| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 248 | They Always Come Back | kalli007 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 12:57 PM | |
| 77 | Hope this hasn’t been posted! | QUEEN SUPREME | kalli007 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 02:35 PM |
| 70 | First Casualty of Block & Delete 2020 | NICE FOR WHAT? | kalli007 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 06:24 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 19 | Got my first message.Dont be a LVM! Expiration date? Woman are not a piece of meat.I am 39, soon to be 40. I have never had so many younger men hitting on me as I have the last few years. Expiration date my ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 02:40 AM |
| 8 | I hope this isn't real but I am not surprised.. this girl needs our help. Woman living with 9 year leach expects her to stick around while he explores roommateI read this earlier and had to send it to a friend I was so mind blown. This is next level shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 11:03 PM |
| 7 | Want this to be me one dayBoom! Dis me.... except not an MD, a PhD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 09:48 PM |
| 72 | If my husband doesn’t shower me with this amount of love, adoration and appreciation into our 50’s and beyond, I DON’T WANT HIM.I think about them often when I think about relationships. Barack was the leader of the free world and still had time to call Michelle. That’s what I’m talking about 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 07:00 PM |
| 2 | They Always Come BackYeah I’m not looking for a textlationship. If it’s not moving forward I’m out 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 12:36 PM |
| 4 | Radical Change: Woman should ONLY accept casual sex from decent men who make them orgasm every time.Ok maybe because I’m almost 40 I’m just in a different headspace! Looking back I’m sure I settled for less....but NOT NOW!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 01:11 AM |
| 4 | HOW TO MAKE A MAN CHASE YOU AUTHENTICALLY! **THIS WORKS**I just followed this dude everywhere - he is hilarious! Yet on point 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 11:36 PM |
| 28 | Radical Change: Woman should ONLY accept casual sex from decent men who make them orgasm every time.I know I’m new here but I don’t understand why any woman would be having sex with a dude that wasn’t rocking her world each and every time? My FWB is hands down the best lover I have ever had, and places my satisfaction as the highest priority. How is this even an issue? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 10:20 PM |
| 7 | They Always Come BackI am taking no chances with my emotions in 2020 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 07:36 PM |
| 13 | They Always Come BackGeezus. What is WITH these dudes???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 06:11 PM |
| 15 | They Always Come BackGirl. Block and delete. Because trust me he WILL come back and probably when you are doing great. Don’t let this LVM mess up your vibe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 06:10 PM |
| 13 | They Always Come BackOmg. Brian the stalker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 04:43 PM |
| 10 | They Always Come BackGod yes I have had this happen to! Like dude you contacted me. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 04:37 PM |
| 11 | They Always Come BackRight! Or just block from the get go! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 04:36 PM |
| 28 | They Always Come Backblockanddelete2020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 04:36 PM |
| 13 | They Always Come BackYesssss girl! F that dude! (But not literally!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 04:35 PM |
| 21 | They Always Come BackWhat in the actual fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 04:35 PM |
| 21 | They Always Come Backblockanddelete2020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 04:34 PM |
| 12 | Hope this hasn’t been posted!Yeah I definitely don’t take everything as the gospel - just like with FDS everyone has their own story and own angle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 02:53 PM |
| 9 | They Always Come BackThe ghosting part or the coming back part? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 02:52 PM |
| 16 | They Always Come BackDang! What was his deal? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 02:33 PM |
| 67 | They Always Come BackExactly. The old me would have thought this was a reflection of my worthiness. Now? Next. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 02:18 PM |
| 47 | They Always Come BackYes! One of my friends who is about 10 years older than me and had a horrible marriage told me.... like you I didn’t quite believe it but it has happened 100% of the time. At the end of the day I want a dude that has no questions about wanting to further something with me. Because if he questioned it once he will likely do it again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 02:09 PM |
| 9 | They Always Come BackFor you? Should be under settings, it was a feature with the latest iOS update. They have to have it turned on for theirs to show. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 02:07 PM |
| 32 | They Always Come BackHe will come back. And yes - DEFINITELY his loss! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 01:13 PM |
| 6 | The ultimate pickmeisha storyThat’s nuts. But hey she’s coming out on top! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 02:50 AM |
| 9 | Satisfied in and out of a relationship? NSFWThere a number of different philosophies here - for something as intimate as sex I think to each his own. Personally I have a FWB, known him since we were kids, dated in HS and as adults. Our lifestyles don’t gel enough to be in a committed relationship but OMG the sex is amazing. Long story short - spending a day or so together a few times a month WORKS FOR US. I absolutely do not want anything more with him and continue to date. Our arrangement allows me to hold off on having sex with potentia… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 11:43 PM |
| 11 | The ultimate pickmeisha storyWas he real? It was he catfishing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 11:36 PM |
| 66 | Help! I'm scared that I lost a HVM by exhibiting pickmeisha behaviorOk I’m sorry I lost it with the tucking in request 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 12:47 AM |
| 20 | Feel guilt/shame over former pickmeisha behaviourGirl. We are ALL here due to former pickmeisha behaviors or falling for LVMs. Look at the member count- it’s over 40k and that’s just women who 1) Are on Reddit 2) Somehow found the sub 3) Were intrigued enough to stick around You are in good company here. No shame needed. Read the required reading, download some books, visit a therapist or invest in a coach if that’s your jam. Do you and the rest will follow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 01:28 AM |
| 10 | Why is my ex texting me? BrainstormIt’s a temp check. Low level move for an ego boost or dopamine hit - at YOUR expense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 09:30 PM |
| 63 | Relationship Help!If you’re tired of playing games then don’t play them anymore. You’re single now. Period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 09:28 PM |
| 4 | My 2019 New Year’s resolution was to go on 50 datesLove this post. Using the rules as a filter, yet still moving through life and love in a way that is true to you. I struggled a bit when I found this sub, I was being reeled in by a LVM and so was immediately hooked by the required readings - however some of the rigidity repelled me. Once I digested it all, and synthesized the info with some other high value ways of living I’ve learned recently I really feel a newfound sense of confidence and knowledge regarding men and relationships. Didn’t mea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 02:57 AM |
| 63 | Some redpiller sent me this DM after my last post. He talks about his totally real, definitely not made-up wife as though she's a dog 🤢So much racism, misogyny and outright delusion wrapped up in one DM. Lucky you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Theory: most men can’t handle casual sex.Literally same here. We tried the relationship thing but his lifestyle just doesn’t gel with mine. But there’s a mutual respect present and the sex is AMAZING 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 07:44 PM |
| 5 | First Casualty of Block & Delete 2020Let your pride hurt for a minute, process that shit and later on when you look back you will see him for who he really is - which I am going to assume is a scrub loser!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 06:32 PM |
| 8 | YOU are the one who sets the pace. Ignore pushy/aggressive/over-eager LVM and fuckboys.FYI I was able to download the book for free on Kindle with my Kindle Unlimited subscription. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 02:21 PM |
| 10 | Theory: most men can’t handle casual sex.Just had to say I’m glad to see someone else has a long term FWB who they wouldn’t date out in the open. Thought it was just me 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 02:39 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being a broken LVWI was going to suggest therapy but see you are already in it. Does your therapist have extensive experience in this area? I’ve never seen it mentioned here but I had the self worth increase I needed to become a true HVW after working with a life/live coach. She was also a psychologist which I think made the work so much more impactful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 02:35 AM |
| 5 | First Casualty of Block & Delete 2020Yay! #dontlookback | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 12:12 AM |
| 13 | Wise words.I am definitely guilty of this. One of my biggest issues has been talking to dudes clearly not on my level, and wanting it to “work” simply as validation of my worth or something. Working on this now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 06:58 PM |
| 2 | In your opinion, who’s the worst pickmeisha among pop culture characters?Ha I “grew up” on that show. Quite a variety of characters, but I think of it as more about female friendship than interactions/relationships with men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 06:13 PM |
| 3 | The Best Way is Still Difficult (Warning: A Bit Whiny)Hello! I’m new here but literally stayed up all night reading the required stuff and most of the recent posts...... here’s my 2 cents: Something I learned this year (at 39 years old!) is that we have NO IDEA what is coming tomorrow, or the next day or the next. You could meet Mr HVM next week or next month. Today is not permanent. On the touch issue, get regular massages. I was single and sex free for 2 years and during this time bi-weekly massages were my lifeline. We as humans need touch, don’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 01:47 PM |
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