Why is my ex texting me? Brainstorm

Annallve · 2020-01-08T21:01:09+00:00

For sex. Ignore him

2020-01-08T21:08:05+00:00

Loneliness. He wants a therapist for free

wowthispostissad · 2020-01-08T21:02:53+00:00

Wants an easy hook up. Whenever men want sex, they always return to women they’ve had sex with before because it’s too hard to get with someone new.

Don’t engage. Block.

goatismycopilot · 2020-01-08T21:12:56+00:00

Men text an ex for the ego validation of getting a reply so they can tell themselves they still want you or for a hook up.

level_up_always · 2020-01-08T21:13:43+00:00

Dopamine hit

sweatydeath · 2020-01-08T21:16:34+00:00

He wants to get laid but is too lazy to forge a connection with a new person.

themissdaydreamer · 2020-01-08T21:27:34+00:00

he's getting no attention from anywhere so you're his last shot

kalli007 · 2020-01-08T21:30:05+00:00

It’s a temp check. Low level move for an ego boost or dopamine hit - at YOUR expense.

Ms_Tilly · 2020-01-08T21:44:47+00:00

For validation that you care enough to respond. Not a damn thing has actually changed about his feelings or behavior.

HannahIsAHustler · 2020-01-08T21:00:36+00:00

Block!

Radtron3000 · 2020-01-08T22:23:36+00:00

My ex has been calling me saying he misses me. I'm a bit dumb for going through with this - having a talk with him today - but I'm going to be guarded as f**k. He isn't getting easy access to my goodie jar like he had before. I'd suggest you have the same thing in mind. If he doesn't want to get serious about you then he's just a waste of your time. I only even consider it because I know men run from their feelings sometimes only to realize what they've lost when it's no longer available to them.

Guard. Your. Heart.

And as everyone else is saying, this is probably a low-effort (-and may I add shameful-) way of accessing sexual supply. Do you want to open yourself up to being hurt again? Because we know most women can't shut off their attachment to a man after she's had sex with him multiple times.

If you're even thinking about a sexual relationship I'd just find a FWB who you barely speak with. This is just too volatile a situation to open up old wounds.

Best of luck.

hilariouslystated · 2020-01-08T23:37:02+00:00

None of the other women in his booty call rotation are answering his texts. He's texting you as a last resort.

levelupcleverup · 2020-01-09T01:55:18+00:00

Ego boost. Sex. Flirting. To loop you back in so he can backburner you again. Long story short: to waste your fucking energy and time.

Fuck him.

MagpieMelon · 2020-01-08T21:06:26+00:00

What’s he texting you?

9penguin · 2020-01-09T12:04:48+00:00

Who cares why, just block and forget.

geishageishageisha · 2020-01-09T19:43:10+00:00

He wants to say he’s talking to n + 1 girls

2020-01-09T02:31:25+00:00

Brainstorm? What are you talkin about? There are no brains involved he wants to have sex with you

Title	Why is my ex texting me? Brainstorm
Author	chickenpork72
Upvotes	8
Comments	23
Date	January 8, 2020 8:58 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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