kaleog3 Archive

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0	What is the problem with "just be yourself"? I don't quite understand what you're referencing. If you mean the friendzone is something both parties must agree to then i'd be inclined to agree but i was actually refering to what kind of message you might give someone else. Which is "I'm just friend material".	/r/seduction	19/08/21 01:53 PM
2	What is the problem with "just be yourself"? Nothing if you're flirtatious by nature. Otherwise you're just not going into it with the right energy. That's about the only thing that's wrong with "just being yourself". When it comes to attracting someone you have to create excitement. It doesn't mean you pretend to be someone you're not. But if you're not flirtatious all the time chances are being yourself means having boring small talk with you or having some endearing jokes that put you right in the friend category though...	/r/seduction	19/08/21 08:22 AM
11	How can I not become an incel? "But I've come to the conclusion that whether certain things in society are wrong is up for debate, but at the end of the day, complaining about things that can't be changed is a waste of time and you're not really improving." Sounds to me like you've got the right idea. Though if i had to give you one piece of advice its this: don't rely on others for how you should think. Because underneath all those frustrations you know whats true. And another thing from a guy who's been fed shit for ages. C…	/r/seduction	25/11/20 07:16 AM
3	How do you deal with losing hope? With the right perspective! You can either throw in the towel now or do what i did. So you don't think you're attractive enough you know you're gonna fail? Great! you literally have nothing to lose so you might as well try everything because you literally can't get any consequence. What is a girl gonna turn you down, get offended, give you a disgusted look or treat you like shit? Who cares? You weren't gonna get her anyway and she'll be gone out of your life as fast as you approaching her. She w…	/r/seduction	22/09/20 04:00 PM
1	When is Okay To Be Vulnerable Around Women. The when depends on your skill level really. It's all a matter of emotional and social intelligence and requires you to have absolute confidence in your beliefs and words. And you have to nail your true feelings with a lot of precision. (In other words if you can second guess your feelings on the given subject or don't understand your feelings completely you'll fail.) You can pretty much do it any time you want to and about whatever but you have to be absolutely sure about your ability to convey…	/r/seduction	21/09/20 10:08 PM
2	When is Okay To Be Vulnerable Around Women. I'd like to point out that showing vulnerability can actually be perceived as pretty powerful so long you ain't being a little bitch about it. It's a question of how you handle your feelings rather than if and when you reveal them. Do it right and you'll appear even more dominant than the other 90% of guys who hide them away in fear of getting exploited. Be smart, don't trust blindly always be ready to hit back and use your emotions as a source of power and resolve rather than letting them poiso…	/r/seduction	21/09/20 07:25 PM
1	Everything I learned About Shit Testing So Far Question is how do i NOT get annoyed at that shit. I'm fuckin allergic to disrespect. Cross me once and you'll be degraded from human to object as soon as it happens. Attempt to disadvantage me in the slightest and i'll make sure you didn't get your way and suffered enough anyway to hate me for the rest of your days. I can't keep a grin up towards you knowing you're trying to screw me without me warranting this behavior.	/r/seduction	07/09/20 01:21 PM
1	If I’m outcome independent, why would I be approaching her in the first place? I clearly have a desired outcome if I’m hitting on a girl. You're supposed to be outcome independent because you leave yourself other options. Of course you want to win her over but it's not supposed to feel like a loss if she said no. For one thing you never had anything to lose in the first place and secondly she's one of literally millions of other chances around you. If she says yes, you're good. If she says no, you just had a learning experience. On to the next one.	/r/seduction	07/09/20 11:49 AM
2	Just my 2 cents In an ideal situation you would recognize that you're the uncontested center of your universe. You are priority #1 no matter where or with whom you are. In an ideal relationship you would both be facing eachother with a wide open door behind you. Fully aware of the fact that you can leave whenever you want and be just as happy because you don't need them yet choosing to stay with your partner anyway because you want them more than anyone else in the moment.	/r/seduction	07/09/20 11:22 AM
3	Escalation 101 Frame of mind, self-image, your own perception and beliefs about you and your surroundings. It's about the confidence to believe in what you see is true and that you are in total control. If you don't get flustered if your perception can't be swayn by someones input and you're totally comfortable in your own skin and your surroundings. That's when you shine because your comfort in the moment is contagious to those around you. If you feel absolutely comfortable in what you're doing so will she an…	/r/seduction	06/09/20 03:20 PM