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I'm so angry especially to second husband. He's a monster. A fucking, living monster. I would have shot him if he, as my husband, dares to do that to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 03:12 PM
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This guy doesn't know how to math, and all those statistic are all made up. Time wasted to count made up bullshit and everyone applaud, the state of superior and logical sex, everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 02:43 PM
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That's because women always want to improve, almost all women I know have innate desire to learn and do better. Men don't because they're already think they're smart, they don't need to learn. Their arrogance close their minds. Most women can't fathom that a man can stay the same for decades without changing for the better. They do. They either stay the same forever or they get worse. Never marry a man for their potential, they never have any because men are what you see what you get kind of peo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 10:41 PM
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It enrages me that men think being needed is better than being wanted. They act as if we're so picky that we want to want a man, we don't want to depend on them to survive. They act as if not being needed is the end of the world and it's our fault that we don't need them. Then make yourself useful, you useless entitled cock. Why should I need, let alone want someone who can't even take care of himself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 10:16 PM
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Whenever a man hurts someone it's always intentional. Always. There's no exceptions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 10:07 PM
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It doesn't work for women though. Average women are obese, men still hold out for thin women for example. Women should have the same boundaries and standard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 09:19 PM
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There's a research that men only like smart women only if they're pretty. I believe that it's because men will negate a woman's flaws if she's pretty. Being smart is seen by men as a flaw, because we'll be able to tell their bullshit. It's the same reason why men don't like doctors and therapists, they don't want anyone telling them something is wrong with them. So no, men don't like smart women. Even the good men don't like women smarter then them, it hurts their ego. Only men without ego can p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 09:16 PM
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Gavin sounds like he'll beat his wife for asking to put the dirty dishes on the sink. Dump any guy who doesn't want to spend time listening to you, they don't love you, they don't even see you as a human because he can treat you like you're nothing more than a noise in the background, like a TV or radio.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 09:05 PM
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Eh, the kind of men who say this, after getting the real independent woman as his girlfriend will usually regret it and say, "I don't feel needed." They never want independent women, they want to turn independent woman into a dependent woman because that's what they got off to. The thought of turning an amazing and powerful woman who answer to no one into a submissive wife who serves all his needs, money, sex and food is their biggest ego boost. That's why the minute they realize the independent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:59 PM
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A nightmare will be over, this is hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:47 PM
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🤮 Not all men, just 2/3 of them. Fucking hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:45 PM
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They claim they're physically superior too but get mad when they're expected to give up seats on subway, or to protect everyone when their physical ability is needed. They just want to be on top without realizing that when you're on top, you're expected to do more and give more. But what do I expect, men's brains are all fried up from porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:36 PM
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Depends on how he responded to the damage. He uses the experience to be a better person? Yes, I'll give him a chance. He uses his experience to gain sympathy while he's not doing anything to heal from his trauma? Eh, pass. He uses the experience to excuse or justify being abusive to me and or to any stranger women? Fuck no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:14 PM
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A man above 25 is done changing. The only way they change is if they fully understand it'll kill them if they don't change, like a stroke or a heart attack, or a cancer. That's only 50% though. There's the 1% who change because they realize they're wrong and really want to change. But 99% won't ever change. You ask them to change, even if it's for their own good, you're a nag. You force them to change, even if it's for their own good, you're a bitch. Just leave. Men want to be loved for who they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:05 PM
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He's an extremely lazy man. Unless you push him he'll never move. You're pushing him now so he'll probably do the stuff you ask so he won't lose you. If you want to keep him, you have to almost demand your needs to get fulfilled everytime. Tell him your expectations and if he loves you he'll fulfill it. The danger with him is you don't know when he'll say fuck it and stop giving your needs because he's too lazy to do it. If he's that lazy he'll probably won't marry you unless you demand it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:58 PM
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Also men like feminine and soft women. So why wouldn't they appreciate that their woman feels safe enough with them to disclose that she got raped? In order for a women to be feminine she needs to feel safe and secure with her man. The same reason why men want to be seen as strong, get intimidated or angry when women beat them, spend so much effort to talk down to women about how men will always be stronger than women, but when we need their strength to protect us for example, they retreat and c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:49 PM
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Men won't or can't even abide by the social distancing for a couple of weeks and they want women to do it for the rest of their lives. They're monsters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:44 PM
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Men are loyal my fucking ass, they're all parasites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:40 PM
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Comment back on their appearances, "How can you say that when your ears looks like mice." "Whatever you say, bald patch." "Wow, I won't dare to comment on people's appearances if my skin looks like fried oats." "And you think your beer belly is charming?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:39 PM
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Damn girl 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:32 PM
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They don't even want a therapist because a therapist will tell them what's wrong with them. They want an emotional dumping ground. They're emotional vampires.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:25 PM
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Thank you, this list is really sobering. You can add daycare and babysitter fee to the list. Maybe you're being generous too with the amount of sex and the time spend on housemaking as women easily work at least 3-4 hours a day/20-30 hours a week keeping a family together on top of having a fulltime job. Having a wife is worth at least $500k and could add millions, even billions to men's net worth, like Jeff Bezos' wife... and men call her a gold digger. Having a beautiful wife also make other m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:15 PM
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Men are the real gold diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:03 PM
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I second this, we need to support more women creators. They're better anyway since they often offer fresh perspective and not the same old formula over and over again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 06:41 PM
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Yes, the men who want marriage the most are the ones who got rejected the most. The most desirable men won't marry unless he starts getting rejections. Men don't marry their ideal woman, they marry someone they're with when they want to marry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 11:39 AM
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Isn't it funny how they always say, "You can't ask the guy to pay, unless you're hot then we'll gladly buy expensive things for you" 😂 Men don't hate gold diggers, they love gold diggers, they really, really love gold diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 11:34 AM
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Tell me again which sex needs the other to survive. Women survive just fine, it's men who are dying and going crazy from the lockdown and quarantine 😂 I'm laughing forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 11:32 AM
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He doesn't love her, he's just butthurt she can move on and happier without him. It must hurt his ego because it's the only proof he's the ultimate loser. You think this guy would ever regret it if she didn't move on? No, he'll keep treating her like trash, he'll never change, he'll never do her right. Even if she gets back for him now, he'll still act the same. He shares his story because he just wants the world to pity what a loser he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 11:19 AM
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Men can watch porn and play video games but nobody will tell them to grow up. Women can't even get mad his boyfriend doesn't care nor love her enough to say a happy birthday without people telling her to grow up. She doesn't even ask for a gift or special treatment. This is women demand better treatment. If you ask for expensive gift, you'll at least get a gift. You ask for nothing, you get mistreatment and apathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 11:14 AM
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You seem to forget that men dress for comfort, not to impress. Men who have no interest in dressing to impress will resent you for forcing him to sacrifice his comfort. And chances are, these are the men who'll expect you to sacrifice your comfort to impress him. No, fuck no. I don't like what I see, I pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:31 PM
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Women see those boys as victims, it's men who don't. Besides the sex ratio of female to male pedophiles is 1:99. What do you want to say? That men are victims too? That women can be abusers too? You don't know the real problem, do you? You don't know what OP wants to say? That abusive women are exceptions but abusive men are the norm. It's as easy to find an abusive man as finding a good woman. Meanwhile a good man is as hard to find as an abusive woman. The most abusive men become Hitler, Trump…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:22 PM
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Think of the men who love chubby , even obese women. It's a fetish, it's not love. They leave when she gets sick and forces herself to lose weight, I've seen it happened. Think of men who marry disabled women. Where? Literally never seen one, seen plenty of the opposite though. Think of men who marry poor women. Only if they're absolutely beautiful and young. Your bar for men is too low but you don't even realize it, it makes me sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:00 PM
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Let them be. When they're 39 they will panic and by 40 they will reach middle age hysteria and massive backpedalling, just see what happens to RooshV. I'm just waiting for it to happen to majority of redpill and manosphere in 5-10 years. It'll be fun. So much fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:28 PM
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Ugh, men always brag about being physically strong even if they don't need to, but the minute people ask them to use their physical power for good, like protecting others, or giving up seat on subway, they're upset. It's so ridiculously inhuman how they can be so resentful that they're taught to be thoughtful and giving. They hate being expected of anything, but they also hate being ignored, so what the fuck do you want? Being worshipped for nothing? Fucking selfish narcissists. If I can trade t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:19 PM
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He's a gold digger, why do you have to measure your worth by having a relationship with him??? Who died and make him your self esteem????? Fuck him, you dodged a bullet, he's her problem now, you do you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:04 PM
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If my husband smack me in my butt it'll fill up my rage and divorce bar instantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:01 PM
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Men have men teaching them how to date without paying, how to have sex without investment and how to use women for their resources but nobody will ever call them gold diggers or sex addicts. They're all fucking hypocrites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:00 PM
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Pickmes are mothers who love their children too much, they spoil them. Scrotes are the children. One is a grown up who needs therapy to realize she's not a mommy, the other needs to grow up but never will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:57 PM
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Girl, I still live in a conservative, patriarch society where feminism doesn't exist. Sons are favored, daughters have no to little value. Men still force you to have sex before marriage. If you give in, men just use it as an excuse to not marry you because you're no longer a virgin. If you don't they either buy sex, cheat or find someone else. Men don't marry until 35+, they marry under 30 girls. Age gap is huge. Prostitution is high, 1 in 2 men do it. No, actually all men do it except for the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 07:14 PM
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Men say women are manipulative but the best manipulative woman can do is be a gold digger, you know, when the man clearly knows who's he dealing with and happy with the trade. Manipulative men become Hitler and Trump, there's never any female equivalent. Men are the true selfish manipulators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 05:58 PM
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You know if there's a woman who convinces a man she loves him so she can use him for his money, there'll be angry mob of men at every side of the earth to burn the witch down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 05:51 PM
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It's sad but coronavirus may be the best thing that can happen to women. It teaches all women everything about men. I've never had so many women come to me with a realization that men ain't shit, that they're abusive, pornsick, unreliable, selfish, bring people down with them and that we can live better and live well without them. Not 'some men' anymore but 'almost all of them'. I really hope women wake the fuck up after this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 05:47 PM
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Tell me about it 😂 I meet a lot of people for work, I met so many couples including friends and family, guess how many times I get jealous of someone's relationship? Five. That's it. Fucking five couples whose relationship I envy and admire. Literally 0.1%. The rest 99.9% always makes me feel glad I'm single 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 05:42 PM
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We all know it's just an excuse. He doesn't love her, doesn't want to marry her but doesn't want to feel shallow so he makes it her problem to solve. The truth is he doesn't love her, he'll never marry her regardless. He'll respect her even less if she does everything she can to lose weight. His ego will soar, then he'll think he's hot shot, he'll find another girl. Story as old as time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 05:32 PM
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Ever since I know how men truly feel about single mothers, I start to view single dads the same way. Single dads are men who are finally forced to be a parent, let them parent their kids for once and for real, never help them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 05:27 PM
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The good thing about the virus is it's giving us real life proof who can't live without who.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 05:06 PM
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We don't yet they already think we're so entitled...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 05:04 PM
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I'm so angry, I'll start boycotting anything Korean from now. Sharing this news to everyone I know, especially the Kpop fangirls, thank you for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:59 PM
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There was a thread in unpopular where the man complained that being a man means giving up a seat in subway to those who needs it. Then another selfish guy chimed in being a guy means feeling ashamed and guilty for choosing not to help someone who needs him. Men literally feel resentful they are taught and expected to be giving and thinking of others. They don't want to be humans, they want to be selfish parasites who do anything they want and not feel guilty or shamed for never helping anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:53 PM
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What do you think will happen if prostitution is legal? Rape is legal? Child brides is legal? You know what will happen. We all know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 01:42 PM
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This is proof men are biologically the weaker sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 01:36 PM
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I remember the blackhole lady, how men got so furious and angry that she became famous because she started the project and lead her team until they were successful to get a shot of a blackhole. I remember how men always say she's stealing credits from her team (she didn't) or how she doesn't deserve all that credit, acknowledgement and fame because it was a team effort. I immediately thought of Steve Jobs and Elon Musk. Steve Jobs didn't program Apple OS, Elon Musk didn't create the cars or rock…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 11:27 AM
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Typical men, not all men are rapist but all men watch porn and love strippers. They will rape given the opportunity and they know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 09:25 AM
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This is a great strategy. I'll use it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 09:22 AM
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Of course it's all about how we're all gold diggers for wanting men to pay but nobody brings up the fact that most men demand free sex on first date, sometimes violently and we're the ones who have to take that risk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 04:20 AM
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This is why I always say girls don't need propaganda or brainwashing to be a feminist or career driven, they just need to listen and watch how their fathers treat their mothers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 06:27 AM
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The only thing they hate from gold diggers is they're too expensive for them. They're exactly the same as Youtubers who hate luxury items and expensive lifestyle but then end up doing just that after they get successful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 06:04 AM
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Let him lay on his concrete bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 05:38 AM
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I genuinely don't understand the aversion men have for what women like. Really, I don't. I think it's a great treasure to know someone deeply, and why would anyone squander that? Because they don't love women. Men don't want to put effort on things they don't love, they'll only put effort to things they love, like their hobbies. Men don't mind their hobbies suck them millions of dollars and all their free time even if they don't get anything or little in return. Everytime men get angry when wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 07:46 AM
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The best women are single. The best men are never single. Bending facts and projecting is men's nature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 07:45 PM
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Porn existed even when women were still men's living bangmaid and second mommies. Porn exploded despite that. Such a lie, how dare you blame women for your porn addiction. Even if all women are pickmeishas who'll bend over to get fucked in the ass for nothing, men will still watch porn because they're that depraved and degenerate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 07:44 PM
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This is why women join patriarchy rather than fighting it. The reality is just too cruel. The reality that an average man think of women as literal objects and animals to use and exploit. The reality that even men who don't do it find it funny and leave the man alone to use, exploit and degrade women. The reality that women will never be seen as humans by men. Yes, it's all men. All of them. She would rather pretend everything is just a joke and the man is still a good guy, he's just like that. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 07:40 PM
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Men only have empathy for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 07:31 PM
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Ah yes, it's our fault for choosing the bad boy, even though 99% of men are shit. 🤡 The 'bad boys' or 'Chads' these mgtow imagines are a dime in dozens, all women can't be dating them all at the same time. Fucking use your logic, most of you men are just the same shit with different exteriors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 07:29 PM
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They're LVMs, the only way they can go is down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 07:24 PM
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When they say 'women' they only mean the pretty ones, every other women don't exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 07:15 PM
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Why are you streaming naked but dare call women sluts for streaming in their bikinis. Fucking hypocrites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 07:13 PM
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Women look for love and they get sex. Men look for sex and get love. Both are disappointed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 07:11 PM
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No, unless he did it first for you or sacrificed something equally for you first, then maybe you can consider if he's worthy of such a huge sacrifice. The answer is usually no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 07:10 PM
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He wants to cheat. He's delusional enough to think you like him. Realized you didn't, so he told you a lie. Got exposed by you, told gf a shitty lie, gf is gullible enough to believe him. He's going to cheat again after some time because how can he respects a girl who believes his stupid lie. He's also a pathological liar, basically one of the worst kind of man. Your friend sadly won't listen to you, she sunk in too deep. She probably thinks he's her last chance, given her age. I'll run if I wer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 07:06 PM
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Yes. Men will blame feminism but it's all on them. I didn't need stranger women to brainwash me, I just need to watch my parents, people in relationship and men in general. 99.9% of men are shit. In my whole life, I only ever met 5 couples whose relationship I envy. That's 0.1% of couples I've met. The 99.9% makes me happy and glad I'm single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 07:02 PM
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The rating women by looks system. We're literally numbers to them. Tell a man you don't want him to do something because you'll hurt/die if he does it, he'll do it They love pornstars, prostitutes, cool girls, easy girls, pickmeishas but they'll never marry them or treat them with respect. Men get really, really angry whenever a pornstar or a prostitute want to be treated like humans or be treated with respect They don't think fucking drunk girls or unconscious girls is rape Madonna and whore co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 06:55 PM
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This is the only appropriate response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 06:10 PM
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Aw the thread was deleted, I want to laugh at his face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 06:07 PM
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Funny how men today say, "How do you think young men will feel if they always get called evil????" Women have been called evil, bitch, cunt, useless, parasite, whore, sluts, gold diggers, stupid, idiot, inferior, perpetual teenagers/children etc for thousands of years and it only motivate them to prove men wrong. Men have been called evil for at most 10 years and they do everything they can to prove women right. I give up.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/20 05:05 AM
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Men, "My money is my money but your body is mine. Have sex with me and give birth to my kids, and they shall have my name. Abort them too if I don't want them. Your body is mine, I decide what you do with it, including what you wear and your hairstyle. Don't you dare cut your hair. Everything you do is for me after all." Men, "My money is my money but you should work and support my family on top of cooking and everything. Buy groceries and diaper with you own money, you work, why should I give y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 04:21 AM
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There're too many resources for men available to be financially stable, there's literally no excuse at all. Women have been hold back financially for so long and so badly, we still find ways to be successful. There's really no reason for men to be broke other than laziness and mental illness. Run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 04:14 AM
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There are two kinds of these guys. Guys who know you like them but pretend he doesn't know because he doesn't find you attractive and doesn't want to deal with public embarrassment he has to face for being liked by someone like you. Or guys who really don't know you like them because they're too self absorbed and vain for you to be in his radar. Either way, if a guy 'doesn't know' you like him, he doesn't think you're attractive. Men know, they just don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 04:10 AM
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This also proves that teaching them your boundaries don't make them respect that or be ashamed of their behavior then change. They already know, they just don't care. What they'll do to you after you teach them is try to manipulate and negotiate until you give in. That'll make them smarter to manipulate and negotiate the other girl next time. Don't teach them, just leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 04:06 AM
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Girl, you know he has no other reason to pursue you than to use you, run away, save yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:51 AM
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Yes, we're all gold digger who's totally about getting free dinner or drinks in exchange of sex, oh wait...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:49 AM
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We're actually against hookup, they don't read do they. They just assume we're evil because we're women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:48 AM
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Another man commented that he's discovered this "trick" which is to use toilet paper after peeing and this gets rid of the dripping issue. Men's minds were blown. Apparently most men walk around with piss dripping in their pants because they haven't figured out to use toilet paper. As if this isn't proof that most men not only aren't creative, they also can't solve simple problems without being told what to do. And they only listen to other men too. If women said this to men, they'll be dismisse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:47 AM
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There were articles about how men want kids or want more until they take care of them, suddenly they don't want kids anymore or don't want to have more. They only want the good times. They only want the best time between 8-12 years old, when kids will listen to everything they say, play with them and worship them as an authority. Men don't want the hassle of actually raising kids. The pukes, the feeding, the diaper changing, the potty training etc. Men are selfish. Any men who want a lot of kids…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:42 AM
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Tell me again how child porn or child sex doll will actually give pedos a release so they won't abuse real children 🤡 It'll only give them an ammo to taste the real thing, you fucking truth benders and manipulators, try again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:35 AM
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Our mothers and grandmothers forced men to change for the better and they called her nags. Women today don't force men to change at all, we either take you or leave you, they still call us selfish for wanting a man who doesn't watch porn because we somehow 'force' them to change. Fuck off men, if you're a degenerate who loves porn, I don't want you, I don't care about you, I won't even pretend to care when you die, I'll not bother changing you or spend any thoughts of you, I'll just get away fro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:30 AM
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Yes, if you want to feel better about being single, just ask your girlfriends about their boyfriend. Hear them complain about how messy their boyfriend is, how they never put dirty dishes on the sink, how they have to wash their dirty underwear, or how they never get orgasm and you'll realize everyone is dating menchildren and you're not into that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:21 AM
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It's like lottery, you can be lucky but you're most probably be bankrupt and it's always better to spend your money somewhere else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:18 AM
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Not all men are rapists but all men are opportunists who'll rape everyone given the chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:17 AM
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Don't blame yourself, you were just a kid, you didn't know better. You're right, manosphere is toxic and it's only use is to warn women about men like them. There's no other use reading their crap or listen to male opinions anymore. I also avoid any male centric things now. Male perspective and everything, they're toxic. I really don't care what they think about me or my appearance or worth, fuck them. You know better now, by learning everything all by yourself, and you took steps to fix everyth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:16 AM
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It's denial stage. Soon it'll be rage and meltdown, that'll be fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:09 AM
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He apologized for being forward because he was trying this nofap thing. I'm really sorry, girl, he's not HV. Any guy who needs to recover from porn addiction and then use that as an excuse why he's making inappropriate actions towards you is not HV. Your problem was that you assumed that he's HV, and because of that you broke your own boundaries for him, multiple times. I'm glad that at least you didn't let him go further and you were able to stop him in time. Really great job on that. What you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:05 AM
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What's the difference of honored grandmother and an outcast? One chose to be an outcast, one forced to be by her own family she sacrificed her whole life to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:01 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:59 AM
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I would quickly google manboobs and send him one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:58 AM
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No. Maybe some men are protectors and providers but 99% of them are destroyers and parasites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:47 AM
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You can't help who you're attracted to, but you can control yourself not to pursue it. Gain more knowledge and listen more to your logic side so you know who not to pursue. You can do it, Sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:45 AM
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It's superiority and God complex combined with narcissism. They want to win but believe they don't have to work at it because they're already superior. So when they go out to compete and get beaten, they proceed to ruin the opponent so he can be number one as he believes it is what he deserves. Who cares if she works harder than me, she's a woman, she's lesser than me. Destroy her even if it means I'll destroy myself and the planet for being chosen. Men are their own worst enemy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:44 AM
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Fuck this noise. MEN ALWAYS KNOW WHAT THEY'RE DOING. Repeat after me: MEN ALWAYS, ALWAYS KNOW WHAT THEY'RE DOING. NO EXCEPTIONS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:38 AM
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They're the ones demanding our attention yet angry that we don't appreciate their demand of attention. Men are the real attention whores. All of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:34 AM
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I agree, completely. Be kind but don't go out of your way to do nice things for him. Don't do things for him that he doesn't ask you to and doesn't deserve it from you. It's nice of you to cook for him, but did he ask you? Did he do something to deserve it? Will he cook for you too or do something nice for you in return? In other words don't be stupid, refuse to be taken for granted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:30 AM
3

Just say you don't like porn. The more addicted he is, the more aggressive his reaction will be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:26 AM
3

Yes, always background check your guy, even if he has nothing, if it's literally NOTHING AT ALL, consider it yellow flag, he could be hiding things on purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:21 AM
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Porn is sexy and fun until men have to make her a wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:19 AM
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I'm sorry, take a break and focus on yourself. Dating below 30 is full of fuckboys and charming users, maybe wait until you're more mature and your age turn those users off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:10 AM
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Men always have secret stash, they invented money laundering and all that bullshit to avoid tax. They just don't like it when women do it too. Always have 'fuck you' money, ladies. It's the only real power you have in this man's world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:01 AM
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Funny how I never see girlfriends falling in love with their boyfriend's brothers, even if they're way hotter. And they say men are loyal, simple, just need full stomach and empty balls. Barf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:59 AM
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You're the best my Queen, thank you for the laughs (claps hard)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:52 AM
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Some women who are more dominant, who refuse to submit, may choose to go on the offensive. She fights back, gets angry, yells at him, etc. She may even resort to some abusive strategies herself, to "use his own tactics against him" and "give him a taste of his own medicine". Although this might feel more satisfying, unfortunately this is not a winning strategy either, because men do not fear female anger in the same way that women fear male anger. In fact, they seem to enjoy it. He will smirk co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:49 AM
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That's just men. That's what happened before feminism and and even with feminism and women's rights we have today, that's exactly what will happen if the woman have no self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:31 AM
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You're right, I used to fall for this trick. Luckily my ideal date is either too boring (explore museums, library) or too troublesome (hiking early Sunday to see sunrise) or too girly for LVMs so they eliminate themselves out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:28 AM
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If a male doesn't respect your sleep he deserves nothing from you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:16 AM
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You said 'flaws' but your examples are Not putting down the toilet seat, or leaving dirty dishes on the counter Those are not flaws, that's inconsideration and laziness/spoiled by mommy his entire life. Flaws are something like ugly face, small dick, short, things he can't change, or things that are difficult to change or cope with, like being fat, acne, autistic, uneducated, abused past etc. Those are the flaws you can consider if he's worth compromising. Inconsideration and laziness are proofs…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:10 AM
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Best news of the day, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:33 AM
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I saw they say something about how women don't love the journey or the sacrifice he takes during the journey, they just want winners. L.O.L. As if you care about women's journey or sacrifices. As if you care how much effort we have to do to be pretty. You're the one who just want pretty girls and won't ever be seen with a fat, ugly or struggling girls. Where are the men supporting their fat girlfriend to lose weight? Where are the men who have been staying with the ugly duckling before she turns…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:28 AM
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Right, they're always so smug whenever they ask, "What do you bring to the table beside your pussy?" But when asked, "What do you bring to the table beside your dick, you fucking dickhead," they literally can't answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:10 AM
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Men hate anything that needs effort, of course they hate self improvement. Jordan Peterson have to tell them that cleaning their room is a way to change the world somehow and even then only some of the men start to clean their room. Even redpill men who preach, "Lift," don't lift at all. And incels, their resentment comes from the fact they have to do all self improvement to make women like them. They're that resistant to anything that needs effort. Their mantra is, "Love me for who I am even if…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:02 AM
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Submission is inability to think for yourself and giving up being human. Might as well be animals or literal objects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 10:48 AM
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They're probably the same people who follows OP, creepy stalkers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 10:46 AM
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And males are the one screaming, "Gold diggers are the worst!" Male gold diggers are the worst because they're also rapists, violent abusers and murderers on top being a parasite. The worst female gold diggers will never, ever do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 10:44 AM
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Hahahahahahahahahahaha! There you go males, facts don't care about your feelings, women have been going independent before you even start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 10:41 AM
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They try to persuade you that they only, really, absolutely want to just cuddle. Nothing more, no, never, they're not perverts, they respect you, they'll never push you to do something you don't want. Ask them what they're going to do while cuddling. Tell them you don't want any groping and dick pushing, clearly confirm you don't want sex and if he does any of that and if he gets aroused you'll leave. Suddenly they get mad you only want cuddling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:50 AM
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Yes, that's the difference of oblivious man who cares vs manipulative man who doesn't care. Oblivious man who cares will be sad and sorry he makes you upset, will listen and learn why he makes you upset and never do it again. Manipulative man will force you to explain yourself, find holes in your story, and use it to blame you instead. Then of course he'll do it again. All of that is done deliberately. All of that is planned offense, never give a man another chance unless he shows genuine remors…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:41 AM
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Men know what they're doing. They know. They know and proud of it. They ALWAYS fucking know how manipulative and abusive they are AND SUPER PROUD OF IT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:33 AM
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They just don't get that the majority of us are trying to avoid pump and dump, abuse, and violence. They get it, they really do get it. They just don't care. They want their dick wet and they don't care how and who. They don't care even if they add to your problems. Your problems aren't his but his problem (sex drive) is yours to solve. Men always know what they're doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:29 AM
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I have girlfriends like her, I'm sorry but there's nothing you can do to stop her, only she can stop herself. Women are socialized to listen to men, not other women. Worse case scenario is if she thinks you want to steal him, that's why she's doing everything she can to double down on whatever you say to her. I know how much you care about her, believe me, I do. But she has a freedom of choice, let her exercise it. All you can do is to tell her that you respect her choice but you'll always be th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:23 AM
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I love how shameless they are. This is honestly the best. Instant delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:08 AM
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Most of their flattery is a form of negging or subtle narcissism. It's so obvious to me now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 04:36 AM
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Yes, 'not like other girls' is every girl's attempt to be respected like a man, like a human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 04:35 AM
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I hanged this in my bedroom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 04:34 AM
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This couple is literally proof that most men are trashes who don't love women, even their own wives and daughters and most women don't think we deserve to be loved like Meghan. This sick society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 04:33 AM
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Me, but 9 in 10 men said variations of "your standard is too high" "you're too picky" "there are no such men out there" "loosen up your boundaries a bit" "no men will put up with your limits" Men will say not all men when it serves them and will say all men when it serves them in the same breath. It's not my fault they're all hypocrites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 04:31 AM
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Let them. I even endorse people read redpill and manosphere. For men, it's my test to see how human they are. For women, it's so they know who and what they're dealing with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 04:22 AM
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You could be the ripest peach and someone will still prefer an apple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 04:20 AM
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Men ride women's back without giving them even an ounce of credit, overexploit the world and bring it to it's ruins to enrich themselves and make themselves billionaires, women should pay them. Sure buddy. Sure, men produce everything, even your food, clothes and your Iphone. Your fucking Iphone was built by exploiting women labor in China you fucking absolute narcissist who only cares about your dick you rewrote history to paint women as parasites when you're the real useless parasite who have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 04:18 AM
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I relate, I really can't read or watch anything with sexualized women anymore. I boycott every brand or stores that sexualize women to promote their non sex related product, it forces me to grow my own food. Luckily the butcher store I went to isn't misogynist. I really hate men and society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 03:53 AM
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This, honestly. Dating has always been worse for women, no matter the age. Even if you date or get married before 30, the chances of you getting divorced is way higher. Do you want the illusion of finding the guy only to be left for a younger woman in your 30s and forced to start over again? No thank you, I would rather wait until men's brain fully mature, which is 25. I'll not date a man below 25, and now that I'm older I date younger, as young as 25. I'll probably be flexible and go a few year…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 03:31 AM
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"Looksmatch" is men saying Gucci should cost like Giordano or free. It's all bullshit manipulation tactic to make pretty women feel guilty if they're not dating smelly frog looking creatures and ugly women feel they have a chance until they realize their 'looksmatch' don't even consider her or any women humans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:33 AM
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"I can’t promise I would adhere to all your boundaries. I can try." Word for word. Barf. The audacity. That's all the man has, I'm sorry but good that you're in a much better place now. A man must adhere to all your boundaries or he's gone forever. No excuse, no whining, no trying, they can't do it, they can't promise to do it, they gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:29 AM
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The only thing you should do when a man begs is to call the police.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:24 AM
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Men's ego is everything, even if it means their own annihilation and destruction. Never follow a man's lead, you do you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:19 AM
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This is not satirical, this is what truly happens when the sex reversed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:17 AM
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Morning blowjob Boyfriend treats her as a masturbation doll, check. Assume boyfriend is pornsick. He spat inside her mouth A pornsick boyfriend, confirmed. He's very sorry but he left her for work Boyfriend treats her as a masturbation doll and has no empathy, confirmed. Girlfriend thinks she's underreacting Again, like an annoying meme. Nobody tells her to dump him I hate everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:15 AM
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He's the one who can't keep the conversation not sexual without asking first if she wants it then gets angry she doesn't want to talk sexual. Misogynist 101: Blame women when you don't get your way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:08 AM
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The biggest lie men tell us is men are simple creatures who don't know what they're doing or how dumb they're being. They know. They always know exactly what they're doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 10:38 AM
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This. Preferences can be negotiated, standards and boundaries though? No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 10:22 AM
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Half men have no empathy, the other half who do, only have empathy for men. This is why we need to treat men the same way they treat women. Proof is this and a lot others. Notice how men finally say cheating is wrong only after women start to cheat on them too. Before that they would say they couldn't help it and cheating is not that bad. Men only say sex means something when women start to have meaningless sex with them. Before that they said sex is just sex, you women are too emotional to unde…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 05:55 PM
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Most men mature after they reach 30-40 because that's when they finally realize they're not young anymore. Consider yourself lucky if you're not married until 30 because most likely you dodge a nasty divorce and having kids with a man you resent. Don't think of HVM as this rare item, that's shit men want you to believe. Many LVM will be HVM for their dream girl. Be the best version of you that you can be and no matter what age you are, you'll find a guy who'll think you are his dream girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 05:36 PM
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Every problem men face can literally be solved by men and some cases can only be solved by men like porn and video game addictions, but they don't care and they blame us for not solving it for them. The logical sex, everyone. We should call men the self destructive sex instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:36 AM
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Anytime, just 1. Don't be too nice (only do things that you'll for your friends but not to a boyfriend or husband) and 2. If he doesn't do a nice thing back or be ungrateful about it, either stop doing nice things for him or do less effort next time. Give unconditionally but smartly, don't give more to takers. Kindness is for everyone, until they shit on you then screw him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:54 AM
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She won, the truest queen of clown, y'all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:48 AM
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That quote is definitely from power hungry and control freak men. Don't let their worldview taint yours, we can always find a new and better way. Love freely, but have strong boundaries and limit. Have the ability to leave (financially and emotionally). Love someone who'll love you back and respect your boundaries and limits and you'll never have to worry which one of you have more power. It's all bullshit men want you to believe, we don't have to do things their way. Your boyfriends so far are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:28 AM
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That's because they don't love you or women or sex, they love the chase, the trill, the journey. It's not you, it's all him. Is there a way to avoid these kind of men? You can't really avoid them but there's a way to test them after later in a relationship. Give him 'commitment trial' but don't tell him. Make it really easy for him. Fake being comfortable with him. Love him so much and give him so much attention, smother him basically, for a period of time after the start of 'commitment trial'. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:20 AM
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He talks like that annoying guy who brags about buying things for cheap. It doesn't make him look like a bargain hunter, it makes him look cheap and poor, because he is. The same thing here, it doesn't make him look like a slayer, it makes him look like a manipulative user, because he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:13 AM
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Men never feel sorry for women, why should we feel sorry for them. I'll just repeat their own words, "Not my problem, bitch."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:05 AM
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Mention about your period. Any nasty or disgusted remarks means he'll shame his own daughter for her own period. This kind of man will never be a good father even if he's good everywhere else. No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:03 AM
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It's role reversal to make you chase him. He thinks it'll make him look high value/high in demand so you'll be more desperate for him. Jokes on him because women are not like men who'll chase women who do this to them. Because if the man isn't interested, the woman will lose interest fast unless she's a pickmeisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 02:59 AM
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They hate being called manbabies but want to be treated like toddlers with their chores charts and medals and rewards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 02:50 AM
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Men have to do this otherwise women all over the world will be inspired and start to kill their rapists and abusers. The horror.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 02:48 AM
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- Men who ask you to pay for him and shame you that you're not an independent woman or progressive if you don't pay for him. Tease him about being a gold digger and if he's still shameless and insistent about it, you got yourself a gold digger. Never pay no matter what. - Men who frame you as 'not like other girls' by comparing you to other women he doesn't like/hates. Even if he claims he's a feminist and he praises you while putting down traditional women, chances are he's a closet misogynist.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 02:37 AM
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Call his dad and ask how much is the rent and tell him his son have been lying about the amount of payment. If the dad is a good person he'll pay back the excess rent to you. If not, at least you got the answer. And break up with him no matter what, he's trash and he'll only get worse. I'm really sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:58 AM
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The bar is on the ground and they say it hurts their feet to walk across it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:55 AM
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They say, "fuck your feelings" and "why don't you care about my feelings" on the same breath, it's so hypocritical and disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:30 AM
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Men typically believe if you ignore it it'll disappear, or that they're invisible like Gods and everything will sort itself out. They're arrogant, but once they get sick they'll the most pathetic babies who'll scream and whine just because they get a flu shot. Just look up manflu, men are pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:29 AM
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An even harder to swallow pill is they're actually underreacting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 08:06 PM
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He has an amazing 6 figure job as a healthcare professional and I worked in a position below him. So he wasn’t some older creep who was actively searching out young women on tinder. No but he's definitely some older creep who actively abuse his position to get young women at work. He's not HVM, he's just experienced enough to know how to make young women like you swoon. Emotionally he's a mess, he doesn't even know what he wants, the proof is how he said one thing but then said the other after s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 08:00 PM
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Just leave, why do you have to care about his feelings, he's not human anymore, porn ruined his brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:46 PM
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I had suspicion because I found out about him when he still hasn't had a girlfriend. I guessed the woman he chose would be the most beautiful, regardless of her personality, unlike everything he preached. I was right. He's a bullshitter who can't even walk his talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:39 PM
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I say it every now and then in case I forgot or forced to change, "I'll not do what men aren't doing for women. I'll not do what a man will not do for me. I'll only love as much as they love and give as much as they give."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:34 PM
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Males are emotional cavemen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:23 PM
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Many autistic women are misdiagnosed as BPD so there's that too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:22 PM
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Yes, always have money, your life depends on never depending on his money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:17 PM
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I agree. You're your 5 closest people combined so yeah, make them count.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:15 PM
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:11 PM
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I'm really proud of you. Everyone have told you it's all about his ego so I won't say much, just want to say how proud I am of you. Keep blocking this guy and don't give an inch. You'll be his 'the one who got away,' be proud, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:10 PM
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Good luck, I wish I can go there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:07 PM
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I don't mind. Just look at society, women who are submissive and self sacrificing are the ones who get all the praise. The rest either get nothing or anger and hate. We're not the norm and it upsets them so much because women are objects, how dare we don't abide by the standard. Isn't it funny how incels, neo nazi and the whole manosphere who literally have body counts and disgusting acts of violence don't get as many hatred and are still given benefit of the doubt. We're a just bunch of women s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:04 PM
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This, I wish I can tell this to every women who give excuses for their man why he's not doing x y z. If he wants to, he will. The only reason he's not doing it, is because he doesn't want to. Because he doesn't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:48 PM
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This thread is gold, thank you for the laughs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:43 PM
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The bar is underground and women help men bury the bar even deeper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:41 PM
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Yes, if they want to die, let them die. They'll let you and themselves die because they don't care, so why should we care. Men never care about women or children, it's time women stop caring about men and care about themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:40 PM
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He’s really kind of just lost his mind and has decided he doesn’t want his family anymore. I wish I can say this case is rare. This is how crazy men can be, this is what women have to be on guard for when she gets married. Always have money, never depend on your husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:36 PM
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I'm the same. I avoid male created content as much as I can, unless they're good or benefit me in a way. If I see a hint of sexism or misogyny, I stop and blacklist them. I still can watch male movies and male singers but not male youtubers, comedians, podcast and tv anymore, only some serious Asian guys who make clever jokes without punching bags and often mention women positively. Male creators are loud, annoying, ugly, ungroomed, full of anger, drama kings, make too many unfunny jokes, put to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:31 PM
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He left you on read, there's your answer. No guy who's really interested in you, especially on your 'honeymoon' stage will prioritize work over you and leave you on read. Assuming he's not playing you, he was probably excited that there's a girl who's interested in him back and he wanted exclusivity so other guys won't snatch you. But then he realized he's not that interested in you so he's slowly ghosting you. If he wanted to play you, he probably lost interest after realizing how careful you a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:16 PM
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I'm sorry but I'm afraid this advice will give a false sense of security if women follow it because men don't take meds even if they need it. They can be on the verge of dying and they still won't go to doctors unless found unconscious by someone else. Manbabies won't take meds even if they need it, remember that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:18 AM
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Children know, you can't hide shit from them. They'll know and they'll be traumatized, divorce the shitty dad asap, before they can talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:13 AM
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It means too much effort for him. You can be the same woman and treat both men the same, but LVM will think you're high maintenance while the HVM will think you ask too little. Like for example LVM will think $20 dinner is high maintenance while HVM will think it's too cheap. LVM will think $80 engagement ring is high maintenance, HVM will give you a diamond and still think it's too cheap even if he can't afford it, When a guy tells you you're high maintenance, it's not you, it's him who don't w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:11 AM
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The answer is never. This shit is only for a husband who will go to the similar extent or beyond to please you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:04 AM
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The article got it wrong, they know, of course they know when you wrap a box, you wrap it whole not just the top. They just think it's too much hassle, too lazy to finish the job and they don't care about their wife or family enough to do it properly. They know, they just don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:02 AM
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Thank you so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:50 AM
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Imagine not being able to protest about 80$ ring because you're afraid of being seen as gold digger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:44 AM
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Only the male sex get triggered when the opposite sex is doing better than them. They can only be happy when women are suffering, it's fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:42 AM
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Just tell him what you want sis, communication! Don't expect a guy to read your mind! /s Another proof that men don't listen and don't care. Dump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 04:20 PM
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I'm clapping as hard as I can. Should have added mandatory vasectomy to all convicted rapists and pedophiles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:53 PM
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Fds helps you to vet men. Unattractive women can use fds to vet men who just want to use them and find someone who love you for you. Just because you're not that attractive doesn't mean men can treat you with disrespect. If the man doesn't treat you like you're a beautiful woman, just leave. Focus on yourself, don't make relationship the goal, it can be a nice thing to have but you don't have to have it to be happy. It sucks but it's better to find other things to be happy with if you're not at …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 06:11 AM
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Don't reveal anything. Have expectations and when he can't meet them, don't inform him, don't negotiate, don't try to fix or change him, just leave and find the one who'll meet them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 06:06 AM
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The only way forever girlfriend can get married is if the man is so useless and worthless that he can't get any other woman interested in him after so many years. Her story is proof. Sure you wanna marry such a man? Dump, dump, dump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 06:04 AM
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He's testing your boundaries, see how much crap will you put up with. Typical abuse tactics, it's called boiled frog, put a frog in cold water and boil slowly so it doesn't realize it's being cooked. I won't be surprised if he says he doesn't like your friends or your family and want you to stop visiting them. Take care sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 05:51 AM
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It's good actually, the more shameless they are, the easier it is to vet them and throw them to garbage bin where they belong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 07:55 PM
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Men are cancelled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 07:53 PM
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My rule is if a guy asks or shows interest in anal or other depraved sex, he's dead to me. Even my respect towards him as a human being would be gone in a snap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 07:29 PM
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You must be too picky! Women and their impossible standard /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 10:08 AM
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Cohabiting is marriage without the cost, it makes the man comfortable to drop his defense down and show you his true self. If he's a slob you'll know, if he's abusive, he'll start, every his flaws will be visible on the spotlight when you live together. Even the biggest liar and conman will be exposed, that's why I think women should definitely cohabit before marriage. Now, I don't suggest cohabiting when the man is clearly not HVM. Men who want to cohabit to split rent and bills? Men who want t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 09:56 AM
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This is the most absolute proof that when women raise their standard and take no bullshit, EVEN FUCKBOYS WILL STEP UP THEIR GAME! They already have so many pickmes to hook up with, why don't they just have casual sex and poly with them? WHY CAN'T MEN IGNORE US AND CHOOSE THE PICKMES AND RPW THEY CLAIM THEY WANT ANYWAY??? Oh, because men are stupid creatures who only want what they can't have even if they hate us with every fiber of their being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 06:45 AM
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I feel like in the near future, people (men) will be so obsessed and addicted to porn to the point where they are watching it in the living room with their little kids and babies. It already happened, I know one case. The husband watched porn with his newborn baby, he was supposed to babysit him. The wife divorced him and to this day he still doesn't understand (or refuse to understand) why he can't do it. Now it's just one incident so it's not normal. In 10 year it'll be the new normal. Not jus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 06:31 AM
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I read everyone saying Lolita is not portraying the main character in a good light, but remember Fight Club is about toxic masculinity but men who love it, love it for the toxic masculinity part. I'll be skeptical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 06:25 AM
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Please don't get down or discouraged, you did everything right. I respect you, your viewpoints, mindset and everything you did and feel so happy for you. You're not a gold digger for wanting more proof of interest and investment, gold digger would take the wine and extract more from him. You're not picky for not rewarding low efforts from males. Remember men won't accept low effort appearance from women and they're never called picky. You actually should be angry about the kiss and block him rig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 06:23 AM
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Yes this. Absolutely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 06:13 AM
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She's her own pimp but the money goes to her boyfriend. Clown of the year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 06:12 AM
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Hahaha, props to the filmmakers, that's so accurate it hurts. The woman noticed the danger first, the kids were uneasy but the man told them it's nothing, stop over reacting. The woman tried to believe the man despite her instinct, just like how we're all socialized, if the man says okay it must be okay. Then when shit hits the fan, he's the first to flee. He returned only when it's confirmed safe for him to be there and still pretended as if he didn't run away and left his family behind. He act…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 02:40 PM
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Okay, from your story I think your boyfriend doesn't fear marriage, he just doesn't want to live according to his parents rules. It's normal for people being born in strict or overly religious household, they oppose everything their parents want, even if they do want it. The only way for him to marry you is for the two of you to have a marriage that is different from the marriage his parents taught him. Have a talk with him again about what kind of life or future he wants. Where do you fit in hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 02:17 PM
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AzuraStar is right, there's no need to confess to an asshole who use women for ego boost, because he'll use you too. There are other ways to move on, don't confess if you know you don't want to be with him anyway. It's okay to be a hopeless romantic but don't forget to protect yourself. Don't let others use you or your feelings against you, don't give your heart to someone like him, they're precious, please remember that. It's good that you're moving on, I wish you all the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 01:45 PM
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Don't feel bad about the kiss, it's good actually to lower your defense at some point (but still keep guard of your heart tightly) so you know his true intention. I'm sorry if I worded it harshly, my point was don't just look for HVM, look for HVM who's really interested and invested in you. If he's not interested, don't force it, forcing it will summon our old pick me behavior. But good for you, don't worry, there are plenty of HVM out there. Good luck, Sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 01:17 PM
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Isn't it funny how men always say not all men but then say pedophilia is male biology? They're basically admitting all men are pedophiles. Believe men when they tell you who they truly are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 01:04 PM
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Men are such attention whores.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 01:00 PM
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Women don't deserve low value men, they're parasites who suck life out of everything and everyone. Literally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 08:55 PM
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I follow this simple rule for my empowerment: Anything that please or serve men (bdsm, kinks, sex, polygamy, being a virgin, being nice and agreeable) = disempowerment Anything that men forbid you to do (education, being single, having careers, having status, having money, etc) = empowerment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 08:49 PM
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This. Women work and earn money now but men still can't take care of themselves. Absolutely pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 08:38 PM
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I would be curious in seeing more pics. :P Yellow flag Last time I got checked I was clean, and haven’t had sex since, so I think it’s a go :P Orange flag To find a kinky gal for myself, I am into monogamy and not into having a new sex parter every other day. I truly am looking for something serious, but love to have fun with the right person. Red flag, I would block him at this point. Why? Because it's obvious he wants to hookup and had lots of hookups, the monogamy he mentioned is not the norm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 04:00 PM
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There's HVM and there's HVM who loves you. Even if he's HVM to your standard, what's the point if he doesn't love or want you? The guy is probably losing interest in you because you kissed him and he's got you now, he'll get sex from you soon OR he's losing interest because he only get kiss from you. Either way he sounds like he's not that interested in you, move on sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 03:42 PM
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I'm a vocal misandrist online and real life. Remember when women hate men, we just want to be left alone but when men hate women, they want to hit her, rape her, torture her, kill her, do all sort of terrible things to her. It's not the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 11:49 PM
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You're worth so much Nia and you can do so much. Keep working on yourself and find your own worth and meaning. Thank you for being strong, you can do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 07:20 PM
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If women are so picky why don't more men lose weight, get ripped, wear make up, learn fashion, groom themselves and have plastic surgery? If women are so picky why do lesbians care less about their appearance than average women but gay men care so much about theirs than average men? Why do transwomen who date men always almost look like human Barbie doll but transmen who date women just look like regular men? All this women are more picky is literal gaslighting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 07:18 PM
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No because men won't do the same for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 07:06 PM
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He told me how he had been married and he had cheated on his spouse due to a dead bedroom. I consider this a BIG red flag especially if he said this so early in the relationship. I don't forgive cheaters even if they don't cheat on me. Worse if he blamed the woman for cheating. Instant no. Men always tell pity party story like this to appeal to our nurturing instinct so I stay clear from any man who throws woe is me during introduction phase. But good job on this situation, I'm happy for you, pl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 07:04 PM
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I don't care, I tell them the way it is. True friends appreciate honesty. I told a girl her boyfriend is likely a pornsick guy and porn will be the end of their relationship. She told me, "Nooo, porn is healthy, he's not like that, blah blah." Guess who got divorced because her husband watched porn in front of their newborn baby? Now she understands why I'd rather be single than be like her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 06:58 PM
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You know he's an ass but you confessed anyway. You confessed but you don't want anything from him. He thinks you're playing a game with him so he played a game with you back. You're right, he is an asshole through and thorough but it's you who let him treat you that way. You knew but you still confessed anyway. His ego went sky roof because you confessed to him and now his ego is boosted everytime you got annoyed when you see him talking about other girls or talking to other girls. This guy lite…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 06:52 PM
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Why doesn't he want marriage? He claims he's polyamorous but according to you he doesn't really do it. My guess probably he likes the idea but doesn't like the implementation and the reality of it. I know a guy like him, he wants poly but he knows he can't afford it, financially, physically and emotionally. He also knows that polyamory means being okay with his girl sleeping around too and he's not okay with that to the point that he's willing to abandon the idea of poly just to be with that gir…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 12:34 PM
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It is, it's so funny that women are the one hitting the wall but it's men who lie about their age so much more than women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 12:06 PM
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Who cares why, just block and forget.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 12:04 PM
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Do this instead for a period of time, see how they react and how they show their gratitude. It'll weed off the men who pursued you just because they love the chase or because they want object to abuse. A man who loves you will be grateful for everything you do to them and return the favor at least double your effort. Men show their true color only when they believe you're his. Pretend to be his, let him show his true colors while you're still not attached so you can leave him anytime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 12:02 PM
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Men pursue us but expect us to maintain the relationship for them. Fucking ridiculous. If they want us then they have to be the one putting effort to keep us. No effort, end of relationship, as simple as that, this is why women must be independent, so they can leave anytime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 11:58 AM
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Don't feel ashamed, most women here have the same experience. We were young and stupid, we were in love, failing doesn't mean we're failures. Look forward instead, you have so much going ahead of you. The feeling will pass and you'll be happy and your eyes will sparkle with so much joy and gratefulness. Hang on until then. Talk to therapist or psychologist if you need them. You can do it, I believe in you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 11:54 AM
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This is amazing, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 11:45 AM
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Two wrongs do not make a right. They do. How do you stop a bully? By punching them back on the face and show them you won't shut up and take the bullying quietly. But you'll say that's wrong until foams bubbles around your mouth because violence is wrong no matter what. Fuck you, you sheltered spoiled kid. You never know how it feels to be bullied, humiliated and taken advantage by men because of the things you can't control. You live in a bubble and you blame others who live in real world that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 11:25 AM
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Don't you know that asking men to put effort is hate speech? You should be grateful we grace you with our dick, how dare you ask for more. We only want your vagina, isn't it already a fair trade? Equality! What? What do you mean you feel used? It's your fault for choosing the wrong guy! Not all men! You should have chosen me when you're 16 so I can pump and dump you instead of that guy who pumped and dumped you. Fucking dumb bitch, this is why you're a whore and always will be a whore. Go back t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 11:01 AM
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Isn't it funny how no women ever feel the need to run away when they face similar crisis but men, 'the protector and provider' yeah their first instinct is always to run away. If the sex is reversed you know everyone will shit on her and call her names. Nobody will empathize with a woman why should we empathize with men, fuck him. Don't get married if the thought of your wife dying makes you want to run away. Fucking pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 10:52 AM
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He thinks his wife is going to nurse him when he's sick and handle everything herself when he dies, not vice versa. It's proof he never thinks about it, he never thought he'll be the caretaker one. Selfish men as usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 10:49 AM
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"WAmeN cHEAt aS mucH aS Men!" Yeah right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 08:28 PM
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Vomit. Yeah, beg them to change and step up, surely it'll move their heart so much they decide it's time to grow up. No silly, if men want to grow up and take responsibilities and be protector or provider, they already would. No amount of asking or begging or nagging by women will change them. Men don't listen to women, that's why they need Jordan Peterson to tell them to clean their room. Stop being delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 08:26 PM
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Great job! I'm very happy for you, keep it up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 01:42 PM
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Men would still work those jobs even if they didn't have a family. Women won't have to be beaten, raped, forced into birthing 6+ kids and forced into domestic slavery if it weren't for men. Marriage was fathers selling their daughters to other men. Don't forget about forced chastity, faked orgasm, faked mannerism and beauty, etc that they have to perform to please men. Religions literally say women are the reason we suffer on earth. So many rules for women to be women but men can be whoever they…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:33 AM
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What are you talking about, nobody blame nice guys for picking the wrong girl, they shame nice guys for faking niceness. It's always the girl being blamed for picking the wrong guy. It's great that you acknowledge that shit is victim blaming. Tell that to the whole manosphere, they're the ones who should learn how to be a decent human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:24 AM
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Imagine a man twice your size brings you into a boat to a middle of sea. He tells you he wants sex but he'll never force you. You declined but notice he's not going anywhere and you're still in the middle of nowhere. He hugs you but says he'll never force you. You declined but he still finds a way to touch you in 1000 different ways. You want to go home but he doesn't let you. The night is still young he said. Eventually you realize he's not going to send you back to land until you have sex with…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:18 AM
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What is it about rejection that drives men to this? Entitlement. Seeing women as objects to buy with niceness and relationship as a transaction where the customer set the price. Also narcissism. The mindset that they're such a great guy so if women don't want to be with them there must be something wrong with women. Emotional immaturity, being spoiled all his life makes him unable to handle his emotions for not getting what he wants. Anger phase is men behaving like spoiled child who's not allow…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:06 AM
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What you have to come to terms with is the fact that women's sexual attraction is different than men's. Men's sexual attraction is mostly physical. Women's sexual attraction comes from attachment, they're mostly demisexual. Make her feel safe, loved and cared for and she'll feel sexual attraction to you. Money may make her feel safe but if that's all you offer but you expect her to go gaga about you, you're delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:01 AM
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As if men ever trust women. There's never a time when men trust women, not ever since religions. Divorce rate is just a convenient excuse. If 60% divorce rate is enough to make men not trust women, men shouldn't complain that women don't trust men, that they treat every man as a potential rapist or sexual harasser when 81% and more women experienced sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:54 AM
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This make me realize I hate men not because they're all rapist or because they oppress women but because they can tell stories about them being such a piece of shit with zero self awareness that they're such a piece of shit that deserves to be raped in the ass for the rest of his life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 08:28 AM
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You're huge on crystal and he got you fake diamond? That literally says he doesn't care about what you like. He could've gotten any real crystal that is cheap but he got you a fake diamond and wasn't honest about it. My feeling is he's the kind of guy who will give you the opposite of what you want because he doesn't give a fuck and actually hates to make you happy, I'll be very wary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 08:23 AM
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Tell him Ukrainian women would rather marry rich Chinese men than loser white men. Google it, it's the current trend. That'll destroy his delusional fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 08:19 AM
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Strong boundaries and knowledge. If you know shit you won't take being treated like shit. We can't possibly prevent LVMs to approach us but we can leave or shut them down if they dare to show themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 08:15 AM
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If you do LDR, keep meeting other men until they fly to meet you and move to your place. Don't commit until he's committed to you. Don't fly or move to his place. Don't quit your job or dream just to be with him. Track how much time you spend talking (texting or chatting). If it's less than 1 hour a day you're just a side entertainment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 08:10 AM
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Real how to avoid getting raped: Learn self defense Bring weapon or a gun Kill them before they rape you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 08:03 AM
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Know what you want, be honest and stick to it. Don't compromise, try to change him or beg him to step up, just next him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 07:53 AM
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Where are the men who told us Hilary would have started war that's why we should be grateful they chose Trump? Where? Send them all to Iran.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 06:31 PM
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Novelty. That novelty then turns into a fetish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 06:07 PM
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This 10000x Assume every man is a LV, a player, even a rapist or sociopath until proven wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 09:44 PM
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Men demanding sex on first date is a need they say. Women having a standard is a freeloader they say. Global warming please kill all us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 09:36 PM
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South Koreans have a saying, "If women get drafted to war, they won't fight the enemies, they'll point the gun to their own men because they're the real enemy."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 09:27 PM
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I'm the reverse, I'll tell him I slept with many, many men (but won't disclose my number) just to vet guys like him. I find it's the best way to expose guys for their true colors and how they truly see women and themselves. Real masculine men won't ask, won't get bothered even if they know, won't ask for sexual questions, won't compare himself to previous guys and get insecure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 09:25 PM
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You focused too much on your standard you forgot to set your boundaries and ignored all red flags. This guy ticked all your boxes and it was hard to find someone like him who likes you back so you let him cross any boundaries and self respect you should have for yourself. Don't have standard without boundaries. If you have problems setting boundaries you probably have some trauma so please check with therapist or psychologist. Please learn how to set and protect your boundaries first, having sta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 09:16 PM
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Don't settle, talk to more guys before you commit to one of them. Numbers do work and you're young, it's your time to meet as many people and experience as many things as you can. Good luck. Edit: It's hard to find chemistry but when you find it you'll know it because things will be easy. You'll feel so easy to talk to him and to understand him and he'll feel the same about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 09:10 PM
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It's negging, he implies you're a bitch so you'll be self conscious and sell yourself short for him. Block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 09:04 PM
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If they love you they'll wait for you. Don't feel guilty because every man will make you wait for commitment and marriage anyway. Equality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 09:03 PM
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He lovebombed you. If a man says, "Yes, I want to get married one day," he doesn't mean he wants to get married TO YOU. It means he wants to get married but that someone is probably not you. Ask him, "Do you want to get married TO ME?" His reaction afterwards tells everything. A year later he said all those things to you because only now the meaning of 'marriage' to him changed from "marriage between him and a woman of his dreams" to "marriage between him and his current girlfriend." That's why …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 09:00 PM
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Yes, and for some men who see women as humans, they see themselves as Gods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:09 PM
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Men as young as 18 can start balding. Male brain peaked at 25, if he's not mature by 25 he's probably a porn addict, run. Male fertility study shows at age 30, his children having autism risk start to increase, schizo at 35. Don't have kids with males over 35, preferably 25-30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 07:50 PM
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That's why they pay higher insurance, numbers don't lie but of course women are the bad drivers. Fucking males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 10:04 AM
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Everything they do is 'nature' or 'biology' everything we do is proof we're evil or inferior. The gaslighting and narcissism and victim blame is too real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 10:02 AM
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Make Women Slaves Again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 07:16 PM
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Men lie and fake about who they are. My rule of thumb is, whatever they present themselves as, it's the opposite. If they say they're nice guys, they're not nice. If they say they're smart or funny, they're not that smart or funny. If they say they're rational, they're emotional. If they say they're rich, they're not that rich or faking rich and actually have debts to keep up the act. Here's the tricky part though, when they say they're a bad person, a narcissist, a sociopath, hate women, hate f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 07:00 PM
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Just ask yourself how much faith do you have in him that you trust that he's not treating you as the practice girlfriend, a starter wife or Bob the builder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 11:51 AM
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Don't have kids unless you're 120% sure he'll put 200% effort to be a great father. Not 50-50 bullshit. Women need to be more cruel imo. If he doesn't want to raise his kids, his gene doesn't deserve your caring and nurturing. If a man do this to me I'll abort the baby or give the custody to him or put them in orphanage. Call me a bitch, I'm going to be called and seen as a bitch anyway and hated purely for being a single mother. All that sacrifice for what? To be treated like an evil incarnatio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 11:47 AM
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If he has a plan to marry you, he won't be dumbstruck by your answer. At the very least, a man who has a plan to marry you but couldn't right now will 1. Apologize sincerely he can't marry you 2. Assure you that he really wants to marry you and 3. Tell you an exact timeline and promised he will marry you according to the timeline. A good man will not want to waste your time. He gave you a timeline but he didn't promise anything. He's just like, 'wait and see'. He could dump you after 3-4 years a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 11:41 AM
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Thank you, I'll show him to my girlfriends if they ask me why they have to make men wait for sex and why they should leave when men don't marry them after 2-3 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 09:24 AM
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I'll tell the girl if I were you. But don't worry, nobody is as happy as their facebook picture. It's all lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 09:20 AM
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It's not you, it's him. He wants an object, not a human being. There's nothing wrong with you. You're not 'not hot enough' for him, no matter how much you change yourself, what he wants is not you. You can be the ripest and juiciest peach in the world and there's always someone who hates peach. Don't be discouraged. You're enough. You're lovable, there will be people who love you just the way you are. Find out why you always fall for guys like them with therapy. Watch Youtube videos from certifi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 09:18 AM
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He later admits that he only care about FDS because it appears on popular. https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/egb8vq/my_take_on_recent_gender_issues/fc78rdl?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x He doesn't care about true equality. He's as self absorbed, self centered, selfish, and lack of self awareness as the rest of men. They only care about inequality when it happens to them. VinterJo: Why are women so evil and blinded by hatred wah wah look at this evil subreddit HOW CAN WE EVER A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 09:05 AM
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Denial and gaslight tactic. When men are winning, they'll force every 'studies' and 'facts' and 'pseudoscience' on you. "Facts don't care about your feelings!" "Men will always be x whether you like it or not!" but when the situation is reversed and the women are winning, they remove the goalpost. "oh, let's not care about the studies let's focus on something else." Yes, it's not only rude, it's abusive tactic. Run before they make you question your sanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 08:20 AM
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"it's because I respect you" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 You buy gift for someone because you love them, because you think the gift will be useful to them or make them happy. Buying a gift because he respects you??? 😂 He's just saying things he thinks you want to hear. Oh, feminists keep saying they want men to respect them, fine I'll respect women (but they never think what respect truly means or how to express it, they just say they respect women, it's meaninglesss). Buying gifts can be a form of lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 08:06 AM
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When a man really loves you and wants to be with you, the most he'll 'ignore' you is one day, because he's genuinely entirely busy and he'll apologize for it. There's absolutely no reason for him not to say anything to you at night before going to sleep or the morning after when he's preparing for the day. There's absolutely no reason for him to not text you when he's at family dinner to joke about how boring it is. That only means one thing, you're not on his mind. At all. He doesn't like you a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 12:08 PM
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If your man is this cheap and stingy he doesn't love you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 08:06 AM
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Took them this long to be self aware huh? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 08:05 AM
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I hate nice guys because they're wolves in sheep's clothing but they're so bad at acting. Dude, it's obvious you're nice to me only because your dick is hard. I can smell the purid sweat from miles away. Go away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 08:02 AM
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It's useful to know what he's going to be like living with you without the actual marriage. It breaks relationship often because it opens the eyes of so many women what a slob he really is and they can't be married to that. I'll be okay if he signs a 1 year lease and I have the right to kick him out if he doesn't contribute and I don't want to continue our relationship. If he passes one year without me being a nag or resentful of him I'll consider marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 07:58 AM
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Women "valued" their fertility because they'll get abused and kicked out if they can't conceive a kid or a son. Just look at China and India, husband abuse, kill or divorce wife who can't conceive or only have daughters. Know your history and facts right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 07:51 AM
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He rejects the best sex in his life because she's a single mother 😂 thank God the trash takes himself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 07:48 AM
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I can't clap any louder, great job sis. All the best to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 07:46 AM
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I won't date anyone who use porn, hell no I'll want a guy who wants a bachelor party like depicted by media. If he wants a stripper, marriage is cancelled. Why get married to me if you feel you're sacrificing your freedom to fuck other women for me. What, I should be grateful you choose to be loyal to me? Fuck you, go fuck other women then. I don't want a guy who thinks his promise of loyalty is something I should reward him with a night with strippers. Go away, I'd rather die alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 11:05 PM
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The therapist said dropping him was “extreme”, implied my response to him was rude and asked me to consider that he had asked for my nudes “to boost my self esteem”. Say what? AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Here's what's going on. He also asks for nudes from women. He felt attacked that you'll drop someone for asking nudes, that's why he felt the need to say, "That's extreme" That's what men always say when women do something to stand up for themselves from men like him. He then need to justify his nude…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 10:54 PM
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His kids don't want his grandchildren to remember grandpa as smelly, perverted old men who jack off to porn everyday. But of course menchildren like OP will never understand that. They'd rather blame everyone and society for not accepting they're perverts who can't live without porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 10:34 PM
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Oh God, and men dare to say women aren't funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 10:23 PM
9

Men 👏 are 👏 cheap 👏 and 👏 stingy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 09:09 AM
18

Men are the provider... Ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. All men are cheap and stingy. Women are the true provider. There's a famous African saying, "Give a man money, he'll spend it on himself. Give a woman money and she'll spend it on her family and community."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 09:06 AM
9

Another man acting as if he's God.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 09:04 AM
15

Men will say anything just to sleep with you, to get attention from you. They will lie, lie and lie to get what they want." PREACH!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 09:02 AM
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Men always say women are fake because of make up and such but men fake who they are. They lie about their height, the size of their dick, how much money they make/have, how many women they slept with, how hot the women they sleep with, how much they've achieved, how smart they are, how funny they are, they even fake niceness and friendship. They fake friendship to have sex, that's why they get mad and invent friendzone. They lie when they say I love you, they lie that they just want Netflix and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 09:00 AM
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It's funny how men think artificial womb will be the end of women as if men can raise the kids themselves. Go ahead, make your own kids and raise them, let us see how long you and your kids will survive, I have all the popcorns. Fact: Even if artificial womb is ready, men won't use them because they're too selfish and self absorbed to raise a human child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 08:51 AM
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I don't think he can lie about his father dying, if he did, he's a literal demon spawn. The only thing I find strange is how fast he bounced back, just a few days after his father's death to message you again and wanting to meet you soon after, but I don't know how and what you talked about so I can't make further judgement. Just trust your gut but still be careful, he still could be looking to take advantage of the situation for a pity fuck. Good luck, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 09:19 PM
10

If I were her I'll definitely castrate him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 05:53 PM
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It's exhausting how every single one of them is like a wild dog that we have to train how to treat us right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 05:48 PM
4

He's being honest. Believe him. Of course you can still have a date with him for a good time if you want to but my advice is don't get attached and don't have sex with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 05:46 PM
15

You're so smart and witty, I love you, you're my new hero.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 06:38 AM
14

The guy will tell you. If he truly loves you he will make sure you know he loves you. If you have to guess or ask, he doesn't love you, you're probably only convenient to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 02:03 PM
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Ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. Unless you're a genuinely good guy that I can be happy with but we can't be together because of circumstances, no. I'll sleep soundly at night thinking good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 02:00 PM
17

This is why I work out and practice MMA. I can beat average men easily and I'm not scared going out at night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 01:57 PM
9

Just repeat what men say back to men but reverse the gender, suddenly you're a misandrist. But no, men are not misogynist for saying the exact same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 10:56 AM
22

Rational guys aren't really rational, they're the new nice guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 10:53 AM
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Don't accept any fake apology too. Make sure they're sorry for their actions, not sorry for your feelings. "I'm sorry you feel hurt," is not an apology, it's pity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 10:48 AM
7

I'm so happy and proud of you sis, keep being awesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 09:28 AM
19

That's true, the amount of poor men who complain about gold digger and divorce rape is way too many. Men really, really way overestimate their own worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 09:27 AM
14

This, and checking his internet history. If you see violent or teenage porn, bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 11:19 AM
19

Society, culture, religion and media are conditioning us to be domestic helper, therapist, sex slave and punching bag for men. Don't fall for it, question everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 11:17 AM
20

Yes, I don't understand how women can feel guilty not giving their men sex after first date but they never ask if men feel guilty making women wait years into a decade for marriage and commitment. Most of the time they won't even marry her, but another woman. If they don't feel guilty, we shouldn't either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 11:15 AM
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The more you hate it, the more they'll pester you, that's the ultimate sign that he just want to degrade you. Never do it for someone like that. Never do it at all if you don't want to. That's what I said. I don't disagree with you, only this part There are people that are into these things because they want to degrade you. Still doesn't mean they are a horrible sex partner if they don't selfishly insist on doing things that don't work for you. They're still bad sex partners otherwise. Them forc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 10:05 AM
3

Men are cockroaches, they'll never die even if you want them to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 07:43 AM
18

They're throwing a pity party for himself so the next woman will put more effort into pleasing him, "Ohh, I'm sorry that women are such bitches, how can they not see what a cutie you are, I'll be different I swear." Basically men taking advantage of 'not like other girls' phenomenon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 07:39 AM
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Don't do work for men without taking credit for it. He dares to insult your appearance, now insult his inability to make enough money for both of you and tell him it's his fault you can't focus on your beauty. If he wants you dolled up, he has to do his part on earning money. If he doesn't want to do his part, leave his entitled ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 07:33 AM
8

The classic looking down with his chin up, he's looking down on you and will not be ashamed to tell you how inferior you are compared to him despite him not having anything going on with his life. Never date anyone who looks down on you. Throw them to the trash they belong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 07:29 AM
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Remember men don't love blowjobs or anal by itself, they love the degrading and humiliating part of it. The more you hate it, the more they'll pester you, that's the ultimate sign that he just want to degrade you. Never do it for someone like that. Never do it at all if you don't want to. Have autonomy for your body and force men to respect it or he's out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 07:25 AM
1

You replied to my comment 2 MONTHS after I posted Because unlike a basement dweller who lives off mommy's retirement fund, I have a life and love my life. 50% of sexually active Americans will contract an STD by age 25 Proof? Expecting men to be ok with having a fat woman as a sexual partner on the basis that being fat is common is retarded. I didn't say that, I said, "A man asking for a thin woman today is not asking for average, he's asking for above average." You want above average, be above …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 12:02 PM
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Who said I want a man you fucking halfwit? I love my life, why would I want a man to ruin it? The point of my post is that men have no self-awareness about how much dating and beauty standard has changed and their lack of self awareness is their own downfall. Who cares if being overweight is a choice or not, the fact remains that more than half women today are overweight. A man asking for a thin woman today is not asking for average, he's asking for above average. If men are truly asking for ave…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 01:58 PM
1

People lie. Here's one of them pretending to be a hot girl who comments on his own video. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/cez6re/stefan_molyneux_pretends_to_be_a_girl_in_his/
/r/ExRedPill21/07/19 09:51 AM
1

Most women do, but they want it only with the most desirable guys. To say women don't want casual sex is completely dishonest. That's what I was saying you halfwit. The same way male orbiters never orbit ugly women, women who want casual sex will only do casual sex with hot guy. Most guys don't throw their money at a woman for nothing in return, whether she's hot or not. Where have you been darling. Were you just born? You do realize women have standards too? They're not going to jump on a dick …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 09:48 AM
1

Meh, anyone who immediately gets angry after reading my posts are usually too stupid to form a clever rebuttal. The fact that you think money is a resource that will bring genuine love for men is really telling. I never said or imply that, well at least it's proven you're too stupid to even understand my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 09:33 AM
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Tinder is casual sex, most men want it, most women don't. An ugly woman getting attention and sex from Tinder is like a beta orbiter throwing money at women for nothing. The only way for it to be worth it, is if the girl is beautiful. There's no guy who will throw their money for nothing in return for an ugly girl, so when ugly men whine about being sexually unsuccessful because of their looks it's so infuriating because there're a lot of girls, ugly, beautiful, hot, who'll worship their dick fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 07:37 AM
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Yes, they struggle with co-dependency, which is why women don't want them. But calling men co-dependent reeks of mental illness so they have to call it 'beta.' Also, their ego doesn't allow them to blame themselves, so they have to blame women. Now that they're angry, they're using that anger to maybe address their co-dependency, but of course they have to use manly language like oneitis, orbiter, etc. Some succeed and become 'alpha' (normal guy with healthy attachment style), most become guys w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 10:10 AM
4

It's frustrating to debate about 'women's oppression' with men because you don't see things from women's point of view. The same way it's frustrating to debate majority race, because you don't live minority's life. How can you understand how black people fear police? You don't even register that fear in your mind. Oh, women get lighter sentence? Then can you explain why women in prison get punished way more harshly than men? https://www.chicagoreporter.com/women-in-prison-punished-more-harshly-t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 08:12 AM
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Right, you can't even provide me ONE shaming word for unmarried male, so you 'chose to stop talking to me' just like you 'choose to go your own way'. You ain't fooling anyone, sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 06:54 PM
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Do you understand English? I asked you to give me shaming word for unmarried males. That's the whole thing about MGTOW, right? Opting out of marriage. Deadbeat is a missing father, cuck is in a relationship/married but cheated on, virgin/loser/incel are for sex, not for marriage. When are men shamed for not getting married? Never. Who ever force men to get married? The burden of marriage and having kids always fall on women. Do you know everytime incel shoots people, it's women who get shamed fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 06:49 PM
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Oh, by the way, 40 year old single unmarried male in China is called golden bachelor. James Bond, Indiana Jones, basically almost all male archetype and superheroes are unmarried. Which proves my point that unmarried males are celebrated. MGTOW simply doesn't makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 06:28 PM
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Yes. Could be poly relationship though. My point is it's not fair to compare a woman not wanting to do sex she used to do with no longer buying expensive gift just because. It's only fair if both of them have a reason to not do it and use the same rule with everyone else as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 06:20 PM
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I ask the same of you. Spinster, cat lady, old maid are all invented in the west. Three shaming words for unmarried women in the west alone. Leftover women is China's, christmas cake is Japan's. They're all words to shame women who don't get married. What are shaming words for single male who don't get married? If there isn't even one, how can you claim that this planet doesn't demand women to serve men? If you can't provide proof, I'll say it again, MGTOW makes less sense than WGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 06:09 PM
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There's nothing for women to walk away from. There is no system of legal traps and bindings and social pressures demanding that women serve men. It isn't an incoherent message, but it simply makes no sense in our current cultural context. But everywhere in the world, women who don't serve men are shamed hardcore and silently 'exiled' from society. Spinster, cat lady, old maid, leftover women, christmas cake, etc. Men don't get shamed the same way, in fact celebrated. MGTOW makes less sense than …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 07:54 AM
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That's not a fair comparison, the more fair comparison would be if the man doesn't like to give expensive gift and he only did that to please his ex girlfriend. The man then tell his new girlfriend that he won't buy expensive gifts for anyone anymore, but more than happy to do something else, like travelling together. If she's a good person, she'll understand and accept it. But if the man keeps buying expensive gifts for other people, she has the right to be angry. ​ If a girl did anal just to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 07:34 AM
1

What strawman? The real one that pops up when they get triggered over a kid's movie that portray a man taking care of his kids while his wife is off saving the world? The 'strawman' of men who don't like/want taking care of their kids is real, unlike your made up boogeyman about how child support destroys men's lives. And you expect me to let a man fuck me in the ass? Bahahah. Keep dreaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 02:22 PM
1

Well, what do I expect from a man who said 250$ is too much to pay for his kid ¯_(ツ)_/¯ I'll take my stupidity that bought me my own house, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 03:06 AM
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Hilarious. You nitpick one sentence and then ignore the rest. You're the definition of a typical moron who can't think of a comeback argument because you spend your life parroting other people's opinions. Fine, so what about we look at hard facts and real data about who has it worse after divorce. Fact 1. Child support only covers 28% of total cost of child rearing. The parent who has custody pays the rest (72%). source In 2012, 28 percent of all U.S. children lived with one parent. Of that numb…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 06:05 PM
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Wanting to be part of their children's lives =/= taking care of them. Sure, dads love to play with their children, but ask how many of them have ever changed their diapers, feed them and know you have to burp them after you feed them, probably only 2 out of 10 will answer yes. I never said men don't love their children or don't want to be a part in their lives, I said they don't want to take care of their children. That's a big, big difference. Why do you think most single dads don't stay single…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 09:10 AM
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Most men don't want custody of their children. Usually when they want to, it's because of the above example, because they want to spite the mother and don't want to pay child support. It doesn't mean they'll take good care of their children. Judges can clearly see through that and usually punish them with sole custody to mother and a high child support for them. There're many kinds of custody. Joint custody is a thing and easier to settle than sole custody, why don't men opt for that? Most men j…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 05:50 AM
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If they play victim maybe they'll get the law eradicated, even though they were the reason the law was created in the first place. Too many fathers just left and let their wife and children rot in poverty. How much is a child support anyway for average men? Example: Maria and Sam have two children for an equal amount of time. They want the living conditions in each of their homes to be comfortable for the children, so they worked out child support in a way that provides this. Maria earns $30,000…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 10:18 AM
1

If a woman makes 200k a year and prefer men who make the same amount, does she have a high standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 09:59 AM
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