A man dismisses a woman then he lusts for her and then he hates her. A man dismisses a woman because he believes she is less than him. He believes she is weaker both in body and in mind. He believes she is childish and unable to make sound decisions because she is too emotional.

Then a man lusts after a woman. He wants her body and her approval. He wants her to want him more than other men. He wants her to tolerate everything he does. He bases his worth around her attraction to him.

A man hates a woman. He hates her because he believes she is less than him and because she doesn't want him. He is offended that someone that is less than him considers him to be unworthy. Everything he based his manhood is suddenly threatened. This makes him want to take revenge and he feels entitled to it since he believes he is stronger. He convinces himself that she is too foolish and mentally inferior to make the right decision and that his manipulation to get her is confirmation that she isn't inferior to him. His ability to manipulate and trick her means he is still better than her as he believed himself to be from the beginning. This impacts the way he treats other men too as he considers them to be his competition and can't have them being better than him. If he is unable to do this he can't take the fact that he was wrong and that she may not be inferior after all. This drives him to abuse or even kill her for daring to subjugate him in this way. Same goes for the men he considers to be a threat to him which may have the same complex in their heads leading to violence, subjugation and war.

The sad thing is it's all in his head. He creates a manakin of woman. A projection of his own beliefs, narcissism, entitlement and most importantly his inferiority and lashes out to manifest these desires/fears against both women and his fellow man.