think people care more about men on the streets, the moral of the story is that they don't care about any gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 07:19 PM |
| – | At the end it's the sameSure, as men never got raped on the streets OH WAIT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 07:03 PM |
| – | At the end it's the sameIf that's the whole lesson you take from my post no wonder we're all lost. Btw in my days I've met many men who were raped on the streets, it's just statistically less common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 06:57 PM |
| 2 | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of muscleI think that guys are blown out by that single interaction they had with a tepid women but if I had to tell the amount of nuts ve encountered in my life you'll be amazed. And just for the record, I was 18yo, hair up to my bottom, objectively pretty. Went out on a date and guy said, "if you turn a little bit you can almost be pretty" now do I hold any resentment about Ken? He'll no. I just think there are idiots everywhere and I had very poor judgement regarding partners. You can all grow up and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 06:53 PM |
| – | At the end it's the sameThink I did now? Sorry, translator always getting on my way 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Who do the really attractive women end up with?You should say in which country are you talking about. In a country in which education I not accessible for everyone my bet is that really attractive women will mostly end up with successful guys. In a country in which men and women can easily access further education my bet is that both of them will end up with partners in the same socio economic wave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 06:04 PM |
| – | The entire pill debate has been obscured and distracted by a bizarre fixation on unattractive men’s struggle. While this sucks, it actually makes logical sense unlike the main problem, which is average and above average men struggling to the degree they are.Or you could say someone with great social skills won't isolate themself that easily 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 12:01 AM |
| – | The entire pill debate has been obscured and distracted by a bizarre fixation on unattractive men’s struggle. While this sucks, it actually makes logical sense unlike the main problem, which is average and above average men struggling to the degree they are.It's even easier than that. "Plenty of personality" doesn't equal social skills. Still to this day I haven't met a single guy with great social skills whose unvoluntarily single.i think many people think they're a 9 when they're a 4, and it doesn't even have to do with their looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 11:44 PM |
| 6 | Risk of poverty is higher for women after divorce and separation.OK but if you want a housewife then you'll have to cope with the fact if you divorce she gets half of whatever yall had, cos when you "worked" at home for years and decades earning zero income, you just can't be thrown off in the street. Alimony has a purpose, you know? You can't pretend someone to work for you for free. Having to explain this is ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 03:44 AM |
| 3 | Public/social life (what little there is) is totally hostile to single menI was about to say. In which planet these guys live that they think single women don't look and feel awkward going alone to places 🙄🙄🤦🏻♀️ and I'll tell you something a guy having a beer in peace at the bar counter it's like "oh the guy should be tired after a hard working day and wants some peace and quiet" but I go to have a ducking beer in silence and the whole bar is looking at me wondering whats wrong about me and why I'm not with friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 11:56 PM |
| 1 | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you.You'll be amazed there's more or less creepy old guys than there are creepy old ladies, all for you if you want! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 05:50 PM |
| 1 | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you.Honey, the same amount of time you spend criticising women you could have spent meeting cougars | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 05:39 PM |
| 1 | The biggest problem we have today is the demonization of men’s sexuality, while uplifting women’s sexualityLook I'm not going to diminish the whole Asia mainly cos I've very little info about it, I wouldn't say European standards apply there though. I'm specifically talking about Ireland, and I'm also talking about any northern European country. Both genders usually have university degrees and in the vast majority cases both of them work. It seems to be very important to have a decent job, and I can't see why, it just makes sense in this expensive life, and it applies for both. Then having a decent s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 03:10 PM |
| 1 | The biggest problem we have today is the demonization of men’s sexuality, while uplifting women’s sexualityI think you just live in a shitty country. I can tell you that in civilised countries both genders want someone educated and in a good position in life. Then attractiveness plays a role and also personality. But primarily you having your shot together, having studies and a good position. Which just makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 03:02 PM |
| 1 | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you.I'm sure you can get an 87yo desperate lady who'll pay your rent, by your ideology you should just go do that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 01:44 PM |
| 1 | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you.I see lots of uninteresting broken non attractive guys with nice enough partners. I think some people regarding their gender don't really know what's their league and that's the whole issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 01:43 PM |
| 1 | When men say they don't want a career woman, it's not that they don't want a woman who has a career, they just don't want a "boss babe".Very few people regarding their gender like "boss people". I know very few women who would be able to cope long term with a bossy dude, maybe in the old days when there wasn't any other option. Really almost no one enjoys being bossed around. As simple as it gets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Women are more into the "finer things in life"?I think when you grow up in an environment that tells you you should like this this and that non stop, for sure it takes a toll on your likings. You see and you repeat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 01:36 PM |
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